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POWER AND FORGIVENESS IN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS ZHENG XUE A DISSERTATION SUBMITTED FOR THE DEGREE OF DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY IN MANAGEMENT DEPARTMENT OF MANAGEMENT AND ORGANISATION NATIONAL UNIVERSITY OF SINGAPORE 2012

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POWER AND FORGIVENESS IN INTERPERSONAL

RELATIONSHIPS

ZHENG XUE

A DISSERTATION SUBMITTED

FOR THE DEGREE OF

DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY IN MANAGEMENT

DEPARTMENT OF

MANAGEMENT AND ORGANISATION

NATIONAL UNIVERSITY OF SINGAPORE

2012

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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

While I am about to finish this PhD journey, scenes of the past five years

arise vividly in my mind. The last five years have been a transformational journey for

me. It has changed me from a fledgling doctoral student to an independent scholar.

This transformation would have been impossible without the support of my supervisor,

faculty and PhDs in the department, and my family. Here, I would like to express my

great gratitude to the following people who have provided me with unconditional

support and encouragement throughout this PhD Journey.

First and foremost, I would like to thank my supervisor, Jayanth Narayanan,

for his patient guidance and inspiration throughout the five years of mentorship. He

has made my experience both meaningful and pleasurable. His wisdom, positivity,

curiosity, and enthusiasm have always inspired me to truly enjoy doing research. His

generosity and warmth have also enlightened me in my personal life. I will always

regard him as my greatest mentor.

Secondly, I would like to thank the rest of my dissertation committee -

Michael Frese, Daniel McAllister and Vivien Lim, whose critical questions and

comments were very helpful in shaping my dissertation. I am grateful to have these

excellent scholars in my committee. They have also provided invaluable advice and

help throughout the five years. I would also like to thank the head of the department,

Richard Arvey for his encouragement throughout these five years. These

distinguished scholars have made the M&O department a nurturing atmosphere for

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PhD students.

Thirdly, I am fortunate to have wonderful PhD colleagues and research

assistants to work with. They have given me valuable help and feedback through

various sparkling conversations. Thanks go to Kenneth Tai, Smrithi Prasad, Angeline

Lim, Zhao Xiuxi, Khoo Hwee Sing, Jared Nai, Sun Shuhua, Gao Xiangyu, Don Chen

Jia Qin, Li Wendong, Shereen Fatimah etc. There are too many to name everyone. All

of these colleagues have made the department a close academic community.

Finally, thanks must go to my parents for all of their sacrifice and support.

They have always been my solid pillars. It is because of them I have the courage to

pursue my dream. I am also grateful to my partner, Richard Carney, who has provided

me unfailing emotional and intellectual support throughout the thesis writing process.

Thanks for always being there for me whenever I need help.

Zheng Xue

Rotterdam

2nd June 2012

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

ABSTRACT ................................................................................................................... v

LIST OF TABLES ........................................................................................................ vi

LIST OF FIGURES ..................................................................................................... vii

LIST OF APPENDICES ............................................................................................ viii

CHAPTER 1. INTRODUCTION AND RESEARCH OVERVIEW ............................ 1

CHAPTER 2. POWER THEORY AND RESEARCH ................................................. 6

Definition of Social Power......................................................................................... 6

Social Power and Its Consequences ........................................................................... 7

The Cognitive Consequences of Power ................................................................. 7

The Affective Consequences of Power .................................................................. 9

The Behavioral Consequences of Power ............................................................... 9

Social Perception of the Powerful............................................................................ 10

Conclusions on Power Research: State of the Science ............................................ 12

CHAPTER 3 FORGIVENESS THEORY AND RESEARCH ................................... 14

Definition of Forgiveness ........................................................................................ 14

Antecedents of Forgiveness ..................................................................................... 16

Cognitions ............................................................................................................ 16

Affect ................................................................................................................... 18

Relationship Constraints ...................................................................................... 18

Forgiveness and its Consequences ........................................................................... 19

The Intrapersonal Consequences of Forgiveness ................................................. 19

The Interpersonal Consequences of Forgiveness ................................................. 20

The Generalized Consequences of Forgiveness .................................................. 21

Boundary of the Forgiveness Effects ................................................................... 22

Forgiveness in the Organization Literature .............................................................. 23

Conclusions on Forgiveness: State of the Science ................................................... 24

CHAPTER 4 ESSAY 1: THE EFFECT OF POWER ON FORGIVENESS .............. 26

High Power Actor’s Behavior .................................................................................. 26

Predicting Forgiveness ............................................................................................. 28

Hypotheses ............................................................................................................... 29

Study 1 Forgiveness in Scenarios ............................................................................ 30

Method ................................................................................................................. 30

Results .................................................................................................................. 32

Study 2 Forgiveness in Actual Transgression .......................................................... 33

Method ................................................................................................................. 33

Results .................................................................................................................. 37

Discussion ................................................................................................................ 38

CHAPTER 5 ESSAY 2: TRANSGRESSORS’ PERCEPTION AND COMPLIANCE

BEHAVIOR ................................................................................................................. 41

Perception of Forgiveness ........................................................................................ 42

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Social Perception about High Power Actors’ Behaviors ......................................... 44

Perception of High Power Victims’ Forgiveness..................................................... 45

Transgressors’ Behaviors after Being Forgiven ...................................................... 46

Transgressor’s Perception and Compliance Behavior ............................................. 48

Study 3 Experiment Study ....................................................................................... 50

Power manipulation ............................................................................................. 52

Method ................................................................................................................. 53

Results .................................................................................................................. 56

Study 4 Scenario Survey I........................................................................................ 57

Method ................................................................................................................. 58

Result ................................................................................................................... 61

Study 5 Scenario Survey II ...................................................................................... 64

Method ................................................................................................................. 65

Result ................................................................................................................... 68

Study 6 Organization Survey ................................................................................... 71

Method ................................................................................................................. 71

Results .................................................................................................................. 75

Discussion ................................................................................................................ 76

CHAPTER 6 GENERAL DISCUSSION AND CONCLUSION ................................ 78

Theoretical Implications .......................................................................................... 84

Power ................................................................................................................... 84

Forgiveness .......................................................................................................... 85

Organization ......................................................................................................... 86

Practical Implications............................................................................................... 87

Limitations ............................................................................................................... 88

Future Directions: how to solve the dilemma? ........................................................ 93

Conclusion ............................................................................................................... 94

REFERENCES ............................................................................................................ 94

TABLES .................................................................................................................... 114

FIGURES ................................................................................................................... 106

APPENDICES ........................................................................................................... 112

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ABSTRACT

Forgiveness is universally recognized to be a virtue. Yet there is little

empirical work on the topic in organization scholarship. In my thesis, I examine how

forgiveness may be viewed in relationships with asymmetrical power, an example of

one such relationship being the manager -subordinate dyad. Research has portrayed

high power actors as being selfish and aggressive. In light of the negative effects of

power, one may expect that when harmed by lower power transgressors, high power

actors may be more vengeful. The power literature also suggests that people interpret

high power actors’ actions more benignly compared to low power actors’ actions.

Thus, transgressors may evaluate forgiveness from a powerful person more favorably

than forgiveness from someone who is low power.

It is ironic that power may lead high power actors to be less forgiving but

people value forgiveness from high power actors. My dissertation studies the paradox

of powerful actors’ forgiveness: the inconsistency between what high power actors

actually do (descriptive) and what they should do in response to transgressions

(normative). Specifically, my research questions are as follows: Will high power

actors (victims) be less forgiving when transgressed upon (Study 1 & Study 2)? If

high power victims forgive, how will transgressors perceive and respond to a

forgiveness gesture (Pilot study, Study 3, Study 4, Study 5, & Study 6)? I examine

these two questions through a combination of surveys, scenarios, and laboratory

studies.

Study 1 and Study 2 show that high power actors are less forgiving and

feelings of anger mediate the effect of power on forgiveness. In Study 4, I find that

transgressors are more likely to perceive forgiveness from high power victims as

being “authentic” and thus feel more obligated towards the transgressor. As a result,

transgressors reciprocate high power victims by being more compliant with them

(Study 3, Study 4, Study 5, & Study 6).Specifically, transgressors are more likely to

attribute high power victims’ forgiveness to moral motive and feel gratitude to the

forgiveness (Study 5). I discuss the implications of my studies for organizational

scholars.

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LIST OF TABLES

1. Summary of Power Literature

2. Summary of Forgiveness Literature

3. Mean of Compliance Score in Study 6

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LIST OF FIGURES

1. Research Model of Study 2: Anger mediates the effect of power on forgiveness.

2. Results of Study 2: Anger mediates the effect of power on forgiveness.

3. Research Model of Study 3, 4, & 5: Power of forgiver moderates the effect of

forgiveness on compliance.

4. Research model of Study 4: Authentic intention mediates the effect of being

forgiven on compliance.

5. Results of Study 3: Power moderates the effect of forgiveness on transgressor’s

objective compliance behavior.

6. Results of Study 4: Power moderates the effect of forgiveness on transgressor’s

feelings of obligation.

7. Results of Study 4: Authentic intention mediates the effect of being forgiven on

compliance.

8. Results of Study 5: Feelings of gratitude mediate the effect of being forgiven on

compliance.

9. Results of Study 6: Power moderates the effect of forgiveness on transgressor’s

compliance behavior.

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LIST OF APPENDICES

1. Appendix 1: Study 1 Scenario Study Protocol

2. Appendix 2: Study 1 Scenario Study Material

3. Appendix 3: Study 2 Experiment Study Protocol

4. Appendix 4: Study 2 Experiment Study Materials

5. Appendix 5: Pilot Study Protocol

6. Appendix 6: Pilot Study Materials

7. Appendix 7: Study 3 Experiment Study Protocol

8. Appendix 8: Study 3 Experiment Study Materials

9. Appendix 9: Study 4 Scenario Study I Materials

10. Appendix 10: Study 5 Scenario Study II Materials

11. Appendix 11: Study 6 Online Survey

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CHAPTER 1. INTRODUCTION AND RESEARCH OVERVIEW

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Mahatma Gandhi

Imagine the following scenario. Tom is Jerry’s manager at the workplace.

One morning during a meeting with other employees, Jerry made a rude comment

when Tom was making a presentation to the workgroup. Tom obviously took offense

to Jerry’s comment. As Jerry’s manager, how will Tom respond to an offense by his

subordinate? Will he seek revenge on Jerry? Or will he forgive Jerry? If he forgives

Jerry, how will Jerry reciprocate Tom’s gesture? In my dissertation, I attempt to

address these questions by examining the role of power on forgiveness.

High power actors are “notorious” for their aggressive and self-serving

behaviors in their interactions with others. The extant literature on power suggests

that high power actors hold an independent self-construal and view themselves as

being important (Lee & Tiedens, 2001; Overbeck, Tiedens, & Brion, 2006). As a

result, high power actors feel less need to connect with others and are selfish and

aggressive in social relationships (Keltner et al., 2001; Howard, Blumstein, &

Schwart, 1986; Studd, 1996).

Given the negative effect that power has in social relationships, power is

likely to influence how people respond to transgressions. There are three typical

responses to transgressions: revenge, avoidance, and forgiveness (McCullough et al.,

1998). Since high power actors are less embedded in the relationship and hold an

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independent self- construal, they should be less concerned with the negative

consequences of their actions on the relationship. This in turn means that they would

not hesitate to seek revenge when transgressed upon. Therefore, one may expect that

in a transgression episode, when the transgressor has low power, the victim who has

high power is more likely to seek revenge than when the transgressor has high power

and the victim has low power. Indeed, existing limited studies on power and

forgiveness provide preliminary evidence that high power actors are less forgiving

(Aquino, Tripp, & Bies, 2001, 2006; Kim, Smith, & Brigham, 1998). This suggests

that high power actors are less likely to forgive.

Although high power actors are less likely to forgive, organizational scholars

have suggested forgiveness as a virtue for leaders in the workplace (Cameron & Caza,

2002; Aquino, Grover, Goldman, & Folger, 2003; Caldwell & Dixon, 2009). Apart

from this rhetoric of forgiveness as a virtue, to the best of my knowledge, there is no

systematic research on why high power actors should forgive and the consequences of

such gestures. If forgiveness is indeed a virtue for high power actors, transgressors

should evaluate a high power actor’s forgiveness more positively. In fact, the power

literature has suggested that people tend to interpret high power actors’ behavior more

positively compared to the behavior of low power actors (Overbeck, Tiedens, & Brion,

2006; Hinkel & Brown, 1990; Tiedens, Ellsworth, & Mesquita, 2000; Brauer, 2002).

Thus, transgressors may value gestures of forgiveness of a high power actor more

than forgiveness by someone who has low power.

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It is ironic that power leads high power actors to be less forgiving but people

value forgiveness from high power actors. My dissertation investigates this paradox of

powerful actors’ forgiveness: the inconsistency between what high power actors

actually do (descriptive) and what they should do in response to offences (normative).

Therefore, my research questions are as follows: Will high power actors (victims) be

less forgiving when transgressed upon (Study 1 & Study 2)?When high power victims

forgive, how will transgressors perceive and reciprocate the forgiveness gesture (Pilot

Study, Study 3, Study 4, Study 5, & Study 5)? Specifically, will transgressors

perceive forgiveness from high power victims as being more “authentic” and feel

more obligated to the high power victims? What specific intrinsic motives will be

assigned to high power victims’ forgiveness? Will they be more compliant with high

power victims to reciprocate the forgiveness gesture? I use a combination of

laboratory and survey studies to test my hypotheses.

My dissertation makes three primary contributions to the literature. First, it

examines how people perceive power holders’ behaviors. Past studies have mainly

focused on how possessing power influences power holders’ behaviors. However,

social power is inherently reciprocal. Once high power actors acquire power, their

power also impacts their counterparts’ perception and behaviors in the relationship

(Brauer & Bourhis, 2006). My dissertation examines how power affects the way high

power actors behave as well as how people perceive and react to high power actors’

behaviors. Second, the forgiveness literature has so far advocated that forgiveness

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benefits victims because victims subsequently feel healthier and more connected to

others. However, this is a dangerous view if forgiveness is interpreted as being weak

and elicits further harm from transgressors. Thus, it is imperative to investigate the

“feedback loop”- how transgressors respond to forgiveness. Third, organization

hierarchy causes asymmetric power at the workplace. Given the fact that power is

inherent in workplace relationships, it certainly impacts how employees manage

conflict at the workplace. Unfortunately, there are very few empirical studies on the

role of power in forgiveness at the workplace. My dissertation investigates the role of

power in forgiveness by examining how power impacts power holder’s forgiveness

and how transgressors perceive and reciprocate the forgiveness from high power

actors.

The rest of this document is organized as follows. I review the power

literature in Chapter 2 in which I define the construct of social power, summarize the

current state of power research , and discuss the necessity of studying power from a

reciprocal perspective to present the need for the current research. I then review the

forgiveness literature in Chapter 3 in which I define the construct of forgiveness,

summarize the current state of forgiveness research, and discuss the need for studying

the effect of being forgiven on transgressors’ perception and behavior. Subsequently,

I develop hypotheses about the effect of power on forgiveness in Chapter 4. I present

two studies to support the hypotheses. In Chapter 5, I develop hypotheses about the

effect of being forgiven on transgressors’ behaviors. Specifically, I focus on how the

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power of the victim impacts transgressor’s compliance behavior after being forgiven.

I further explore how the perception of forgiveness mediates the effect of being

forgiven on feelings of obligation. Finally, I discuss the implications, limitations and

future research directions in Chapter 6.

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CHAPTER 2. POWER THEORY AND RESEARCH

The laws of social dynamics are laws which can only be stated in terms of

power.

(Russell, 1938, p. 10)

Definition of Social Power

As philosopher Russell (1938) remarked, power is as central to the Social

Sciences as energy is to Physics. Power is one of the most important bases of social

hierarchy (Blau, 1964; Mannix & Sauer, 2006; Thye, 2000) and is a fundamental

concept to understand the cognition, emotion, and behavior of individuals in social

interactions.

Social scientists have defined power in different ways. Power has been

defined as the ability to make others do things (Weber, 1947) and the capacity to have

control over outcomes (Fiske, 1993; Keltner, Gruenfeld, & Anderson, 2003; Overbeck

& Park, 2001). Power has also been defined by its source such as reward, coercion,

legitimacy, expert knowledge, and reference (French &Raven, 1959). Although

different, all of these definitions share a consistent underlying factor - the capacity to

influence and control the behavior of others.

Magee and Galinsky (2008, p. 16) call this specific type of power “social

power” and it is defined as “asymmetric control over valued resources in social

relations”. In an asymmetric power relationship, the low power actor is dependent

upon the high power actor for resources and the high power actor thus has the

capacity to affect the low power actor in the relationship. In my dissertation, I adopt

Magee and Galinsky (2008)’s definition of social power.

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Social Power and Its Consequences

Ever since Cartwright (1959) introduced power to the study of interpersonal

relations, studies on power in social psychology have flourished. A vast proportion of

the power literature has concentrated on one broad research question: what are the

consequences of social power? Empirical studies on powerful actors have yielded

consistent findings that power “corrupts” in social relationships. Researchers explain

power’s negative effects from three aspects: cognitive, affective and behavioral

(Bugental, 2000; Kipnis, 1972; Reid & Ng, 1999). Table 1 summarizes these three

perspectives, each of which is reviewed in the current chapter. While the literature

primarily focuses on the effect of power on power holders, it is also possible for

power to have an effect on how people perceive high power actors. Thus, I discuss

social perceptual consequences of power at the end of the chapter.

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The Cognitive Consequences of Power

At the cognitive level, experiencing power influences how powerful people

view themselves and others. The powerful tend to see themselves as being

independent and important. Power creates a subjective sense of separation and

difference from others hence yielding an independent self-construal (Lee & Tiedens,

2001). The powerful also tend to view themselves as being more important (Kipnis,

1976). For example, Kipnis (1972) has found that in a manager-subordinate

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simulation, participants who play the role of manager attribute subordinates’ good

performance to their own control.

Experiencing power also influences how powerful actors view others. The

powerful tend to stereotype others and are less able to take the perspective of others.

This is because powerful people have more resources in the relationship. They do not

need to form an accurate understanding of others for acquiring resources. As a result,

they tend to pay attention to more accessible information when they perceive others.

For instance, power holders pay more attention to stereotypical information of

subordinates and decrease their attention to counter-stereotypical attributes (Fiske,

1993; Goodwin et al., 2000).

In addition, power leads to “perspective not taking”. In a series of

experiments, Galinsky et al.(2006) have shown that power holders do not easily take

others’ perspectives. Participants primed with high power are more likely to draw an

E on their forehead in a self-oriented direction, suggesting that they are not able to

adopt another person’s visual perspective. Experiencing power also leads participants

to presume others possess the same privileged knowledge as them. They are also less

accurate in interpreting others’ emotional expressions.

To conclude, at the cognitive level, the powerful view themselves as being

more important and tend to be less concerned about others.

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The Affective Consequences of Power

At an emotional level, the powerful are less inhibited in displaying emotions

(Clark, 1990; Collins, 1991; Kemper, 1991; Tiedens, Ellsworth, & Moskowitz, 2000).

Power holders are more likely to display positive emotions and negative emotions that

signal their power such as anger and contempt. For example, Keltner et al. (1998)

coded facial expressions of high power members in a fraternity using the Facial

Action Coding System of Ekman and Friesen (FACS; Ekman &Friesen, 1978). They

find that when members teased each other in a group comprised of two low and two

high power members, high power members were more likely to display smiles of

pleasure.

With regard to negative emotions, anger and contempt are often associated

with high power actors while fear, shame, and sadness are associated with low power

actors (Keltner, 1995; Keltner, Young,& Buswell, 1997; Knutson, 1996). For example,

a study has shown that power leads to displays of anger (Tiedens, 2000). Participants

who play the role of boss are more likely to feel angry towards a negative evaluation

about their performance in a task compared to participants who play the role of

subordinate (Tiedens, 2000).

