Embed Size (px)
Citation preview
1
INSIDE THIS ISSUE
Unitarian Universalist Community of the Mountains February 2020
Feb. 23 The Rabbit Listened Gail Johnson Vaughan, Worship Leader with UUCM Members and Friends
Resilience, especially emotional resilience, is not a solo act. How can we best be present for those we care about during times of emotional distress? How can we best be there for them, and how can we open ourselves to the support from others when it is our turn to journey through life's tough spots? Join us this Sunday for a service we all need.
UPCOMING SERVICES
Item Page
Upcoming Services ............................................................................1
From Rev. Kevin Tarsa ........................................................................2
Board of Trustees ................................................................................3
UUCM Valentine Auction .................................................................4
Membership & Hospitality ..............................................................5
Leadership Weekend Update .........................................................5
Pass the Plate .......................................................................................5
Caring Team ..........................................................................................6
Building and Grounds .......................................................................6
Justice News & Activities .................................................................7
Carbon Dividend Task Force ...........................................................8
Nisenan Project Circle .......................................................................8
Free Climate Justice Workshop w/ George Lakey ...................8
Community Connections - Social & Spiritual ...........................9
UUCM Family Ministry ................................................................... 10
Soul Matters ...................................................................................... 11
Book Groups ...................................................................................... 11
Adult Religious Exploration ......................................................... 12
Monthly Calendar ............................................................................ 13
UUCM Contact Info and Office Hours ...................................... 14
Two Service Times on Sundays: 9:30 am or 11:30 am
Social hour is between the two services; you may either stay after the first service, or come early to the second one.
Religious education classes for children (K-5th grades) are offered during the 9:30 am service,
and classes for youth (6th-12th grades) are offered at 10:30 am. Nursery care is available for both services.
What Does it Mean to be a People of Resilience?In a powerful segue, this month we draw on January’s exploration of “integrity” to guide our February journey into the theme of “resilience.”
February Worship Associate: Gail Johnson Vaughan
Feb. 2 Hearts in Action, Minds and Souls Ablaze Lindsay Dunckel, Rev. Kevin Tarsa and allIn last month’s Full Community service we named the local suffering and injustices that break our hearts. This month’s Full Community service invites us to act on that wisdom and compassion of our hearts. Right. During. The. Service.
First Sunday: Please bring non-perishable food for people and pets.Please return Guest at Your Table Boxes today!
Feb. 9 What It's Meaning to be White Rev. Kevin Tarsa and members of UUCM's "Challenging White Privilege" GroupInspired by the teaching of Robin DiAngelo, a circle of people at UUCM has been meeting for two years for members to grow their racial literacy, learn about their own whiteness, and, if possible, to challenge their own white privilege. This Sunday members of UUCM’s Challenging White Privilege group, with Rev. Kevin, share fragments of what they have learned in their journeys and invite you to notice what you’ve learned in your own journey.
Soup Lunch at 12:45 PM, followed by Spiritual Practice Sampler
Feb. 16 When the Winds have Shifted, When the World Comes Undone Rev. Kevin Tarsa
We UUs inherited a trust in and a message of “universal love.” In these polarized and uncertain times what shall we do with such a legacy? Where are we to find our own resilience? Let’s start by turning our faces into the winds. Together.
2
From the Minister
Rev. Kevin TarsaUUCM Minister
Rev. Kevin's Office HOuRs
Tuesday 1:00 PM - 2:00 PM Wednesday 5:00 PM - 6:30 PM Thursday 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Please contact Rev. Kevin or our Office Administrator to make an appointment for Rev. Kevin's office hours.
Contact Rev. Kevin to schedule appointments at other times. [email protected] or (231) 883-1058 [email protected] or (530) 274-1675
What does it mean to be a people of resilience?The move from “integrity” (our January theme) to “resilience” is a wonderful invitation to realize that our capacity for resilience is rooted in our integrity, our personal and our communal integrity.
As we turn our faces into the winds of this era - stronger, stormier, more turbulent winds than many of us expected – it will be important to anchor ourselves in whatever wholeness we can find.
If you have not yet chosen a word for the year, I encourage you to choose one now. Perhaps it’s the word that’s been tugging at you, the word you’ve been trying to ignore or that you hoped would go away. Or maybe it’s the word that widens your eyes, initiates a feeling of openness in your heart, and bumps your heart rate up a happy notch or calms it down a soothing notch.
In January I invited everyone to consider choosing a word that spoke to their internal integrity. What within you feels divided? What focal word for the year might help you gradually cultivate wholeness?As we enter the theme of resilience, I’m aware that I could have invited people to choose a word that spoke to their existing sense of wholeness. What within you feels centered, whole, calm, deep, anchored...?
I encourage you to write your word on a stone or some tangible object, as some of us did in the service. And I invite you this month to sometimes hold that stone in one hand, with all your desire for greater integrity within, while you place your other hand over your heart, feeling your existing sense of deep groundedness, wholeness, and enoughness.
For a time, if you can, let it be both/and. Cultivate resilience there, at the moving edge between what you realize now and what you may yet come to realize.
And remember, as our Soul Matters authors point out, that you are not in this alone. Who and how we are with one another in this UUCM community can be one of our strongest sources of strength and hope and resilience, if we recognize that truth, and live it with ever more courage and love Sunday to Sunday and all the hours in between.
