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    TheJourneyInward

    10/11/20091:38PM

    AmberKelly

    KinlochC.Walpole

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    ContentsCurriculumOutline.............................................................................................................................................3

    Orientation.....................................................................................................................................................6

    ClassI .............................................................................................................................................................8

    Class2 ............................................................................................................................................................9

    Class3 ..........................................................................................................................................................10

    Class4 ..........................................................................................................................................................11

    Class5 ..........................................................................................................................................................13

    Class6 ..........................................................................................................................................................14

    Class7 ..........................................................................................................................................................15

    Class8 ..........................................................................................................................................................17

    InstructorsOutlinefortheInwardJourney ....................................................................................................18

    Orientation.......................................................................................................................................................18

    2) Going ............................................................................................................................... ......................... 22

    ClassI: DefiningtheBrainandExplaintheGenogram...............................................................................22

    ClassII:Genograms......................................................................................................................................25

    ClassIII:PoweroftheMyth ........................................................................................................................31

    3) Transformation ........................................................................................................................................32

    ClassIV:TheMeaningfulLife ......................................................................................................................32

    ClassV DVDHerowithathousandfaces. ...................................................................................................39

    ClassVIaVisionofFulfillment .....................................................................................................................40

    4) Return ......................................................................................................................................................41

    ClassVII:Relationships................................................................................................................................41

    ClassVIII

    Review...........................................................................................................................................45

    Endnotes ............................................................................................................................... ........................... 46

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    CurriculumOutlineTheJourneyInwardTheJourneyInwardisdesignedtostrengthenandsolidifythelessonsandideas

    presentedintheMindBodyStressReductionProgram(MBSR),buildingonthe

    foundationoftheprinciplesoftaughtintheinitialeightweekseries.Consistingof

    anorientation,eightweeksofclasses,andendingwithafivedayretreat,thefocus

    ofthissectionwillleadeachparticipantonajourneyinward.Thepurposeofthis

    journeywill betoencourageeachparticipanttodevelopinsightregardingthe

    personalities,lifeexperiences,values,attitudes,andbeliefstheybringtothetable

    andhow

    those

    aspects

    of

    their

    selves

    have

    lead

    them

    to

    become

    who

    they

    are

    today.Itisthebeliefofprogramfacilitators,basedonpersonalexperiencewith

    incarceratedindividualsandthosejustrecentlyreleasedfromprison,aswellas

    currentacademicandcommunityresearch,thatsuchinsightwillassistparticipants

    inunderstandingdecisionsandbehaviors,bothadaptiveandmaladaptive,they

    haveusedinthepast,aswellasunderstandthechoicetheyhaveinmaking

    decisionsandintheiractionsinthefuture.

    Severalconceptual

    frameworks

    and

    useful

    metaphors

    will

    be

    used

    in

    this

    section

    to

    illustratethejourneyinward.UsedheavilywillbeJosephCampbellsTheHeros

    Journey(Campbell,1968).Campbellsuseofthemetaphorofthepowerofthe

    mythandthejourneytakenasapartofthatmythisapowerfulapproachto

    recognizingthevalues,attitudes,andbeliefsthateachparticipantcarriesintotheir

    everydaylivingandtheimpactstheirthinkinghas.Eachparticipantwillbe

    encouragedtodiscoverthepersonalmythsthathavegovernedtheirlivestothis

    point,andpossibleotherperspectivesontheirexperiences.

    AlsoutilizedinthissectionwillbetheworkofVictorFrankl,gleanedfrombothhis

    experiencesasaPsychiatristandasaHolocaustsurvivor(Frankl,1959).Duringhis

    internmentinAuschwitz,forcedintotheroleofcampphysician,Franklobserved

    andexperiencedfirsthandsituationsthatcausedhimtoreflectonwhatitmeansto

    havemeaninginoneslife,andhowthatmeaning,orlackthereof,directly

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    impactsparticipantsvalues,attitudes,andbeliefs,andthustheirdecisionsand

    actions.Postrelease,Franklthenvalidatedthesetheoriesbycrossreferencinghis

    observationswithresearch.

    Inarelated

    vein,

    Florida

    Tax

    Watch,

    (FTW)

    recently

    released

    areport

    based

    on

    researchofviolentfelonsinthestateofFloridainwhichtheynotedthatthe

    differenceinstateratesofspendingforeducationalandsocialserviceshavelittle

    relationshipwiththedifferencesincrimerates,showingthattrainingprograms

    alonewillnotnecessarilyslowtherevolvingdoorofrecidivism.FTWinsteadcame

    totheconclusionthattherealsolutionisthequalityoftherelationshipsof

    individualsthatwillchangetheirbehaviors.Suchqualityisnotbuiltbyeducational

    programsalone,butbyparticipantschoosingtogetalife,bothbychallenging

    previouslyheld

    myths,

    and

    finding

    new

    meaning

    with

    which

    to

    live.

    Inthefacilitatorsmultipleyearsofexperienceworkingwithinmatesandindividuals

    postrelease,difficultyfindingmeaningtooneslife,andtherelateddespairand

    depressionseemstobeadeeplyheldcommonexperience.Basedonour

    experienceswithsuchindividualsandrecentresearch(Siegel,2007,Newberg,

    Wadman,&Waldman,2006,Cozonlino,year?,Austin,1999,Bodian,2006,Doidge,

    2007)thisdespairanddepressionexperiencedisdirectlyrelatedtotheepitomeof

    livingameaningless

    life,

    leading

    to

    the

    revolving

    door

    of

    recidivism,

    with

    rates

    at

    over68%.

    UsingtheworkofsuchindividualsasCampbellandFrankl,aswellasothers,the

    intentionistoinfluencethedecisionmakingprocessofparticipants.Asparticipants

    begintomoveinwardandtodevelopabetterunderstandingofwheretherootsof

    thosedecisionscomefrom,theywillalsobeaskedtoconsiderwhatitmeanstobe

    fulfilled,tofindfulfillment,orserenity(asitiswordedin12stepprograms),inlife.

    Participantswilllearnthetoolsandprinciplestheyneednotreacttomomentary

    discomfortsanddistractionsintheirquestformeaningandabetterlife.

    Duringthisjourneyinward,participantswillnotbeprovidedavisionofwhata

    meaningfullifeis,butwillinsteadbeprovidedtoolstodevelopthethisconceptfor

    theirself.Eachparticipantwillbestronglyencouragedtodecideforthemselves

    whatthecosmicglueisthatholdstheirlifetogether.Basedonthissubjective

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    understanding,participantswillthenbereadytomoveintothenextphaseofthis

    transitionprogram.Inencouragingeachpersontodevelopasenseofmeaningthat

    willsustainthemintrialsandtribulationsthatlifemaybring,facilitatorsare

    introducingparticipantstoatoolboxofhelpfulstrategiesandperspectivesthatwill

    enablethem

    to

    meet

    life

    on

    lifes

    terms,

    providing

    them

    with

    something

    to

    sustain

    themduringperiodsofdoubt,despairordepressionuponreleasefromprison.

    Keepinginmindrecidivismratesofover68%,thissectionsfocuswillbetobegin

    thejourneytowardsbuildingameaningfullife,andajourneyawayfromthe

    revolvingdoorofincarceration.

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    Orientation

    Discusshomework: Thereisnohomeworktodiscussasthisisthefirstclassofa

    nineclassblockofinstruction.However,adiscussionofthelastMBSRretreatand

    howtheirpracticehaschangedsincethenwillbetheopeningoftheclass.

    Notes: Makesurethememohasbeenpreparedandsubmittedforsignatureto

    bringintheDVDsHelpingBabiesfromtheBenchaswellasAnneRudloes

    discussionofwhatwasgoodaboutgettingcoloncancer.

    Theme:theorientationisdividedintothreesegments.

    1. ReviewofMBSR:Mindfulnessisawayoflearningtorelatedirectlytowhateverishappeninginyourlife,awayoftakingchargeofyourlife,awayofdoing

    somethingforyourselfthatnooneelsecandoforyouconsciouslyand

    systematicallyworkingwithyourownstress,pain,illness,andthechallengesand

    demandsofeverydaylife.

    2. Reviewthebasicadministrativerulesoftheprogramasperinstructorsnotes.3. Introducetheoverallconceptandframeworkforthe8weekprogram.Thisisa

    journeynestedinJosephCampbellsPoweroftheMythandHerowitha

    ThousandFaces.Itstartswitheachstudentcreatingagenogramofthelastthree

    generationstodiscovertrends,themesandpatternsthathavebecomeapartof

    thespokenandunspokentrends,themes,patternsandmythsthathavebeen

    drivingforcesintheirlives.TheGenogramwillbevisitedagainattheendofthe

    programtoseewhatadditionaltrends,themesandpatternshaveemergedafter

    theyhadachancetodosomeresearchwithfamilyandfriends.Complementing

    thisexplorationisabriefexplanationofthebiologyofthemindbrainbody

    connection.

    Thesecondphaseisthetransformationphasewheretheinmatesare

    introducedtosomeofthetoolsavailabletothemtochangeandnewdefinitions

    ofhappiness,serenityandsuccess.

    Thethirdphaseconsistsoflookingtothefutureandtheirreturntofreedom.