The Behavioral Consequences of Power

At the behavioral level, power holders are more likely to exhibit uninhibited

social behaviors (Keltner et al., 2003). High power actors exhibit more expressive

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body gestures (Ellyson & Dovidio, 1985), more aggressive actions (Bugental, Blue, &

Cruzcosa, 1989; Malamuth, 1996), as well as more risk-oriented behaviors (Anderson

& Galinsky, 2006). In a review, Keltner et al (2003) summarize these behaviors as

approach related behaviors.

High power actors engage in approach related social behaviors for two

reasons. First, high power actors are cognitively independent. Because they are less

dependent on others for social resources, they are less concerned about others’

feelings. As a result, they are less constrained by social interference. Second, power

activates more approach related emotions such as happiness, anger and contempt.

Thus, power holders are more likely to act in a more approachable way. Given that

power holders are cognitively independent and emotionally irritable, they tend to

exhibit less constrained behaviors.

Social Perception of the Powerful

Power affects not only the way its holders act but also how powerful people

are perceived by others. The powerful are seen as possessing more positive traits and

more intrinsic motivation (Overbeck, Tiedens, & Brion, 2006; Hinkel & Brown, 1990;

Tiedens, Ellsworth, & Mesquita, 2000; Brauer, 2002). In a review, Hinkel and Brown

(1990) conclude that regardless of the perceivers’ power, perceivers generally

attribute more positive traits to high power actors than to low power actors. For

example, a study shows that participants who play the role of clerks rate participants

who play the role of managers more favorably on traits such as leadership,

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hard-working, intelligence, assertiveness, supportive, talkative, and successful

(Humphrey, 1985). Furthermore, people make dispositional attributions of high power

actors’ behaviors and situational attributions of low power actors’ behaviors. For

example, when people make attributions about someone who works overtime, they

are more likely to believe a boss of the company wanted to work extra hours, while

the subordinate is compelled to work overtime (Overbeck, Tiedens, & Brion, 2006).

According to attribution theory, with incomplete information, people have to analyze

others’ behaviors by making inferences (Lewin, 1951). They attribute the cause of an

action to the actor’s internal factor – disposition - or to the actor’s external factor -

situation. Correspondent inference theory suggests that whether people attribute an

action to external or internal factors is influenced by how likely they perceive

environmental factors to affect the actor (Jones & Davis, 1965). High power actors do

not depend on others for valuable resources in the relationship. As a result, they are

perceived to be less constrained by environmental factors. As people perceive high

power actors as having greater choice, their behaviors are seen as an accurate

indicator of their personality and preferences.

Given that people tend to make dispositional attribution of high power actors’

actions, they might perceive forgiveness from high power victims as being driven by

their “freewill” and thus reciprocate more in future interactions. Based on theories

about social perception of the powerful, I examine how power of victims impacts

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transgressors’ perception of forgiveness as well as their reciprocity in future

interactions in Chapter 5.

Conclusions on Power Research: State of the Science

Research on power has examined the cognitive, affective, behavioral, and

social perceptual consequences of power. The powerful enjoy greater freedom in their

cognition, emotion displays, and behaviors. Furthermore, they enjoy a more favorable

perception from others.

To date, the overwhelming majority of studies have mainly focused on its

downstream effects on power holders. However, social power, defined as asymmetric

dependence on valued resources in relationships (Magee & Galinsky, 2008), is

inherently reciprocal and dynamic rather than unidirectional and static. Once high

power actors acquire power, their power might be reinforced by their counterparts in

the relationship. For example, previous studies on social perception of the powerful

have shown that people have favorable perceptions about high power actors such as

perceiving more variability and freewill in their actions. It is likely that high power

actors’ privilege can be further reinforced by the low power actors in the relationship.

As suggested by Keltner et al. (2008), it is important to take a reciprocal view of

social power and examine how power impacts high power actors’ behaviors, as well

as how their low power counterparts perceive and respond to these behaviors.

To address the gap, my dissertation examines how power affects the way

high power actors behave as well as how people perceive and react to high power

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actors’ behaviors. In the next section (Chapter 3), the literature on forgiveness is

reviewed. The role of power in forgiveness and perceptions of forgiveness are

subsequently discussed in Chapter 4 and Chapter 5.

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CHAPTER 3 FORGIVENESS THEORY AND RESEARCH

Definition of Forgiveness

In February 1908, three young Indian men mercilessly attacked Gandhi in

Johannesburg. When requested to file a complaint, Gandhi refused. This display of

unconditional forgiveness transformed his assailants. The three assailants realized

their wrongdoing and compensated the forgiveness by appointing themselves as

Gandhi’s bodyguards. They also became loyal followers of Gandhi (Gandhi & Desai,

1993). Being a renowned forgiving sage, this is only one of many anecdotes about

forgiveness in Gandhi’s life. Up to the present, people have continually praised his

compassion and forgiveness.

Cultures and religions across the world promote forgiveness as a virtue (Rye

et al., 2000; Peterson & Seligman, 2004). According to the Bible, Luke 6:37 recorded:

“Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be

condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” In a similar vein, Confucius

remarked: “Before you blame someone for something, try it on yourself. If you don't

like it yourself, don't impose it on others.” (Confucius, Analects XV.24). These

aphorisms outline the importance of forgiveness as a virtue, as it is through

forgiveness that one achieves intrapersonal and interpersonal harmony.

As forgiveness is universally viewed as a virtue, forgiveness as a research

topic has attracted attention from psychologists and recently from organizational

scholars (Aquino, Grover, Goldman, & Folger, 2003; Aquino, Tripp, & Bies, 2006).

Forgiveness has been conceptualized by these researchers in various ways: as an

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emotion (Worthington, 2006), a decision (Scobie & Scobie, 1998; Worthington, 2005),

a behavior (Tedeschi, Hiester, & Gahagan, 1969), and as a motivational change

(McCullough et al, 1997).For example, Worthington (2006) has characterized

forgiveness as a process of decreasing inter-related negative resentment-based

emotions. Scobie and Scobie (1998) define forgiveness as “a conscious decision to set

aside one’s legitimate claim for retaliation or restitution”. Tedeschi, Hiester, and

Gahagan (1969) define forgiveness as cooperative behavior after a transgression.In

the organizational context, scholars define interpersonal workplace forgiveness as a

process whereby an employee who is wronged “deliberately attempts to overcome

negative emotions towards his or her offender and refrain from causing the offender

harm even when he or she believes it is morally justifiable to do so” (Aquino, et al.,

2003. p212).

Despite the differences among these definitions, they share an underlying

feature – intrapersonal prosocial change towards a transgressor (McCullough et al.,

2003). Hence, scholars have recently reached a consensus that forgiveness is a

victim’s prosocial motivational change. More specifically, forgiveness is defined as

motivational changes in three transgression-related interpersonal motivations: revenge,

avoidance, and benevolence (McCullough, Bellah, Kilpatrick, & Johnson, 2001).

When people forgive, they experience reduced motivation for avoidant and vengeful

behavior and increased motivation for benevolent behavior. This definition

distinguishes forgiveness from other related but distinct constructs such as excusing,

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exonerating, justifying, condoning, pardoning, or reconciling (Coyle & Enright, 1997;

McCullough et al, 2000; North, 1987).

Studies on forgiveness have focused on two broad research questions: (1)

what are the factors that facilitate victims’ forgiveness of their transgressors?; and (2)

what are the consequences of forgiveness? In the current chapter, research addressing

these two questions is reviewed below and summarized in Table 2. The boundary of

the positive effects of forgiveness is reviewed next. The chapter concludes with a

review of forgiveness research in the organization literature.

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Antecedents of Forgiveness

According to the tripartite forgiveness model (Fehr, Gelfand, & Nag, 2010),

the antecedents of forgiveness can be placed into three categories: victims’ cognitions,

affect, and relationship constraints.

Cognitions

At the cognitive level, victims need to interpret the transgression as being

forgivable. Their interpretation of the transgression is dependent on their dispositional

traits and the features of the transgression.

People with a “forgiving personality” such as agreeableness, trait forgiveness,

and empathy are generally more forgiving (McCullough, 2001). People who are

highly agreeable are more likely to interpret transgressions as deserving of

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cooperative and integrative tactics (Graziano, Jensen-Campbell, & Hair, 1996).

People with trait forgiveness are more likely to view transgressions as deserving of

forgiveness (Berry et al, 2001; Brown, 2003). People who are able to take others’

perspectives can better understand why their offenders performed the transgression

(Exline et al., 2008). As a result, people with these forgiveness personalities make

more generous attributions and appraisals about the transgression and are thus more

likely to view the transgression as forgivable.

The characteristics of the transgression such as the intention behind the

transgression, the transgressor’s apology, and the severity of the harm also influence

how victims interpret the transgression. After the transgression, victims seek to

understand who is responsible for the incident. If they attribute the blame to the

transgressor, they are less forgiving (Aquino et al, 2006). Victims also seek to

interpret the intention behind the transgression: whether it is purposeful or

unintentional (Struthers et al, 2008). If a transgression is intentional, it is less likely

that victims will forgive. In addition, a sincere apology can facilitate forgiveness.

Sincere apologies and expressions of remorse are found to be effective in

reestablishing the dignity of the victims and reducing the negative perception of the

transgressor (Fehr & Gelfand, 2010; Darby & Schlenker, 1982; McCullough et al.,

1998, 1999; Ohbuchi, Kameda, & Agarie, 1989).

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Affect

Victims’ dispositional affectivities (i.e. mood) and emotional reactions to the

transgression also predict their forgiveness level (McCullough et al, 2007). According

to Worthington (2006), when victims are stuck with feelings of resentment, bitterness,

hostility, hatred, anger, and fear towards a transgressor, they will be less motivated to

forgive. On the contrary, positive emotions related to the transgressor such as

empathy or compassion can facilitate forgiveness (McCullough, 2001).

People with certain traits such as neuroticism, depression, and anger are

prone to experience more negative moods. They may attribute this negative mood to

the transgression and are thus less likely to forgive (Clore, Schwarz, & Conway, 1994;

Wilkowski & Robinson, 2007).

Relationship Constraints

Relational embeddedness in the dyad impacts the forgiveness level (Mitchell

et al, 2001).Relational embeddedness is characterized by relationship closeness,

relationship satisfaction, and commitment to the relationship (McCullough,2000).

Several studies have shown that victims are more likely to forgive the transgressors

when they have high relationship satisfaction, closeness, and commitment (Nelson,

1993; Roloff & Janiszewski, 1989). In a sample of 100 couples, McCullough (2000)

showed that relational embeddedness is related to the likelihood of victims’

forgiveness of the most serious offense from their partners.

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Since forgiveness is widely accepted as a virtue, studies on forgiveness have

overly emphasized how to facilitate forgiveness. Compared to studies on the

antecedents of forgiveness, research that forgiveness can actually lead to positive

consequences remains understudied.

Forgiveness and its Consequences

Psychologists have demonstrated that forgiveness as prosocial motivational

change is beneficial to victims’ well-being at three levels: intrapersonal, interpersonal,

and at a generalized level (Karremans & Van Lange, 2008). At the intrapersonal level,

forgiveness improves victims’ mental and physical health. Interpersonally,

forgiveness also influences how victims interact with their transgressors. Forgiveness

can even have an influence on victims beyond the conflict context - forgiving victims

feel more connected with others in general.

The Intrapersonal Consequences of Forgiveness

At the intrapersonal level, forgiveness improves victims’ psychological and

physical health. Forgiveness leads to greater life satisfaction, higher self-esteem, and

more positive affect (Karremans et al., 2003). In a study, participants took part in the

“forgiveness test,” which they were told would assess the extent to which they had

forgiven the transgressor by their reaction time to a transgressor’s name. Forgiving

participants reported better psychological well-being such as greater life satisfaction,

higher self-esteem, and more positive affect. In addition, people who forgave were

less likely to engage in rumination – which is negative self-talk that is detrimental to

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mental health and well-being (McCullough et al., 2007). Forgiveness also leads to

fewer depression and anxiety symptoms (Sheffield, 2002; Al-Mabuk et al., 1995;

Enright & Fitzgibbons, 2000).

Forgiveness also entails physiological consequences. Studies have shown

that there is a causal relationship between forgiveness and heart disease: when people

imagine they have forgiven a transgression in the past, they experience less

cardiovascular reactivity such as lower blood pressure and heart rate than when they

imagine that they did not forgive a transgression (Lawler et al., 2003; Witvliet,

Ludwig, & Vander Laan, 2001). Hormonal patterns of unforgiveness are found to be

similar to those of stress (Worthington & Scherer, 2004). People exhibit less arterial

reactivity and less cortisol reactivity when recalling events that they have forgiven

(Edmonson, 2004).

The Interpersonal Consequences of Forgiveness

At the interpersonal level, victims exhibit prosocial motivation and behavior

towards transgressors in the relationship. For instance, McCullough et al (1998) have

found that forgiveness leads victims to feel closer to their transgressors. Other studies

also show that people who forgive are more accommodating (Rusbult, Verette,

Whitney, Slovik, & Lipkus, 1991) and display more cooperative intentions (Van

Lange & Kuhlman, 1994) to their transgressors. Consistent with previous findings,

Karremans and Van Lange, (2004) have demonstrated that participants are willing to

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give out more money to the transgressor in an exchange game when they recall a

forgiven transgression compared to those who recall an unforgiven transgression. In a

sample of married couples, Maio et al. (2008) have found that the forgiveness level

predicts a positive family environment one year later (Maio, Thomas, Fincham, &

Carnelly, 2008). Thus, forgiveness may help to restore the victim-transgressor

relationship through victims’ prosocial motivation and behaviors.

The Generalized Consequences of Forgiveness

The consequences of forgiveness may even have spillover effects that go

beyond the dyad in which the transgression occurred. For example, when people

forgive, they also tend to be more prosocial towards others who are not part of the

initial transgression (Karremans et al., 2005). Based on self-construal theory (Markus

& Kitayama, 1991), Karremans et al. (2005) propose that forgiveness as a prosocial

motivational change can shift the victim’s cognitive framework to an interdependent

self-construal mode - “a mental state characterized by pluralistic representations of

the self-in-relationship” (Agnew, Loving, Le, & Goodfriend, 2004; Agnew, Van

Lange, Rusbult, & Langston, 1998). In their study, forgiving participants used a larger

number of first person plural pronouns such as “we”, “us”, and “ours” in a laboratory

task involving translating a work of fiction in a foreign text. Participants were also

more willing to volunteer and to donate to a charity. They felt more connected to

others in general. Karremans and Van Lange (2008) further demonstrate that

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participants who recalled a forgiven transgression were more likely to choose the

most overlapped two circles to represent themselves and others in the relationship.

They also used more first-person plural pronouns (i.e., we, us, our, and ours) in

describing their relationship with the transgressor. These studies point to the fact that

besides having benefits for the person and the relationship, forgiveness improves

people’s outlook on life in general.

Boundary of the Forgiveness Effects

Although forgiveness has powerful consequences at the intrapersonal,

interpersonal and at a generalized level, researchers have recently started to caution

that there are boundaries for the positive effects of forgiveness. Whether forgiveness

yields benefits for victims depends on how transgressors react to the forgiveness

(Luchies et al., 2010; Wallace, Exline, & Baumeister, 2008; Exline et al., 2003). For

example, Luchies et al. (2010) demonstrate a “doormat effect” of forgiveness:

forgiveness can diminish a victim’s self-respect and self-concept clarity if the

transgressor fails to signal that the victim will be safe and valued in their continued

relationship. Two lab studies have shown that a victim’s self-respect and self-concept

clarity depend on whether a transgressor indicates any amends in the relationship. A

longitudinal study further found that a transgressor’s amending behavior enhanced the

victim’s self-concept clarity.

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To conclude, it seems that forgiveness is not omnipotent for victims. Given

that the effects of forgiveness are dependent on transgressors’ behaviors, it is

important to study how transgressors perceive and react to forgiveness.

Forgiveness in the Organization Literature

In light of the benefits of forgiveness, organizational scholars have also

started to promote forgiveness as a virtue at the workplace. For example, Kurzynski

(1998, p. 79) proposes that “forgiveness offers a way for the manager to deal with the

negative and potentially destructive feelings that may result after a conflict between

manager and employee in a way that can empower both”. Bottom et al. (2002)

propose that forgiveness is critical to success in managing relationships at the

workplace. Aquino et al. (2003) suggest that forgiveness should be an important

concern of both organizational scholars and practitioners.

Apart from this rhetoric of forgiveness as a virtue in the organization

literature, however, there are very few empirical studies on the topic of forgiveness at

the workplace except Aquino, Tripp, & Bies (2001 and 2006). Aquino et al. (2001)

conducted a study of 141 government agency employees and showed that high power

victims who blamed more are less likely to forgive. In 2006’s study, they found that a

procedural justice climate moderates the effect of power on the victim’s choice to

avenge or forgive. When a perceived procedural justice climate was low, power leads

to a low forgiveness level.

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Conclusions on Forgiveness: State of the Science

To date, forgiveness research has focused on two broad research questions:

what are the factors that facilitate forgiveness? What are the consequences of

forgiveness? There are abundant empirical studies addressing the first question. Based

on a tripartite forgiveness model (Fehr, Gelfand, & Nag, 2010), victims’ cognitions,

affect, and social constraints can predict their forgiveness level. However, these

studies fail to examine another important predictor of forgiveness - social power.

Given that power imbalance is a prevalent relationship characteristic, it is likely to

impact the forgiveness level. My dissertation attempts to address this gap by studying

the effect of power on forgiveness. In chapter 4, I examine how power impacts

forgiveness in a scenario study and a laboratory experiment.

Although forgiveness researchers promote forgiveness with the assumption

that forgiveness is beneficial for victims, there is very limited empirical evidence

supporting the claim (Karremans & Van Lange, 2008). It seems that forgiveness is

self-evidently beneficial for victims -- most forgiveness studies have focused on how

to encourage forgiveness instead of examining whether forgiveness can actually

benefit victims. Among these studies, forgiveness researchers have shown that

forgiveness indeed has powerful consequences at the intrapersonal, interpersonal, and

at generalized levels. Victims who forgive have better physical and mental health.

They are also more prosocial to transgressors and other people in general.

However, almost all of the studies about the consequences of forgiveness

focus on the victim’s subjective feelings and ignore the “feedback loop”; that is, how

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transgressors view and react to the forgiveness (except Wallace, Exline, & Baumeister,

2008; Kelln & Ellard, 1999). It is obvious that a victim’s well-being after offering

forgiveness is subject to how transgressors perceive their forgiveness and whether

they reciprocate the forgiveness gesture in future interactions. Thus, it is surprising

that the effects of forgiveness on transgressors is yet to be fully explored in empirical

studies.

To address this gap, my dissertation attempts to examine how transgressors

perceive the forgiveness gesture and reciprocate the victim’s gesture in the

relationship in Chapter 5. Specifically, I investigate the effect of being forgiven on

transgressors’ compliance behavior.

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CHAPTER 4 ESSAY 1: THE EFFECT OF POWER ON

FORGIVENESS

Power as asymmetric dependence in a relationship plays a significant role in

shaping the dynamics of the relationship. Because power is likely to influence its

holders’ cognition, emotion and behaviors (Brauer & Bourhis, 2006; Keltner et al.,

2003), power is likely to affect the degree to which victims forgive their transgressors.

However, it is surprising that there are so few studies that examine the role of power

in forgiveness in both the social psychology and management literatures (except

Aquino, Tripp, & Bies, 2001, 2006; Karremans & Smith, 2010; Kim, Smith, &

Brigham, 1998).

