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Revised 05-15

Guidance Department Handbook

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The Waynesville R-VI School District does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national

origin, sex, age, religion, or disability or status as Vietnam Era veteran in admission/access to, or

treatment/employment in its programs and activities.

Any person having inquiries concerning compliance with the regulations implementing federal

legislative requirements is directed to contact the building level Principal or the Assistant

Superintendent for Personnel Services 573-842-2094 (Title IX, Title VI, and ADA) or the

Administrative Assistant for Special Services 573-842-2007 (Section 504).

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Table of Contents

Guidance Mission & Vision..........................................................................................................1

Guidance Program Definition .......................................................................................................2

Administrative Structure & Responsibilities ................................................................................4

District Guidance Staff .................................................................................................................4

Guidance Counselor Job Description............................................................................................5

Advisory Committees .................................................................................................................11

Guidance Budget .........................................................................................................................11

In-service Training ......................................................................................................................11

Suggested Distribution of Total Counselor Time .......................................................................13

Comprehensive Guidance Program Components .......................................................................14

Bullying Vocabulary ...................................................................................................................15

Career & College Readiness .......................................................................................................16

Counseling Crisis Team Manual .................................................................................................19

Suicide Risk Protocol Manual ....................................................................................................22

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Guidance Mission & Vision

District Mission

Educating individual students for 21st century challenges

Guidance Vision

We believe in supporting and protecting the educational mission of our school district. Because

children grow affectively as well as cognitively, and their growth is developmental in nature, we

believe in educating the whole child; therefore, the implementation of a comprehensive

counseling curriculum is essential to the success of that mission.

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Guidance Program Definition

Guidance is an integral part each school's total education program. The professional staff,

consisting of Professional School Counselors, utilizes a comprehensive, developmental approach

in its K-12 program.

Prevention and intervention are the mainstays of Waynesville's School Counseling Department.

Sequential activities, following the Missouri Comprehensive Model Guidance Program, address

the academic, personal/interpersonal, career exploration and post-secondary planning of every

Waynesville student.

What do school counselors do?

Following the Missouri Comprehensive Model Guidance Program, as set forth by the Missouri

Department of Elementary and Secondary Education, the Waynesville Counseling and Guidance

Department promotes excellence through work in four program areas:

Curriculum Classroom lessons and large group presentations deal with the three areas of our curriculum:

Personal/Social Development; Academic Development; and Career Development. Along with

special presentations, such as our Career Fair and district College Information Nights, the

Counseling and Guidance staff facilitates student-based activities that encourage positive growth

and life-skills training.

Individual Planning Students are individually guided by their school counselors toward academic and career success

in a variety of ways. Academic excellence is promoted through individual meetings, classroom

lessons, small group activities, and school-wide recognitions. Working individually with their

school counselors, students establish short and long-term education and career goals. Career

exploration is done at every level through the use of classroom lessons, speakers, career fairs,

technology, and career portfolios. In the high schools, our College/Career Specialists work with

students and families both individually and in larger groups to disseminate important post-

secondary information about such topics as financial aid, testing, majors and admissions

procedures/policies.

Responsive Services Most of the Professional School Counselor's day is spent on Responsive Services. School

counselors will provide both individual and group counseling, but it must be stated that we do

not do therapy. Most individual work involves dealing with short-term issues. Group counseling

topics depend upon the needs of the school and students. School Counselors also work with

families by providing information on referrals to outside agencies/therapists. Counselors work

extensively with other school personnel in consultation as the personal, social/emotional, and

academic well-being of each student is considered.

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System Support School Counselors and the School Counseling Department staff are members of a large team -

that of the school and the district. These professionals engage in a number of activities to

promote the excellence of this school district. Because of the individual and personal nature of

their work, it is critical for our School Counselors and College/Career Specialists to be on the

cutting edge of topics and techniques related to student success. These professionals engage in

continuing education experiences to gain such expertise, and most are required to prove evidence

of that for recertification. In addition, what they learn they share with their colleagues, faculties

and staffs. Many members of Waynesville's Counseling Department are involved in presenting

workshops at their own schools, and at local and state conferences.

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Administrative Structure & Responsibilities

The Director of Special Services is the district guidance coordinator and program advisor.

Once a month, the Director and all guidance staff meet to discuss the Guidance Program.

Counselors must turn in three Time & Task Logs and one Lesson Plan per semester to the

Director.

The Director also holds a District Advisory Committee annually, which all guidance counselors

are expected to attend. All counselors must hold two Advisory Committees in their buildings

annually as well.

Counselors are required to notify the Director when reporting any hotline calls.

District Guidance Staff

For a list of current District Guidance staff members, please visit the Waynesville R-VI School

District’s website http://www.waynesville.k12.mo.us/waynesville.

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GUIDANCE COUNSELOR JD LOCATOR: 3.09.1

Adopted: _____ Revised: 7/00, 7/03, 3/09

REPORTS TO: Building Principal or Director CLASSIFICATION: Certified FLSA STATUS: Exempt TERMS OF EMPLOYMENT: Salary and work year as reviewed and established annually by the Board of

Education EVALUATION: Performance of this position will be evaluated regularly in accordance with the

Board’s policy on the evaluation of classified staff.

JOB SUMMARY

To help students overcome problems that impede learning and to assist them in making educational, occupational, and personal decisions that hold promise for their personal fulfillment as mature and responsible men and women.

The information contained in this job description is for compliance with the Americans with Disabilities Act (A.D.A.) and is not an exhaustive list of the duties performed for this position. Additional duties are performed by the individual holding this position and additional duties may be assigned.

ESSENTIAL DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES

NOTE: Reasonable accommodations will be made, if necessary, to enable individuals with disabilities to perform the essential functions.

GUIDANCE PROGRAM MANAGEMENT

Standard 1: The school counselor provides effective coordination and management of the district-wide guidance program.

Guidance Curriculum

Criterion A: The school counselor implements the Guidance Curriculum Component through the use of effective instructional skills and the careful planning of structured group sessions for all students.

1. Organizes and teaches units for student mastery based on student needs which will address personal/social development, educational planning and development, and career exploration and planning.

