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F O R T H E W O M E N O F F A I T H & H O N O R M
YM
US
LI
M
M A G A Z I N E
WEARING HIJAB
DIFFICULT?
IN THIS ISSUE:
Confessions
of a NIQABI I SPEAK FOR MYSELF
Budgeting Tips, Your Own
Hair Mask, Recipes,
Crafts, Reminders and
MUCH MORE ...
PLUS:
Connect Your Heart
To Allah MY HIJAB: The
Most Beautiful
Part of Me
HOW TO MAKE
YOUR HUSBAND
PERFECT
LETTER from the EDITOR
www.mymuslimveilmagazine.com
This Issue is entitled “I speak for Myself”,
which is aimed to be the voice of a Muslim
Woman. It is aimed to be an inspiration and
empowerment for all Muslim Women
whether those who wear Hijab or not.
I pray this will be a reminder for all us
women to be closer to Allah Almighty, to
learn our Deen (religion), to practice and
obey commands of Our Creator, because
wearing Hijab is to prove your Love for
Allah and to obey Him only.
I pray that all of us will be reminded to
please the Creator only and not the creation.
Wearing Hijab can be difficult and challeng-
ing for many of us, but keep in mind it is
also a test for the sincerity of your Faith and
love for Allah Almighty.
Be proud of who you are and don’t let any-
one make you feel down, because you are
special, you are protected roses, and this pro-
tection is given to you by the Lord of the
Worlds, all Supreme.
I hope this Issue will inspire and give
strength to all Muslim Women to show their
identity and show the world a beauty of be-
ing a Muslim Woman.
“...You are an individual with your own mind and personality....”
Sincerely,
Aysha-Anastasia Izg
WELLNESS
05 Connect Your Heart to Allah
07 Spiritual Tips for Healing
VOICES
MOTHERHOOD
15 Crochetting an Ummah
INSPIRATIONS
FAITH
19 10 Qualities loved by Allah
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By Kelthum Bal-Fadhal
By Kelthum Bal-Fadhal
By Amatullah Rose
10 Wearing Hijab Difficult?
By Juli Herman
By Sadaf Farooqi
By Rania
MY MUSLIM VEIL SUMMER ISSUE 2012
08 My Hijab: The Most Beautiful Part of Me
12 Confessions of a Niqabi
CONTENTS
By Eliesa
MARRIAGE
17 How to Make Your Husband Perfect
By Umm Aliyah
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Writers for this Issue
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RECIPES
23 At Talbina and its benefits
By Kelthum Bal-Fadhal
BEAUTY
25 Your Own Hair Mask
FAITH
28 Being Grateful: Blessed and Blissful
By Sadaf Farooqi
CONVERTS
30 My Journey to Islam
By Fatimeh Hassan
Aysha-Anastasia Izg
By Hafsa Issa-Salwe
GRAPHIC DESIGN
Aysha-Anastasia Izg
MY MUSLIM VEIL SUMMER ISSUE 2012
CRAFTS
31 Summer Butterflies
By Nida Mujahid
By Umm Aaliyah
FAMILY
21 Budgeting Tips for your Family
By Natalja K
In this time of age where it looks like
every possible hedonistic and sensual-
istic aspirations are to be realized peo-
ple have never been so unhealthy and
unhappy. Articles and blogs about
alternative medicine, natural ap-
proaches to health and wellness and
other “spiritual awakening” to deal
with stress proliferate all over the
Internet.
In a western culture that reads
‘scientifically’ based evidences with
materialistic lenses; bringing a holistic
approach to health and wellness where
spirituality takes a central stage is of-
ten perceived with contempt… Well, it
should not.
The Islamic perspective on health and
wellness has always been one of bal-
ancing the soul-mind-body where the
lack of balance would bring diseases
and ailments.
Thus the stronger our connection to
our Creator the greater the balance!
Thriving to live a life of spirituality
where we thrive to please Allah will
bring about the peace of mind and
inner happiness that everyone seem to
desperately look for. This won’t be
achieved by aiming toward materialis-
tic aspirations most of the time and
spiritual ones the rest of the time if
there are any time and energy left!
Discovering and experiencing our
spirituality will be attained by follow-
ing the precepts of the Quran and the
guidance of the Sunnah of our beloved
prophet Muhammad (peace be upon
him).
Allah Almighty said:
"And We send down of the Quran,
that which is a healing and a mercy
to the believers, and the unbelievers it
causes not except loss.” (17: 82)
Connect your heart to Allah:
In order to connect yourself to our
Creator your first and greatest re-
sources are certainly your prayers or
salah. By praying the five prayers of
the day with concentration and sincer-
ity, you release the burden of the soul
and your heart gets connected to Him.
There are enormous benefits to salah
both spiritually and physically that we
could never appreciate enough but we
By Kelthum Bal-Fadhal
Connect Your
Heart To Allah
WANT HEALING? Get it from the Source!
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL
WELLNESS
5
can certainly mention Dr Zaheer Rabeh’s
book “Seeking cure from prayers” that
shows how salah or prayers’ timing fol-
low the physiological timing of the
body.
Salah keep you away from evil deeds,
dishonor and purify your heart as the
Quran mentions:
"Establish prayer, for prayer restrains
from shameful and unjust
deeds." (29:45)
Building a close relationship to Allah is
also accomplished by engaging in Quran
reading and recitation daily, and meditat-
ing on its wisdom. A little each day is
better than reciting a lot once in a while
because it will keep you committed to
reading Quran beside a busy schedule
and will eventually become a habit.
“Verily Allah raises nations by this book
(the Qur’an) and puts down (i.e. de-
stroys) others by it.” (Muslim)
In the book of the Prophetic Medicine is
said “The heart become well when it
acquires knowledge of its Lord and
Creator and in his Names, Attributes,
Actions and Commandments....while
avoiding His prohibitions and what may
displeases Him”.
Furthermore the connection between the
well-being of your heart and your overall
health is explained in this hadith.
"There is a piece of flesh in the body if it
becomes good (reformed) the whole
body becomes good but if it gets spoilt
the whole body gets spoilt and that is the
heart." Sahih Bukhari
Tackling your ego and healing.
“Pride is dissatisfaction with the truth,
and belittling the people.” (Sahih Mus-
lim )
Through these short words, our beloved
Prophet (peace be upon him) gave a deep
and comprehensive description of ego.
And Allah’s loath of an ego inclining
toward evilness is mentioned numerous
times in the Quran.
“Indeed, He does not love the
proud.” (16:23)
The ego or nafs ( soul) is the source
behind the too many psychological
and emotional distresses and pains.
Sorrow, regrets, vanity, resentment,
jealousy, guilt, anger, grudge and
other negative or repressed feelings
and emotions often manifest in your
life in the form of mental and physical
ailments when not dealt in a construc-
tive manner.
Islam preaches for forgiveness, pa-
tience and humility by contemplating
and pondering over Allah’s Com-
mandments in the Quran and the
teaching of Prophet Mohammed
(peace be upon him) which ultimately
brings healing and inner peace.
Allah says; “Seek help with patience
and prayer: it is indeed hard, except
to those who are humble.” (2: 45)
Therefore, don’t archive your negative
memories and the hurt you have ex-
perienced! Don’t keep grudge and
grow ill feelings toward those who
have wronged you. Let go of the grief
and sorrow; practice remembrance/
dhikr of Allah continuously and re-
mind yourself of the reward of Allah
when you choose to forgive and let go:
“The gates of Jannah (Paradise) will
be opened on Mondays and on Thurs-
days, and every servant of Allah who
associates nothing with Allah will be
forgiven, except for the man who has a
grudge against his brother. About
them it will be said, ‘Delay these two
until they are reconciled. Delay these
two until they are reconciled. Delay
these two until they are reconciled.”
(Sahih Muslim, Malik and abu
Dawud.)
When tested by Allah Almighty in
your health, wealth, family, status and
relationships; it can either strengthen
or weaken your faith. Accept those
tests with humility and patience but
never feel self-pity, or resent those
tests; as this will make your ego
stronger therefore dampening your
Iman (Faith).
“Be sure We shall test you with some-
thing of fear and hunger some loss in
goods or lives or the fruits (of your
toil) but give glad tidings to those who
patiently persevere.” (2:155)
Often forgiveness is seen as this gran-
diose act of generosity when in reality
it could be interpreted as a decision
with rather a selfish endeavor: it is a
decision that benefits YOUR faith,
YOUR physical health and YOUR
psychological well-being! Dealing
with the major stress factors in your
life IS by far the second most impor-
tant step you need to take to restore
and balance your health! But being
able to forgive and letting go of those
negative emotions and thoughts are
tasks only a ‘deflated’ ego will allow
you to overtake. The consequences of
pride are not only destructive in this
life but might bring upon you the ulti-
mate lost as Allah says:
“So enter the gates of Hell to dwell
therein. Indeed evil is the abode of the
proud.” (16:29)
Finally keep in mind and in your own
paradigm that whatever hardship you
have faced it is already written as it is
the Will of Allah!
“No calamity befalls on the earth or in
yourselves but it is inscribed in the
Book of Decrees (Al Lawh Al
Mahfooz) before We bring it into exis-
tence. Verily, that is easy for Allah.”