In this chapter, I examine the effect of power on forgiveness. To build the

theoretical link between power and forgiveness, I first discuss the processes through

which power influences power holders’ behaviors. Then, I discuss the antecedents of

forgiveness. Finally, I link power and forgiveness through one potential mechanism --

affect.

High Power Actor’s Behavior

Empirical studies on powerful actors have yielded consistent findings that

power “corrupts” in social relationships. Powerful actors often exhibit uninhibited

behaviors such as self-serving and aggressive behaviors towards low power

counterparts in the relationship (Georgesen & Harris, 1998; Keltner et al., 1998;

Kipnis, 1972). For example, high power actors are more likely to offensively tease

low power actors in the relationship (Keltner et al, 1998). High power actors are also

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more likely to engage in familial and sexual aggression (Bugental, Blue, &Cruzcosa,

1989; Malamuth, 1996). Together, these findings have portrayed high power actors as

self-serving “bullies” in their interactions with others.

Why do high power actors behave in such unrestricted ways? Two

mechanisms can account for the negative effects of power on behaviors: cognition and

affect. At the cognitive level, power activates independent self-construal (Lee &

Tiedens, 2001) and a vainglorious self (Kipnis, 1976). As power holders are less

dependent on others for resources, they do not need to form an accurate understanding

of others to acquire resources. As a result, they perceive themselves as being

independent and important. With such a mind-set, high power actors are more likely

to exhibit self-serving and uninhibited behaviors in the interpersonal relationships.

At the affective level, high power actors are more likely to display aggressive

emotions such as anger and contempt (Tiedens, 2000; Scott, 1990). On one side, low

power actors are dependent on high power actors for their valuable resources, they

risk losing those resources if they express any aggressive emotions. However, high

power actors can freely express aggressive emotions without worrying about the

negative consequences of doing so. On the other side, aggressive emotions such as

anger can be a means to reinforce power, authority, and control (Scott, 1990). For

example, in asymmetric power dyads such as husband-wife, parent-child, and

boss-employee relationships, high power actors in the dyad are more free to express

aggressive emotions and signal their power through expressing these emotions. With

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great latitude in displaying aggressive emotions, high power actors are more likely to

exhibit aggressive behavior in the interpersonal relationships.

Thus, given that high power actors are cognitively independent as well as

emotionally irritable, power holders often exhibit uninhibited behaviors. They are

more likely to be self-serving and engage in aggressive behavior towards low power

counterparts in the relationship (Georgesen & Harris, 1998; Keltner et al., 1998).

Predicting Forgiveness

Forgiveness as a prosocial motivational change is determined by three

mechanisms: victims’ cognition, emotion, and relationship constraints (Fehr, Gelfand,

& Nag, 2010).

At the cognitive level, victims need to interpret the transgression as being

forgivable. Victims who can take the transgressors’ perspective are more forgiving

(Exline et al., 2008). Such victims tend to make more generous attributions and

appraisals about the transgression and are thus are more likely to forgive.

At the affective level, a victim’s emotional reactions to the transgression

predict their forgiveness level (McCullough et al, 2007; Worthington, 2006). When

victims are stuck in resentment, bitterness, hostility, hatred, anger, and fear towards a

transgressor, they will be less motivated to forgive (Worthington, 2006). On the

contrary, positive emotions related to the transgressor such as empathy or compassion

can facilitate forgiveness (McCullough, 2001).

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Finally, victims who are deeply embedded in the dyad are more likely to

forgive (Mitchell et al, 2001). Relationship embeddedness is characterized by

relationship closeness, satisfaction, and commitment. Victims who have high

commitment, satisfaction, and closeness in the relationship are more forgiving

(McCullough, 2000).

Hypotheses

As summarized above, forgiveness is determined by victims’ cognition,

emotion, and relationship constraints. At the cognitive level, victims need to interpret

the transgression as deserving forgiveness. However, power activates self-serving

cognition; as a result, high power victims are less able to take others’ perspectives.

Thus, high power victims are more likely to feel they do not deserve the transgression

and thus interpret the transgression as being more serious and unforgivable

(Baumeister, Smart, & Boden, 1996).

With respect to relationship constraints, because high power victims are less

embedded in the relationship, they are less concerned about sustaining the relationship.

They also have less fear of receiving counter revenge from their low power

transgressors who rely on the resources they possess (Heider, 1958). Therefore, high

power victims might be less forgiving.

Given that high power victims interpret transgressions as being more serious

and are less constrained in the relationship, they may feel angrier when harmed by

their low power counterparts. In addition, high power victims have greater latitude in

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displaying anger in interpersonal relationships. Therefore, I propose that when

transgressions occur, victims who have relatively higher power than transgressors are

less likely to forgive compared to those low power victims, and feelings of anger

mediate the relationship of power and forgiveness; specifically, high power actors feel

angry about the transgression and become less forgiving. My hypotheses are as

follows (see Figure 1 for the research model):

Hypothesis 1: Powerful victims are less likely to forgive compared to

powerless victims.

Hypothesis 2: Anger mediates the effect of power on forgiveness.

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I tested my hypotheses using a scenario study (Study 1) and a lab experiment

(Study 2).

Study 1 Forgiveness in Scenarios

Method

Participants

Participants were 92 undergraduate students (48.9% female) with average

age of 20.83 (SD=1.7) who participated for course credit.

Design and Procedure

Participants ostensibly participated in several “unrelated” social experience

studies, which were actually different tasks of this study. The study had three

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between-participants conditions: high power, low power, and control condition. The

design of the study was based on Karremans and Smith (2010)’s study. The power

manipulation followed the procedure developed by Galinsky et al. (2003).

Power manipulation. Participants were randomly assigned to three power

conditions. In the high power condition, they read the instructions as follows: “Please

recall a particular incident in which you had power over another individual or

individuals. By power, we mean a situation in which you controlled the ability of

another person or persons to get something they wanted, or were in a position to

evaluate those individuals. Please describe this situation in which you had

power—what happened, how you felt, etc.”

Those participants assigned to the low power condition were instructed as

follows: “Please recall a particular incident in which someone else had power over

you. By power, we mean a situation in which someone had control over your ability

to get something you wanted, or was in a position to evaluate you. Please describe this

situation in which you did not have power—what happened, how you felt, etc.”

In the control condition, participants were instructed as follows: “Please

recall a daily social interaction you have. Please describe your experiences on that

day—what happened, how you felt, etc.”

Power was manipulated as a psychological state. Galinsky et al. (2003) have

shown that this manipulation induced similar effects as those of actual experiencing

power.

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Transgression Scenario. After the power manipulation, participants filled in

a questionnaire that included a number of transgression scenarios. These scenarios

involved transgressions from friends, relative, classmates and co-workers. This was

based on existing scenarios that other researchers have used (Berry, Worthington,

Parrot III, O’Connor, & Wade, 2001). Please see the appendix for the actual scenarios.

In each scenario, the participant was asked to imagine that he or she is the victim of

the transgression and to rate their forgiveness based on 5-point scale (1-definitely not

forgive to 5-definitely forgive).

Results

I computed the general forgiveness score by averaging the forgiveness level

across 8 scenarios (cronbach’s α=.73). The one-way ANOVA test revealed a main

effect of power on the general forgiveness score, F (2, 89)=4.44, p<.05, η2= .09.

Contrast analysis showed that individuals in the high power condition were less

forgiving (M=2.48, SD=.67) than those in the low power condition (M=2.82, SD=.60),

t(89)=2.19, p<.05, and control condition (M=2.93, SD=.57), t(89)=-2.84, p<.01. There

was no significant difference in forgiveness level between individuals in the low

power condition and those in the control condition, t(89)=.67, p=.51. Thus, the

findings suggest that individuals in the high power position are less likely to forgive

compared to individuals in low power condition and control condition. In Study 2, I

tested the hypotheses by manipulating structural power in a real transgression setting.

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Given that Study 1 demonstrated that low power victims’ forgiveness levels did not

differ from those in the control condition, Study 2 only included 2 conditions: high

power versus low power condition.

Study 2 Forgiveness in Actual Transgression

In Study 1, I found that recalling an incident in which participants had power

over others (i.e. power as a psychological state) would lead to less forgiveness in

hypothetical scenarios. In Study 2, I replicated the finding that powerful victims are

less forgiving using a structural power manipulation (Galinsky et al., 2003) in a real

transgression setting. Furthermore, I examined the mechanism leading to the effect of

power on forgiveness.

Method

Participants

47 undergraduates (44.7% male) participated in the workplace simulation

task with average age of 20.83 (SD=1.4).

Design and Procedure

Participants participated in an ostensible workplace training simulation in

which one person played the role of manager and the other was a subordinate. There

were two conditions in the experiment: high power vs. low power. Along with two

male confederates who acted as participants, there were two participants in each

session. Participants were told that they were going to be paired with one of other

participants (the confederate) in a workplace training simulation.

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Before the role assignment, the participants and the confederates completed

the leadership questionnaire (Anderson & Berdahl, 2002) in which they reported their

GPA, leadership positions they had held, and a number of trait ratings about

themselves.

Power manipulation. Power manipulation was modified based on a structural

power manipulation procedure developed by Galinsky et al. (2003). After completing

the Leadership Questionnaire, the experimenter informed the participants that they

would do a workplace training simulation, and that the task required one person to be

the manager and the other one to be the subordinate. The experimenter told them that

she would assign the role based on their responses on the Leadership Questionnaire.

The experimenter then went outside the room to “mark” the questionnaires. In fact,

participants were randomly assigned as the manager or the subordinate. In the high

power condition, the participant was assigned the role of manager and the confederate

played the role of subordinate. In the low power condition, the confederate was the

manager.

The experimenter took two participants to two separate rooms and told them

individually that: “On the basis of your responses to the leadership questionnaire, you

are best suited for the role of manager (high power condition) or the role of

subordinate (low power condition).” The experimenter also gave a paper description

of their role as manager. Participants in the low power condition were given a paper

description of their role as subordinate. Participants in both conditions then completed

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a questionnaire measuring their feelings of power. This served as a power

manipulation check.

Transgression incident. After the power manipulation, the experimenter

brought in the confederate to the participant. She instructed the participant to work

with another participant (the confederate) in an ostensible training simulation task.

The procedure is modified based on Struthers et al. (2008)’s study. The task involves

reading a job description and then responding to a series of 5 questions regarding facts

about the job in 5 minutes. The manager was in charge of training the subordinate

about job requirements for 5 minutes. After the training session, the experimenter

entered the room to remove the job description and give them the list of 5 questions.

She then opened the word document on the laptop and assigned the confederate to key

in the answers while they answered questions together.

The transgression in two conditions involved the confederate erasing the

answers to the 5 questions by closing the word document “accidently” without saving

it. When they were finishing the last question, the confederate got a pre-set mobile

phone call. While the confederate was answering the phone, he “accidentally” closes

the document without saving it. Following this manipulation, the confederate

apologized by telling the participant: “I am sorry. I screwed up the task” (please see

appendix for detailed experiment protocol).

At this point, the experimenter re-entered the lab, acted unhappy that the data

had been lost, and spent a moment checking the laptop. The experimenter then told

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participants that since they did not finish the study, they might not be able to receive

the course credit. However, the experimenter would like to talk to them separately to

get an idea what exactly happened during the experiment. Then participant and the

confederate were assigned to 2 different rooms.

Forgiveness measurement. The use of a formal measure of forgiveness (e.g.,

the TRIM, McCullough et al., 1998) at the end of the study would have made the

participants suspicious about the actual purpose of the study. Thus, based on Struthers

et al. (2008) and Risen and Gilovich (2007)’s study, the experimenter asked victims to

indicate their general experience in the experiment after the study was ostensibly

over.

After the experimenter announced that the study was over, participants were

informed that since the session did not go as planned, the experimenter want to record

the information in the logbook to improve the study and think about what would be

the consequences for the transgressor. After answering several filler questions,

participants were asked to respond verbally on a 7-point scale about the extent to

which they forgave the participant and the extent to which they felt angry towards the

transgressor. Specifically, the experimenter verbally asked participants, “If based on a

7-point scale (1 not at all 7 very much), to what extent do you forgive the other

participant?” “How angry do you feel?”

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Results

I conducted a one-way ANOVA to check the power manipulation. The

results revealed that participants in the high power condition felt more powerful

(M=4.83, SD=.89) compared to participants in the low power condition (M=2.7,

SD=1.43), F(1, 44)=36.94, p<.001, η2= .45 indicating that the manipulation of power

was successful.

The one-way ANOVA revealed that positive mood differed significantly

across two conditions, F(1,45)=8.67, p<.01, η2= .16. Since the effects of power on

forgiveness may be driven by the positive emotion associated with feelings of being

powerful (Galinsky, Gruenfeld, & Magee, 2003; Smith & Trope, 2006), I controlled

for positive mood. After controlling for mood and gender, the ANOVA test revealed a

significant effect of power on forgiveness, F (1, 43) = 19.99, p<.01,

η2= .3.Specifically, individuals in the high power condition were less forgiving

(M=4.87, SD=.92) than those in the low power condition (M=5.96, SD=.88). Thus,

Study 2 shows that powerful victims are less forgiving by a structural power

manipulation (Galinsky et al., 2003) in a real transgression setting.

I next performed mediation analyses to test whether anger mediated the

relationship between power and forgiveness. I regressed both power and anger on

forgiveness. Anger predicted the forgiveness level (β=-.22, SE=.11, p<.05), and the

effect of power on the forgiveness level was reduced (β=-.97, SE=.31, p<.01) (see

Figure 2).

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To confirm that anger partially mediated the effect of power on forgiveness,

bootstrap confidence intervals for this indirect effect were obtained (Preacher &

Hayes, 2008; SPSS macro). This procedure gives an unbiased inference of the

mediation effects with small samples (Preacher & Hayes, 2008). I used a bootstrap

procedure with 5,000 bootstrap samples and the analysis yielded a bootstrap with a 95%

bias-corrected interval of (-.77,-.06). This interval did not contain zero, suggesting

that anger partially mediates the relationship between power and forgiveness. Thus, in

an actual transgression manipulation, study 2 replicated the result from study 1.

Furthermore, it supports the prediction that anger mediates the effect of power on

forgiveness.

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Discussion

The hypothesis that powerful victims were less likely to forgive compared to

powerless victims was supported in the scenario study (Study 1) as well as the lab

study (Study 2). I also demonstrated that anger mediated the effect of power on

forgiveness such that high power actors were less forgiving because they felt angrier

about the transgression compared to low power actors.

Study 1 manipulated power as psychological state and tested how power

influences forgiveness level in 8 transgression scenarios in which transgressors varied

from friends, relatives, classmates, to colleagues. I demonstrated that when

participants possessed a high power mind set, they were generally less forgiving.

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Study 2 used structural power manipulation and revealed that when participants

played the role of manager in the workplace simulation exercise, they were less likely

to forgive their “subordinate” counterpart for their mistakes. Furthermore, they

displayed more anger towards low power transgressors. Anger accounted for the

effect of power on not forgiving.

The findings have implications for both the power literature and the

forgiveness literature. First, consistent with Galinsky et al. (2003), I found that power

as a psychological state or as a structural difference, has a similar effect on power

holders’ behaviors. Both state power and structural power leads to a low forgiveness

level. Second, my findings add evidence to how power “corrupts” in interpersonal

relationships. My study showed that power holders were more irritable when they

were transgressed upon, and as a result, they were more unforgiving.

Organizational scholars have promoted forgiveness as a virtue for managers

at the workplace. For example, Kurzynski (1998) proposed that “forgiveness offers a

way for the manager to deal with the negative and potentially destructive feelings that

may result after a conflict between manager and employee in a way that can empower

both” (p. 79). However, my findings suggest that the more power someone has, the

less likely he or she is able to forgive. Managers and supervisors who possess more

power in the relationship with their subordinates might be less forgiving at the

workplace. Therefore, contrary to what scholars promote, high power actors such as

managers and superiors may find it difficult to have forgiveness as a virtue.

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To conclude, it is prudent to ponder two questions before scholars start to

praise forgiveness as a virtue for high power actors such as leaders and managers: Can

they do it? Why should they do it? I have answered the first question in the current

chapter. In Chapter 5, I answer the second question by exploring the consequences of

high power actors’ forgiveness – specifically, how do transgressors perceive and

reciprocate their forgiveness.

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CHAPTER 5 ESSAY 2: TRANSGRESSORS’ PERCEPTION AND

COMPLIANCE BEHAVIOR

Forgiveness researchers have focused on victims’ perspectives to study the

effect of forgiveness on victims’ well-being. They have shown that forgiveness is

beneficial to victims’ well-being at three levels: intrapersonal, interpersonal, and at a

generalized level (Karremans & Van Lange, 2009). At the intrapersonal level,

forgiveness enhances victims’ mental and physical health such as greater life

satisfaction, less rumination, more positive affect, and fewer cardiovascular problems

(Karremans et al., 2003; McCullough et al., 2007; Lawler et al., 2003). At the

interpersonal level, victims exhibit prosocial motivation as well as prosocial behaviors

towards transgressors in the relationship (McCullough et al., 1998; Rusbult et al.,

1991; Van Lange & Kuhlman, 1994). The benefits of forgiveness may even have

spillover effects that go beyond the dyad in which the transgression occurred - they

tend to be more prosocial towards others who were not part of the initial transgression

(Karremans et al., 2005).

In light of the benefits of forgiveness, organizational scholars promote

forgiveness as a virtue for managers at the workplace. However, as suggested in a

review by Exline et al. (2003), one of the challenging research questions about

forgiveness is how transgressors react to forgiveness. It is obvious that a victim’s

well-being after offering forgiveness is subject to how the transgressor perceives the

forgiveness and whether he/she “compensates” the gesture in future interactions. If

transgressors respond negatively to the forgiveness, promoting forgiveness can be

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dangerous for victims. Thus, it is imperative to understand how the transgressor

perceives and responds to forgiveness before we start to promote forgiveness as a

panacea for victims. However, it is surprising that the research question about how

forgiveness affects transgressors remains largely unexplored (except Wallace, Exline,

& Baumeister, 2008; Kelln & Ellard, 1999; Leunissen, De Cremer, & Reinders

Folmer, 2012).

Given the prevalence of power imbalance in social relationships, power that

the victim holds is likely to influence how transgressors perceive and react to the

forgiveness. Forgiveness from a high power victim might elicit different reaction from

transgressors compared to forgiveness from a low power victim. It is important to

examine how transgressors perceive and respond to the forgiveness and when

forgiveness is more likely to lead to positive response from transgressors. Thus, the

current chapter examines how transgressors perceive and compensate the act of

forgiveness and how power moderates the effect of forgiveness on transgressors’

perception and behaviors.

Perception of Forgiveness

People have conflicting views about forgiveness. Forgiveness is perceived by

some as a strength and virtue because, by forgiving, victims exhibit their ability of

overcoming the negative emotions such as resentment, anger, and hostility toward

transgressors and refrain from causing the offender harm even when they believe it is

morally justifiable to do so (McCullough, Bellah, Kilpatrick, & Johnson, 2001).

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However, when some people forgive, they are viewed as being weak. Victims who

express forgiveness may be viewed as weak because they are willing to tolerate the

abuse without restoring justice and in turn may invite further harm from the

transgressor and maybe even other people at large (Murphy, 2005; Murphy &

Hampton, 1988). Thus, it is important to identify the conditions under which

forgiveness is viewed favorably or otherwise.

