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Dr. Francis Paul V. Jagolino Psychology and Medical Educator

Secrets of the Master Student

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This is from a seminar given to Psychology Students of the Lyceum of the Philippines University - Cavite on personality development and self-improvement. The seminar ran for 4 hours with very positive feedback. This material is custom made and copyrights belong to Dr. Francis Paul Jagolino. In this version, activities have been omitted. To have a similar seminar at your institution, please email [email protected] for more information.

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Dr. Francis Paul V. Jagolino Psychology and Medical

Educator

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What is a Master

Student?

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A Master Student is: •  Someone  who  lives  to  excel  in  any  field  of  endeavor.  

•  A  person  with  goals  and  ambi;ons  who  faithfully  carries  out  all  that  is  needed  to  a=ain  success.  

•  A  student  who  priori;zes  his  or  her  studies  because  it  is  the  gateway  to  future  success.  

•  A  pupil  who  craves  to  learning  anything  and  everything,  dedica;ng  themselves  to  lifelong  learning.  

•  Someone  who  will  eventually  master  his/her  own  des;ny.  

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Why is it important to be a Master Student?

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To discover your true potential

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To make the hard journey

of life easier

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To build the future that was meant for

you!

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To become the best in everything you do!

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To make a difference in your life

and in the lives of those

around you!

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Life is a long and harsh road.

Be prepared for it!

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Always be honest to yourself

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Always strive to improve yourself

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Admitting that all of us

have a problem is always the start.

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Activity 1: The Path to Discovery

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Let’s meet our first Master Student

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Daniel  LaRusso  Posi%ve  Traits  •  Always  did  what  he  felt  was  

right.  •  Quick  to  defend  a  woman’s  

honor.  •  Inquisi;ve  •  Diligent  •  Humble  •  Determined  Nega%ve  Traits  •  Mischievous  •  Impa;ent  •  Hot  tempered  

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Step 2: Know the Ways of the

Master Student

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Inquisitive

•  The  master  student  is  curious  about  everything.  

•  Always  needs  to  know  why  things  are  the  way  they  are.  

•  Will  always  try  to  find  answers.  

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Able to Focus Attention

•  The  master  student’s  focused  a=en;on  has  a  childlike  quality.  

•  The  world,  to  a  child,  is  always  new.  

•  Because  the  master  student  can  focus  a=en;on,  to  him/her  the  world  is  always  new.  

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Knows Priorities  

•  Master  students  know  their  priori;es  well.  

•  They  will  start  with  the  most  important  tasks  first.  

•  Work  and  studies  will  always  be  priori;zed  over  fun.  

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Confident and Competent •  Master  students  are  

always  confident  of  their  abili;es  and  themselves.  

•  They  are  always  willing  to  par;cipate  in  ac;vi;es.  

•  Puts  a  lot  of  ;me  into  Mastery  of  Skills.  

•  When  learning  new  things,  they  make  it  a  point  to  study  it  over  and  over  again  un;l  it  becomes  second  nature  to  them.  

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Self-aware

•  The  master  student  is  willing  to  evaluate  himself  and  his  behavior.  

•  He/she  regularly  examines  his/her  life.  

•  He/she  accepts  that  perfec;on  is  a  myth;  no  one  is  ever  perfect.  

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Willing to Change

•  The  unknown  does  not  frighten  the  master  student.    

•  He/she  welcomes  change  and  knows  it  is  essen;al  to  improvement.  

•  Acceptance  of  the  fact  that  “Life  is  a  constant  change”.  

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Diligent and Hardworking

•  Master  students  always  have  goals  and  are  willing  to  do  anything  and  everything  to  a=ain  it.  

•  They  have  pride  in  their  work  and  strive  to  always  give  their  101%  best.  

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Courageous

•  The  Master  Student  controls  his/her  fears  and  does  not  let  it  hinder  him  or  her  from  doing  what’s  important.  

•  He/she  does  not  deny  fear  but  embraces  it.  

•  Uses  fear  produc;vely    

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Self Control and Motivation

•  Master  students  never  let  their  emo;ons  control  their  thoughts.  

•  They  are  always  mo;vated  even  when  ;red.  

•  They  never  feel  lazy  and  are  always  eager  to  work  hard  towards  success.  

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Leadership

•  Master  Students  are  also  leaders.  

•  They  take  charge  of  not  just  groups  but  also  themselves.  

•  They  strive  to  maintain  the  highest  level  of  integrity,  honesty  and  self-­‐discipline.  

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Energetic and Positive

•  Master  Students  are  full  of  energy  and  are  always  op;mis;c.  

