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Persuasion is the art of bringing people along our way of thinking. It the ability to make other people understand your point of view either for you to help them or to get help from them. Persuasive Communication is the ultimate source of advantage in balancing Work and Life. It all about getting people to do something they would not ordinarily do if they are not being asked to do
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Ability to influence others to Ability to influence others to change their attitude and change their attitude and
Ability to influence others to Ability to influence others to change their attitude and change their attitude and change their attitude and change their attitude and
behavioursbehaviourschange their attitude and change their attitude and
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Influence is at the core of Influence is at the core of Everything.Everything.Influence is at the core of Influence is at the core of Everything.Everything.
Employer Influence their EmployeesEmployer Influence their EmployeesEmployer Influence their EmployeesEmployer Influence their Employees
Parent s Influence their ChildrenParent s Influence their ChildrenParent s Influence their ChildrenParent s Influence their Children
Children Influence their ParentsChildren Influence their ParentsChildren Influence their ParentsChildren Influence their Parents
InfluencingInfluencingInfluencingInfluencing
Manipulation Manipulation Manipulation Manipulation
Manipulation eventually leads to Manipulation eventually leads to disloyalty and distrustdisloyalty and distrust
Manipulation eventually leads to Manipulation eventually leads to disloyalty and distrustdisloyalty and distrustdisloyalty and distrustdisloyalty and distrustdisloyalty and distrustdisloyalty and distrust
Persuasion is all about influencing a Persuasion is all about influencing a person's person's BeliefsBeliefs, , AttitudeAttitude, , IntentionsIntentions, ,
MotivationMotivation, , BehaviourBehaviour and and ActionAction
Persuasion is all about influencing a Persuasion is all about influencing a person's person's BeliefsBeliefs, , AttitudeAttitude, , IntentionsIntentions, ,
MotivationMotivation, , BehaviourBehaviour and and ActionAction
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Power to Influence otherPower to Influence otherIs all about DIRECTING theirIs all about DIRECTING their
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Power to Influence otherPower to Influence otherIs all about DIRECTING theirIs all about DIRECTING their
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Power to Influence otherPower to Influence otherIs all about getting othersIs all about getting others
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Power to Influence otherPower to Influence otherIs all about getting othersIs all about getting others
ATTENTIONATTENTION
Power to Influence othersPower to Influence othersIs all about getting othersIs all about getting others
ATTENTION to followATTENTION to followYour RECOMENDATIONSYour RECOMENDATIONS
Power to Influence othersPower to Influence othersIs all about getting othersIs all about getting others
ATTENTION to followATTENTION to followYour RECOMENDATIONSYour RECOMENDATIONS
Power to Influence otherPower to Influence otherIs all about getting others to sayIs all about getting others to say
Power to Influence otherPower to Influence otherIs all about getting others to sayIs all about getting others to say
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Power to Influence othersPower to Influence othershelps in developing helps in developing helps in developing helps in developing HIHGLY EFFECTIVE HIHGLY EFFECTIVE
TEAMS TEAMS
helps in developing helps in developing HIHGLY EFFECTIVE HIHGLY EFFECTIVE
TEAMS TEAMS
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pppp rrrrEEEE uuuuSSSS iiii nnnnaaaaSSSSOOOOMaking other people understand our point Making other people understand our point Making other people understand our point Making other people understand our point Making other people understand our point Making other people understand our point
of view either for us to help them or for of view either for us to help them or for them to help US.them to help US.
Making other people understand our point Making other people understand our point of view either for us to help them or for of view either for us to help them or for
them to help US.them to help US.