Researchers have suggested that people perceive “intrinsic” forgiveness more

positively compared to “extrinsic” forgiveness. Intrinsic forgiveness is intrinsically

motivated forgiveness while extrinsic forgiveness is driven by external factors

(Enright & Fitzgibbons, 2000). People perceive intrinsic forgiveness as being

authentic and thus associate strength and discipline with it (Cameron & Caza, 2002;

Kurzynski, 1998). On the contrary, victims who are forced to forgive by external

pressures are viewed as being weak and in turn become “everybody’s doormat”

(McCullough, 2008; Luchies, Finkel, & McNulty, 2010). This kind of forgiveness

indicates that victims are unable to assert their right to a just resolution (Enright et al.,

1994). As a result, extrinsic forgiveness violates the reciprocity norm - it fails to

restore justice through punishing the transgressors’ wrongdoing (Murphy, 2005;

Murphy & Hampton, 1988). Thus, people are more likely to evaluate extrinsic

forgiveness negatively. Therefore, it is important to understand the causal attributions

people make of forgiveness as this will then determine how people will react to the

gesture.

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As indicated by the quotation in the beginning - “The weak can never forgive.

Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong” – the characteristics of the individual who

forgives may affect whether people perceive the act of forgiving as being intrinsic or

extrinsic. Specifically, forgiveness from a “strong” person may be favored while

forgiveness from a “weak” person may be perceived as permission for further harm.

One basis for making this judgment about strong vs. weak is the social power that the

victim holds.

Social Perception about High Power Actors’ Behaviors

According to attribution theory, with incomplete information, people have to

interpret others’ behaviors by making inferences (Lewin, 1951). They attribute the

cause of an action to the actor’s internal factor – disposition - or to the actor’s external

factor - situation. Correspondent inference theory suggests that whether people

attribute an action to external or internal factors is influenced by how likely they

perceive environmental factors to affect the actor (Jones & Davis, 1965). When

people perceive the actor as having the ability to make a free choice, they perceive the

actor as less subject to environmental factors. Thus, when people think that the actor

has greater freedom in making a choice, they are more likely to attribute the action to

internal dispositions.

Given that people perceive high power actors as having more freedom to

choose their actions, people are more likely to make dispositional attributions when

interpreting high power actors’ behaviors (Overbeck et al., 2006). It is evident from

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past studies that people make dispositional attributions to high power actors’

behaviors (Overbeck, Tiedens, & Brion, 2006; Hinkel & Brown, 1990; Tiedens,

Ellsworth, & Mesquita, 2000; Brauer, 2002). For example, Overbeck et al. (2006)

found that when people make attributions about someone who works overtime, they

were more likely to believe a boss of the company wanted to work during the

weekend, while the subordinate was compelled to work overtime.

Perception of High Power Victims’ Forgiveness

Since people are more likely to make internal attributions of actions of high

power actors, they may perceive high power victims’ forgiveness as being

intrinsically motivated. In contrast, people tend to make external attributions of

actions of low power actors and see low power victims’ forgiveness as being

extrinsically motivated. Thus, a forgiveness gesture by a high power victim is more

valued by the transgressor than the same gesture by a low power victim.

High power victims are those who possess valuable resources in the

relationship, as a result, they are perceived as having less constrains in their actions in

the relationship. When they are offended, they could have sought revenge without

worrying about negative consequences for the relationship but they choose to forgive.

Thus, their forgiveness is more likely to be perceived as being “authentic forgiveness”

that is internally motivated.

Low power victims, however, are those who are dependent in the relationship,

as a result, they are perceived as having less freedom in the relationship. If they seek

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revenge after the transgression, they need to worry about receiving counter-revenge

from high power transgressors and losing valuable resources in the relationship. Thus,

they have no choice but to forgive. Their forgiveness is more likely to be perceived as

externally motivated and less authentic. Therefore, my hypothesis is:

Hypothesis 3: Transgressors are more likely to attribute “authentic intention” to

high power victims’ forgiveness compared to low power victims’ forgiveness.

Transgressors’ Behaviors after Being Forgiven

Studies that examine the impact of forgiveness on transgressors’ behaviors

are limited in the literature. Among these studies, researchers have shown inconsistent

findings. Some have found that after being forgiven, transgressors engage in

behaviors that are beneficial to victims (Wallace, Exline, & Baumeister, 2008; Kelln

& Ellard, 1999; Leunissen, De Cremer, & Reinders Folmer, 2012). However, other

studies have shown that forgiveness might backfire (Exline & Baumeister, 2000;

Baumeister, Exline, & Sommer, 1998).

Forgiveness, with its prosocial and benevolent features, may constrain

transgressors from committing repeated transgression. For example, a study by

Wallace et al. (2008) found that forgiveness discourages future transgressions from

transgressors. Participants were more likely to transgress unforgiving victims than

forgiving victims in a prisoner’s dilemma game. In a hypothetical scenario,

participants reported a lower tendency to offend forgiving victims for a second time.

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Participants also indicated high repentance motivation towards victims when they

recalled a time that they were forgiven by victims.

Furthermore, transgressors can even become more compliant with victims

after being forgiven. A study by Kelln and Ellard (1999) showed that participants who

were led to believe that they transgressed the experimenter by breaking a piece of

laboratory equipment were more compliant with the experimenter after being forgiven

compared to when they received punishment from the experimenter.

However, transgressors may respond negatively to the forgiveness. For

example, forgiveness from victims can make transgressors feel insulted when

transgressors fail to recognize the severity of the transgression (Exline & Baumeister,

2000). What’s more, forgiveness may reinforce transgressors’ perception that the

transgression is not serious (Baumeister, Exline, & Sommer, 1998). Forgiveness can

also be viewed as a sign of weakness. By forgiving, victims show that they are willing

to absorb abuse without restoring justice (Deutsch, Epstein, Canavan, & Gumpert,

1967; Gruder & Duslak, 1973; Leng & Wheeler, 1979). Therefore, transgressors may

not appreciate victims’ forgiveness and repeat transgressions in future interactions.

Limited empirical studies have shown that transgressors do not always react

to forgiveness positively. It seems that sometimes forgiveness facilitates

compensation behaviors from transgressors but other times it invites negative

reactions. I propose that the social power that the victim holds influences how

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transgressors perceive the forgiveness and as a result, how they behave in subsequent

interactions.

Transgressor’s Perception and Compliance Behavior

According to equity theory, people attempt to maintain a balance between

inputs and outputs in a relationship because they wish to avoid relationship debt.

Kelln and Ellard (1999) suggest that a transgression causes an imbalance between the

transgressor and the victim. If the victim pays back by revenge, the relationship will

stay balanced. If the victim pays back with forgiveness, the transgressor feels indebted

in the relationship. In order to neutralize the debt, the transgressor has to go beyond

compensating for the harm they caused. They have to undertake “extra” actions such

as compliance behaviors to compensate the forgiveness gesture.

However, given the prevalence of power imbalance in social relationships,

power is an important variable that can moderate the effect of forgiveness on

transgressors’ compliance behaviors. In fact, in Kelln and Ellard (1999)’s study, the

victim is an experimenter who might be perceived as having power over participants.

In their study paradigm, the transgressor-victim dyad was not equal to begin with.

Thus, it is not clear whether the effect of forgiveness on compliance is true for high

power victims as well as low power victims.

It is likely that in a power imbalanced relationship, the debt owed by the

transgressor is magnified by the power of the victim. High power victims possess

valuable resources in the relationship, they have the ability and resources to seek

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revenge but they choose to forgive transgressors. Low power victims, however, are

perceived as having no choice but to forgive. As a result, transgressors are more likely

to perceive the forgiveness from high power victims as “authentic” and feel more

obligated in the relationship.

Given that transgressors perceive forgiveness granted by high power victims

as being more authentic compared to forgiveness by low power victims, transgressors

may feel more obligated in the relationship with high power victims and comply more

with high power victims. Thus, I propose that (see Figure 3 & Figure 4 for the

research model):

Hypothesis 4: The relationship between being forgiven and compliance is

moderated by the power of victims such that transgressors comply more with high

power victims compared to low power victims.

Hypothesis 5: Authentic intention mediates the effect of being forgiven on

transgressor’s compliance.

I tested the hypothesis in a pilot study, an experiment study, two scenario

surveys, and an employee survey.

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Study 3 Experiment Study

I first conducted a pilot study to explore whether after being forgiven,

transgressors are more compliant with high power victims using an online survey. 95

undergraduates (49.5% male) with average age of 20.69 (SD=1.57) participated in the

online survey . They were asked to autobiographically recall a time when they hurt

someone powerful/powerless and then they are forgiven/ not forgiven by the victim.

They took 5 minutes to write down the incident. After completing the writing task,

participants filled in a questionnaire including the level of their victim’s forgiveness,

the level of power they felt in the relationship with the victim, commitment level, and

compliance level to the victim.

Compliance measurement. The extent to which they would comply with

victims were measured based on the modified Gudjonsson Compliance Scale (GCS;

Gudjonsson, 1989). The modified scale consisting of 12 statements that are related to

the way in which individuals would respond to the victim. Participants used 7-point

scale (1-strongly disagree to 7-strongly agree) to indicate the extent to which they

agreed with the statements.

Manipulation check. At the end of the survey, participants rated their sense of

power in the relationship with the victim in one item: “I think I have a great deal of

power in my relationship with him/her.”(1-strongly disagree to 7-strongly agree).

Participants also indicated the level of victim’s forgiveness (1-strongly disagree to

7-strongly agree).

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Results of one-way ANOVA revealed that manipulation for power and

forgiveness were successful. Participants in a high power condition felt more

powerful (M=4.54, SD=1.07) compared to participants in a low power condition

(M=3.96, SD=1.4), F (1, 92) = 5.22, p<.05, η2=.06. Furthermore, participants in the

being forgiven condition indicated a higher forgiveness level received from victims

(M=5.36, SD=1.31) compared to participants in the not being forgiven condition

(M=4.64, SD=1.35), F(1,90)=6.69, p<.05, η2=.07.

Since relationship commitment may impact transgressors’ compliance level,

I controlled for commitment in the analysis. A 2 (being forgiven vs. not being forgive)

X 2(high power victims vs. low power victims) ANOVA on the average compliance

score (cronbach α=.8) revealed a significant two-way interaction, F (1, 90)=4.16,

p<.05, η2= .04. Contrast analysis showed that transgressors were more likely to

comply with high power victims (M = 4.34, SD = .65) compared to low power victims

(M = 3.87, SD = .86), t(46 )= -2.12, p < .05. For unforgiveness, power did not

significantly affect transgressors’ level of compliance, t(45)=.85, p=.4.

Based on participants’ recollections of their prior transgressions, the pilot

study showed preliminary results that receiving forgiveness facilitated transgressors’

compliance behavior towards high power victims. In Study 3, I manipulated the

power of the victims and tested the hypothesis in a real transgression setting using

objective behavioral measurement of compliance.

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Power manipulation

The transgression involved participants who offended the experimenter by

failing to save the experiment data at the end of the study. I manipulated the

experimenter as a faculty member (high power victim condition) or an undergraduate

research assistant (low power victim condition). In the high power condition,

participants were told that the experimenter is a faculty member in the M & O

department. In the low power manipulation, they were told that the experimenter is an

undergraduate student who works as a research assistant.

The use of power measurement at the end of the study would make the

participants suspicious about the actual purpose of the study. In addition, the

transgression occurred in the experiment may impact their perception of the

experimenter’s power. Thus, I conducted a test to show that the manipulation of

power was effective.

41 undergraduates (44% male) with average age of 21.48 (SD=2.15)

participated in a 5-minutes pilot test. Participants were randomly assigned to high

power experimenter condition and low power experimenter condition. Upon arrival in

the lab, the experimenter instructed that “today you are going to participate in a pilot

test. Just to introduce myself, I am an undergraduate research assistant/a faculty

member at M&O department.” After the instruction, they rated how powerful is the

experimenter based on a 7-point scale.

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An independent sample t test revealed that participants perceive the

experimenter as being more powerful in the high power experimenter condition

(M=4.05, SD=1.15) compared to the low power experimenter condition (M=3.32,

SD=1.09), t(40)=-2.13, p<.05. Therefore, the power manipulation was successful in

this independent sample. Therefore we can conclude that power was indeed

manipulated in the main study as well.

Method

Participants

Participants were 77 undergraduates (35% male) with average age of 20.2

(SD=2.67).

Design and Procedure

There were 2 participants and 2 experimenters in each session. Upon arrival,

each participant was escorted to a separate room with a laptop on the desk.

Participants were randomly assigned to four conditions created by a 2 (high

power victim vs. low power victim) X 2(being forgiven vs. not being forgiven)

between-subjects design. They were led to believe that they were participating in a

word recognition task. The ostensible purpose of the study was to test the effect of

feelings on word recognition task.

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Power manipulation. I manipulated power of the victim using the

aforementioned procedure. The experimenter is either described as a faculty member

or a student research assistant in the department.

Transgression incident. Participants were instructed that they were

participating in a word recognition task in which they needed to indicate whether

word pairs are both word or non word as fast as possible. Before the task, the

experimenter distributed an ostensible questionnaire measuring their “feelings”

including filler items and feeling of guilty. This survey served as baseline

measurement of feelings of guilt.

Participants then proceeded to the task. They were told that “Now you will

proceed to word recognition task, the computer will track your response time to the

words. Please click as fast as possible once you see the correct answer.” In the end of

the task, when participants tried to save their responses, there was a preset error

message indicating that because they have input invalid responses, the program failed

to save the data. The experimenter checked the software and pretended to looking for

the dataset in the excel file and found out that the data for the current session and

previous sessions were lost because of an error committed by the participant. The task

and error message were designed using Authorware, which is a multimedia software

that can develop interactive psychological experiments.

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After conveying the transgression, the experimenter asked participants to fill

in a questionnaire measuring their “feelings” at that moment while he/she was

checking the computer.

Forgiveness manipulation. After they finished the questions, one of the

following experimental manipulations took place. In the being forgiven condition,

participants were told “Don’t worry about it. That’s OK.” In the not being forgiven

condition, the experimenter told participants “I am not able to give you the credit

because you did not finish the study.”

Compliance behavior. The experimenter then announced that the study was

over. When participants were about to leave, the experimenter asked participants that

“Hey, I wonder if I could ask you a favor before you leave. I am doing another study

on campus and I have to get these 50 envelopes delivered to different offices on

campus. The study is designed to get professors’ opinions on tenure proceedings and

each professor has been contacted and is already expecting his or her survey. I wonder

if you could help me by dropping off some of these. All you would be required to do

is slide it under the door to his or her office. The offices are all on campus but they are

spread out in every building. Any amount that you could deliver would help me. So if

you think you could help, how many do you think you could deliver?” The

experimenter recorded how many envelopes they took with them on the back of the

questionnaire. This serves as behavioral measurement of compliance. This

measurement is based on Kelln and Ellard (1999)’s study.

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Manipulation check. As I had indicated to the participants that the purpose of

the study was to test the impact of feelings on word recognition ability, I administered

an affect scale recording feelings of guilt before and after the transgression. The

feelings of guilt were served as the manipulation check for the transgression.

Results

Paired samples t test revealed that feelings of guilt after the incident were

significantly higher (M=1.88, SD=1.39) compared to feelings of guilt before the

incident (M=1.35, SD= .74), t(76)=-3.21, p=.002, which means the manipulation of

transgression was successful.

I predicted that the relationship between being forgiven and compliance is

moderated by the power of victims such that transgressors are more likely to comply

with high power victims compared to low power victims after they are forgiven

(Hypothesis 4). To test the hypothesis, I conducted a 2 (being forgiven vs. not being

forgiven) X 2(high power victim vs. low power victim) ANOVA on the number of

envelopes they took.

There was a significant main effect of forgiveness, F(1, 73)=3.83, p=.05,

η2= .04. There was also a main effect of power condition, F(1, 73) = 8.87, p < .01,

η2= .09. The predicted two-way interaction was significant, F(1, 73) =11.36, p<.01,

η2= .12 (see Figure 5). The simple effects analysis showed that, transgressors

exhibited greater degree of compliance with high power victims who forgive

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(M=11.85, SD=8.02) than with low power victims who forgive (M=3.42, SD=3.95),

F(1, 37)= 17.04, p<.001, η2= .32. However, there was no difference in the degree of

transgressors’ compliance level when a high power victim (M=4.78, SD=3.95) or a

low power victim punished transgressors (M=5.3, SD=6.09), F(1,36)=.096, p=.76.

Therefore, Study 3 found that after being forgiven, transgressors were more likely to

comply with high power victims compared to low power victims.

The hypothesis that the effect of being forgiven on the degree of compliance

is dependent on the power of victims such that transgressors are more likely to

comply with high power victims who forgive compared to low power victims who

forgive was supported in the lab study (Study 3). However, in the current experiment

design, asking participants to fill in questions measuring their perceptions of

forgiveness may make them suspicious about the purpose of the study. In study 4, I

tested how perception of forgiveness mediates the effect of being forgiven on

transgressors’ feelings of obligation.

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Study 4 Scenario Survey I

Study 4 attempted to replicate findings in Study 3 that participants would

take “extra” actions to compensate the forgiving victims and the effect of being

forgiven was stronger when transgressors are forgiven by high power victims. Study 4

also examined how transgressors’ attribution of the forgiveness mediates the effect of

being forgiven on transgressors’ compliance behaviors.

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In order to capture transgressors’ perception of the forgiveness, study 4 used

a hypothetical scenario at workplace so that each participant read identical

transgression incident. Because it is difficult to measure participants’ compliance

behaviors in a hypothetical scenario, current study used feelings of obligation as a

proxy measurement for compliance behavior.

In Study 4, participants were again placed in a situation that they

transgressed someone, but this time the situation was a hypothetical transgression at

workplace. They were then asked to indicate their perception of the forgiveness and

whether they would feel more obligated in the relationship with the victim.

Method

Participants

Participants were 127 undergraduates (42.5% male) with average age of

21.54 (SD=1.76).

Design and Procedure

Participants were randomly assigned to four conditions created by a 2 (high

power colleague vs. low power colleague) X 2(being forgiven vs. not being forgiven)

between-subjects design.

Study 4 was administered by questionnaire. Each participant was told to

imagine that he or she was an employee in a company who had committed a

transgression against a colleague.

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Power manipulation. In the high power victim condition, the colleague was

described as someone senior to them. In the low power victim condition, the

colleague was someone junior to them.

Transgression scenario. I created 5 workplace transgression scenarios and

conducted a pilot test with graduate students. They were asked to use a 7-point scale

to rate how likely the incident would occur at the workplace. How severe they

perceive the incident and how guilty they felt. The scenario with highest average

score of three items was selected as the final scenario for the study (M=5.27, SD=.73).

Participants read the scenario : “It is Thursday afternoon and you have a

meeting with Andrew/Anna. You tell him/her that you will not be able to complete a

report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew/Anna decides to do it and

spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that Andrew/ Anna has his/her

own part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present the report at the

meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the report in the meeting,

you do not acknowledge Andrew/Anna’s contribution.”

In order to control the effect of gender, female participants read the scenario

in which Anna was their colleague, while male participants read the scenario in which

Andrew was the colleague.

Forgiveness manipulation. At the end of the scenario description,

participants were either told that after the incident, they were forgiven or they were

not forgiven by the colleague.

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Feeling of obligation. After reading the scenario, participants were asked to

use 7-point scale to indicate who would give more in their relationship with the

colleague they offended (1-I would receive far more than I give to 7-I would give far

more than I receive). The scale was developed by Flynn (2003).

Perception of the forgiveness. Participants who are in the being forgiven

condition responded to 8 items measuring situational and dispositional attributions

made towards the colleagues who forgave them. The items were adapted from

Overbeck, Tiedens, Brion (2006)’s study. Four items assessed the degree to which

participants perceive the forgiveness as being extrinsically driven. They were asked:

(1) how much the relationship between them influenced his/her decision to forgive;

(2)the extent to which external pressures influenced his/her decision to forgive; (3)the

extent to which the situation constrained his/her choice to forgive;and (4) the extent to

which the situation made it necessary for him to forgive. The other four measures

assessed: (1) the degree of freedom he/she had in choosing to forgive; (2) the extent to

which he/she was free to make his/her own decisions; (3) the extent to which he/she

forgave because of something about his/her personality; and (4) the extent to which

he/she forgave because of his/her own preferences or desires. Participants used a

7-point scale to rate these items (1=not at all to 7=a great deal).

