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INTRODUCTIONThe world around us is a series of assumptions in which all the people try to assume things their way. They always try to convince others with their bloody assumptions based on their false beliefs like our society is having narrow minded people in millions ,especially in remote or rural areas. There are many inspirations in world who has done something out of the world with the help of their illusion based reality and they have already proved that those rockstars convinced others with their perception to see the world and not with their false assumptions based on their weak beliefs.

I have written this book by using internet, newspaper ,magazines and some other books etc. I read more than ten thousand beliefs of those rockstars like Einstein, Sachin tendulkar, Swami vivekanand etc. in form of quotes/sentences. But there were only few which I selected for my book to include because I follow these quotes as rules in my real life. I personally believe that if people of India try to get my message by reading it then our atleast 1% problems can have their own solutions with disturbing us.

Some of the quotes in this book can be abusive or having foul language but not to hurt the sentiments of any person.

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These are my own personal opinion and not the universal truth. I you do want to believe it then your wish, I really don’t care. so please don’t take it personally and I have life time inspirational lines for you all written from the bottom of my heart :-

“hUm sAb kE andAr eK mAgIc hai… jO hme LiFe mE kuCh kR dIkHaNe kE lIyE iNsPiRe kArTi hAI..

jIs dIn DiL mE jUnoOn aur dImAAg mE pAgAlPAn lEkE nIkLoGe nAAA…

tO M sUrE tUm kuCh bAn jAogE… ”

NIKSLove you all

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A text message can lead to a date, which can lead to a kiss, and a wonderful night together. Will you text me?

People say that love is even more important than money; they have ever tried paying their bills with a hug.

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“Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see ...each other in life. Vanity, fear, desire, competition-- all such disto rtions within our own egos-- condition our vision of those in relation to us. Add to those distortions to our own egos the corresponding distortions in the egos of others, and you see how cloudy the glass must become through which we look at each other. That's how it is in all living relationships except when there is that rare case of two people who love intensely enough to burn through all those layers of opacity and see each other's naked hearts.” .

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Alcohol, what's that? It's not in my vodkabulary, but let me check in whiskypedia.

When my boss asked who is stupid, him or me? I said that everyone in the office is aware of the fact that the boss does not hire stupid people.

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When I was small I thought money and fame brought all the happiness in the world. Now that I'm grown up, I know I was right.

Karate is a kind of martial arts in which a person having many years of training can make the worst movies in the world’s history with the use of feet and hands only.

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When the past comes knocking, don't answer. It has nothing new to tell you.

A stupid person laughs thrice after a joke, first when all the people are laughing. Second when he finally understands the joke and third when he realizes that the first time he didn’t understand and joke and was laughing.

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If A is success in life, then A is equal to X plus Y plus Z. Work is X; Y is play; and Z - keeping your mouth shut.

A person realizes that he is growing old when he has to pay for the candles on the cake than the candle itself.

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Why are you waiting so long to report your stolen car to the police? I'm giving them time to fix it.

If you want to be very sure that you will not miss your target, you have to shoot first as you hit something, call it your target.

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If you can't find your better half, try finding your better two quarters.

Girls are very similar to cell phones, they want to be held and talked. Don’t ever press the wrong button as you will be disconnected.

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When you see a couple walking down the street holding hands and laughing, you look over to your side and the only thing you're holding is a half eaten sandwich.

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Give me a photo of you so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas.

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If people are talking behind your back, be happy that you are the one in front.

Girls are very similar to cell phones, they want to be held and talked. Don’t ever press the wrong button as you will be disconnected.

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Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves.

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If you want someone who will listen to you every time, do everything you tell them to do, and always be there for you for better or for worse, get a dog.

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Laughter is like a windshield wiper, it doesn't stop the rain but allows us to keep going.

