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Mark Pomery Senior Leader #breakthrough2014 Wednesday, 21 May 14

Healthy Conflict Resolution

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Conflict resolution done poorly erodes relationships. Conflict resolution done well has the power to build trust in relationships. You can listen to the audio presentation from our website (http://www.elevatechurch.me/connect/listen/) or from our podcast in iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/elevate-church/id634597356?mt=2)

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Mark PomerySenior Leader

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Know who God is

Allow him to define who you are

Who God says you are defines what you do

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‘This is how everyone will recognize that you are my disciples—when they see the love you have for each other.’ Jesus

[John Chapter 13 Verse 35]

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Artificial Harmony

Mean Spirited Personal Attacks

Constructive Destructive

Ideal ConflictPoint

The Conflict Continuum

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Respond ... Don’t React

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Two Types Of Reactors

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Two Types Of ReactorsExploders

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Two Types Of ReactorsExploders

Response > Pause

‘The more talk, the less truth; the wise measure their words.’ Solomon [Proverbs Chapter 10 Verse 19]

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Two Types Of ReactorsInternalisers

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Two Types Of ReactorsExploders

Response > Don’t pretend

‘The lips of the righteous nourish many, but fools die for lack of sense.’ Solomon [Proverbs Chapter 10 Verse 21]

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