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FACING CHANGE?
Words to Manage Your Mindset and
Outcomes
November 19, 2019
Bruce Pulver, CRCR, VP Client Development
Objectives: S-M-A-R-T
• Sharing A Story - Mending a Broken Heart
• Making Our WORDS our ASSETS
• Aligning Our MINDSET to Improve our Perspective
• Recognizing THOUGHTS/WORDS Drive Everything
• Take Away – New Actionable SKILL
Start with Numbers
• 25,000 - 50,000 Thoughts/day*
• 70% Negative
• 95% Repetitive day after day
• 16 awake hours/day
• 19 - 38 Negative/hr
*Psychology Today
Story of a Broken Heart
“Dadisms”
Lauren Order
Ophelia Pulse Peter Geraldine
Atric, MD
Teresa R. Greene
Paige Turner
Gustov Wind
Pastor Present
Life as a child in the Our Home
Story of a Broken Spirit
My Moment
THE GIFT I RECEIVED - UNDERSTANDING THE POWER OF MY MINDSET!
What happened next was a GIFT!
STRONG
Stand
Tall
Remain
Optimistic
Now
Go for it
AWESOME
A
Wonderful
Experience
Shall
Overwhelm
My
Expectations
YES I CAN
You
Expect
Success
In
Challenging
Activities
Now
Lessons learned – IMPACT of Words
Memorable - Ask not what your country can do for
you…
Inspirational - When the going gets tough…
Declarative - Small step for man, giant leap for…
Motivational - Just __?___ It (Nike)
Demotivational - …
Words have Perspective
Words have Perspective
HOW DO WE SHIFT OUR MINDSET?
REAL EXAMPLE - CHANGE
C an’t
H andle
A nother
N egative
G ut-Wrenching
E xperience
C ircumstances
H ave
A ltered
N ow
G et
E ngaged
REAL EXAMPLE - FEAR
F ail
E very
Attempt
R egardless
F uels
E nergy
A nd
R esilience
REAL EXAMPLE – CAN I? or I CAN?
C autious
A nxious
N ervous
I nsecure?
I nspired
C onfident
A ffirmed
N ever a Doubt!
REAL EXAMPLE – PUSH
P etrified
U nder
S tress
H elpless
P ut
U p
S ome
H ard Work
Group Participation
Get out of the Comfort Zone
Be aware of mindset/
conversation w/yourself
Pay just a little more attention
Set your intentions intentionally
Group Participation
Grab your pen and a sheet of paper
Think of a single word or phrase that has always been uplifting or powerful to you
Write it vertically
Using just its letters, write the meaning of that word for you
Your word, No wrong answers
Drop the pen when you have completed your word
Closing Challenge to Manage Your
Mindset – Manage Your Outcomes
Next 30 Days, pay closer attention to your
thoughts and your words
Replace a negative with a positive
Remove “n’t” words for just one day, then
repeat. (KICK the CAN’T)
Keep your word from today close to you
Track your outlook, results, and outcomes
THANK YOU!
STAY IN TOUCH
Bruce Pulver, CRCR
VP Client Development
404.333.3992