    Visualizinggoalsandprioritiesforanewlifeafterservingtheirsentence.This

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    phaselaysthegroundforthefollowingsixmonthsassociatedwiththe

    transformationandsomeofthedetailsoftheirreentry.

    Homework: startgatheringbasicdataontheirfamilyhistoryforthelastthree

    generations.Topics

    include:

    relationships,

    addictions,

    education,

    birth

    and

    dates,incarcerationhistory,healthissuesandetc.alotofthisinformationwill

    becomeusefulinconstructionexitplansandstrategiesinthefollowing

    programs.

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    ClassIDiscusshomework:Discussanyproblemstheymayhavehadandhowtheysolved

    themingatheringfamilyhistoryinformation.Asecondtopicfordiscussionwill

    rotatearoundanysurprisesthatemergedinputtingtogetherthisinformation.

    Notes:MakesurememohasbeenpreparedtobringintheDVDPoweroftheMyth

    andStarWarsIforthefollowingtwoclasses.

    Theme:Going: Thefirststageisleavingwhereyouare,whatevertheenvironment.

    Youmay

    leave

    because

    the

    environment

    is

    too

    repressive

    and

    you

    are

    consciously

    uneasyandeagertoleave.Oritmaybethatacalltoadventure,analluring

    temptation,comesanddrawsyouout.Thenthereisthepossibilitythatyouwere

    jerkedoutofyourenvironmentforaperiodoftimeandthequestionbecomeshow

    areyougoingtotakeadvantageoftheopportunity.

    DefiningtheMind: aprocessthatregulatestheflowofenergyandinformation.

    Themindprocessesover4billionbitsofinformationaminute.However,the

    consciousnessonlyhasthepowertoprocess2thousandbitsaminute.Thatmeans

    realityisgoingoninthemindandwehavenoideawhatitis.

    TheGenogramhasbeenestablishedasapracticalframeworkforunderstanding

    familypatternsGenogramsallowyoumapthefamilystructureclearlyandto

    noteandupdatethemapoffamilypatternsofrelationshipsandfunctioningasthey

    emerge

    Homework:FilloutthreeGenograms. Twoofthegenogramswilldealwithfamily

    relationshipsand

    addictions.

    The

    third

    is

    open

    to

    each

    individuals

    focus

    of

    family

    history.

    Asecondpartofthehomeworkassignmentistocreatethreelistsoftennames

    each.Eachlistofnameswillbethetenpeoplethatwerethegreatestinfluenceon

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    youinyourpreincarceration,incarcerationandthoseyouwilldependoninthe

    postincarcerationperiod.

    Class2Discuss

    homework:

    give

    each

    inmate

    an

    opportunity

    to

    voice

    what

    trends,

    themes

    andpatternstheysawemergeintheirfamilyhistoryandthenaskiftheycansee

    howthosepatternsaffectedtheirbehaviors.Thislaysthegroundworkfor

    understandsomeofthemythsthathavedriventhem.Thisisagoodtimetobring

    outthatnowtheyhavetheawareness,thepracticewillgivethemthespace

    betweenthethoughtandtheactiontoenablethemtochooseotherresponsesthat

    willgenerateotherbehaviors.

    Askthestudentstoreviewthelistoftenstoseeifwhattheparallelsare

    betweenthosediscoveriesintheirGenogramsandmostinfluentialpeople.Look

    intothequestionofarethetenmostinfluentialsobecauseyouaretryingto

    replicateyourfamilypatterns?Mayanotheravenueofquestioningis:whatisthe

    commonthreadofthesefriendships?

    ReviewtheinformationpresentedintheclassIaboutthemindandthebrain.

    Focusontheroleofthesubconsciousandthemassiveamountofinvalid

    informationandhowitwillbiasouractionsandtheprocessingofnewinformation.

    Notes:

    Theme:thisisaclasswherewebuildonsessions4and5ofthebasicMBSR

    program.Whereasthesetwochaptersspoketoemotionsandfeelings,wearegoing

    totiethoseemotionsandfeelingsintotheinteractionofthereptileandsocialbrain.

    Theemphasiswillbeonthepowerofmindfulnessandchoices.Inasense,itis

    makingthecasethatthereptilebrainasanarrowfocusonFight,Flight,Freezeor

    Fsex. Ifwechoosetoabdicateourmindfulnessalotofloosedecisionsandactions

    willflowfromthoseprioritiesdrivenbybiasedinformationstoredinmemorybanks.

    Wecallthisalotofsuffering.TheArchieBunkerTVshowisagoodcaseinpoint

    drawnfromthepopularculturetheyrelateto.

    Reinforcethepowerofmindfulnessastheabilitytowitnessthethought

    process.

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    IntroducetheconceptofplanA,B,andC.thenseewherethepeopleinthe

    Genogramsaregoingtofigureintoit.

    Homework:HaveeachinmatefilloutaplanAwiththepeoplethatwillbemajor

    actorson

    the

    release.

    Class3SittingMeditationwithfocusonbreath,bodysensations,bodayasawhole(30

    Minutes).

    Discusshomework:Reviewthefunctionsandrelationshipsofthememory,reptile

    andSocialBrainaswellastheroleofemotionsandfeelings.

    Notes:MakesuretheTVissetuppriortotheclassandtestruntheDVD.

    Theme: ThisclassisbuiltonthePoweroftheMythandfocusontheDVDwithBill

    MoyersandJosephCampbell.Thereisemphasisontheworktheyhavedonewith

    theGenogramandemphasizetheyhaveachoicetobeaprisoneroftheirpathorto

    buildafuture

    based

    on

    their

    bliss.

    The

    only

    constraint

    they

    have

    is

    their

    imagination

    andtheirwillingnesstobesomethinggreaterthantheyare.

    IntroduceViktorFranklandhisbookMansSearchforMeaning.Thelessonis

    thathavingthecosmicgluethatsustainsyouwillseeyouthroughthedespair,

    desperation,depressionandlonelinessinyoureffortstobuildalifeafterrelease

    Homework: Havethestudentsreviewsomeoftheoldmythsthathavedriventhem

    andthenlistsomepotentialmythsorgoalsimpliedorstatedintheexitphaseof

    planA.

    they

    could

    be

    education,

    training,

    moves

    to

    another

    place,

    half

    way

    programsthatwouldsupportthosegoals.

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    Class4Discusshomework:Priortodiscussingthehomework,readtheemailfromSusan

    Suarez:

    Iam

    sorry,

    Ihave

    been

    very

    ill.

    My

    kid

    brought

    me

    home

    the

    swine

    flu

    and

    sinceIampregnant,ithitmeREALLYhard. Iftheofferisstilloutthereyoushould

    tellthemthatmybestadviceistheadviceIdidn'twanttoacceptfromyou. Havea

    solidplanA,asolidplanBandasolidplanC. Don'tbedependentonsomeguyfor

    whattheyneed,Ifeeltogetoutandnothavethesethingsinorderisamistake.

    Luckily,Ihaven'trelapsedbutthatmaynotholdtrueformost. LookwhereIamat,

    pregnant,appliedfordisability,andIhavemoved8timesin8months,alltoliveat

    themercyofotherpeople'skindness. EventhoughImissedyourorientation,

    PLEASEpass

    this

    on

    K.C.

    and

    you

    are

    welcome

    to

    use

    my

    name

    although

    Iam

    not

    sureifmanywillbutyouneverknow. Someonewhoknowsmemaybelistening

    andtakeittoheart. Thankyouforthinkingofmeandpleaseletmeknowhowit

    goesover. Susan

    Reviewthenexusofthereptileandsocialbrainaswellastheprimalmemory.

    Brieflycoverplasticityofthebrain.

    Notes:

    Theme:Firstclassinthetransitionphase.

    Theideaintheheroadventureistowalkbodilythroughthedoorintotheworld

    wherethedualisticrulesdontapply.Itisirrelevanthowyougettothedoorbeit

    voluntaryornot.Thequestioniswhatareyougoingtodooneyougetthere.The

    dangercanbepsychologicalorphysicalbecauseyouareleavingthefamiliarand

    enteringuncharteredterritory.This

    class

    essentially

    rotates

    around

    Frankls

    point

    of

    view

    on

    ameaningful

    life

    withinthecontextofJosephCampbellstransformationstageoftheHerosJourney

    andPoweroftheMyth.

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    Franklmakesthepoint:Lifeispotentiallymeaningfulunderanyconditions,eventhe

    mostmiserable. Andthisinturnpresupposesthehumancapacitytocreativelyturn

    lifesnegativeaspectsintosomethingpositiveorconstructive

    Frankloffers

    three

    routes:

    1. Turningsufferingintoahumanachievementandaccomplishment2. Derivingfromguilttheopportunitytochangeoneselfforthebetter;3. Derivingfromlifestransitorinessanincentivetotakeresponsible

    action.

    Franklthenoffersthreepotentialchoicesforameaningfullife:

    1. Creatingaworkorbydoingadeed.2. Experiencingsomethingorencounteringsomeone;inotherwords,

    meaningcanbefoundnotonlyinworkbutalsoinlove.

    3. Lastly:meaninginlife:eventhehelplessvictimofahopelesssituation,facingafatehecannotchange,mayriseabovehimself,

    maygrowbeyondhimself,andbysodoingchangehimself.Hemay

    turnapersonaltragedyintoatriumph.