2. Uses effective instructional strategies.

3. Establishes an environment conducive for student learning through the use of effective classroom management techniques.

4. Collaborates with or assists teachers in developing and/or teaching guidance units effectively.

5. Serves as a resource regarding guidance materials appropriate to the guidance units being taught.

Individual Planning

Criterion B: The school counselor implements the Individual Planning Component by guiding individual and groups of students and their parents through the development of educational career plans.

1. Assists students in establishing goals, developing and using planning skills, and determining their abilities, achievements, interests, and goals.

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2. Encourages teachers, other professionals, and parents to participate in student education and career planning.

3. Guides students to utilize assessment results in their educational and career plans.

4. Organizes and makes educational and career information available.

5. Helps students and their parents become aware of the range of educational opportunities available.

Responsive Services

Criterion C: The school counselor implements the Responsive Services Component through the effective use of individual and small group counseling, consultation, and referral skills.

1. Informs students, parents, teachers, and administrators about the process that can be used to refer students for individual or small group counseling.

2. Provides individual counseling and small group counseling using accepted theories and techniques appropriate for school counseling.

3. Demonstrates the use of developmentally appropriate small group and individual techniques that are relevant to the topic and to the students’ needs and concerns.

4. Assists students in establishing concrete, behavioral plans aimed at problem resolution.

5. Implements an effective referral process in collaboration with parents, administrators, teachers, and other school personnel.

a. Develops and maintains a current list of appropriate and effective referral sources.

b. Determines the need for, and makes referrals when necessary.

c. Assists students and their parents during and after the referral.

d. Keeps teachers informed about the referral process, as appropriate.

System Support

Criterion D: The school counselor implements the System Support Component through effective guidance program management and support for other educational programs.

1. Provides comprehensive and balanced guidance program in collaboration with school staff.

2. Conducts formal and informal assessments to determine student needs and priorities as perceived by students.

3. Establishes and completes an effective comprehensive guidance program evaluation to improve guidance services and programs.

4. Provides support for other school programs.

5. Works cooperatively with other school personnel in the best interest and for the betterment of the district.

6. Assumes equal responsibilities as other certification staff members, as appropriate.

PROFESSIONAL SKILLS AND RESPONSIBILITIES

Standard 2: The school counselor demonstrates professional skills and fulfills professional responsibilities in addressing the overall mission of the school district.

Knowledge of Guidance and Counseling

Criterion E: The school counselor displays knowledge of guidance and counseling practices.

1. Follows priorities established in the comprehensive guidance program framework.

2. Uses resources appropriately and effectively.

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3. Explains the philosophy, priorities, and practices of the comprehensive guidance program effectively and articulately to school staff, parents, and the community.

4. Keeps abreast of developments in the counseling profession.

5. Observes ethical standards of the American School Counselor Association and the American Counseling Association.

6. Maintains professionalism in difficult situations.

Criterion F: The school counselor demonstrates positive interpersonal relations with students.

1. Promotes positive self-image in students.

2. Provides a climate that promotes positive communication with students.

3. Interacts with students in a mutually respectful and friendly manner.

4. Makes an effort to know students as individuals.

5. Is willing to work with all students.

6. Maintains appropriate student-counselor relationships.

7. Does not impose personal value judgments of students or their families.

Criterion G: The school counselor demonstrates positive interpersonal relations with educational staff.

1. Works cooperatively with colleagues in planning guidance activities.

2. Works well with support staff.

3. Works cooperatively with the schools’ administration to implement policies and regulations for which the school is responsible.

4. Informs administrators and/or appropriate school personnel of school-related matters.

Criterion H: The school counselor demonstrates positive interpersonal relations with parents and community patrons and organizations.

1. Cooperates with parents in the best interest of the student.

2. Provides a climate that promotes communication with parents.

3. Handles expressions of conflict in a constructive manner.

4. Promotes patron and outside community involvement with the school.

5. Works collaborately with outside agencies as needed.

Criterion I: The school counselor adheres to school and district policies, procedures, and regulations.

1. Follows and explains the profession’s ethical and legal standards and guidelines, as well as promoting cultural diversity and inclusively in school policy and interpersonal relationships.

2. Adheres to district policies and legal guidelines.

3. Promotes equity with respect to gender, ethnicity, or the ability of students.

4. Conducts guidance responsibilities accurately in accordance with established job description.

Criterion J: The school counselor demonstrates appropriate attendance

1. Will be in attendance the number of days specified on the district contract.

2. Will be in attendance at scheduled meetings and class sessions, as appropriate.

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Criterion K: The school counselor uses time effectively.

1. Sets timelines and follows them.

2. Keeps accurate time logs and submits them to the counselor coordinator in a timely manner.

3. Conducts guidance responsibilities promptly in accordance with the established job description.

Criterion L: The school counselor demonstrates effective organizational strategies and skills.

1. Demonstrates effective planning for instruction and other activities.

2. Chooses and designs varied instructional strategies that address the diversity of learners.

3. Assists students in demonstrating meaningful progress in learning and communication

4. Designs various forms of evaluations to monitor, manage, and enhance student learning.

5. Uses available technology as a counseling tool.

Criterion M: The school counselor adheres appropriately to laws and practices concerning the confidentiality of information and the reporting of suspected child abuse/neglect to Children’s Division.

1. Attends to the confidential and private nature of individual assessment data.

2. Uses discretion in handling and releasing confidential information.

3. Adheres appropriately to laws and Board policy regarding the reporting of suspected child abuse and neglect.

Criterion N: The school counselor demonstrates a commitment to ongoing professional growth.

1. Participates in professional activities such as membership and involvement in professional organizations, coursework, workshops, and conferences.

2. Serves on building and district committees, as appropriate.

3. Seeks opportunities to learn from colleagues, students, parents, and community members.

COORDINATION AND MANAGEMENT OF THE TESTING PROGRAM

Standard 3: The school counselor follows regulations in the coordination and management of the district’s testing program.

Criterion O: The school counselor demonstrates effective management of the group and/or individual testing program.