This leaves you with essentially two
choices: the chance to practice pa-
tience and show your love and trust to
Allah or spiritually rail against those
difficulties in your existence and live
with the consequences that this path
will cause to occur…It is your free-
will.
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL 6
SPIRITUAL TIPS FOR HEALING
1-Focus your Intention toward Al-
lah Almighty only!
Strive to bring awareness of Allah Almighty to
your life by constantly focusing your intention to-
ward Him only. Whatever deeds you do, thoughts
you mind and speech you speak is to connect your-
self to Allah.
2- Practice Gratitude!
Because you do not attribute your ability to worldly
causes, you know deep inside that you owe every-
thing to Allah Almighty alone and thus avoid as-
cribing any associates to Him.
If you tried to number Allah's blessings, you could
never count them. Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most
Merciful. (16:18)
3-Make Du’a (Supplication):
Du’a is a great weapon for the believer. Ask Allah
Almighty for shifa (healing) as He is The Healer
(Al Shafi) and put your trust with Allah.
4-Make sincere repentance/tawba to
Allah: Do not fear anyone and anything (any disease) but
Him. Never despair of Allah’s mercy and forgive-
ness!
Truly, Allah loves those who turn unto Him in
repentance and loves those who purify themselves.
(2:222)
5-Practice patience:
Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim said,
“There are three types of patience: firstly,
practicing patience to fulfill the obligations
and to do righteous; secondly, abstaining
from evil and prohibited acts; and thirdly,
practicing patience during times of hardship
without complaints.”
6-Practice Dhikr/remembrance
daily:
In your mind, out loud practice dikhr, recite
suras (chapters of Holy Quran): make it a
habit so that is it Allah’s name that comes
first in your heart and mind when you feel
fear or joy.
Alhamdulillah (praise be to Allah, Asthagh-
firullah ( I seek forgiveness from Allah),
Subhanallah (Glory be to Allah), Allahu Ak-
bar (Allah is the Greatest) must accompany
your thoughts and speech.
7- Be optimistic!
Through illnesses and diseases Allah is test-
ing you and the test is to change YOU. Allah
tests those He loves.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
"When Allah desires good for someone, He
tries him with hardships." (Sahih Bukhari)
8- Be generous:
Give Zakaat. In Arabic, the term zakaat liter-
ally means purification of the heart.
Offer sadaqa (charity). Anything given gen-
erously - freely to others - with the inten-
tion of pleasing Allah is sadaqa. It can be
as simple as a smile, or removing objects
or trash from the road or path.
(Generosity does not lie in giving away
something that is no longer wanted but in
giving freely from the things we love or
need in order to please Allah.)
9- Fast voluntarily to seek the
pleasure of Allah: Fasting in general and voluntary fasting
in particular is a great worship. Fasting is
not restricted to Ramadhan. It is an act of
worship that can draw you closer to Al-
lah. It is also a great way to detoxify and
cleanse your body and soul.
Abu Tharr Al-Ghefari said: "The Messen-
ger of Allah, peace be upon him, said "O
Abu Tharr! if you fast three days of every
month, then fast the 13th, the 14th and
the 15th [these are call the al-ayaam al-
beedh, the white days]". (Sahih Ahmad,
an-Nasaa'i and at-Tirmithi)
10- Smile, it is Sunnah!
And it is therapeutic too .
Connecting your heart to Allah with the
enlightenment and true guidance of the
Quran and Sunnah and practicing jihad al
nafs (tackling the ego) is the ultimate way
to wellness of the mind body and soul in
this world and the Success and Happiness
in the Hereafter.
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL
By Kelthum Bal-Fadhal
7
VOICES
“...they would pass happily and beautifully wrapped in their hijabs; they
all looked so beautiful and clean, like protected roses...”
By Amatullah Rose
As I thoughtfully gaze out of
the window of my room, the
beautiful and soft voice of the
adhan (call to prayer) stirs me
from my silent reverie. I hurry
to perform my wudhu
(ablution) and pray salah
(prayer), although I feel sad to
break from my moment of re-
flection, but I know that Allah
always comes first before any-
thing.
I remember that it was around
the same time of the season –
autumn, sad, but beautiful with
its multi-coloured leaves fal-
ling on the ground – that I was
still lost and did not know
which way to go.
But Allah is the One Who is
the Most Merciful, and He is
the One and Only Who contin-
ues to guide mankind toward
the right path and towards
Himself. Although I was born
in a Muslim family, I had
never prayed salah, been to the
masjid (mosque), or worn the
hijab (headscarf)
So in a similar moment, as I
was looking outside the win-
dow and reflecting over my
life and my purpose here in
this dunya (worldly life), I sud-
denly noticed a sister beauti-
fully covered with hijab amidst
the traffic and bustle of the city.
As I recall from that time, a few
years ago, it was quite rare to
see a Muslimah covered prop-
erly with hijab, even though our
city is predominantly Muslim.
This sister looked so beautiful
and modest in her white hijab,
carefully wrapped over her head
with the lowered end of her
scarf over her shoulders, that I
thought: Ya Allah, how beauti-
ful is this Islamic cloth? I have
never seen anything more beau-
tiful in my life!
The message that
this cloth was
conveying to
me was the es-
sence of mod-
esty and the pin-
nacle of Mus-
lim identity.
I wished to
call out
“Salaam”
to her, but
as I was
not
cov-
ered myself, I felt shy to do so. How-
ever, in that very moment that I was
going to turn my head away to an-
other direction, my kind Muslim sis-
ter smiled to me and called out to
me, “Salaam.”
Days passed by, but the image of that
sister in hijab from our train station
refused to leave my mind. I would
watch out for sisters at my school, on
the street, in the market, as they
would pass happily and beautifully
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL
8
Article was originally published by
www.igotitcovered.org and is been republished
with permission. Like Protected Roses
wrapped in their hijabs; they all
looked so beautiful and clean,
like protected roses.
I thought: Is there anything more
beautiful than this rose garden
which is watered by iman (faith)
and true belief in Allah? Al-
though I was already dressing
modestly, I still could not ignore
the way men would look at me.
So I made du’a (supplication) to
Allah: please protect me from
these kind of lustful glances, be-
cause, ya Allah, I know that this
is wrong.
I would close my eyes and try to
imagine what it would feel like,
walking fully covered in hijab. I too
would imagine myself smiling and
happy like those sisters I saw daily. I
thought how safe and secure I would
feel, and that with every step I took, I
would be in a state of ‘ibadah( wor-
ship) to Allah, and proudly proclaim-
ing my belonging to the Deen( relig-
ion) of Allah. But when I would
open my eyes again, I would see my-
self back where I was, still uncov-
ered; but only Allah knows how
great this yearning of my heart
was…
I called out: Ya Allah, please
help me so that one day, I too
have enough courage and
faith in You to cover, and
that through it, I may be
able to fulfill my iman
(faith) and my iden-
tity as a Muslimah.
My heart was
alone in making
du’a( supplica-
tion), and I
prayed to
Allah that
He help
me to
wear
my
Hi-
jab
with dignity and everything else
that it represents.
“Insha’Allah (God willing),” I
thought to myself.
Alhamdulillah (Praise and
thanks be to Allah) a hundred
times over, that Allah accepted
my du’as (supplications). He is
the the Only Rabb (Sustainer),
and He is sufficient for His Ser-
vants who put their trust only in
Him. The day I covered myself
with hijab was the happiest day
of my life; and with the help of
Allah, my family also happily
accepted my decision and were
very proud of me. My father
told me, “Everything is more
beautiful and has better value if
it is covered and protected from
strangers.”
I know that Allah hears every
beat of my heart, and I know
that when we honestly and truly
rely only on Him, and make
du’a and ask help only from
Him, Allah will never leave us
to ourselves.
“Allah (Alone) is Sufficient for us, and He is the Best Disposer of
affairs (for us).” (3:173)
And now I get up with tears in
my eyes and open an old
wooden box near my bed, the
contents of which I take out for
my salah (prayer). This scarf, I
bought only few days ago. It is
so beautiful: emerald in color
and silky to the touch.
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By Eliesa
“...Why should others’
opinions matter regarding
what you wear? Each one
of us is an individual, with
a unique mind and per-
sonality…”
Wearing Hijab
DIFFICULT?
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL 10
You may believe that using a long piece
of material to cover the hair and bosom
is relatively easy from the outset. How
much more different can it be really,
than wearing any other piece of cloth?
But the reality is that it is indeed an
amazingly difficult thing to do in some
cases. There are numerous reasons for
this apparent difficulty, but the main
reason is usually in the mind of the
wearer –a type of paranoia really.
Why should others’ opinions matter re-
garding what you wear? Each one of us
is an individual, with a unique mind and
personality. Then why is it that we let
the thoughts and opinions of others get
to us so much? We shouldn’t think about
what people think, but rather focus on
what Allah thinks and what pleases Him
alone, and voila! The task becomes easy.
It really does. If you totally and entirely
block out people’s opinions and do not
let them effect you, it surely will be so
much easier.
My own struggle with Hijab (headscarf)
wasn’t because of what other people
thought. I didn’t care. I personally don’t
tend to follow any trends or the current
fashion and I try not to let such things
cloud my judgments. I am my own indi-
vidual and have a right to express what I
think, thus I should do so in the best way
possible. Alhamdulilah (praise and
thanks be to Allah) if I am in a crowd of
people and I am considered the ‘odd’
one out, I do not consider this to be of
any importance; these opinions are just
that: opinions. Why should I let it affect
me as an individual and my beliefs?