With care,
Thank Yous for "Love reaches ouT" Thank you to Dennis Weiher, Karyn Packard, Jim Perkins and Lindsay Dunckel for facilitating portions of our “Love Reaches Out” workshop!
Thank you to Martha Turner and Scottie Hart for a delicious lunch, Maryann Currington, Elizabeth Bloom and Carmen Riley for lovely morning refreshments and snacks, and to everyone who participated so deeply and thoughtfully all day. UUCM is what it is because of you.
– Rev. Kevin
3
Your Board of Trustees
Rev. Karyn PackardPresident, UUCM Board of Trustees
We have just completed our January 16th meeting on a snowy Thursday afternoon. I had to call Kevin to assist me in getting my car facing the opposite way as cars were sliding and colliding all around me. After his gallant assist, I went home. As it worked out, the rest of the board braved the snow and met at the church. Through technology (again arranged by Kevin), we had our extended BOT meeting. When you are reading this, all of us will have already experienced our January 26th Congregational Business Meeting. Our meeting was mindfully designed to make sure that everything we wanted to communicate and all the requests we were making of our voters were clear and concise. Our goal was a succinct meeting that gave the appropriate information, asked the appropriate questions, and created a safe listening environment where people could express their opinions. You’ll have to let us know if we succeeded in our goals and how we can improve in May.
Bilyana Martinovski says, “Each negotiation is embedded in a larger context of co-being, which involves empathy and awareness of common goal/condition.”
If all has gone well, we will have moved a big step forward in one of our yearly goals, “living into our new Governance structure”. This is involving a complete overhaul of our policies and our affected bylaws. When you think of it in its aggregate, it sounds overwhelming. However, we believe in the importance of having our documentation match our actions. Under Janet Dunstan’s leadership, we are making great strides in reaching this lofty goal.
Another improvement that I would like to highlight is our Ministry Council. Of course, the creation and further development of Ministry Council is part of our Governance structure. For the first time, all of our teams are regularly meeting together. How powerful to have all the stakeholders in the room when issues are raised. Conflict is reduced and cooperation is enhanced. Certainly, a win-win. I want to thank Dennis Weiher (member at large) and Jim Perkins, (Vice-President) for being the Board’s representatives on the Ministry Council. We are working now on a co-calendar and shared resource lists. We are committed to awareness of what
UUCM BOARD of TRUSTEES July 2019 - June 2020
Karyn Packard PresidentJim Perkins Vice-PresidentSandi Lauher SecretaryJoel Houtman Treasurer
Members at Large:Maryann Currington, Janet Dunstan & Dennis Weiher
Board of Trustees meetings are held:the third Thursday of each month at 2:30 PM
in the UUCM Channing Room unless stated otherwise.
UUCM members and friends are cordially invited to attend!If you wish to address the board, please give two days notice so the
agenda timing can be adjusted.
each other is doing or thinking about doing. Once again, a win-win.
We had a guest at our meeting. Wally Holtan, our hard-working Buildings and Grounds chair, came to us with years of observation and concern regarding the condition of our buildings and the surrounding property. It was not easy to hear, but the Board is committed to having a safe environment for our ministries to take place. It means we have lots of decisions to make, especially as it will impact future facilities
exploration. We will draw on your know-how and experience to help us. We will keep communicating.
Financially, we are sound, with timely reports and transparency. But we are moving into times where our financial decisions will have great impact and require researched discernment. We won’t all agree, I’m sure. However, this Board has worked very hard to be respectful and to negotiate with “an awareness of common goal/
condition”. It is a high bar and we will continue to reach for it in the future.
Blessings,
- Rev. Karyn Packard
4
Join us for theUUCM Valentine Auction!
Saturday, February 15 at 5:30 PM♥ Come and enjoy a fun night out!
Live Musical Entertainment ♥ Catered Dinner♥ Silent and Live Auction Items
Buy your ticket at UUCM on Sunday or make a reservation with Claire. We suggest you pay $20 or what you can afford. We do not want anyone to be deterred from coming due to financial constraints.
There are already over 60 items in the catalog:See: www.togetherauction.com/uucm Click on “Catalog List”
Bidding:This year we have enabled on-line bidding. Go to the on-line catalog, log-in and make your bids. If you have trouble logging in contact Claire or Siobhan.
Bid sheets are now on the walls of UUCM. You can bid there as well. Your organizers will endeavor to make sure that on-line bids are also entered onto the paper bid sheets. On-line bidding will be closed on Wednesday night, February 12.
You will be issued a printed catalog on February 15 when you check-in. There you will find reference numbers for every item organized by category. You will be able to identify “live” items as distinct from “silent”. You will be issued a paddle with your bidding number on it. The same number is on your ticket. Couples will be given a paddle corresponding to the number on one of their tickets. The computing system knows you by your number.
During the auction most items will be offered in a silent auction. A few selected items will be auctioned live. If you cannot be there on the night and wish to increase your silent bids, ask for our absentee bidder, Wendy, to bid, according to your instructions, on the night.
Donations:Have you donated yet? See the on-line catalog for ideas. We will accept donations until Monday, February 10. Siobhan, Claire and Jenny are available to help.
Insider Tips:The catered meal is only available to those who purchase or reserve a ticket by Tuesday, February 11. We need a headcount for our caterers. You can still come to the auction, but a meal may not be available. Our caterers will be providing Chicken Cordon Bleu. Vegetarian options will also be available. Please let us know you prefer vegetarian when you purchase your ticket. Wine is available for purchase.