Wow--somebody needs to "get a life!" I think I'd prefer to spend my time and effort worrying about something "really" important like the color of rocks used in road construction. And yes, check the grammar book on your use of "wrong". Oh man, "dumb" quotes again. The world will end soon :)I'm far more concerned by your suggestion that I might be 'using quotation marks wrong'. Impossible. I might be 'using

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quotation marks wrongLY'. 'Use' is a verb, so it requires an adverb, not an adjective.

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“Not everything is about you," Clary said furiously."Possibly," Jace said, "but you do have to admit that the majority of things are.” 

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“One of the Silent Brothers is here to see you. Hodge sent me to wake you up. Actually he offered to wake you himself, but since it's 5 a.m., I figured you'd be less cranky if you had something nice to look at.""Meaning you?""What else?” 

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“If being an egomaniac means I believe in what I do and in my art or music, then in that respect you can call me that... I believe in what I do, and I'll say it.” 

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It often occurs that pride and selfishness are muddled with strength and independence. They are neither equal nor similar; in fact, they are polar opposites. A coward may be so cowardly that he masks his weakness with some false personification of power. He is afraid to love and to be loved because love tends to strip bare all emotional barricades. Without love, strength and independence are prone to losing every bit of their worth; they become nothing more than a fearful, intimidated, empty tent lost somewhere in the desert of self.” 

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“The real opposition is that between the ego-bound man, whose existence is structured by the ciple of having, and the free man, who has overcome his egocentricity.”

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“Life lived in the absence of the psychedelic experience that primordial shamanism is based on is life trivialized, life denied, life enslaved to the ego. 

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“Time and time again does the pride of man influence his very own fall. While denying it, one gradually starts to believe that he is the authority, or that he possesses great moral dominion over others, yet it is spiritually unwarranted. By that point he loses steam; in result, he falsely begins trying to prove that unwarranted dominion by seizing the role of a condemner.”

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“I don't want to see you. I don't like you. I don't like your face. You look like an insufferable egotist. You're impertinent. You're too sure of yourself. Twenty years ago I would have punched your face with the greatest of pleasure.”

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“I don't want it to end, and so, as every therapist knows, the ego does not want an end to its “problems” because they are part of its identity. If no one will listen to my sad story, I can tell it to myself in my head, over and over, and feel sorry for myself, and so have an identity as someone who is being treated unfairly by life or other people, fate or God. It gives definition to my self-image, makes me into someone, and that is all that matters to the ego.

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“People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them and be blinded to all the good your heart has to offer. They look no further than what they want to see. Unfortunately, most of them remain a victim throughout their life.” 

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Often we take personally the slings and arrows of our 'abusers'. But frequently we are merely the interchangeable pawns of their own neurotic dramas. Anyone else in your position would have received the same treatment. There is nothing especially noxious or negatively noteworthy about you.” “

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Rather than talk the talk it’s better to walk the walk. Much of what is spoken is just hot air, and if you find yourself talking about what you’re going to do rather than talking about what you’re doing you may be in a state of not getting things done. It’s better to get the work done that needs to get done and be able to talk about that rather than just spout off about all of the things you plan on doing. What are some things you’ve been talking about lately that don’t seem to have any traction, or any sign of getting done? Focus on those areas for a week and put some inspired action behind them instead of just talk.

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Quitting is the easy way out, but it doesn’t produce anything of value, and ends up leading to a habit of quitting that can haunt you for a lifetime. The good news is that you don’t have to accept quitting, and you can pick up old projects that you quit on too early and see them through to fruition. Of course it is also possible to strategically quit on something as long as you feel that there is a more worthwhile project to work on that demands all of your time and you don’t want to split your focus.

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I really hate when people meet me in the supermarket and ask what are you doing here? I feel like telling them that I am hunting elephants.

While driving people driving faster than me is a maniac and people who is driving slower is an idiot.