1. Provides a systematic plan for dissemination and collection of group testing materials that follows all district policies and procedures.

2. Provides procedures for appropriate test administration and test security.

3. Coordinates annual training for building and staff to train test administrators in standardization administration procedures and test security.

4. Adheres to all standardized administration and scoring of tests in compliance with testing guidelines.

Criterion P: The school counselor demonstrates accurate and appropriate interpretation of assessment data and the presentation of relevant, unbiased information.

1. Strives to guard against inappropriate use of assessment data.

2. Understands/applies the basic statistical concepts essential in the use of assessment instruments and data.

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3. Understands/applies basic concepts and principles of measurement and evaluation.

4. Presents information in a clear and concise manner.

Criterion Q: applies to this position does not apply to this position

The school counselor coordinates special education services and adheres to required procedures of IDEA and/or Section 504, as assigned by supervisor.

1. Implements the management of the special education process through effective use of the district’s Compliance Plan by providing leadership and coordination to the regular education and special education staff.

2. Collaborates and communicates with the District Assessment Team.

3. Follows all federal, state, and local regulations concerning the administration and adherence to IDEA and Section 504.

4. Demonstrates professional awareness and growth to changes in adherence in IDEA and Section 504.

SUPERVISORY RESPONSIBILITIES

None

QUALIFICATION REQUIREMENTS: The individual must be able to perform each essential job duty and responsibility satisfactorily. The following requirements are representative of the knowledge, skills, and/or abilities needed to perform the job at a fully acceptable level.

EDUCATION, EXPERIENCE, AND/OR CERTIFICATION

1. At least two years of successful teaching experience.

2. A valid certificate as a guidance counselor.

3. A Master’s degree, or its equivalent, representing intensive course work in the principles and practice of educational guidance; educational testing measurement; counseling; the organization and administration of guidance services; and the psychology of learning.

4. Any equivalent combination of experience and training that provides the required knowledge, skills, and abilities to perform the essential functions of the position.

5. Such alternatives to the above qualifications as the Board may deem appropriate or acceptable.

COMMUNICATION SKILLS

1. Ability to write reports and correspondence consistent with the duties of this position.

2. Ability to communicate clearly and concisely both in oral and written form using a variety of communication techniques and tools to ensure the appropriate flow of information, collaborative efforts, and feedback.

3. Ability to read, analyze, and interpret information.

4. Ability to effectively present information and respond to questions, inquiries, and/or complaints.

5. Displays courtesy, tact, and respect when dealing with others.

MATHEMATICAL SKILLS

1. Ability to perform basic math using whole numbers, common fractions, and decimals consistent with the duties of this position.

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REASONING ABILITY

1. Ability to interpret a variety of instructions and information furnished in written, oral, diagram, or schedule form.

2. Ability to identify and define problems, collect and analyze data, establish facts, and draw valid conclusions.

OTHER SKILLS AND ABILITIES

1. Maintains appropriate confidentiality.

2. Promotes a harassment-free environment.

3. Establishes and maintains effective working relationships; demonstrates a commitment to teamwork.

4. Ability to learn and utilize office equipment, computers, and software especially as systems are upgraded.

5. Ability to learn and upgrade job skills in order to meet changing demands of the position.

6. Excellent computer and keyboarding skills.

7. Ability to react well under pressure, handle and balance multiple demands at one time, work with frequent interruptions, and perform duties and tasks at expected levels of professionalism.

8. Extensive knowledge of and ability to perform duties in full compliance with all district, Board of Education, state and federal laws, methods, requirements, policies, procedures, and activities pertinent to the duties of this position.

9. Ability to work independently with minimum supervision.

10. Ability to use independent judgment and demonstrates initiative to act without being asked.

PHYSICAL DEMANDS: The physical demands described here are representative of those that must be met by an employee to successfully perform the essential functions of this job. Reasonable accommodations may be made to enable individuals with disabilities to perform the essential functions.

While performing the duties of this job, the employee is regularly required to stand, walk, sit, and talk or hear. The employee is frequently required to reach with hands and arms, and stoop, kneel, crouch, or crawl. The employee must occasionally lift and/or move up to 50 pounds. Specific vision abilities required by this job include close vision, distance vision, and the ability to adjust focus.

WORK ENVIRONMENT: The work environment characteristics described here are representative of those an employee encounters while performing the essential functions of this job. Reasonable accommodations may be made to enable individuals with disabilities to perform the essential functions.

Employee experiences constant interruptions and inflexible deadlines. The noise level in this environment is quiet to loud. Duties are performed primarily indoors and occasionally outdoors. In-district and out-of-town travel required as necessary for training and/or to carry out duties and responsibilities.

ACKNOWLEDGMENT

I have received a copy of this job description. It has been discussed with me and I have freely chosen to comply with the performance and behavior/conduct expectations contained herein.

Employee’s Signature Date Supervisor’s Signature Date

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Advisory Committees

Purpose The purpose of this evaluation is to review the role of Professional School Counselors in

Waynesville. We will examine the current reality and establish expectations that will best meet

the needs of our students. The evaluation will address the K-12 alignment of services and

answer questions related to programming options and designs.

Desired Outcome At the conclusion of this evaluation, Waynesville will have an assessment and considerations for

improvement, as well as a perspective on the service delivery models employed by the district to

address the needs of students. The desired outcome is a quality program that is fiscally prudent

and effective in addressing the educational, emotional and social needs of Waynesville students

with the overall goal of making sure that students are college and career ready when they

graduate from Waynesville.

Building Level Advisory Committee

A guidance program advisory committee exists for each building level guidance program. The

purpose of this committee is to offer advice, provide support, review and evaluate present

programs and needs, and to recommend new programs or changes to the guidance department.

Advisory meetings will be held two times a year.

District Level Advisory Committee

The purpose of the district advisory committee is to offer advice, provide support, review and

evaluate present programs and needs, and to recommend new programs or changes to the

guidance department district wide. District advisory meetings will be held one time per year. A

guidance counselor from each building will serve on the district advisory team.

Guidance Budget

Funds are allocated in each building for guidance supplies and are maintained by the building

principals. Additional guidance materials, such as testing material used in individualized student

assessments for gifted or special education testing, may be purchased using district funds

maintained through the Special Services Office.

In-service Training

In-service opportunities are provided for school counselors through multiple sources of funding.

The district’s Professional Development Committee’s funds are a prime source of funding for

training. Other building monies are available for this purpose also, such as building travel

budgets. Training pertaining to IDEA and Section 504 are funded through district

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Comprehensive System of Personnel Development and district travel monies with prior approval

from both the building principal and director of special services.

Counselors are encouraged to attend and present at the annual Fall Counselors’ Conference of

the Missouri School Counselors’ Association. New counselors and new administrators are

encouraged to attend the DESE workshops presented during the early fall for these new

professionals for orientation and information purposes. Large counseling material requisitions

should be planned for during review and adoption years specified by the Instructional Services

Office for counseling curriculum materials.

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Suggested Distribution of Total Counselor Time

Elementary Middle School High School

Guidance Curriculum 35-45 25-35 15-25

Individual Planning 5-10 15-25 25-35

Responsive Services 30-40 30-40 25-35

System Support 10-15 10-15 15-20

100 100 100

* Note: Shown as percentage rate

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Comprehensive Guidance Program Components

Guidance Curriculum Provides guidance content in a

systematic way to all students

K-12.

Purpose Student awareness, skill

development, and application

of skills needed in everyday

life

Areas and Activities

Addressed

• Career Planning and

Exploration

- Career Awareness

- Career Exploration

• Knowledge of Self And

Others

- Self-Concept

- Conflict Resolution

- Personal

Responsibilities

- Peer Friendship

- Decision-Making

Skills

- Substance Abuse

- Prevention Program

- Cross-Cultural

- Understanding

• Educational and Vocational

Development

- Planning Programs

of Study

- Pre-Employment

Skills

- Job Preparation

- Post High School

Decision-Making

(transitioning)

Individual Planning Assists student in planning,

monitoring, and managing

their personal and career

development.

Purpose Student educational and

occupational planning,

decision-making, and goal-

setting

Topics Addressed • Educational

Course Selection

- Transitioning:

grade to grade;

school to school;

school to work

- Multiple-Year

Plan

- Financial Aid

Available

• Career Knowledge of

Career Opportunities

- Career Awareness

- Interest

Inventories

- Career Shadowing

- Work Habits

• Personal-Social

- Setting Personal

Goals

- Self-Improvement

Planning

Responsive Services Addresses the immediate

concerns of students.

Purpose Prevention, intervention

Topics Addressed • Academic Concerns

• School-related Concerns

-tardiness

-absences and truancy

-misbehavior

-school-avoidance

-dropout prevention

• Relationship Concerns

• Physical/Sexual/Emotional

Abuse

• Grief/Loss/Death

• Substance Abuse

• Family Issues

• Sexuality Issues

• Coping with Stress

System Support Includes program, staff, and

school support activities and

services.

Purpose Program delivery and

support

Process/Procedures • Guidance Program,

Development &

Management

• Parent Education

• Teacher/Administrator

Consultation

• Staff Development for

Educators

• School Improvement

Planning

• Counselor Professional

Development

• Research and Publishing

• Community Outreach

• Public Relations

Counselor Role

• Structured Groups

• Consultation

• Guidance Curriculum

Implementation

Counselor Role

• Assessment

• Planning

• Placement

Counselor Role

• Individual and small group

crisis & development

counseling

• Consultation

• Referral

Counselor Role

• Program Management

• Consultation

• Coordination

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Bullying Vocabulary

K-2nd

Friendship

Self-esteem

Kind words

K-6th

Reporting

Tattling

3rd-12th

Retaliation

5th–12th

Harassment (Sexual)

Humiliation

Intimidation

K-12th Bullying

Cyber Bullying

Target

Victim

By-standers

Threats

Violence

Put downs

Name calling

Safety (Mental phys.)

Trusting Adult

7th–12th

Hazing

Extortion

Treat others as you want to be treated - Respect

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Career and College Readiness

(K-12)

K-2nd grade: Have students define job. Ask what jobs parents have. If they say soldier, have student ask their parents

what their job is. Use career path posters to explore. Expose students to career paths. Expose students to

various careers and characteristics needed with different careers.

3rd-5th grade: Have each student participate in career exploration through Missouri Connections Resources in

collaboration with the ITs or Media Center Specialists. Have each student complete some form of career

cluster inventory. Have fifth grade students in the spring explore Missouri Connections website with

certain specific tasks.

6th grade: Create a profile in Missouri Connections and do “Career Interest Inventory” in the fall. Discuss the

Missouri Connections Career Clusters (including activity) and Career Paths. Advanced Math & HS

Foreign Language through transition & scheduling.

7th grade: Update profile in Missouri Connections, research careers, and plan of study for high school - spring.

Update Middle School plan & schedule. Review “Career Interest Inventory”. WCC tours – spring.

8th grade: Update profile in Missouri Connections; review “Career Interest Inventory”, conduct “Career Interest

Profiler” in fall, research careers, and plan of study for high school – spring. WCC tours – fall.

9th grade: Update Missouri Connections; build upon plan of study for the next four years and post-secondary

options. Take the Aspire test. Counselors meet individually with all students to plan future courses and

future talks.

10th grade: Update Missouri Connection: Take a reality-check, research careers, plan of study for the next three years

and post-secondary options. Set career goals with counselor. Take the Pre-ACT test. Counselors meet

individually with all students to plan future courses and future talks. WCC tours.

11th grade: Update Missouri Connections: research colleges & other post-secondary options, scholarship search,

college and career night, ACT, ASVAB, PSAT, SAT, Compass testing. Plan of study for next two years

and post-secondary options. Counselors meet individually with all students to plan future courses and

future talks.