My motto for anybody in this situation
is: Just do not care about what ‘people’
think. On the Day of Judgment, in front
of Allah, that feeble excuse will hold no
value and it will not help you in any
way. We shouldn’t be so influenced by
these types of people, who in fact, will
be dragging us down with them to de-
struction, may Allah save us from this.
My personal struggle wasn’t related to
the opinions of people, but with my own
father. The very place I should have re-
ceived praise and encouragement is
where I got the exact opposite. I was
ridiculed, threatened, demeaned, ig-
nored, verbally abused, bad-mouthed,
belittled, and cursed even! It was one of
the toughest things I had to go through,
especially since I was actually standing
up for the right thing. Being put through
this test was indeed very difficult. How
could I argue or even voice my reasons?
I could not.
I smiled and cried through it all. I felt
humiliated, saddened, maddened, on the
verge of giving up; it really felt as
though I was in the thick of the storm,
and this storm lasted a couple of years.
But Alhamdulilah (praise and thanks be
to Allah), I remained steadfast in my
decision, did not give up, did not give in.
The two years felt as though they would
never end. But Alhamdulilah the storm
eventually passed and there was light at
the end of the tunnel.
Just by enduring this test, I realized it
had made me stronger. This occurred at
the beginning of my journey to Islam,
from the time I decided to adhere to the
way of life Allah has chosen. This
change in my life was not easy to begin
with, but it became the best and easiest
choice I made, with the help of Allah,
SubhanAllah (glory be to Allah).
Looking back, I am now actually thank-
ful for this test. Maybe through my fa-
ther’s actions towards me, I hopefully
passed a test that will benefit me in the
Hereafter InshaAllah (with Allah’s will).
At least, it helped me to become a
stronger minded Muslim Alhamdulillah
( praise and thanks be to Allah).
My words of support would be: It is
worth it. Allah puts those whom He
loves through these trials. Do not lose
hope. Stay strong in what you are doing,
especially if it is for the sake of Allah
The Most High. Believe and accept it
with your heart, not only your mind and
what you set out to achieve will become
easier with the permission of Allah.
Article was originally published by
www.igotitcovered.org and is been
republished with permission.
”Stay strong in what you are doing, especially if it is for the sake of
Allah. Believe and accept it with your heart, not only your mind…”
MY MUSLIM VEIL SUMMER ISSUE 2012
11
“...HER SILHOUETTE
framed against the back-
drop of the fading eve-
ning light, who had
caught my attention as a
teenager.”...who moved
my heart in a way that I
could henceforth
never forget….”
Of a NIQABI
CONFESSIONS
By Sadaf Farooqi
“..But you know, sometimes Allah places a yearning in
your heart that you can no longer ignore, and once I
started it, I have never had any second thoughts, even if
it is sometimes difficult….”
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL 12
“But why do you do niqab (face veil)?”
a cute 7-year-old girl asks when she sees me
try to take a sip from the straw in my tall glass
of cold coffee from behind my niqab (face
veil). “Why?”
Why, indeed? At times, when I walk across the
road in the bright sunlight, or cross glass-
walled shops in a busy marketplace and catch a
glimpse of my loosely-garbed figure, I catch
myself reflecting upon my silhouette: a figura-
tive “shadow”, so to speak, covered top to toe
in flowing garments, with little more than my
eyes, hands and parts of my feet visible.
At moments like these, I feel a sudden rush of
gratitude towards my Creator for guiding me to
modestly cover myself up like this. My mind
then wanders down memory lane, to my life
more than a decade ago, when it was a similarly
dressed woman passing by me, her silhouette
framed against the backdrop of the fading eve-
ning light, who had caught my attention as a
teenager, making me ponder upon my own
comparatively immodest persona as I gazed at
her in awe, transfixed; who moved my heart in
a way that I could henceforth never forget.
“Does my lipstick look too dark?” one of my
friends had asked as she peered into the rear-
view mirror of her parked car. We had stopped
at the store on the way to a girlfriend’s house
for a get-together. As the three of us waited in
the car, overdressed to the hilt for the school-
girl party, a small group of men standing
nearby gawked lustfully at us 17-year-olds,
leering, snickering and making vulgar facial
expressions. I tried to quell the guilt that welled
up inside me, and I suddenly wished there was
a barrier or a cover between us and them, to
shield us from their vile gaze. I regretted hav-
ing put on the bright lipstick and letting my
untied hair cascade in loose curls over my
shoulders, even though I knew I had done so
only as a natural, feminine quest to “dress up”
for a girls’ party.
And just at that moment, wrought with guilt,
was when I saw her.
Wearing a graceful abaya and hijab that cov-
ered her from head to toe, the niqab pulled
gracefully across her face showing just
her eyes, she glided across the road. I
observed her for a few seconds, in awe
and admiration. I then looked back at the
men who were still gawking at us over-
dressed young tarts.
Not one of them even so much as raised
an eye in her direction.
It was one of those life-changing mo-
ments. Thenceforth, outwardly I ap-
peared and acted the same, but inside, I
had changed forever. I just knew that I
wanted to adhere to the Islamic dress
code, even though I presumed that I
would never be able to.
Back in the car, overcome with shame
and guilt, I suddenly pined to be able to
take up hijab and niqab like that graceful
lady, and felt so cheap and easy in com-
parison to her, because of being openly
available for the world to leer at when-
ever I dressed up, especially since I was
at an age that lies at the threshold of a
woman’s youthful, feminine good looks.
Respect
Groups of girls and boys stand along
classroom doorways and corridors; and
hang out chatting on stairways, around
tables in the cafeteria, or sitting cross-
legged on the sprawling campus lawn.
Gossip, teacher-bashing, academics,
exams, and the latest films or television
programs are hot discussion topics. Pep-
pered throughout the conversations are
disguised flirtations, sly comments,
underhandedly vulgar jokes, and mock-
ery disguised as harmless teasing.
Sometimes, a guy would cross the line,
and the whole group would break
out in loud guffaws as the young girl
who was the target of his jibe turned
beetroot red with humiliation and self
consciousness, lowering her gaze and
wishing she could get up and leave that
very instant.
But she wouldn’t. She’d swallow her guilt
and remain sitting with them, even though
she loathed the company of most of the
people in her so-called “friends” clique.
Welcome to the timeless dilemma faced by
youth!
First as a teenager and then more so as a
twenty year old, I sought respect from
members of the opposite gender. I wished
they would not stare at me or “check me
out” when I moved around outside. From
the moment I had turned thirteen, till I hit
twenty-one, I found the lewd stares of guys
and men disconcerting and downright de-
meaning.
When I visited my girlfriends’ homes, even
their fathers and brothers would repeatedly
approach us girls, trying to be friendly and
cracking insipid jokes just to make us
laugh. Even the portly, balding and rotund
“Uncles” in my extended family, who used
to ignore me as a child, now lavished un-
welcome attention upon me at weddings
and other family events.
I craved respect and honor. I wished every
man would treat me like a lady, not eye
candy or easy entertainment. Yes, that is
the appropriate word: easy. Guys and men
assumed they could look at me or talk to
me as and when they wished.
All praise to Allah, all of that has changed
now that I wear the hijab and niqab.
The Difference
I have a date with my childhood girlfriend
at a local cafe where we have dined for
years. As I get out of my car and enter the
chic eatery, every man I pass by, from the
random guys loitering on the street, to the
doorman, to the manager and waiters in-
side, avert their gaze with respect.
“Assalamu alaikum,” says the doorman
while looking at the floor, gallantly swerv-
ing the door extra-wide open for me.
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“Wa alaikum ussalam…,” I say in a
business-like and somewhat gruff
tone, looking straight ahead and walk-
ing on without as much as a second
glance his way.
The same respect is shown by the
manager as he points me towards a
table, and the waiter as he hands me a
menu card. Eyes of all men who inter-
act with me remain averted; gazes
lowered with respect. Even as waiters
take my order, they do not look at me
to make direct eye contact, except
perhaps fleetingly when I explain what
I’d like to order.
When I contrast the way the same
men’s behavior changes as they inter-
act with other ladies who enter the
cafe, I marvel at the enormous power
of this seemingly small piece of cloth
that falls over my face.
Because, really, it is just the niqab that
has made the whole difference. I could
feel the enormous change in the way
non-mahrum men interacted with me
in public places the minute I started to
cover my face, even though I was
wearing the head cover and abaya
since long before that.
They would step out of my way with-
out my telling them to, or waiting for
them to. They’d look elsewhere when
talking to me, whether it was a male
cousin at an Eid dinner party, or a
salesman at a shop. They loose the
flirtatious, non-serious demeanor and
the lopsided, cocky smile the minute
they need to interact with me. They
hold doors open for me wider than
needed.
“Why do you cover your face? It is not
obligatory!” demand to know some
sisters in my circle; those who tried it
and gave up, as well as those who
have yet not felt inclined to tread into
this “masked” territory.
“It is a gray area of fiqh. There are two
opinions about niqab.”
“It scares away non-Muslims. It makes you
a target of persecution, discrimination and
racist attacks.”
“It stifles you, and impedes breathing.”