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If you’re waiting around for conditions to be perfect before you stick your neck out you’ll be waiting forever. This quote reminds us that you have to have some faith in order to branch into something new and unknown. Take the flying leap and trust that if you don’t make it that things will be OK and you’ll land safely. What usually ends up happening is that situations will present themselves that never could have or would have presented themselves had you not made a bold choice and thrown yourself into it

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There’s no guarantee that your long-term plan will succeed because you never know what will happen in the future. None of us do. The only time you have complete control of is right now, so that’s the best time to do all of the things you’ve been wanting to do but have been putting off until some vague future date. If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing now, so don’t wait. Put some things into motion and see where it leads. You may be surprised to find that this brings your goals and dreams faster than you ever thought possible.

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How can you know what your limits are if you’ve never pushed them? This quote is good not only for encouraging you to find your own limitations, if you have any, but also for testing the limits of what is possible out in the world. Sitting by and thinking you have limits without actually finding out if you do or not is akin to the story of how an elephant won’t try to break the simple rope that ties him down because as a baby they chained him up with a heavy chain. How many limits do you put on yourself that aren’t even real?

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If you get started enough times you’ll eventually get ahead. But those that dream of getting ahead and never start never get ahead. It’s a peculiar secret, as it seems so obvious, but is the downfall for many who want to be successful but don’t actually start anything that could get them there. It doesn’t matter if what you start is a giant success or not, as long as you keep starting things you’ll eventually get a hit. And if you don’t at least you won’t have any regrets because you put your whole self into trying

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The thought of always doing your best may sound obvious, but honestly how often do you find yourself slipping into less than your best? What we do in the moment, with each day, is what we’ll end up reaping later. It’s best to get into the habit of giving it your all each day because it just sets you up for a better and better harvest later. It’s a hard concept to grasp because each day presents new difficulties and a requirement for us to refresh ourselves and recharge our energy so we can do our best and give our all to everything

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This is partly true because you also have to believe you can do it. Be sure you don’t get caught in the trap of chasing a dream you don’t believe in. Disney talked about dreams a lot but he also spoke on putting belief behind them. Once you have a dream that gets you excited and you amp up your belief that you can achieve it, it’s only a matter of time before that dream becomes a reality. The point of this quote is that you wouldn’t have developed the dream if you weren’t capable of its achievement, which should help you believe you can do it.

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It’s easy for the day to get away from you if you let it, which is why it’s important to take control of the day and bend it to your will. There will always be distractions and things getting in the way of what you have planned for the day, so you have to make sure that what you want to get done takes priority. Get into the habit of letting the day run you and you will stack many days up that don’t go your way. Have a clear plan for what you want to accomplish for the day and make sure that you stick to that plan

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Sometimes what we’re working on doesn’t seem like it matters much, especially when we’re doing things for other people when we’d much rather prefer to be doing things for ourselves. But if you put the sort of effort into everything you do as if it all matters, you’ll find that it does make a difference to your life and your mental state in the form of a better feeling. We all want to feel like we’re making a difference, and this quote is a reminder that we are making a difference, it just might not be as big as we’d like, but over time it can get bigger.

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Nothing from nothing leaves nothing, so it’s a better idea to try your hand at greatness. So what if you fail, and least you tried something amazing and have a story to tell. Those that attempt nothing wind up with nothing to show for it and no story of even an attempt. How boring! Make sure that you’re always striving for something great so that you can look back and say you gave it a go. And if you have the right amount of perseverance and a bit of luck you might actually achieve something great for the history books

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It doesn’t matter if others believe you can succeed, or that you will succeed. No one can give you the resolution to succeed except yourself. It’s important to stoke those fires regularly, even daily so that you don’t get into the mentality that you can’t succeed or that failure is an option. Remember that we measure success personally, so that your idea of what it means to succeed is different than other people’s. Follow your own path to your own vision of success and stay the course.