Manipulation check. Participants rated how much power they have in the

relationship with the victim in the company in one item: “I have a great deal of power

in my relationship with him in the company.”(1-strongly disagree to 7-strongly agree).

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Participants also indicated the level of victim’s forgiveness (1-strongly disagree to

7-strongly agree).

Control variable. Although the transgression in each condition was identical,

it is likely that there are individual differences in perceiving the severity of the

incident. Perceived severity might impact their reciprocity towards victims. Thus, in

the end of the questionnaire, participants rated perceived severity of the transgression

based on a 7-point scale (1-not at all to 7-very much).

Result

I conducted a one-way ANOVA to check the power manipulation. The results

reveal that participants felt more powerful in the relationship with the junior colleague

(M=5.19, SD=.97) compared to participants in the senior colleague condition (M=4.33,

SD=.9), F(1, 125)=26.38, p<.001, η2= .19 indicating that the manipulation of power

was successful. The manipulation of forgiveness was also successful. Participants

indicated a higher forgiveness level in the forgiving victim condition (M=5.27,

SD=1.07) compared to the not forgiving victim condition (M=4.13, SD=1.35), F(1,

125)=28.05, p<.001, η2= .17.

Since how severely participants perceive the scenario may impact how

participants reciprocate victim’s forgiveness, I controlled perceived severity of the

incident in the analysis. I conducted a 2 (being forgiven vs. not being forgiven) X

2(high power victim vs. low power victim) ANOVA on feelings of obligation. In line

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with previous findings, there was a significant main effect of forgiveness, F(1,

122)=10.84, p<.01, η2= .07. There was also a marginal significant main effect of the

power condition, F (1, 122) = 3.32, p = .07, η2= .02.

The predicted two-way interaction was significant, F(1, 122)=4.58, p<.05,

η2= .03 (see Figure 6). A simple effects analysis showed that when transgressors were

forgiven, they felt more obligated to high power victims (M=5.00, SD=.97) compared

to low power victims (M=4.41, SD=1.21), F(1, 61)= 4.59, p<.05, η2= .11. However,

power had no effect on transgressors’ feelings of obligation when they were not

forgiven. In not being forgiven condition, there were no difference in feeling of

obligation to high power victims (M=5.31, SD=1.15) and with low power victims

(M=5.19, SD=1.06), F(1,62)=.205, p=.65. The finding was consistent with previous

findings in Study 3.

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Attribution of the forgiveness. I predicted that transgressors were more likely

to make dispositional attributions about high power actor’s forgiveness (Hypothesis 3)

and the attributed intention might mediate the effect of forgiveness on compliance

behavior (Hypothesis 5). I computed average score of dispositional attribution of

forgiveness (cronbach α=.8) and average score of situational attribution of forgiveness

(cronbach α=.7).

I performed a one-way ANOVA to examine the effect of power on average

score of dispositional attribution of forgiveness. The results show that participants

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were more likely to perceive the forgiveness from a high power victim as being from

their “freewill” (M=5.54, SD=.61) compared to the forgiveness from a low power

victim, (M=4.8, SD=1.3), F(1, 61)= 8.39, p<.01, η2= .11. Furthermore, a one-way

ANOVA also revealed that participants were more likely to perceive the forgiveness

from a low power victim as being extrinsically driven (M=4.98, SD=.86) compared to

the forgiveness from a high power victim, (M=4.38, SD=1.1), F(1, 61)= 5.92, p<.05,

η2= .09. The situational and dispositional measures were negatively correlated,

r(63)=-.447, p<.001.

I then computed difference score between average dispositional score and

average situational score. I performed an ANOVA analysis to examine the effect of

power on difference score between average dispositional score and average situational

score. Results showed that participants made significantly different attributions

between high power victim (M=1.16, SD=1.38) and low power victim conditions

(M=-.19, SD=1.92), F(1, 61)= 12.56, p<.01, η2= .14 thus supporting hypothesis 3.

I next performed mediation analyses to test whether attribution of forgiveness

mediates the relationship between being forgiven and feelings of obligation

(Hypothesis 5). I regressed both power and difference score of attribution on feelings

of obligation. Attribution of forgiveness predicted feelings of obligation (β=.16,

SE=.08, p<.05), and the effect of being forgiven on feeling of obligation was reduced

(β=.53, SE=.27, p=.06) (see figure 7).

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To confirm that attribution of forgiveness mediated the effect of being

forgiven on compliance behavior, bootstrap confidence intervals for this indirect

effect were obtained (Preacher & Hayes, 2008; SPSS macro). This procedure gives an

unbiased inference of the mediation effects with small samples (Preacher & Hayes,

2008). I used a bootstrap procedure with 5,000 bootstrap samples and the analysis

yielded a bootstrap 95% bias-corrected interval of (.04, .62). This interval did not

contain zero, suggesting that dispositional attribution fully mediated the relationship

between being forgiven and compliance behavior. Thus, study 4 replicated the result

from study 3. Furthermore, it supported the prediction that participants were more

likely to perceive forgiveness from high power actor as being “authentic” compared to

the forgiveness from low power actor. Dispositional attribution thus mediated the

effect of being forgiven on feeling of obligation.

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Study 5 Scenario Survey II

Study 5 was conducted for the following four reasons: first, Study 3 and Study 4

have shown that the effect of being forgiven by high power actors on compliance

behavior was mediated by perceived intrinsic motivation. However, according to Cox

et al. (forthcoming), there are five specific forgiveness motives: moral motive,

relationship motive, apology, religious motive, and lack of alternatives. Study 5

attempted to further specify which exact intrinsic motives are assigned to high power

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forgivers. Second, Study 4 used feeling obligated as the proxy for compliance

behavior while Study 5 measured compliance behavior by the number of envelopes

participants were willing to deliver for their forgiving colleagues in the hypothetical

situation. Third, Study 4 showed that the cognitive mechanism for the effect of being

forgiven on compliance behavior is perceived intrinsic motivation; Study 5 further

measured the emotional mechanism – feelings of gratitude about the forgiveness - and

tested how appreciation could explain the effect of being forgiven by high power

actors on compliance behavior. Furthermore, whether a transgression is perceived as

being intentional or unintentional by the transgressor is likely to impact their

compliance behavior after being forgiven (Hofmann & Frese, 2011). In Study 5, I

measured perceived intentionality as a control variable. Finally, Study 5 used the

same hypothetical transgression at the workplace as Study 4. Since the major research

interest is about people’s perception of forgiveness and their compliance behavior, all

participants were forgiven after their transgression in the scenario. They were then

asked to indicate how many envelopes they were willing to deliver for the victim,

their perception of the forgiveness, their attribution of forgiveness motives, and the

level of appreciation in the relationship with the victim.

Method

Participants

Participants were 72 undergraduates (38.9% male).

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Design and Procedure

Participants were randomly assigned to two conditions: being forgiven by

high power colleague vs. being forgiven by low power colleague. Study 5 was an

online survey. All participants came to the computer lab and filled in the survey on

the computer. Each participant was told to imagine that he or she is an employee in a

company where they had committed a transgression against a colleague.

Power manipulation. In the high power victim condition, the colleague was

described as their supervisor. In the low power victim condition, the colleague was a

subordinate.

Transgression scenario. I used the same transgression from Study 4. Since

the gender of the victim did not impact the result in Study 4, the victim in the scenario

was always described as a male. All participants read that: “It is Thursday afternoon

and you have a meeting with Andrew. You tell him that you will not be able to

complete a report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew decides to do it

and spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that Andrew has his own

part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present the report at the

meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the report in the meeting,

you do not acknowledge Andrew’s contribution.”

Compliance behavior. After reading the scenario, participants read following

question: “If Andrew asks you a favor: he needs to deliver 50 envelopes containing

work related documents to 50 people who work in the company. He wonders if you

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could help him by dropping off some envelopes. So if you think you could help, how

many out of 50 envelopes do you think you could deliver? Please write down the

number.”

Perception of the forgiveness. Consistent with Study 4, participants

responded to 8 items measuring situational and dispositional attributions made

towards the colleagues who forgave them (Overbeck, Tiedens, & Brion, 2006). Four

items assessed the degree to which participants perceive the forgiveness as being

extrinsically driven. They were asked: (1) how much the relationship between them

influenced his/her decision to forgive; (2)the extent to which external pressures

influenced his/her decision to forgive; (3) the extent to which the situation constrained

his/her choice to forgive; and (4) the extent to which the situation made it necessary

for him to forgive. The other four measures assessed: (1) the degree of freedom he/she

had in choosing to forgive; (2) the extent to which he/she was free to make his/her

own decisions; (3) the extent to which he/she forgave because of something about

his/her personality; and (4) the extent to which he/she forgave because of his/her own

preferences or desires. Participants used a 7-point scale to rate these items (1=not at

all to 7=a great deal).

Forgiveness motives. Perceived forgiveness motives were measured by

modified forgiveness motives scale developed by Cox et al. (forthcoming). The

original scale measures victims’ motives for forgiveness using 17 items. To measure

participants’ perceived forgiveness motives, I changed the personal pronoun from “I”

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to “He”. Five perceived motives were measured: moral motive, relationship motive,

apology, religious motive, and lack of alternatives. Sample items in the modified scale

include: “He forgave because he thinks getting even with me would have been

immoral.” “He forgave because it was the morally right thing to do.”

Feelings of gratitude. After participants filled in their perception of

forgiveness, they were asked to indicate their feeling of gratitude in one item: “I feel

gratitude to his forgiveness.” (1- not at all, 7-a great deal).

Manipulation check. Participants rated how much power they have in the

relationship with the victim in the company in one item: “I have a great deal of power

in my relationship with him in the company.”(1-strongly disagree to 7-strongly

agree).

Control variable. Although the transgression in each condition was identical,

it is likely that there are individual differences in perceiving the intentionality of the

incident. Perceived intentionality might impact their reciprocity towards the victim.

Thus, in the end of the questionnaire, participants rated perceived intentionality of the

transgression based on a 7-point scale (1-not at all to 7-very much). Consistent with

Study 4, I also controlled for gender and perceived severity in the analysis.

Result

I conducted a univariate analysis of variance to check the power manipulation.

The results reveal a marginal significant effect of power condition on the feeling of

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power. Participants felt more powerful in the relationship with the subordinate

(M=4.75, SD=.996) compared to participants in the supervisor condition (M=4.39,

SD=.77), F(1, 68)=2.84, p=.097, η2= .04, indicating that the manipulation of power

was successful.

Since perceived intentionality may impact how participants reciprocate

victim’s forgiveness, I controlled for perceived intentionality of the incident in the

analysis. Controlling for gender, perceived severity, and perceived intentionality, I

conducted a test of univariate analysis of variance with power condition as the main

effect and the number of envelopes as the dependent variable. In line with previous

findings, there was a significant main effect of power, F (1, 67)=7.71, p<.01 η2= .1.

When transgressors were forgiven by their supervisor, they were willing to deliver

more envelopes for their supervisor (M=42.5, SD=11.80) compared to when they

were forgiven by their subordinate (M=34.03, SD=14.87).

Attribution of the forgiveness. Study 4 showed that transgressors were more

likely to make dispositional attributions about high power actor’s forgiveness.

Consistent with Study 4, I computed the average score of the dispositional attribution

of forgiveness (cronbach α=.81) and the average score of the situational attribution of

forgiveness (cronbach α=.8). I then computed the difference score between the

average dispositional score and the average situational score. I performed a univariate

analysis to examine the effect of power on the difference score between the average

dispositional score and the average situational score. The results showed that

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participants made significantly different attributions between the high power victim

(M=.55, SD=1.27) and the low power victim conditions (M=-.19, SD=1.28), F(1, 67)=

6.68, p<.05, η2= .09 which is consistent with the findings from Study 4.

Forgiveness motives. I computed the average score of moral motive

(cronbach α=.7), apology motive (cronbach α=.82), relationship motive (cronbach

α=.81), religious motive (cronbach α=.92), and lack of alternatives (cronbach α=.87).

I then performed univariate analysis to examine the effect of power on the different

forgiveness motives. The results showed that participants did not make different

attributions for the apology motive [F(1, 67)= .07, p=.79], religious motive [F(1,

67)= .15, p=.7], and relationship motive [F(1, 67)= .04, p=.85]. Participants were

more likely to attribute high power victim’s forgiveness to the moral motive (M=4.8,

SD=.86) compared to low power victim’s forgiveness (M=4.32, SD=1.04), F(1, 67)=

5.03, p<.05, η2= .07. Furthermore, participants were more likely to attribute low

power victim’s forgiveness to their lack of alternatives (M=3.97, SD=1.25) compared

to low power victim’s forgiveness (M=3.5, SD=1.26), F(1, 67)= 3.39, p=.07, η2= .05.

Feelings of gratitude. I next performed mediation analyses to test whether

feelings of gratitude mediate the relationship between being forgiven and the

tendency to comply with their forgiving colleague’s request for a favor - delivering

envelopes. I regressed both power and feelings of gratitude on the number of

envelopes. Feelings of gratitude predicted the number of envelopes they were willing

to deliver (β=4.53, SE=2.04, p<.05), and the effect of being forgiven on the number of

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envelopes they were willing to deliver was reduced (β=7.28, SE=3.12, p<.05) (see

figure 8).

To confirm that feelings of gratitude mediated the effect of being forgiven on

compliance behavior, bootstrap confidence intervals for this indirect effect were

obtained (Preacher & Hayes, 2008; SPSS macro). This procedure gives an unbiased

inference of the mediation effects with small samples (Preacher & Hayes, 2008). I

used a bootstrap procedure with 5,000 bootstrap samples and the analysis yielded a

bootstrap 95% bias-corrected interval of (.01, 4.32). This interval did not contain zero,

suggesting that dispositional attribution fully mediated the relationship between being

forgiven and compliance behavior. Thus, Study 5 showed that feelings of gratitude

were the emotional mechanism for the effect of being forgiven on compliance

behavior.

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Study 6 Organization Survey

Study 6 attempted to replicate findings in Studies 3 and 4 that after being

forgiven, participants would comply more with the high power victims in an online

survey using an employee sample.

Method

Participants

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Participants were 110 employees recruited from Amazon Mechanical Turk

service. I eliminated the data of 9 respondents. 4 of them indicated that they could not

recall any incidents that they have offended someone at the workplace. 5 of them

recalled transgressions that occurred outside workplace. After eliminating these data,

there were 101 respondents (65% male) with average age of 33.5 (SD=11.56).76.2%

were Asian, 15.8% were White, 3% were African American, 1% were Hispanic, and 1%

were Jewish. On average, they have 10.3 years (SD=10.16) of working experience.

30.5% of respondents work in IT industry, 27.4% work in service industry, 18.9%

work in finance industry, 9.5% work construction industry, 6.3% work in education

industry, 5.3% work in manufacturing industry, and 2.1% work in Government. 35.6%

of respondents’ job position is middle office manager, professional staff, or mid-level

administrator. 15.8% are upper middle department executives, plant managers, or at a

senior professional staff level. 15.8% are hourly employee machine operators,

clerical/secretarial and support staff, or at the technician level. 14.9% hold job

positions as a first level foreperson, crew chief, or section supervisor. 8% are upper

department executives. 9.9% did not indicate their job position.

Design and Procedure

Employees completed an online workplace relationships survey with

monetary incentives. All respondents were assured of the anonymity of their

responses. Participants were asked to spend 5 minutes in typing down a time when

they transgressed someone at the workplace. They then filled in several questions

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measuring their compliance level with the victim and the victim’s position at the

workplace.

Measures

I used a critical incident technique to elicit salient experiences of workplace

offenses that they did to their colleagues at the workplace. This procedure is modified

based on Aquino, Tripp, and Bies (2006)’s organization study. Respondents were

asked to answer the following question:

Please recall a specific event in the past six months, one in which you did

something that offended, harmed or hurt another person in the company. If you have

not offended another person within the last 6 months, think about the last time you

offended someone in the company.

After describing the offense, respondents indicated whether the victim has

forgiven them based on a yes/no choice. All participants then filled in a questionnaire

including offender–victim relative hierarchical power and compliance level to the

victim. For participants who answered yes to indicate that they have been forgiven by

the victim, they filled in questions about their compliance level to the victim after

being forgiven by the victim. For participants who answered no to indicate that the

victim did not forgive them, they filled in the questions about their compliance level

after the victim did not forgive them.

Compliance measurement. The extent to which they comply with victims

after being forgiven or not being forgiven were measured based on the modified

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Gudjonsson Compliance Scale (GCS; Gudjonsson, 1989). The modified scale

consisting of 12 statements that are related to the way in which individuals would

respond to the victim. Participants used 7-point scale (1-strongly disagree to

7-strongly agree) to indicate the extent to which they agreed with the statements.

Offender–victim relative hierarchical power. I asked respondents to indicate

whether the person whom they offended was a “subordinate,” a “supervisor,” a

“manager,” an “administrator,” a “peer,” a “junior colleague” or “other.” Employees

who reported their victims’ status as “other” were asked to specify their relationship

with the person at the workplace. I combined supervisor, manager, and administrator

into high power victim category and coded it as +1. Subordinate and junior colleague

were coded as -1 to represent low power victim category. Peer is coded as 0. For

employees who indicated “other”, I further classify their answers into these three

categories based on their specified relationship with the victim. This measurement

was modified based on Aquino et al. (2006).

Control variables. Whether or not a transgressor feel remorseful about the

transgression is likely to impact how they react to victims’ forgiveness/unforgiveness.

Thus, at the end of the survey, participants answered a question about how remorseful

they felt about the incident based on a 7-point scale. I also controlled gender of the

transgressor in the analysis.

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Results

I predicted that after being forgiven, transgressors are more likely to comply

with high power victims compared to low power victims (Hypothesis 4). Since

remorsefulness and gender may impact transgressors’ compliance level, I controlled

these two variables in the analysis. To test hypothesis 4, I conducted UNIVARIATE

analysis with relative power at the workplace (high power victims/ control/low power

victims) and whether they are forgiven or not (being forgiven/not being forgiven) as

two factors and average compliance score (cronbach α=.86) as the dependent variable.

Given that the sample size was unequal across 6 conditions (See Table 3), I

conducted Levene’s homogeneity test to examine the assumption of equal variance in

6 groups. Results revealed that the assumption that the error variance of the dependent

variable is equal across groups was not violated, F(5, 95)=1.78, p=.13.

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UNIVARIATE analysis showed that the main effect of relative power on

compliance was marginally significant, F (2, 93) =2.01, p=.1, η2= .05. The main effect

of being forgiven on compliance was not significant, F (1, 93) =.0001, p=.9.However,

the predicted two-way interaction was significant, F (2, 93)=4.02, p<.05, η2= .32 (see

Figure 8). In line with my hypothesis, contrast analysis showed that after being

forgiven, participants were more compliant with high power victims (M = 4.56, SD

= .84) compared to low power victims (M = 3.48, SD = 1.13), F(1, 67 )= 17.23, p

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< .01. Participants were also more compliant with victims who are their peers (M =

4.37, SD = .1.02) compared to low power victims (M = 3.48, SD = 1.13), F(1, 67 )=

8.33, p < .01. There was no significant difference between high power victim

condition and peer condition, F(1,67)=.32, p=.58.

For unforgiveness, relative power did not significantly affect transgressors’

level of compliance, F(2, 24)=.64, p=.53. Thus, after being forgiven, transgressors are

more likely to comply with high power victims compared to low power victims.

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Discussion

The hypothesis that the effect of being forgiven on the degree of compliance

is moderated by the power of victims such that transgressors comply more with high

power victims compared to with low power victims was supported in the pilot study,

the lab study (Study 3), two scenario studies (Study 4 & Study 5), and the employee

survey (Study 6) .

