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Personality, Attachment, and Relationship Conflict Across the Transition to Parenthood
Dissertation
Presented in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree Doctor of Philosophy in the Graduate School of The Ohio State University
By
Daniel J. Bower, M.S.
Graduate Program in Human Development and Family Science
The Ohio State University
2012
Dissertation Committee: Dr. Sarah Schoppe-Sullivan, Advisor
Dr. Claire Kamp Dush Dr. Natasha Slesnick
Dr. Xin Feng
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Copyrighted by
Daniel J. Bower
2012
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Abstract
Compared to non-parents, parents experience a more sudden change in
relationship functioning over time. One such time that this change has been documented
is across the transition to parenthood. While relationship functioning has been studied
during this period, little work has examined relationship conflict, an aspect of relationship
functioning, as an outcome variable longitudinally. While overall relationship functioning
declines in new parents, there are some characteristics that may predict the way in which
couples experience this change. The personality traits and attachment styles of
individuals (actor effects) and their partners (partner effects) have been documented as
some of these predictors of functioning. Additionally, there are mixed findings on how
similarity between partner personality traits and partner attachment styles may influence
relationships. This study was among the first to examine conflict as a longitudinal
outcome for couples experiencing the transition to parenthood, and was the first study to
assess the influence of partner effects, actor effects, and similarity effects (using two
different models of similarity) of both personality and attachment during this transition.
182 dual-earner couples completed a four Phase study, in which self-reported
psychological characteristics (personality traits and attachment style) were used to predict
self-reported frequency of destructive conflict and observational conflict behaviors
(problem-solving and negative escalation). Hierarchical Linear Modeling analyses
indicated that the Agreeableness, Neuroticism, and Attachment Anxiety of each partner is
associated with conflict before the birth of the child. Additionally, both mothers’ and
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fathers’ levels of Attachment Avoidance and Conscientiousness were also associated with
conflict before the birth of the child. Finally, similarity effects in Attachment, but not
personality, were associated with both types of observable conflict behaviors. These
findings indicate that both personality and attachment characteristics are important
predictors of relationship conflict during this transition.
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Acknowledgements
I would like to extend special thanks and acknowledgments to the following people:
Dr. Sarah Schoppe-Sullivan for her excellent advising in creating this document.
Dr. Claire Kamp Dush, Dr. Slesnick, Dr. Feng, and Dr. Christian for their feedback and support in creating this document.
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Vita
August 2009………...…..B.S., Human Development & Family Science, The Ohio State University August 2009……….…....M.S., Human Development & Family Science, The Ohio State University August 2012…………….Ph.D., Human Development & Family Science, The Ohio State University September 2009- June 2010…...Graduate Teaching Assistant, Department of Human Development
& Family Science, The Ohio State University September 2008- August 2012…Graduate Research Associate, Department of Human Development
& Family Science, The Ohio State University
Publications
Bower, D., Jia, R., Schoppe-Sullivan, S., Mangelsdorf, S., & Brown, G. (In Press). Parent
psychological characteristics and change in couple relationship satisfaction in
families with infants. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships.
Schoppe-Sullivan, S., Kotila, L., Jia, R., Bower, D., & Lang, S. (2012). Predictors of
mothers’ and fathers’ engagement with preschool-age children. Early Childhood
Development and Care.
Field of Study
Major Field: Human Development & Family Science
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Table of Contents
Abstract………………………………………………………...ii
Acknowledgements……………………….................................iv
Vita……………………………………………………………..v
Table of Contents……………………………………………...vi
List of Tables…………………………………………………..vii
Introduction…………………………………………………....1
Review of the Literature…………………………………….…4
Methods……………………………………………………….32
Results…………………………………………………………39
Discussion……………………………………………………..49
References…………………………………………………..….61
Appendix A: Tables……………………………………………72
Appendix B: Demographic Questionnaire……………………..93
Appendix C: NEO-FFI……………………………………...….97
Appendix D: Communication Danger Signs Scale……………99
Appendix E: Marital Agendas Protocol………………………..100
Appendix F: Marital Agendas Protocol Coding Manual………103
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List of Tables
Table 1. Means and Standard Deviations of Study Variables……………………72
Table 2. Correlation between predictor variables………………………………..73
Table 3. Correlations of conflict variables……………………………………….76
Table 4. Significant Predictors of the Intercept for Question 1: Self-Reported
Conflict…………………………………………………………………………..77
Table 5. Significant Predictors of the Slope for Questions 1: Self-Reported
Conflict…………………………………………………………………………..78
Table 6. Personality Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 1……….79
Table 7. Attachment Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 1………..81
Table 8. Significant Predictors of the Intercept for Question 2: Problem-solving
behaviors….……………………………………………………………………...83
Table 9. Significant Predictors of the Slope for Question 2: Problem-solving
behaviors………………………………………………………………………....84
Table 10. Personality Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 2……….85
Table 11 Attachment Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 2………..87
Table 12. Significant predictors of the Intercept for Question 3: Negative escalation
behaviors.. ………………………………………………………………………..89
Table 13. Significant Predictors of the Slope for Question 3: Negative escalation
behaviors………………………………………………………………………….90
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Table 14. Personality Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 2………..91
Table 15 Attachment Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 2………..92
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Personality, attachment, and relationship conflict across the transition to parenthood
Chapter 1: Introduction
Over the course of the lifespan, individuals experience a number of important
transitions and relationships. Most notable among these are long-term romantic
partnerships, as well as parenthood. Research has demonstrated that a number of different
characteristics may influence aspects of these relationships and transitions. In particular,
it has been documented that each partner’s different personality traits and adult
attachment styles may have an impact on how each of them experiences their relationship
(Gattis, Simpson, Christensen, & Berns, 2004; Simpson, Rholes, & Phillips, 1996). In
particular, there has been an interest in how each partner’s different traits and styles may
influence the relationship functioning of their partner. Relationship functioning has been
understood as consisting of multiple constructs, including relationship satisfaction and
relationship conflict; however, most prior longitudinal work has not focused on conflict.
It is well documented that child rearing is associated with lower relationship
satisfaction; compared to non-parents, first-time parents experience a more sudden and
steep decline in relationship satisfaction (Lawrence, Rothman, Cobb, Rothman, &
Bradbury, 2008). While this is true, individual differences in this change do exist across
the transition to parenthood; the personality traits of each partner (Levy-Shiff, 1994), as
well as attachment security (Rholes, Simpson, Campbell, & Grich, 2001) may further
explain how new parents experience changes in relationship adjustment. While some
work has examined how these traits may influence relationships during the early stages of
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parenthood, no previous work has yet examined how similarity in personality traits or
attachment styles may influence relationships during this transition. By furthering this
understanding of the interplay between each partner’s characteristics, researchers will be
able to better predict and identify those couples at higher risk of experiencing negative
changes in their relationships during times of stress. This may be particularly important,
as it may help lead to stronger, more stable partnerships.
Personality and attachment have been linked to a number of different indicators of
relationship functioning, including relationship satisfaction (Gattis, Simpson,
Christensen, & Berns, 2004; Simpson, Rholes, & Phillips, 1996). Another important
aspect of relationship functioning is relationship conflict. While many aspects of
relationship functioning are related and may even overlap, relationship conflict may be
more clearly and precisely measured through both self-report and observational
assessments. But, as Kamp Dush and Taylor (2011) noted, there has been little
longitudinal work done to understand relationship conflict as an outcome. Their work
was among the first to examine the frequency of relationship conflict over time. This
demonstrated a need for further work in explaining relationship conflict over time; this
may be considered especially true during times of transition, such as the transition to
parenthood, when couples are likely to be experiencing more stress (Karney & Bradbury,
1995). Understanding conflict during this period is important not only for the mental
health of each partner, but for children as well. Choi and Marks (2008) found that
increased frequency of conflict led to increases in depression at the individual level over
time. In addition, children exposed to destructive conflict are also at risk of developing
emotional problems later in life (Cummings & Davies, 2008). However, positively
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structured conflict behaviors may be beneficial for the development of children. For this
reason, it is important to understand the predictors of conflict frequency, as well as
positive (i.e., problem solving behaviors) and negative (i.e., negative escalation) conflict
behaviors, in intimate relationships.
This study examined associations between personality and relationship conflict, as
well as adult attachment style and relationship conflict, by using dyadic data from 182-
dual earner couples experiencing the transition to parenthood. Self-report data on
personality and attachment were collected during the third trimester of pregnancy, while
observational and self-report data on conflict were collected at the third trimester, as well
as three, six, and nine months post-partum to fully assess changes during the transition to
parenthood. This dyadic approach allowed for a more complete analysis of the data, as
individuals within couple relationships exhibit a “mutual influence” on each other; they
do not act completely independently of one another (Campbell & Kashy, 2002).
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Chapter 2: Review of the literature
Personality and intimate relationships
According to the essential-trait approach to personality, there are a limited
number of traits individuals have that can fully capture their personality (Funder, 2007).
Psychologists have proposed different ideas as to exactly how many traits are necessary
to sufficiently understand the association between personality and behavior. In the
literature today, many psychologists have agreed on a set of traits known as the “Big
Five” (Costa & McCrae, 1985). While not all researchers have used these traits to
understand personality, most other personality measures assess related traits. The NEO-
PI-R (Costa & McCrae, 1992) is a self-report measure that assesses the Big Five
characteristics: Neuroticism (anxiety, depression, anger, emotional insecurity),
Agreeableness (friendliness, social conformity), Extraversion (assertiveness, sociability),
Openness (curious, imaginative, cultured), and Conscientiousness (reliable, organized;
Barrick & Mount, 1991). While differences do exist in the measurement of personality,
the Big Five have been found to be a reliable and valid way to capture personality.
Indeed, personality has been shown to be relevant for intimate relationships.
Caughlin et al. (2000) examined negative affectivity and Neuroticism over the course of a
thirteen-year longitudinal study of newlyweds. Although the researchers were unable to
determine which couples would divorce and which would not, the results indicated that
higher scores on these Neurotic traits were positively associated with marital negativity
(i.e., conflict), which in turn was negatively associated with marital satisfaction.
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Interestingly, Neuroticism is not the only aspect of personality that may be related to
marital conflict. When examining the Big Five factors of Agreeableness and
Extraversion, Wood and Bell (2008) found that these traits are also important in intimate
relationships. These scholars examined the associations between personality traits and
interpersonal conflict management by collecting data from individuals about their
experiences in intimate relationships. Conflict management style was scored on two
dimensions: assertiveness and cooperativeness. These two dimensions created four
quadrants of conflict management style: collaborative (high assertiveness, high
cooperativeness), accommodating (low assertiveness, high competitiveness), avoidant
(low assertiveness, low cooperativeness), and competitive (high assertiveness, low
cooperativeness). Regression analyses indicated that both Agreeableness and
Extraversion were significantly associated with the various quadrants. A higher score on
the trait of Extraversion was negatively related to accommodating and avoidant styles of
conflict resolution, as well as positively related to a competitive style of conflict
resolution. Conversely, a higher score on Agreeableness was positively related to
collaborative and accommodating styles of conflict management, as well as negatively
related to a competitive style of conflict resolution. These findings hint at the idea that
positive and negative problem solving communication behaviors may be associated with
personality.
Attachment and intimate relationships
Attachment style is a psychological construct that is believed to be relatively
stable across the lifespan (Waters, Merrick, Treboux, Crowell, & Albersheim, 2000). The
development of attachment styles begins early in infancy as children begin to form close
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relationships and explore the world around them. As children begin to make sense of the
social world, they develop internal models of human relationships based off their
relationship with their caregivers (Bowlby, 1956). If children develop a secure
attachment with their caregiver (i.e., their caregiver consistently responds to their needs
in a sensitive and appropriate manner) they are likely to perceive others as responsive to
their needs and themselves as worthy of love and affection. On the other hand, children
with insecure attachment styles (i.e., their caregivers did not consistently or appropriately
respond to their needs) are likely to relate to others in the way that they have learned
from their parents, either by remaining avoidant, resisting, or a mix of behaviors. These
individuals may believe that they are unworthy of love, that other people cannot be
trusted, or that they do not need others for emotional support or security. This attachment
bond carries over into intimate relationships during adulthood, when individuals begin to
use romantic partners as their “secure base”, and have expectations about how their
partner should behave in relation to them (Fraley & Davis, 1997).
Bartholomew (1990) proposed the idea that the two dimensions of Attachment
Anxiety and Attachment Avoidance may be sufficient to determine how adults experience
romantic attachments in adult relationships. Individuals who score high on dimensions of
Attachment Anxiety are more hyperactive in terms of attachment. These individuals are
constantly worrying about the state of their relationship, and often fear that their partner
may leave them. Conversely, individuals with high scores on the dimension of
Attachment Avoidance are experiencing a sort of attachment deactivation. These
individuals are more likely to avoid emotions and issues within their relationship. Since
the development of these attachment dimensions, the Experiences in Close Relationships
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Questionnaire (ECR) has been created to more accurately pinpoint where an adult falls on
each dimension (Brennen, Clark, & Shaver, 1998). The Experiences in Close
Relationships Questionnaire is currently considered to be one of the best self-report
measurements of adult romantic attachment that has been developed, as it allows
researchers to pinpoint which one of four quadrants (high or low on each of the two
dimensions) an individual will fall into.
Romantic attachment is now commonly regarded as one important predictor of
relationship functioning. This includes relationship satisfaction (Yee Ho, Chen, Bond,
Hui, Chan, & Friedman, 2012), relationship quality (Saavedra, Chapman, Karina, &
Rogge, 2010), and relationship conflict (Cann, Norman, Welbourne, & Calhoun, 2007).
Partner Effects and Partner Similarity
Clearly, it seems that personality and attachment play a role within intimate
relationships. However, it is important to keep in mind that it is not only one’s own traits
that may affect their intimate relationships; their partner’s traits may also be influential.
This effect may be observed between both partners, and must be understood when
studying dyadic units, such as individuals within intimate relationships. In other words,
individuals within couple relationships exhibit a “mutual influence” on each other; they
do not act completely independently of one another. In conceptualizing the process of
dyadic research and dyadic data analysis, researchers have advocated for the use of the
Actor Partner Interdependence Model (APIM; Campbell & Kashy, 2002). The effects of
an individual and their own traits are typically referred to as “actor effects”, whereas the
effects of this individual’s partner and that partner’s traits are referred to as “partner
effects”.
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This model has been empirically tested with a variety of dyadic data, and findings
have continued to indicate the importance of both partners. Robins and colleagues (2000)
used this model to assess the associations between relationship quality and the personality
of both partners. Dyadic analyses supported the idea that both actor and partner effects
are important in understanding relationship quality. In this case, when men scored higher
on negative emotionality, lower on positive emotionality, and lower on constraint,
women were more likely to have lower relationship quality. On the other hand, only
women’s negative emotionality was associated with men’s relationship quality; as
women scored higher on this trait, men scored lower on relationship satisfaction (Robins,
Caspi, & Moffitt, 2000).