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Our THINKING and alsoOur THINKING and alsoUnderstand what others areUnderstand what others are
THINKINGTHINKING
Making others to understand Making others to understand Our THINKING and alsoOur THINKING and also
Understand what others areUnderstand what others areTHINKINGTHINKING
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Persuasion is all about influencing a Persuasion is all about influencing a person's person's BeliefsBeliefs, , AttitudeAttitude, , IntentionsIntentions, ,
MotivationMotivation, , BehaviourBehaviour and and ActionAction
Persuasion is all about influencing a Persuasion is all about influencing a person's person's BeliefsBeliefs, , AttitudeAttitude, , IntentionsIntentions, ,
MotivationMotivation, , BehaviourBehaviour and and ActionAction
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COMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATION
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Is the art of getting people to do something Is the art of getting people to do something they wouldn’t ordinarily do if they are not being they wouldn’t ordinarily do if they are not being
persuaded to do sopersuaded to do so
Is the art of getting people to do something Is the art of getting people to do something they wouldn’t ordinarily do if they are not being they wouldn’t ordinarily do if they are not being
persuaded to do sopersuaded to do so
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASION
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIFBELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is good for themproposed is good for them
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIFBELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is good for themproposed is good for them
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIF BELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that well thoughtShowing that well thought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIF BELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that well thoughtShowing that well thought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIF BELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that wellShowing that well--thoughtthought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
REALISTICREALISTIC
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIF BELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that wellShowing that well--thoughtthought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
REALISTICREALISTICREALISTICREALISTICConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to Convincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to
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REALISTICREALISTICConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to Convincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to
dodo
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIF BELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that wellShowing that well--thoughtthought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
REALISTICREALISTIC
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIF BELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that wellShowing that well--thoughtthought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
REALISTICREALISTICREALISTICREALISTICConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to doConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to do
CLEAR UNDERSTANDINGCLEAR UNDERSTANDINGPushing the right button at the right time Pushing the right button at the right time
REALISTICREALISTICConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to doConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to do
CLEAR UNDERSTANDINGCLEAR UNDERSTANDINGPushing the right button at the right time Pushing the right button at the right time
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIFBELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that wellShowing that well--thoughtthought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
REALISTICREALISTIC
Art of PERSUASIONArt of PERSUASIONBELEIFBELEIF
Awakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for themAwakening a belief on the part listeners that what ever is being proposed is a good for them
ACTION PLANACTION PLANShowing that wellShowing that well--thoughtthought--out plan of action is availableout plan of action is available
REALISTICREALISTICREALISTICREALISTICConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to doConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to do
CLEAR UNDERSTANDINGCLEAR UNDERSTANDINGPushing the right button at the right timePushing the right button at the right time
APPEALINGAPPEALING
REALISTICREALISTICConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to doConvincing that plan of action is realistic and the right thing to do
CLEAR UNDERSTANDINGCLEAR UNDERSTANDINGPushing the right button at the right timePushing the right button at the right time
APPEALINGAPPEALING
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING
PATHOS PATHOS -- AKA AKA -- EmotionsEmotions –– FFeelingeeling what you saywhat you say
AA carefully reasoned argument strengthened by an carefully reasoned argument strengthened by an
emotional appealemotional appeal has a tremendous power to INFLUENCEhas a tremendous power to INFLUENCE
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- PATHOS PATHOS
People more easily trust those they like and base their People more easily trust those they like and base their decisions on Emotional response to themdecisions on Emotional response to them
PATHOSPATHOS –– is about EMPATHY to stir EMOTIONS is about EMPATHY to stir EMOTIONS PATHOSPATHOS –– is about EMPATHY to stir EMOTIONS is about EMPATHY to stir EMOTIONS
ETHOS ETHOS -- AKA AKA –– Personal CredibilityPersonal Credibility
Personal Credibility is all about Personal Credibility is all about
FAIRNESS and HONESTYFAIRNESS and HONESTYHaving strong sense of right and wrong. Having strong sense of right and wrong.
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- ETHOS ETHOS
Having strong sense of right and wrong. Having strong sense of right and wrong. Good reputation, people are more likely to listen Good reputation, people are more likely to listen
INTENTIONS and COMPETENCYINTENTIONS and COMPETENCYCharismatic gesturesCharismatic gestures
Strong Voice and InflectionStrong Voice and Inflection
People tend to consider information more trustworthy and People tend to consider information more trustworthy and credible when presented in a sensory, experiential mannercredible when presented in a sensory, experiential mannerPeople tend to consider information more trustworthy and People tend to consider information more trustworthy and credible when presented in a sensory, experiential mannercredible when presented in a sensory, experiential manner
YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!
YES!YES!YES!YES!
YES!YES!YES!YES!
YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!YES!