As they continue making such comments
in my presence, something that has been
happening throughout the past 11 years
(ever since I started niqab), perhaps more
as excuses for their not being able to do
niqab, I smile as I ruefully shake my head
at their so-called ‘logical reasoning’, my
heart totally at rest with my decision to
cover my face, comforted by the belief that
I would not have it any other way. Yes, I
would not remove this seemingly tedious
and tiresome flap on my face even if some-
one paid me to do it!
Because when I started out on my face-
veiling journey, I did it solely to earn the
pleasure of Allah, because I knew that the
wives of our beloved Prophet () and the
women of the Ansar used to cover their
faces (Sahih Al-Bukhari).
However, as I went along this sometimes
thorny path, I started to marvel at the won-
derful worldly benefits the face-veil brings
to a Muslim woman. Just like we pray our
daily salah solely for Allah’s pleasure, but
eventually look forward to, and enjoy, the
peace of mind and serenity of the soul that
it helps us attain, so do I love the way my
niqab automatically forces men to act re-
spectfully and dignifiedly towards me,
without my having to request them to.
At parties and gatherings, no one dares
take my photograph (not even sisters),
which is a great relief in the current age of
photo-sharing via online social media,
where tags instantaneously land your pho-
tos on the desktop and smartphone screens
of numerous strangers all over the globe.
People avoid cracking vulgar and crass
jokes in my presence, unlike when I used
to just cover my head. Last but not
least, I can smile and grin silently
when having an enjoyable conversa-
tion with my husband and children in
public, knowing that none of the male
onlookers around would take my grin
the wrong way, simply because they
cannot see it. Oh, and did I mention, I
can wear bright lipstick when out and
about just because I want to look good
to myself, without feeling guilty that
some lecher would take it as an invita-
tion to flirt?
“Why do you wear niqab?” asks the
innocent little 7-year-old girl. I look at
her lovingly and pause to think care-
fully before responding.
“I do it, jaan, simply because I want
to, not because of some fatwa or fiqhi
ruling regarding it being obligatory or
supererogatory. I resisted the urge to
do it for as long as I could. But you
know, sometimes Allah places a
yearning in your heart that you can no
longer ignore, and once I started it, I
have never had any second thoughts,
even if it is sometimes difficult.”
She smiles and nods, looking down at
her ice cream. I smile too, because
even if she cannot see my lips, I know
that my smile reaches my eyes as a
warm glow.
As I glance at my dark silhouette re-
flected upon the glass doors of shops
when I move around in public, I won-
der if some day, some where, some
young girl will notice me walking
past, and perhaps, just by looking at
the way I carry myself and the way
men lower their gaze and leave my
path as I pass by, she will be moved to
do something she never thought
she would have the guts to do?
Because, believe me, young girls
never forget those older women who
inspire them in poignant moments of
introspection and self-analysis that
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CROCHETING AN UMMAH (Nation)
As I maneuver my cro-
chet hook over the taut yarn,
pull it through the loops, and
form yet another double crochet
stitch on my baby blanket in
progress, I silently lament the
unevenness of my stitches.
Some are loose, some are tight
and some are just nice. I stop
crocheting and look the blanket
over, laying it on the couch. It
appears fine. The loose, tight,
and perfect stitches seem to
blend together nicely. I can’t
tell one loose stitch from one
tight stitch unless I scrutinize
each stitch, though after looking
it over for a while, I am able to
spot the imperfections. Not
willing to undo my work and
start over, I sigh, pick it up, and
continue my hook and pull mo-
tions, adding more ‘garden vari-
ety’ stitches into my first ever
crocheted baby blanket.
Parenting is very much
like crocheting. The first cro-
cheted piece will generally be
full of imperfections and mis-
takes. My mother says “The
first child is the guinea, that’s
where most mistakes are made
by the parents.”
As a first child, I have to
agree. I think of my daughter,
my first child. She is my first
‘crocheted’ piece. There are a
lot of too tight and some very
loose stitches in that piece. I
was a young, inexperienced
mother when she came along.
Everything was new, and a lot
of parenting was by trial and
error. Though the piece has
grown to a considerable size
By Juli Herman
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL 15
MOTHERHOOD
now, I suppose it looks fine, but
upon closer scrutiny, one can
probably pick out the imperfec-
tions; the tight stitches pulling
the overall piece one way, and
the loose stitches making up for
that pull. Whatever mistakes I
made in parenting her, I have
tried to correct, but just like cro-
cheting, sometimes, you don’t
realize you have made a mis-
take in the first row after you
have stitched the tenth row, and
so you have to live with that
mistake.
With subsequent
children, skills im-
prove, and wisdom
in choice of colors
and hook size are
bound to deepen.
No longer do you
struggle to create
each stitch as you
did the first time.
Your fingers are
more nimble, and
you might even be
able to crochet
with your eyes
closed! Ok, maybe
not, but at least
you won’t have
glaring holes as a
result of very loose
stitches, or skewed
edges.
Just like crochet-
ing, parenting involves a lot of
experimenting. You try new
stitches, thinking they look
cool, and sometimes that par-
ticular stitch turns out to be too
much of a hassle and you try
another kind of stitch. You try
some endorsed parenting meth-
ods, especially if you are trying
to break a cycle of “Because I
told you so,” from your own
childhood experiences. Some
methods might sit well with you
and your children, some might
not, just like the many variations
of crochet stitches.
In crochet, you need to be
aware of your work in progress so
you can undo imperfect stitches
and redo them as soon as they
happen. So too with parenting. It
takes self awareness to realize
that you should have spent some
time answering your five year-
old’s curious questions rather
than brushing her off curtly. Un-
fortunately, some parents move
on with no awareness whatsoever
and repeat the mistakes over a
period of years, never realizing
them until they have a crocheted
piece in progress that is horribly
skewed. No amount of pulling,
straightening, or easing would fix
it. In that case, it would take a lot
of work to undo those stitches and
rectify them.
This is where the task of
crocheting, I mean, parenting,
splits between you and Allah.
While parents do all they can to
give proper tarbiyyah
(upbringing) to their children, the
end result is not directly corre-
lated to their effort. Allah may
test them with their children. It’s
a humbling experience when I
began to realize that despite my
effort, or despite my mistakes,
Allah’s mercy and wisdom can
land me with either unexpected
skewed stitches or perfect rows.
So many parenting methods give
you the feeling that if you do this,
your children will behave this
way or that way. But being Mus-
lims, we have to remember that
guidance is in the hands of Allah.
He is the changer of hearts and
thus, our children’s guidance is in
His hands. We can only convey.
We can only continue to stitch
with persistence, patience, and
joy. Sometimes, you will be
tested in that the good girl you
have raised and educated
throughout the years suddenly
takes off her hijab and starts to
hang out with less than good
company, breaking your heart
in the process. You advise her,
and continue to advise her and it
gets very challenging because
she is already an adult. You can
only do so much. Yet, take sol-
ace in making du’a
(supplication) for her, and hope
that she is turned back to Al-
lah’s path and dies in the high-
est state of iman (faith), even if
this happens long after you are
gone.
As parents, we have the
honor and responsibility of pro-
ducing wonderfully crocheted
pieces to add to other crocheted
pieces in the world. As mothers,
we have the honor and responsi-
bility of working closely and
directly with the hook and yarn.
As Muslim mothers, we have
the honor and blessing of im-
mersing in each stitch, the man-
ners and teachings of the
Prophet peace be upon him. The
hand that crochets an individual
Muslim, crochets the whole um-
mah (nation).
Juli Herman is a stay-at-
home homeschooling mother of three
teenagers and one kindergartener.
Her ‘crocheted pieces’ are still in
process. There are days when she
wishes she could unravel and start all
over again, and there are days when
she is thankful for the results so far.
She occasionally blogs at
juliherman.wordpress.com.
“...But being
Muslims, we
have to re-
member that
guidance is in
the hands of
Allah. He is
the changer of
hearts and
thus, our chil-
dren’s guid-
ance is in His
hands…”
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You have the ring on your finger, the nikah
certificate somewhere safe and you’ve
settled into being Mrs Married. But are you
feeling a little deflated about married life?
Were you hoping it would be a whirlwind
of romantic gestures and that you would be
showered with gifts every day? Is your
husband falling short of your expectations?
We often hear the phrase “a woman will
always try to change a man”. Whilst this
might not be true in every case, it is true a
lot of the time. We never seem to be satis-
fied with what we have. But maybe it’s not
that our husbands are falling short of the
standards we are judging them by, but
rather, our expectations are all wrong.
As practising Muslimahs we need to seek
the best guidance when it comes to helping
us lead the best lives. So, how have we
been measuring how good our husbands
are? Have we been considering the guid-
ance in the Quran and Hadith – the authen-
tic sources - to assess our spouses? Or have
we been influenced by films, television and
romance novels?
What the Media Says:
He should be showering you with lavish
gifts
Do the superficial, external gestures
really matter when we get down to
things? Of course every girl wants to be
made to feel special but maybe a lack of
gifts doesn’t mean he is not a good hus-
band – maybe the way we think needs to
be re-assessed. Where have we learned
that receiving copious amounts of gifts
means our husbands love us? Do we
compete with our peers as to which of us
receives the best presents?
Consider why material things make you
happy and think about how long the after
-glow of a gift lasts. At the end of the
day – do gifts really make you happy?