More recent findings have reinforced this idea, even after controlling for actor
effects. When considering the traits of Agreeableness, Conscientiousness, and emotional
stability (Neuroticism), partner effects tended to matter beyond these initial actor effects.
When partners reported lower levels of Agreeableness, Conscientiousness, and emotional
stability, their spouses were more likely to experience lower relationship satisfaction
(Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, & Lucas, 2010). It has been shown that the personality of
an individual, as well as their partner, does impact intimate relationships. However, there
is still some unexplored territory regarding the interaction of these personality traits
within these relationships.
Similarly, the actor and partner effects of Attachment have been shown to be
important to relationship processes. According to Butzer and Campbell (2008), when an
individual reported higher levels of Anxiety, they also reported lower levels of sexual and
relationship satisfaction. Additionally, this effect was found to be even greater when an
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individual’s partner reported higher levels of Anxiety. Similarly, Feeney (1994) found
that women’s Attachment Anxiety was negatively associated with not only their own
relationship satisfaction, but also that of their partner. Banse (2004) reiterated this idea, as
his study confirmed that Partner effects contributed to relationship satisfaction
independent of Actor effects; secure attachment was positively associated with
relationship satisfaction for both partners, while insecure attachment was negatively
associated with relationship satisfaction for both partners.
Once the importance of both actor and partner effects are fully understood, the
next logical question that must be addressed is: does similarity between partners boost or
hinder relationship functioning? Similarity has been understood as how closely partners
resemble one another on a specific characteristic or set of characteristics. However, there
has been some variation on how personality similarity is measured and analyzed.
Specifically, this has typically been done in two ways: profile correlations and
discrepancy scores. The first of these methods involves computing intraclass correlations
on specific traits across dyads to assess how “matched” members of a dyad are on these
traits. The second of these, the discrepancy scores method, involves taking the absolute
value of the differences in trait scores between partners; this method is different from the
ICC method, as it is calculating dissimilarity, rather than similarity.
An examination of intimate relationships by Shiota and colleagues is among the
studies that have analyzed the similarity between partner personality traits. By collecting
data over 12 years from couples in their 40’s and 60’s, these researchers reached some
interesting conclusions. Through the use of the discrepancy scores method, the authors
found that higher personality similarity was associated with more negative trajectories in
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relationship satisfaction over the twelve-year study. Specifically, when spouses were
more similar in Conscientiousness or Extraversion, they were more likely to experience
changes in negative relationship satisfaction; however, these effects were only observed
for the younger subset of this sample (Shiota & Levenson, 2007). These results hint that
relationship duration, the age of spouses, or both factors, may be important to
understanding the associations between personality similarity and relationship
functioning.
However, not all scholars are in agreement about the role of personality similarity
in aspects of relationship functioning. Using the profile correlations method, Russell and
Wells (1991) showed that personality similarity may be associated with positive
relationship quality, as couples less similar in Extraversion scored lower in terms of
marital quality. Interestingly, levels of similarity in Neuroticism did not seem to matter
in this study. These scholars are not alone in making this claim. In an examination of
dating and newlywed couples, Gonzaga et al. found an association between personality
similarity, emotional similarity, and relationship satisfaction (Gonzaga, Campos, &
Bradbury, 2007). By using the same correlation method of similarity, these authors
argued that when partners were similar in personality, they were able to engage in more
shared emotional experiences, which was related to their satisfaction with their
relationship; as similarity scores for personality traits and emotional experiences
increased, so did relationship satisfaction.
Yet still there is more debate about how personality similarity is associated with
aspects of relationship functioning. According to Gattis and colleagues, partners in their
study were not very similar on any personality traits, and their similarity scores,
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calculated through the discrepancy method, were not able to independently contribute to
an understanding of relationship satisfaction. Instead, actor and partner effects were
more important (Gattis, Berns, Simpson, & Christensen, 2004). While some scholars
argue that partner similarity in personality may contribute independently to an
understanding of relationship satisfaction, it has also been acknowledged that this effect
is very small (Dyrenforth et al., 2010).
Additional evidence has also indicated that similarity in Extraversion and
Conscientiousness may be related to interpersonal conflict, as assessed through conflict
narratives and self-reports of conflict behavior. In a dyadic study of roommates, Bono
and colleagues found that when both partners were high on Extraversion or
Conscientiousness, more relational conflict was reported. In addition to this, differences
in Extraversion were also found to be positively associated with relational conflict (Bono,
Boles, Judge, & Lauver, 2002). These dyadic level findings suggest the importance of
the joint contributions each partner’s characteristics may make towards relational
conflict.
It is clear that the results regarding personality similarity and relationship
functioning are quite mixed. Some research has indicated that personality similarity is
associated with positive aspects of relationship functioning, whereas some has indicated
its association with negative aspects of relationship functioning. Yet still other research
has indicated that similarity between partners may make little to no difference in
understanding relationship functioning.
There does not appear to be any assessment of the association between
attachment similarity and relationship conflict in the existing literature. The most closely
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related work done on this topic assesses pairings of attachment styles within couples
(e.g., a secure partner and an insecure partner, two secure partners, etc.). Secure
individuals are more likely to partner with other securely attached individuals (Senchak
& Leonard, 1992); overall, it seems that two securely attached partners fare best in terms
of relationship functioning (Lussler, Sabourin, & Turgeon, 1997; Kobak & Hazan, 1991).
However, when both partners were insecurely attached, these pairs tended not to be
similar. Kirkpatrick and Davis (1994) found no dyads in their sample of 354 couples that
both reported anxious-anxious or avoidant-avoidant pairings. They assessed these
pairings of attachment styles between romantic partners and found that the match
between partners was important for relationship stability, an aspect of relationship
functioning. Couples in which men reported higher Attachment Avoidance and women
reported higher Attachment Anxiety actually reported more relationship stability over
time than couples who did not fit this pattern. Thus, it seems that similarity or
dissimilarity in Attachment styles may influence relationship functioning independent of
individual partners’ attachment security, but no studies have examined this using the
continuous dimensions of anxiety and avoidance.
Intimate relationships: Theoretical orientation
As social scientists began to examine marital relationships, the early work yielded
inconsistent results. It wasn’t until the 1990’s that two marital researchers accurately and
succinctly organized the state of the literature. Karney and Bradbury (1995) called into
question the previous theories and methodological designs that had given the field much
of its understanding of marriage. These authors examined the contributions of four main
theories that had been used to examine marital relationships: attachment theory,
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behavioral theory, social exchange theory, and crisis theory. Each of these theories was
able to contribute important ideas that could help explain marital relationships more fully.
However, none of these theories was sufficient enough to stand alone in explaining
marital development and change over time. For this reason, these scholars combined key
elements from each theory to create the Vulnerability-Stress-Adaptation (VSA)
theoretical model (Karney & Bradbury, 1995). By integrating useful components of
different theories, these scholars were able to create one theory that could predict how
and why couples change in relationship functioning over time. Within the VSA model of
relationships, a number of factors are involved in the production of relationship conflict.
It is important to note that it is not simply stressful events, adaptation, and vulnerability
that are being considered. Instead, it is the reciprocal interaction of all of these constructs;
none of these factors are operating independently of one another.
Every individual and couple has a number of enduring characteristics that exist
before a major life change. For example, these may be extreme high or low levels of
income, presence or lack of mental health issues, or specific personality traits or
attachment styles. Positive factors may help to buffer and protect couples, allowing them
to naturally adapt such that they do not even notice the change. In contrast, negative
factors may produce enough disturbance for an individual or couple that they are unable
to adapt during a stressful change. The way these adaptations occur, as well as these
vulnerabilities (or lack thereof), impact the way stressful events are experienced.
A major life transition is likely a stressful event for a couple or an individual.
Even when events are perceived as positive changes, such as marriage, buying a new
house, or having a baby, these common life events result in stress for individuals and
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couples. Having a child comes with changes and stressors, such as doctor’s
appointments, childcare arrangements, and a decrease in leisure time; these are known as
“parenting hassles” (Crnic & Booth, 1991). For many couples, these stressors may pile-
up during this transition, and depending on certain vulnerabilities, may influence how
couples adapt to their roles.
Over time, if couples do not begin to positively adapt, the situation may be
perceived as more stressful, which may decrease the likelihood that the couple can
positively adapt; this is a circular process that may be harmful for many couples.
Personality and attachment (as well as similarity between these traits and styles) have
clearly been identified as potential vulnerabilities within this model, and thus a further
examination of how couples with these potential vulnerabilities and strengths
experiencing the transition to parenthood adapt is in order to better explain relationship
change during this period of stress.
The influence of personality and attachment on relationship conflict during the transition
to parenthood
One way that that relationships may change across the transition to parenthood is
that couples may experience differences in conflict. This may be seen through changes in
the intensity or frequency of conflict. However, as noted by Kamp Dush and Taylor
(2011), relationship conflict has typically been considered an independent variable. Until
recently experiences of conflict have not been used as an outcome variable. As a result,
little work is currently available to understand how personality traits or attachment styles
impact relationship conflict through major life events, such as across the transition to
parenthood.
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Some initial work done by Crohan (1996) found that parents experienced a
change in conflict after having children. Overall, the parents in her sample experienced
an increase in reported conflict frequency as they transitioned into parenthood. More
recent work by Doss et al. (2009) also suggests that conflict may change across the
transition to parenthood. Specifically, parents tended to report more frequent conflict, and
new mothers in their study reported poorer conflict management. Lindahl and colleagues
(1997) suggested that when couples engaged in higher rates of observed negative
escalation during interactions before the birth of their child, fathers were more likely to
exhibit more frequent observed negative conflict behaviors after the birth of the child. It
has also been shown that after the birth of a first child, spouses reported engaging in more
frequent negative interactions nine months post-partum than they did before their child
was born (Belsky, Lang, & Rovine, 1985). Moreover, Kluwer and Johnson (2007) found
that frequency of relationship conflict and relationship satisfaction are highly associated
across the transition to parenthood.
However, much more research has been dedicated to understanding change in
relationship satisfaction across the transition to parenthood. First-time parents experience
a steeper and more sudden decline in relationship satisfaction than their non-parent
counterparts (Lawrence et al., 2008). Most scholars seem to be in agreement on the
association between child rearing and changes in aspects of relationship functioning.
While some couples do experience declines in relationship satisfaction, or an increase in
relationship conflict, during the transition to parenthood, not all couples do. In fact, some
couples may even improve in functioning, while some may not experience any change at
all (Lawrence et al., 2008). Some recent interest has been shown in gaining an
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understanding of which specific characteristics may influence this variability in
relationship conflict across the transition to parenthood.
Of these various predictors, in accordance with the VSA model, personality traits
have been regarded as an area of high interest by many scholars. Belsky and Hsieh (1998)
reported Neuroticism, Extraversion, and Agreeableness as predictors of relationship
conflict in a modest sample of 104 married couples experiencing the transition to
parenthood. Their results indicated that lower Neuroticism, higher Agreeableness, and
higher Extraversion were related to lower levels of conflict.
Belsky and Hsieh’s findings indicated that personality is important in
understanding conflict and conflict management within intimate relationships. Donnellan
et al. (2004) worked to extend this understanding of the association between conflict and
personality; they were particularly interested in observed positive escalation behaviors (a
pattern of circular positive behaviors between partners) and observed negative escalation
conflict behaviors (a pattern of circular negative behaviors between partners). They
reported that participants who scored higher on Agreeableness and Openness engaged in
less negative conflict management; conversely, those who scored higher on Neuroticism
engaged in more negative conflict management behaviors (i.e., negative escalation).
Individuals who rate highly on Agreeableness experience more ease with
interpersonal interactions (Tobin et al., 2000); as a result, it has been suggested that these
individuals may experience more positive and less negative escalation in conflict
situations. Similarly, other personality traits have been linked to conflict interaction.
Robins et al. (2000) suggested that increased constraint (a trait often compared to
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Conscientiousness) may be related to less observable negative escalation in conflict, as
these individuals may be better able to regulate their behaviors.
Despite the numerous investigations on the influence of personality on
relationship conflict, there are gaps in the existing literature. While Doss et al. (2009)
examined predictors of relationship conflict, there appears to be little prior work on the
influence of personality on conflict during the transition to parenthood. Further, there
appears to be limited work linking personality traits to observed couple interactions
during the transition to parenthood (for an exception, see Lindhal et al., 1997).
There has also been an interest in how attachment influences conflict within
intimate relationships. One of the most noteworthy of these studies examined associations
between Attachment Anxiety and conflict (Campbell, Simpson, Boldry, & Kashy, 2005).
In this study, partners were asked to complete conflict diaries and an observational
conflict task. Individuals in this study that reported higher levels of Anxiety also reported
a higher frequency of conflict. Additional Actor effects were observed; when individuals
reported higher levels of Anxiety, they were observed engaging in more negative
escalation behaviors with their partners (Campbell et al., 2005).
The association between attachment and relationship functioning (specifically, in
this case, relationship quality) has also been examined during the transition to
parenthood. However, these past examinations have tended not to use the Experiences in
Close Relationships Questionnaire, which produces the dimensions of Anxiety and
Avoidance; instead, Attachment was assessed in other ways. An examination of the
association between the Adult Attachment Questionnaire and relationship satisfaction
indicated that while Avoidance was not significant, women’s Ambivalence predicted
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their own, as well as their partner’s, lower relationship satisfaction across the transition
(Rholes, Simpson, Campbell, & Grich, 2001).
There has also been an initial exploration of how attachment security in couples is
associated with observed positive and negative escalation conflict behaviors across the
transition to parenthood (Paley, Cox, Kanoy, Harter, Burchinal, & Margand, 2005).
When fathers reported higher Attachment Anxiety, they were observed engaging in less
positive, and more negative, escalation after the birth of their child.
While scholars have begun to consider partner effects in addition to actor effects,
work still needs to be done to better understand partner similarity in personality and
attachment, especially the influence of this similarity on relationship functioning across
the transition to parenthood. Initial work has suggested that similarity in personality did
not influence relationship satisfaction among new parents (Bower, Schoppe-Sullivan, Jia,
Mangelsdorf, & Brown, 2012); however, further work must be done to examine other
constructs of relationship functioning, such as conflict, with a larger sample size. Along
the same lines, attachment similarity has not been studied for its potential role in
relationship functioning, especially during times of transition.
Can the influence of personality and attachment be disentangled?