ETHOS ETHOS -- AKA AKA –– Personal CredibilityPersonal Credibility
How you How you DRESSDRESS
Genuinely Genuinely INTERESTEDINTERESTED
How well you are How well you are ORGANIZEDORGANIZED
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- ETHOS ETHOS
How well you are How well you are ORGANIZEDORGANIZED
How do you How do you RELATE RELATE
PrecisePrecise
People are easily persuaded by communicators who can People are easily persuaded by communicators who can express and ignite PASSION about their MESSAGEexpress and ignite PASSION about their MESSAGE
ETHOSETHOS –– is TRUSTWORTHINESS + SINCERITY is TRUSTWORTHINESS + SINCERITY
Above all it is the Above all it is the
EENERGY and NERGY and PASSIONPASSION
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- ETHOS ETHOS
LOGOSLOGOS -- AKA AKA –– REASONINGREASONING
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- LOGOS LOGOS
REASONING REASONING –– INDUCTIVE and DEDUCTIVEINDUCTIVE and DEDUCTIVEInductiveInductive -- Reason which begins with specifics and moves toward a generalizationReason which begins with specifics and moves toward a generalization
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- LOGOS LOGOS
REASONING REASONING –– INDUCTIVE and DEDUCTIVEINDUCTIVE and DEDUCTIVEInductive Inductive -- Reason which begins with specifics and moves toward a generalizationReason which begins with specifics and moves toward a generalization
Deductive Deductive -- Reason which starts with a general observation and moves Reason which starts with a general observation and moves
to specifics to specifics
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- LOGOS LOGOS
Use of WORDSUse of WORDS
Choice of WORDSChoice of WORDS
Decides the level ofDecides the level of
PERSUASIONPERSUASION
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- LOGOS LOGOS
PERSUASIONPERSUASION
People accept facts and People accept facts and
evidence that are corroborated evidence that are corroborated
by third partiesby third parties
LOGOS LOGOS -- AKA AKA –– REASONINGREASONING with PROOFwith PROOF
FACTS FACTS –– can be provencan be proven
DEFINITION/QUOTATIONS/OPINIONSDEFINITION/QUOTATIONS/OPINIONS
STATISTICS STATISTICS –– extends scientific supportextends scientific support
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- LOGOS LOGOS
STATISTICS STATISTICS –– extends scientific supportextends scientific support
EXAMPLES EXAMPLES –– powerful illustrationspowerful illustrations
Which of the three elements do you use when put your Which of the three elements do you use when put your viewpoint in font of your students?viewpoint in font of your students?
Or in generalOr in general
THINK! THINK!
Or in generalOr in general
All these people have one thing in commonAll these people have one thing in common...?...?...?...?
As a persuasive speaker As a persuasive speaker they very carefully they very carefully observe which of the observe which of the three element of three element of Persuasion is DOMINANT Persuasion is DOMINANT while conversing with while conversing with while conversing with while conversing with others, and then others, and then accordingly they try to accordingly they try to MATCH the sameMATCH the same
It is being observed that the It is being observed that the PRIMARYPRIMARY and and
DOMINANTDOMINANTIt is being observed that the It is being observed that the PRIMARYPRIMARY and and
DOMINANTDOMINANT element amongst PERSUASIVE element amongst PERSUASIVE
SPEAKER isSPEAKER is
LOGOS LOGOS –– Choice of WordsChoice of Words
LOGOS LOGOS –– Choice of WordsChoice of WordsStoriesStories
IncidentsIncidentsIncidentsIncidentsNarrationsNarrationsQuotationsQuotations
CLARITY & PRECISIONCLARITY & PRECISION
From Business perspective..?From Business perspective..?
From Business From Business perspective perspective
PRIMARYPRIMARY and and
DOMINANTDOMINANT
From Business From Business perspective perspective
PRIMARYPRIMARY and and
DOMINANTDOMINANTBIG NOBIG NO DOMINANTDOMINANTelement amongst element amongst
PERSUASIVE PERSUASIVE Authority isAuthority is
ETHOSETHOS
DOMINANTDOMINANTelement amongst element amongst
PERSUASIVE PERSUASIVE Authority isAuthority is
ETHOSETHOS
BIG NOBIG NO
ETHOS ETHOS -- AKA AKA
PERSONAL CREDIBILITYPERSONAL CREDIBILITY
FAIRNESS and HONESTYFAIRNESS and HONESTY
INTENTIONS and COMPETENCYINTENTIONS and COMPETENCY
Elements of APPEALING Elements of APPEALING -- ETHOS ETHOS
INTENTIONS and COMPETENCYINTENTIONS and COMPETENCY
Above all it is the Above all it is the
EENERGY and NERGY and PASSIONPASSION
ETHOSETHOS –– is TRUSTWORTHINESS + SINCERITY is TRUSTWORTHINESS + SINCERITY
ETHOSETHOS –– is TRUSTWORTHINESS + SINCERITY is TRUSTWORTHINESS + SINCERITY
TRUSTWORTHINESS TRUSTWORTHINESS -- Personal Credibility Personal Credibility
SINCERITY SINCERITY -- Intrapersonal Intelligence Intrapersonal Intelligence