Checking Out:If you win a tangible item be sure to take it with you. The data entry staff will confirm that it’s yours when you check out.
We will try to complete the accounting in a timely manner. We strongly encourage you to settle your account on the night of the auction. To help the data entry process, we will be closing bidding on silent items in waves. If you can, please pay by check. We can take credit cards, but we have to pay a fee, so we won't make as much for the fundraiser.
Clean Up:You are all on the cleanup crew. Kevin would like to offer a service the next day. If you are willing and able, help with tearing down tables, cleaning, dishes and setting up the room for the next morning's service would be greatly appreciated.
Childcare is available on advance request.
Contacts:Siobhan Boylan 510-459-6558 [email protected]
Jenny Dewey 530-913-9415 [email protected]
Claire Miller 530-205-5324 [email protected]
Wendy Wernigg 530-273-4503 [email protected]
5
Learn More About UU & UUCMWanTing To geT connecTed? curious abouT becoming a member? A new Starting Point class series began in January, but if you missed it, another one is coming soon. Orient yourself in the journey of Unitarian Universalism - for newcomers as well as existing members. Next series begins in March. Sign up now with UUCM's administrator, Carol Fulkerson: [email protected] and we'll keep you updated.
Membership Team
February Hospitality ScheduleBy Marilyn Young, Coordinator, UUCM Hospitality Hour
Every Sunday, everyone is welcome to enjoy snacks and refreshments, along with socializing, between the two services from 10:30 until 11:20 AM in the Alcott and Channing Rooms.
This month's schedule for contributing snacks:
February 2 - last names beginning with A to EFebruary 9 - last names beginning with F to JAlso - Second Sunday Soup Lunch at 12:45 – all are welcome; we need soup, bread & butter, cookies...please contribute if you can!February 16 - last names beginning with K to RFebruary 23 - last names beginning with S to Z
If you plan to bring a snack or a Second Sunday Soup Lunch contribution, please let Marilyn Young know. We especially appreciate healthy snacks, and at least one gluten-free baked offering. ([email protected])
Hospitality Team
Sign Up for a Circle SupperBy Claire Miller, Coordinator, Circle Suppers
These small potlucks in people's homes are wonderful, relaxed chances to connect to others. So far, forty-four members and friends have participated, and several hosts have come forward to offer their homes for the next phase of Suppers.
Sign up in the entry area now to attend.
If you are interested in being a "host," please contact Claire Miller ([email protected]). The schedule is being put together, so picking a date (or dates!) you prefer can happen as soon as you know when you want to do it. Details of the dinner itself can be worked out over the next several weeks.
Circle Suppers
Leadership WeekendAn Inspiring Time at the Pacific Western Region Leadership ExperienceBy René Wiley
JIm Perkins and I are just back from the 2020 Leadership Experience, a 3-Day training with the Pacific Western Region's Rev. Sarah Schurr and Dr. Jonipher Kūpono Kwong. From this time of rich learning, Jim and I share a sense of purpose and responsibility to carry out the insight that meets the challenge of strengthening UU congregations and sustaining the Unitarian Universalist faith for coming generations. We focused on spiritually grounded leadership, deepening community relationship, and the need to develop intercultural competency. We will continue learning with a focus group over the next 12 weeks.
What amazing timing! It's wonderful knowing that UUCM is thoughtfully mission-focused, that our Board is currently sorting out the passionate visioning that came of the "Love Reaches Out" workshop, and there is a commitment to the leadership required to continue holding this liminal space as we become a more vital congregation that best serves our mission and lives our values.
Jim and I will be happy to share more later!
Pass the PlateThank you to everyone who contributed to support Hospitality House, UUCM's Pass-the-Plate beneficiary in December. UUCM collected $1038.75 to help "Utah's Place" serve homeless people in our community.
And thank you to everyone who gave to the Minister's Discretionary Fund on Christmas Eve. The $1262.01 collected will allow Rev. Kevin to serve people in need throughout the year and on UUCM's behalf.
UUCM's February Pass-the-Plate beneficiary will be Sierra Roots, which operates shelters on cold-weather nights and whose goal is "a community in which homeless people experience inclusion rather than isolation and where they can progress toward health and self reliance."
Sierra Roots
6
Building and GroundsThanks to our January VolunteersBy Wally Holtan, Chair, Building and Grounds Team
First off, I want to give a big thanks to everyone who volunteered for the January workday. We had a smaller turnout but accomplished many things by concentrating on smaller inside projects. Our major accomplishment was reorganization of the upper garages which have been a dumping site for all the things we no longer needed. Having that area brought back under control is a blessing, especially for me.
Our big project at this time is to identify all the major projects that have been placed on hold for an extended period of time regarding our facility. In the next few months we will own our building and the Board of Trustees is tackling the possibilities of what can be next for us as a community. In other words, do we stay or do we go? Part of that question relates to building expenses. Building and Grounds’ job is to identify the needs, the time frame in which they should be accomplished, the cost involved, and the order in which to be addressed. This is an exciting time for our community as we move forward to answer these questions.
I would especially like to thank Chris Sparks for spending his morning looking at our heating and air conditioning issues and helping us address how to approach them. Soon enough spring will be in the air and we will move outside again. During this time we can always use new volunteers to help us get things up and going. So, if you want to dip your toe into UU volunteering, our group is a wonderful place to start. Hope to see you in 2020.