Sroufe (1985) pointed out that child temperament, which is considered to be a
precursor to adult personality (Capsi et al., 2003), is a construct that is associated with
attachment. However, despite this slight overlap, these two constructs assess different
characteristics. Both attachment and temperament can be assessed in the first year of an
infant’s life. However, attachment reflects an individual’s close relationships; attachment
develops early in infancy, when children are beginning to internally process and
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understand the world around them. Included in this processing of information is the
development of internal working models of relationships.
In comparison, temperament (and personality) is an assessment of how an
individual deals with their overall environment. As children begin to make sense of the
external world around them, personality develops. These children already have set
internal working models that help them understand their relationships with others.
Personality may be thought of as a more external, individual representation of our
understanding of the world than attachment is. Certainly, however, there is some overlap
between personality and attachment. Both are psychological constructs, and both
influence the way that we act as individuals. Previous literature can help make sense of
this association.
An early study by Shaver and Brennan (1992) looked at the connection between
the Big Five personality traits and attachment styles in adults. This study examined 242
college students at an East Coast University. In this sample, approximately half of the
students were female, and half of the students were male; their ages ranged greatly, from
15 years of age to 47 years of age. The design of this study split participants up so that
half of them were currently involved in a romantic relationship, and the other half of
participants considered themselves single. Furthermore, the participants were split into
three groups based on their attachment classification: secure, avoidant, and anxious
ambivalent; this was measured using a categorical assessment of attachment. Personality
traits were measured using the NEO-PI; this is a 180-item personality questionnaire
measuring the Big Five, as well as a number of personality facets.
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Results of this study indicated that there were some significant associations
between adult attachment style and personality traits. Analyses showed that secure
participants were less Neurotic and more Extraverted than insecure participants;
additionally, they were more Agreeable than Avoidant subjects. Anxious participants
were also more Neurotic, Extraverted, and Agreeable than were Avoidant subjects.
However, no significant differences existed between the other two insecure groups that
were used in this study; there were also no significant differences based on age or gender.
Interestingly, based on the Big Five traits of personality, results were not significant
enough to discriminate between attachment types. When using the facets (subscales), it
was possible to discriminate between the two insecure groups, though this effect was
rather small.
Other work has looked at the associations between adult attachment and
personality. Carver (1997) wanted to build upon the work of the previous study by
Shaver and Brennan (1992). In this study, the author used the NEO-FFI; this is the short
form of the NEO-PI, which was used by Shaver and Brennan (1992). Attachment was
measured through the Measure of Attachment Qualities Questionnaire (MAQ; Carver,
1997). The sample consisted of 169 students (81 men; 88 women) who completed their
surveys in group sessions.
Results indicated that the Avoidance scale of the MAQ was inversely related to
Extraversion and Agreeableness. The security scale displayed a positive association with
Extraversion, Neuroticism, and Agreeableness. Finally, the Ambivalence scale was
positively related only to Neuroticism. Regression analyses yielded further significant
findings. Both the security and Avoidance scales made independent contributions to the
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prediction of Extraversion. The Avoidance scale made a significant unique contribution
only to the prediction of Agreeableness. Finally, the Ambivalence scale made a
significant unique contribution only to the prediction of Neuroticism (Carver, 1997).
These results strengthened the findings of Shaver and Brennan (1992); it seems that yet
again Openness and Conscientiousness are not related to attachment style.
Rather than use categorical measures of attachment, later studies began to use
dimensional measures of attachment. One early study that used dimensional measures of
attachment explored the association of these dimensions to other variables of interest;
included in these variables were the Big Five (Gallo, Smith, & Ruiz, 2003). In this study,
the sample was composed of 294 undergraduate psychology students from a Western
University. This study was composed of two samples, and the samples contained more
females (187 females; 107 males). Participants completed measures of attachment, which
the researchers scored to resemble the dimensional measures of attachment (Anxiety and
Avoidance). Personality characteristics were measured through the Five Factor Model
Measure, which measures some of the Big Five (Neuroticism, Conscientiousness, and
Openness) and facets of the other measures of the Big Five (affiliation for Agreeableness,
and dominance from Extraversion).
When examining these links, significant results were found; analyses were
conducted separately for men and women. For men, affiliation (i.e., Agreeableness) and
Conscientiousness were negatively associated with Attachment Avoidance. Also,
dominance (i.e., Extraversion) was negatively associated with both Attachment Anxiety
and Attachment Avoidance. Openness was not associated with either dimension of
attachment. Not surprisingly, Neuroticism was positively associated with both Anxiety
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and Avoidance for men. Similarly, it is not surprising that Neuroticism was positively
associated with both Anxiety and Avoidance for women as well. Similar to their male
counterparts, women’s Openness was also not associated with either attachment
dimension. Conscientiousness, dominance (i.e., Extraversion), and affiliation (i.e.,
Agreeableness) were all negatively associated with both Attachment Anxiety and
Attachment Avoidance for women (Gallo et al., 2003).
Another study used dimensional measures of attachment and focused in on the
relationship between these dimensions and personality characteristics. Backstrom and
Holmes (2001) gathered a sample of 515 undergraduate students (214 male; 301 female).
These participants completed the NEO-PI and the Relationship Scales Questionnaire
(RSQ); the RSQ measures model of self (Attachment Anxiety) and model of others
(Attachment Avoidance). Results indicated that both Agreeableness and Extraversion
were significantly and positively associated with both model of self and model of others.
Conversely, Neuroticism was significantly negatively associated with both model of self
and model of others. Interestingly, this study found some results that seem to deviate
from previous research. Specifically, Conscientiousness had no significant associations
with either attachment dimension. Also, this study found a significant positive association
between model of others and Openness; few other studies have found significant
associations between attachment style and this trait.
Another study assessing the association between attachment dimensions and the
Big Five personality traits used both correlations and regression analyses (Noftle &
Shaver, 2006). These authors conducted two studies; the strength of this is found in the
fact that they used two different measures of the Big Five. In the first study, the authors
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wanted to know how the attachment dimensions and the Big Five were associated. They
collected a data set of 8,318 participants (5,417 women; 2,901 men) who were students at
a West Coast University in an introductory psychology class. Attachment was measured
through the 36-item Experiences in Close Relationships scale (ECR); this determined a
participant’s level of Attachment Anxiety and Attachment Avoidance. The Big Five were
measured with the Big Five Inventory (BFI), which is a 44-item questionnaire measure of
the Big Five (without their facets). The correlation results indicated that Neuroticism was
significantly and positively associated with Avoidance and Anxiety. On the other hand,
Extraversion, Openness, Agreeableness, and Conscientiousness were all significantly
negatively associated with Avoidance and Anxiety (Noftle & Shaver, 2006). Regression
analyses for this study indicated that Neuroticism was a significant negative predictor of
Attachment Anxiety. On the other hand, Extraversion was a significant negative predictor
of Attachment Avoidance. Agreeableness and Conscientiousness were both significantly
negative predictors of both Attachment Anxiety and Attachment Avoidance.
In the second study, the authors had the same analysis plan and procedure.
However, instead of using the BFI they used the NEO-PI-R. In this study, the 285
participants (277 women; 58 men) completed the ECR and the NEO-PI-RI. The authors
still wanted to know how these two questionnaires were associated with one another, so
they again computed correlation and regression analyses. Correlation results indicated
that Neuroticism was significantly and positively correlated with both Anxiety and
Avoidance. Conversely, Extraversion and Conscientiousness were significantly
negatively associated with Anxiety and Avoidance. In this study, Openness was also
significantly negatively associated with Avoidance. Regression analyses showed that
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Anxiety was significantly positively predicted by Neuroticism, and negatively predicted
by Conscientiousness. On the other hand, Avoidance was significantly negatively
predicted by Extraversion and Conscientiousness.
It is clear that some overlap exists between personality and attachment. Some of
these associations, such as the link between Neuroticism and Attachment, are better
understood than others, such as the link between Attachment and the remaining Big Five.
Future research needs to work towards better clarifying the relationship between these
two sets of variables, so that their effects may be better disentangled. The present study is
crucial in furthering the understanding between these constructs, as it is the first to assess
both personality and attachment as predictors of relationship conflict across the transition
to parenthood.
Measurement of relationship functioning
Despite the importance of understanding relationship conflict, few studies have
examined relationship conflict as an outcome variable. Instead, past work has typically
examined relationship quality, relationship satisfaction, and other aspects of the broader
construct of relationship functioning. Some measures, such as relationship adjustment,
measure multiple aspects of relationship functioning. As a result, there has been a call to
clarify which specific aspects of relationship functioning are being assessed. Funk and
Rogge (2007) are among those who have worked to clarify these measurement issues in
understanding relationship functioning. While some aspects of functioning, such as
relationship conflict, may be clearly distinguished, there is a need for this aspect of
relationships to be considered as an outcome variable rather than an independent variable.
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Conflict has most typically been examined through two methods. Self-report
measures have tended to assess conflict frequency (Stanley & Markman, 1997).
Conversely, observational methods have focused on assessing conflict behaviors in
couples (Notarius & Vanzetti, 1983). As much as there is a need for the study of
relationship conflict as an outcome variable, there is also a need to further incorporate the
use of both types of data. The use of self-reported conflict frequency, as well as observed
conflict behavior, can help further the understanding of this specific aspect of relationship
functioning. The present study will work to bring these two kinds of data together to
create a more complete understanding of conflict for new parents, and will use
personality and attachment as predictors of individual differences in conflict across the
transition to parenthood.
The present study
Research questions and Hypotheses
The present study addressed three questions to help bridge these gaps within the
literature in the service of better understanding the associations of personality traits and
attachment style with relationship conflict across the transition to parenthood, and also
made progress towards settling measurement issues in the study of personality similarity
and attachment similarity. First, do actor effects, partner effects, or similarity effects for
personality and attachment predict self-reported frequency of destructive conflict pre-
birth or across the transition to parenthood? Next, do actor effects, partner effects, or
similarity effects for personality and attachment predict observed problem-solving
behaviors pre-birth or across the transition to parenthood? Finally, do the personality or
attachment characteristics of each partner, or the similarity between partners on these
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traits, predict observed negative escalation behaviors pre-birth or across the transition to
parenthood?
Question 1. Do actor effects or partner effects for personality and attachment
predict self-reported frequency of destructive conflict pre-birth or across the
transition to parenthood?
The personality traits and attachment style of each parent (actor effects) and their
partner (partner effects), as well as the similarity between these characteristics, were used
to understand initial levels of destructive relationship conflict frequency as well as
change in destructive conflict frequency across the transition to parenthood. This was
done using self-report questionnaire data from all four phases of the study: the third
trimester of pregnancy, and three, six, and nine months post-partum.
Hypothesis 1: I expected that couples would experience a significant increase in the
frequency of self-reported frequency of destructive conflict across the transition to
parenthood before including personality and attachment predictors, as it has been widely
documented that other aspects of relationship functioning (e.g., satisfaction, quality)
decline during this period (Belsky & Pensky, 1988; Doss et al., 2009).
In terms of the first question, I expected that when an individual or their partner
reported higher Neuroticism, both partners would report more frequent destructive
conflict in their relationship, as Neuroticism has been consistently associated with poorer
relationship functioning (Belsky & Hsieh, 1998). With the remaining personality traits
(Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, and Agreeableness), I expected that when
an individual or their partner reported a higher score, either partner would report less
frequent destructive conflict scores over time, as this is consistent with past findings
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(Donnellan et al, 2004; Robins et al., 2000). When an individual or their partner reported
more Attachment Anxiety, I expected that partners would report increased frequency of
destructive conflict initially, as well as over time, as these individuals would be more
sensitive to issues of potential conflict (Paley et al., 2005). Conversely, I expected that
when either partner scored higher on Attachment Avoidance, partners would report less
frequent destructive conflict initially, as well as over time, as they would want to avoid
emotional issues with their partner (Bartholomew, 1990).
Question 2: Do actor effects or partner effects for personality and attachment
predict observed problem-solving behaviors pre-birth or across the transition to
parenthood?
Next, actor effects, partner effects, and similarity between partner personality
traits and attachment styles were used to understand initial levels of observed problem
solving behaviors during conflict, as well as change in these behaviors across the
transition to parenthood. This was done using individual-level observational data from
Phases 1, 2, and 4 of the study.
Hypothesis 2: For the second research question, I expected that higher scores in
Neuroticism, as well as lower scores in Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, and
Agreeableness for either actors or partners would be associated with less problem solving
behavior initially and over time, as similar results have been found in prior research
(Donnellan et al, 2004). I expected that when parents reported higher levels of
Attachment Anxiety they would demonstrate higher levels of problem solving behavior,
and those who reported higher levels of Attachment Avoidance would engage in less
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observable problem solving behavior, as this is consistent with previous findings (Paley
et al., 2005).
Question 3: Do the personality traits or attachment styles of each partner predict
observed negative escalation behaviors pre-birth or across the transition to
parenthood?
Finally, the effects of each partner’s personality traits and attachment styles and
similarity therein were used to understand initial levels of observed negative escalation
behaviors during conflict, as well as change in negative escalation behaviors across the
transition to parenthood. This was done using couple-level observational data from
Phases 1, 2, and 4 of the study.
Hypothesis 3: For the final research question, I expected that higher scores in
Neuroticism, as well as lower scores in Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, and
Agreeableness for either parent would be associated with more negative escalation over
time (as seen in Donnellan et al., 2004). When an individual reported more Attachment
Anxiety, I expected that couples would engage in more negative escalation initially, as
well as over time. Conversely, I expected that when an individual scored higher on
Attachment Avoidance, couples would engage in less negative escalation initially, as well
as over time (as seen in Paley et al., 2005).
Does similarity between partners on personality traits or attachment styles predict
self-reported destructive conflict frequency, observed problem solving behavior, or
negative escalation behavior?
In all three research questions, similarity was calculated through both the
discrepancy scores method and the profile correlation method. This allowed for a more
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sensitive test of how similarity between partners’ personality traits and attachment styles
may influence conflict during this transition.
I expected that similarity in personality traits or attachment styles would be
associated with less frequent destructive conflict, more problem-solving behaviors, and
less negative escalation behaviors initially and over the transition. As some scholars have
argued, increased similarity may lead to increased similarity in emotional experiences,
which may better facilitate an understanding between partners (Gonzaga et al., 2007).
This may help reduce the frequency of destructive conflict, as well as the intensity of
observed conflict behaviors, that partners experience over time. The current literature on
this topic has produced very mixed findings, and no one has yet examined this topic
across the transition to parenthood. As a result, this study is meant to help solidify the
current state of the similarity literature, as well as provide an exploration of this topic
across the transition to parenthood.