In the pilot study, participants who recalled transgressions forgiven by high

power victims reported higher average score for compliance behavior compared to

those participants who recalled transgressions forgiven by low power victims.

Using an actual transgression and behavioral measurement of compliance in

the lab, the results of study 3 supported my hypothesis. Participants were led to

believe that they transgressed the experimenter by destroying the experiment data.

Results showed that participants who were forgiven by the experimenter who is a

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professor took away more envelopes compared to those who were forgiven by the

experimenter who is a student RA.

In Study 4, participants who imagined transgressions forgiven by a high

power colleague felt more obligated compared to those participants who imagined

transgressions forgiven by low power colleague. Study 4 replicated the findings in

Study 3 using a workplace scenario and a proxy measurement of compliance

behavior-feeling of obligation. Furthermore, Study 4 showed that participants

perceived forgiveness from high power victims as being more “authentic” compared

to those from low power victims. The perception of forgiveness mediates the effect of

being forgiven on feeling of obligation.

In Study 5, participants who imagined transgressions forgiven by a high

power colleague were willing to deliver more envelopes compared to those

participants who imagined transgressions forgiven by a low power colleague. Study 5

replicated the findings in Study 3 and Study 4. Furthermore, Study 5 showed that

participants perceived forgiveness from high power victims as being more moral

compared to those from low power victims. Feelings of gratitude mediated the effect

of being forgiven on compliance behavior.

In Study 6, employees who recalled transgressions forgiven by high power

victims reported higher average score for compliance behavior compared to those

participants who recalled transgressions forgiven by low power victims. The results

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replicate the findings from the pilot study, Study 3, and Study 4 using an employee

sample.

The findings across the 4 studies contribute to both the power literature and

the forgiveness literature. First, the finding that people perceive high power actors’

forgiveness more favorably is consistent with previous studies that people tend to

interpret high power actors’ actions more positively compared to the actions of low

power actors (Overbeck, Tiedens, & Brion, 2006; Hinkel& Brown, 1990; Tiedens,

Ellsworth, & Mesquita, 2000; Brauer, 2002). Thus, high power actors’ privilege was

further reinforced by people’s tendency to view high power actors’ behaviors more

positively (Brauer & Bourhis, 2006). Second, I found that forgiveness indeed benefits

victims but only when victims have high power, suggesting that forgiveness might not

be universally beneficial for victims.

CHAPTER 6 GENERAL DISCUSSION AND CONCLUSION

The extant literature on power suggests that power shapes individuals’

cognition, emotion, and behavior such that powerful people exhibit self-serving

behaviors in their interactions with others (Lee & Tiedens, 2001; Overbeck, Tiedens,

& Brion, 2006). Given the central role power plays in social relationships, power is

likely to influence victims’ forgiveness level as well as transgressors’ perception and

reactions to the forgiveness in the aftermath of transgressions.

In light of forgiveness as a virtue across cultures and religions, the extant

literature on forgiveness has focused much of its attention on antecedents of

forgiveness- those factors that facilitate forgiveness (Fehr, Gelfand, & Nag, 2010).

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However, the underlying assumption in much of the forgiveness research that

forgiveness entails beneficial consequences for victims has limited empirical evidence.

In these studies, forgiveness has been shown to enhance victims’ physical and mental

health (Karremans et al, 2003; Witvliet et al, 2001), to establish prosocial motivation

and behaviors towards transgressors ( Fincham et al, 2002) , and to build up feelings

of connection with others beyond the victim-transgressor dyad ( Karremans et al,

2005). But this unilateral perspective of forgiveness research can be dangerous.

Transgressors’ reactions also affect victims’ well-being after communicating

forgiveness. As some forgiveness researchers have cautioned (eg. Luchies et al., 2010;

Exline et al, 2003; Wallace, Exline, & Baumeister, 2008), forgiveness can sometimes

erode victims’ self-concept and invite repeated transgressions. Therefore, it is

important to study the effect of forgiveness on transgressors before we promote

forgiveness. Yet the effect of forgiveness on transgressors’ behaviors remains largely

unexplored in the current forgiveness literature.

To address these gaps in the power literature and the forgiveness literature,

my dissertation has attempted to provide a panoramic view of power and forgiveness

in social relationships. Based on a combination of scenario, survey, and laboratory

studies, I have studied how power of victims influences their forgiveness level

(Chapter 4), and how power of victims impacts transgressors’ perception and

behaviors (Chapter 5).

In Chapter 4, I first theorized that power deters forgiveness when the victim

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has high power (Hypothesis 1). This proposition is based on power’s detrimental

effects in interpersonal relationships. It is evident from the power literature that power

activates self-serving cognition, irritable emotions, and uninhibited behaviors. To

explore the mechanisms that link the effect of power on forgiveness, it is important to

understand the antecedents of forgiveness. Drawing on the forgiveness literature,

victims need to be able to take the transgressors’ perspective, to feel less anger, and to

be more dependent in the relationship.

The power-forgiveness link thus was proposed to be mediated by feelings of

anger towards the transgression (Hypothesis 2). Because of high power actors’

self-serving cognition, they may perceive the transgression as being more serious and

thus feel more angry. Given that they have valuable resources in the relationship, they

might feel shocked after being transgressed upon and become angrier to the

transgression. Therefore, anger may account for why high power victims are less

forgiving.

These two hypotheses were tested across two studies. In Study 1, participants

were first primed with state power by either recalling an incident in which they had

power over others (high power condition), an incident in which others had power over

them (low power condition) or a daily interaction (control condition). They then were

asked to indicate their forgiveness level in 8 transgression scenarios in which

transgressors were selected from among their friends, relatives, and colleagues. In

Study 2, participants were primed by a structural power manipulation in which some

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of them played the role of manager and others played the role of subordinate. In a

workplace simulation exercise, participants interacted with a confederate who acted as

a participant. The confederate then transgressed participants by “accidentally”

deleting the responses for the exercise. After the experimenter announced the study

was over, participants were asked to indicate their general experience in the

experiment in which they were asked to rate their forgiveness level towards the

transgressor. Results supported the propositions that high power victims are less

forgiving and anger mediates the effect of power on forgiveness. Thus, results suggest

that power does play an important role in victims’ forgiveness.

It seems that high power actors are not able to forgive, however, what are the

consequences if they do forgive? In Chapter 5, I theorized that after being forgiven,

transgressors comply more with high power victims (Hypothesis 4). Drawing on

equity theory, if forgiveness is viewed by transgressors as a debt in the relationship,

they may want to cancel this debt by undertaking “extra” compensation actions.

However the extent to which transgressors feel indebted to the forgiveness depends on

the power of the victims.

This hypothesis was tested in a pilot study, Study 3, Study 4, Study 5, &

Study 6. In the pilot study, participants completed an online survey by recollecting a

transgression that is forgiven by a high power victim. They then were asked to report

their compliance level toward the victim. In Study 3, participants were led to believe

that they transgressed the experimenter who was described as either a professor or a

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student research assistant by destroying the experiment data. After the transgression,

they were either forgiven or not forgiven by the experimenter. After the experiment

was over, the experimenter asked them to distribute some envelopes containing

questionnaires on campus.

The results supported the hypothesis that after being forgiven, transgressors

comply more with high power victims than low power victims. Participants reported a

higher compliance score in the pilot study. Participants in Study 3 also exhibited more

compliance behavior; that is, they took more envelopes when the forgiving

experimenter was a professor who asked for help.

In Study 4, I attempted to replicate the findings of Study 3. Furthermore, I

tested which mechanisms lead to the effect of forgiveness on transgressors’

compliance behavior. Based on attribution theory, I theorized that transgressors are

more likely to perceive forgiveness from high power actors as being “authentic” -

dispositionally motivated (Hypothesis 3). Because high power actors have more

freedom in the relationship, their behaviors are often viewed as a diagnostic for their

true intention. While low power actors’ forgiveness might be viewed as being

motivated externally, and in turn leads to the impression of being weak. Thus,

transgressors may feel more obligated due to this intrinsically motivated forgiveness

rather than extrinsic forgiveness (Hypothesis 4 & 5).

These three hypotheses were tested in Study 4 in which participants were

asked to imagine they were in a situation that they transgressed a colleague at the

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workplace. After the incident, they were either forgiven or not forgiven. The

colleague was described as a senior or a junior at the workplace. They then were

asked to report feelings of obligation in the relationship with the victim. The results

supported the three hypotheses. Participants perceived forgiveness from senior

colleague as being dispositionally motivated while forgiveness from junior colleague

is situationally motivated. They also felt more obligated in the relationship with

forgiving senior colleagues such that they predicted that they would give out more

compared to their counterparts in future interactions. The effect of being forgiven on

feelings of obligation was mediated by the perception of forgiveness.

By focusing on forgiveness scenario, Study 5 further showed that participants

attribute moral motive to high power victims’ forgiveness. As a result, they felt more

gratitude towards high power forgivers and were willing to deliver more envelopes for

high power forgivers.

Study 6 attempted to replicate the findings from the previous 4 studies that

after being forgiven, transgressors were more compliant with high power victims by

using an employee sample. Respondents were asked to recall transgressions that

occurred at the workplace. They then were asked to report whether they were forgiven

by the victim as well as the position of the victim at the workplace. The results

revealed that after being forgiven, transgressors were more compliant with high power

victims at the workplace. Thus, the results suggest that power of the victim shapes the

transgressor’s perception and reactions to the forgiveness.

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The results across the 6 studies suggest that power indeed plays an important

role on forgiveness. On one side, powerful people are less forgiving. On the other side,

once they forgive, their forgiveness elicits more compliance behaviors by

transgressors. In the sections below, implications for three areas of research are

discussed: power, forgiveness, and organization. This is followed by a final discussion

on the practical implications of the presented findings, a review of the limitations of

the current studies, and future directions.

Theoretical Implications

Power

As previously reviewed, research on the consequences of power has focused

on how power exerts effects on power holders’ behaviors. However, social power is

defined as asymmetric dependence in the relationship. As a result, power is inherently

reciprocal; that is, power has an effect on the other party in the relationship. Thus, it is

important to take a reciprocal view of social power and examine how power impacts

high power actors’ behaviors, as well as how their low power counterparts perceive

and react to these behaviors. The present research examined how power affects the

way the actor behaves as well as how people perceive and react to high power actors’

behaviors. Results across 6 studies revealed that power hinders high power actors

from forgiving while it entails favorable perceptions from people if high power actors

can overcome the barriers and become forgiving. Thus, my dissertation has shown

that having power can be a curse as well as a blessing for power holders.

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The current finding that power leads to less forgiveness is consistent with

previous studies that power “corrupts”. What’s more, in line with previous studies that

people make favorable attributions about high power actors’ behaviors, Study 4

revealed that people perceive high power actors’ forgiveness more favorably,

suggesting that the privilege that high power actors have in the relationship is not only

from their freedom in cognition, emotion, and behaviors but also from their low

power counterpart’s perception.

Forgiveness

As summarized in previous literature review, research on forgiveness has

mainly focused on the facilitators of forgiveness with the underlying assumption that

forgiveness can benefit victims. Because research has primarily focused on the

antecedents of forgiveness, there are relatively few studies on the consequences of

forgiveness. The present studies contribute to the literature by showing that

forgiveness indeed has positive consequences for victims especially when victims

have high power.

In addition, the majority of empirical evidence about the beneficial effects of

forgiveness are based on victims’ subjective well-being. However, they ignore an

important factor that may impact victims’ well-being after forgiveness - how

transgressors perceive and compensate victims in the relationship. The present

research represents one of the first sets of studies to look at the consequences of

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forgiveness from the transgressors’ perspective. Furthermore, given the inconsistent

findings about the effect of being forgiven on transgressors’ behaviors in the extant

literature, the current studies identified power as an important boundary for the effect

of being forgiven on transgressors’ behaviors.

Organization

Cameron and Caza (2002) suggested that organizational scholars should start

to investigate the “dynamics in organizations that lead to the development of human

strength, resiliency, and extraordinary performance” (p33). Forgiveness as one of the

positive processes of an organization has attracted attention from organizational

scholars. However, to date, there is little research on how organizational variables

impact forgiveness (except Aquino, Tripp, & Bies, 2001, 2006). Power as a most

obvious organizational variable is likely to impact forgiveness at the workplace. My

studies contribute to the organization literature by demonstrating that power plays an

important role in shaping forgiveness and the perception of forgiveness.

My studies show that although high power actors are less likely to forgive, if

they do forgive, such forgiveness can facilitate more compensation behaviors from

low power transgressors. These findings may help organizational scholars better

understand the barriers that deter managers from forgiving as well as the benefits they

may derive from forgiveness compared to punishment.

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Practical Implications

Researchers suggest that leaders play an important role in fostering a

forgiving climate in organizations. Stone (2002) suggests that the primary purpose of

leadership is to “create a thriving and nurturing environment that allows people to

grow, learn and contribute in a safe place where they feel they belong and forgiveness

is the most essential element in attaining such an environment ” (Stone, 2002. p. 278).

Cameron and Caza (2002) propose that “leaders can exemplify, highlight, and

celebrate virtuous actions, such as forgiveness, by initiating and supporting

organizational structures, systems, and resources that are aligned with forgiveness and

other important virtues”.

Ironically, my studies have shown that high power actors might find it

challenging to forgive. However, my studies have also demonstrated that when high

power actors forgive, they do harvest tremendous benefits. Therefore, the present

studies suggest that although it is challenging for practitioners, they should forgive.

Given the barriers managers are facing, it is necessary that organizations

adopt forgiveness intervention programs such as third-party interventions (Struthers et

al., 2005), forgiveness programs (Hubler, 2005), and empathy-building and

communication interventions (McCullough et al., 2003) to help managers cultivate

forgiveness virtues at the workplace. For example, Struthers et al. (2005) have found

that third-party peace-making can facilitate workers’ forgiveness. Hubler (2005) has

demonstrated that forgiveness therapy and anger management programs are helpful in

family-owned business. McCullough et al. (2003) suggest that building empathy and

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communication of the transgression and responsibilities can facilitate forgiveness

among employees.

Limitations

Despite a number of contributions to the existing literature, the presented set

of studies is not without its limitations, highlighting potential opportunities for future

research.

First, although the present studies used organization as a context to examine

the effect of power on forgiveness and transgressors’ reactions, it is necessary to

replicate these findings with several field studies. While lab studies have high internal

validity, they may suffer from a lack of external validity.

Second, the employee sample in Study 6 is from Amazon’s Mechanical Turk

(MTurk), which is a website that provides an integrated participant compensation

system and a large pool of employees across the world. Studies evaluating the validity

of MTurk have yielded positive conclusions that the data obtained are “at least as

reliable as those obtained via traditional methods” (Buhrmester, Kwang, & Gosling,

2011). However, there are several limitations in collecting organization data from

MTurk. For instance, there is no control in the environments in which respondents

complete surveys. They may not be as focused as those respondents who sit in one

setting to complete the survey. Thus, future studies should collect data directly from

organizations.

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Third, Study 6 did not measure transgressors’ perception of forgiveness and

investigate the mediating role of perception of forgiveness. Given that respondents

recruited from Mturk are from different organizations, their perception of forgiveness

may be subject to heterogeneous information in different organizations. Future

research should measure transgressors’ perception of forgiveness within one

organization and test the mediating effect of perception of forgiveness on the

relationship between power and compliance behavior.

Fourth, the severity of the transgression may interact with the transgressor’s

power to impact the victim’s forgiveness level. It is possible that when managers as

high power actors commit transgressions, their transgressions lead to more destructive

consequences for the organization. Employees are less likely to forgive those serious

transgressions conducted by managers. Thus, future research should test the effect of

severity on forgiveness in a field study.

In most of my studies, the operationalization of the transgression is an

“error”. As suggested by Hofmann and Frese (2011), it is important to differentiate

the nature of transgressions. For example, a violation is an intentional deviation from

a rule, while an error is an unintentional happening. Victims may find it easier to

forgive an error while transgressors may feel less guilty when they commit an error.

Thus, victims and transgressors may behave differently depending on the intention of

the transgression. Future studies should test the moderating role of the nature of the

transgression.

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Fifth, although essay 1 has provided evidence that high power actors are less

forgiving because they are cognitively independent and emotionally irritable, there are

potential moderators that may buffer the negative effect of power on forgiveness. For

example, Aaker and Lee (2001) suggest that different regulatory focus orientations

may lead to different self-construals. Specifically, a promotion-focus is associated

with independent self-construal and a prevention-focus leads to interdependent

self-construal. It is possible that a manager with a promotion-focus orientation may

recognize that subordinates are dependent on them and adopt an interdependent

self-construal. As a result, they are more forgiving. Future research should examine

under what conditions high power leads to a high forgiveness level.

In essay 1, I demonstrated that high power actors are unforgiving. Yet, it is

unclear which specific type of unforgiving behaviors high power actors will resort to.

Will they become more vengeful? Or will they withdraw from the current relationship?

Previous research has characterized unforgiveness as either stuck in a psychological

state that involves resentment, bitterness, rumination, hostile attributions, hatred,

anger, and fear toward a transgressor or behaviors such as revenge and avoidance.

Future research should seek to disentangle the effects of power on unforgiving

behaviors.

Essay 2 has made the first attempt to examine how people make different

attributions of forgivers as a function of their power. The essay has provided evidence

that people perceive high power actor’s forgiveness as being intrinsically motivated

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while low power actor’s forgiveness is perceived as being extrinsically motivated.

Furthermore, based on the scenario study, the essay has shown that people are more

likely to assign moral motive to high power actors compared to other motives such as

relationship motive, apology, religious motive, and lack of alternatives (Cox et al.,

forthcoming). However, a scenario only provides limited information for people to

make the attribution of forgivers. In future research, it is important to further

investigate what motives are more likely to be assigned to high power forgivers in the

real interaction and how specific motives influence compliance more than other

motives.

Furthermore, although essay 2 has shown that people assign an intrinsic

motivation to powerful forgivers, there are certain individual differences of observers

that may lead to a more positive attribution to powerful forgivers. For example,

individual differences such as right wing authoritarianism (Stenner, 2009), social

distance orientation (Sidanius & Pratto, 2001), socio-economic status, and observers’

tendency to forgive (Brown, 2002) are likely to impact how observers make

attributions of powerful people’s forgiveness.

In essay 2, I have shown that in the not being forgiven condition, power did

not impact the effect of unforgiveness on compliance behaviors. Transgressors did not

exhibit greater level of compliance towards high power victims. However, given that

low power transgressors are dependent on high power victims in the relationship, it is

possible that they are terrified by high power victims’ unforgiveness and become

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more compliant with high power victims. One possible explanation is that in current

studies, I did not specify what types of unforgiving behaviors transgressors receive. It

is likely that seeking revenge has different effect on compliance behaviors compared

to the effect of avoidance and displaying unforgiving emotions. Future research

should examine the different effects of unforgiving behaviors on transgressors’

reactions.

In addition, Study 3 extends Kelln and Ellard (1999)’s studies by

manipulating the relative power between the participant and the experimenter. In

Kelln and Ellard (1999)’s study, the victim is the experimenter. However, the

experimenter is often perceived as having power over the participant. My study

manipulated relative power between the participant and the experimenter by

describing the experimenter as either a professor or an undergraduate. However, it is

possible that participants still perceive a student experimenter as having more power

over them. Future studies should use another experiment paradigm in which it is

possible to manipulate relative power between transgressors and victims.

Last but not least, both essay 1 and essay 2 have shown that power plays an

important role in forgiveness. However, I did not make a distinction between absolute

power and relative power. According to Aquino, Tripp, and Bies (2006), absolute

power enhances forgiveness when the perceived procedural justice climate is high.

