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7/25/2019 Transitioning to Parenthood
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Transitioning toParenthood
Evelyn Potoka, RNC, MSNSpring 2015
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O!e"tives
Co#pare $a"tors that in%&en"e a 'o#an and a#an(s role transition to parenthood
)ist the phases o$ #aternal atta"h#ent
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*a"tors +n%&en"ing RoleTransitioning
Previo&s li$e eperien"es
)ength and strength o$ relationship et'een partners
*inan"ial "onsiderations
Ed&"ational levels
S&pport syste#s
-esire to parent
.ge o$ parents
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Maternal *a"tors
/egin d&ring pregnan"y
o' the 'o#an 'as parented
)i$e eperien"es
ni&e "hara"teristi"s
3illingness to asse role o$ #other
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Paternal *a"tors
/e"o#es reality on"e ay is orn
is o'n $athering and "<&re a4e"t his role
Evolves over ti#e 'ith in"reasing in$ant"onta"t
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.doles"ent Parents
Transition et'een "hildhood and ad<hood
Stress$&l
.doles"ent taking on the role o$ eing a#other$ather
3orking thro&gh develop#ental tasks o$ eing ateenager
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.doles"ent Parents
N&rsing ."tions
Provide in$or#ation on in$ant "are and ehavior
-e#onstrate in$ant "are Praise $ather $or his intera"tion 'ith in$ant
Provide opport&nities $or $ather to talk ao&t#eaning o$ $athering
*a"ilitate "onversation 'ith $ather and partner todis"&ss #&t&al epe"tations o$ $athering role
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/onding
E#otional $eelings that egin d&ring pregnan"y orshortly a$ter irth et'een parent and ne'orn
/onding ehaviors
En *a"e position
Calls ay y na#e
C&ddles ay "lose to "hest
Talkssings to ay
6isses ay
/reast$eedsholds ay "lose d&ring ottle $eeding
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.tta"h#ent
E#otional "onne"tion et'een in$ant andparents
.tta"h#ent ehaviors Parents respond to in$ant(s "ry
+n$ant responds to "o#$orting y parents
Parents sti#&late and entertain in$ant 'hilea'ake
Parents are "&e sensitive to in$ants ehavior
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Maternal Phases
Taking 7 +n
Taking 7 old
)etting 8 9o
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Taking 8 +n
*irst 2: to :; ho&rs a$terirth
-ependent ehaviors
*o"&sed on sel$ andpersonal "o#$ort
Relives and speaks o$ irtheperien"e
-ependent on others $orhersel$ and in$ant needs
-e"reased aility to #akede"isions
*o"&ses on personalphysi"al healing
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Taking 8 old
Move#ent et'eendependent andindependent ehaviors
May last $or several'eeks
*o"&s #oves $ro# sel$ to in$ant
/egins to e independent
+n"reased aility to #ake
de"isions
+nterested in ne'orn(s "&es and
needs
9ives &p pregnan"y role $or
#aternal role
Eager to learn< e"ellent ti#e $ortea"hing
*eelings o$ inade&a"y
/egins to let the o&tside 'orld in
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)etting 8 9o
Move#ent $ro#independen"e to#aternal rolea""eptan"e
9rieving and letting goo$ old relationships andehaviors in e"hangeo$ ne' ones
+n"orporates ne'orn intoher li$e
.""epts ne'orn as he or
she really is
9ives &p $antasy o$ 'hat it"o&ld'o&ld have een
Reses 'ork or s"hool
*eelings o$ grie$, g&ilt,aniety
Re"onne"tion inrelationship 'ith partner
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Siling Rivalry
Spend ti#e prenatally dis"&ssing the &p"o#ing irth
Provide opport&nities $or silings to $eel the ay #ove and hearthe heart eat
Provide opport&nities $or silings to spend ti#e 'ith the ne' ayin the hospital
En"o&rage silings to lie in ed 'ith #o# 'hile in the hospital
9ive silings a present $ro# the ne' ay
Eplain to parents the i#portan"e o$ &ality ti#e 'ith other"hildren
Take silings on a spe"ial o&ting 'hile the ay is "ared $or atho#e
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Postpart /l&es
O""&r d&ring the =rst $e' postpart 'eeks
)ast $or a $e' days
3o#an $eels sad, "ries easily
.le to take "are o$ hersel$ and in$ant
Ca&ses>
Change in hor#onal level
*atig&e
Stress $ro# taking on the role o$ the #other