Control variables
I controlled for a number of variables: education, income, relationship duration,
and relationship status. Belsky and Rovine (1990) found that couples with higher levels
of education experienced less of a decline in satisfaction over the transition to
parenthood. Perhaps the reason for this is because these couples are less likely to adopt
traditional gender roles, and are more likely to adopt egalitarian roles in which the
workload is shared; in turn, this may reduce the frequency or intensity of conflict during
the transition to parenthood. I expected that more highly educated parents would report
less conflict frequency, and engage in more observable problem solving behaviors, as
well as less observable negative escalation behaviors initially and over time.
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In contrast, in a meta-analysis, Twenge et al. (2003) found that couples with
higher socioeconomic status were more likely to experience a greater decline in marital
satisfaction across the transition to parenthood. One possible explanation for this is that
these couples may have to give up more freedom and leisure activities than couples of
lower socioeconomic status, which may increase stress and conflict. I expected that
parents who reported lower levels of income would report less conflict frequency, and
engage in more observable problem solving behaviors, as well as less observable
negative escalation behaviors initially and over time.
I expected that relationship duration would be related to conflict, as marital
duration is linked to other aspects of relationship functioning. Specifically, some findings
have indicated that length of marriage and relationship satisfaction have a negative
association; that is, the longer couples are married, the lower their levels of relationship
satisfaction tend to be (Van Laningham, Johnson, & Amato, 2001). If relationship
duration is related to this aspect of relationship functioning, an investigation of this
construct in relation to conflict is also warranted.
Finally, evidence exists substantiating a link between relationship status (whether
or not a couple is married or cohabiting) and relationship functioning during the
transition to parenthood. Results indicated that non-marital births were associated with
lower relationship functioning than marital births. However, these results also indicated
that all participants experienced a similar rate of decline in relationship functioning
regardless of relationship status (Tach & Halpern-Meekin, 2009). I expected that parents
who reported that they were married would report less conflict frequency, and engage in
more observable problem solving behaviors, as well as less observable negative
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escalation behaviors initially, but not over time, in comparison to their cohabiting
counterparts.
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Chapter 3: Methods Participants One hundred and eighty-two couples were recruited from a large Midwestern city
during their third trimester of pregnancy. Participants were screened for eligibility to be
sure that they were over the age of 18, fluent in English, were living together, were
employed and planning to return to work after the infant was born, and were both
expecting their first biological child. Data were collected from these families
longitudinally across four time points: Phase 1 (third trimester of pregnancy), Phase 2 (3
months postpartum), Phase 3 (6 months postpartum), and Phase 4 (9 months postpartum).
Of these participants, 9 couples were dropped from this particular study due to
missing data; no significant differences existed between these participants in terms of
personality traits, attachment styles, or relationship conflict and those who were included
in the study. Within this sample, 87% of couples were married at Phase 1, while the
remaining couples were cohabiting. At Phase 1, relationship length ranged from 2.55
years to 22.88 years, with an average relationship length of 7.07 years (SD = 2.66). The
average age of mothers was 28.33 years (SD = 3.84), while the average age of fathers was
30.25 years (SD = 4.61). The majority of the participants in this study were White (87.4%
of mothers; 87.6% of fathers). The remainder of this sample consisted of African
Americans and Asian Americans; the rest of the participants were of mixed racial and
ethnic backgrounds. Levels of education ranged from “less than high school” to
“Doctorate or Professional Degree”; 75.9% of mothers and 64.5% of fathers had at least a
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Bachelor’s degree. Family income at Phase 1 ranged from $5,100 to $238,000 per year,
with a median income of $80,500.00 per year.
Procedure
Participants were recruited during the third trimester of pregnancy. Recruitment
was accomplished through announcements at local childbirth education classes, as well as
advertisements placed in various newspapers and community locations (movie theaters,
maternity stores, bulletin boards, etc.). In addition to this, potential participants were
recruited through participant referrals. Interested participants were contacted to learn
more about the study requirements and incentives, and to be screened for eligibility.
At each phase of the study, participants were mailed a packet of questionnaires; at
Phase 1 only, participants had the option of completing online surveys instead.
Participants were instructed to complete these surveys independently of one another.
Each parent was given a unique password to complete online surveys, or separate
envelopes to seal their completed paper surveys in. Paper surveys were collected by
research assistants at Phases 1, 2, and 4, and were mailed back by the participants at
Phase 3.
Phases 1 and 2 included home visits, and Phase 4 included a laboratory visit. At
each of these visits, research assistants collected completed questionnaires. In addition to
this, participants completed a time diary interview, as well as a number of different
videotaped couple and family interaction tasks. At Phase 3, participants were mailed
surveys and paper time diaries. Participants were provided a pre-paid envelope to return
their completed surveys and time diaries. A follow up phone interview was then
scheduled to review the completed time diaries.
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In accordance with approved procedures by the Behavioral and Social Sciences
Institutional Review Board at the Ohio State University, informed consent was obtained
from each partner at each phase of the study. Incentives were provided at each phase.
Participants received over $200 in cash and gifts, including a membership to COSI, the
local science museum, for participating in each aspect of all four Phases of the study.
Incentives were prorated, so that partial completion of each Phase was possible. Contact
information was kept on file so that interested participants could be contacted for future
phases of the study.
The current study used self-report questionnaire data from all Phases of the study,
as well as couple observational data at Phases 1, 2, and 4.
Measures
Demographics
A demographic questionnaire was administered at Phase 1 to collect data on race,
income, age, level of education, relationship duration, and relationship status (married
versus cohabiting). This demographic questionnaire can be found attached as Appendix
A.
Personality
A self-report questionnaire was administered to both partners at Phase 1 to assess
the Big Five factors of personality. This measure was only given at Phase 1, as most
personality research has indicated that individual differences in personality are stable
over time (Costa & McCrae, 1997). The NEO-FFI (Costa & McCrae, 1992) is a short
form 60-item survey that can measure these Five Factors. Included among these Five
Factors are Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism.
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Openness is typically considered the extent to which an individual is curious, intrigued,
and open-minded about the world around them (e.g., “I am intrigued by the patterns I find
in art and nature”). Conscientiousness is an assessment of how often an individual shows
self-discipline, or how hard they work to meet the expectations of them (e.g., “I keep my
belongings neat and clean”). Extraversion assesses an individual’s predisposition to
positive emotions, and the extent to which an individual seeks stimuli (e.g., “I like to
have a lot of people around me”). Agreeableness is typically considered the extent to
which an individual is compassionate and cooperative with others (e.g., “I try to be
courteous to everyone I meet”). The Neuroticism subscale assesses how prone an
individual is to experience negativity, such as anxiety and depression ( e.g., “When I’m
under a great deal of stress, sometimes I feel like I’m going to pieces”; McCrae & Costa,
1987). Each of these five subscales contains 12 items total.
Since its development, this short form of the survey has been verified as a reliable
and valid measure (McCrae & Costa, 2004). This was chosen over the longer, 240-item
version to reduce the burden placed on participants, as they were already completing a
number of other surveys and observational tasks. Alphas ranged from .74 to .85 for the
five traits for fathers, and .74 to .87 for mothers. This survey can be found attached as
Appendix B.
Attachment
Attachment was measured through the use of the 36-item Experiences in Close
Relationships Questionnaire (ECR; Brennen et al., 1998). This measure is the most
commonly used self-report measure of adult attachment, and provides a score on two
dimensions of Adult Attachment: Anxiety and Avoidance. Each of these two subscales
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contained 18 items. Individuals who report high levels of Anxiety are constantly
worrying about the state of their relationship, and often fear that their partner may
leave them (e.g., “I need a lot of reassurance that I am loved by my partner”).
Individuals who report high levels of Avoidance are more likely to sidestep or
minimize emotions and issues within their relationship (e.g., “I prefer not to be too
close to romantic partners“). This questionnaire was only administered at Phase 1, as
research has shown that attachment is a relatively stable characteristic across the adult
lifespan. Alphas for this questionnaire ranged from .88-92 for these dimensions.
Reported frequency of destructive conflict
The Communication Danger Signs Scale is a self-report questionnaire that
measures the frequency of destructive relationship conflict that each parent is
experiencing in the relationship (e.g., “My spouse/partner criticizes or belittles my
opinions, feelings, or desires”). This is a 4-item version that has been shown to reliably
measure conflict (Stanley & Markman, 1997). It was administered at each Phase of the
study so that change in conflict may be measured for each parent across the transition to
parenthood. Alphas for this scale ranged from .70 to .76 for fathers, and .61 to .75 for
mothers. This survey can be found in Appendix C.
Observed conflict interaction
The Marital Agendas Protocol (Notarius & Vanzetti, 1983) is a relationship-
oriented observational task in which couples were asked to use their problem solving
skills. Each individual completed a short preliminary survey where they were asked to
rate different common problem areas in relationships by assigning scores ranging from 0-
100. Upon completion of these surveys, couples were asked to agree upon one common
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problem area and discuss the topic for ten minutes or until they reached an agreeable
solution. Exact task instructions, as well as the short survey, can be found attached as
Appendix D. Couples spent ten minutes discussing a solution towards a mutually agreed
upon problem area within their relationship. This observational task was conducted at
Phases 1, 2, and 4, when participants completed the home visit or laboratory visit portion
of this study.
These dyadic interactions were then coded using the System for Coding
Interactions Among New Parents (SCINP; Hunt, Kamp Dush, & Schoppe-Sullivan,
2010). This is a modified version of the System for Coding Interactions in Dyads (SCID;
Malik & Lindahl, 2004). Multiple teams of coders rated these interactions on a number of
different scales. These coders coded independently from one another, and settled
disputes through reliability conferences. Among the scales of interest for this study is the
problem solving scale. This scale is an individual-level scale that allows each member of
a couple to be scored between 1 (no positive communication) to 5 (all positive
communication). Alphas (a measure of interrater reliability) for this scale ranged from
.61-.83 for fathers, and .53-82 for mothers. This scale assesses problem solving
communication behaviors, such as how often an individual’s affect is positive, or how
often an individual acknowledges their partner’s point of view. For example, one
individual scored a five on this scale by consistently stating his willingness to
compromise on the issue being discussed and expressing his own feelings in a positive,
non-judgmental manner.
The second scale of interest to this study is negative escalation. This is a couple-
level scale that ranges from scores of 1 (very low demonstration of behavior) to 5 (high
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demonstration of behavior). Alphas for this scale ranged from .70-.85 across phases.
Negative escalation refers to the reciprocal cycle of negative behaviors that couples
exhibit during their discussion. For example, one couple received a 5 on this scale
because each individual in the couple consistently responded to their partner’s negativity
with a negative response; this cycle of conflict was observed multiple times, with
aggressive tones and body language. The coding scales for these dimensions may be
found in the coding manual attached as Appendix E, and descriptive statistics for these
scales may be found in Table 1.
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Chapter 4: Preliminary results
Overall, couples reported relatively low levels of destructive conflict frequency at
all phases of the study. Negative escalation was also relatively low at all phases of the
study. On the other hand, problem-solving behaviors were relatively high in this sample
at all time points. In terms of predictor variables, this sample reported relatively high
levels of Agreeableness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, and Openness; in addition to
this, participants reported moderate levels of Neuroticism. Participants also reported
higher levels of Attachment Anxiety than Attachment Avoidance.
Correlation results indicated that self-reported conflict was consistently,
positively associated over the transition to parenthood. This association existed between
each parent’s own reports of conflict over time, as well as their partner’s reports of
conflict over time. Self-reported conflict was also positively associated with observed
negative escalation behavior for both mothers and fathers at multiple phases. Both
parents’ problem solving behaviors were negatively associated with observed negative
escalation, but this was only observed at Phase 1. Correlations between these study
variables can be found in Tables 2 and 3.
Results
Hierarchical Linear Modeling (HLM; Raudenbush & Bryk, 2002) was used to
determine statistically significant predictors of relationship conflict parents experienced
across the transition to parenthood. HLM allows for an examination of variability in
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intercepts and slopes, which means it can be used to identify factors that account for the
variation in initial levels of conflict and changes in conflict over time.
This analysis was conducted using the program HLM to fully explore the
longitudinal, dyadic nature of these data. Individuals within couple relationships exhibit a
“mutual influence” on each other; they do not act completely independently of one
another. As a result, Kashy and Kenny (1999) have called for the use of this program and
technique in examining dyadic data. This method may be used to create a model that
incorporates actor effects (the effects of an individual’s characteristics), partner effects
(the effects of characteristics from an individual’s partner), and similarity effects, and
may be used to understand conflict scores and predictors thereof for parents across the
transition to parenthood.
Hierarchical Linear Modeling can appropriately handle some missing or irregular
data (Helson, Jones, & Kwan, 2002) across these time points. This technique can handle
missing data at Level-1 (within-subject estimation), but not at Level-2 (between-subject
estimation; Raudenbush & Byrk, 2002). For this reason, instances where individuals did
not report personality or attachment scores were dropped (9 couples).
Measurement of similarity
There has been debate in the field as to how similarity in characteristics may be
appropriately calculated; as suggested by Kenny, Kashy, and Cook (2006), intra-class
correlations and discrepancy scores may both be considered appropriate tools. The main
difference between these methods is that discrepancy scores are considered measures of
dissimilarity, whereas intra-class profile correlation scores are considered to be measures
of similarity. Measures of dissimilarity (e.g., discrepancy scores) assume perfect
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similarity, and then proceed to measure how dissimilar the traits in question are; in this
case, smaller values imply greater similarity. Conversely, measures of similarity (e.g.,
intra-class correlations) assume zero similarity, and then measure how similar the items
in question are; in this situation, higher values imply greater similarity (Kenny et al.,
2006). Discrepancy scores are calculated by taking the absolute value of the difference
between each partner’s scores on a trait, and can provide an overall index of the
difference between partners (Dyrenforth et al, 2010). In these analyses, the following
models were computed for each Big Five personality trait twice, and run for each set of
the two Attachment dimensions twice: once for the ICC model, and once for the
discrepancy model. As a result, 42 explanatory models were conducted in total.
Question 1: Self-reported frequency of destructive conflict
Baseline Model
Before incorporating predictors into this model, a baseline model was established
to determine if the incorporation of additional variables was justified. For research
question 1, the baseline model can be seen below:
Level-1 Model:
TOTALCONFLICTti = !1i*(FSLOPEti) + !2i*(FINTERCEPTti) + !3i*(MSLOPEti) +
!4i*(MINTERCEPTti) + eti
Level-2 Model:
!1i = "10 + r1i
!2i = "20 + r2i
!3i = "30 + r3i
!4i = "40 + r4i
The outcome variable of interest in this question was self-reported conflict. Initial
levels (intercepts) and change over time (slopes) in conflict were assessed separately for
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mothers and for fathers. This outcome was the score for each individual partner of couple
t at time i.