Caring TeamMeet the Caring Team MembersBy Gwen Eymann, Acting Chair, Caring Team
Have you ever wondered about the people on the UUCM Caring Team and why we do what we do? For the next few months we will be featuring a statement from our team members about who we are and what this work means to us. Allow me to introduce Tom Wernigg:
"I come to UUCM primarily to build community – which, for me, must be based on respect and compassion. I want to contribute to that community in a meaningful way so I joined the Caring Team as a way of expressing my compassion for our community." - Tom Wernigg
The Caring Team, along with the facilitators from the Drop-in Support Group are taking some time to learn about community resources. Last month we had a very informative presentation about the services offered through Connecting Point 211. Heather explained about the organization, its extensive data base and referral services, educational and volunteer opportunities and much more. If you have any questions about what we learned, any member of the team would be happy to share their knowledge of this amazing resource in our community. This month we will be learning more about Full Circle Living and Dying collective. If you are interested in joining the educational portion of our meeting, you are welcome. We will start the meeting at 4pm on Tuesday, February 4 at UUCM.
The UUCM Caring Team monitors the congregation for folks who might need a hand, a ride, a meal, or a listening ear. Our strength as a congregation is reflected in the wonderful ways people have stepped up and offered to help. If you or someone you know could use help and support, please let us know.
If you are drawn to this important work of supporting others through care and kind attention, please contact me or Rev. Kevin. We meet the first Tuesday of every month at 4:00 PM at UUCM, and we'd be glad to speak with you about the ways you can participate and help serve this wonderful community.
Contact: Gwen Eymann (530) 274-7965,or email: [email protected]
Caring Team Members: Gwen Eymann, acting chair, Maryann Currington, Jenny Dewey, Penny Harlan, Robin Hart, Carol Hyndman, Anne Lyon, David Moss, Tom Wernigg
7
Justice News and Activities
Social Justice NewsFor more information, or to get involved directly with the Social Justice Team, please contact Steve Temple at [email protected] or 530-220-0995.
Donations Needed for Nevada County Pets in NeedBy Carol Hyndman, Member, Social Justice Team
Please remember donations for Nevada County Pets in Need will be collected on the first Sunday of each month when food donations are collected for the Interfaith Food Ministry. Nevada County Pets in Need serves not only pets of the homeless but also pets of lower income people. Contact Carol Hyndman (530-477-0693).
Local Volunteer Opportunities By Keith Johnson, Member, Social Justice Team
The Social Justice Team encourages all members and friends to volunteer for justice work with local non-profit organizations. UUCM’ers are already doing outstanding work for the groups listed below. Following are descriptions of each group and volunteer help that is needed. If you are moved to do so, please reach out to the designated UUCM contact person to volunteer. They will have further information about the organization and may suggest other volunteer opportunities. If you would like to recommend other service organizations to be included, or if you wish to join us on the Social Justice Team, please contact team chair Steve Temple (530-220-0995).
AnimAl PlAce, sAmmie's fRiends sHelteR, GRAss vAlley sHelteR
Animal Place cares for rescued farm animals. Sammie’s Friends and the Grass Valley Animal Control Shelter care for rescued pets. Sammie's Friends has a great foster program, and adoptions are up. They help with medical needs and food for pets whose caretakers can't afford it. All three of these organizations need help feeding, cleaning, walking, and socializing with animals. Contact Carol Hyndman (530-477-0693).
HAbitAt fOR HumAnity
UUCM makes lunches for Habitat workers on the second Wednesday of each month at 11:00 AM at the church. Contact Keith Johnson (530-265-0277).
HOsPitAlity HOuse
Hospitality House manages and operates Utah’s Place, the local homeless shelter. Hospitality House needs help in three program areas:
UUCM purchases, prepares, and serves dinner to our guests at Utah’s Place on the third and fifth Fridays of every month. Contact Keith Johnson (530-265-0277).
Hospitality House manages the Bread and Roses Thrift Store and help is needed in all aspects of store operation. Contact Cassandra Holdeman (530-575-4428).
Utah’s Place needs volunteer monitors. Contact George Dunstan (530-205-8159).
ifm
Interfaith Food Ministry provides food at least three times per week to those in need. Currently they need both drivers and packers. Contact Anne Lyon (619-933-1618).
sieRRA ROOts
Sierra Roots is a local homeless advocacy group which requests assistance in operating a cold weather shelter and their one-on-one advocacy program. Contact Keith Johnson (530-265-0277).
syRcl
The South Yuba River Citizens League is dedicated to preserving and protecting the South Yuba River. Volunteer opportunities include river monitoring, becoming a river ambassador, and clerical support. Contact Keith Johnson (530-265-0277).
8
Carbon Dividend Task Force
Task Force Reviews Webinarby Bob Miller, Justice Ministry Member,Coordinator, Carbon Dividend Candidate Task Force
Members of the Carbon Dividend Task Force met to review the recording of a webinar about “Congregations Leading on Climate.” Peter Bowden suggested that “Congregations are perfectly positioned to offer the moral leadership needed to inspire the widespread action required to address the injustices of climate impacts, and lead the transformation required.”
He recommended the establishment of a “Climate Action Team” – sounds like our Carbon Dividend Task Force. Other recommendations included passing a formal congregational resolution and making our congregation's position on climate big, bold and official.
