Are you the one…….The Employer is looking for???Emotional IntelligenceCharacter StrengthsLeadership

Dr. Muhammad Yahya Noori

Assistant Professor

Dow International Medical College

Dow University of Health Sciences

Think About your Ten Failures in Life

Failures

Can you Score Yourself?

Your wheel of Progress

Think about your ten successes!!

Success

Emotional Intelligence: …….Your pathway to success

Ability to understand and manage your own emotions, and those of the people around you.

Adopted from the work of Daniel Goleman

Components of Emotional Intelligence1

Self Awareness

1. Keep a Journal2. Slow Down

Components of Emotional Intelligence2

Self Regulation

1. Know Your Values2. Hold yourself Accountable3. Practice Being Calm

Components of Emotional Intelligence3

Motivation

1. Re-examine Why are you doing what you are doing.

2. Know Where you Stand3. Find Goodness in Everything

Components of Emotional Intelligence4

Empathy

1. Put yourself in Other Person’s shoes2. Pay attention to Body Language3. Respond to Feelings

Components of Emotional Intelligence5

Social Skills

1. Learn How to Manage Conflicts2. Improve your communication Skills3. Praise, Praise, Praise….. But Justly

The Character Strengths

Adopted From the work of Martin Seligman

The Character StrengthsDomain 1: Wisdom and Knowledge

1. Creativity [originality, ingenuity]:

2. Curiosity [interest, novelty-seeking, openness to experience]:

3. Judgment [critical thinking]:

4. Love of Learning:

5. Perspective [wisdom]:

Cognitive strengths that entail the acquisition and use of knowledge

The Character StrengthsDomain 2:Courage

1. Bravery

2. Perseverance [persistence, industriousness]

3. Honesty [authenticity, integrity]

4. Zest [vitality, enthusiasm, vigor, energy]

Emotional strengths that involve the exercise of will to accomplish goals in the face of opposition,external or internal

The Character StrengthsDomain 3: Humanity

1. Love

2. Kindness [generosity, nurturance, care, compassion, altruistic love, “niceness”]

3. Social Intelligence [emotional intelligence, personal intelligence]:

Interpersonal strengths that involve tending and befriending others

The Character StrengthsDomain 4: Justice

1. Teamwork [citizenship, social responsibility, loyalty]:

2. Fairness:

3. Leadership:

Civic strengths that underlie healthy community life

The Character StrengthsDomain 5: Temperance

1. Forgiveness

2. Humility

3. Prudence

4. Self-Regulation

Strengths that protect against excess

The Character StrengthsDomain 6: Transcendence

1. Appreciation of Beauty and Excellence [awe, wonder, elevation]

2. Gratitude:

3. Hope [optimism, future-mindedness, future orientation]

4. Humor

5. Spirituality [faith, purpose]:

Strengths that forge connections to the larger universe and

provide meaning

Focus

Jahangir Khan

Doctors advised him against Physical Activity

Rejected by selectors in 1979

In the same year, his brother died while playing Squash.

In 1981, at 17, He become the youngest winner of World Open

Won the World Open 6 times and British Open 10 times

He won 555 games consecutively, the longest winning streak in an athletes in any Sport.

Shoaib Akhtar

Multiple injuries throughout the career.

Doctors had to remove fluids before his matches from his knee joints

Completely flat feet since birth.

He could barely walk when he was 5 years old. But when this champion bowler started running,

On an Average of 5 hours/dayYou would need 2000 days…..Or About 5 and a half years of hard work…

Mastery:10000 Hour Rule

Developing a Charismatic Personality

Three Components:

1. Presence

2. Power

3. Warmth

Be a 360 Degree Leader

You don’t need to be at the top to exercise your influence.

You can lead from the middle ranks.

Important Rule:

Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, Read, Read,Read, As much as you can

When You have put in Everything You have…………….

Where to find me!!!

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