    Meaninglessness; Astothecausationofthefeelingofmeaninglessness,onemay

    say,albeit

    in

    an

    overly

    simple

    vein,

    that

    people

    have

    enough

    to

    live

    by

    but

    nothing

    tolivefor;theyhavethemeansbutnomeaning.

    Happiness(Rapture,Bliss)

    Apointofdiscussionfortheclass Manytasteswethinknaturalareacquired

    throughlearningandbecomesecondnaturefromouroriginalnaturebecause

    ourneuroplasticbrains,oncerewired,developanewnature,everybitasbiological

    asouroriginal.

    Homework: writeoutyourowndefinitionsforwhatameaningfullifewouldbe.

    Thenwriteoutyourdefinitionsofhappinessandbliss.

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    Class5Discusshomework:Reviewthenexusofthereptileandsocialbrainaswellasthe

    primalmemory.

    Briefly

    cover

    plasticity

    of

    the

    brain.

    Discusstheirdefinitionsforwhatameaningfullifewouldbe.Intheprocessreview

    theirdefinitionsofhappinessandblisstoseeifitcoincideswithameaningfullife.At

    thispoint,agoodquestionishoworiftheirdirection,mythsanddefinitions

    changed.

    Notes: SeeifitcanbearrangedfortheinmatestoseeStarWarsIandIIIoutsideof

    class. Thefocusistoseehowpeoplecanbedrawnintoatransformationandhow

    theycangoastrayintheprocess.

    Theme:ThisiswhereweplaytheDVDofBillMoyersandJosephCampbellofThe

    HerosJourney.IftheclassdidnotrelatewelltotheDVDThePoweroftheMyth

    thenitmightbeappropriatetosubstituteStarWarsIII.Thisparticularlygood

    becauseitshowswheregoodintentionscanleadyouastray.Thereisshadesof

    Franklherealsothatdeservetobebroughtout.

    Homework:

    The

    students

    outline

    their

    own

    version

    of

    a

    heros

    journey.

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    Class6Discusshomework:Reviewthenexusofthereptileandsocialbrainaswellasthe

    primalmemory.

    Briefly

    cover

    plasticity

    of

    the

    brain.

    TheirversionoftheHerosJourneywillbealongandcrucialdiscussionperiod

    becausemuchofwhatwaslearnedwillcomeintoplay.

    Notes:

    Theme:thethemeistoexplainhowserenityandhappinessareproductsandnot

    objectivesoftheHerosJourney.

    TraumaandRecoveryChart

    Serenity:theabsenceofmentalstressoranxiety;peaceofmind;repose;heartsease. InArabian,

    thenameSakinahmeans godinspiredpeaceofmind.ThenameSakinahoriginatedasanArabian

    name.ThenameSakinahismostoftenusedasagirlnameorfemalename.ArabianMeaning

    godinspiredpeaceofmind

    "Godgrantustheserenitytoacceptthethingswecannotchange,

    couragetochangethethingswecan,

    andwisdomtoknowthedifference."

    Homework:HavethemrewritetheirversionoftheHerosJourneywiththemasthe

    maincharacterandstartingattheirEOSdate.

    Mind/Body

    Split(03)

    Mind/Body

    Split(PTSD)

    Emotions/

    Suffering

    Decision Energy

    (Focus)

    Meditation/

    exercise

    Mind/Body

    Unification

    Emotions/

    Happiness

    Grandiosity Depression3c

    (distrust emptiness)

    transformation Love

    Selfishness(self

    absorbsion)

    selflessness

    React 4d Respond

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    Class7Discusshomework: Reviewthenexusofthereptileandsocialbrainaswellasthe

    primalmemory.Brieflycoverplasticityofthebrain.

    DiscusstheirlatestversionoftheHerosJourneyandfocusonhowithaschanged

    fromthefirstversion.

    DiscussprogresswithGenograms.Seeifthereareanynewtrends,themesor

    patternsthathavearisenduringtheclass.

    Notes: firstclassonthereturnwherethewholeideaisthatyouvegottobringoutagainthatwhichyouwenttorecover,theunrealized,unutilizedpotentialin

    yourself.Thewholepointofthisjourneyisthereintroductionofthispotentialinto

    theworld;thatistosay,toyoulivingintheworld.Youaretobringthistreasureof

    theunderstandingbackandintegrateitinarationallife.Itgoeswithoutsaying,this

    isverydifficult.Bringingtheboonbackcanbeevenmoredifficultthangoingdown

    intoyourowndepthsinthefirstplace.

    Theme:Relationships

    (patterns,

    themes

    and

    trends)

    Interpersonalrelationshipshavebeenshowntopromoteemotionallongevity,

    helpingusachievestatesofwellbeingandmedicalhealth.(Anderson&Anderson,

    2003).Iamproposingherethatmindfulawarenessisaformofselfrelationship,an

    internalformofattunementthatcreatessimilarstateofhealth.i

    Interpersonalrelationships: thenotionthatthebrainisbuiltofmillionsof

    neuronswithtrillionsofconnectionsthatcometogethertocreatewhatwecallan

    individual.But

    it

    doesnt

    stop

    there?

    Nature

    then

    continues

    to

    interweave

    individual

    individualsinwaysthatexpandcollaborationintheserviceofsurvival.Neuronsthat

    firetogetherwiretogether,.Peoplewhoareabletoattendtooneanother,touch,

    talk,andconnectalsofiretogether,wiretogether,andsurvivetogetherOurability

    toconnectdependsoncomplexandwiderangingneuralnetworksthroughoutour

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    brainsthathavebeenshapedthroughmillionsofyearsofneurobiologicalevolution.

    Itistothesesystemsandtheirabilitiesthatwenowturnourattention.ii

    Whywomenstay:thisishandouttakenfromtheinternetthatisfourpagesofwhy

    womenstay

    in

    sexual

    and

    physically

    abusive

    relationships.

    It

    is

    ahandout

    for

    discussionpurposes.

    FamilyofOrigenasopposedtofamilyofchoice.(dysfunctionalrelationshipsisthe

    decidingfactor)

    Significantothers

    PTSDOnereasonisthatourhighlyevolvedneocortex(rationalbrain)isso

    complexandpowerfulthatthroughfearandovercontrolitcaninterferewiththe

    subtlerestorativeinstinctualimpulsesandresponsegeneratedbythereptiliancore.

    Inparticular,theneocortexeasilyoverridessomeofourgentlerinstinctual

    responsessuchasthosethatguidethehealingoftraumathroughthedischargeof

    energy.Ifthedischargeprocessistoserveitspurpose,itmustbeimitatedand

    drivenbyimpulsesfromthereptilianbrain.Theneocortexmustelaborateon

    instinctualinformation,notcontrolit.

    Homework:UpdatePeoplelistedinreentrystrategyandaddplacesandgoals.Now

    doaplan

    A,

    B

    and

    C.

    Encourage

    them

    to

    draw

    on

    the

    concepts

    presented

    in

    Heros

    JourneyandthePoweroftheMyth.

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    Class8SittingMeditationwithfocusonbreath,bodysensations,bodayasawhole(30

    Minutes).

    Discusshomework:

    Notes:

    Theme:

    Homework:

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    InstructorsOutlinefortheInwardJourney

    Orientationa) ReviewsomeofthebasicdynamicsofMBSR:

    i) FromUMassmedicalwebsite(thehorsesmouth)http://www.umassmed.edu/Content.aspx?id=41254

    Wecallourapproachmindfulness-basedstressreductionorMBSR...

    Mindfulnessisawayoflearningtorelatedirectlytowhateverishappening

    inyourlife,awayoftakingchargeofyourlife,awayofdoingsomething

    foryourselfthatnooneelsecandoforyouconsciouslyand

    systematicallyworkingwithyourownstress,pain,illness,andthe

    challengesand

    demands

    of

    everyday

    life.

    Incontrast,youveprobablyencounteredmomentsofmindlessnessa

    lossofawarenessresultinginforgetfulness,separationfromself,anda

    senseoflivingmechanically.Restoringwithinyourselfabalancedsenseof

    healthandwellbeingrequiresincreasedawarenessofallaspectsofself,includingbodyandmind,heartandsoul.Mindfulnessbasedstress

    reductionisintendedtoignitethisinnercapacityandinfuseyourlifewith

    awareness.

    Reawakeningto whatyoualreadyare... Fortunately,mindfulnessisnotsomethingthatyouhavetogetor

    acquire.Itisalreadywithinyouadeepinternalresourceavailableand

    patientlywaitingtobereleasedandusedintheserviceoflearning,

    growing,andhealing.

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    Peopleparticipateforreasonsasdiverseas... Stressjob,familyorfinancial Chronicpainandillness Anxiety

    and

    panic

    GIdistress Sleepdisturbances Fatigue Highbloodpressure Headaches

    Theyaresentbytheirdoctorsortheyareselfreferred. Manyenroll

    because,althoughtheyarefeelingwellphysically,theysaythepaceof

    theirlives

    is

    out

    of

    control

    or

    theyre

    just

    not

    feeling

    quite

    right.

    Alifeaffirmingcourseinconsciousliving...

    Thecoursescheduleconsistsofeightweeklyclassesandonedaylong

    classonaSaturdayorSunday.Morningoreveningcoursesareavailable.

    Thishighlyparticipatory,practicalcourseincludes:

    Guidedinstructioninmindfulnessmeditationpractices

    Gentle

    stretching

    and

    mindful

    yoga

    Groupdialogueanddiscussionsaimedatenhancingawarenessineverydaylife

    Individuallytailoredinstruction Dailyhomeassignments FourhomepracticeCDsandahomepracticemanual

    Thecourseischallengingandlifeaffirming.Theinstructorsare

    accomplishedandskilledatcreatingasafe,supportive,anddeeply

    engaginglearningenvironment.

    ii) Rehabprofessionalsarecontinuallysurprisedatwhatpeoplearecapableofandbyhowthebodyandthemindcansometimesrespondtoastrong

    determinationtotakeupresidenceagainandtoworkwithself

    compassionandgentlenessattheboundariesofwhatonecanandcannot

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    doatanygivenmoment,eveninthefaceofwhatmaysometimesseem

    likeinsurmountableobstaclesorchallenges.Thisinterfaceiswherethe

    learningtakesplace,andthegrowingintooneself,asonefeelsonesway

    intowhatwillbeinevitablyandtoalargedegreeanewterritorywithin

    onesown

    interior

    landscape

    of

    being.iii

    b) Reviewquestionsfromtheretreatc) Askwhytheyarethered) Askhowmeditationhasgonesincetheretreate) Reviewmuddywaterexercisef) Havestudentsdoasinglegenogramwithoutdatag) Explainscopeofclass(herosJourney): Thebasicstoryoftheherojourney

    involvesgivingupwhereyouare,goingintotherealmofadventure,coming

    tosomekindofsymbolicallyrenderedrealization,andthenreturningtothe

    fieldofnormallife.iv

    i) Going:Thefirststageisleavingwhereyouare,whatevertheenvironment.Youmayleavebecausetheenvironmentistoorepressive

    andyouareconsciouslyuneasyandeagertoleave.Oritmaybethatacall

    toadventure,analluringtemptation,comesanddrawsyououtv

    ii) Learning:Ifthecallisheeded,however,theindividualisinvokedtoengage

    in

    adangerous

    adventure.

    Its

    always

    adangerous

    adventure

    becauseyouremovingoutofthefamiliarsphereofyour

    community..Theideaintheheroadventureistowalkbodilythroughthe

    doorintotheworldwherethedualisticrulesdontapplyvi

    iii)Return;Thewholeideaisthatyouvegottobringoutagainthatwhichyouwenttorecover,theunrealized,unutilizedpotentialinyourself.Thewhole

    pointofthisjourneyisthereintroductionofthispotentialintotheworld;

    thatistosay,toyoulivingintheworld.Youaretobringthistreasureof

    theunderstanding

    back

    and

    integrate

    it

    in

    arational

    life.

    It

    goes

    without

    saying,thisisverydifficult.Bringingtheboonbackcanbeevenmore

    difficultthangoingdownintoyourowndepthsinthefirstplace.vii

    h) Powerofthemyth:i) Exilefromthecommunity

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    ii) Whatisthecoreofus?Whatisthebasiccharacterofourbeing?Theessenceofoneselfandtheessenceoftheworld;thesetwoareone.Hence

    separateness,withdrawal,isnolongernecessary.Wherevereheromay

    wander,whateverhemaydo,heiseverinthepresenceofhisown

    essencefor

    he

    has

    the

    perfected

    eye

    to

    see.

    There

    is

    no

    separateness.

    iii)ThemodernherdedmustthatofquestingtobringtolightagainthelostAtlantisofthecoordinatedsoul.

    iv)Returntoliveinthesocietyandnotdestroyit. viii

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    2) Going(Going:Thefirststageisleavingwhereyouare,whatevertheenvironment.Youmayleavebecausetheenvironmentistoorepressiveandyou

    areconsciously

    uneasy

    and

    eager

    to

    leave.

    Or

    it

    may

    be

    that

    acall

    to

    adventure,

    analluringtemptation,comesanddrawsyououtix

    ClassI: DefiningtheBrainandExplaintheGenogrami) DefiningtheBrain:

    1. Evolutionisdrivenanddirectedbythephysicalsurvivalofthespecies,notbythehappinessofindividuals.Thus,muchofthebrains

    functioningisbaseduponprimitivefightorflightmechanismsas

    opposedtoconsciousandcompassionatedecisionmaking.Becauseof

    thisreality,theconsciousandunconsciousmanagementoffearand

    anxietyarecorecomponentsofourattachmentrelationshipsand

    characterwhenthethreatpasses,webegintorelaxandfindour

    voicesagain,perhapseventolaughatourownreactions.Butwhatif

    wecanneverrelax?Whatifourearlyexperienceshapesourbraintobe

    inaconstantstateoffear? Whatifourearlyexperienceshapesour

    braintobeinaconstantstateoffear?Whenthisevolutionary

    comprises

    interferes

    with

    the

    proper

    development

    and

    integration

    of

    neuralnetworks,psychopathologymayresult.x

    2. finally,andperhapsmostimportant,isthatwethinkofthebrainnotasafullyformedstructurebutasadynamicprocessundergoing

    constantdevelopmentandreconstructionacrossthelifespan.Keeping

    thesethreeconceptualshiftsinmind,letstakealookatsomeofthe

    keystructuresandsystemsofthesocialbrain.xi

    3.ii) DefiningtheMind:aprocessthatregulatestheflowofenergyand

    information.xii

    1. Themindprocessesover4billionbitsofinformationaminute.However,theconsciousnessonlyhasthepowertoprocess2,000bitsa

    minute.Thatmeansthatrealityisgoingoninthemindandwehaveno

    ideawhatitis.Thesubconsciousnessmindhasanabilitytoprocess

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    andreact.Thisiswhythemindbodyconnectionissoimportantasthe

    mindinstructsthebodyandgivesitdirectionpriortotheconscious

    mindevenbeingawarethedecisiontoactby7seconds.Alltoooften

    thisputsconsciousmindinthepositionofjustifyingactioninsteadof

    determiningifit

    is

    in

    the

    best

    interest.

    With

    training

    (mindfulness)

    the

    socialbraincanoverridethereptilebrain.Butittakestraining,

    awarenessandwillpower.

    2. BeingMindful:Mindfulnessinitsmostgeneralsenseisaboutwakingupfromalifeonautomatic,andbeingsensitivetonoveltyinour

    everydayexperiences.Withmindfulawareness,theflowofenergyand

    informationthatisourmindentersourconsciousattentionandwecan

    bothappreciateitscontentsandalsocometoregulateitsflowinanew

    way.Mindfulawareness,aswewillsee,actuallyinvolvesmorethan

    justsimplybeingaware:Itinvolvesbeingawareofaspectsofthemind

    itself.insteadofbeingonautomaticandmindless,mindfulnesshelpsus

    awaken,andbyreflectingonthemindweareenabledtomakechoices

    andthuschangebecomespossible.

    Howwefocusattentionhelpsdirectlyshapethemind.Whenwe

    developacertainformofattentiontoourhereandnowexperiences

    andto

    the

    nature

    of

    our

    mind

    itself,

    we

    create

    the

    special

    form

    of

    awareness,mindfulness,whichisthesubjectofthisbook.

    Studieshaveshownthatspecificapplicationsofmindful

    awarenessimprovethecapacitytoregulateemotion,tocombat

    emotionaldysfunction,toimprovepatternsofthinking,andtoreduce

    negativemindsets.

    Researchonsomedimensionofmindfulawarenesspractices

    revealsthattheygreatlyenhancethebodysfunctioning:Healing,

    immuneresponse,

    stress

    reactivity,

    and

    ageneral

    sense

    of

    Physical

    wellbeingareimprovedwithmindfulness(Davidson,KabatZinn,

    Schumacher,Rosencrantz,Mulleretal.,2003).Ourrelationshipswith

    othersarealsoimprovedperhapsbecausetheabilitytoperceivethe

    nonverbalemotionalsignalsfromothersmaybeenhancedandour

    abilitytosensetheinternalworldsofothersmaybeaugmented.In

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    thesewayswecometocompassionatelyexperienceothersfeelings

    andempathizewiththemasweunderstandanotherpersonspointof

    view.xiii

    iii)Genogram:theGenogramhasbeenestablishedasapracticalframeworkfor

    understanding

    family

    patternsGenograms

    allow

    you

    map

    the

    family

    structureclearlyandtonoteandupdatethemapoffamilypatternsof

    relationshipsandfunctioningastheyemerge..Whenfamilymembersare

    questionedaboutthepresentsituationwithregardtothethemes,myths,

    rules,andemotionallychargedissuesofpreviousgenerations,repetitive

    patternsoftenbecomeclear..Familiesrepeatthemselves.Whathappens

    inonegenerationwilloftenrepeatitselfinthenextthatis,thesame

    issuestendtobeplayedoutfromgenerationtogeneration,thoughthe

    actualbehaviormaytakeavarietyofforms.Bowentermedthisthe

    multigenerationalTransmissionoffamilypatterns. Thehypothesisisthat

    relationshippatternsinpreviousgenerationsmayprovideimplicitmodels

    forfamilyfunctioninginthenextgeneration.Onthegenogram,we

    explorepatternsoffunctionrelationship,andstructurethatcontinueor

    alternatefromonegenerationtothenext.xiv

    iv)Theprimalmemo1. Plasticity:(anextensionofthenaturevsnurtureargument)1. youcannothaveplasticityinisolationitsanabsolute

    impossibility.Hisexperimentshaveshownthatifonebrainsystem

    changes,thosesystemsconnectedtoitchangeaswell.Thesame

    plasticrulesuseitorloseit,orneuronsthatfiretogetherwire

    togetherapplythroughout.Differentareasofthebrainwouldntbe

    abletofunctiontogetherifthatwerentthecase.xv

    2. HelpingBabiesfromthebench

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    ClassII:Genogramsv) ReviewGenogram (Seeaboutmakingcopyfor2ndtolastclass)vi)Thesocialandreptilebrain

    1. SurvivalPrioriesoftheReptileBrain.(inmedicalschoolsknownasthefourFs.

    1. Fight2. Flight3. Freeze4. F_sex

    2. MessagedeliverysystemofReptileBrainxvi1. SympatheticNervousSystem

    (i) Dilatespupil(ii)Inhibitssalivation(iii) Acceleratesheartbeat(iv) Inhibitsdigestion(v)Stimulatessecretionofadrenaline(epinephrine)(vi)

    Stimulates

    orgasm

    (vii) Stimulatessexualarousal2. ParasympatheticNervousSystem

    (i) Constrictspupil(ii)Stimulatessalivation(iii) Slowsheartbeat(iv) Stimulatesdigestion(v)Stimulatessexualarousal

    3. TheBrain:thereal mastergland. Theneuralrouterepresentedbythesympatheticsystemisafirstmeansbywhichthebraincan

    mobilizewavesofactivityinresponsetoastressor.Thereisanother

    wayaswellthroughthesecretionofhormones.

    (i) Ifaneuron(acellofthenervoussystem)secretesachemicalmessengerthattravelsathousandthofaninchedandcausesthe

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    nextcellinline(typically,anotherneuron)todosomething

    different,thatmessengeriscalledaneurotransmitter.

    (ii)Ifaneuron(oranycell)secretesamessengerthat,instead,percolatesintothebloodstreamandaffectseventsfarandwide,

    thatmessenger

    is

    ahormone.

    All

    sorts

    of

    glands

    secrete

    hormones;thesecretionofsomeofthemisturnedonduring

    stress,andthesecretionofothersisturnedoff.

    (iii) Anotherimportantclassofhormonesintheresponsetostressarecalledglucocorticoids. Thesearesteroidhormones

    (steroidisaclasswithfivesubsets:estrogens,progestin,mineral

    corticoids,andglucocorticoids)secretedbytheadrenalgland

    andoftenactsimilartoepinephrine.Epinephrineactswithin

    seconds;glucocorticoidsbackthisactivityupoverthecourseof

    minutesorhours.

    (iv) Thereiswidespreadacceptanceoftheideathatthebodydoesnotrespondtostressmerelybypreparingforaggressionor

    escape,andthatthereareimportantgenderdifferencesinthe

    physiologyandpsychologyofstress.Taylorarguesconvincingly

    thatthephysiologyofthestressresponsecanbequitedifferent

    infemales,

    built

    around

    the

    fact

    that

    in

    most

    species,

    females

    aretypicallylessaggressivethanmales,andthathaving

    dependentyoungoftenprecludestheoptionofflight. Taylor

    suggeststhatratherthanthefemalestressresponsebeingabout

    fightorflight,itsabouttendandbefriendtakingcareofher

    youngandseekingsocialaffiliation.Tayloralsoemphasizesa

    hormonalmechanismthathelpscontributetothetendand

    befriendstressresponse.Whilethesympatheticnervous

    system,glucocorticoids,

    and

    the

    other

    hormones

    just

    reviewed

    areaboutpreparingthebodyformajorphysicaldemands,the

    hormoneoxytocinseemsmorerelatedtothetendandbefriend

    themes.

    (v)thekeyisthatitisextremelyrarelythatthingslikehormonesandneurotransmitterscauseabehavior.Instead,theyproduce

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    tendenciestorespondtotheenvironmentincertainways.

    (Monkeyluvp17)

    (vi) thisiscritical.Letsconsideranxiety.Whenanorganismisconfrontedwithsomesortofthreat,ittypicallybecomes

    vigilant,searches

    to

    gain

    information

    about

    the

    nature

    of

    the

    threat,strugglestofindaneffectivecopingresponse.Andoncea

    signalindicatessafetythelionhasbeenevaded,thetrafficcop

    buystheexplanationanddoesntissueatickettheorganismcan

    relax.Butthisisnotwhatoccursinananxiousindividual.Instead,

    thereisafranticskitteringamongcopingresponsesabruptly

    shiftingfromonetoanotherwithoutcheckingwhetheranything

    hasworked,anagitatedattempttocoverallthebasesand

    attemptavarietyofresponsessimultaneously.Bydefinition,

    anxietymakeslittlesenseoutsidethecontextofwhatthe

    environmentisdoingtoanindividual.(Monkeyluvp17)

    (vii) Geneticstatusisnotallthatpredictiveinandofitself...onlyonasuperficialleveldowesharethesameenvironments.

    Forexample,theincidenceofthegenesrelatedtodepressionis

    probablyroughlyequalthroughouttheworld.However,geriatric

    depressionis

    epidemic

    in

    our

    society

    and

    virtually

    nonexistent

    in

    traditionalsocietiesinthedevelopingworld.Why?Remarkably

    differentenvironmentsifdifferentsocieties,inwhicholdagecan

    meanbeingapowerfulvillageelderoraninfantilizedhasbeen

    putouttoshuffleboardpasture.(Monkeyluvp18)

    3. Ourconsciousnessalsodoessomethingremarkable;ittakesthefewperceptionsthatwehold,ignoresthediscrepancies,andturnsthem

    intosophisticatedvisionsandinventions,somethingnootherliving

    organismcan

    do.

    The

    visions

    eventually

    become

    part

    of

    the

    reality

    of

    thebrain,andtheinventionsbecomepartoftheworld.xvii

    4. Theknowledgewegleanfromscientificstudiesdependslargelyonhowweinterprettheevidence.Butinterpretationsaresubjectintothe

    samerulesthatgovernourperceptionsofreality;theyarefilledwith

    assumptions,generalizations,oversights,andmistakes.Inthesocial

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    sciences,theseerrorsarereferredtoascognitivebiases;butasIhave

    emphasizedthroughoutthebook,suchbiasesarebuilttheperceptual

    andemotionalaswellasthecognitivemechanismsofthebrain.Bythe

    timeperceptualinformationreachesconsciousness,eachindividualhas

    transformedit

    into

    something

    new

    and

    unique.

    This

    reconstruction

    of

    realityisthefoundationfromwhichweconstructallourbeliefsabout

    theworld.xviii

    5. Emotionsandfeelings1. Emotions:

    (i) EmotionsMakeThoughtsandPerceptionsReal:Anotherelementessentialtobeliefsisthemeaningor value bestowedonthe

    individualbelief. Valuereferstotheimportanceorworth

    assignedtoaparticularperceptionoridea,andtheactivityof

    assignmentcanbetracedtotheemotionalcircuitsofthebrainin

    thelimbicsystem.Ingeneral,asneuralstimulationsincreasesin

    theseareaswhichincludetheamygdale,thethalamus,andthe

    hippocampusperceivedvalueincreases.Withoutthisactivity,

    emotionalmemoriesincludingexperiencessuchasanger,

    sadness,happiness,disgust,andsurprisecouldnotbeformed,

    andlife

    would

    have

    little

    meaning.as

    we

    shall

    see

    later,

    it

    is

    alsorelativelyeasytoimplantfalsememories,especiallyin

    children.Furthermore,thereismountingevidencethatthebrain

    maintainsfalsememoriesforextendedperiodsoftime.Allthis

    suggestthatweshouldbeverycautiousaboutassumingthe

    truthfulnessofourbeliefs,especiallythosethatweembraced

    whenwewereyoung.

    Emotionsalsobindourperceptionstoourconscious

    beliefs,making

    whatever

    we

    are

    thinking

    about

    seem

    more

    real

    atthetime.Infact,strongemotionsparticularlyanger,fear,and

    passioncanradicallychangeourperceptionsofreality.Butifa

    thoughtorperceptionsdoesnotsimulateanemotionalresponse,

    itmaynotevenreachconsciousness.xix

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    (ii)Thefirstconceptweneedtostatedirectlyisthatemotionisa

    complexentityandanequallyintricatesubjectofstudy.

    Emotionsincludesaprocesswherebygoaldirectedbehaviorsare

    organizerand

    enacted,

    appraisal

    of

    the

    meaning

    of

    events

    is

    created,informationprocessing(cognition)isshaped,

    perceptionsbiased,andaffectivearousalactivate.Emotionalso

    directlyinvolveshowweinteractwitheachotherinthepresent,

    andhowweareimpactedbyactivationsfrommemory.Inother

    words,whatwecallemotionisadynamicandcentralfunction

    thatintegratesbehavior,meaning,thinking,perceiving,feeling,

    relating,andremembering.

    Atthemostbasiclevel,wecreatenonreactiveby

    developingthecircuitsinourbrainthatenabletheloweraffect

    generatingcircuitstoberegulatedbythehighermodulating

    ones.Thisbalancebetweenemotionarousalanditregulationis

    oftenconceptualizedasthere3lationshipbetweenthe

    subcortricallimbicamygdaleandtheprefrontalcortex.Mindful

    awarenessmaydirectlyinfluencenonreactivitybyalteringthe

    connectionsbetween

    prefrontal

    cortex

    and

    limbic

    zones.

    Inthebrain,theprefrontalcortexhasdirectlinkagestothe

    lowerlimbicarea.Theselinkagesenabletheprefrontalareato

    bothassessthestateofarousalinthesesubcortricalregionsas

    wellastomodulatetheirfirings.Wehavediscussedhow

    integrationinthebraininvolvescoordinationandbalance.

    Hereweseethattheintegrativeprefrontalareascancoordinateandbalancelimbicfiringsothatlifecanhavemeaningandemotionalrichness,butnotexcessivefiring,wherelifebecomeschaotic,ortoolittle,wherelifebecomesdulledanddepressing.Infact,inteachingmeditation,parallelconceptsareaddressedasexcitementanddullness.

    xx

    (iii) Whatweexperienceasnegativeemotionsthosethatleadustofight,flee,ordistanceourselvesfromsomethingor

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    someoneareevolutionarilymoreprimitivethanpositive

    emotions.Positivefeelingsrelatedtohumor,socialaffiliation,

    andaestheticresponsehavearisenasafunctionofanexpanded

    neocortexandthespecializationsofthehemispheres(Paradiso

    etal.,

    1999);

    Wild

    et

    al.,

    2003).

    An

    unfortunate

    artifact

    of

    the

    evolutionoflateralitymaybethattherighthemisphere,biased

    towardselfawarenessandselfidentity(Kennanetal.,1999).To

    behumanmaybetohavevulnerabilitytowardshame,guilt,and

    depression.Soalthoughbothsidesofthebrainareinvolvedin

    emotions,thedominantroleoftherighthemisphereindefensive

    andnegativeemotionsgivesitexecutivevetopoweroverthe

    left.Justastheleftcanblockemotionalandvisceralinputfrom

    theright.Therightcanoverrideconsciousprocessingand

    emotionalwellbeinginreactiontothreat.xxi

    emotionsinthemselvesdontposeaproblem,itsjust

    thataslongasyoukeepreactingtothedramainsideyourhead,

    youmaybecutting yourselfofffromothersandfromdeeper,

    moresatisfyingdimensionsofyourbeing andyoumaymiss

    whatsreallygoingonaroundyouaswell.(Seechapter11)xxii

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    ClassIII:PoweroftheMythvii)ShiftingthelocusofcontrolfromReptiletoSocialviii) DVDPoweroftheMythix)OutlineDVDandwhattheyhavelearnedforeachstudent.

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    3) Transformation (Learning:Ifthecallisheeded,however,theindividualisinvoked

    to

    engage

    in

    adangerous

    adventure.

    Its

    always

    adangerous

    adventure

    becauseyouremovingoutofthefamiliarsphereofyourcommunity..Theidea

    intheheroadventureistowalkbodilythroughthedoorintotheworldwhere

    thedualisticrulesdontapplyxxiii

    )

    ClassIV:TheMeaningfulLifei) Meaningfullife(Frankl): .Lifeispotentiallymeaningfulunderany

    conditions,eventhemostmiserable. Andthisinturnpresupposesthe

    humancapacitytocreativelyturnlifesnegativeaspectsintosomething

    positiveorconstructive..thehumanpotentialwhichatitsbestalways

    allowsfor;

    1. Turningsufferingintoahumanachievementandaccomplishment2. Derivingfromguilttheopportunitytochangeoneselfforthebetter;3. Derivingfromlifestransitorinessanincentivetotakeresponsible

    action.

    xxiv

    4. Threemainavenuestoameaningfullife1. Thefirstisbycreatingaworkorbydoingadeed.2. Thesecondisbyexperiencingsomethingorencounteringsomeone;

    inotherwords,meaningcanbefoundnotonlyinworkbutalsoin

    love.

    3. Thirdavenuetomeaninginlife:eventhehelplessvictimofahopelesssituation,facingafatehecannotchange,mayriseabove

    himself,may

    grow

    beyond

    himself,

    and

    by

    so

    doing

    change

    himself.

    Hemayturnapersonaltragedyintoatriumph.xxv

    ii) Meaninglessness; Astothecausationofthefeelingofmeaninglessness,onemaysay,albeitinanoverlysimplevein,thatpeoplehaveenoughto

    livebybutnothingtolivefor;theyhavethemeansbutnomeaning.xxvi

    1. Happiness(Rapture,Bliss)

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    2. Bliss: supremehappiness;utterjoyorcontentment:weddedbliss. Theol.thejoyofheaven. heaven;paradise:theroadtoeternalbliss. Archaic.acauseofgreatjoyorhappiness.http://dictionary.infoplease.com/bliss

    3. Rapture definition rapture (rapchr) noun: the state of being carried away withjoy, love, . etc.; ecstasy. An expression of great joy, pleasure, etc. a carrying away or

    being carried away in body or spirit: now rare except in theological usage insome

    Christiantheologies,thebodilyascentintoheavenjustbeforeArmageddonofthosewho

    aresaved.http://www.yourdictionary.com/rapture

    4. Thousandsofyearsago,PlatowastryingtoanalyzethehumanSoulinordertounderstandhumanethics,hethenrealizedthathecan't

    directlyunderstanditbecauseit'sintangible.Soinordertosolvethis

    dilemma,helookedatthesociety.Societyinhisopinionisa

    representationofhumansoul,becauseitrepresentsagroupofpeople

    and

    so

    is

    a

    reflection

    of

    different

    types

    of

    souls.

    Those

    souls

    group

    togethernaturallytoformsociety.Platosplitthesocietyinto3

    categories(hecalledthemFaculties).1istheFacultyofworkers,the

    secondistheFacultyofsoldiersandthe3rdistheFacultyofleaders.

    Platosaidthatthefacultyofworkersrepresentdesire.Desireisavery

    importantcharacteristicofhumansoul.Workersmostlyrepresent

    desirebecausetheyworkreallyhardtoachievesomething,tobe

    something,to

    fulfill

    their

    desires.

    They

    work

    hard

    in

    order

    to

    get

    what

    theycantgeteasily.Forworkers,itsallaboutstayingalive,itsall

    aboutthedesiretoliveandtheneedtocreateorachieve.

    Thesecondfaculty,soldiers,isarepresentationofemotions.Soldiers

    exist(inaperfectsociety)becauseoftheneedtoprotecthomeand

    landfromtheenemy.Inbigsocieties,theremustbesoldiers(naturally)

    andtheirdedicationandpersistenceandwillingnesstofightandeven

    diefor

    the

    sake

    of

    home

    stems

    from

    emotions.

    ThethirdfacultyPlatoreferredtowasleaders.Leadersarea

    representationofintellect.Inaperfectsociety,leadersarethereto

    organizesoldiersandworkersandpushbothtobebetter,Theystress

    oneducationbecauseitelevatesthesocietyandmakesitabetter

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    place.

    NowpayattentiontothebelowtounderstandPlatospointofview

    aboutthehumansoul.

    Societyisworkers+soldiers+leaders.Thismeanssoulisdesire+

    emotions+intellect.Theirpresencetogetherisperfection,isnatural

    ethics.

    Ifyouwantaperfectsociety,thendesire,emotionsandintellectshould

    coexistinharmony.Youcannothaveaperfectlyfunctioningsocietyif

    oneoftheabovecharacteristicsovertakestheother.Portionsofthe3

    needtobeequal.Theminuteweseeinasociety(orasoul)more

    intellectthanemotionsanddesires,ormoreemotionsthandesiresand

    intellect,ormoredesiresthanintellectandemotionsthenwehavea

    problem.

    Thisissociety.Thisishumansoul.

    Weashumanbeingsareboundtolivewitheachother,loveeachother

    andfunctionwitheachother.

    Weare

    asociety.

    This

    applies

    to

    any

    group

    of

    people,

    to

    any

    family

    or

    in

    otherwordsanyrelationship.

    Lovealone(thisismyconclusion)ispureemotionsandifnotcontrolled

    bydesiresandintellecttogether,itcreatesproblems.

    Inordertohaveahealthyfamilyorfriendshiporrelationshipwith

    others,orahealthysociety,weneedahealthysoul.Ahealthysoulis

    equally1thirddesires,1thirdemotionsand1thirdintellect.

    Ifyou

    have

    this,

    you

    have

    happiness.

    If

    you

    try

    to

    maintain

    those

    3

    characteristicsinharmony,youhavehappiness.

    http://irrelevantcombinations.blogspot.com/2009/09/ethicsis

    happiness.html

    5. Manytasteswethinknaturalareacquiredthroughlearningandbecomesecondnaturefromouroriginalnaturebecauseour

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    neuroplasticbrains,oncerewired,developanewnature,everybitas

    biologicalasouroriginal.

    Thecurrentpornepidemicgivesagraphicdemonstrationthat

    sexualtastescanbeacquired.Pornography,deliveredbyhighspeed

    Internetconnections,

    satisfies

    every

    one

    of

    the

    prerequisites

    for

    neuroplasticchange.

    Pornographyseems,atfirstglance.Tobeapurelyinstinctual

    matter:sexuallyexplicitpicturestriggerinstinctualresponses,which

    aretheproductofmillionsofyearsofevolution.Butifthatweretrue,

    pornographywouldbeunchanging.Thesametriggers,bodilypartsand

    theirproportions,thatappealedtoourancestorswouldexciteus.This

    iswhatpornographerswouldhaveusbelieve,fortheyclaimtheyare

    battlingsexualrepression,taboo,andfearandthattheirgoalisto

    liberatethenatural,pentupsexualinstincts.

    Butinfactthecontentofpornographyisadynamicphenomenon

    thatperfectlyillustratestheprogressofanacquiredtaste.Thirtyyears

    agohardcorepornographyusuallymeantthatexplicitdepictionof

    sexualintercoursebetweentwoarousedpartners,displayingthe

    genitals.Softcoremeantpicturesofwomen,mostly,onabed,at

    theirtoilette,

    or

    in

    some

    semi

    romantic

    setting,

    in

    various

    states

    of

    undress,breastsrevealed.

    Pornographysgrowthhasbeenextraordinary;itaccounts for

    25percentofvideorentalsandisthefourthmostcommonreason

    peoplegiveforgoingonline. AnMSNBC.comsurveyofviewersin2001

    foundthat80percentfelttheywerespendingsomuchtimeon

    pornographicsitesthattheywereputtingtheirrelationshipsorjobsat

    risk

    Duringthe

    mid

    to

    late

    1990s,

    when

    the

    internet

    was

    growing

    rapidlyandpornographywasexplodingonit,Itreatedorassesseda

    numberofmenwhoallhadessentiallythesamestory.Eachhad

    acquiredatasteforakindofpornographythat,toagreaterorlesser

    degree,troubledorevendisgustedhim,hadadisturbingeffectonthe

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    patternofhissexualexcitement,andultimatelyaffecthisrelationship

    withhissexualpotency

    Anumberofthesemenalsoreportedsomethingelse,oftenin

    passing,thatcaughtmyattention.Theyreportedincreasingdifficultyin

    beingturned

    on

    by

    their

    actual

    sexual

    partners,

    spouses

    or

    girlfriends,

    thoughtheystillconsideredthemobjectivelyattractive..

    ThechangesIobservedarenotconfinedtoafewpeoplein

    therapy.Asocialshiftisoccurring

    Yetevensomeofthesemenwereable,likeA.,tochangetheir

    sexualtype,becausethesamelawsofneuroplasticitythatallowusto

    acquireproblematictastesalsoallowus,inintensivetreatment,to

    acquirenewer,healthieronesandinsomecaseseventoloseour

    older,troublingones.Itsauseitorloseitbrain,evenwheresexual

    desireandloveareconcerned.xxvii

    6. Happiness:Frankl.happinesscannotbepursued;itmustensue.Onemusthaveareasontobehappy...Aswesee,ahumanbeingisnot

    oneinpursuitofhappinessbutratherinsearchofareasontobecome

    happy,lastbutnotlease,throughactualizingthepotentialmeaning

    inherentand

    dormant

    in

    agiven

    situation.

    xxviii

    7. OurwesternnotionofhappinessseemstocomefromtheGreeks,whodefineditastheexerciseofvitalpowersalonglinesofexcellenceina

    lifeaffordingthemscope.(Hamiltonp.35).xxix

    8. Overall,wearebasicallyselfdeceived.Thatis,wethinkwecareagreatdealaboutlove,humor,talk,story,art,music,fashion,sports,

    charity,religion,andabstractideas.Butwhenpushcomestoshove,we

    mostlyfollowthestrongfeelingsourgenesusetoguideouractionsand

    thosefeelings

    end

    up

    being

    less

    about

    these

    abstract

    things

    than

    we

    think.Wecaremorethatothersseeusdoingthesethings,andthat

    theybeimpressed,thanwecaretoadmit.Andwecarelessabout

    thesethingsinourmatingopportunitiesarereducedwithage.xxx

    9. Wegetangryorupsetwhensomethingwevaluedisappears,dies,orbreaksdown.Indeed,weareconstantlysearchingforsomethingof

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    permanence,andwhenwefindsomethingthatseemstoyield

    happiness,weclingtoasifwecankeepitfromchanging.Thisis

    wheredesirecomesin.Ourencounterswiththethingsoftheworld

    leadtopositive,negative,andneutralfeelings.Wherethereis

    somethingpositive,

    we

    want

    more

    of

    it;

    and

    when

    it

    is

    negative,

    we

    do

    ourutmosttoavoiditSowhenourdesirepropelsusforwardandwe

    comeattached,evenaddicted,tothepleasurableexperiencesoflife.It

    doesnottakemuchtoseethatifourhappinessisdependentonthings

    stayingthesame,wewillforeverbediscontent.

    10.InastudypublishedinPsychosomaticMedicine(Davidsonetal.,2003),researchersusingstateoftheartbrainmappingandMRItechnology

    wereabletodeterminethattheregularpracticeofmindfulness

    meditationactivatestheleftprefrontalcortexofthebrainthearea

    associatedwithpositiveemotions.Employeesofabiotechcompany

    whoweretaughtthetechniqueoveraneightweekperiodhad

    significantlygreaterleftprefrontal activationthanacontrolgroup,not

    onlyimmediatelyaftertheirtrainingbutalsofourmonthslater.In

    otherwords,theybecomehappierastheymeditatedandtheystayed

    thatway!

    Evenmore

    surprising,

    the

    meditations

    had

    stronger

    immune

    systemsthanthecontrols,asmeasuredbytheantibodiesproducedin

    responsetoafluvaccineandthegreatertheleftprefrontalactivation

    (thatis,thehappiertheybecome),thestrongertheboostinimmune

    response!xxxi

    11.Bliss: thatdeepsenseofbeingpresentxxxii,ofdoingwhatyouabsolutelymustdotobeyourself.

    xxxiii

    12. AchievingHappiness: Aristotleroundedoffhisdiscussionofethicallivingwithamoredetaileddescriptionoftheachievementoftrue

    happiness.Pleasureisnotagoodinitself,heargued,sinceitisbyits

    natureincomplete.Butworthwhileactivitiesareoftenassociatedwith

    theirowndistinctivepleasures.Hence,wearerightlyguidedinlifeby

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    ournaturalpreferenceforengaginginpleasantactivitiesratherthanin

    unpleasantones.

    Genuinehappinessliesinactionthatleadstovirtue,sincethisalone

    providestrue

    value

    and

    not

    just

    amusement.

    Thus,

    Aristotle

    held

    that

    contemplationisthehighestformofmoralactivitybecauseitis

    continuous,pleasant,selfsufficient,andcomplete.(Nic.EthicsX8)Inintellectualactivity,humanbeingsmostnearlyapproachdivine

    blessedness,whilerealizingallofthegenuinehumanvirtuesaswell.

    13.iii)Decisiontochange.

    1. ReviewthefirststepintheHerosJourney.2. Inmakingthedecision

    1. Painandvalueofstayingwhereyouare2. Havingaclearvisionofwhereyouaregoing.3. Willingnesstocommit4. Alternateisamidlifecrises5. CSLewistheHollowMen.(passoutpoem)

    iv)Lettinggoofeverything1. Perceptions:Guilt,Shame,Resentment(writinghomework)

    1. TreeStory2. RiverStory

    2. Fourviewsoftheworld

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    ClassV DVDHerowithathousandfaces.v) Handout

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    ClassVIaVisionofFulfillmentvi) Frankl/MansSearchforMeaning

    1. Whatisthepoint2. 3pathstogetit

    vii) Serenity:theabsenceofmentalstressoranxiety;peaceofmind;repose;heartsease.InArabian,thenameSakinahmeans godinspiredpeaceofmind.ThenameSakinah

    originatedasanArabianname.ThenameSakinahismostoftenusedasagirlnameor

    femalename.ArabianMeaning godinspiredpeaceofmind

    viii)SerenityPrayer12steps: Earlyin1942,writesBillW.,inA.A.ComesofAge,aNewYorkmember,Jack,broughttoeveryone'sattentionacaptioninaroutineNewYork

    HeraldTribune

    obituary

    that

    read:

    http://www.aahistory.com/serenityzz11.gif

    "Godgrantustheserenitytoacceptthethingswecannotchange,

    couragetochangethethingswecan,

    andwisdomtoknowthedifference."

    EveryoneinA.A.'sburgeoningofficeonManhattan'sVeseyStreetwasstruckbythe

    powerandwisdomcontainedintheprayer'sthoughts."Neverhadweseensomuch

    A.A.insofewwords,"Billwrites.Someonesuggestedthattheprayerbeprintedona

    small,walletsizedcard,tobeincludedineverypieceofoutgoingmail.RuthHock,the

    Fellowship'sfirst

    (and

    nonalcoholic)

    secretary,

    contacted

    Henry

    S.,

    aWashington

    D.C.

    member,andaprofessionalprinter,askinghimwhatitwouldcosttoorderabulk

    printing.

    ix) CampbellsBliss(definition)x) AchievingHappiness: Aristotleroundedoffhisdiscussionofethicallivingwithamoredetailed

    descriptionoftheachievementoftruehappiness.Pleasureisnotagoodinitself,heargued,

    sinceitisbyitsnatureincomplete.Butworthwhileactivitiesareoftenassociatedwiththeir

    owndistinctivepleasures.Hence,wearerightlyguidedinlifebyournaturalpreferencefor

    engaginginpleasantactivitiesratherthaninunpleasantones.

    Genuinehappinessliesinactionthatleadstovirtue,sincethisaloneprovidestruevalue

    andnot

    just

    amusement.

    Thus,

    Aristotle

    held

    that

    contemplation

    is

    the

    highest

    form

    of

    moral

    activitybecauseitiscontinuous,pleasant,selfsufficient,andcomplete.(Nic.EthicsX8)Inintellectualactivity,humanbeingsmostnearlyapproachdivineblessedness,whilerealizingall

    ofthegenuinehumanvirtuesaswell.http://www.philosophypages.com/hy/2s.htm

    xi)

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    4)Return(Thewholeideaisthatyouvegottobringoutagainthatwhichyouwentto

    recover,

    the

    unrealized,

    unutilized

    potential

    in

    yourself.

    The

    whole

    point

    of

    thisjourneyisthereintroductionofthispotentialintotheworld;thatistosay,to

    youlivingintheworld.Youaretobringthistreasureoftheunderstandingback

    andintegrateitinarationallife.Itgoeswithoutsaying,thisisverydifficult.

    Bringingtheboonbackcanbeevenmoredifficultthangoingdownintoyour

    owndepthsinthefirstplace.xxxiv

    )

    ClassVII:Relationshipsi) Relationships(patterns,themesandtrends)

    1. Interpersonalrelationshipshavebeenshowntopromoteemotionallongevity,helpingusachievestatesofwellbeingandmedicalhealth.

    (Anderson&Anderson,2003).Iamproposingherethatmindful

    awarenessisaformofselfrelationship,aninternalformofattunement

    thatcreatessimilarstateofhealth.xxxv

    2. Interpersonalrelationships: thenotionthatthebrainisbuiltofmillionsofneuronswithtrillionsofconnectionsthatcometogetherto

    createwhatwecallanindividual.Butitdoesntstopthere?Nature

    thencontinuestointerweaveindividualindividualsinwaysthatexpand

    collaborationintheserviceofsurvival.Neuronsthatfiretogetherwire

    together,.Peoplewhoareabletoattendtooneanother,touch,talk,

    andconnectalsofiretogether,wiretogether,andsurvivetogetherOur

    abilitytoconnectdependsoncomplexandwiderangingneural

    networks

    throughout

    our

    brains

    that

    have

    been

    shaped

    through

    millionsofyearsofneurobiologicalevolution.Itistothesesystemsand

    theirabilitiesthatwenowturnourattention.xxxvi

    3. HavethemdoaquickreviewoftheirGenogramanditsupdate

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    4. Whywomenstay:thisishandouttakenfromtheinternetthatisfourpagesofwhywomenstayinsexualandphysicallyabusiverelationships.

    Itisahandoutfordiscussionpurposes.

    5. FamilyofOrigenasopposedtofamilyofchoice.(dysfunctionalrelationships

    is

    the

    deciding

    factor)

    6. Significantothers7. PTSDOnereasonisthatourhighlyevolvedneocortex(rational

    brain)issocomplexandpowerfulthatthroughfearandovercontrolit

    caninterferewiththesubtlerestorativeinstinctualimpulsesand

    responsegeneratedbythereptiliancore.Inparticular,theneocortex

    easilyoverridessomeofourgentlerinstinctualresponsessuchasthose

    thatguidethehealingoftraumathroughthedischargeofenergy.Ifthe

    dischargeprocessistoserveitspurpose,itmustbeimitatedanddriven

    byimpulsesfromthereptilianbrain.Theneocortexmustelaborateon

    instinctualinformation,notcontrolit.

    Theneocortexisnotpowerfulenoughtooverridetheinstinctual

    defenseresponsetothreatanddangerthefight,flee,orfreeze

    responses.Inthisrespect,wehumansarestillinextricablyboundtoour

    animalheritage.Animals,however,donothaveahighlyevolvedneo

    cortexto

    interfere

    with

    the

    natural

    return

    to

    normal

    functioning

    throughsomeformofdischarge.Inhumans,traumaoccursasaresult

    oftheinitiationofaninstinctualcyclethatisnotallowedtofinish.

    Whentheneo=cortexoverridestheinstinctualresponsethatwould

    initiatethecompletionofthiscycle,wewillbetraumatized.

    Inposttraumaticanxiety,immobilityismaintainedprimarily

    fromwithin.Theimpulsetowardsintenseaggressionissofrightening

    thatthetraumatizedpersonoftenturnsitinwardonthemselvesrather

    thanallow

    it

    external

    expression.

    This

    imploded

    anger

    takes

    the

    form

    of

    anxiousdepressionandthevariedsymptomsofposttraumaticstress.

    Likethepigeonthattriesfranticallytoescape,butisrecaptureandheld

    prisoneroncemore,traumavictimsbeginningtoexitimmobilityare

    oftentrappedbytheirownfearofabruptactivationandtheirpotential

    forviolence.Theyremaininaviciouscycleofterror,rage,and

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    immobility.Theyareprimedforfulloutescapeorragingcounter

    attack,butremaininhibitedbecauseoffearofviolencetothemselves

    orothers.xxxvii

    8. Friendship:InaparticularlyinfluentialsectionoftheEthics,Aristotleconsideredtheroleof

    human

    relationships

    in

    general

    and

    friendship

    {Gk.

    [philia]}

    in

    particular

    as

    avital

    elementinthegoodlife.

    Forwithoutfriendsnoonewouldchoosetolive,thoughhehadallothergoods.Differentiatingbetweentheaimsorgoalsofeach,hedistinguishedthreekindsof

    friendshipsthatwecommonlyform.(Nic.EthicsVIII3)A friendship for pleasure comes into being when two people discover that

    they have common interest in an activity which they can pursue together. Theirreciprocal participation in that activity results in greater pleasure for each than either

    could achieve by acting alone. Thus, for example, two people who enjoy playingtennis might derive pleasure from playing each other. Such a relationship lasts only

    so long as the pleasure continues.

    A friendship grounded on utility, on the other hand, comes into being whentwo people can benefit in some way by engaging in coordinated activity. In this case,

    the focus is on what use the two can derive from each other, rather than on any

    enjoyment they might have. Thus, for example, one person might teach another toplay tennis for a fee: the one benefits by learning and the other benefits financially;

    their relationship is based solely on the mutual utility. A relationship of this sort lasts

    only so long as its utility.

    A friendship for the good, however, comes into being when two peopleengage in common activities solely for the sake of developing the overall goodness

    of the other. Here, neither pleasure nor utility are relevant, but the good is. (Nic.

    Ethics VIII 4) Thus, for example, two people with heart disease might play tenniswith each other for the sake of the exercise that contributes to the overall health of

    both. Since the good is never wholly realized, a friendship of this sort should, in

    principle, last forever.

    Rather conservatively representing his own culture, Aristotle expressed some

    rather peculiar notions about the likelihood of forming friendships of these distinct

    varieties among people of different ages and genders. But the general description hassome value nevertheless, especially in its focus on reciprocity. Mixed friendshipsthose in which one party is seeking one payoff while the other seeks a different

    oneare inherently unstable and prone to dissatisfaction.

    http://www.philosophypages.com/hy/2s.htm

    9. Children

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    ClassVIIIReviewii) Reviewiii)Opendiscussion

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    EndnotesiSiegel,

    Daniel

    J.

    (2007).

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    iiiKabatZinn,Jon.IN:ComplementaryandAlternativeMedicineinRehabilitation,E.Leskowitz,

    (Ed.) Churchill;Livingstone,St.Louis.P,2002,ppxixivivCampbell,Joseph.(1968).TheHerowithaThousandFaces.Novato.NewWorldLibrarypp113

    v Campbell,Joseph.(1968).TheHerowithaThousandFaces.Novato.NewWorldLibrarypp114

    vi Campbell,Joseph.(1968).TheHerowithaThousandFaces.Novato.NewWorldLibrarypp114

    vii Campbell,Joseph.(1968).TheHerowithaThousandFaces.Novato.NewWorldLibrarypp119

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    Campbell,Joseph.

    (1968).

    TheHerowithaThousandFaces.Novato.NewWorldLibrarypp333

    ix Campbell,Joseph.(1968).TheHerowithaThousandFaces.Novato.NewWorldLibrarypp114

    xCozonlino,Louis.(TheNeuroscienceofHumanRelationships(AttachmentandtheDevelopingSocial

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    Siegel,DanielJ.(2007).TheMindfulBrain. NewYork.W.W.Norton&Company.pp5xiii

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    xv Doidge,M.D.,Norman.((2007).TheBainthatChangesItself.NewYork.PenguinBooksPp97

    xvi Sapolsky,RobertM.(1994)WhyZebrasDontGetUlcers.NewYork.AHoltPaperback. Pp30

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    xxviii Frankl,Viktor.(1959).MansSearchforMeaning.NewYork.ATouchstoneBook. Pp140

    xxix Yeffeth,Glenn.(2003).TakingTheRedPill.Dallas.BenBellaBookspp229

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