Members of the task team at the meeting decided to each have a one-on-one conversation with members of the congregation to discover how they felt about the climate crisis. You may be one of the lucky ones to have that conversation.
Keith Johnson persuades a visitor to the Wild and Scenic Film Festival’s Environ Fair to complete a constituent letter form endorsing the Energy Innovation and Carbon Dividend act.
Nisenan Project CircleNisenan Project Circle Updateby Carmen RileyNisenan Project Circle
On behalf of CHIRP (California Heritage Indigenous Research Project), UUCM’s non-profit for the month of November, and the Nevada City Rancheria Nisenan Tribe, the UUCM Nisenan Project Circle Team would like to thank all UUCM members, friends, and visitors for their generous Pass the Plate donations in November.
The Nisenan Project Circle is very pleased and excited to announce that your generosity surpassed all their expectations as well as having broken a record for the most money given to any one specific non-profit ever. “We’re humbled, very grateful, and pleased. Thank you one and all!”
We look forward to Twenty-Twenty, when the Nisenan Project Circle will be sponsoring the UUA’s READ OF THE YEAR, The Indigenous People’s History of the United States, by Indigenous scholar and activist, Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz as one of the Team’s many up-coming events.
This extraordinarily powerful book offers an alternative narrative to Indigenous history told by traditional textbooks, politicians, media and leaders – a book that begs to be discussed and shared in trusted community such as ours. Please join us in delving into the spiritual, emotional, and
intellectual challenges presented from the Indigenous point of view.
Other plans include a half-day foothill Nisenan historian presentation for UUCM members and friends as well as plans to open this presentation to the public with suggested donations to go to CHIRP. Final details are still in the making. Stay tuned.
We continue to table for signatures in support of federal recognition for the Nevada City Rancheria Nisenan Tribe, most recently at the Wild & Scenic Film Fest.
More Nisenan activities to come!
A FREE WORKSHOP WITHH
NONVIOLENT DIRECT ACTION FOR CLIMATE JUSTICE Wed. Feb. 5, 6-9pm, Unitarian Universalist church,
246 S. Church Street,Grass Valley
Co-Sponsored by Grass Valley Friends Meeting (Quakers), Woolman, & Unitarian Universalist Community of the Mountains
9
Community Connections – Social & Spiritual Activities
Humanist Discussion Group By George Dunstan
The next meeting of Humanist Discussion Group will be on Wednesday, February 5th, at 10:30 at UUCM. Our topic will be Logical Fallacies. Below are two links on the common Logical Fallacies:
https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com
http://www.csun.edu/~dgw61315/fallacies.html
I can’t understand why anyone wouldn’t want to come to this meeting. This must be a great meeting to attend; look at all the people who show up each month. All the great leaders of our community recommend attending this meeting. This is a great meeting and the proof of that is that it is a great meeting.
If any of that reasoning makes sense to you, then you really should attend the meeting.
I look forward to seeing you on February 5th.
For further information, or to be added to the Humanism Discussion Group email list, please contact George Dunstan: 530-205-8159 or [email protected].
UUCM Walking GroupBy Theresa Houtman
Join intrepid walkers at 8:30 AM on Tuesdays and Thursdays at the Houtmans, 418 Chapel, Grass Valley. We walk a gentle two miles and then have coffee, conversation and treats. Cat- friendly dogs on leashes are welcome. Please contact Theresa Houtman at (530) 277-9294 to confirm.
Meditation GroupTuesday mornings at 9:00 AM, a self-directed group of congregants meets for an hour of meditation in the Sanctuary. Enjoy a time of inner peace and reflection with others. For more info: Shelley North-Gerson, 272-8930, [email protected].
Singing Meditation CirclefirsT ThursdaYs, 7-8:30 pm
Open to all, the Singing Meditation is an interfaith spiritual practice in which singing and shared silence alternate in a deepening rhythm. The songs and chants are drawn from a variety of religious traditions and participants are invited to bring song ideas. The music is taught as we go.
Women's Circle & PotluckmondaY, februarY 10, 6:00 pm aT uucmbook revieW and sWap
Time to search through the books you have read and pick one you are ready to pass on or share the story of a book that has had an impact on your life. For a little fun, if you want to make a dish that is mentioned in the book or from the locale in which it takes place, you can share how it relates to the story.
Hope to see you all there!
Please RSVP to the Women's group email list: [email protected]. Let us know what you plan to bring to the potluck... and remember, bring the recipe! We are still collecting your favorite recipes for the on-going cookbook project. (If you are not on the list yet, you can RSVP to [email protected].)
All UUCM women (and friends!) are invited to any Women's Circle gathering. If you are not on the Women's Group email list, please send an email to Carol Fulkerson at: [email protected] and she will add you. You'll get monthly updates and reminders of our upcoming meetings.
Men's GroupsOn Wednesday mornings, 8:30 to 10:00 in the Channing Room, and on Thursday mornings, 8:30 to 10:00, men gather to enjoy each other’s company and discuss the issues of the day or whatever takes their fancy, in an open and free-flowing way. The Thursday meeting location is at BriarPatch, 290 Sierra College Dr, Grass Valley, except for the second Thursday of each month when we meet at IHOP, 746 Taylorville Rd in Grass Valley at the Pine Creek Shopping Center.
