TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR A SHINING PERSONALITY

STEP–1 ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY

“Responsibility gravitate to the person who can shoulder them”.

Albert Hubbard

“The price of greatness is responsibility”

Winston Churchill

STEP–2 THINK WIN/WIN

STEP–3 CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY

It hurts sentiments. It breaks relations. More devastative than natural

calamity.

Speak less say more

STEP–4 BE A GOOD LISTENER

NEGLECTED IMPORTANT

REJECTED PLEASED

DEJECTED SATISFIED

UNIMPORTANT ENCOURAGED

ANNOYED APPRECIATED

EMBARRASED INSPIRED

DEMOTIVATED CARED FOR

DISHEARTNED HONOURED“An open ear is the only believable sign of an open heart” David Augsburger

STEP–5 DISCUSS BUT DON’T ARGUE

LIGHT FIREREASONING EGOWHAT’S RIGHT? WHO’S RIGHT?OPEN MIND NARROW MIND

“I learned a long time ago never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty and besides, the pig likes it.”

Cyrus Ching

STEP–6 TURN YOUR PROMISE INTO COMMITMENT

STEP–7 BE TRUSTWORTHY AND

LOYAL

STEP–8 PRACTICE COURTSEY

“RUDENESS IS THE WEAK MAN’S IMITATION OF STRENGTH”

STEP–9 DEVELOP A SENSE OF HUMOUR

“When someone blushes with embarrassment, when someone carries away an ache, when someone’s weakness provides the laughter, when a child is brought to tears and when everyone can't join in the laughter it’s a poor joke”

Chiff Thomas

STEP–10 BE THE PERSON OF PRINCIPLES