12th grade: Scholarship search (after Board approval), college and career research, Financial Aide presentation,

college and career night, ACT, ASVAB, SAT, Compass testing. Plan of study for the next year and apply

for post-secondary placement. (What is a better way to word this-?) SPED senior students meet with

Vocational Rehabilitation for the transition and CBI classes for post-secondary options. Counselors meet

individually to assist students with post-secondary plans, applications, etc… Facilitate Tiger Time student

groups to assist students with setting and achieving post-secondary goals.

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Missouri Connections Annual Timeline

August/September: 6-12 Guidance Counselors will access all student accounts to ensure 100% of

students have accounts. Passwords will be reset. (DO NOT MAKE NEW ACCOUNTS OR

LOG IN AS A GUEST) Counselors will work with students to update their profile.

October/November- Interest Inventories will be given to all new students and students in 6th &

8th grade.

December- Course Description book would go to School Board for Approval and Uploaded into

Missouri Connections

January- Counselors Individually Plan with 6th, 7th, and 11th Grade

February- Counselors Individually Plan with 8th and 10th Grade

March- Counselors Individually Plan with 9th Grade

Individual Planning

When individually planning with students the following steps should be taken:

1. Pull up the students Interest Inventory

2. Discuss Post-Secondary Plans and Interests

3. Pull up Pathway

4. Balance Graduation Requirements and Pathway

5. Create a schedule-Make two copies

6. Send one schedule home to have singed and returned

7. Keep one to put into PowerSchool

Interest Inventory

Individual Planning

Scheduling

Post-secondary

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MO Connections Counselor Responsibilities by Grade Level

6th Grade

Create accounts (profiles) for all 6th graders. Will do the “Career Cluster Inventory” in the junior site Will transfer profiles to 7th grade

7th Grade

Research the results of the “Career Cluster Inventory” that was done in 6th grade Will do “Reality Check”

8th Grade

Will give the “Career Interest Profile” (180 questions) Will transfer profile to high school

9th-12th Grade

Research the results of the “Career Interest Profile” that they completed in the 8th grade

Will also give the “Career Interest Profiler” to new students At the end of each school year, the counselor will look at the results of students’

“Career Interest Profiler” and the new career path booklet to do the students’ four-year plans.

Will continue to do “Reality Check” Will use the “Combined Report” for data 10th grade – Group lessons about careers 11th grade – College planning, scholarships, ASVAB, military

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Counseling Crisis Team Manual

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Appendix

Counseling Crisis Team ..............................................................................................................19

Mission Statement .......................................................................................................................19

Goal Statement for Counseling Crisis Team ..............................................................................19

Definition of a Crisis ...................................................................................................................19

Statement of Counseling Crisis Team Purpose ...........................................................................20

Counseling Crisis Team Responsibilities ...................................................................................20

Definitions...................................................................................................................................21

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Counseling Crisis Team

District guidance staff are all considered members of the District Counseling Crisis Team. The

designated leader of the team will contact counselors in the event the team is needed at a

building. The designated team leader will also send out the updated phone tree annually.

Counselors will be responsible for assisting the district crisis team leader in scheduling training

for staff on a bi-annual basis.

Mission Statement

The Board of Education, Administration, and Counselors of the Waynesville School District

acknowledge the necessity to prepare a Crisis Management Plan in the event that a crisis should

occur. Our students have a basic need for security and safety. Any event which threatens that

feeling of safety and security shall be considered a crisis. There are unlimited possibilities for

crisis situations that could impact the district, although it is known that the leading causes of

death for teenagers are accidents and suicides. The Counselors in the school district realize the

need to be prepared to provide aid to the students and staff in the event of a crisis situation.

Therefore, the Counseling Crisis Intervention Manual has been developed.

Goal Statement for Counseling Crisis Team

It is the goal of the counseling crisis team to help all participants within the school return to

business as usual soon after the crisis, provide care for the emotional needs of the school

community during the crisis, provide psychological and emotional stability, and continue

classroom instruction as soon as possible after the crisis.

Definition of a Crisis

A crisis is a spontaneous event that significantly or dramatically interferes with the daily routine

of the school. The event may affect students, staff, community, and/or facilities. Crises can

generally be categorized into two basic groups: 1) Those that are a result of human influence,

and 2) Those that are a result of natural disaster. The number one concern of school personnel in

a crisis is the safety of the students and staff.

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Statement of Counseling Crisis Team Purpose

Schools are committed to providing for the emotional health of students and staff. During a

crisis, a counseling team can further this emotional well-being in several ways:

1. The building counselors, administrators, and staff may be in need of personal

support during a crisis. This can involve providing support in the form of

“another set of hands” for the principal in the school, providing classroom

instruction to allow personal time for an individual teacher, and provide

consultation for staff members. The Counseling Crisis Team members are

flexible so that the needs of the particular school can be met within the framework

of that school’s crisis plan.

2. The students and parents in the school may be in need of support during a crisis.

The Counseling Crisis Team provides support such as individual counseling to

help students feel emotionally and physically safe during and after a crisis

situation. Additionally, the crisis team may make immediate contact with the

parents of students who may be adversely affected in a crisis situation. The team

will help schools with the initial crisis, and then provide support for the

counselor(s) in the building so he/she can better care for students in the following

days.

3. A crisis team member can serve as a consultant to an administrator or counselor,

if requested.

Counseling Crisis Team Responsibilities

In the event of a crisis the following personnel should be contacted in the order indicated:

Building Principal, who contacts

Director of Personnel Services, who contacts

Superintendent, Director of Special Services, who contacts

Counselor Coordinator, Crisis Team Coordinator, who contacts

Counseling Crisis Team

Direct intervention by the Counseling Crisis Team will be provided for one to three days within

a building unless circumstances dictate otherwise. The building counselor will monitor the

progress of the individuals who appear most affected by the crisis situation. If a small number of

students or staff continue to need intervention, those individuals will be referred to outside

agencies for additional counseling intervention.

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Definitions

District Crisis Team Coordinator: A designated member of the crisis team who is the first to

be contacted in the event of an emergency situation. This individual will contact the other

counselors and coordinate the activities of the Counseling Crisis Team and will act in a

leadership role when a crisis occurs.

District Assistant Crisis Team Coordinator: A designated member of the crisis counseling

team who assists the district coordinator and assumes the duties of the district coordinator as

needed.