Drop-In Support CirclesundaYs 10:50 To 11:25 am, anThonY annex
Join us in the cozy and intimate "library annex" between the two services at 10:50 AM. If you would like a safe, confidential place to share your feelings about life's challenges and give support to others, this group should be a good fit for you. Facilitators: Corrie Silva: ([email protected] or 415-204-7448), Janet Bullock, Wally Holtan and Tom Wernigg.
10
UUCM Family Ministry
What to Expect in FebruaryBy Rene Wiley, Chair, Family MinistryThe focus on Resilience in Family Ministry this month is more than welcomed. Our busy families in the year 2020 could teach us a lot about resilience. We will turn toward one another and take heart in the UU traditions and keeping of faith together, reminding ourselves and each other of stories of courage, redemption, and community.
The RE classes, both Elementary and Youth Climate Challenge, will base their exploration of resilience on a few premises:
ONE, resilience is something you can build and grow.
TWO, resilient communities are exponentially stronger and more agile than resilient individuals, so going it together is better than going it alone.
THREE, emergent theology tells us that we won’t always know the goal or the outcome of our efforts, or even the right path to take to head toward the good.
But – especially with love and support – we can figure out the next right thing to do. The resolve to do just that, the next right thing, is resilience, too.
supporT The YouTh!uucm fAmily Of Justice mOvie niGHt
tHuRsdAy, febRuARy 27 At 5:30
Everyone is invited to the UUCM Family of Justice Movie Night on Thursday, February 27 at 5:30 where we’ll be showing “The Need to Grow.” This is a documentary that, in part, inspired the creation of the youth RE class Creative Solutions for a World in Crisis. Come with your family to find resilience and action toward addressing the climate challenge with creative ingenuity based in our values that not only heal but re-create the world in a better way than we ever knew.
To watch a trailer, here's a link: https://www.earthconsciouslife.org/theneedtogrow
Family Ministry offers many ways to serve the life of the community.
Contact Rene Wiley if you’d like to find out more! [email protected]
neW oWL cLass for kindergarTen-firsT grade!Register now for our new OWL class for Kindergarten – 1st Grade
Who? …perhaps You! We are looking for two more volunteer facilitators to train this spring/summer in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program https://www.uua.org/re/owl for elementary grades K-1 and 4-6. Interested? Contact Rene at [email protected]
JOIN OWL!
WONDERING HOW TO TALKWITH YOUR K-1 CHILD ABOUTKEEPING THEIR BODY SAFE?
Studies consistently show that children who are educated abouthealthy bodies are better protected from abuse and exploitation.
Our Whole Lives (OWL) supports parents/caregivers in educating
children about birth, babies, bodies and families. Following aparent/guardian orientation, classes engage children with
stories, songs, and activities.
OWL is a comprehensive, inclusive, secular relationship andsexuality education for six age groups, beginning withkindergarten and continuing through the retired years.
Knowledge Is Protection.
Unitarian Universalist Community of the Mountains246 S Church St. Grass Valley, CA
contact: [email protected]
All classes: Sundays, 11-noonMandatory Orientation: 3/8Classes: 3/22, 3/29, 4/19, 4/26, 5/3Space is Limited to 10 children
11
Full Community Education
What Does It Mean to be a People of
Resilience?From the Soul Matters Authors
When did we decide that resilience was a solo project?
It's not that we consciously
defined it that way. It's just what we were taught, from the
time we were little until, well, today. The same thing was - and is - said in so
many ways: "Pull yourself up by your own bootstraps"; "You're stronger than you think."; "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.”; “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” The cultural message is clear: resilience depends on you - your individual toughness and inner strength. It’s a solo act. And it’s not just our culture, but our UU faith too. We also prop up this heroic and individualistic form of resilience. We UUs famously rejected the idea that human beings are depraved, sinful and weak and replaced it with the view that people are inherently worthy and strong. As one leading UU voice put it, “Our moral fiber is equal to all demands!” It’s the ultimate “You can do it!” theology. Yet at our best, we don’t stop there. We say two things at the same time: “You can do it.” and ”You don’t have to do it on your own!” Remember those folk sayings that hold up the image of a tree being able to bend with the wind? Remember how they end with a message about resilience resting in our ability to flexibly lean and bend? Well, for us UUs, another kind of leaning is just as important: the practice of leaning on those next to us! Yes, bend with the wind we say, but also remember that no one makes it through the windstorms alone. It’s all a reminder that while resilience has a lot to do with what is inside us, it equally depends on what is between us. This is where our Soul Matters framing is so important: we are indeed a people of resilience. Forget solo act; think community choir! We survive our pain by having the strength to tell others about it. We find the courage to make our way through the dark only when we sense we are not alone. Internal and individual grit only gets us so far; empathy, assurance and love from others gets us the rest of the way. Resilience has everything
to do with the water within which we swim and the web of connections that surround us. Resilient people arise from resilient relationships! So friends, this month, let’s look around as much as look within. Let’s let up on all the “grin and bear it” talk and instead grab the hand that is reaching our way. Let’s help each other remember that resilience arises not so much when we dig deep but when we remember we don’t have to do it all on our own!
fiRst sundAy bOOK GROuP - febRuARy 2, 1:00 PmAntHOny ROOm (libRARy)
The Sunday book group revisited serious and humorous insights of A Primate's Memoir. Laughing until crying was common to three of the readers.
We chose four books for the upcoming months.
On February 2, we will discuss Just Mercy by Brian Stevenson with Reine leading. This is a profound book that we may wish to discuss more thoroughly as a community.
On March 1, Theresa will facilitate our discussion of A Long Petal of the Sea by Isabel Allende. Our April meeting will feature the science fiction novel, Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel, led by Mary. Jo will guide us through The Testaments by Margaret Atwood in May. All meetings of this group are held at 1:00 PM at UUCMGV.
tHiRd WednesdAy bOOK GROuP - febRuARy 19, 2:00 PmHOutmAn Residence, 513 WAlsH, Gv
On February 19, we will discuss Made in the House of Dawn by N. Scott Momaday at Theresa’s house. Bring a sack lunch at noon if you wish to view the American Masters program on Momaday before our discussion.
We change genres in March to read a murder mystery. Kate Canan will bring her Montana background forward to lead us in a discussion of Russell Rowland’s Cold Country at Theresa’s on March 18.
On April 18, Karyn Packard will be our host at her home, 18404 Wildflower Dr., Penn Valley, as we discuss Truth AndBeauty, a non fiction offering by Ann Pachett. Questions regarding this meeting can be directed to her at 562-900-9546.
All Wednesday meetings are held at 2:00 PM.
Readers are welcome to attend either or both groups at any time. Contact Theresa Houtman, therosa48@ sbcglobal.net to RSVP or with questions.
Book Groups
12
Looking for opporTuniTies To Learn and groW?Here are some of the offerings being prepared. Watch for more information in the eChalice, and future editions of the Mt. Chalice or contact [email protected] anytime.
The Shared Pulpit (new start date): a lay sermon seminar with Rev. Kevin – rich, small group interaction and learning which gradually guide each participant to the preparation of a full sermon. Up to eight participants. Eight alternating Tuesday evenings beginning February 4. (see separate article on this page)
Quantum Mechanics and what it means to us – with resident UUCM physicists Bob Miller and Joel Houtman. Don’t know how Quantum Physics works? Well neither do the physicists! They’re still trying to figure it out. Come join us in trying to know the unknown. NO prior understanding required! Should be fun! Starts February 9 at 1:30 PM, every two weeks for six sessions. If interested, please contact Dave MacLeod at [email protected] or (530) 263-5075.
A Non-violent Direct Action for Climate Justice Workshop with the legendary George Lakey will be held on February 5, 6:00 - 9:00 PM - in conjunction with the local Friends (Quaker) community. FREE. (Please also see flyer on page 8)
Temperament Theory for You, Yours, and Us - Saturday March 28, 9:00 AM to 1:00 PMwith Rev. Karyn Packard
Spend a great morning learning more about yourself, your spouse, your children or even the folks you work and worship with. Using the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator and the Kiersey Temperament Sorter, join Rev. Karyn Packard for a time of discovery. Karyn has years of experience with interpreting and teaching these inventories in healthcare and religious environments. Lots to learn and lots of laughs.
Over 90 people in the congregation have taken this class so far, and many more have expressed interest. It is an opportunity to learn more about yourself, your partner, your children and your fellow congregants.
Contact Rev. Karyn Packard at 562-900-9546 or [email protected] if you are interested or have further questions.
The UUA Common Read is An Indigenous Peoples' History of the United States. Get and read the book any time. Join in a spring conversation led by members of UUCM's Nisenan Task Force.
Three Watershed Sermons in Unitarian History - Rev. Kevin and Keith Johnson explore three turning-point Unitarian sermons. You may participate in one, two or all three:
Adult Religious ExplorationCultivating our spiritual, emotional and intellectual strength to create a world more compassionate, sustainable and just.
• Tuesday, April 7, 5:30 to 7:00 PM "Unitarian Christianity" by William Ellery Channing (1819)• Tuesday, May 19, 5:30 to 7:00 PM. "The Commencement Address" by Ralph Waldo Emerson (1838)• Tuesday, June 16, 5:30 to 7:00 PM "The Transient and Permanent in Christianity" by Theodore Parker (1841)
Cognitive Biases and Logical Fallacies – a series of conversations with Lin Jovanovic and Dave MacLeod. More important than knowing what to think (facts) is how to think (critical thinking). Come to explore the limits and the possibilities of our thinking. If interested, please contact Dave MacLeod at [email protected] or (530) 263-5075. Dates TBD.
Starting Point - orient yourself in the journey of Unitarian Universalism - for newcomers as well as existing members. Next series begins in March. Sign up now with [email protected] and we'll keep you updated.
goT a message? tHe sHARed PulPit – A lAy seRmOn seminAR febRuARy 4 tO mAy 12 (Revised stARt dAte)
Rev. Kevin will once again lead an 8-session sermon seminar for a circle of 6-8 people. The experience has been rich and deep each of the last two years, and has led to wonderful services!
Using The Shared Pulpit, a book and a process developed by the Rev. Erika Hewitt, each person will gradually develop a complete sermon, with support, feedback and encouragement from the rest of the circle. Then, willing members will work with Worship Committee members and our Music Director to develop a service around the sermon and its theme.
This will be a significant and meaningful commitment, as the group will meet every two weeks for three hours from February 4 through May 12. The experience will function as both a space of learning and self-discovery as well as a small-group ministry, building deep connections en route to deep expression in one's authentic voice. Our hope is that these sermons/services will then be offered on Sunday mornings at some point, and so benefit the Community as well.