This baseline model indicated that both father and mother intercepts were
significantly different from zero (p < .001), but the slopes (the average level of change)
were not significant. However, the slope for mothers (!2 (169) = 246.37, p < .001) and
the intercept for both parents (F: !2 (169) = 406.33, p < .001; M: !2 (169) = 362.36, p <
.001) indicated significant variability, which allowed for the inclusion of additional
explanatory variables as predictors.
Explanatory Models
Using the baseline model as a guide, actor, partner, and similarity effects were
incorporated into the model as Level-2 predictors for both intercepts and the mothers’
slope:
Level-1 Model TOTALCONFLICTti = !1i*(FSLOPEti) + !2i*(FINTERCEPTti) + !3i*(MSLOPEti) +
!4i*(MINTERCEPTti) + eti
Level-2 Model !1i = "10
!2i = "20 + "21*(actori) + "22*(partneri) + "23*(similarityi) + r2i
!3i = "30 + "31*(actori) + "32*(partneri) + "33*(similarityi) + r3i
!4i = "40 + "41*(actori) + "42*(partneri) + "43*(similarityi) + r4i
The explanatory model yielded significant results for both the intercepts and the slope.
Agreeableness, Neuroticism, and Conscientiousness were found to be significant
predictors of reported conflict within this model.
Specifically, Agreeableness was significant in both models of similarity. In the
ICC model, when mothers or fathers scored higher on Agreeableness, fathers reported
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less initial (intercept) conflict (M: " = -0.13, p < .05; F: " = -0.18, p < .01). When either
parent scored higher on Agreeableness, mothers experienced less conflict initially (an
intercept effect; M: " = -.015, p < .01; F: " = -0.11, p < .05).
Similarly, the discrepancy model also indicated that when either partner scored
higher on Agreeableness, fathers reported less initial conflict (M: " = -0.12, p < .05; F: "
= -0.19, p <. 01). However, the discrepancy model indicated that only mothers’
Agreeableness predicted less conflict initially for mothers (" = -0.18, p < .01).
Neuroticism also yielded significant results for both models. When mothers or
fathers scored higher on Neuroticism, fathers reported more initial conflict (ICC: M: " =
0.12, p < .01; F: " = 0.14, p < .01; Discrepancy: M: " = 0.11, p < .05; F: " = 0.14, p <
.01). Similarly, when either partner reported higher levels of Neuroticism, mothers
reported more initial conflict (ICC: M: " = 0.14, p <.01; F: " = 0.09, p < .05;
Discrepancy: M: " = 0.14, p < .01; F: " = 0.09, p < .05). Interestingly, marital status was
significant in both models with initial conflict. When couples were married, rather than
cohabiting, this provided a buffer against the negative effects of higher Neuroticism
(ICC: " = -0.21, p < .05; Discrepancy: " = -0.29, p < .01).
Conscientiousness was also associated with self-reported conflict; however, this
was only observed in the ICC model. When fathers reported higher levels of
Conscientiousness, they reported less conflict initially (F: " = -0.15, p < .05). Marital
status also seemed to matter in this model, as it provided an additional protective buffer,
as married couples reported less conflict (ICC: " = -0.24, p < .05).
In terms of Attachment Avoidance, both the ICC and Discrepancy models
produced similar results. When fathers reported more Avoidance, both mothers and
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fathers reported more conflict before their child was born (ICC: M: " = 0.10, p < .05; F: "
= 0.19, p < .01; Discrepancy: M: " = 0.11, p < .05; F: " = 0.18, p < .01)
The biggest difference between the two models of similarity was observed with
respect to Attachment Anxiety. These models had some results that were the same, some
that were similar, and some that were unique to one model. Both the ICC and the
discrepancy models found that when fathers or mothers reported higher Anxiety, mothers
reported more conflict before the infant was born (ICC: M: " = 0.11, p < .01; F: " = 0.11,
p < .01; Discrepancy: M: " = 0.14, p < .01; F: " = 0.09, p < .05). Additionally, in both
models, when fathers reported higher Anxiety, they reported more initial conflict before
their child was born (Both models: " = 0.14, p < .01). However, only the ICC model
indicated that when mothers also reported higher Anxiety, fathers reported more initial
conflict before their child was born (" = 0.06, p < .05); both of these models indicated
that married fathers (Both: " = -0.22, p < .05), and fathers with white partners (Both: " =
-0.24, p < .05), reported less conflict. Finally, the Discrepancy model yielded a slope
effect, while the ICC model did not: when mothers reported more Anxiety, they reported
less conflict over time (" = -.03 p < .05). There was even less decrease for white mothers
(" = -.08 p < .05)
Neither Openness nor Extraversion produced any significant results for either the
ICC or discrepancy models. The variables that yielded significant findings for this
question are highlighted in Tables 4-7.
Question 2: Problem solving behaviors
For research question 2, the baseline model can be seen below:
Baseline Model
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Level-1 Model PROBLEMSOLVINGti = !1i*(FSLOPEti) + !2i*(FINTERCEPTti) +
!3i*(MOTHERSLOPEti) + !4i*(MOTHERINTERCEPTti) + eti
Level-2 Model
!1i = "10 + r1i
!2i = "20 + r2i
!3i = "30 + r3i
!4i = "40 + r4i
The outcome variable of interest in this question was problem-solving behavior. Similar
to question 1, this was an individual-level variable. For this variable, a higher score
indicated positive behaviors. Initial levels (intercepts) and change over time (slopes) in
problem solving were assessed separately for mothers and for fathers. While the slopes
were not significant in this model, both of the intercepts were (p < .001). However, the
slopes (F: !2 (129) = 224.11, p < .001; M: !2 (129) = 214.38, p < .001) and intercepts (F:
!2(129) = 314.09, p < .001; M: !2 (129) = 262.69, p < .001) for both fathers and mothers
did have significant variability, which allowed for the incorporation of Level-2
personality and attachment predictors.
Explanatory Models
Using the baseline model as a guide, actor, partner, and similarity effects were
incorporated into the model as Level-2 predictors for both intercepts and slopes:
Level-1 Model
PROBLEMSOLVINGti = !1i*(FATHERSLOPEti) + !2i*(FATHERINCEPTti) +
!3i*(MOTHERSLOPEti) + !4i*(MOTHERINTERCEPTti) + eti
Level-2 Model
!1i = "10 + "11*(actori) + "12*(partneri) + "13*(similarityi) + r1i
!2i = "20 + "21*(actori) + "22*(partneri) + "23*(similarityi) + r2i
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!3i = "30 + "31*(actori) + "32*(partneri) + "33*(similarityi) + r3i
!4i = "40 + "41*(actori) + "42*(partneri) + "43*(similarityi) + r4i
This model yielded significant findings for this research question; interestingly, these
significant results were only observed in the ICC model. When fathers scored higher on
Agreeableness, they demonstrated more problem solving behaviors during the prenatal
period (F: " = 0.44, p < .001). Also, when fathers scored higher on Attachment
Avoidance, fathers engaged in less observable problem solving behavior before their
child was born (F: " = -0.35, p < .05); again, this finding was only observed in the ICC
model. In this model, older fathers exhibited more problem solving behaviors initially ("
= .11, p < .01).
When partners scored more similarly on Avoidance, fathers demonstrated fewer
problem-solving behaviors over time (" = -0.35, p < .05); in this case, older fathers also
demonstrated less problem solving behaviors than their younger counterparts (" = -0.04,
p < .01).
No significant results were found for Agreeableness in the discrepancy model.
Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Neuroticism, and Attachment Anxiety also
did not produce any significant findings for either model. The results that were significant
for this research question can be found in Tables 8-11.
Question 3: Negative escalation behaviors
Baseline Model
Before incorporating predictors into this model, a baseline model must be
established to determine if the incorporation of additional variables is justified. For
research question 3, the baseline model can be seen below:
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Level-1 Model
NEGATIVEti = !0i + !1i*(LINEARti) + eti
Level-2 Model
!0i = "00 + r0i
!1i = "10 + r1i
In this question, the outcome variable of interest was negative escalation. Unlike
questions 1 and 2, this variable is a couple-level variable. As a result, there was no need
for separate intercepts and slopes for men and women.
The baseline model demonstrated that while the intercept was significant (p
<.001), the slope was not significant. However, both the intercept (!2 (128) = 273.53, p
<.001) and slope (!2 (!2 (128) = 223.38, p < .001) showed significant variability, which
allowed for the inclusion of personality and attachment predictors at Level-2.
Explanatory Models
Using the baseline model as a guide, individual characteristics for each parent,
along with similarity effects, were incorporated into the model as Level-2 predictors for
both intercepts and slopes:
Level-1 Model
NEGATIVEti = !0i + !1i*(LINEARti) + eti
Level-2 Model
!0i = "00 + "01*(malei) + "02*(femalei) + "03*(similarityi) + r0i
!1i = "10 + "11*(malei) + "12*(femalei) + "13*(similarityi) + r1i
This model yielded significant findings for Agreeableness, Neuroticism,
Attachment Anxiety, and Attachment Avoidance. When mothers reported higher levels of
Agreeableness, couples engaged in less observable negative escalation behaviors before
their child was born (ICC: " = -0.39, p < .01; Discrepancy: " = -0.46, p <.01). This was
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true for both the ICC model as well as the discrepancy model. However, the discrepancy
model yielded an additional finding: when couples scored more similarly in
Agreeableness, they engaged in more negative escalation behavior before the birth of
their child (" = 0.31, p = .05). In both models, the age of fathers was significant (Both
models: " = -0.04, p <.05 ); couples with older fathers exhibited less observable negative
escalation behaviors initially. In both models, when fathers reported higher levels of
Neuroticism, couples engaged in more negative escalation over time (Both models: " =
0.14, p < .05).
In terms of Attachment Avoidance, both models yielded results. When fathers or
mothers were more Avoidant, couples engaged in more negative escalation before their
child was born ICC: M: " = 0.17, p < .05; F: " = 0.29, p < .01; Discrepancy: M: " = 0.18,
p < .01; F: " = 0.33, p < .01); couples with older fathers engaged in less negative
escalation (Both models: " = -.04, p < .05). Interestingly, when parents scored similarly
in Attachment Anxiety (in the ICC model), they engaged in less negative escalation
behavior before the birth of their child (ICC: " = -0.45, p < .05).
Neither model of similarity produced significant results for Extraversion,
Openness, or Conscientiousness for this research question. The variables that did produce
significant results are summarized in Tables 12-15.
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Chapter 5: Discussion
This study has a number of strengths that make it a unique contribution to the
field. Specifically, it is one of few longitudinal studies of relationships that has examined
conflict as an outcome variable. This study was also unique in its use of attachment and
personality and similarity in these psychological constructs to predict conflict across the
transition to parenthood. In addition to this advantageous use of longitudinal data, this
study was also able to use dyadic data to begin to hint at larger family processes, rather
than individual-level processes. Further, this study was able to not only examine conflict
using self-report data, but also incorporated observational data on conflict across multiple
time points. The findings of this study indicate that both personality and attachment are
important to understanding relationship conflict across the transition to parenthood.
For each of the three research questions, the baseline models indicated that the
intercepts were significantly different from zero. These intercepts also varied
significantly, which allowed for the inclusion of personality and attachment predictors at
Level-2 in an attempt to understand individual differences in conflict behaviors for
couples before the birth of their child.
Interestingly, none of the slopes were significant; this means that on average,
there is no change in conflict behaviors over the transition to parenthood for both the self-
report data and the observational data. This is consistent with previous findings that
conflict is a stable characteristic of couple relationships over time (Kamp Dush, 2011),
and extends these findings to suggest that conflict is also stable across an important and
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stressful relationship transition. Most of the slopes varied significantly, which indicated
individual differences in patterns of change in conflict behaviors. For this reason,
personality traits and attachment styles were used as predictors to try to understand
individual initial differences and change over time for couples.
Both attachment and personality variables, particularly for fathers, were
significantly related to initial levels of destructive conflict frequency, problem-solving
behaviors, and negative escalation behaviors. These findings suggest that attachment and
personality really are enduring vulnerabilities, as suggested by the VSA model (Karney
& Bradbury, 1995). In other words, couples adapt in different ways during this time of
stress based on the vulnerabilities they exhibit before their child is even born. These
results indicated that both dimensions of Attachment, as well as some measures of
personality (Neuroticism and Agreeableness) predict interpersonal conflict in intimate
relationships.
While some similarity results were documented, similarity did not seem to matter
as much as Actor and Partner effects. While differences were found between the two
models of similarity, one does not seem to produce a greater advantage over the other.
More often than not, the results were the same (or very similar). Most typically, the actor
or partner effects that lost significance between models only dropped to trends, indicating
that the similarity effects were not as important as the main effects of the characteristics
of individuals.
It is noteworthy that overall, the characteristics of fathers seemed to be very
important; this was true for both personality and attachment. This importance reiterates
the need to study both individuals within the couple context, as both Actor and Partner
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effects were important. While the importance of maternal characteristics has been
established during this time of transition (Bower et al., 2012), the role of paternal
characteristics on conflict in the family context has been studied less frequently
(Cummings, Goeke-Morey, & Raymond, 2004). Father psychological characteristics are
associated not only with marital functioning, but have also been linked to child outcomes
(Du Rocher Schuldich & Cummings, 2003).
Question 1: Self-reported frequency of destructive conflict
The results for the ICC and Discrepancy models produced the same findings for
Neuroticism: when either parent scored higher on Neuroticism, they and their partner
both reported more frequent destructive conflict before the birth of their child; actor and
partner effects were both very important in this model. The harmful effect of
Neuroticism on relationships is well documented, and Neuroticism has been consistently
shown to be highly associated with conflict (and other relational constructs) within
intimate relationships (Caughlin et al., 2000; Belsky & Hsieh, 1998). These findings are
consistent with the findings of the current study.
The effect of fathers’ Conscientiousness was also important; when fathers
reported higher levels of Conscientiousness, they reported less frequent destructive
conflict before their child was born; this was only observed in the ICC model of
similarity There have been mixed findings on the role that Conscientiousness (also
commonly referred to as Constraint) plays in relationships. In the current study, this is a
beneficial trait to have in relationships, and helped reduce the frequency of destructive
conflict. It has previously been suggested that Conscientiousness may play this role in
relationships (Robins et al., 2000), as one of the main components of this trait is impulse
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control and self-regulation. It would make sense those individuals who score highly on
this trait would be more self-aware regarding their conflict behaviors, and may
consciously work to avoid frequent destructive arguments.