Relative power increases revenge when the perceived procedural justice climate is

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low. It is likely that relative power and absolute power play different roles in

forgiveness level as well as transgressors’ compliance level.

Future Directions: how to solve the dilemma?

In Chapter 3, I described an anecdote of Gandhi in which he forgave three

assailants and his gesture of forgiveness transformed those assailants into his loyal

followers. In three studies, I demonstrated that this kind of action is not restricted

solely to a legendary story. When high power victims forgive, transgressors value

their “authentic” forgiveness more and become more compliant in the relationship.

However, two studies also showed that forgiveness is challenging for high power

actors. My studies thus delineate a forgiveness dilemma for high power victims: at the

descriptive level, high power victims are less forgiving. At the normative level, they

should forgive.

In light of the current findings, future directions of research should focus on

how to help high power victims overcome the barriers to forgiveness. Indeed, power

scholars have recently proposed that power does not always cause dysfunction in

interpersonal relationships. Under certain conditions, power functions in an effective

way. For example, at the cognitive level, powerful people are good at distinguishing

between goal-related information and goal-unrelated information (Smith & Trope,

2006) and more action-oriented toward fulfilling their goals (Chen, Lee-Chai, &

Bargh, 2001; Galinsky et al., 2003; Guinote, 2007; Keltner, et al., 2003). With this

mindset, powerful people are more likely to commit to their goals and to act

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according to those goals (Galinsky et al., 2003; Guinote, 2007; Smith et al., 2008).

Based on these findings, Karremans and Smith (2010) demonstrated that when high

power victims have a strong commitment to the relationship, they are more forgiving.

Therefore, it is likely that when high power victims’ goals are in line with the

motivation of forgiveness, they can suppress their anger and become more forgiving.

Future research should identify moderators that can facilitate high power victims’

forgiveness.

Conclusion

An old Chinese proverb says that: “A great man should not stoop to pettiness

for his mistakes.” In keeping with this saying, my thesis suggests that although

powerful people tend to be less forgiving, once they do forgive, their forgiveness is

viewed as being more valuable and this in turn elicits transgressors’ compliance

behaviors.

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TABLES

Table 1: Summary of Power Literature

Social Power

Asymmetric

control over

valued

resources in

social relations.

Consequences Major Empirical Evidences

Cognition:

Powerful actors

view themselves

as being

independent while

paying less

attention to

others.

Power activates independent self-construal (Lee &

Tiedens, 2001).

Power leads to “perspective not taking” (Galinsky et

al., 2006).

Power results in stereotyping (Fiske,1993; Goodwin et

al., 2000).

Affect:

Powerful actors

display emotions

freely.

Powerful actors are uninhibited in displaying positive

emotions (Keltner et al.,1998).

Powerful actors are irritable (Tiedens, 2000).

Behavior:

Powerful actors

exhibit

uninhibited social

behaviors.

Powerful actors engage in teasing behavior (Keltner et

al., 1998).

Powerful actors show more gestural activity (Ellyson

& Dovidio, 1985),

Powerful actors are sexually aggressive (Malamuth,

1996).

Powerful actors engage in risk taking behaviors

(Anderson & Galinsky, 2006).

Powerful actors exhibit approach related behaviors

(Keltner et al., 2003).

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Table 2: Summary of Forgiveness Literature

Antecedents Major facilitators Forgiveness

Motivational

changes in three

transgression-related

interpersonal

motivations:

revenge, avoidance,

and benevolence.

Consequences Major Empirical evidences

Cognition: Victims

need to interpret the

transgression as

being forgivable.

Agreeableness, trait

forgiveness, empathy

(McCullough, 2001).

Perspective-taking (Exline et

al., 2008).

Unintentional transgression

(Struthers et al, 2008).

Sincere apologies (Fehr &

Gelfand, 2010).

Intrapersonal:

Forgiveness improves

victims’ psychological

and physical health.

Greater life satisfaction, higher

self-esteem, and more positive affect

(Karremans et al., 2003).

Fewer depression and anxiety

symptoms (Sheffield, 2002; Al-Mabuk

et al., 1995; Enright & Fitzgibbons,

2000).

Less cardiovascular reactivity (Lawler

et al., 2003; Witvliet, Ludwig, &

Vander Laan, 2001).

Affect:

Victims feel less

negative emotions.

Less negative emotions such as

resentment and anger

(Worthington, 2006).

More positive emotions such

as empathy and compassion

(McCullough, 2001).

Interpersonal: victims

exhibit prosocial

motivation and behavior

towards transgressors in

the relationship.

Greater feeling of closeness to their

transgressors (McCullough et

al.,1998).

More cooperative intentions (Van

Lange & Kuhlman, 1994).

More prosocial behaviors (Karremans

& Van Lange, 2004).

Relationship

constraints:

Victims are

embedded in the

relationship with the

transgressor.

High relationship commitment,

satisfaction, closeness, and

satisfaction (Nelson, 1993.

Rackley, 1993; Roloff &

Janiszewski, 1989; Woodman,

1991; McCullough, 2000).

Generalized: Victims

are prosocial towards

others who are not part

of the initial

transgression.

Interdependent self-construal.

More prosocial to others (Karremans

& Van Lange, 2008).

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Table 3: Mean of Compliance Score in Study 6

Being forgiven Not being forgiven

High power victim 4.56(.84) N=29 4.16 (.81) N=11

Peer victim 4.37 (1.03) N=15 4.06 (.78) N=9

Low power victim 3.48 (1.13) N=28 4.16(1.13) N=9

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FIGURES

Figure 1. Research Model of Study 2: Anger mediates the effect of power on

forgiveness.

Figure 2. Results of Study 2: Anger mediates the effect of power on forgiveness.

Coefficients are standardized and coefficients in parentheses control for the other

predictor variable. *p<OS.

+ - Anger

Forgiveness Power

-

β= -.22*

β=1.43* Anger

Forgiveness Power

β=-1.28* (β=-.97*)

Anger

Forgiveness Power

Anger

Forgiveness

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Figure 3. Research Model of Study 3, 4, & 5: Power of forgiver moderates the effect

of forgiveness on compliance.

Figure 4. Research Model of Study 4: Authentic intention mediates the effect of being

forgiven on compliance.

Power of Victim

Being Forgiven Transgressor’s

Compliance

Authentic Intention

Transgressors’

feelings of obligation

Being Forgiven

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Figure 5. Results of Study 3: Power moderates the effect of forgiveness on

transgressor’s objective compliance behavior.

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Figure 6. Results of Study 4: Power moderates the effect of forgiveness on

transgressor’s feelings of obligation.

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Figure 7. Results of Study 4: Authentic intention mediates the effect of being forgiven

on compliance.

Figure 8. Results of Study 5: Feelings of gratitude mediates the effect of being

forgiven on compliance.

Being Forgiven

Transgressors’

feelings of obligation

Authentic Intention

β=1.48* β=.16*

β=.76* (β=.53)

Being Forgiven

Transgressor’s

Compliance

Feelings of

Gratitude

β=.32+ β=4.35*

β=7.28* (β=8.72*)

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Figure 9. Results of Study 6: Power moderates the effect of forgiveness on

transgressor’s compliance behavior.

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APPENDICES

Appendix 1: Study 1 Scenario Study Protocol

1. Power manipulation. Each session lasts 20 minutes, there will be 10 participants.

Participants will be randomly assigned to high power condition, low power condition,

or control condition.

2. After the power manipulation, participants will fill in a questionnaire including

Transgression Narrative Test of Forgiveness (TNTF; Berry, Worthington, Parrot III,

O’Connor, & Wade, 2001).

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Appendix 2: Study 1 Scenario Study Material

Power manipulation: high power condition

We are interested in examining people’s social relationship. Please follow the

instructions carefully. You need not put your name or ID on any part of the exercise.

All your responses will remain CONFIDENTIAL.

Please recall a particular incident in which you had power over another individual or

individuals. By power, we mean a situation in which you controlled the ability of

another person or persons to get something they wanted, or were in a position to

evaluate those individuals. Please describe this situation in which you had

power—what happened, how you felt, etc.

In the space provided below, write down as much as you can to describe this incident.

You have 10 minutes to narrate this in the space provided.

Power manipulation: low power condition

We are interested in examining people’s social relationship. Please follow the

instructions carefully. You need not put your name or ID on any part of the exercise.

All your responses will remain CONFIDENTIAL.

Please recall a particular incident in which someone else had power over you. By

power, we mean a situation in which someone had control over your ability to get

something you wanted, or was in a position to evaluate you. Please describe this

situation in which you did not have power—what happened, how you felt, etc.

In the space provided below, write down as much as you can to describe this incident.

You have 10 minutes to narrate this in the space provided.

Power manipulation: control condition

We are interested in examining people’s social relationship. Please follow the

instructions carefully. You need not put your name or ID on any part of the exercise.

All your responses will remain CONFIDENTIAL.

Please recall a daily social interaction you have. Please describe your experiences on

that day—what happened, how you felt, etc.

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In the space provided below, write down as much as you can to describe your

experiences. You have 5 minutes to narrate this in the space provided.

Transgression Scenarios

Below are a number of situations in which people might find themselves. People

respond in different ways to these situations in terms of what things they will forgive.

We would like you to read each situation and imagine it has happened to you. Then

we would like you to indicate how you think you would respond to the situation and

how you feel about the situation:

1-definitely not forgive

2-not likely to forgive

3-just as likely to forgive as not,

4-likely to forgive

5-defintely forgive

1. Someone you occasionally see in a class has a paper due at the end of the week.

You have already completed the paper for the class and this person says he or she is

under a lot of pressure and asks you to lend him or her your paper for some ideas.

You agree, and this person simply retypes the paper and hands it in. The professor

recognizes the paper, calls both of you to her office, scolds you, and says you are

lucky she doesn’t put you both on academic probation. Imagine yourself in such a

situation and mark how likely you are to forgive the person who borrowed your

paper?

1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

2. A close friend tells you that he or she needs some extra money for an upcoming

holiday. You know a married couple who needs a babysitter for their 3-year-old for a

couple of nights and you recommend your friend. Your friend is grateful and takes the

job. On the first night, the child gets out of bed and, while your friend has fallen

asleep watching television, drinks cleaning fluid from beneath the kitchen sink. The

child is taken by an ambulance to the hospital and stays there for 2 days for

observation and treatment. The married couple will not speak to you. Imagine

yourself in such a situation an mark how likely you are to forgive your friend.

1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

3. A friend offers to drop off a job application for you at the post office by the

deadline for submission. A week later, you get a letter from the potential employer

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saying that your application could not be considered because it was postmarked after

the deadline and they had a very strict policy about this. Your friend said that he or

she met an old friend, went to lunch, and lost track of time. When he or she

remembered the package, it was close to closing time at the post office and he or she

would have to have rushed frantically to get there; he or she decided that deadlines

usually aren’t that strictly enforced so he or she waited until the next morning to

deliver the package. Imagine yourself in such a situation and mark how likely you are

to forgive your friend for not delivering the application on time.

1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

4. You just started a new job and it turns out that a classmate from high school works

there too. You think this is great; now you don’t feel like such a stranger. Even though

the classmate wasn’t part of your crowd, there’s at least a face you recognize. You

two hit it off right away and talk about old times. A few weeks later, you are having

lunch in the cafeteria and you overhear several of your coworkers, who do not realize

you are nearby, talking about you and laughing; one even sounds snid and hostile

toward you. You discover that your old classmate has told them about something you

did back in school that you are deeply ashamed of and did not want anyone to know

about. Imagine yourself in such a situation and mark how likely you are to forgive

your old classmate for telling others your secret.

1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

5. A distant cousin you haven’t seen since childhood calls you one day and asks if he

can stay with you while he looks for work and an apartment. You say it will be fine.

He asks you to pick him up from the bus station that night and you do so. Your cousin

is just like you fondly remember him; you reminisce for several hours. The next

morning you give him some advice on job and apartment hunting in the area, then you

go about your own business. That night you come home and witness an angry

argument in front of your residence between your cousin and neighbor. Your cousin is

obviously very drunk, cursing, and out of control. You ask what’s happening and

without really taking the time to recognize you, your cousin throws a bottle at you,

cutting the side of your head. The police arrive and, with some scuffling, take your

cousin away and take you to the emergency room where you have stitches put on your

cut. The next afternoon, your cousin calls from the police station. He says he is sorry

about the whole scene and that it was not like him but he was upset about being

turned down for three jobs that day. Imagine yourself in such a situation and mark

how likely you are to forgive your cousin.

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1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

6. It is Thursday afternoon and you are having a meeting with your colleague in the

company. You find out that your colleague will be unable to complete the report for

the Monday meeting with the rest of the department. You decide to take it on and

spend your entire weekend completing the report. Given that you have your own part

of the project to deliver, you both agree that the colleague will be presenting the

report at the meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, as the colleague presents the

report in the meeting, he/she does not acknowledge your contribution.

1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

7. One morning you are making presentation in front of colleagues. When you are

about to make an important point about your report, one colleague e interrupts your

presentation and makes an inappropriate joke about you. Everyone laughs and looks

at you. You feel uncomfortable about the joke. It impacts the structure of your

presentation and distract other colleagues.

1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

8. It is Monday morning, you are printing some materials in the copy room, you

overhear several of other colleagues talking about their weekend party at a colleague’s

house. You discover that you are the only one that is not invited by your colleague.

1

Definitely not forgive

2

3

4

5

Definitely forgive

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Appendix 3: Study 2 Experiment Study Protocol

1. Each session will last 30 minutes. There will be two participants and two

confederates in each session. Two confederates will arrive on time and carry a

backpack. I will mark their attendance to make participants believe that they are

subject pool participants. After marking the attendance, the experimenter will put

them in one room. The participants will be told that they are going to be paired with

another participant (a confederate) in a workplace training simulation task. But before

the study starts, they will complete a leadership questionnaire.

2. Structural power manipulation. Both participants and confederates will complete

the leadership questionnaire, in which they report their GPA, leadership positions they

had held, and a number of trait ratings about themselves.

2. After participants complete the Leadership Questionnaire, the experimenter informs

the participants that “You will participate in a workplace training simulation, and that

the task requires one person to be the manager and the other one to be the subordinate.

Your responses on the Leadership Questionnaire will be used to assign the role. I will

mark your questionnaire and tell you the role assignment in 2 minutes.”

3. The experimenter then goes outside the room to “mark” the questionnaires with a

red pen. In fact, each session, the participant will be randomly assigned as the role of

manager or subordinate.

4. The experimenter takes one participant to another observation room and tells the

participant individually that “On the basis of your responses to the leadership

questionnaire, you are best suited for the role of manager (high power condition) or

the role of subordinate (low power condition).” The experimenter also gives a paper

description of the role. Participants in both conditions will then complete

manipulation check of power.

5. After the power manipulation, they will be instructed to work with another

participant (the confederate) who are assigned as the role of manager or subordinate

in the training simulation task. The task involves reading a job description and then

responding to a series of 5 questions about the job using Word document. The

manager is in charge of training the subordinate about job requirements. They then

will respond to the questions together.

6. After 8 minutes, the experimenter will remove the job description and open the

word document for them. The experimenter will inform them that they only have 5

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minutes to answer 5 questions. The experimenter will always ask the confederate to

type the answer. The confederate will make sure that each time he/she types the

responses while they answer questions together.

7. Once all 5 questions are completed, the confederate will get a pre-set mobile phone

call (and while the confederate is answering the phone, he/she “accidentally” close the

document without saving it. The transgression is identical for both conditions.

Following this manipulation, the confederate will apologize by telling the participant:

“I am sorry. I screwed up the task”.

8. At this point, the experimenter will reenter the lab, act unhappy that the data had

been lost. She pretends that she is checking whether the data is lost. She then note that

they are running out of time and the study is over.

9. However, she then will mention that she understands that the session has not gone

as planned and she wants to record the information in the logbook for her study. She

assigns participants in separate room so that she can talk to them separately. She will

ask participants to indicate the extent to which they forgive the transgressor and the

extent to which they feel angry towards the transgressor.

10. The experimenter will then debrief participants about the study purpose.

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Appendix 4: Study 2 Experiment Study Materials

Leadership Questionnaire

For each adjective listed below, indicate the degree to which you think the

adjective describes you. Please, select the following responses to indicate the

strength of your opinion.

1=Strongly disagree

2=Disagree

3=Neutral

4=Agree

5=Strongly agree

1. Articulate: Communicates effectively with others

1

Strongly Disagree

2

3

4

5

Strongly Agree

2. Self confident: Believes in oneself and one's ability

1

Strongly Disagree

2

3

4

5

Strongly Agree

3. Self-assured: Secure with self, free of doubts

1

Strongly Disagree

2

3

4

5

Strongly Agree

4. Persistent: Stays fixed on goals despite interference

1

Strongly Disagree

2

3

4

5

Strongly Agree

5. Determined: Takes a firm stand, acts with certainty

1

Strongly Disagree

2

3

4

5

Strongly Agree

Please answer following questions:

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1. What is your CAP_____

2. What are leadership positions you have had before? Please list below:

_________________________

_________________________

_________________________

Role description: Manager

As manager, you are in charge of training the subordinate with job

requirements provided in the job description. You will decide how to teach him the

major job requirements in the job description and its related knowledge and skills.

You will have 8 minutes to conduct the training session. You will also evaluate the

subordinate’s performance at the end of the session in a private questionnaire - that is,

the subordinate will never see your evaluation. The subordinate will not have the

opportunity to evaluate you. Thus, as a manager, you will supervise your subordinate

in learning job skills.

After the training session, you and your subordinate will respond together to 5

questions regarding facts about the job on computer in 5 minutes.

Role description: Subordinate

As subordinate, your manager will train you with job requirements provided in

the job description. Your manager will decide how to teach you the major job

requirements in the job description and its related knowledge and skills. Your

manager will have 8 minutes to conduct the training session. Your manager will also

evaluate your performance at the end of the session in a private questionnaire - that is,

you will never see your manager’s evaluation. You will not have the opportunity to

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evaluate your manager. Thus, as a subordinate, the manager will supervise you in

learning job skills.

After the training session, you and your manager will respond together to 5

questions regarding facts about the job on computer in 5 minutes.

Power Manipulation Check

1. To what extent you have power over the other participant?

1

Not at all

2

3

4

5

6

7

Very much

2. How would you describe your mood at this moment?

1

Negative

2

3

4

5

6

7

Positive

Generalist Business Analyst Job Description

Company Value

Our mission is to help our clients make distinctive, lasting, and substantial

improvements in their performance and to build a great firm that attracts, develops,

excites, and retains exceptional people.

Role Description

Gives high quality and reasonable advices depending on the demand given by

clients.

Conducts interview of employees, management and stakeholders for clients.

Study the aims and targets of the client and then present to them business

project proposals that will help them carry out their aims and targets.

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Work out and manage the implementation of business projects and lead the

project members.

Ensure that the client receives proper assistance in the fulfillment of project

suggestions and solutions.

Analyze the client’s business issues and challenges by using their expertise

and deep understanding of a specific field of business and come up with

appropriate solutions.

Build financial models for clients.

They need to do research and information gathering regarding the trends in the

industry that the client is participating.

Typically, our engagements usually last 6 to 12 weeks. As a BA, you will be

assigned to one engagement at a time.

Qualifications

Have a strong commitment to excellence and personal and professional

growth.

Have demonstrated outstanding academic achievement and an aptitude for

analytics.

Have a strong record of leadership in a work setting and/or extracurricular

activities.

Enjoy working on teams.

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Find problem solving exhilarating.

Are resourceful, responsible, patient, tenacious, informed, independent,

confident, and full of energy.