SINCERITY SINCERITY -- key ingredient for EMPATHY key ingredient for EMPATHY SINCERITY SINCERITY -- key ingredient for EMPATHY key ingredient for EMPATHY
EMPATHY EMPATHY -- TRUST TRUST
TRUST TRUST –– is between people is between people
TRUST TRUST –– NOT within people NOT within people
Breach of TRUST Breach of TRUST –– NO EMPATHY NO EMPATHY
EMPATHY EMPATHY
EMPATHY EMPATHY
Listening with HEART & HEAD Listening with HEART & HEAD
Ability to read EMOTIONS Ability to read EMOTIONS
Detached INVOLEMENT Detached INVOLEMENT
SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION
INTELLIGENCEINTELLIGENCE
PERSUASIONPERSUASIONInterpersonal Interpersonal Intrapersonal Intrapersonal
Concluding RemarksConcluding Remarks
PERSUASION is ART PERSUASION is ART that enables individuals to get inside the that enables individuals to get inside the minds of other people and be effective in minds of other people and be effective in communicating with them by possessing communicating with them by possessing communicating with them by possessing communicating with them by possessing
the perfect blend of the perfect blend of
INTRA + INTER PERSONAL INTRA + INTER PERSONAL INTELLIGENCE INTELLIGENCE
PERSUASION is about PERSUASION is about Positive communication that results in Positive communication that results in
favourable outcomes and is NOTfavourable outcomes and is NOTfavourable outcomes and is NOTfavourable outcomes and is NOTManipulationManipulation
SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION
CONVICTION CONVICTION CONVICTION CONVICTION
EMPATHY EMPATHY EMPATHY EMPATHY
TRUST TRUST TRUST TRUST
Thank You! Thank You!
SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION
SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION
SINCERITY SINCERITY -- COMPETENCE COMPETENCE
SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION
EMPATHY EMPATHY -- WARMTH WARMTH
SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION SINCERITY + EMPATHY = PERSUASION
COMPETENCE COMPETENCE VSVS
WARMTH WARMTH
COMPETENCE VS WARMTH COMPETENCE VS WARMTH
Wait for my forthcoming presentation Wait for my forthcoming presentation
Once again Once again tthank you all! hank you all!
PERSUASIVE METHODS PERSUASIVE METHODS
ATTENTIONATTENTIONReason for listeningReason for listeningReason for listeningReason for listening
Create interestCreate interest
Use grabbing opening statementUse grabbing opening statement
Invoke curiosityInvoke curiosity
State the main pointState the main point
STATEMENT OF NEEDSTATEMENT OF NEEDIllustrate the needIllustrate the need
Enumerate Consequences Enumerate Consequences
Discuss AlternativesDiscuss Alternatives
STATEMENT OF NEEDSTATEMENT OF NEEDIllustrate the needIllustrate the need
Enumerate Consequences Enumerate Consequences
Discuss AlternativesDiscuss Alternatives
STATEMENT OF SOLUTIONSTATEMENT OF SOLUTIONExplain Proposed SolutionExplain Proposed Solution
Theoretical ExampleTheoretical Example
Give theoretical reasons why the proposed Give theoretical reasons why the proposed
STATEMENT OF SOLUTIONSTATEMENT OF SOLUTIONExplain Proposed SolutionExplain Proposed Solution
Theoretical ExampleTheoretical Example
Give theoretical reasons why the proposed Give theoretical reasons why the proposed Give theoretical reasons why the proposed Give theoretical reasons why the proposed
example is better than the current solutionsexample is better than the current solutions
Practical ExamplePractical Example
Give practical reasons of how applying the Give practical reasons of how applying the
proposed example works in real world proposed example works in real world
situationssituations
Give theoretical reasons why the proposed Give theoretical reasons why the proposed
example is better than the current solutionsexample is better than the current solutions
Practical ExamplePractical Example
Give practical reasons of how applying the Give practical reasons of how applying the
proposed example works in real world proposed example works in real world
situationssituations
RESTATEMENT OF PROPOSED SOLUTIONRESTATEMENT OF PROPOSED SOLUTIONNegative VisualizationNegative Visualization
Explain how the problem is worthy of changeExplain how the problem is worthy of change
Positive VisualizationPositive Visualization
Explain how the problem could be better with the proposed Explain how the problem could be better with the proposed
solutionsolution
RESTATEMENT OF PROPOSED SOLUTIONRESTATEMENT OF PROPOSED SOLUTIONNegative VisualizationNegative Visualization
Explain how the problem is worthy of changeExplain how the problem is worthy of change
Positive VisualizationPositive Visualization
Explain how the problem could be better with the proposed Explain how the problem could be better with the proposed
solutionsolutionsolutionsolutionsolutionsolution
RESTATEMENT AND SUMMARYRESTATEMENT AND SUMMARYCall to Action Call to Action
Statement of changeStatement of change
Mass Appeal Mass Appeal
Engagement Engagement