•  They  never  entertain  nega;ve  thoughts.  

•  They  are  full  of  life  and  live  it  with  lots  of  meaning.  

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Humble and Respectful •  Master  Students  respect  

their  teachers  and  peers.  •  They  never  fail  to  show  

apprecia;on  and  gra;tude  for  the  hard  work  their  teachers  are  doing.  

•  They  hold  their  teacher’s  experience  and  knowledge  in  very  high  regard.  

•  They  always  maintain  great  humility  and  never  boast  their  achievements  to  anyone.  

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Step 3: Know Your Enemy

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According to Sun Tzu, the Author of the “Art Of War”: “If  you  know  the  enemy  and  know  yourself,  you  need  not  fear  the  result  of  a  hundred  ba=les.“  

 “If  you  know  yourself  but  not  the  enemy,  for  every  victory  gained  you  will  also  suffer  a  

defeat.”    

“If  you  know  neither  the  enemy  nor  yourself,  you  will  succumb  in  every  ba=le.”      

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There are so many enemies to success!

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Pessimism and Negativity •  Will  always  tell  you  “You  

Can’t  do  it!”  •  When  difficulty  sets  in,  

you  give  up  easily.  •  Destroys  confidence.  •  Will  hinder  you  from  

succeeding.    •  Pessimism  leads  to  

weakness.  •  Weakness  leads  to  

failure.  

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Procrastination

•  Pu]ng  off  important  tasks  for  more  enjoyable  and  pleasurable  ones.  

•  Leads  to  “cramming”  and  stress.  

•  Leads  to  substandard  work  and  failure.  

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Bad Influences

•  Watch  the  company  you  keep.  

•  They  may  either  make  or  break  you.  

•  They  may  lead  you  to  vices  and  failure.  

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Boredom

•  Some;mes,  school  work  can  become  monotonous  and  boring.  

•  Some  subjects  are  just  so  boring  and  irrelevant.  

•  There  are  ;mes  you  feel  so  sleepy  despite  ge]ng  a  good  night’s  rest.  

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Impatience

•  Many  people  want  results  right  away.  

•  This  leads  to  frustra;on  •  May  lead  to  procras;na;on  

•  May  lead  to  qui]ng.  •  Unrealis;c  expecta;ons    

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Insecurity

•  The  worst  enemy  of  confidence.  

•  Always  thinking  that  everyone  is  be=er  than  you.  

•  Always  thinking  that  you  are  incapable  of  doing  great  things.    

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Problems

•  Problems  come  in  many  forms  (family,  personal,  school,  financial,  love,  etc.)  

•  They  will  preoccupy  your  thoughts  and  distract  you.  

•  The  longer  you  linger  in  problems,  the  more  problems  it  causes.  

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Lack of Purpose

•  No  goals  or  plans  for  the  future.  

•  No  mo;va;ons  •  No  drive  to  succeed  •  No  willingness  to  strive  •  Lives  only  in  the  present.  

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Intergalactic Master Student

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Luke  Skywalker  Posi%ve  Traits:  •  Excellent  determina;on  •  Courageous  •  Loyal  •  Respecbul    •  Op;mis;c  Nega%ve  Traits  •  Impa;ent  •  Impulsive  •  Pessimis;c    

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Step 4: Know Your Purpose

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Know and Find Your Purpose

•  Everyone  needs  purpose.  •  Think  about  your  purpose  in  life  in  terms  of:  •  Educa;on:  What  do  you  want  to  achieve?  •  Career:  What  do  you  want  to  become?  •  Family:  What  type  of  rela;onship  do  you  want  to  have  between  you  and  your  family?  

•  Self:  What  do  you  want  to  achieve  or  develop  in  yourself?  

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A Phenomenal Master Student

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Albert  Einstein  Posi%ve  Traits  •  Very  intelligent  (Highest  IQ)  •  Extremely  curious  •  Impeccable  concentra;on    •  Has  a  great  imagina;on  •  Humble  Nega%ve  Traits  •  Eccentric  •  Perfec;onist  •  Easily  disappointed  

 

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Step 5: Start Making Changes

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Start Making These Changes

Self Relationships

School

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Self Changes

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Enlist your bad habits and get rid of them!

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Start organizing yourself and your things

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Never allow Yourself to be idle.

Learn ways to motivate yourself to move at all

times.

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Whenever you think a negative thought, learn to stop and replace it with a

positive one!

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Become a confident communicator

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Relationship Changes

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Talk less, listen more!

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Always be the better person!

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Always be polite and friendly

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School Changes

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Attend classes regularly and on time!

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Learn to pay Attention. Focus!

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Always study everyday at the same time for 14 days.

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Stop CRAMMING!!!

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Get a calendar and start weekly planning of activities

(Include both school time and leisure time)

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Everyday, make a To-Do List

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Step 6: Find Your Mentor

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Why do you need a mentor?

•  When  it  comes  to  gaining  experience,  se]ng  goals  and  execu;ng  plans,  everyone  can  use  a  mentor.    

•  Nothing  compares  to  the  advice,  guidance  and  counseling  of  an  experienced  person  that  will  take  you  under  his  wing  and  show  you  the  ropes.  

•  Take  advantage  of  your  mentor’s  experiences.  •  Life  is  TOO  SHORT  to  keep  making  your  own  mistakes.  

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Famous Mentors

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Daniel  Larusso  had:  Mr.  Miyagi  

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Harry  Po=er  had:  Dumbledore  

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Luke  Skywalker  had:  Obi  Wan  Kenobi  and  Yoda  

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Criteria In for looking for a Mentor

•  In  most  cases,  it  should  be  someone  older  with  more  experience  than  you.  

•  It  should  be  someone  who  is  a  role  model.  •  He/she  has  the  traits  and  character  that  you  aspire  to  have.  

•  He/she  should  be  willing  to  mentor  you.  •  He/she  should  be  easily  to  contact.  

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Possible Mentors

•  An  upperclassman  •  A  professor/teacher  (either  current  or  former)  •  An  older  sibling  who  is  already  successful  •  Any  successful  individual  you  admire  or  respect.  

•  A  parent  (preferably  one  who  is  successful)    

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How can a Mentor help?

•  They  can  teach  you  best  prac;ces  •  They  can  give  you  the  best  advices  •  They  can  offer  prac;cal  solu;ons  •  They  can  guide  your  thinking  towards  the  right  direc;on.  

•  They  can  listen  to  your  problems  without  bias  •  They  can  mo;vate  you  to  be  the  best  you  can  be  

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Advantages of having a Mentor

Research  shows  that  having  a  mentor:  •  Increases  your  chances  of  success.  •  Minimizes  confusion  •  Decreases  the  likelihood  of  wrong  decisions  •  Increases  the  chances  of  finding  solu;ons  to  the  worst  problems  

•  Makes  travelling  through  life  less  difficult  

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So, do you have a possible mentor in mind?

If you do, contact him or her today!

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Magical Master Student

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Harry  Po=er  Posi%ve  Traits  •  Intelligent  and  good  at  

problem  solving  •  Very  loyal  •  Respecbul  •  Modest  •  Kind  and  helpful  •  Trustworthy  Nega%ve  Traits  •  Impulsive  •  Troubled  •  Temperamental  

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What Makes a Master Student Invincible?

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Three Letters: PDF

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The Master Student’s Secret to Invincibility

P  –  Passion    D  –  Discipline    F  –  Focus    

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Passion •  Do  you  really  like  what  

you  are  doing  now?  •  What  is  it  about  your  

course  you  like?  •  Do  you  see  yourself  

having  a  career  related  to  this  course?  

•  Passion  is  a  strong  feeling  of  enthusiasm  or  excitement  for  something  or  about  doing  something  

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Discipline

•  Discipline  is  an  orderly  or  prescribed  conduct  or  pa=ern  of  behavior  

•  What  do  you  need  to  change  in  yourself  and  your  habits?  

•  How  can  you  discipline  yourself  to  change  these  things?  

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Focus •  Focus  is  to  pay  par;cular  

a=en;on  to  what  is  important.  

•  Are  you  able  to  concentrate  for  more  than  10  minutes  on  something?  

•  How  about  aier  1  hour,  where  is  your  focus?  

•  Are  you  able  to  stay  on  Facebook  for  more  than  an  hour?  

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5 Ways to FOCUS

F = Five More Rule O = One Think at a Time C = Conquer Procrastination (Do IT NOW!) U = Use your hands as blinders S = Say it out loud

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5 More Rule

•  If  you  are  tempted  to  quit  or  give  up  a  task,  always  say  “5  more…”  

•  Aim  to  do  5  more  math  problems  or  read  five  more  pages.  

•  If  aier  5  pages  you  are  distracted,  then  stop  and  then  return  when  you  are  ready  to  do  so  again.  

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One Think at a Time

•  The  human  brain  can  only  focus  on  one  thing  at  a  ;me.  

•  Make  a  list  of  all  that  needs  to  be  done  and  do  it  one  by  one  in  order  (with  high  priority  tasks  first)  

•  Shut  off  distractors  like  Facebook  and  cellphones.  

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Conquer Procrastination

•  If  you  are  feeling  lazy  about  doing  something,  say  it  out  loud  “DO  IT  NOW!”  

•  Keep  saying  it  un;l  you  do  decide  to  do  it.  •  Doing  something  now  and  finishing  it  will  give  you  more  ;me  for  things  you  enjoy  doing.  

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Use your Hands as Blinders

•  Like  horses,  our  eyes  have  the  tendency  to  be  distracted  by  the  surroundings.  

•  Blind  it  all  out  by  placing  your  hands  at  the  side  of  your  head  making  them  blinders.  

•  Anything  in  the  periphery  of  your  view  will  no  longer  distract  your  reading.  

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Say it Out Loud

•  If  you  are  having  problems  focusing  on  a  par;cular  paragraph,  read  it  out  loud.  

•  Doing  so  helps  you  focus  more  on  it  and  allows  your  brain  to  further  store  the  informa;on  by  seeing  and  hearing  it  at  the  same  ;me.  

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Remember:

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Step 7: Move Forward

and Never Look Back

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When you make a commitment to move

forward, looking back will destroy all of your efforts!

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Defeat your Enemies and Advance!

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Pessimism and Negativity

•  Destroy  pessimism  by  replacing  nega;ve  thoughts  with  posi;ve  ones!  

•  When  filled  with  nega;ve  thoughts,  close  your  eyes,  empty  your  mind  and  think  about  something  posi;ve.  

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Procrastination

•  Beat  procras;na;on  by  saying  “DO  IT  NOW!”  

•  Every  ;me  you  are  feeling  lazy  to  do  something,  take  a  deep  breath  and  say  it  out  loud;  “DO  IT  NOW!”  

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Bad Influences

•  Find  people  with  the  same  goals  and  objec;ves  as  yours.  

•  Ask  your  friends  what  their  goals  are.  

•  If  your  goals  and  theirs  matches,  then  talk  about  how  you  can  help  each  other  achieve  those  goals.  

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Boredom •  If  you  are  feeling  sleepy  in  

class  or  if  your  mind  is  wandering  away,  wriggle  your  toes  inside  your  shoes.  

•  Every  ;me  you  feel  like  dozing  off,  just  wriggle  your  toes  or  sit  up  straight!  

•  If  the  professor  is  boring,  take  down  notes  and  make  diagrams  related  to  what  he/she  is  lecturing  on.  

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Impatience

•  Save  some  of  your  money  to  buy  some  things  you  want  as  your  own  rewards  for  doing  well.  

•  Live  each  day,  one  day  at  a  ;me.  

•  Stop  thinking  about  gradua;on  or  the  future  too  much.  It  will  come!  

•  Soon,  your  goals  will  be  realized!  

 

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Insecurity

•  Look  at  yourself  in  the  mirror  and  say:  

•  “I  take  pride  in  the  way  I  look!  I  allow  myself  to  shine  today!”  

•  Never  be  conscious  about  the  way  you  look  because  they  are  more  people  that  look  less  be=er  than  you  do!  

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Problems

•  A  problem  is  never  qualified  to  be  a  problem  if  it  does  not  have  a  solu;on!  

•  Some  problems  can  be  resolved  immediately.  

•  Some  may  take  ;me.    •  Learn  to  separate  your  priori;es  from  your  problems!  

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Lack of Purpose

•  Write  down  your  goals  in  ;me  intervals.  

•  What  is  your  goal  in  6  months?  

•  What  is  your  goal  in  1  year?  •  What  is  your  goal  in  5  

years?  •  Keep  these  goals  in  your  

study  area  where  you  can  always  see  it!  

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Once you defeat your enemies, you will be on

your way to becoming a Master Student!

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Realizations of a Master Student

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Life is HARD! You need prepare yourself for every step of the way!

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The Human Brain is a miracle!

It has unlimited storage!

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Success involves: 20% Skill & Knowledge

80% Attitude

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Passion-Focus-Discipline Makes Life so much easier!

It  is  hard  at  first  but  when  you  get  used  to  it,  everything  becomes  a  

breeze!  

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Everyone (including you and me) is destined for

greatness!

Unfortunately,  NOT  too  many  people  realize  this  un;l  its  too  late!  

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www.facebook.com/proffrancemd    

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Go now future Master Students and strive for

greatness!

Become the Masters of Your Destiny!

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