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Public Speaking Skills Course
Ground Rules
a. Ask Questions – One at a Time
b. Switch off mobile phones
c. Be Here!
d. Ask Questions – Take Notes
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Self Introduction – Name,
Profession,
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What is Public Speaking?
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What is Public Speaking?
“The Perfect Speech”
Audience
T.O.P.I.C
Time Limit
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Purpose –
Inform/Educate/EntertainPersuade/Inspire
Speech – Opening/Body/Closing
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Opening: Story/Anecdote/Quote & Formal Address
Body: 1,2,3 Points –Supported by
Facts/Figures/Experience/Feelings/Learnings
Closing: Quote/Message/Call to Action
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Albert Mehrabian Theory generalized to mean that
in all communications:
7% happens in spoken words.38% happens through voice tone.55% happens via general body
language.
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The Right Words – Raw Material
Vocabulary – How many words are good enough?
3 R Method3 Months to English (Self Learning
Method)
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Right Attitude
Express – Do not TRY to Impress
Believe!Find opportunities to speak.
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Right Words
What is a “Word”?
SimpleClearVivid
ActionNot more than 3 Syllables
No Jargon
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Right Words
SpecificUpliftingPositive
EnergizingAppropriate
Exercise: “I have a pet”
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Figures of Speech
SimileMetaphor - the Concise Oxford Dictionary
puts it as the "application of name or descriptive term to an object towhich it is not literally applicable." The word is derived from two Greek
roots—meta with and phero bear—which in combination denote "transfer“ of meaning
AlliterationTriad
Personification
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Speaking Style:
Clear – Simple, specific, concrete
Appropriate to audience: Use you, I, we, my, our
Colorful
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Don’ts
Use JargonSMS Language-
Abbreviations / Acronyms – FM, ICRISAT, MS, HSD
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Demo Speech
– The Right Word
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Demo Speech Review
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The Right Voice
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Voice has a unique “personality” Children – uninhibited, natural
A Good Voice Pleasant, Natural, Dynamic, Expressive
and Easily Heard.
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Your Voice Type
Whisper / Boom
Monotonous / Melodious
full, clear, mellow and enthusiasticVs nasal, breathy, harsh or lifeless
Mumblitis – Articulation
Pronunciation - formulation and utterance of words
Enunciation: fullness and clarity of speech sounds.
Rate of speech
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Your Voice Modulation
Inflection: I was born in GunturVariations – Level, Up, Low, Up-Low-Up, Down-up-Down
Use: Your lips to completely cover the word
Your tongue to move as required
Your teeth to open and close at the precise moment
Your nostrils for special effects
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Your Voice Tonality “ I appreciate the kindness you have shown me and I hope to
return the favor when I can”
1. Simple Honest Statement2. Sarcastic
“Kindness! Do you call that kindness? I wouldn’t treat a dog the way you have treated me!”
1. Resentment 2. Anger
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The Right Voice – Demo Speech (Only Audio)
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Impromptu Speaking
Mark Twain said “It usually takes me more than three
weeks to prepare a good impromptu speech.”
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Impromptu SpeakingSuccess = Preparation + Opportunity
Raw Material ?
5 Ws & 1 H – MethodRelax – 10 sec Rule
PersonaliseOpening / Body / Close
Stories / Quotations
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The Right Body Language It conveys and communicates: Confidence, Power
Releases nervous energy,
Illustrates / emphasizes the points
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The Right Body Language
F.S. G.E.M : Remember First Standard GEM.
F – Facial Expressions
S – Stance
G –Gestures
E – Eye Contact
M – Movement
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The Right Body Language
Facial Expressions: Most easily noticed, prominent.
speaking about accident – SAD; speaking about topping a class – SMILE; speaking about pain/agony – contortion.
Range of emotions: sadness, anger, frustration,
nervousness, aggressiveness, confidence, uncertainty
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The Right Body Language
Stance: Default position – Stand Still!
Shows confidence level of the speaker
Shows comfort level in the subject
Shows level of preparedness
The audience is automatically attracted to a speaker whose stance is natural, confident and
purposeful.
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The Right Body Language
Stance: Don’ts : No Slouch / No Shifting of Feet / No
BouncingDo’s : Stand Straight – Feet slightly apart
Shoulders squared;
Head straight: imagine a string tied to your hear tightly connecting your head to the ceiling
Look directly at the audience – eyes at level with their eyes
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The Right Body Language
Gestures: Head / Shoulders / Arms / HandsShow: Size / weight / shape / direction and location
Urgency
Comparison and Contrast Gestures are: above elbow level and away from the body.
Full and varied – Clinched fist / finger at ceiling = pay attention. Remember: Cultural variations – some gestures are acceptable in certain cultures some are not!
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The Right Body Language
Eye Contact:
Not looking = Ignoring, disrespect
Western Cultures – Direct Eye Contact is very important
Eastern Cultures – esp. Japanese – Eye Contact is disrespect.
Indian context: Some parts young people cannot look the Elders in the eye.
Normally accepted behavior: Direct Eye Contact = sincere, credible,
friendly and honest.
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The Right Body Language
Eye Contact:
Do’s: Look directly at the audience – each person
One thought / One sentence per person, complete the sentence before looking at another person.
Look at the Front and Back of the room.
Don’ts: Too short a glance = furtive glance = insincereToo long a glance = stare = uncomfortable for the person
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The Right Body Language
Movement:
Plan each movement, each step of the speech.
Unplanned movement communicates nervousness.
When you move purposefully – the eyes / the heads of the audience follow you
Walk to the podium – confident, purposeful
Head, chin UP / Shoulders Back
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The Right Body Language
Movement:
Don’ts : No Pacing
No FidgetingNo Swaying
No bouncing on toesAll these distract the audience.
Deliver part of speech from one point then move over to another
point – across 2-3 steps. Step forward to emphasise.
Show Actions:Hit, Slap / Throw / Punch / Wave / Shake Hands / HugSynchronise the movement with the words
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The Perfect Speech
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The Perfect Speech – Sum Up
Write Down every word of your speech(Descriptive, Figures of Speech, Action)
Mark places for Vocal Variety – Volume, Tone, Emotion
Mark places for Body Language - F.S.G.E.M
Practise, Practise, Practise
Rock on
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Next Steps ?
Join Our 8 week program to prepare & deliver
speeches.
Public Speaking Skills
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a. Personality Profiling
b. Personal Coaching
c. Public Speaking Skills
Focus Areas
A unique hand
holding process
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Personality Profiling
and Personal Coaching
Personality Development Programme
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No Strengths = No Success
Know your Strengths = Know Success
Why Profiling?
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Thomas ProfilingMBTINLPHandwriting AnalysisQuestionnaire based Interview
Profiling Tools Integrated Approach
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Thomas Profiling
Tools for Profiling
D ominanceI nfluenceS teadinessC ompliance
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MBTIMyers-Briggs type Indicator
Extraversion - IntroversionSensing - IntuitionThinking – Feeling
Judging - Perceiving
Tools for Profiling
Over all 16 categories
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Neuro Linguistic Programming ( NLP )
•Visual,Auditory,Kinesthetic,Olfactory,Gustatory• Understanding limiting beliefs• Identifying phobias
Tools for Profiling
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Handwriting = Mind writing
Reverse Programing
Tools for Profiling Handwriting Analysis
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If I desire to win I must be willing to be a part of a successful team. The zero digit was invented by an Indian. Do you feel like making the most of your life? You can achieve all your goals when you surrender to your passion and work at what you love. When you do that you no longer have to work!
When you are jogging in the park you may meet new friends who can form a part of your mastermind group. I can be open to all the zeal in me to work the magic required to make me a successful person. I can find many animals in the zoo. When was the last time you visited a zoo?
Sign: email id.Date: mobile:
Handwriting Analysis
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a. Pre Intervention questionnaire
b. One to One in depth Interview
Tools for Profiling Personal Interview
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Thomas ProfilingMBTINLPHandwriting AnalysisQuestionnaire based Interview
Profiling Tools Integrated Approach
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StudentsEmployeesEmployers
Any one who….
Who needs Profiling?
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No Strengths = No SuccessKnow your Strengths = Know Success
Know Your Strengths + Personal Coach = Know More Success
After Understanding Personal Profile ?
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Personal Coaching Examples
Sachin Tendulkar
Nandan Nilekani
Saina Nehwal
J. Nehru
Mahatma Gandhi
Ramakant Achrekar
NR Narayanamurthy
Gopichand
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Personal Coaching Process
Sounding BoardGoal Setting Clarification
Action Plan & implementationFollow up / Feedback
Phobia CureOvercome Limitations
Help the client change - Behaviour
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Case Study
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Case StudyImpact of PP&PC
Before AfterDesired
Influence
Dominance
Compliance
Steadiness
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Summing Up
Personality Profiling
Personal Coaching
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THANK YOUContact:
Prasad VSV,Personal Coach,NLP Practitioner.
95382 99416Email : [email protected]
www.PersonalityDeveloper.com/ www.freewebs.com/personalitydeveloper/