If you expect material gifts all the time,
or demand expensive gifts or otherwise
you are not happy, consider whether
your heart is in need of repair and
whether you need Islamic balance be-
tween the dunya (worldy life) and the
deen (religion). The Prophet, peace be
upon him, said to live in this life like
travellers. Hundreds of Prada and Gucci
handbags are definitely not practical
accessories for a journey.
What the authentic sources say:
“…the best of you are those among you
who are best to their wives." [Tirmidhi].
Remember that material possessions are
not the be all and end all. Flowers wilt,
chocolates melt (and get eaten!) and jew-
ellery won’t comfort your heart when
you are sad. But your husband’s good
treatment of you is a far more long-
HOW TO MAKE
YOUR HUSBAND PERFECT
By Umm Aaliyah
MARRIAGE
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lasting token of love. Consider the intangi-
ble gifts he gives you and place the value
on them that they deserve. Think about
how your husband treats you – is he atten-
tive? Does he look after you, comfort you,
and put up with your annoying habits? Ask
yourself - what would you prefer; a hus-
band who buys you everything you want or
a husband who asks you about your day
and really cares about the answer?
There’s nothing wrong with receiving –
and giving – gifts to each other. "The mes-
senger of Allah, peace be upon him, used
to accept gifts and give gifts in re-
turn." [Bukhari]. Just make sure you appre-
ciate anything he gives you – even if it is a
daisy plucked out of the earth.
Why not give your husband material gifts
now and again too. These don’t have to be
expensive: the gift could be a homemade
item or a token doesn’t cost much but re-
minds you of a joke you shared or a day
out. Aim to be the one who is best to her
husband in the way you treat him.
What the Media Says:
He should be writing you love poetry
Whilst love poems are great as they show
time spent, care taken and are tangible to-
kens of affection – not to mention they are
gestures that remind you of your favourite
film and book heroines – on their own,
they are not enough.
None of us are perfect wives with unlim-
ited talents so is it fair that we expect our
husbands to be good at everything? Some
husbands may be fantastic poets and can
express their love with beautiful words that
melt your heart – but if your husband isn’t
the most verbose then look for other signs
that tell you how he feels.
If your husband doesn’t write you beautiful
love poetry, don’t despair! Remember that
husbands are all individual, just as wives
are, and focus on the ways that he does
show you his love.
What the authentic sources say:
“…live with them [wives] on a footing of
kindness and equity” [Noble Quran 4:19]
The Quran says the best husband is the
one who is best to his wife and this is
characterised by his kindness towards
her. What are the ways your husband
expresses his kindness towards you?
Does your husband ever look at you,
perhaps with the utmost love, without
saying a word? Perhaps he feeds you
when he is eating, without you even hav-
ing to ask, just because he wants to
share? Perhaps he respects you and seeks
your opinion on matters? These gestures
hold more love than any poem could
express. Are we being fair if our hus-
bands don’t express their love in the
form of love poetry when other things
they do and say tell us everything we
need to know? A poetic husband is nice
but one who treats you with kindness
and on an equitable basis, is even better.
What the Media Says:
He should be whisking you away on
romantic surprise holidays
don’t waste your life comparing your
marriage to a film where the man se-
cretly plans a 5* holiday complete with
private jet for the woman, and has even
packed her suitcase, with every item she
needs. Be realistic in your expectations
and align them in accordance with what
you know your husband is capable of.
Some men will be good at planning me-
ticulously to arrange surprises and be
good at grand gestures but some won’t.
Your husband may not be able to pull
things off as perfectly as you have seen
on television, where a script and a false
world make everything seem perfect, but
give him credit for any gestures that his
abilities – and wallet – allow for.
You could also try organising a romantic
surprise getaway yourself and remember
that romance and thoughtful gestures
work both ways. You might inspire him
to plan a future trip himself!
What the authentic sources say:
"And among His Signs is this, that He
created for you mates from among your-
selves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity
with them, and He has put love and
mercy between your (hearts). Verily in
that are Signs for those who re-
flect." [Qur'an 30:21]
Allah SWT has made the risq (provision)
levels of human beings vary from one an-
other as a means to test us. Not all hus-
bands can afford to take their wives on sun
-drenched holidays to exotic climes and of
those who can afford it, there will be many
who do not think about romantic gestures
like this or may have set their priorities a
little differently. Discuss what your needs
are – don’t make him guess and remember
that balance in this world is the key to suc-
cess in the next. Appreciate any gestures
he does for you and if it isn’t a trip away,
thank Allah for your husband’s considera-
tion, however he may show it.
All of our husbands will do things that
make our hearts happy so ignore the me-
dia’s portrayal of love – focus on the Is-
lamic ones instead. The Prophet, peace be
upon him, was reported to have said: 'On
the Day of Judgment, God will not look
upon the woman who has been ungrateful
to her husband." When we consider those
of us who are blessed with loving hus-
bands, who are kind and caring and who
treat us with equity, but who we respond to
with by being angry, resentful or ungrate-
ful –because they aren’t meeting our unfair
expectations - we begin to understand this
hadith.
When we look at descriptions of the
Prophet, peace be upon him - who played
games with his wives, spent time with his
wives, showed kindness, affection and
mercy to his wives - we can see what the
perfect husband should look like in Islam.
This is a far cry from the lavish gift-giving,
poetry writing and grand gesture-making
husband that we often see or read about.
Don’t ignore your husband’s acts of love
and kindness by pining for trivial things
instead. This will only make your heart
always feel unfulfilled and result in a bit-
ter, resentful marriage. Consider your hus-
band in light of the authentic sources and
you may find that you have the perfect
husband already.
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10 QUALITIES
Loved by Allah
Surah Ahzab: Ayah 35
“ Indeed the Muslim men and the Muslim women, the believing men and the believing women, the obedi-
ent men and the obedient women, the truthful men and the truthful women, the patient men and the pa-
tient women, the humble men and the humble women, the charitable men and the charitable women,
the men who fast and the women who fast, the men who guard their chastity and the women who guard
their chastity, the men who remember Allah a lot and the women who remember Allah, Allah has prom-
ised them forgiveness and a great reward.” SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL
FAITH
19
1. Being Muslim
Muslim comes from the root salama, to
submit. Islam literally means submis-
sion, and a Muslim is one who submits.
So when someone says he or she is a
Muslim that means he or she submits to
the will of Allah and he or she submits to
His commands.
2. Believing
A Mu’min is someone who really and
truly believes in Allah as well His mes-
sengers and scriptures, along with all
that which Allah has informed us about,
including the Day of Judgment.
3. Being Obedient
The word Obedient does not truly cover
the deep meaning that is included in the
Arabic term: “Qunoot”. Qunoot is to be
absolutely and completely devoted to
the other, and obey his or her every
command.
4. Being Truthful
Truthfulness is a quality that is men-
tioned again and again in the Quran. It
is an extremely important quality to
have as a Muslim. First of all we must
be truthful to our Lord when we say that
we love Him and submit to Him by actu-
ally obeying Him. We must be truthful to
other people in our speech. We must be
truthful with our actions, and make sure
they match our speech. We must be
truthful to ourselves in pointing out our
own mistakes.
5. Being Patient
Patience, sabr, means to control the
nafs, the soul. It is something that may
be difficult to achieve but we must strive
for it and try our best, for the rewards
are great. A believer should always be
patient in any situation. The highest
level of patience is Rida, to be pleased,
satisfied, and content with what has
happened. A believer can reach this
level because he or she knows that
whatever has befallen him or her has
come because Allah willed it to happen
therefore it must be for the best.
6. Being Humble
Khushu’ is the term mentioned in the
ayah. It can be translated as humility but
that doesn’t quite cover it. Khushu’ means
to be afraid of something, to fear it be-
cause of having knowledge of that thing
and thus become humble before it. For
example, we recognize the greatness,
might, power, ability of Allah swt and so we
have fear, fear of disobeying Him and
earning His punishment. As a result of that
fear we are humble before Him.
7. Being Charitable
Sadaqah, charity, is giving to the poor and
the needy. It is a quality that truly proves
that a person prefers the reward of Allah
over their wealth.
8. Fasting
Fasting is a deed that is beloved to Allah
swt. As Muslims, we are commanded to
fast the month of Ramadan from sunrise
to sunset. Besides that, we should also
strive to fast voluntary fasts to get more
reward. Fasting should be a regular habit,
not a chore that we must go through for
only one month every year.
9. Guarding one’s Chastity
We as Muslims should guard our chastity
and protect ourselves from zina, adultery.
Allah swt has made this easy for us to do if
we obey His commands. He has given
people, both men and women, the com-
mand to cover up. Another command
given to facilitate the guarding of chastity
is the command of lowering one’s gaze. By
obeying these commands of Allah as well
as others that He has ordained, we can
keep ourselves away from committing
sins. Allah swt created us and therefore
He knows us best. Whatever He tells us to
do is in our best interest. If Allah gives us
some precautions to take, like lowering
the gaze, to stay away from sin, we should
obey because He knows us best and He
knows what can lead to the sins.
10. Remembering Allah much
It is the constant remembrance of Allah
that enables us to constantly obey Him.
If we are always thinking of Him, then
we should remember what it is that He
wants us to do and what He wants us to
stay away from. Remembering Allah swt
constantly is what will enable us to do
the above mentioned items, and have
the above mentioned qualities.
