CIRCLES OF INTIMACY 

Holiday Health Check

Strengthen Your Connections This Holiday Season! 

Our relational connections are important all year round, but especially during the

holidays. This Circles of Intimacy Holiday Health Check is a way for you to take

inventory of your relational health, give thanks for the gifts of people in your life, and

think of some ways you can move toward people with intentional love through the

holidays and into the new year. 

The Holiday Health Check can be used as a journaling tool or an activity to complete

with your family, friends, or in a small group. It includes worksheets for you to examine

and improve your relational health in the following relationships: 

Print off as many copies as you need for each person/relationship. May this holiday

season be one of healing, joy, and deeper connection for you and those you love! 

God

Spouse/Closest Friend

Close Friends/Family Members

Extended Family Members

Work Colleagues

Acquaintances/Community Members

And more! (Blank sheet provided)

GOD

AM I LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND? 

AM I WILLING TO ADJUST? 

AM I KEEPING MY LOVE ON? 

IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . . . . 

IS THERE A HEALTHY EXCHANGE OF TRUTH?

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF SAFETY? 

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF RESPECT? 

GOD

THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

THING I WANT TO DO TO

STRENGTHEN THIS 

CONNECTION THIS

HOLIDAY SEASON

3

1 1AREA WHERE I WANT

TO GROW IN THIS 

RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR

SPOUSE/ CLOSEST FRIEND

NAME: 

AM I LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND? 

AM I WILLING TO ADJUST? 

AM I KEEPING MY LOVE ON? 

IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . . . . 

IS THERE A HEALTHY EXCHANGE OF TRUTH?

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF SAFETY? 

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF RESPECT? 

SPOUSE/ CLOSEST FRIEND

NAME: 

THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

THING I WANT TO DO TO

STRENGTHEN THIS 

CONNECTION THIS

HOLIDAY SEASON

3

1 1AREA WHERE I WANT

TO GROW IN THIS 

RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR

CLOSE FRIEND/ FAMILY MEMBER

NAME: 

AM I LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND? 

AM I WILLING TO ADJUST? 

AM I KEEPING MY LOVE ON? 

IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . . . . 

IS THERE A HEALTHY EXCHANGE OF TRUTH?

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF SAFETY? 

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF RESPECT? 

CLOSE FRIEND/ FAMILY MEMBER

NAME: 

THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

THING I WANT TO DO

TO STRENGTHEN THIS

CONNECTION THIS

HOLIDAY SEASON

3

1 1AREA WHERE I WANT

TO GROW IN THIS 

RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR

EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBER

NAME: 

AM I LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND? 

AM I WILLING TO ADJUST? 

AM I KEEPING MY LOVE ON? 

IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . . . . 

IS THERE A HEALTHY EXCHANGE OF TRUTH?

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF SAFETY? 

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF RESPECT? 

EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBER

NAME: 

THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

THING I WANT TO DO

TO STRENGTHEN THIS

CONNECTION THIS

HOLIDAY SEASON

3

1 1AREA WHERE I WANT

TO GROW IN THIS 

RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR

WORK COLLEAGUE

NAME: 

AM I LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND? 

AM I WILLING TO ADJUST? 

AM I KEEPING MY LOVE ON? 

IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . . . . 

IS THERE A HEALTHY EXCHANGE OF TRUTH?

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF SAFETY? 

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF RESPECT? 

WORK COLLEAGUE

NAME: 

THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

THING I WANT TO DO

TO STRENGTHEN THIS

CONNECTION THIS

HOLIDAY SEASON

3

1 1AREA WHERE I WANT

TO GROW IN THIS 

RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR

ACQUAINTANCE/ COMMUNITY

MEMBER

NAME: 

AM I LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND? 

AM I WILLING TO ADJUST? 

AM I KEEPING MY LOVE ON? 

IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . . . . 

IS THERE A HEALTHY EXCHANGE OF TRUTH?

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF SAFETY? 

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF RESPECT? 

ACQUAINTANCE/ COMMUNITY

MEMBER

NAME: 

THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

THING I WANT TO DO

TO STRENGTHEN THIS

CONNECTION THIS

HOLIDAY SEASON

3

1 1AREA WHERE I WANT

TO GROW IN THIS 

RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR

NAME: 

AM I LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND? 

AM I WILLING TO ADJUST? 

AM I KEEPING MY LOVE ON? 

IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . . . . 

IS THERE A HEALTHY EXCHANGE OF TRUTH?

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF SAFETY? 

WHAT IS THE LEVEL OF RESPECT? 

NAME: 

THINGS I AM THANKFUL FOR IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

THING I WANT TO DO

TO STRENGTHEN MY 

CONNECTION THIS

HOLIDAY SEASON

3

1 1AREA WHERE I WANT

TO GROW IN THIS 

RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR