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The existential approach to leadership a challenge for personal commitment Alfried Längle Existential Training and Leadership Academy Vienna-Zurich International Society for Logotherapy and Existential Analysis, Vienna www.et-l.org www.laengle.info www.existential-analysis.org

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The existential approach

to leadership –a challenge for personal commitment

Alfried Längle

Existential Training and Leadership Academy Vienna-Zurich

International Society for Logotherapy and Existential Analysis, Vienna

www.et-l.org

www.laengle.info

www.existential-analysis.org

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1. Existential psychology

2. Existential motivation

3. Existential goal

4. The specific attitude

5. The specific structure

6. Success – existentially seen

7. 7 existential leadership task

Agenda

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1. Existential approach to

Psychotherapy – a short profile

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1. Existential Psychology

Philosophical background:

Nietzsche – Kierkegaard –

Heidegger – Scheler – Jaspers -

Camus – Sartre – Merleau-Ponty

– etc.

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Founders:

L. Binswanger – W. Blankenburg

– J. Bugenthal – M. Boss – G.

Condrau – V. Frankl – K. Jaspers

– H. Tellenbach – R.D. Laing –

R. May– I. Yalom etc.

1. Existential Psychology

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Existential Psychotherapists

today:

Karel Balczar – Ludovico Berra – Betty

Cannon – Emmy van Deurzen – Stephen

Diamond – Bo Jakobson – Alice Holzhey-

Kunz – Christoph Kolbe – Svetlana Krivtsova

– Alfried Längle – Dmitry Leontiev – Ernesto

Spinelli – Simon du Plock – Kirk J. Schneider

– Vladimir Shumsky – Alison Strasser – Lilo

Tutsch – Paul Wong – etc.

1. Existential Psychology

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Existential Psychology =

a special section of the

Humanistic Psychology

1. Existential Psychology

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2. Existential motivation

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V. Frankl:

„People do not strive for

happiness – they strive for a

reason to be happy!“

2. Existential Motivation

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In analogy we can say:

„Leaders and coaches do not

strive for success – they strive

for a reason to be successfull!“

2. Existential Motivation

© Alfried Längle

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Reasons?

… not just luck or favorable

outer circumstances

… not cheating

… not forcing

but

2. Existential Motivation

© Alfried Längle

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Existential Reasons

1. Clear facts: knowledge,

capacities, experience, realism

2. Clear values: assessed activities,

important

3. Clear decisions: chosen by

oneself, personally engaged

4. Clear context: fits to the

circumstance, has meaning

2. Existential Motivation

© Alfried Längle

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When success and effectiveness

are well rooted

→ existential criterion:

Inner fulfillment

2. Existential Motivation

© Alfried Längle

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3. Existential goal

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Existential understanding of

human being:

Autonomous, free person

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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The existential goal:

to respect the person in

coaching and leadership

→ to connect with the human

essence

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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→ To help people to live

with inner consent

to what one does

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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The inner consent am I!

It is a personal inner felt yes –

a resonance (position) to what

one does.

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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The effect of inner consent:

➢ Intrinsic motivation

➢ Feels free

➢ Gives power

➢Makes us present

➢ Feel the value

➢ Authentic action

➢ No stress!

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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… and leads to

Commitment

Giving oneself with one‘s heart =

to be totally there.

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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The coach/leader should be felt

by the coachee/collaborators

as persons –

with their personal presence,

interest and participation.

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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Without commitment –

no existential life.

Without commitment –

no inner fulfillment.

3. The existential goal

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitude -

coaches can work on

with leaders

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4. The specific attitudes

Phenomenological attitude:(Heidegger 1967, 1975; Husserl 1950; Scheler

1980; Vetter 2007; Lleras 2000, Längle 2007)

4.1 Openness towards the other

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4. The specific attitudes

Phenomenological attitude:

Bracketing all external information

(theory, knowledge, thoughts,

experiences) – knowing nothing else

than what the coachee says and how

this impresses me (referring to the

sensing).© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

Phenomenological attitude:

= Understanding – not explaining

= Respecting the freedom of the person

– not referring to the deterministic

= no interpretation

= intuitive

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

Phenomenological attitude:

= let oneself being asked by the

actual situation [V. Frankl]

= „Existential turn“

4.2 Openness towards life

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

“It is life itself that asks questions of man. (…) it is

not up to man to question; rather he should

recognize that he is questioned, questioned by life;

he has to respond by being responsible;

and he can answer to life only by answering for

his life.” (Frankl 1973, 62)

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4. The specific attitudes

questionning, asking…dialogue towards me(= demand, requirement(s) of the situation)

ME „World“Other(s),

YOU vis-à-vis other(s)Free Person Being-in-the-World

© Alfried Längle

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questionning … dialogue(= demand, requirement(s) of the situation)

Responding

PersonME „World“

Other(s),

YOU vis-à-vis other(s)

Being-in-the-World

Dialogical reality of existence

4. The specific attitudes

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

In other words…

Being human means:

being questionned

to live means:

giving answers

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

The coach is asked:

what needs the coachee and what requires his/her situation now, and what from me?

And teaches the coachee to also look similarly at their situation.

Practically speaking:

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

4.3 Openness towards oneself

Enhance the

inner dialog!

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

© Alfried Längle

Basic principle of Existential

Psychology:

Dialogical exchange

with the world, and

with oneself

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Inner world I Outer world

4. The specific attitudes

© Alfried Längle

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4. The specific attitudes

© Alfried Längle

Without dialog with the world and

with oneself

→ one cannot find oneself

→ one cannot find one‘s meaning

But: emptiness + feelings of being

lost ► alienation

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4. The specific attitudes

© Alfried Längle

Inner dialog

→ referring to the inner self, to the

personal

→ what starts speaking within me

→ how it resonates in me

authenticity

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5. The specific structure

for coaching and

leadership

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5. The specific structure

© Alfried Längle

There is a solid and supporting

motivation

→ when s/he can do it

→ when s/he likes to do it

→ when s/he may do it

→ when s/he should do it (meaning)

→ then s/he really wants to do it

(consent)

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5. The specific structure

© Alfried Längle

If these basic structures of

existence are not given (no inner

consent)

→ it would be too little to really

invest time and life energy.

Existential coaches and leaders

support people in this existential

demand.

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5. The specific structure

© Alfried Längle

Briefly said:

1. can do → see the chances!

2. like to do → take your time!

3. may do → do your own/what

matters!

4. should do → feel what is needed!

5. want to do → realize yourself!

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6. Success – existentially

understood (V. Frankl 1985)

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6. Success

© Alfried Längle

values

intention

I

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6. Success

© Alfried Längle

values suc-cess

intention

I

I will I let be

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6. Success

values suc-cess

intention

I

I will I let be© Alfried Längle

Will and success (V. Frankl):

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7. The 7 existential

leadership tasks -

a summary

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7. The 7 existential leadership task

© Alfried Längle

1. Dialogical attitude to others (≠

discussion)

2. Openness to the situation,

existential turn

3. Phenomenological attitude &

intuition; inner, authentic dialog

4. Structural basis: 4 dimensions

(trust+info; values; taking a stand +

responsibility; meaning/becoming)

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© Alfried Längle

5. Inner consent – oneself & asking

others

6. Asking for taking positions

7. Relativizing success – but

esteeming commitment

7. The 7 existential leadership task

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© Alfried Längle

Life is not “something” –

it is

the chance

for

something.

(V. Frankl)

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Thank you for your attention!

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