In addition to this, Agreeableness was also significant. In both models, when
either mothers or fathers reported higher levels of Agreeableness, fathers reported less
frequent destructive conflict before the birth of their child. Similarly, in both models,
when mothers reported higher levels of Agreeableness, they reported less frequent
destructive conflict initially. In addition to this, the ICC model also found that when
fathers reported more Agreeableness, mothers reported less frequent destructive conflict
across this transition. These findings confirm previous research that Agreeableness is a
beneficial trait for relationships (Wood & Bell, 2008; Belsky & Hseih, 1998).
Both dimensions of Attachment were significantly associated with self-reported
frequency of destructive conflict. In both the ICC and Discrepancy models, when fathers
scored higher on Avoidance, both mothers and fathers reported more conflict before their
child was born. The reason for this increased frequency of destructive conflict makes
sense. A tendency of Avoidantly Attached individuals is to withdraw; when this happens,
partners become more likely to pursue (Eldrige & Christensen, 2002) and this may lead
to a conflict. This frustrating (for both parties) cycle may lead to the more frequent
destructive conflict that both of them reported.
There were also a number of findings regarding Attachment Anxiety. In both
models, when fathers or mothers reported higher Anxiety, mothers reported more
frequent destructive conflict initially. Additionally, both models indicated that when
fathers reported higher Anxiety, fathers reported more frequent initial destructive
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conflict; on top of this, the ICC model also found this effect when mothers reported
higher Anxiety. Campbell et al. (2005) also found this same association between Anxiety
and conflict; individuals with higher Anxiety reported more destructive conflict
frequency and negative escalation. Additionally, these couples were observed engaging in
more negative escalation behaviors.
The discrepancy model also had a unique finding: when mothers reported higher
Anxiety, they reported less frequent destructive conflict over time. This finding is
inconsistent with much of the past work in this area. For example, Rholes et al. (2001)
found that higher mothers’ Anxiety was associated with lower relationship satisfaction, as
well as a measure of relationship functioning that included conflict. It is possible these
parents may be scoring higher on Anxiety during the pre-natal period, while they are
reforming their family system to prepare for their child’s arrival. This experience comes
with role shifts, and this may be a difficult experience for highly Anxious individuals,
which in turn may lead to conflict. The slope effect may be explained by the possibility
that these highly Anxious individuals are settling into their new roles with their child and
their partner, and with a reduction in this Anxiety, are engaging in less frequent
destructive conflict.
Question 2: Problem solving behaviors
When assessing problem-solving behaviors in terms of partner or actor effects of
personality and attachment, it seems that only father (actor) effects were important. It is
also important to note that only the ICC model of similarity yielded significant results.
When fathers reported higher Agreeableness, they reported more problem-solving
behaviors before their child was born. This is backed by other findings that suggest
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higher levels of Agreeableness are associated with more positive, and less negative,
relational interactions (Donnellan et al, 2004). In practice, this makes sense, as the facets
of Agreeableness include cooperation and compliance, and problem solving would
naturally be a part of these tendencies.
Fathers’ Attachment Avoidance was also important. When fathers reported higher
levels of Avoidance, fathers were observed engaging in less frequent problem solving
behaviors before their child was born. This finding seems to be one of the first of its
kind, as no other studies have used Attachment (as measured by the ECR) to predict
longitudinal, observational problem-solving behaviors. While these findings should be
confirmed, the direction of effects makes sense. Fathers who are more emotionally
avoidant in times of stress are not likely to easily demonstrate cooperative efforts in
emotional discussion of conflict.
Question 3: Negative escalation behaviors
Both the ICC and the Discrepancy models of similarity indicated that Attachment
Avoidance was significantly associated with negative escalation. When either parent was
more Avoidant, couples engaged in more observable negative escalation before their
child was born. This is consistent with previous research, which has suggested that
insecure attachment, particularly for fathers, is associated with more negative escalation
(Paley et al., 2005).
The two models of similarity also had the same findings for Agreeableness. When
mothers were more Agreeable, couples engaged in less negative escalation before their
child was born; of these couples. According to Donnellan et al. (2004), Agreeableness is
negatively associated with observable negative interactions in intimate relationships. This
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makes sense; couples with individuals who are more Agreeable will be less likely to
engage in fighting, and less likely to engage in destructive conflict behaviors when they
do fight. Even if one partner says something negative, the other partner is more likely to
diffuse the situation, rather than escalate it.
The findings for Neuroticism were also consistent with past research. Both the
ICC and Discrepancy models indicated that when fathers scored higher on Neuroticism,
couples engaged in more negative escalation across the transition to parenthood.
Caughlin et al. (2000) found that individuals who scored higher on Neuroticism engaged
in more observable conflict behaviors (marital negativity) over time. Overall,
Neuroticism is consistently predictive of the negative aspects of relationship functioning
(decreased satisfaction, increased conflict, etc).
Similarity Effects
While the associations between attachment and observed conflict over the
transition to parenthood have been examined in the past (Paley et al., 2005), no studies
have examined the role of attachment similarity between partners during this period. This
study was the first to examine similarity during the transition to parenthood, and found
that in couples who were more similarly Avoidant (in the ICC model), fathers
demonstrated fewer problem-solving behaviors over time. If couples are similarly, highly
Avoidant, it makes sense that fathers will not be engaging in problem solving, as highly
Avoidant individuals would not be comfortable engaging in an emotional discussion of
conflict. If partners are similarly low on Avoidance, it is possible that they are simply
more secure and confident in their relationship, and feel less of a need to engage in active
problem solving during this task. This effect may be observed more easily from fathers,
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as question 2 indicated that fathers Attachment Avoidance (actor effects) were important
for their problem solving behaviors, but mothers’ Avoidance (partner effect) by itself was
not.
Further, when couples were more similar on Attachment Anxiety (in the ICC
model of similarity), they engaged in less negative escalation behavior before their child
was born. While higher Attachment Anxiety may be associated with increased conflict
(as results for question 1 indicated), similarity may not necessarily be harmful. Similarity
may mean that both partners have low Anxiety scores; however, even if both parents
score highly, this may be beneficial to them. As Gonzaga et al. (2007) indicated, when
dyads are more similar, they may be more likely to engage in more shared emotional
experiences. This shared understanding may help to be a buffer against potential negative
conflict.
However, the Discrepancy model an additional finding; when couples were more
similarly Agreeable, they engaged in more negative escalation behaviors. This does not
indicate whether or not couples are similarly low or high on this trait. If both parents are
similarly low on Agreeableness, then increased observations of negative escalation would
be consistent with previous findings (Donnellan et al, 2004). However, if couples are
similarly high in Agreeableness, this finding appears to be counterintuitive. One
possibility is that couples may be engaging in “social mirroring”. This is when
individuals unconsciously engage in behaviors that imitate others; this trait has been
linked with increased levels of empathy (Iacoboni, 2009). Empathy and Agreeableness
are highly related, as both deal with the quality of interpersonal behaviors (Costa,
McCrae, & Dye, 1991), and are associated with pro-social behaviors (Graziano &
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Eisenberg, 1997). It is possible that couples who are similarly high in Agreeableness are
unknowingly engaging in mirroring behaviors, and may be feeding into a negative cycle
of escalation by reinforcing one another’s behaviors.
Demographic Effects
A number of demographic effects were significant throughout these models. The
most consistent finding among these was that married couples reported less conflict than
cohabiting couples did. Earlier work has indicated that differences do exist between
couples that decide to cohabit and those that do not. Specifically, it has been shown that
couples who cohabited engaged in conflict in different ways (less positive, and more
negative) than their counterparts (Cohan & Kleinbaum, 2002).
Couples with white mothers also seemed to fair better than those with non-White
mothers, as they reported less frequent destructive conflict. Race has been shown to be
slightly associated with relationship change during the transition to parenthood; white
couples reported higher levels of marital adjustment than black couples (Tucker, James,
& Turner, 1985). It is possible that these differences exist due to other variables that are
associated with race, such as socio-economic status (Costello, Keeler, & Angold, 2001).
Finally, the age of fathers appeared to have mixed results. Couples with older
fathers engaged in more problem solving behaviors before the birth of their child, but
couples with older fathers engaged in less problem solving behaviors over time. While
the effects of father age may seem contradictory or counterintuitive at first glance, the
explanation may be simpler. It is possible that older fathers are more set in their roles,
and thus have more experience negotiating conflict in a positive problem-solving manner.
However, as these fathers demonstrate higher problem solving skills, they also have the
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“furthest to fall” so to speak. Interestingly, couples with older fathers did not exhibit as
much negative escalation. For a number of these models, couples with older fathers
tended to engage in less observable negative escalation. It is possible that older fathers
have had more time to plan to parenthood, and thus the family has greater resources
during this time of transition; this may be especially important, as finances are one of the
most commonly argued topics among couples; in this sample, almost 18% of couples
chose to discuss this topic (this was tied with household tasks as the most common issue
couples discussed).
Strengths, limitations, and directions for future research
Despite its strengths, this study was not conducted without limitations.
Specifically, this study has four main drawbacks. The first of these issues is the
homogeneity of this sample; for the most part, this is a very highly educated sample, with
a majority of White parents, who have a relatively high level of income. As a result, the
findings of this study may not be generalizable to all couples experiencing the transition
to parenthood. As similar projects move forward with their own data collection,
researchers should take careful note of their sampling procedures to help counteract this
limitation.
Secondly, the reliability of some of the observational data is a bit low at some
phases. Coding is not yet complete on these observational variables; this low reliability
may account for the fact that research questions two and three had fewer significant
findings than the self-report data used in research question one. Once coding is complete,
and reliability has been fully achieved, these variables may yield further significant
findings.
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In addition to this, there is a possibility of shared method variance. Research
question 1 yielded more significant results than the other two questions. Due to the fact
that the outcome, a self-report measure, was predicted by another self-report measure, it
is possible that shared method variance bias inflated these associations. Structural
equation modeling techniques, such as latent growth curve modeling, could be used in
future research to control that type of bias. Finally, the analyses for this study used linear
modeling because there were only four time points in this study, and in that case linear
modeling is most appropriate. Future studies should work to include more time points so
that non-linear models may be used (Raudenbush & Bryk, 2002).
As the field moves forward, and the issue of similarity measurement is settled,
there are additional measurement issues that should be considered. While the short-form
version of the NEO can provide researchers with an accurate snapshot of personality,
there is a need to delve deeper into these traits. Specifically, how are the facets of each
trait related to relationship conflict or relationship satisfaction? Similarity on all facets
may not necessarily be beneficial, even if similarity on an overall trait demonstrates this.
This study did not work to address all of these issues, but was instead meant as an
exploratory study that may help guide future work, particularly regarding similarity.
These results may also help to guide future intervention work with couples and
families. Some couples may be targeted for intervention and future study, such as
younger, cohabiting couples, as they appear to be more at risk. These findings suggest the
importance of working with these couples as early as possible. If couples adapt to the
stress of having a child by establishing negative patterns of conflict based on their
enduring vulnerabilities, they may become too set in these patterns to change their
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behavior. Attachment may be more malleable than personality, and it is possible for these
findings to be used in the therapeutic process. Susan Johnson and her colleagues
(Johnson, Makinen, & Millikin, 2001) work with couples to understand how attachment
processes influence their relationship. The current findings may be used in programs such
as this to help couples change these processes to engage in less conflict, and more
constructive conflict, especially during times of stress, such as the transition to
parenthood.
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Appendices
Appendix A: Tables
Table 1
Means and Standard Deviations of Study Variables
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5. F1 Frequency .50** .42** .32** .34** 1.00
6. F2 Frequency .37** .49** .27** .33** 368** 1.00
7. F3 Frequency .42** .39** .44** .39** .67** .63** 1.00
8. F4 Frequency .50** .40** .39** .43** .71** .60** .77** 1.00
9.M1 Problem -.00 .06 -.14 -.13 -.06 .01 -.17 -.05 1.00
10. M2 Problem .08 .05 -.06 -.12 -.03 -.06 -.09 .00 .34** 1.00
11. M4 Problem -.17 -.11 -.28** -.274** -.00 .00 -.14 .00 .35** .35** 1.00
12. F1 Problem -.08 -.05 -.25** -.25** -.13 -.15 -.23* -.05 .62** .29** .34** 1.00
13. F2 Problem .10 .06 .00 -.16 -.00 -.04 -.02 .02 .35** .61** .37** .49** 1.00
14. F4 Problem -.16 -.15 -.25* -.35** -.10 -.03 -.07 -.08 .29** 330** .75** .44** .39** 1.00
15. Neg Esc 1 .24** -.01 .22* .11 .14 .11 .17 .15 -.36** -.03 -.17 -.37** -.18 -.15 1.00
16.Neg Esc 2 .10 .17 .18 .11 .17 .14 .18 .13 -.22* -.12 -.06 -.13 -.15 -.02 .45** 1.00
17. Neg Esc 4 .14 .38** .15 .16 .19* .22* .20 .16 .06 -.08 -.20* -.10 -.03 -.14 .17 .41** 1.00
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Table 4
Significant Predictors of the Intercept for Question 1: Self-Reported Conflict
!""#$%&'(#!
!Mother Father #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! 1! 1! !2-3(4)$5$0%! 6! 6! !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! 1! !
89)(':-(0$4/! ! ! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! 6! 6! !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! ! 6! !
Discrepancy Model
! Mother Father #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! !" !" !
2-3(4)$5$0%!#" #"
!
74/05$-/)$430/-00! " " !
89)(':-(0$4/! " " !
;<-//-00! " " !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! #" #" !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! " #" !
Note: + = beneficial to relationship; - = harmful to relationship
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Table 5
Significant Predictors of the Slope for Question 1: Self-Reported Conflict
!""#$%&'(#!
! @4)=-(!! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! !2-3(4)$5$0%! " " !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! " !89)(':-(0$4/!
!! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*!!" " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-!" " !
)*+,-'./0,1#$%&'(!
! @4)=-(! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! " !
2-3(4)$5$0%! " " !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! ! !
89)(':-(0$4/! ! ! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! " " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! " " !