Forgiveness and a Great Re-
ward
This is what is promised to those who do
what is mentioned above, forgiveness
and a great reward. Forgiveness is
something all humans need because we
are not perfect. We will make mistakes
and we need to seek Allah’s mercy and
forgiveness to be forgiven for them.
A great reward: the greatest reward is
Jannah. Great reward comes in the
hereafter. This world is limited and any
reward that comes in it is temporary.
What is better is the reward in the here-
after that is eternal and not subjected to
the limitations of this world. We should
all strive for reward in the hereafter,
even if it means giving up some immedi-
ate pleasure in this world. Because in
reality, this world is nothing compared to
the hereafter.
Conclusion
I pray to Allah that He enables us to be
of those who hear and obey so we can
do the above mentioned action items.
When we learn of anything we should try
to implement it right away. What are we
waiting for? Death could approach us at
any time whether we are ready for it or
not. So, once we have learned of some-
thing Allah swt, our Creator, wants from
us, we should hasten to do it right away
inshaAllah.
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FOR YOUR FAMILY I have never considered myself an extravagant
spender, but it was not until I became a stay-at-
home mom, when I learned the art of really
stretching a dollar. Saving your family money
can be not only a rewarding activity, but you
can turn it into never ending fun quest that will
make you, your husband, and of course, your
family’s valet very happy.
No, you don’t have to go dumpster diving for
coupons, or engage in other questionable activi-
ties. You don’t have to go to the extremes, so
friends permanently label you “cheap”. You just
need to learn how to be thrifty, and use time and
resources to your best advantage. In most of the
scenarios, you do not even need to settle for less
than you want – you can get exactly what you
intended, just pay much less for it, and thus
save money.
I would like to share with you a few tips that
will reduce your family’s spending. Remember,
little saving here and there adds up to big sav-
ings.
Groceries:
Check weekly ad and match it up with coupons
that come in your Sunday paper, Red Plum free
magazine, local free coupon magazine, various
online sites ( just google ). Many stores double
coupons that are 60 cents or less, some
even triple – check your local store coupon
policy.
If you shop earlier in the morning on a
week day, you have higher chances to find
marked down produce ( ex. They baked
too much bread that day, or one apple out
of the bag has a dent – no big deal, but it’s
reduced sometimes up to 80% ). Some-
times stores mark down things that are
closer to the expiration date than the store
wants it to be – those are great buys if
products are freezable. For example,
breads, hummus dip, cheeses, certain
vegetables freeze very well. When frozen,
expo date goes on hold, so when you de-
frost it, the product is save to cook and eat.
Plan you meals so that you never have to
throw away any leftovers. Pack them into
the glass containers and freeze for late use.
If you have a product that you did not es-
pecially like, google to see if you can use it
in some other recipe.
Old does not always mean trash. Older
bananas, apples, peaches are great for bak-
ing sweet breads or making preserves.
Health and Beauty:
Coupons and drug store weekly specials will
make you glad. Many times drug stores offer
rebates, or something like “buy $10 worth of
stuff and get $3 back in extra bucks” etc. When
you pair those weekly deals with your coupons,
you are literally, getting all your shampoos,
soaps and toothpastes for pennies.
Product rebates and try-it-free offers can stock
you up for a long time. Make sure you have
extra copies of your receipts and claims filed
away – companies often like to “loose” those
offers in the mail.
Baby needs:
Last time I checked, best diaper prices are on
Amazon MOM – you have to subscribe to the
products when they are on special.
Pediatrician offices give away free formula,
don’t be shy to ask every time. One time I
walked away with about 15 cans, because they
said no one wanted them. Alhamdulillah I was
blessed with a baby that took any formula I
would offer to him.
Subscribe to Enfamil and Similac Strong
Moms clubs to receive free formula and cou-
BUDGETING TIPS By Natalja K
“..I would like to share
with you a few tips that
will reduce your fam-
ily’s spending. Remem-
ber, little saving here
and there adds up to
big savings…”
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pons in the mail.
It would not hurt to subscribe to newsletters
from any baby company of your interest –
they send valuable coupons all the time ( Ex.
BabiesRus, baby clothing brands, baby food
brands – google your favorites online and
subscribe ).
I am not a fan of used baby items, because
when you catch a sale with a coupon, you can
get most brand new things for a price com-
petitive to consignment & Garage sales,
Craigslist, eBay. Some things, such as out-
door slides, or things you will only use a few
times, are worth looking into at the above
mentioned resources.
There is a lot of free or relatively free enter-
tainment for the kids. Check out your local
library for story/crafts time; explore all local
parks with playgrounds, Home depot has
crafts class on Saturdays. Follow your local
Parents newspaper ( pick it up at most local
stores in your city, if they have it) for an-
nouncements and events. Zoo, many galleries
and nature centers often offer a free day for
the families.
Retail/ clothes:
Subscribe to your favorite retailer newslet-
ters/ mail to receive store coupons. They all
run promotions several times a year, study
when the best sales take place. For example,
you want to buy that cute dress from Macy’s,
for, let’s say $25. Guess what – Macy’s of-
ten have coupon that reads $10 off your $25
purchase ( send via email ) So you would end
up paying $15.
Buy gift cards to the store online. For exam-
ple, many people on eBay are selling un-
wanted gift cards. Values of the gift cards
vary, but they always end up being sold for a
cheaper price than its value. Going back to
Macy’s example : few days before going to
the store, you will go to eBay, and purchase a
gift card valued at $15, but because it’s auc-
tioned off, you’ll probably pay for it about
$10. Use this strategy with a coupon men-
tioned above and, here you go- you will get a
$25 dress for $10 ( and if that dress happens
to be on clearance, then you are just a super-
saver!).
Buy summer clothes in the winter and winter
in the summer. At change of seasons stores
want to get rid of their inventory, so they
mark things down.
Social/ gifts:
After Christmas sales are my favorite for
perfumes, beauty sets and house gifts. They
are 50% or more off, so why not stock up?
Retailers such as Marshalls, TJ Max some-
times carry same stuff that Bed Bath and
Beyond store does. Be mindful of prices,
though, because some other times you can
score a better deal at Bed Bath and Beyond if
you use their 20% off coupon.
Gas:
Check www.GasBuddy.com for gas prices
around town.
Plan your trips wisely and don’t just drive
around or go to the store for one thing. Make
a trip that will take care of multiple busi-
nesses.
Educate yourself on latest special/freebies:
www.dealnews.com
www.shop4freebies.com
www.1saleaday.com
Google and follow other mom’s blogs on
couponing and saving money – some blogs
offer scenarios for on-going sales at a variety
of stores ( they teach you how to pair up
things with special & coupons to score free
stuff ). There are so many of those, I found
their info very useful many times.
At home job
If you find you have a little more time and
can make some $ from home – go for it!
List unwanted things on eBay. You can also
do eBay as a business- let’s say you found
something amazing on a huge clearance – list
it on eBay and make some money. It works
really well with latest electronics and things
of high demand, brand name clothing ( Nike,
Coach etc. )
Make professional photographs and sell them
on stock photo websites.
Have a blog where you review products.
Many times companies contact bloggers with
offering of their product to try for free and
review.
Become an ambassador for your favorite
company. I recently was selected to join Cof-
feeMate™ Brew Crew team where I do ac-
tivities to promote their brand and in return
get all sorts of perks and freebies from the
company.
Saving money can be fun. If you go
above and beyond, you will save your
family a lot of money – money that can
be spent on anything you otherwise
would not be able to spend it on – a va-
cation, a charitable donation…the choice
is yours ! Enjoy exploring your options
and may Allah reward you for your ef-
forts to save your family money.
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AT TALBINA
At talbina is an easy to make and healthy recipe from
the Sunnah of the prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him).
At talbina is a soup made from ground barley
with the bran that was used widely in the time of
our Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him)
therefore mentioned in the book of the
“Prophetic medicine” by Ibn Qay’em El-Jozeyah
to give nourishment to the weak and to the sick.
In this book we can read: “ Whole grain barley
soup digest quickly and provide good nutrition
and cleanses the stomach when taken while it is
still hot.” p149
“At-talbina gives rest to the heart of the patient
and makes it active and relieves some of his sor-
row and grief” (Sahih Bukhari).
Did you use white flour during the lifetime of the
Prophet?” Sahl replied, “No.” Hazim asked,
“Did you used to sift barley flour?” He said,
“No, but we used to blow off the husk (of the
barley)” (Sahih Bukhari).
Some historical facts about barley:
Barley was widely used in Ancient time. Barley
was one of the first domesticated grains in the
Fertile Crescent which spans the land of present
day Iraq, Syria, Occupied Palestine, Israel and
Lebanon. Wild barley (H. vulgare ssp. sponta-
neum) ranges from North Africa and Crete in the
west, to Tibet in the east. The earliest evidence of
wild barley in an archeological context comes
from the Epipaleolithic at Phalo II at the southern
end of the Sea of Galilee (Wikipedia).
Some nutritional facts about barley:
According to the USDA Nutrient database, 100
g of raw Barley (3,5 oz) will provide you with:
15.6 Dietary fiber
9.9 Protein
29 mg calcium
79 mg magnesium
221 mg phosphorus
2.1 mg zinc
It is also rich in copper, manganese, lutein and
zeaxanthin. All these nutrients and antioxidants
play an important role in your health. Selenium,
for example, protects skin from free radical
damage and improves the immune system.