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Be the person today that your future self will thank you for being. You’re setting yourself up for your tomorrows today, and if you think about it you’re living the life today that you’ve set up with all of your yesterdays. If you’re not where you want to be today, you’ll likely have to change what you’ve been doing in the past that led you to this moment. Begin to make changes starting today that can influence how you’ll be living your life tomorrow, and the day after that.

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When you hear stories of success do you ever think that there isn’t any left for you? It’s a common thought to have but it’s not accurate. One person’s success does not leave less for the rest of us. The universe expands, and the fact is there’s always room at the top because there’s always people getting there. It isn’t a zero sum game with a loser for every winner. There are plenty of winners coexisting at the top and you can be part of the party. So use other people’s success stories as motivation rather than discouragement.

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This is true because your reputation is built on your actions, not what’s in your head as far as your plans. Plans that stay in your head and never see the light of day will never get you to where you want to be, or to a place where you can have a reputation for being a success. Look at the most successful people in the world and how they got their recognition. It’s because of the things they achieved and did, not for what they said they are going to do

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This may be the hardest part of success because it’s difficult to remain enthusiastic when everything around you is crashing down. If you have a string of failures what do you think your likelihood is to be enthusiastic about the new things you’re starting? Not very high. But if you can somehow remain enthusiastic, even if it seems silly or illogical to be enthusiastic, you’ll eventually reach success because it’s that positive eager attitude that will make it so you win one time

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Waiting around for inspiration to strike is going to be a long wait. This quote is a reminder that you have to chase down inspiration, and that may come in the form of work. Sometimes you have to start working to get inspired, rather than waiting for inspiration before you start working. The kicker: you can’t just do it one day and expect to be inspired every day that follows. You have to go and get your inspiration each day, or else you run the risk of having a flat, uninspired day, and too many of those in a row leads you places you don’t want to be

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A lot of unsuccessful people will point to their lack of opportunities and say that they just didn’t get their fair share. They’ll look at successful people and say that they got an unfair amount of opportunities presented to them. But the truth of the matter is that you create your own opportunities, and successful people have found out this truth and are applying it in their lives. Look at opportunities that have presented themselves to you and realize that you created that opportunity and then took it.

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It’s not a good idea to expect someone else to come by and change your life for you. There is a bigger chance of WINNING THE LOTTERY, and that’s basically what you’re hoping for when you put the keys of change in someone else’s hand. Only you can do it, and if you want to make a change in your life and be more than you’ve been, you have to be the one that provides the energy, that takes the steps, and that draws a line in the sand and says you’re not going to go back to those old ways again

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Have you identified some things in your life that may be the wrong thing to chase? It’s funny how as time goes by some of the things you found important at some time in the past don’t seem that important anymore. You could still be chasing them on autopilot. Once you give up the chase, the right things, the things you want in your life right now, have a chance to catch up to you and you can have what you really want. Give it a try and see if it happens for you, at the very least you won’t be wasting time on the wrong things anymore

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If you’re the type of person that never gives up, you’re going to be really hard to beat. This goes for competition as well as the universe in general. Sticking with things until you get what you want it the mark of a winner not just because it shows an indomitable spirit, but because it represents a powerful intention. If your intention is to stick it out until you win then you’ve got the right thought process that is in line with the laws of the universe. You’ll eventually get what you want as long as you don’t put a timeframe on getting it.

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The more you accomplish the more you build up your confidence and find that there’s even more you can accomplish. Isn’t it great that just by taking action and getting things done you make it possible to do even more. This doesn’t mean you are going to be working harder and harder as you go along, but you’ll become more effective and efficient the more you do, so that you get more done with less effort, and are then able to produce more with the same amount of effort. Your own financial resources will likely grow with the more you do, so you can really do more.

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It takes some motivation to get past inertia. Once you get going again it’s up to you to form a habit out of what you want to do each day so that you can effortlessly plug away at the things that are most important to you. Habits can be good or bad, but either way they play a huge role in success and failure, so make sure you’re establishing good habits or you could find yourself swimming upstream for no reason.

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It may be safer to never take a shot, but the result is that you don’t make the shot, so it’s the same as missing the shot. Rather than not take the shot and still get the same result, take the shot. The worst that can happen is that you’ll be right where you would have been had you not taken the shot. Often we feel that it will be worse if we try and miss than if we don’t try at all. But that just isn’t so, and it’s important to take the shots that come by in life so that you can say you’ve played the game rather than just observed.

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It’s interesting to think that if you dare to stick yourself out there, that fortune will side with you. Providence has been said to move with you when you commit yourself to a task, so when you combine these two you have some powerful forces behind you. So it appears that if you dare to take on a challenge or a new endeavor, and then commit yourself to its achievement, that fortune and providence will be on your side and you’ll see amazing things happen that you never thought possible.

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How much are you willing to admit that what you’ve become up until now, and what you will be in the future are because of your decisions. You are deciding who you are with each passing minute, and you can become what you want as long as you decide to do so. Decide is based on the word for cut, and when you decide you are cutting off the other options you have available to you. This means you are accepting nothing less than what you have decided on.

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You just never know what’s around the corner, and you can’t hold the hand of who you’re supposed to be with until you let go of the hand you’re currently holding.There’s good in every situation, and in order to get through a tough break up and on to the next chapter in your life, you have to appreciate that what you had may have been good, but something better is on its way, and you’re a stronger person now because of what you’ve been through.

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Too often we try to soothe ourselves by diminishing a relationship’s value in order to get over it more quickly. But it’s OK to think that the relationship was pretty great, but now it’s over, and it was worth going through the pain of the ending for all the good times you had together. Love always comes with the risk of getting hurt and putting yourself through some tough times, but it’s always worth the special moments you share.

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When you’re faced with a crisis like a breakup it’s actually life’s way of asking you what you really want. You now have a better idea of what you don’t want, so you can get clearer about what you do want and focus on that. A breakup is a fresh chance to start over, to work on you for a little while and then attract the person of your dreams, edited to include all of your new desires that were formed from your last relationship.

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Even though Barney is a fictional character, he’s still good for an empowering quote now and then. This one rings true when you’re feeling down about a recent break up and you need to remind yourself just how awesome you are so you can get back to the real you. The good news is that when you start being awesome again you’ll attract someone just as awesome for you. It’s OK to feel sad for a bit after a breakup, but wallowing in it is only going to extend your misery.

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You’re the only force that can limit what it is you’re capable of, so don’t let this temporary setback stop you from moving on to bigger and better things. There’s no timeline on how long it should take you to let go and start over, but you’ll feel that it’s the right time in your gut. When it starts to feel like a chore to still be hung up on this, that means it’s time to leave it behind and take a look at your fresh new clean slate with feelings of optimism.

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If someone didn’t treat you right, it’s most likely because they didn’t recognize your true value. You shouldn’t want to be with someone that would do this, and even though it hurts right now they’ll eventually realize that they made a big mistake and should have seen just how special you are. When you’re with someone that would do that it just means that you need to be with someone else that wouldn’t. Now that you’ve broken up you can set your sights on a better match for you.

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If you got the feeling like you weren’t being treated like the extraordinary person that you are, then it’s probably best that you broke up, and you can now find someone that treats you as you should be treated. Relationships can be hard, and sometimes the passion will wane and couples will start taking each other for granted. If this goes on for too long it creates tension and a breakup ensues. But there’s no reason for the passion to die out, and you can find someone that stays madly in love and ready to adore you daily.

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It’s no surprise that you’re feeling pain as you go through a breakup, but whether or not you suffer from it is a choice that you make. To feel pain is natural, but to make it something that ruins your life long after the event has taken place is totally unnatural. Feel the pain, learn from it, and use it in a way that makes you grow so that you can move forward with your life and have better results as you go along. Decide today to stop suffering and let the past be the past.

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Things don’t ever go exactly as planned, and the sooner you embrace that the sooner you can realize just how good things really are. Life has a way of working out according to its own design, and we can influence it but sometimes there will be twists and turns that we didn’t expect. As long as you stay positive and be willing to accept changes in your life that aren’t what you were expecting or planning on, you can start to see the beauty that life paints, and see that it uses broad strokes.

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This is one of the most positive ways to look at a breakup, and if you can even come close to thinking like this about your own circumstances, you’ll heal much faster. It’s times like this that you find out just how strong you are, and because of that you become a better person, which can only lead to a better relationship when you decide to have another one. Without the struggle you would still just have an idea of how strong you are, but you wouldn’t have the proof to back it up.

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This is one of the most positive ways to look at a breakup, and if you can even come close to thinking like this about your own circumstances, you’ll heal much faster. It’s times like this that you find out just how strong you are, and because of that you become a better person, which can only lead to a better relationship when you decide to have another one. Without the struggle you would still just have an idea of how strong you are, but you wouldn’t have the proof to back it up.

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It’s important to realize that this is a day by day process. There are no quantum leaps when it comes to breaking up and moving on. With each new day you get a little bit stronger and time works its magic so you’ll hurt a bit less. This doesn’t mean that this is a continual process, and there will be times when you regress now and then, but the point is that when you have a bad day it will be a little less bad than it was at ground zero when the breakup was fresh and most intense.

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Breaking up is hard to do, but if you take this quote to heart you’ll be able to get over it at a much faster pace. You may not feel like singing every day, and some of the songs along the way may be sad songs, but eventually you’ll want to sing something a little more uplifting, and when that day comes you’ll know that you’ve made some real progress and have managed to stay true to yourself and your own personal development

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Here’s a great quote to read every morning so you can get into the proper mindset for greeting the day after a breakup. When you dress in clothes that make you feel good you can’t help but be affected by them. Show up to the party and get involved and you’ll see that there’s a whole new set of opportunities waiting for you just by you showing up. Never give up on love, even if you’ve been through some rough breakups. You’ll eventually end up where you’re supposed to be

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You don’t have to know exactly where it is you’re going in order to head in the right direction. If you’ve been feeling bad for awhile about a breakup, and you haven’t felt like yourself in some time, you’ll know you’re back on track when you start doing things you used to like to do again. Once you start heading back to the real you, you’ll know it by the way you feel, and you’ll start to get feelings of excitement and anticipation at the new life that is shaping up for you

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When you decide to let this breakup be part of your past, and move forward with the rest of your life, you’ll be taking a giant step in your self development. It’s these big moments when you feel like the world as you knew it is totally turned upside down that you’ll look back on and realize it was a huge turning point for amazing things to enter into your life. So decide today to be happy, healthy, and full of life and you’ll see signs that life is responding to your new energy

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Even when you’re going through a tough time, it’s important to realize that this is your life, and you should love it. Not just the rosy parts, but all of it. This will help you realize that your life isn’t over just because of a breakup, and that this could be one of the best things that ever happened to you, you just can’t see the bigger picture yet. So you may as well try to enjoy it, even in the midst of what seems like a tragedy. Sadness is a part of life, not the dominant part, but a part, and it helps to show just how good you feel when you feel your best

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“I’m in love with you, and I’m not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things. I’m in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we’re all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust, and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we’ll ever have, and I am in love with you.”

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“I knew the second I met you that there was something about you I needed. Turns out it wasn’t something about you at all. It was just you.” 

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“If my love were an ocean,there would be no more land.If my love were a desert,you would see only sand.If my love were a star-late at night, only light.And if my love could grow wings,I’d be soaring in flight.”

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“I want to be the friend you fall hopelessly in love with. The one you take into your arms and into your bed and into the private world you keep trapped in your head. I want to be that kind of friend. The one who will memorize the things you say as well as the shape of your lips when you say them. I want to know every curve, every freckle, every shiver of your body.I want to know where to touch you, I want to know how to touch you. I want to know convince you to design a smile just for me. Yes, I do want to be your friend. I want to be your best friend in the entire world.”

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“Love lets you find those hidden places in another person, even the ones they didn’t know were there, even the ones they wouldn’t have thought to call beautiful themselves.”

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“I wanted to tell you that wherever I am, whatever happens, I’ll always think of you, and the time we spent together, as my happiest time. I’d do it all over again, if I had the choice. No regrets.”

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These are the few ways we can practice humility:

To speak as little as possible of one's self.

To mind one's OWN BUSINESS.

Not to want to manage other people's affairs.

To avoid curiosity.

To accept contradictions and correction cheerfully.

To pass over the mistakes of others.

To accept insults and injuries.

To accept being slighted, forgotten and

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disliked.

To be kind and gentle even under provocation.

Never to stand on one's dignity.

To choose always the hardest.” 

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“I used to think the world was broken down by tribes,' I said. 'By Black and White. By Indian and White. But I know this isn't true. The world is only broken into two tribes: the people who are assholes and the people who are not.” 

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“He who takes offense when no offense is intended is a fool, and he who takes offense when offense is intended is a greater fool.” 

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Sir, I admit your general rule, That every poet is a fool, But you yourself may serve to show it, That every fool is not a poet.” 

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“My Lord, I find thy face apelike and thy form misshapen. Thy beard, moreover, is an offense against decency, resembling more closely the scabrous fir which doth decorate the hinder portion of a mongrel dog than a proper adornement for a human face. Is it possible that thy mother, seized by some wild lechery, did dally at some time past with a randy goat? 

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“If we desire to avoid insult, we must be able to repel it; if we desire to secure peace, one of the most powerful instruments of our rising prosperity, it must be known, that we are at all times ready for War.”

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“An intellectual? Yes. And never deny it. An intellectual is someone whose mind watches itself. I like this, because I am happy to be both halves, the watcher and the watched. "Can they be brought together?" This is a practical question. We must get down to it. "I despise intelligence" really means: "I cannot bear my doubts.” 

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“Men have called me mad; but the question is not yet settled, whether madness is or is not the loftiest intelligence– whether much that is glorious– whether all that is profound– does not spring from disease of thought– from moods of mind exalted at the expense of the general intellect.” 

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“Do stuff. be clenched, curious. Not waiting for inspiration's shove or society's kiss on your forehead. Pay attention. It's all about paying attention. attention is vitality. It connects you with others. It makes you eager. stay eager.” 

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“A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions--as attempts to find out something. Success and failure are for him answers above all.” 

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“I make mistakes like the next man. In fact, being--forgive me--rather cleverer than most men, my mistakes tend to be correspondingly huger.” 

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“I think of myself as an intelligent, sensitive human being with the soul of a clown which always forces me to blow it at the most important moments.” 

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“Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.” 

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“The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.”

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“One, remember to look up at the stars and not down at your feet. Two, never give up work. Work gives you meaning and purpose and life is empty without it. Three, if you are lucky enough to find love, remember it is there and don't throw it away.” 

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A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feeling as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.” 

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“Simplicity, patience, compassion.These three are your greatest treasures.Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being.Patient with both friends and enemies,you accord with the way things are.Compassionate toward yourself,you reconcile all beings in the world.” 

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“Fantasy is escapist, and that is its glory. If a soldier is imprisioned by the enemy, don't we consider it his duty to escape?. . .If we value the freedom of mind and soul, if we're partisans of liberty, then it's our plain duty to escape, and to take as many people with us as we can!” 

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“Some people don't understand the promises they're making when they make them," I said.

"Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. That's what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway.” 

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“I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?” 

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“I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerful stuff.” 

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“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating.

These all were your assumptions Bt actually this is my perception to see

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the life in different way…

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