Counseling Crisis Team: A team of counselors within the school district who are specifically

trained to respond to the emotional needs of the students and staff in the event of an emergency.

Building Crisis Team: A team designated by the building principal who will assist the district

crisis team at the time of crisis. Building team may include, but is not limited to the following:

principal(s), counselor(s), school nurse, office staff, and selected members.

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Self-Injury/Suicide Risk Protocol ...............................................................................................22

Building Counselor(s) Responsibilities ......................................................................................24

Counseling Crisis Team Responsibilities ...................................................................................24

Suggestions for Counseling Crisis Team Members Visits to Classrooms ..................................25

Tips for Counselors/Crisis Team Members When Assisting in Crisis .......................................26

When a Student Dies: Guidelines for Small-Group Discussion .................................................27

Helping Children Cope with Violence & Terror: Tips for Parents & Teachers .........................27

When a Grieving Classmate Returns ..........................................................................................29

Guidelines for Understanding & Responding to a Crisis............................................................30

Individual Counseling Summary (Form) ....................................................................................32

Group Counseling Summary (Form) ..........................................................................................33

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Waynesville R-VI School District

Self-Injury/Suicide Risk Protocol

Terms and Definitions

At risk for self-injury/suicide is defined as: Any student who indicates through actions,

speech or writings that he or she may be at risk of harming himself/herself physically. Such

actions, speech or writings may be observed or received directly by a member of the WSD

staff, or they may be reported to a WSD staff member by a student, parent, or other third

party.

SCT: Student Crisis Team. A group of WSD staff who will be familiar with WSD response

guidelines for students in crisis. The team may include the following:

Principal

Assistant Principal

Special Education Coordinator

Guidance Counselor

School Nurse

School Resource Officer

Additional persons may participate in the SCT as may be appropriate to the circumstances.

Protocol

1. Upon observation of at-risk behaviors or suspicion of risk for self-injury, or the receipt of

a report regarding same, the school staff member will immediately contact a school

administrator.

If an administrator is unavailable, the staff member will contact the first available

SCT member.

2. The identified student will be accompanied by a member of the staff, or another adult if

necessary, to the office of the school Guidance Counselor or other appropriate location,

depending upon the circumstances. The School Nurse will be contacted immediately to

conduct a nursing assessment of the student and document her/his observations. The

student will then be interviewed by the school counselor and/or an administrator, and/or

other person(s) as may be appropriate, and the student’s level of risk will be assessed.

If the student is thought to be at imminent risk of self-injurious behavior or suicide

ideation, the appropriate SCT member will attempt to notify the parents that the SCT

members intend to follow protocol for a medical emergency, call an ambulance, and

have the student evaluated at an emergency room. An SCT member shall accompany

the child in the ambulance, if the parents are not present and if the SCT member is

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permitted to be present in the ambulance, and will remain with the student in the E.R.,

if permitted, until a parent or guardian arrives.

If the risk is not thought to be imminent, the student’s parents will be contacted and

they will be asked to immediately pick up the student from school and bring the

student to an appropriate professional (e.g., the student’s pediatrician,

psychotherapist, mental health counselor, or the emergency room) for further

evaluation and intervention.

If the parents respond to the situation in a manner that causes school staff to suspect

that the student may be subject to medical or other neglect, or to abuse, the staff

member(s) shall call the Missouri Child Abuse and Neglect Hotline at

1.800.392.3738, as prescribed by law for mandatory reporter.

If the student is self-enrolled or is 18 years of age or older, the school resource officer

may be called.

3. The identified student will be directly supervised by a member of the SCT until the EMT,

Children’s Division, the School Resource Officer, or a parent has arrived to take

responsibility for ensuring the student’s safety.

4. An administrator will complete a Student Safety Incident Report Form, and will request

that a parent sign the form to confirm receipt.

Parents will receive a copy of the Student Information-Hospital Exchange Form and

Referral Resources List.

5. The identified student’s re-entry to the WSD should follow the WSD Re-Entry Protocol

for Students at Risk for Self Injurious Behavior.

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Building Counselor(s) Responsibilities

Provide support for the most affected students.

Identify other/additional students, staff, and parents likely to be most affected by news.

Identify substitute personnel in the building.

Be alert on crisis anniversaries and holidays. Often students/staff will experience

“anniversary” grief reaction the following month or year or on the date of the crisis, or

when similar crises occur that remind them of the original crisis. Holidays, too, often are

difficult for students who have experienced loss.

Counseling Crisis Team Responsibilities

Assists the principal(s) and /or Counseling Crisis Team Coordinator with developing

specific plan for responding to the crisis.

Accepts the responsibilities delegated by the building principal.

Consults with and supports the affected building’s staff in reacting to and dealing with

the crises, as needed.

Provides district support services to staff and students in distress.

Makes referrals to building counselor for those needing follow-up support from outside

resources.

Collects data to submit to team leader.

Relays confidential information to Central Office administrators that pertains to the loss.

Substitute teachers in classroom for short periods of time in the place of affected faculty

members.

Assists in all buildings, as needed

Complete all follow-up paperwork and evaluation forms

Convene the Counseling Crisis Team for debriefing as soon as possible. Discuss

successes and problems and discuss things to do differently next time. Allow staff

opportunity to discuss feelings and reactions.

Be aware that approximately 90% of the students in your classroom will not be affected by the

individual’s death. Do not be offended by statements or comments which would indicate the

student is not affected by the death.

1. Read announcement concerning the individual’s death. See the sample announcements

on the following pages.

2. If you have students who seem unduly upset after the announcement or during the school

day, send them to the counseling office accompanied by another student; however, you

can be of assistance to students just by listening to them and letting them express their

feelings.

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Some helpful responses to distressed students are:

“I can see that you are really hurting.”

“It’s very hard to accept the death of someone you knew well.”

“I know… it just seems unbelievable.”

“It really hurts, doesn’t it?”

“It is especially hard when there are many unanswered questions.”

Some responses that are not helpful are:

“You will feel better tomorrow.”