Phosphorus is essential for proper formation of
teeth and bones and corrects cell growth. Cop-
per helps in the formation of red blood cells and
hemoglobin.
Some of the health benefit of consuming bar-
ley: According to a recent study, eating whole grain
barley can regulate blood sugar (i.e. reduce
blood glucose response to a meal) for up to 10
hours after consumption compared to white or
even whole-grain wheat, which has a similar
glycemix index. The effect was attributed to
colonic fermentation of indigestible carbohy-
drates. (Needless to mention how much benefit
lies on the consumption of barley for people in
your life who suffer health problems like diabe-
tes.)
This whole grain is not only packed with vita-
mins, minerals and antioxidants, but it is also
one of the richest sources of fiber, both soluble
and insoluble. Insoluble fiber helps in the de-
toxification of the body, while soluble fiber
attaches to fats to aid them in getting out of
your body. And it is this fiber component that
causes a delay in the stomach emptying there-
fore slowing down the body's absorption of
carbohydrates from foods.
Furthermore, according to a study made by the
American Journal of Clinical Nutrition in 2004,
consuming diets with 3 to 6 grams of beta-
glucan soluble fiber (Beta-glucan, a form of
fiber found in the body, is effective in lowering
blood LDL cholesterol level or low-density
lipoprotein commonly known as bad choles-
terol) effectively reduces 6 to 8 percent of LDL
cholesterol. Low cholesterol levels can help
reduce the risks of other health problems like
strokes.
Finally as mentioned in the book of the pro-
phetic medicine; consuming barley soup help
cleanses the body. It is now said that barley can
help protect against certain form of cancer like
colon cancer because of the dietary fiber it de-
livers providing the good bacteria that will (re-)
colonize the colon and promote better function-
ing of the gut and therefore the overall health.
Last but not least, consuming barley will help
you lose weight since it naturally controls your
appetite (and cleanse fat)! You feel full faster
and for a longer period.
I am sure you will find a good reason among
this appealing display of benefits to add barley
as a regular item in your grocery list!
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RECIPES
By Kelthum Bal-Fadhal
23
Here is one way to make At talbina:
½ cup of well ground barley (I use a coffee grinder)
3 cups water
1 tsp of sea salt
¼ cup of milk
1/3 cup of raw honey
Pour the water with salt to a boil then add the
ground barley. Mix with a whisker to dilute the bar-
ley into the water. When the liquid comes back to
boiling reduce the heat and let it cook in low to me-
dium heat for 45 min. Check and mix few times. At
the end add the milk and off heat add the honey and
eat the soup warm.
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This is a meal that I make often for my family in the morning because it is satisfying, healthy and
it keeps my family and myself full of energy until lunch time! It can also be prepared as another
meal of the day or during Ramadhan for Suhr as it keep you full longer.
First you will need to prepare the barley ahead of time to make the process easier as barley takes
time to cook. You can either use a pressure cooker or a slow cooker.
If you use a slow cooker then pour in the same ingredient and program it in high for 3 hours and
let it cook through the night for example.
Keep this cooked barley in a glass container and put it in the fridge you can use it as needed
through the week.
For 3 to 5 persons:
3 cup of water
½ cinnamon
½ ground anise
3 cup of the cooked barley
⅓ cup of milk
⅓ cup honey
1 tbsp of organic coconut oil (or 2 tbsp of olive oil)
Bring the water to a boil and add the spices. Then add the cooked barley and let it cook on me-
dium to low heat for 7 to 10 min while stirring occasionally. At the end of the process add the
milk and let boil for another minute or two. Off heat add the honey and oil and enjoy. You can
toss on top of your bowl of barley cereal some nuts or dried fruits. Enjoy!
If you use a pressure cooker to cook the barley you will need 1 cup of barley for 6 cup of water
and a tsp of sea salt. Put it to cook on medium high heat and count 15-20 min after the whistle
starts. Let it cool before opening the pressure cooker. Then add ½ cup of milk and let cook for
another minute or two. Off heat add the honey, oil and enjoy.
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Breakfast cereal with whole barley At-Talbina
24
Your Own Hair Mask If only achieving perfect hair
was possible at the click of a
finger; picture perfect hair
without the fuss and tears. I
can’t tell you enough how
many times I’ve tried to
achieve the perfect hairstyle
but to my dismay, it would
end up a mess.
Although no one’s invented
the whole ‘perfect hair at a
click of a finger thing’, achiev-
ing great hair needn’t be diffi-
cult. The key to great hair is
keeping it in good condition
as it’ll always look wrong if
your hair’s damaged with split
ends, frizzy and just a mess,
no matter if you put hours of
effort into perfecting it. Regu-
lar conditioning can prevent
all of this as conditioning
treatments are packed with
ingredients that work wonders
on your hair depending on
your hairs needs, and they
coat the strands of hair to
keep it moisturised, hydrated
and a plethora of other things
such as protecting the colour of
the hair, preventing sun dam-
age and repairing heat damage.
Regardless of your budget, you
can slather these deep treat-
ments all over your locks at
least once a week, and you’ll be
seeing results as soon as you
wash these out. Leaving the
mask in your hair for a mini-
mum of 1-2 hours ensures
maximum results:
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BEAUTY
25
By Hafsa Issa-Salwe
Splurge
Macadamia Oil Deep Repair Mask
The macadamia oil in the mask helps to repair
the hair from all the harm we do to our hair
including straightening, colouring and harsh
styling. Consider this as a peace offering to
your hair!
Middle Ground
LUSH H’Suan Wen Hua
Packed with balsamic vinegar, cinnamon leaf
oil, bay leaf oil, banana, avocado, egg, rose-
mary and olive oil, this mask is a pre-
shampoo treatment and will transform the
most unruly of hair.
Budget
Aussie 3 Minute Miracle Frizz
Remedy
Cheap but most definitely better than many of
the other expensive frizz combating products
out there. It also smells divine so, don’t eat it!
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You can also whip up a few of your own
and sometimes nothing works best than us-
ing Allah’s ingredients! My two favourite
homemade masks rival many of the hair
masks I’ve purchased so don’t be afraid to
experiment at home by mixing up your fa-
vourite oils and kitchen ingredients like
honey. I always advise using existing hair
conditioner as a base to my mixes and I’ll
add a spoon of honey, a few drops of my
favourite essential oil, some castor oil and
the list goes on!
The most simple yet very trusty hair mask I
make includes just three ingredients. Honey,
olive oil and hair conditioner. Honey is a
humectant which means it draws moisture
towards the hair which is perfect for those
with parched hair. The olive oil conditions
the hair and because the mask is warm, the
heat allows the oil and honey to penetrate
the hair shaft leaving your hair even more
moisturised than if you were to use it un-
heated:
You’ll need:
1/3 cup of hair conditioner
1 tablespoon of honey
2 tablespoons of olive oil
Directions:
Warm the conditioner in the microwave
for no longer than 30 seconds.
Add the honey in first as it’ll be easier
for the honey to melt into the warm con-
ditioner.
Mix the olive oil in and make sure
you’ve mixed all of the products thor-
oughly well.
My Coconutty Hair Masque, a mask
I’d recommend to those with thicker hair
only consists of hair conditioner, coco-
nut oil and coconut milk. Coconut oil
and milk are both rich in protein which
is essential for preventing hair breakage,
damage and will leave your hair thicker
and shinier:
You’ll need:
1/3 cup of hair conditioner
2 heaped tablespoons of coconut oil
2 tablespoons of coconut milk
Directions:
Add the coconut oil to the conditioner. Co-conut oil tends to get quite hard under a particular temperature so if yours is hard, stir the oil around a little or run under hot water. However, make sure you don’t melt it and just use it when it’s not too hard but not runny either. You’ll get a nice fluffy consistency when you don’t melt it. Then add the coconut milk but be careful to make sure that the mixture is not runny. It should be thick! You might get a few lumps from the coco-nut oil as you didn’t melt it so if that’s the case just smooth them out with a spoon.
As nice as a finger clicking machine would be, you can get yourself gorgeous hair with these wonderful masks. Washing your hair has never been so fun. Now stop reading this and get to conditioning!
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Blessed and Blissful The glasses and crockery
tinkle delicately as feminine
giggles and pleasurable
conversational banter per-
vade the festive air. Bever-
ages and finger food are
passed around as arriving
guests take off their demure
jilbabs and headscarves
amid excited greetings and
bear hugs. Girly parties are a
delight for any woman who
attends.
Her eyes furtively take in the
glittering diamonds dangling
from the ears of the chatty
sister sitting next to her; the
flashy touchscreen smart-
phone another sister across
the room extracts from her
branded leather tote, and
the name printed boldly on
the soles of the stylish
suede ballet flats another
sister takes off before tread-
ing on the plush carpet to
enter the room.
Long after they have bid
each other adieu and left for
their homes, the beautiful
imagery of the bling, glamor,
silks, chiffons, rouge and
leather dwindles in her
mind. Her mood takes a
downward plunge as she
directs her disdainful gaze
on the sparse contents of
her wardrobe. She can’t
quite put a finger on what is
causing her to feel dissatis-
fied, deprived, impoverished
and so…unblessed.
“When will I have enough
money to finally buy a smart-
phone?!” she asks herself
irritably as she remembers
how she was the only one in
the room who could not take
a photo from her gadget - a
simple cellular phone model
without a built-in camera.
Before she knows it, un-
gratefulness and ingratitude
for the blessings of Allah
unwittingly creep into her
heart, and the malicious
pangs of envy are beginning
to undermine not just her
faith but also her pleasure
with Allah’s decree regarding
her lot in life.
‘Greener Grass’ may lead to
‘Green Eyes’
There are moments like
these in every believer’s life,
when he encounters situa-
tions and people whose
comparatively better-off
physical appearance, health,
personality, success, finan-
cial position, popularity, or
social status, makes them
ungrateful to Allah, because
they allow themselves to
feel deprived and less
blessed in comparison.
These differences, especially
those in economic ranks
and social class, have been
put in place by Allah, the All-
Wise, Himself, as a test for
us, and in order to make
human society function
smoothly so that all of its
members are able to take
work from one and another
in return for wages.
Allah says in the Quran:
“Is it they who would portion
out the Mercy of your Lord?
It is We Who portion out
between them their liveli-
hood in the life of this world:
and We raise some of them
above others in ranks, so
that some may command
work from others. But the
Mercy of your Lord is better
than the (wealth) which they
amass.” [43:32]
Shukr and its kinds
Being Grateful:
“...being grateful means appreciating not just the bounties that we
enjoy in our lives on a daily basis, but also thanking Allah for the
tests, trials, difficulties and calamities that He sends our way….”
By Sadaf Farooqi
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL
REMINDERS
28
It is interesting to ponder on the root
meaning of the Arabic word shukr that is
used to denote gratefulness and pleas-
ure with what Allah has decreed for one’s
sustenance. When used for a she-camel,
the Arabic word “shakar” means that the
she-camel’s udder abounded with milk
after it had little milk, when she con-
sumed a share of leguminous pasturage
(Lane).
The word shukr implies three-
dimensional appreciation of the benefac-
tor who has provided one with any kind of
benefit: shukr of the heart or mind, shukr
of the tongue, and shukr of the limbs or
body.
The shukr of the heart and mind is de-
noted by being humble, lowly and sub-
missive towards the benefactor, resulting
in nothing but love and pleasant feelings
for them.
The shukr of the tongue is depicted by
praising, glorifying and verbally thanking
the benefactor, as well as by mentioning
or openly proclaiming the blessings that
they have given to you.
Finally, the shukr of the limbs or the body
is denoted by using them in complete
submission, obedience and subservience
to the approval and command of the
benefactor, in the way the benefactor
wants them to be used; not how they
would dislike.
Media and Modernity
Nowadays, it is easy to fall into two polar-
ized extremes. One involves adopting
such a consumeristic lifestyle and materi-
alistic habits that one forgets about one’s
acquisitions as soon as they come into
one’s possession, to commence hot pur-
suit of the next object of desire, be it a
newly launched brand, a seasonal fash-
ion accessory, or the latest version of an
app-loaded technological gadget. The
acquisition, showing off and pursuit of
material assets has now been blown fur-
ther out of proportion by social media,
smartphone technology, instant publishing,
and online marketing.
Lying at the other extreme is extreme as-
ceticism and denial of the permissible
(halal) blessings that Allah has bestowed us
with, to reach a negative mental state in
which one dwells relentlessly upon the ram-
pant misery, poverty, civil strife, oppression
and anarchy in the world. This attitude
makes one get sucked into a one-way,
downward spiral of morbid thoughts, gloom
and depression.
Being grateful falls somewhere perfectly in
between - to maintain the optimum balance
that does completely away with avarice,
envy and greed; grants one an air of satis-
fied contentment and self-sufficiency, and
makes one think constantly about, and
mention to others, just how much Allah has
blessed them in every way.
Remember those who have it
worse….MUCH worse
While we sleep at night in our homes on our
warm beds, with a sense of peace and se-
curity, mentally reminding ourselves of the
normal, everyday chores and errands we
have to do the next day, such as the quick
grocery run en route to the weekly Quran
halaqah, a sister somewhere in the world is
sitting on the ground with her head in her
hands after having her home demolished by
occupational forces in her homeland.
As we crib about the laundry pile getting too
high, and the milk that our children drink
not being organic enough, somewhere in
the world, a sister is sobbing over the man-
gled corpse of her teenaged son who got
caught in a crowd of protesters; was ar-
rested, jailed and then tortured to death by
pro-government law-enforcers.
And, as we worry that our parents pamper
and spoil our children too much with gifts
and attention, we should remember that
somewhere in the world, a sister is hearing
news over the phone of the death of her
elderly parents in a massive flood back in
her home country on the other side of the
globe. With tears pouring down her cheeks,
she wishes that she had cashed in on their
presence more, treated them more kindly,
visited them more often, and done more to
make them happy while they were still alive
and present in the world, worrying about her,
loving her unconditionally, and wishing the
best for her.
The loftiest shukr
Shukr or being grateful means appreciating
not just the bounties that we enjoy in our
lives on a daily basis, but also thanking Allah
for the tests, trials, difficulties and calamities
that He sends our way. This is the loftiest
form of shukr, which enables a believer to
realize that even the calamities are good for
him, because they give him a chance to be-
get forgiveness for his sins and to ascend
loftier ranks of faith, adding good deeds to
his account in the Akhirah.
What should one do when they feel ingrati-
tude, or kufr - which is the opposite of shukr -
building up in their heart? The answer is
simple: force yourself to remember how for-
tunate you are by listing all the blessings you
have that others do not possess, even those
that people would give their right arm to
have.
Try to count your blessings - literally!
If it helps, make a list on a piece of paper, of
all the blessings that you have, even those
you take for granted, such as the ears with
which you hear and the properly functioning
brain cells and eyesight with which you are
reading this article.
Once you begin to make this list, you will
realize something magnanimous; something
huge; something that Allah has already
stated in the Quran:
“If you would count up the favors of Allah,
never would you be able to number them: for
Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [16:18]
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My Journey to Islam My life had been one of neglect and
abuse. My mother and I were never close,
my presence was an inconvenience.
With that being said, I grew up hurt, angry
and continually wondering what I had done
so bad by being born. I was jealous over
my friends with "happy normal families".
I desired to have a loving home and par-
ents, but that never happened. The mental
and emotional scars from years of abuse
lingered on over my youth, teenage years
and adulthood.
I was Mormon for many years and contin-
ued searching in other denominations the
whole time, from one church to another,
but nothing fulfilled my heart and soul.
I have never been able to accept Jesus
(peace be to him) as god or even as the
son of god. It has never made sense to me
that the Creator needs assistance in the
creation process or that anyone can have
a godly state. I had many more questions
and doubts about the absolute correct-
ness of the bible, I always felt like at one
time it may have been correct but then
'man' corrupted the writings. My own opin-
ion.
In CA I began working with Del Norte
Clinics, Inc., it was the first time I know-
ingly was around Seik, Hindu and Mus-
lims, the only thing I knew about Mus-
lims was they fasted once a year for 30
days sunup to sundown.
My Seik friends took me to their Temple,
everyone was so nice and polite, very
accepting and kind. I just couldn't em-
brace more than one god.
One day I saw a Dr. in a white head
scarf and a long modest dress, it felt
like a magnet drawing me to her. Quietly
I approached the Dr. and I asked about
the scarf and dress, she said 'I am Mus-
lim', and I asked if she could help me
learn, this wonderful Dr. supplied me
with books, CD's, DVD's, I knew immedi-
ately this was my destiny where I be-
longed.
I took my Shahadah (testimony of Faith)
and have never regretted a moment,
never have looked back, I am no longer
searching for my place with GOD, I only
search for more knowledge and wisdom
to improve my deen (religion) and be a
better Muslimah.
What I didn't know was what would
begin once I accepted Islam and felt
my conviction to wear hijab, first; I lost
all my family, was told by my mother "
You are not Arab you are an American".
Second, I came to look for work here in
Michigan and no one will hire me be-
cause I wear hijab. I have been without
income for 11 months, but I cannot
compromise what I know I should do. I
have never stood up for anything so I
fell for everything! Islam is the air I
breathe and I cannot take my hijab off
for any human. I never thought of this
type of treatment by others because I
have never seen any human for their
color of skin, religion or culture. So my
mind can not comprehend this mental-
ity.
Since being Muslim and wearing hijab I
am understanding just how much mis-
understanding there is about Islam
and its our duty as Muslims to spread
the true message of Islam.
SUMMER ISSUE 2012 MY MUSLIM VEIL
CONVERTS
30
By Fatimeh Hassan
Summer Fun with Butterflies
This is a fun craft for all ages, the possibilities are endless. With a simple technique learn how colors
mix , patterns form and designs emerge …. just like a butterfly !
1- You will need , cardstock , paint , puffy sticks , scissors and
scotch tape.
2- Fold the cardstock into half and put dollops of paint on one
half.
3- Now fold the cardstock and press from the center outwards
with your hands. Gently pull the paper apart , a beautiful butterfly
will have formed. Let it dry.
4- Cut out the butterfly .Use the puffy sticks to make feelers , stick
them on the blank side of your butterfly. Use your creations to
decorate your home , cards or presents. Have fun !
CRAFTS By Nida Mujahid