Career Path

During your first two years with the firm, you will serve on multiple client

engagements and work with a number of colleagues and clients in a range of industry

and functional areas. Beyond the initial 2 year commitment, there are several different

paths you can pursue; we encourage all well-performing BAs to remain with the Firm

and will hold ongoing discussions with you to define the path that is most appropriate

and attractive to you. Possible options may include:

Advancing directly to a senior associate role when ready. We are committed to

promoting distinctive performers to more advanced roles when they have

demonstrated readiness for these roles. For some, that may happen after 2 or 3

years in the BA role; for others, it may take less than 2 years or may happen

after attending graduate school.

Pursuing a unique third-year BA opportunity within the company. Many BAs

choose to spend a third year working in a new geography (e.g., Europe, Asia)

or role, such as a practice rotation (e.g., corporate finance, private equity,

operations, marketing) or a rotation with the Company Global Institute or

Social Sector Office.

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Working with a non-profit organization as part of the company’s Nonprofit

Corps.

Attending graduate school. Those BAs who receive an offer to return to

McKinsey as a senior associate after graduate school are eligible for

educational support to help defray the costs of graduate school. Our policy has

been to forgive this loan over two years for former BAs who return to the Firm

as Associates.

We are committed to supporting you in whatever career path is most exciting

to you and best fits your development goals. We believe the BA role provides

an outstanding starting point for a long-term relationship with the company

and we look forward to working with you to shape a personalized, highly

compelling set of experiences.

Workplace Simulation Task

1. Please type down two aspects of company value:

2. Please type down the role description of the Generalist Business Analyst. Please

write down as many points as you can.

3. Typically, the engagement in the project will last 4 weeks. Please indicate true or

false. If false, write down the correct answer.

4. What are qualifications for a BA? Please write down as many as you can.

5. What are other different paths you can pursue after initial 2 year commitment?

Please write down as many as you can.

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Please answer the following questions about yourself. All information will be kept

confidential.

1. Is English your first language? Yes No

2. What country were you born in? ______________________

3. How many years have you lived in the Singapore? ________________

4. What is your age? ____________________

5. What is your gender? Male Female

6. Ethnicity (circle one): Chinese Malay Indian Vietnamese

Caucasian (please specify) ___________________

Other (please specify) ___________________

Experimenter Sheet

Condition:

Participant ID:

The other participant (Confederate):

1. Can you describe what happened just now?

2. How angry do you feel? ____

3. If based on a 7-point scale (1 not at all 7 very much), to what extent you forgive

the other participant? ____

4. Have you participated in this (or a similar) task before? If so, what task?

______________________________

5. Did anything seem unusual to you? Any additional thoughts? (recognize the

confederate?)

________________________________________________________________________

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Appendix 5: Pilot Study Protocol

1. Each session will last 30 minutes. There will be 20 participants in the computer

lab in each session. Each of them sits in a separate cubicle and completes an

online survey. They will be randomly assigned to 4 conditions: being forgiven by

high power victim /not being forgiven by high power actor/being forgiven by low

power victim/not being forgiven by low power victim. Participants will recall a

time when they had hurt someone powerful/powerless and they are forgiven or not

forgiven.

2. After completing the writing task, participants will fill in a questionnaire including

the level of their victims’ forgiveness, the level of power they have in the

relationship, and compliance level towards victims.

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Appendix 6: Pilot Study Materials

Transgression Recollection Task

Being forgiven by the high power victim condition

We are interested in examining people’s social relationships. Please follow the

instructions carefully. You need not put your name or ID on any part of the exercise.

All your responses will remain CONFIDENTIAL.

Please recall a specific event in the past six months, one in which you did something

that offended, harmed or hurt another person who has power over you. By power, we

mean a situation in which someone has control over your ability to get something you

want, or is in a position to evaluate you.

After the incident, that person has forgiven you.

In the space provided below, write down as much as you can to describe this incident.

You have 10 minutes to narrate this in the space provided.

Not being forgiven by the high power victim condition

We are interested in examining people’s social relationships. Please follow the

instructions carefully. You need not put your name or ID on any part of the exercise.

All your responses will remain CONFIDENTIAL.

Please recall a specific event in the past six months, one in which you did something

that offended, harmed or hurt another person who has power over you. By power, we

mean a situation in which someone has control over your ability to get something you

want, or is in a position to evaluate you.

After the incident, that person did not forgive you.

In the space provided below, write down as much as you can to describe this incident.

You have 10 minutes to narrate this in the space provided.

Being forgiven by the low power victim condition

We are interested in examining people’s social relationships. Please follow the

instructions carefully. You need not put your name or ID on any part of the exercise.

All your responses will remain CONFIDENTIAL.

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Please recall a specific event in the past six months, one in which you did something

that offended, harmed or hurt another person over whom you have power. By power,

we mean a situation in which you control the ability of another person to get

something they want, or are in a position to evaluate those individuals.

After the incident, that person has forgiven you.

In the space provided below, write down as much as you can to describe this incident.

You have 10 minutes to narrate this in the space provided.

Not being forgiven by the low power victim condition

We are interested in examining people’s social relationships. Please follow the

instructions carefully. You need not put your name or ID on any part of the exercise.

All your responses will remain CONFIDENTIAL.

Please recall a specific event in the past six months, one in which you did something

that offended, harmed or hurt another person over whom you have power. By power,

we mean a situation in which you control the ability of another person to get

something they want, or are in a position to evaluate those individuals.

After the incident, that person did not forgive you.

In the space provided below, write down as much as you can to describe this incident.

You have 10 minutes to narrate this in the space provided.

Manipulation Check

To what extent the person has forgiven you?

1

Definitely

not forgive

2

3

4

5 6

7

Definitely

forgive

I have a great deal of power in the relationship.

1

Strongly

disagree

2

3

4

5 6

7

Strongly

agree

I am committed in the relationship.

1

Strongly

disagree

2

3

4

5 6

7

Strongly

agree

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Compliance Scale

Please indicate to what extent you agree with following statements regarding

to your future interaction with the person (1-Strongly disagree to 7-Strongly

agree).

1. I would give in easily to him/her when I am pressured.

2. I would find it very difficult to tell the person when I disagree with him/her.

3. I would give in to the person if he/she insists that he/she is right.

4. I would try very hard not to offend him/her.

5. I would go along with what he/she tells me even when I know that he/she is

wrong.

6. I would try to please him/her.

7. I would believe in doing as I am told by him/her.

8. When I am uncertain about things I would accept what he/she tells me.

9. I would try to avoid confrontation with him/her.

10. I would try hard to do what is expected of me from him/her.

11. I am not too concerned about what he/she thinks of me.

12. I would never go along with what he/she tells me in order to please him/her.

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Appendix 7: Study 3 Experiment Study Protocol

1. Each session will last 30 minutes. There will be one participant in each room. In

the beginning of the session, the experimenter will introduce herself/himself. In

the high power condition, she/he will introduce herself as a faculty in M& O

department. In the low power condition, she/he will introduce herself as an

undergraduate student who works as RA.

2. The experimenter gives the instruction about the study. Participants will be told

that they are participating in a word recognition study in which they will respond

to different words as fast as possible. The experimenter will give the following

instruction to participants: “We are interested in studying how feelings impact

responses to different words.” The experimenter then will distribute a

questionnaire measuring feelings of guilt and other filter items.

3. After measuring their affect, the experimenter will make the announcement that :

“Now you will proceed to word recognition task, the computer will track your

response time to the words. Please click as fast as possible once you see the

correct answer.”

4. They will then proceed to the task. The task will take 5 minutes. When they finish

the task, they will be asked to save the data. Once they click save, the screen will

show an error message indicating that they fail to save the data. Experimenter will

wait outside of the room and once they get the error message, he/she will enter the

room. The experimenter will check the software and pretend to looking for the

dataset and inform participants that “Because you did not save the responses

correctly, the whole dataset was ruined. We have already collected many data last

week, it never happens before. Now I have to recollect the data.”

5. After conveying the transgression, the experimenter will give the affect

questionnaire again to the participants. “Can you fill in the questionnaire while I

check the computer and think about what are the consequences?” (manipulation

check of guilt)

6. After they finish the questions, so as to convey the notion of contemplation on the

part of the experimenter, one of the following experimental manipulations took

place.

7. In the forgive condition, participants will be told “Don’t worry about it. That’s

OK.”.

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8. In the not forgive condition, the experimenter will tell participants “I am not able

to give you the credit because you failed to save the data for the study.”

9. The experimenter will then announce that the study is over. When participants are

about to leave, the experimenter will ask participants that “Hey, I wonder if I

could ask you a favor before you leave. I am doing another study on campus and I

have to get these 50 envolopes delivered to difference offices on campus. The

study is designed to get professors’ opinions on tenure proceedings and each

professor has been contacted and is already expecting his or her survey. I

wondered if you could help me by dropping off some of these. All you would be

required to do is slide it under the door to his or her office. The offices are all on

campus but they are spread out in every building. Any amount that you could

deliver would help me. So if you think you could help, how many do you think

you could deliver?” The experimenter will record how many envolopes they take

with them on the back of the questionnaire.

10. The experimenter then asks whether they have any questions and any thoughts

about the study (Suspicion check). He/she will then debrief them the purpose of

the study.

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Appendix 8: Study 3 Experiment Study Materials

Affect Scale

Using the scale below, please indicate to what extent you are feeling right now.

Not at all A little Moderately Quite a bit Extremely

1. Active 1 2 3 4 5

2. Afraid 1 2 3 4 5

3. Alert 1 2 3 4 5

4. Ashamed 1 2 3 4 5

5. Attentive 1 2 3 4 5

6. Determined 1 2 3 4 5

7. Distressed 1 2 3 4 5

8. Enthusiastic 1 2 3 4 5

9. Excited 1 2 3 4 5

10. Guilty 1 2 3 4 5

11. Hostile 1 2 3 4 5

12. Inspired 1 2 3 4 5

13. Irritable 1 2 3 4 5

14. Interested 1 2 3 4 5

15. Jittery (Anxious) 1 2 3 4 5

16. Nervous 1 2 3 4 5

17. Proud 1 2 3 4 5

18. Scared 1 2 3 4 5

19. Strong 1 2 3 4 5

20. Culpable 1 2 3 4 5

21. Blameworthy 1 2 3 4 5

22. Upset 1 2 3 4 5

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Please answer the following questions about yourself. All information will be kept

confidential.

1. Is English your first language? Yes No

2. What country were you born in? ______________________

3. How many years have you lived in the Singapore? ________________

4. What is your age? ____________________

5. What is your gender? Male Female

6. Ethnicity (circle one): Chinese Malay Indian Vietnamese

Caucasian (please specify) ___________________

Other (please specify) ___________________

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Appendix 9: Study 4 Scenario Study I Materials

Scenario

Being forgiven by the high power victim condition

Imagine you are an employee in a company and you are in the following

scenario:

You work under Andrew in the company. He is a few years senior to you.

It is Thursday afternoon and you have a meeting with Andrew. You tell him that you

will not be able to complete a report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew

decides to do it and spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that

Andrew has his own part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present

the report at the meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the

report in the meeting, you do not acknowledge Andrew’s contribution.

After the incident, Andrew has forgiven you.

Not being forgiven by the high power victim condition

Imagine you are an employee in a company and you are in the following

scenario:

You work under Andrew in the company. He is a few years senior to you.

It is Thursday afternoon and you have a meeting with Andrew. You tell him that you

will not be able to complete a report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew

decides to do it and spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that

Andrew has his own part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present

the report at the meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the

report in the meeting, you do not acknowledge Andrew’s contribution.

After the incident, Andrew did not forgive you.

Being forgiven by the low power victim condition

Imagine you are an employee in a company and you are in the following

scenario:

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Andrew works under you in the company. You are a few years senior to him.

It is Thursday afternoon and you have a meeting with Andrew. You tell him that you

will not be able to complete a report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew

decides to do it and spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that

Andrew has his own part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present

the report at the meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the

report in the meeting, you do not acknowledge Andrew’s contribution.

After the incident, Andrew has forgiven you.

Not being forgiven by the high power victim condition

Imagine you are an employee in a company and you are in the following

scenario:

Andrew works under you in the company. You are a few years senior to him.

It is Thursday afternoon and you have a meeting with Andrew. You tell him that you

will not be able to complete a report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew

decides to do it and spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that

Andrew has his own part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present

the report at the meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the

report in the meeting, you do not acknowledge Andrew’s contribution.

After the incident, Andrew did not forgive you.

Feelings of obligation

For being forgiven condition:

Please indicate to what extent the following statement could describe your feeling

towards Andrew after he has forgiven you.

1. Who would give more in the relationship?

1

I would

receive far

more than I

give

2 3

4

5 6

7

I would give

far more than

I receive

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For not being forgiven condition:

Please indicate to what extent the following statement could describe your feeling

towards Andrew after he did not forgive you.

1. Who would give more in your relationship with Andrew?

1

I would

receive far

more than I

give

2 3

4

5 6

7

I would give

far more than

I receive

Attribution of Forgiveness

Please indicate to what extent the following statements could describe the

incident.

1. How much did the relationship between you two influence his decision to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

2. How much freedom did he have in choosing to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

3. To what extent did external pressures influence his decision to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

4. To what extent was he free to make his own decisions?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

5. To what extent did the situation constrain his choice to forgive?

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1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

6. To what extent did he forgive because of something about his personality?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

7. To what extent did the situation make it necessary for him to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

8. To what extent did he forgive because of his own preferences or desires?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

Manipulation Check

1. I have a great deal of power in my relationship with him in the company.

1

Strongly

disagree

2 3

4

5 6

7

Strongly

agree

2. He has forgiven me.

1

Strongly

disagree

2 3

4

5 6

7

Strongly

agree

3. I perceive the offense as being severe.

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

Very much

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Please answer the following questions about yourself. All information will be kept

confidential.

1. Is English your first language? Yes No

2. What country were you born in? ______________________

3. How many years have you lived in the Singapore? ________________

4. What is your age? ____________________

5. What is your gender? Male Female

6. Ethnicity (circle one): Chinese Malay Indian Vietnamese

Caucasian (please specify) ___________________

Other (please specify) ___________________

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Appendix 10: Study 5 Scenario Study II Materials

Being forgiven by the low power victim condition

Imagine you are an employee in a company and you are in the following

scenario:

Andrew works under you in the company. You are his supervisor.

It is Thursday afternoon and you have a meeting with Andrew. You tell him that you

will not be able to complete a report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew

decides to do it and spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that

Andrew has his own part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present

the report at the meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the

report in the meeting, you do not acknowledge Andrew’s contribution.

After the incident, Andrew has forgiven you.

Being forgiven by the high power victim condition

Imagine you are an employee in a company and you are in the following

scenario:

You work under Andrew in the company. He is your supervisor.

It is Thursday afternoon and you have a meeting with Andrew. You tell him that you

will not be able to complete a report for the department meeting on Monday. Andrew

decides to do it and spend the entire weekend completing the report. Given that

Andrew has his own part of the project to deliver, you both agree that you will present

the report at the meeting. However, on Monday afternoon, when you present the

report in the meeting, you do not acknowledge Andrew’s contribution.

After the incident, Andrew has forgiven you.

After you are forgiven, one day Andrew asks you a favor: he needs to deliver 50

envelopes containing work related documents to 50 people who work in the company.

He wonders if you could help him by dropping off some envelopes. So if you think

you could help, how many out of 50 envelopes do you think you could deliver? Please

write down the number.____________

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Please indicate to what extent the following statements could describe Andrew’s

forgiveness.

1. How much did the relationship between you two influence his decision to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

2. How much freedom did he have in choosing to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

3. To what extent did external pressures influence his decision to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

4. To what extent was he free to make his own decisions?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

5. To what extent did the situation constrain his choice to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

6. To what extent did he forgive because of something about his personality?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

7. To what extent did the situation make it necessary for him to forgive?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

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8. To what extent did he forgive because of his own preferences or desires?

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

In your opinion, what might be the reasons for Andrew’s forgiveness?

1. He forgave because of my apology.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

2. He forgave because I asked for the forgiveness.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

3. He forgave because I expressed sincere remorse for the offense.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

4. He forgave because he thinks getting even with me would have been immoral.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

5. He forgave because it was the morally right thing to do.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

6. He forgave because he thinks it is important to be merciful to others.

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1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

7. He forgave because God expects him to do so.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

8. He forgave because he was afraid God would hold his faults against him if he

didn’t forgive.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

9. He felt he had to do away with his hostile feelings and make himself like me

immediately in order to live up to the expectations God has of him.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

10. He forgave because he likes me as a person.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

11. He forgave because he wants me to like him.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

12. He forgave because he wants to continue the relationship.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

13. He forgave because the relationship is important for him.

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1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

14. He forgave because there was no opportunity to punish me for what I did.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

15. He forgave because he was afraid that I might retaliate if he tried to get even.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

16. He forgave because no other responses were possible at the time.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

17. He forgave because there was no opportunity for him to get even with me.

1

Extremely

unlikely

2 3

4

5 6

7

Extremely

likely

Please indicate how you feel about Andrew’s forgiveness.

1. I feel gratitude to his forgiveness.

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

A great deal

2. I perceive the offense as being severe.

1

Not at all

2 3

4

5 6

7

Very much

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3. I did the offense intentionally.

1

Strongly

disagree

2 3

4

5 6

7

Strongly

agree

Please describe your relationship with Andrew.

I have a great deal of power in my relationship with him in the company.

1

Strongly

disagree

2 3

4

5 6

7

Strongly

agree

Please answer the following questions about yourself. All information will be kept

confidential.

1. What is your age? ____________________

2. What is your gender? Male Female

3. Ethnicity:___________________

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Appendix 11: Study 6 Online Survey

Transgression Recollection Task

Please recall a specific event in the past six months, one in which you did something

that offended, harmed or hurt another person in the company. If you have not

offended another person within the last 6 months, think about the last time you

offended someone in the company.

In the space provided below, please take 5 minutes to type as much as you can to

describe this incident. You may also change the names and identities of people

involved if you like. Remember that your responses will remain confidential.

After the incident, has this person forgiven you?

Yes

No

For participants who indicate yes:

Compliance scale

Please indicate to what extent the following statements can describe your

interactions with the person you offended after this person has forgiven you

(1-Strongly disagree to 7-Strongly agree).

1. I would give in easily to him/her when I am pressured.

2. I would find it very difficult to tell the person when I disagree with him/her.

3. I would give in to the person if he/she insists that he/she is right.

4. I would try very hard not to offend him/her.

5. I would go along with what he/she tells me even when I know that he/she is

wrong.

6. I would try to please him/her.

7. I would believe in doing as I am told by him/her.

8. When I am uncertain about things I would accept what he/she tells me.

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9. I would try to avoid confrontation with him/her.

10. I would try hard to do what is expected of me from him/her.

11. I am not too concerned about what he/she thinks of me.

12. I would never go along with what he/she tells me in order to please him/her.

For participants who indicate no:

Compliance scale

Please indicate to what extent the following statements can describe your

interactions with the person you offended after this person did not forgiven you

(1-Strongly disagree to 7-Strongly agree).

1. I would give in easily to him/her when I am pressured.

2. I would find it very difficult to tell the person when I disagree with him/her.

3. I would give in to the person if he/she insists that he/she is right.

4. I would try very hard not to offend him/her.

5. I would go along with what he/she tells me even when I know that he/she is

wrong.

6. I would try to please him/her.

7. I would believe in doing as I am told by him/her.

8. When I am uncertain about things I would accept what he/she tells me.

9. I would try to avoid confrontation with him/her.

10. I would try hard to do what is expected of me from him/her.

11. I am not too concerned about what he/she thinks of me.

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12. I would never go along with what he/she tells me in order to please him/her.

Feelings of Remorseful

Please indicate to what extent you agree with the following statement (1-Strongly

disagree to 7-Strongly agree).

I feel remorseful towards him/her.

Relative Hierarchical Power

The person whom you offended is a

Subordinate

Supervisor

Manager

Administrator

Junior Colleague

Peer

Other