“Just don’t think about it now.”

“A friend of mine died when I was your age, and I got over it.”

“It’s hard, but we all have to face the death of someone close at one time or another.”

Some students just need a private place and may not need counseling immediately. Be sensitive

also to this need. Send students in distress to the counselor’s office for assistance.

3. Look for signs of emotional reactions or major changes in the students’ behaviors that

need attention over several days and then refer to counselors. Look for lingering sadness

(sadness for several days is to be expected, but IMPROVEMENT should be seen within

one week to ten days).

4. Any personal items left at the locker, in the desk, or in the room will be moved to the

counselor’s room. The time frame will be determined by the building crisis committee.

All items will be given to the family during the time of funeral visitation in the event that

the family would want to use certain items as part of the funeral displays.

Suggestions for Counseling Crisis Team Members

Visits to Classrooms

1. Briefly explain why you are there… “If you are wondering why there are some different

adults than you are used to in the building this morning, it’s because we are all counselors

who care and were invited here by your counselor/ principal because of the death of

______________. We care about what you are going through and know it is tough.

Because we are not as close to _________ as you are, we are not suffering the way you

and the teachers are – we just want to help out in any way possible.”

2. Let all kids know that whatever they are feeling is okay. It may be anger, sadness, fear,

confusion, and guilt – anything. Your teacher may react differently, also. They may be

upset just like many of you are.

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3. Help them realize that different people will express feeling in different ways and that is

okay. “Try not to be upset because someone else does not seem to be hurting or suffering

as much as you.

4. Help them believe that the intense sadness or hurt won’t last forever.

5. Allow expressions of present feelings, but accept the silence.

6. Allow them to talk about some of their experiences with the deceased student – fun time,

etc. If possible and it seems appropriate, walk around the campus with one or two of

students. Physical activity helps some students.

7. Let high school students talk to one another

8. To start a conversation, ask the students to tell something good that he/she remembers

about the deceased person.

Tips for Counselors/Crisis Team Members

When Assisting In a Crisis Situation

1. Keep your life in balance

a. Eat well and get plenty of exercise. A good diet and exercise is important when

under stress.

b. Balance work and rest.

c. Stick to a schedule as much as you can. It provides stability and the comfort of a

normal routine when your feelings are out of control.

d. Avoid new major projects or decisions.

2. Be realistic about what you can do.

3. Recognize and acknowledge your own feelings of loss and grief.

4. Give yourself permission to mourn. No matter what the nature of your relationship,

there is still a feeling of loss. Give yourself the same latitude you give your students.

5. Meet with fellow Counselors/Crisis Team members and be supportive of each other

or form a support group with fellow staff members.

6. Be kind to yourself. You do not have to “get it all together” right away. You do not have

to do it all, be strong for everyone, or take care of everything. Treat yourself with the

same gentleness and understanding you would anybody else.

7. Consider personal grief issues. Do not ask a person to work during the crisis who has

recently had a personal loss.

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When a Student Dies:

Guidelines for Small-Group Discussion

1. Review the facts and dispel rumors.

2. Share your own reactions with the class and encourage students to express their reactions

in a way appropriate for the, noting that people react in many ways and that is okay.

Possible discussion: What was it like for you when you first heard the news?

3. Inform students of locations for grief support; reassure students that any adult in the

building is available for support. Possible discussion: How can you students help each

other through this?

4. Listen to what students have to say. It is important not to shut off discussion.

5. Talk with students about their concerns regarding “what to say” to other bereaved

students and the family of the deceased. If applicable, share information about the

deceased person’s culture (beliefs and ceremonies) which will help students understand

and respond comfortably to the affected family. Possible discussion question: If you

were a member of (the student’s) family, what do you think you would want at a time like

this?

6. If the student died of an illness and it is appropriate to do so, discuss the illness. This is

especially useful for younger children who may need to differentiate between the illness

of the child who died and any medical problems of others the child knows.

7. If a suicide occurs, discuss facts and myths about suicide.

8. Allow students to discuss other losses they have experienced. Help them understand this

loss often brings up past losses; this is a normal occurrence.

9. Encourage students to discuss their feelings with their parents/families.

Keep in mind—

A “regular” day may be too hard for grieving students. Offer choices of activities.

Helping Children Cope with Violence and Terror

Tips for Parents and Teachers

National Association of School Psychologists

Children are likely to become increasingly frightened or anxious as long as the shootings and

school lockdowns continue. Parents and school personnel can help children cope first and

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foremost by establishing a sense of personal safety and security. This may seem more difficult

given the seemingly random nature of these attacks, but in fact most children are safe. They

will look to adults for reassurance and guidance on how to react. What adults say and do can

help distance children from the sense of threat, help them work through their emotions, and

maintain or regain a sense of normalcy.

All adults should:

1. Model calm and control. Children take their emotional cues from the significant adults

in their lives. Avoid appearing anxious or frightened.

2. Reassure children that they are safe and (if true) so are the other important adults in

their lives. Point out factors that help insure their immediate safety and that of their

community, such as staying indoors for recess and lunch and the presence of police and

security officers.

3. Remind them that trustworthy people are in charge. Explain that the police,

emergency workers, federal law enforcement, and school officials are working to keep

people safe and find the perpetrator.

4. Let children know that it is okay to feel upset. Explain that all feelings are okay when

a tragedy like this occurs. Let children talk about their feelings and help put them into

perspective. Even anger is okay, but children may need help and patience from adults to

assist them in expressing these feelings appropriately.

5. Observe children’s emotional state. Depending on their age, children may not express

their concerns verbally. Children will express their emotions differently. There is no

right or wrong way to feel or express grief or fear. Signs of heightened anxiety include:

Refusing to go to school and excessive “clinging”

Persistent fears related to the shootings

Worry that loved ones might get hurt

Sleep disturbances such as nightmares, screaming during sleep, or bedwetting

Irritability and loss of concentration

Increase agitation

Being easily startled and jumpy

New or unusual behavior problems

Physical complaints for which a physical cause cannot be found

Withdrawal from family and friends

Sadness, listlessness, or decreased activity

Preoccupation with the death or violence

6. Look for children at greater risk. Children who have had a past traumatic experience

or personal loss, suffer from depression or other mental illness, or with special needs may

be a greater risk for severe reactions than others. Be particularly observant for those who

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may be at risk of suicide. Seek the help of mental health professional if you are at all

concerned.

