FEELINGS ARE VERY FEELINGS ARE VERY IMPORTANTIMPORTANT

BYBYJOAN CLARKJOAN CLARKFANCY FARMFANCY FARM

FEELINGSFEELINGS

WHEN YOU ARE FEELING ANGRY OR UPSET

1. GO INSIDE YOUR SHELL2. TAKE SOME DEEP BREATHS AND

RELAX3. THINK OF A GOOD PLAN TO

SOLVE THE PROBLEM

FEELINGSFEELINGS

HELPING KIDS HANDLE ANGER BE SELF CONTROLLED START WITH A POSITIVE ATTITUDE RELAX DO SOMETHING ACTIVE DO THINGS YOU ENJOY FORGIVE AND FORGET SET GOALS SEE YOURSELF SUCCEEDING IF IT IS TO BE IT IS UP TO ME!

THINK ABOUT THOUGHTS THINK ABOUT THOUGHTS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY. THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY.

What do you enjoy doing? What do you enjoy doing? GET INVOLVED! GET INVOLVED!

HANDLING BUGSHANDLING BUGSIT BUGS ME WHEN IT BUGS ME WHEN SOMEONE: SOMEONE: CALLS ME NAMES.CALLS ME NAMES.

VENT YOUR VENT YOUR FRUSTRATIONS. FRUSTRATIONS.

SELF TALK IS CALMING.SELF TALK IS CALMING.ANGER ONLY CAUSES MORE ANGER ONLY CAUSES MORE

PROBLEMS.PROBLEMS.

I NEED A COOLING OFF PERIOD.I NEED A COOLING OFF PERIOD.WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER

PERSON’S FEELINGS?PERSON’S FEELINGS?AM I MAD BECAUSE I DIDN’T GET AM I MAD BECAUSE I DIDN’T GET

MY WAY!MY WAY!THERE HAS TO BE A GOOD THERE HAS TO BE A GOOD

SOLUTIONSOLUTION

THE MAIN FOCUSTHE MAIN FOCUSKEEP THE PROBLEM FROM HAPPENING KEEP THE PROBLEM FROM HAPPENING

AGAIN.AGAIN.USE LANGUAGE AS A TOOL TO SOLVE USE LANGUAGE AS A TOOL TO SOLVE NEGATIVE INTERACTIONS, USING “I” NEGATIVE INTERACTIONS, USING “I” messages and problem-solving steps.messages and problem-solving steps.

Provide opportunities for cooperative group Provide opportunities for cooperative group work.work.

Help students take responsibility for their own Help students take responsibility for their own behavior and develop a plan with the help of the behavior and develop a plan with the help of the

teacher or peers.teacher or peers.Limit the amount of instructional time spent on Limit the amount of instructional time spent on

petty problems during the week.petty problems during the week.

AchieveAchieveHave An “I Already Have It” Attitude. Have An “I Already Have It” Attitude.

Love Yourself.Love Yourself.

Affirmations stated daily:Affirmations stated daily:I am achieving…I am important.I am achieving…I am important.I am likable…I am working hard.I am likable…I am working hard.I am interesting…I am friendly.I am interesting…I am friendly.

I am socially acceptable.I am socially acceptable.

Plan to have a Great Day!Plan to have a Great Day!

Replace negative thoughts Replace negative thoughts with happy thoughts.with happy thoughts.

Smile.Smile.Be friendly.Be friendly.

Write wonderful thoughts about friends.Write wonderful thoughts about friends.Look for the good in people.Look for the good in people.

Be cheerful.Be cheerful.Make a happy poster.Make a happy poster.

In Every Cloud There Is a In Every Cloud There Is a Silver LiningSilver Lining

IF IT IS TO BE IT IS UP TO IF IT IS TO BE IT IS UP TO ME!!!!!ME!!!!!