Sessions are scheduled from 6:00-9:00 PM on Tuesday evenings, adjusted as needed with the members of the group.
If this message-crafting possibility calls to you for the new year, if you are interested in being part of this experience, or if you have questions, contact Rev. Kevin: [email protected]
(And if you are interested but the day and time don't work for you, please let Rev. Kevin know that too.)
13
February 2020 Calendar of Events at UUCMDATE DAY TIME EVENT DESCRIPTION DATE DAY TIME EVENT DESCRIPTION
FEBRUARY 2019____________________________
2 Sunday First Sunday: Bring Food! 9:30 AM Full Community Sunday Service 10:30 AM Creative Solutions to a World in Crisis 10:40 AM Social Time 10:50 AM Drop-in Support Circle 11:30 AM Full Community Sunday Service 1:00 PM Book Group 2:00 PM UNA Event - Our Planet, Our Future 3 Monday 6:30 PM Soul Matters Exploratorium 4 Tuesday 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 9:00 AM Morning Meditation 1:00 PM Starting Point Session: Group A 4:00 PM Caring Team Meeting 6:00 PM Shared Pulpit 5 Wednesday 8:30 AM Men's Group 10:30 AM Humanism Discussion Group 1:00 PM Starting Point Session Group B 6:00 PM Climate Justice Workshop 6:30 PM Choir - Meeting Off Site 6:30 PM Starting Point Session Group C 6 Thursday 8:30 AM Men's Group at Briar Patch 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 7:00 PM Singing Meditation Circle 7 Friday 5:00 PM Vegan Potluck 9 Sunday 9:30 AM Sunday Service 10:30 AM Creative Solutions to a World in Crisis 10:40 AM Social Time 10:50 AM Drop-in Support Circle 11:30 AM Sunday Service 12:30 PM Second Sunday Salad/Soup Potluck 1:30 PM Quantum World Adult RE Workshop 1:30 PM Spiritual Practices Sampler 10 Monday 6:00 PM Women's Circle Potluck 11 Tuesday 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 9:00 AM Morning Meditation 4:00 PM Stewardship Committee Meeting 4:00 PM Challenging White Privilege Task Force 12 Wednesday 8:30 AM Men's Group 11:00 AM Habitat for Humanity Lunch Prep 4:30 PM Finance Committee Meeting 6:30 PM Choir
13 Thursday 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 8:30 AM Men's Group at IHOP 10:30 AM Writers' Group 5:30 PM Social Justice Meeting 14 Friday 9:00 AM Annual UUCM Auction set up 15 Saturday 9:00 AM Building and Grounds Work Party 5:30 PM UUCM Annual Auction & Dinner 16 Sunday 9:30 AM Sunday Service 10:30 AM Creative Solutions to a World in Crisis 10:40 AM Social Time 10:50 AM Drop-in Support Circle 11:30 AM Sunday Service 12:45 PM Family Ministry Team Meeting 18 Tuesday 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 9:00 AM Morning Meditation 6:00 PM Shared Pulpit 19 Wednesday 8:30 AM Men's Group 4:00 PM Kindergarten play rehearsal 6:30 PM Choir 20 Thursday 8:30 AM Men's Group at Briar Patch 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 2:30 PM Board of Trustees Meeting 21 Friday 4:00 PM Dinner Prep at Utah's Place 23 Sunday 9:30 AM Sunday Service 10:30 AM Creative Solutions to a World in Crisis 10:40 AM Social Time 10:50 AM Drop-in Support Circle 11:30 AM Sunday Service 1:30 PM Quantum World Adult RE Workshop 25 Tuesday 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 9:00 AM Morning Meditation 4:00 PM Challenging White Privilege Group 26 Wednesday 8:30 AM Men's Group 6:30 PM Choir 27 Thursday 8:30 AM Men's Group at Briar Patch 8:30 AM Walking Group (Meet at Houtmans') 10:30 AM Writers' Group 5:30 PM Worship Team Meeting 5:30 PM Justice Night 29 Saturday 5:30 PM Congregational Dinner
14
246 South Church St., Grass Valley, CA 95945Telephone: 530.274.1675 Website: www.uugrassvalley.org
Two Sunday Services: at 9:30 am and 11:30 am
Office Hours: Monday through Friday, 8:30 am - 12:00 pm
Rev. Kevin Tarsa Office Hours: Tuesday: 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Wednesday: 5:00 pm - 6:30 pm
Thursday: 11:00 am - 12:00 pm
UUCM STAFF MEMBERS E-MAIL ADDRESSES TELEPHONE
Reverend Kevin Tarsa, Minister [email protected] 530.274.1661
Carol Fulkerson, Office Administrator [email protected] 530.274.1675
Jordan Thomas-Rose, Music Director [email protected] 530.274.1675
Mountain Chalice Newsletter Submissions are due by the 20th of the month prior to publishing.
Submit by email in Word/Pages format (not as a pdf) or simply by typing directly into an email to:
All images should be sent as good quality jpg files separately... not imbedded in your text document.
Volunteer Team Members: Joanne Harris, Pre-Editor; Kathy MacLeod, Final Editor;Kathryn Young, Design & Layout
Staff Contributors: Rev. Kevin Tarsa and Carol Fulkerson
Unitarian Universalist Community of the Mountains