7. Tell children the truth. Don’t try to pretend the event or events have not occurred or

that it is not serious. Children are smart. They will be more worried if they think you are

too afraid to tell them what is happening.

8. Stick to facts. Don’t embellish or speculate about what has happened and what might

happen. Don’t dwell on the scale or scope of the tragedy, particularly with young

children.

9. Keep your explanations developmentally appropriate. Early elementary school children need brief, simple information that should be balanced with reassurances that the

daily structures of their lives will not change. Upper elementary and early middle

school children will be more vocal in asking questions about whether they truly are safe

and what is being done at their school. They may need assistance separating reality from

fantasy. Upper middle school and high school students will have strong and varying

opinions about the causes of violence and threats to safety in schools and society. They

will share concrete suggestions about how to make school safer and how to prevent

tragedies in society. They will be more committed to doing something to help the victims

and affected community. For all children, encourage them to verbalize their thoughts

and feelings. Be a good listener!

10. Monitor your own stress level. Don’t ignore your own feelings of anxiety, grief, and

anger. Talking to friends, family members, religious leaders, and mental health

counselors can help. It is okay to let your children know that you are sad, but that you

believe things will get better. You will be better able to support your children if you can

express your own emotions in a productive manner. Get appropriate sleep, nutrition, and

exercise.

When a Grieving Classmate Returns

First Words

The classmate probably feels like he/she is from a different planet when returning to

school.

There is very little you can say wrong, so talk to the classmate.

At least say, “hello,” “welcome back,” “I’m glad to see you,” or something similar.

The brave might even say, “I missed you,” “I’m so sorry to hear about your _____’s

death.”

Even braver friends might even make statements like “It must be incredibly tough to have

your _______ die.”

Another option: write a brief note.

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If your classmate cries, that is okay; you did not cause the grief and you can’t make the

person feel worse. Offer comfort and a tissue.

Helping the Classmate Adjust to the Class

Offer to provide past notes.

Offer to provide notes for comparison for the next week or so (your classmate’s attention

span will probably vary for several weeks).

Give the classmate your phone number to call if having problems with homework.

Ask your classmate if you can call to check on how homework is going.

Ask the teacher if you can be the student’s helper for a week.

Offer to study together in person or over the phone; this might help with both motivation

(grieving students frequently do not feel like doing school work) and with concentration.

Some Don’ts

Don’t shun. Speak to the student.

No cliché statements (e.g., “I know how you feel” when nobody knows the unique

relationship the classmate had with the deceased).

Don’t expect the person to snap back into the “old self.”

Don’t be surprised if classmate seems unaffected by the loss, everybody has his/her own

way of grieving.

Don’t be afraid to ask appropriate questions about the deceased, like “what did you and

your ______ enjoy together?” (people never tire of talking about the person they grieve).

Just because the classmate may seem to be adjusting to school again, don’t assume the grieving

has stopped, not the need for comfort and friendship.

Guidelines for Understanding and Responding to a Crisis

1. Here are some of the emotions you may observe in your students (or in yourself)

following a tragedy.

Numbness, shock, denial – After a sudden death, you don’t want to believe it has

happened; you had no preparation for its occurrence.

Confusion – Why did this happen? I don’t understand the circumstances. How could

this happen to someone I know?

Fear – Could something like this happen again? Will something like this happen

again?

Grief – Sadness, crying, a deep sense of personal loss.

Anxiety – A difficulty in explaining or understanding the tragedy; things are not the

same at school or in my class.

Depression – Emptiness, unhappiness, loneliness

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Guilt – An irrational feeling of responsibility for the event. What could I have done

to prevent it?

Anger – Why did someone do a violent, senseless thing? Why did others let it

happen? Anger can be directed towards a specific person or persons or be a more

general feeling of anger.

2. Here are some of the changes in behavior you may see. Most, if not all of these changes,

will be temporary. Children are resilient and do bounce back.

Lack of concentration – forgetfulness, inability to focus on schoolwork, household

chores, or other leisure activities.

Lack of interest in usual activities – Their mind is preoccupied with other thoughts

and feelings and what would usually be very enjoyable may not have much appeal.

Greater dependency – A need to feel protected may result in their wanting to do more

with you or not wanting to have you away from them for long periods of time; some

kids may not want to be alone.

Problems with sleeping and eating – Difficulty going to sleep, occasional bad dreams

or a decreased appetite are common physical reactions to a stressful event.

Overly quiet or overly talkative or a combination – Adults may need to talk about the

tragic incident over and over again, asking questions that may be unanswerable but

needing to ask them anyway. This repetition is often a healthy way of working

though the grief process; on the other hand, a student may not want to talk about it

much with you, preferring to discuss it with friends, classmate, parents – those who

may have been closer to the tragedy; or the students may not want to talk to anyone at

all.

3. Here are some things that teachers and parents can do to help a child through this

difficult time

Listen – Don’t interrupt, he/she needs to be heard.

Accept feelings – They are valid feelings for this student, even though your feelings

may not be similar ones.

Empathize – Let the child know that you recognize his/her sadness. Confusion, anger,

or whatever feelings he/she has about the tragedy.

Reassure – The students are not responsible for what happened.

Accept – The student may not want to talk about the trauma right away. Let him/her

know you are willing to listen whenever he/she wants or needs to talk about it.

Be tolerant of temporary changes.

Maintain as much of a sense of routine as possible.

Provide additional activities if the student seems to have excess energy.

Do not hesitate to ask for help.

Adapted from Robert L. Lewis, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist, Clayton MO

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Individual Counseling Summary

Team Member

Date Time Name Comment Referred ()

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Group Counseling Summary

Team Member(s)

Date Time a.m. / p.m.

Purpose of group

Intervention strategies utilized

Brief Summary

Students Present: