1. What Boys and Girls Are Made of: Gender and SexualityLakeside Student Sponsored DayRosetta Eun Ryong Lee Seattle Girls School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

2. About Seattle Girls School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 3. Agenda Gender Differences Gender Bias Gender Bias and Girls Gender Bias and Boys Gender and Sexuality Paradigm What Can We Do? Discussions Resources Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 4. Disclaimers andOther Food for ThoughtRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 5. Gender DifferencesRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 6. Gender BiasBrashIntuitiveTroublemaker Well-BehavedStrong DelicateCompetitive CooperativePhysicalEmotionalSilent VerbalClever PrettyMistake-Prone PerfectBelligerent Nice Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 7. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 8. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 9. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 10. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 11. Process BreakPlease gather by gender groups:-Women/Girls-Men/Boys-Neither/BothHow do you experience gender? What pressures doyou feel, and what messages do you get? Whathappens as you conform or defy gender norms? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 12. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 13. Girls and Gender Bias Where Does it Lead?Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 14. The Good Girl in ConflictRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 15. The Good Girl in the Workplace and Home Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 16. BeautyThe Pretty Girl on Beauty Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 17. Boys and Gender Bias Where Does it Lead?Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 18. The Tough Guy in ConflictRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 19. The Tough Guy in the Workplace and the HomeRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 20. Psychic Dissonance, Health, and Violence Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 21. Gender and Sexuality ParadigmRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 22. Process BreakPlease discuss with a partner or two:Are you -internalizing and conforming to gender norms and stereotypes -feeling pressured to conform to gender stereotypes -little affected by gender stereotypes -actively non-conforming to gender stereotypesWhat are the positives and negatives of where you are, as far as youcan tell? How are you rewarded or punished for where you are?What are the specific questions or concerns that come up?Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 23. What Can We Do?Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 24. What Can We Do as/for Girls? Learn the difference betweenself-sacrificing and good. Talk and think aboutsomething besides yourlooks. Value the quality of yourrelationships, not thequantity. Look to diverse womenmentors. Role-Play difficultconversations.Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 25. What Can We Do as/for Boys? Learn the differencebetween strong andtough. Talk about feelings andrelationships. Make it okay to bevulnerable. Look to diverse malementors. Understand societalhomophobia.Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 26. What Can We All Do?Develop and practice strong interaction and social skills. Accept nontraditional family and relationship models. Look for diverse role models of all GSD identities.Learn about gender and sexuality diversity.Analyze norm, normal, and good.Seek healthy outlets for their feelings.Respect and nurture your true self. Make informed choices. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 27. Media Literacy Choose and engage with media critically. Clarify your values and seek congruence from media. Spend your money critically. Think critically about friends and media they engage in. Talk to others about media literacy.Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 28. Undoing Gender andSexuality BiasRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 29. Questions and CommentsRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 30. Presenter Information Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee 6th Faculty and Professional Outreach Seattle Girls School 2706 S Jackson Street Seattle WA 98144 (206) 805-6562 rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org http://tiny.cc/rosettaleeRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 31. Resources Joshua M. Aronson, Ph.D., Improving Achievement &Narrowing the Gap, Learning and the BrainConference, Cambridge, MA, November 2003 Allan G. Johnson, Privilege, Power, and Difference. Miss Representation, documentary film on media andwomen United Nations Population Fund Statistics on GenderEquality as of 2005http://www.unfpa.org/swp/2005/presskit/factsheets/facts_gen Learning to be critically literate of mass mediahttp://www.medialit.org/ Media Guide for Parents and Educatorshttp://www.commonsensemedia.org/Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) 32. Gender Specific Resources Jennifer Bryan, various trainings and publications ongender and sexuality diversity, From the Dress Up Cornerto the Senior Prom JoAnn Deak, Ph.D., Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confidentand Courageous Daughters, How Girls Thrive Jackson Katz, Tough Guise, Wrestling with Manhood,The Macho Paradox John Medina, Talaris Research Institute, various studieson early gender differences in competition and play Mary Pipher, Ph.D., Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selvesof Adolescent Girls Rachel Simmons, Odd Girl Out, Odd Girl Speaks Out,Curse of the Good Girl Michael Thompson, Raising Cain, Speaking of Boys, Itsa Boy! Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)