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Table 6
Personality Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 1
Parameter Neuroticism Openness Conscientiousness Extraversion Agreeableness
ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc
F slope,
Intercept, .00 .00 -.01 -.01 .00 .00 .00 -.01 .00 .00
Mother’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Similarity personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
F intercept,
Intercept, 1.92** 1.92**
1.59**
1.59**
1.89** 1.91** 1.58** 1.59** 1.77** 1.77**
Mother’s personality 0.12** 0.11*
-- -- -.03 -.03 -- -- -.13* -.13*
Father’s personality 0.14** .14**
-- -- -.15* -.012 -- -- -.18** -.19**
Similarity personality -.03 .04 -- -- -.10 .08 -- -- .05 -.02
Mother Age .01 .01 -- -- .01 .01 -- -- .01 -.01
Father Age .00 .00 -- -- .00 .00 -- -- .00 .00
Mother Education .01 .02 -- -- -.03 -.04 -- -- -.01 -.02 Father Education -.07 -.07 -- -- -.00 -.01 -- -- -.00 -.01
Marital Status -.29** -.29**
-- -- -.24* -.27* -- -- -.18 -.18
Relationship Duration -.00 -.00 -- -- .00 -.00 -- -- -.01 -.01
Income .00 .00 -- -- .00 .00 -- -- .00 .00
M Race -.16 -.16 -- -- -.21* -.22* -- -- -.15 -.16
F Race .09 .09 -- -- .13 .14 -- -- .12 .13
M slope,
Intercept, .00 .00 .00 .00 0.13** .13** .00 .00 .00 .00
Mother’s personality -- -- -- -- -.03 -.03 -- -- -- --
Father’s personality -- -- -- -- -.02 .03 -- -- -- --
Similarity personality -- -- -- -- -.02 .03 -- -- -- --
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Mother Age -- -- -- -- -.00 -.00 -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- -- .00 .00 -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- -- .00 -.00 -- -- -- --
Father Education -- -- -- -- -.01 -.01 -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- -- -.07 -.07 -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- -- .00 .00 -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- -- .00 -.00 -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- -- -.02 -.02 -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- -- -.05 -.04 -- -- -- --
M intercept,
Intercept, 1.84** 1.84**
1.82**
1.83**
1.56** 1.56** 1.56** 1.82** 1.72** 1.73**
Mother’s personality .14** .14**
.08 .07 -- -- -- .07 -.15** .18**
Father’s personality .09 .09* -.03 -.03 -- -- -- -.03 -.11* -.06
Similarity personality -.07 -.02 -.03 -.12 -- -- -- -.11 -.05 .10
Mother Age -.00 -.00 -.00 -.00 -- -- -- .00 -.00 .00
Father Age .00 .00 .01 .01 -- -- -- .00 .01 .01
Mother Education .00 .01 -.01 -.00 -- -- -- -.00 -.02 -.00
Father Education -.03 -.03 -.01 -.02 -- -- -- -.02 .02 .02
Marital Status -.21* -.21*
-.17 -.17 -- -- -- -.15 -.12 -.12
Relationship Duration .00 .00 -.00 .00 -- -- -- .00 -.00 -.01
Income .00 .00 -.00 -.00 -- -- -- -.00 -.00 -.00
M Race .01 .01 -.02 -.04 -- -- -- -.03 -.00 .01
F Race -.10 -.10 -.10 -.08 -- -- -- -.10 -.07 -.09
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Table 7
Attachment Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 1
Parameter Attachment Avoidance
Attachment Anxiety
ICC Disc ICC Disc
F slope,
Intercept, -.00 -.00 -.00 -.00
Mother’s Attachment - -- - -- -- --
Father’s Attachment -- -- -- --
Similarity Attachment -- -- -- --
Mother Age -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- --
Father Education -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- --
F intercept,
Intercept, 1.79** 1.81** 1.92** 1.92**
Mother’s Attachment .04 .04 .06* .06
Father’s Attachment .19** .18** .14** .14**
Similarity Attachment .15 -.02 .02 -.01
Mother Age .01 .01 .01 .01
Father Age -.00 -.00 -.00 -.00
Mother Education -.02 -.02 -.01 .01
Father Education -.06 -.06 .07 .07
Marital Status -.17 -.18 -.22* -.22*
Relationship Duration .00 .00 .01 .01
Income .00 .00 .00 .00
M Race -.16 -.18 -.24* -.24*
F Race .14 .15 .12 .12
M slope,
Intercept, .01 .01 .01 .11*
Mother’s Attachment -- -- -- -.03*
Father’s Attachment -- -- -- .01
Similarity Attachment -- -- -- .02
Mother Age -- -- -- -.01
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Father Age -- -- -- .00
Mother Education -- -- -- -.02
Father Education -- -- -- -.00
Marital Status -- -- -- .02
Relationship Duration -- -- -- .01
Income -- -- -- .00
M Race -- -- -- -.08*
F Race -- -- -- -.03
M intercept,
Intercept, 1.74** 1.74** 1.80** 1.58**
Mother’s Attachment .07 .07 .10** .14**
Father’s Attachment .10* .11* .11** .09*
Similarity Attachment .03 -.04 -.09 .01
Mother Age .00 -.00 -.00 .01
Father Age .00 .00 .00 -.00
Mother Education .02 .01 .01 .06
Father Education -.06 -.06 -.05 -.05
Marital Status -.11 -.11 -.11 -.16
Relationship Duration .01 .01 .01 -.00
Income -.00 -.00 .00 -.00
M Race -.02 -.01 -.06 .12
F Race -.06 -.06 -.08 -.01
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Table 8
Significant Predictors of the Intercept for Question 2: problem-solving behaviors
!""#$%&'(#!
!@4)=-(!! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00!" !" !
2-3(4)$5$0%!" " !
74/05$-/)$430/-00!! " !
89)(':-(0$4/! !! !
;<-//-00!! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*!" " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! " #" !
)*+,-'./0,1#$%&'(!
! @4)=-(! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! " " !2-3(4)$5$0%!
" " !74/05$-/)$430/-00!
! ! !89)(':-(0$4/! ! ! !;<-//-00!
! ! !+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*!
" " !+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-!
" " !
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Table 9
Significant Predictors of the Slope for Question 2: Problem-solving behaviors
!""#$%&'(#!
! @4)=-(!! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! " " !2-3(4)$5$0%! " " !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! " !
89)(':-(0$4/! !! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! " " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! " " #"
)*+,-'./0,1#$%&'(!
! @4)=-(! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! " " !
2-3(4)$5$0%! " " !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! ! !
89)(':-(0$4/! ! ! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! " " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! " " !
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Table 10
Personality Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 2
Parameter Neuroticism Openness Conscientiousness Extraversion Agreeableness
ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc
F slope,
Intercept, -.05 -.06 -.06 -.06 -.06 -.06 -.06 -.06 -.06 -.06
Mother’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Similarity personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
F intercept,
Intercept, 3.02** 3.02** 3.02** 3.02** 3.03** 3.03** 3.03** 3.03** 2.81** 3.03
**
Mother’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .10 --
Father’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .44** --
Similarity personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.01 --
Mother Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.00 --
Father Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.02** --
Mother Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .31 --
Father Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .19 --
Marital Status -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.33 --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .01 --
Income -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.00 --
M Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .01 --
F Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .16
M slope,
Intercept, -.08 -.08 -.08 -.08 -.08 -.08 -.08 -.08 -.08 -.08
Mother’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Similarity personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
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Father Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
M intercept,
Intercept, 3.22** 3.22** 3.22** 3.22** 3.22** 3.22** 3.22** 3.22** 3.22** 3.22
** Mother’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father’s personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Similarity personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
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Table 11
Attachment Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 2
Parameter Attachment Avoidance
Attachment Anxiety
ICC Disc ICC Disc
F slope,
Intercept, .09 -.07 -.06 -.07
Mother’s Attachment . .11 - -- -- --
Father’s Attachment .06 -- -- --
Similarity Attachment -.35* -- -- --
Mother Age .01 -- -- --
Father Age -.04** -- -- --
Mother Education .04 -- -- --
Father Education -.14 -- -- --
Marital Status .10 -- -- --
Relationship Duration .01 -- -- --
Income .00 -- -- --
M Race .13 -- -- --
F Race -.32 -- -- --
F intercept,
Intercept, 2.51** 3.10** 3.05** 3.05**
Mother’s Attachment -.25 -- -- --
Father’s Attachment -.35* -- -- --
Similarity Attachment .54 -- -- --
Mother Age -.02 -- -- --
Father Age .11** -- -- --
Mother Education .26 -- -- --
Father Education .48 -- -- --
Marital Status -.51 -- -- --
Relationship Duration -.01 -- -- --
Income -.00 -- -- --
M Race -.17 -- -- --
F Race .70 -- -- --
M slope,
Intercept, -.08* -.08 -.09 -.09
Mother’s Attachment -- -- -- --
Father’s Attachment -- -- -- --
Similarity Attachment -- -- -- --
Mother Age -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- --
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Father Education -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- --
M intercept,
Intercept, 2.96** 2.98** 3.26** 3.26**
Mother’s Attachment -.10 -.08 -- --
Father’s Attachment -.15 -.15 -- --
Similarity Attachment -.17 -.14 -- --
Mother Age .01 .01 -- --
Father Age .02 .02 -- --
Mother Education .28 .26 -- --
Father Education .08 .09 -- --
Marital Status -.26 -.27 -- --
Relationship Duration -.01 -.01 -- --
Income -.00 -.00 -- --
M Race .33 .26 -- --
F Race -.04 .01 -- --
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Table 12
Significant Predictors of the Intercept for Question 3: Negative escalation behaviors
!""#$%&'(#!
! @4)=-(!! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! !"" !
2-3(4)$5$0%! " " !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! " !
89)(':-(0$4/! !! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! " " !"
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! #" #" !
)*+,-'./0,1#$%&'(!
! @4)=-(! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! !" " #"
2-3(4)$5$0%! " " !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! ! !
89)(':-(0$4/! ! ! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! " " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! #" #" !
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Table 13
Significant Predictors of the Slope for Question 3: Negative escalation behaviors
!""#$%&'(#!
! @4)=-(!! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! " " !2-3(4)$5$0%! " #" !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! " !
89)(':-(0$4/! !! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! " " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! " " !
)*+,-'./0,1#$%&'(!
! @4)=-(! A')=-(! #$%$&'($)*!
+,(--'.&-/-00! " " !
2-3(4)$5$0%! " #" !
74/05$-/)$430/-00! ! ! !
89)(':-(0$4/! ! ! !
;<-//-00! ! ! !
+))'5=%-/)!+/9$-)*! " " !
+))'5=%-/)!+:4$>'/5-! " " !
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Table 14
Personality Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 3
Parameter Neuroticism Openness Conscientiousness Extraversion Agreeableness
ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc ICC Disc
Intercept,
Intercept, 1.41** 1.41** 1.41** 1.41** 1.41** 1.40** 1.40** 1.41** 1.41** 1.68**
Mother Personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.39** -.46**
Father Personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.23 -.06
Similarity personality -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .08 .29*
Mother Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .00 .00
Father Age -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.04* -.02*
Mother Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .24 -.13
Father Education -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .20 .16
Marital Status -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.13 -.18
Relationship Duration -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- .04 .06
Income -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.00 -.00
M Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.10 -.14
F Race -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -.30 -.22
Slope,
Intercept, -.29 -.29 -.01 -.01 -.01 -.01 -.01 -.00 -.01 -.01
Mother Personality .04 .03 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father personality .14* .14* -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Similarity personality .01 .04 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Age -.00 -.00 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Age -.01 -.01 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Mother Education .04 .04 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Father Education -.01 -.01 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Marital Status .20 .20 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -.00 -.00 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
Income .00 .00 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
M Race .13 .13 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
F Race -.03 -.03 -- -- -- -- -- -- -- --
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Table 15
Attachment Hierarchical Linear Model Results for Question 3
Parameter Attachment Avoidance
Attachment Anxiety
ICC Disc ICC Disc
Intercept,
Intercept, 1.41** 1.14** 1.38** 1.77**
Mother Attachment .17* .18** -- --
Father Attachment 29** .33** -- --
Similarity Attachment .16 -.14 -.36** -.22**
Mother Age -.00 -.01 -.00 .00
Father Age -.04* -.04* -.03 -.04**
Mother Education .07 .06 .10 .20
Father Education .08 .09 .04 .15
Marital Status .11 .10 .06 -.22
Relationship Duration .03 .03 .01 .04
Income -.00 -.00 .00 -.00
M Race -.07 -.07 .02 -.12
F Race -.05 -.08 -.16 -.35
Slope,
Intercept, .03 .03 -.03 .03
Mother Attachment -- -- -- --
Father Attachment -- -- -- --
Similarity Attachment -- -- -- --
Mother Age -- -- -- --
Father Age -- -- -- --
Mother Education -- -- -- --
Father Education -- -- -- --
Marital Status -- -- -- --
Relationship Duration -- -- -- --
Income -- -- -- --
M Race -- -- -- --
F Race -- -- -- --
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Appendix B. Demographic Questionnaire
1. Participant #: ______________ Zip Code: ____________________ 2. Today’s Date (Month/Day/Year): ______________________________________ 3. Your birth date (Month/Day/Year): ___________________________________ 4. Baby’s Due Date (Month/Day/Year): ___________________________________ 5. Your gender: _____________________ 6. Are you of Hispanic, Latino, or Spanish origin? a. No, not of Hispanic, Latino, or Spanish origin b. Yes, Mexican, Mexican Am., Chicano c. Yes, Puerto Rican d. Yes, Cuban e. Yes, other Hispanic, Latino, or Spanish origin—Print origin (e.g., Argentinean, Columbian, Dominican, Nicaraguan, Salvadoran, etc.) 7. Which of these categories best describes your race? Mark one or more White Black, African- American American Indian or Alaskan Native Asian Indian Chinese Filipino Japanese Korean Vietnamese Native Hawaiian Guamanian or Chamorro Samoan Other Asian—Print race (e.g., Hmong, Laotian, Thai, Pakistani, Cambodian, etc.) ____ Other Pacific Islander—Print race (e.g., Fijian, Tongan, etc.) ________________ Some other race—Print Race ______________ 8. Are you and your partner currently living together? All or most of the time Some of the time Rarely Never 9. When was the (approximate) date you and your partner moved in together?___ 10. Are you and your partner married?________________________ Yes No 11. Marriage date if married (Month/Day/Year): __________________ 12. If you are not married, do you and your partner have plans to marry in the future? No Yes, when do you expect to marry? __________________
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13. How many marriages have you had that ended in separation or divorce? ________________ 14. For how many of these dissolved marriages did you live together with your partner prior to the date of your marriage? _________________ 15. Did any of your previous spouses have a child(ren) that lived with you? Yes No 16. Apart from your current partner, have you ever lived as a couple with anyone for a month or more when you were not married to him or her? _____________________ 17. If yes, NOT including your current partner, how many partners have you lived with as a couple for a month or more when you were not married to him or her? ________________ 18. Did any of your previous partners that you lived with while unmarried have a child(ren) that lived with you? Yes No 19. Would you say that your biological or adoptive father was very involved, somewhat involved, not very involved, or not at all involved in raising you? Very involved Somewhat involved Not very involved Not at all involved 20. To what extent will you use the way your father or father figure raised you as a model for raising your own children? Very involved Somewhat involved Not very involved Not at all involved 21. Besides you and your partner, who lives in your household? No others living in our household Mother Father Mother-in-law Father-in-law Your brother Your sister Brother-in-law Sister-in-law Other(s 22. The home or apartment where you currently reside is: a. owned by you and/or your partner. b. owned by someone in your household besides you and your partner. c. rented. 23. Circle the degree to which this baby was planned or unplanned: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Not at all planned Neither Definitely planned 24. Circle the number that best indicates how you felt when you found out you were pregnant. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Very unhappy to be pregnant Very happy to be pregnant 25. Do you intend to or are you currently going to a childbirth preparation or parenting class (circle one)? Yes No Undecided If yes, please describe:____________________
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26. Do you intend to or are you currently seeing a doctor or other health care professional to check on the pregnancy? Regularly seeing doctor Have seen doctor, but not currently Have not seen doctor, but previously, but not intend to Have not seen doctor and do not intend to 27. What is the sex of your baby? Girl Boy Don’t know 28. What is your religion? Adventist AME, AME Zion, CME Assemblies of God Baptist Buddhist Catholic Christian Church/Disciples of Christ Christian Science Congregational Eastern Orthodox Episcopal Friends/Quaker Hindu Holiness Islam, Moslem, Muslim Jehovah’s Witness Jewish (Conservative, Reformed, Orthodox, or Reconstructionist) Latter Day Saints (Mormon) Lutheran Methodist other Protestant other religion Pentecostal Presbyterian Unitarian None
29. How important is religion to you? Very important Fairly important Fairly unimportant Not important at all
30. Which best describes your current level of education (circle one)? Less than high school High school degree or GED Vocational or tech program Associate’s degree Bachelor’s degree Master’s degree Doctorate degree (e.g., Ph.D., M.D., J.D., etc) 31. Is your education complete? Yes No
32. If education is not yet completed, which best describes your desired level of education (circle one)? Less than high school High school degree or GED Vocational or tech program Associate’s degree Bachelor’s degree Master’s degree Doctorate degree (e.g., Ph.D., M.D., J.D., etc)
33. Are you currently enrolled in school? Yes No
34. If yes, where are you enrolled in school? Vocational or Tech Online ONLY Degree Community College Four
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Year University Graduate School Medical School Law School Other: 35. Since the age of 18, how many years in total have you held a full-time job? [DO NOT count years in which you were a full-time student.] ____________ 36. Are you currently employed? a. Yes, I am currently employed and working b. Yes, I am currently employed but not working c. I am in between jobs but seeking employment d. No, I am not employed and do not plan to return to work 37. How many hours per week do you work (circle one)? 0-10 hrs. 11-20 hrs. 21-30 hrs. 31-40 hrs. 41-50 hrs. Over 50 hrs.
