Non Winning
Script
Prepared By Manu Melwin JoyResearch Scholar
School of Management StudiesCUSAT, Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114
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Non Winning Script
• Someone with a non-winning script is a middle of the roader.
• He plods along from day to day, not making any big winds but not making any big losses either.
• He doesn’t take risk. This kind of script pattern is often called banal.
Non Winning Script• At work, a non-winner will
not become the boss. He will not be fired either.
• Instead, he will likely serve out his working years, be awarded a marble clock, and go into quiet retirement.
• He may sit in his rocking chair reflecting : “ I could have been the boss if only I did been the right place at the right time. Ah, well, I didn’t do so bad, I suppose.”
Winners, Losers and non winners• Berne suggested that you
could tell a winner from a loser by asking him what he would do if he lost.
• He said a winner knows but doesn’t talk about it.
• A loser doesn’t know and all he talk about is winning : ‘When I make my first million…’.
• He stakes everything on one option and that is how he loses.
Winners, Losers and non winners• A winner always has
additional options, and that is how he wins. If one thing doesn’t work out, he does something else until he is successful.
• A non-winner sometimes wins and sometime loses, but never very big in either direction, because he doesn’t take risks.
• He plays it safe, and that is how he remains a non-winner.
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