38. Please indicate your job title and give a short description of your responsibilities Title: ____________________________________ Responsibilities: ______________________ 39. Which of the following best describes the hours you usually work your main job? a. A regular daytime shift (between 6 A.M. and 6 P.M) b. A regular evening shift (any time between 2 P.M. and Midnight) c. A regular night shift (any time between 9 P.M. and 8 A.M) d. A rotating shift (changes periodically from days to evenings or nights) e. A split shift (consisting of two distinct periods each day) f. Some other schedule (describe) _____________________ 40. Do you plan to return to work after your baby is born (circle one)? Yes No Don’t know a. If yes, when do you plan on return to work (Month/Day/Year)? _____________ b. Will this be a paid or an unpaid leave of absence or both? Please explain: _____________ c. If yes, upon returning how many hours per week do you plan to work? 0-10 hrs. 11-20 hrs. 21-30 hrs. 31-40 hrs. 41-50 hrs. Over 50 hrs.
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Appendix C. NEO-FFI Copyright Notice: Reproduced by special permission of the Publisher, Psychological Assessment Resources, Inc., 16204 North Florida Avenue, Lutz, Florida 33549, from the NEO Five-Factor Inventory by Paul Costa and Robert McCrae, Copyright 1978, 1985, 1989, 1991, 2003 by PAR, Inc. Further reproduction is prohibited without permission of PAR, Inc. Please read each statement below and select the answer that best describes you. Each item is scored 1-5: 1 2 3 4 5 strongly disagree disagree neutral agree strongly agree 1. I am not a worrier. 2. I like to have a lot of people around me. 3. I don’t like to waste my time daydreaming. 4. I try to be courteous to everyone I meet. 5. I keep my belongings neat and clean. 6. I often feel inferior to others. 7. I laugh easily. 8. Once I find the right way to do something, I stick to it. 9. I often get into arguments with my family and co-workers. 10. I’m pretty good about pacing myself so as to get things done on time. 11. When I’m under a great deal of stress, sometimes I feel like I’m going to pieces. 12. I don’t consider myself “light-hearted.” 13. I am intrigued by the patterns I find in art and nature. 14. Some people think I’m selfish and egotistical 15. I am not a very methodical person. 16. I rarely feel lonely or blue. 17. I really enjoy talking to people. 18. I believe letting students hear controversial speakers can only confuse and mislead them. 19. I would rather cooperate with others than compete with them. 20. I try to perform all the tasks assigned to me conscientiously. 21. I often feel tense and jittery. 22. I like to be where the action is. 23. Poetry has little or no effect on me. 24. I tend to be cynical and skeptical of others’ intentions. 25. I have a clear set of goals and work toward them in an orderly fashion. 26. Sometimes I feel completely worthless. 27. I usually prefer to do things alone. 28. I often try new and foreign foods.
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29. I believe that most people will take advantage of you if you let them. 30. I waste a lot of time before settling down to work. 31. I rarely feel fearful or anxious. 32. I often feel as if I’m bursting with energy. 33. I seldom notice the moods of feelings that different environments produce. 34. Most people I know like me. 35. I work hard to accomplish my goals. 36. I often get angry at the way people treat me. 37. I am a cheerful, high-spirited person. 38. I believe we should look to our religious authorities for decisions on moral issues. 39. Some people think of me as cold and calculating. 40. When I make a commitment, I can always be counted on to follow through. 41. Too often, when things go wrong, I get discouraged and feel like giving up. 42. I am not a cheerful optimist. 43. Sometimes when I am reading poetry or looking at a work of art, I feel a chill or wave of excitement. 44. I’m hard-hearted and tough-minded in my attitudes. 45. Sometimes I’m not as dependable or reliable as I should be. 46. I am seldom sad or depressed. 47. My life is fast-paced. 48. I have little interest in speculating on the nature of the universe or the human condition. 49. I generally try to be thoughtful and considerate. 50. I am a productive person who always gets the job done. 51. I often feel helpless and want someone else to solve my problems. 52. I am a very active person. 53. I have a lot of intellectual curiosity. 54. If I don’t like people, I let them know it. 55. I never seem to be able to get organized. 56. At times I have been so ashamed I just want to hide. 57. I would rather go my own way than be a leader of others. 58. I often enjoy playing with theories or abstract ideas. 59. If necessary, I am willing to manipulate people to get what I want. 60. I strive for excellence in everything I do.
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Appendix D. Communication Danger Signs Scale
Now I’d like you to tell me how often you and your spouse/partner experience each of the
following situations.
1. Little arguments escalate into ugly fights with accusations, criticisms, name calling, or bringing up past hurts. Never or almost never Once in a while Frequently 2. My spouse/partner criticizes or belittles my opinions, feelings, or desires. Never or almost never Once in a while Frequently 3. My spouse/partner seems to view my words or actions more negatively than I mean them to be. Never or almost never Once in a while Frequently 4. When we argue, one of us withdraws...that is, does not talk about it anymore, or leaves the scene. Never or almost never Once in a while Frequently
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Appendix E. Marital Agendas Protocol Task Procedures:
1) Once everything is set up, hand each member of the couple a clipboard, pencil, and marital agendas protocol form.
! “Now each of you needs to fill out one of these forms. They list different issues that commonly cause problems in relationships and ask you to rate how big of a problem each issue is at this moment in your relationship. Please fill out your forms independently and signal us when you are finished.”
2) Leave the room and return when signaled.
! “Alright, thank you! For the second part of this task, we are going to need you both to decide on one area to discuss for ten minutes. Please choose a problem that you both agree is one of your more significant. Once you have chosen a topic, we would like you to try to work towards an agreeable solution to the chosen problem. I am going to leave the room. I will return after you have discussed your topic for ten minutes, or you indicate that you have reached an agreeable solution.”
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Marital Agendas Protocol (MAP)
In your view, how much of a problem are the following issues in your relationship?
Consider the list of issues below that many relationships must face. Please rate how much of a problem each area currently is in your relationship by writing a number from 0 (not at all a problem) to 100 (a severe problem). For example, if communication is somewhat a problem, you might enter ‘25’ next to ‘communication’. If communication is no problem in your relationship, then you might enter a ‘0’. If issues related to communication is a severe problem, you might enter ‘100’.
If you wish to add other areas not included in our list, please do so in the blank spaces provided.
Please be sure to rate all areas by entering a number between 0 and 100 next to each marital issue.
0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100
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MODERATE TO SEVERE PROBLEM
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SEVERITY OF SEVERITY OF
ISSUE PROBLEM ISSUE PROBLEM
MONEY __________ PREGNANCY __________
IN-LAWS __________ WORK OR CAREERS __________
SEX __________ HOUSEHOLD TASKS __________
RELIGION __________ RECREATION/FREE TIME __________
ALCOHOL & DRUGS __________ FRIENDS __________
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THE RELATIONSHIP __________ JEALOUSY/TRUST __________
COMMUNICATION __________ TIME SPENT TOGETHER __________
If not listed above, please indicate the overall subject of your last two conflicts, and rate the severity:
ISSUE MY VIEW ISSUE MY VIEW
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Appendix F. Marital Agenda Protocol Coding Manual
System for Coding Interactions among New Parents (SCINP)
[New Parents Project Marital Agendas Protocol (MAP) Coding Manual]
Modified by Jennifer M. Hunt, Claire M. Kamp Dush, and Sarah J. Schoppe-Sullivan
from Malik and Lindahl’s SCID (System for Coding Interactions in Dyads)
Malik, N. M., & Lindahl, K. M. (2004). System for Coding Interactions in Dyads (SCID). In P. Kerig & D. Baucom (Eds.), Couple observational coding systems (pp. 173-188). Mahwah, NJ: LEA.
Last Revised: April 2010
Please do not use the SCINP without the authors’ permission and the permission of the authors of the original SCID.
Comments or questions about the SCINP should be directed to Claire Kamp Dush, Ph.D., or Sarah J. Schoppe-Sullivan, Ph.D., Department of Human Development and Family Science, The Ohio State University, 135 Campbell Hall, 1787 Neil Ave., Columbus, OH 43210; [email protected]; [email protected].
Comments or questions about the original SCID or training in its use should be directed to Neena M. Malik, Ph.D., or Kristin M. Lindahl, Ph.D., Department of Psychology, Psychology Annex, P.O. Box 249229, University of Miami, Coral Gables, FL, 33124; [email protected]; [email protected].
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COUPLE CODE: Negative Escalation
This code assesses how often negative behaviors of one partner are responded to with negative behaviors from the other partner, and so on, such that negative behaviors constitute an escalating cycle. Couples that have escalation of negative behavior tend to reciprocate each other's negative statements, rising tone of voice, tension, and distress. In a negative escalating cycle, partners match each other's complains, put-downs, and insults. In other words, for negative escalation to take place, as soon as one partner (Partner A) acts in a negative manner, the very next behavior or reaction on the part of the other partner (Partner B) should also be negative. In order for negative escalation to be rated, the very next response on the part of Partner A must also be negative. In other words, a complete negative escalation cycle is the following: A-B-A. This means that if
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Partner A is negative with Partner B, but Partner B's immediate response is not negative (e.g., the other may be passive, withdrawn, neutral, calming, or positive), then a high rating should not be given on this code. Similarly, if Partner A is negative, and Partner B is negative, but Partner A's very next response is either passive, withdrawn, neutral, calming, or positive, there is no negative escalation cycle. To be rated high on negative escalation, the couple needs to give the impression of triggering each other's negative behaviors, in other words "pushing each other's buttons."
Note: It is important for this code to write down every time you see a full escalation cycle, and note the intensity of the negativity, in order to make the most accurate rating. Without careful attention, this code will not be rated effectively.
Tips:
• Count the number of times an A-B-A cycle is present. • Document the time of each instance so it is easier to go back and check
individually or during a group conference • Keep in mind this scale is based mainly on quantity, for example:
" Code of 1 = NO A-B-A whatsoever and no escalation of conflict " Code of 2 = One observable A-B-A cycle (mild in intensity) " Code of 3 = 2 observable A-B-A cycles (still of mild intensity) " Code of 4 = 3+ observable A-B-A cycles and the intensity is
moderate " Code of 5 = The negativity is almost always reciprocated. A-B-A
cycles are observed clearly 4 times and the level of intensity is high.
1 - Very Low. There is no escalation of conflict. When one partner exhibits negativity or conflictual behavior, the other partner's immediate response is not negative (or if it is negative, the third behavior is not negative). Instead, the other partner's immediate response (or the third response) is a neutral or positive behavior (which can be a neutral or positive statement, made with a neutral or positive tone of voice).
2 - Low. There is little reciprocity in the negativity that is expressed. Once, the partners may be observed to immediately respond to negative statements, rising tones of voice, or increases in tension or distress, with similarly negative statements, rises in tone of voice, or increases in tension or distress, in an A-B-A fashion (see above). However, the reciprocity of negativity is subtle or of mild intensity and does not appear to be related to significant conflict in the couple.
3 - Moderate. There is some reciprocity in the negativity expressed between the members of the couple, but this occurs clearly less than half the time. That is, a few times the partners may be observed to immediately respond to a negative statement, rising tone of voice, or increase in tension or distress, with a similarly negative statement, rise in tone of voice, or increase in tension or distress, in an A-B-A fashion (see above). The reciprocity of negativity may be subtle or obvious and is of mild intensity. The escalation of negativity appears to be related to some conflict in the couple.
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4 - Moderately High. There is clear reciprocity in the negativity expressed by the couple in an A-B-A fashion (see above); it is noticeable, obvious, and of moderate intensity. Several times the partners are observed to immediately respond to a negative statement, rising tone of voice, or increase in tension or distress, with a similarly negative statement, rise in tone of voice, or increase in tension or distress. The escalation of negativity appears to be related to a fair amount of conflict in the couple.
5 - High. There is significant reciprocity in the negativity during the discussion, in an A-B-A fashion (see above); it is noticeable, obvious, and of moderate to high intensity. Frequently, the partners are observed to immediately respond to a negative statement, rising tone of voice, or increase in tension or distress, with a similarly negative statement, rise in tone of voice, or increase in tension or distress. The escalation of negativity is related to significant conflict in the couple.