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  • RELATIONSHIPREWIND

    Rewind Your Relationship Back To Bliss

    Mens Edition

    Ryan Rivers

  • CONTENTS

    Dedication 5

    Forward 6

    Introduction 8 WhatIsRelationshipRewind? 9

    UnderstandingtheDynamicsofaRelationship 10

    WhyRelationshipRewindWorks 11

    WheretoStartYourRelationshipJourney 14

    TheStagesofRelationshipRewind 16

    ReasonsforaRelationshipBreakdown 18

    OvercomingtheFinalObjection 19

    MyRelationshipRewindJourney21

    1:MyRelationshipRewindJourney 22 MyStory:HowItAllEnded,MuchtoMySurprise 23

    TheInsidersPerspective:WhatIDiscovered 26

    TheConceptofGettingYourExBack 27

    WhyIBelieveSheWillTakeYouBack 28

    MyRelationshipRewindExperience 30

    HowRelationshipRewindWorks 32

    TheBigRelationshipRewindReveal 34

    Keynotes 35

    2:TheRelationshipBreakdown 36 LoveStory:TheRelationshipBreakdown 37

    WhatIstheRelationshipBreakdown? 38

    WhatHappensAftertheRelationshipBreakdown? 40

    MovingOnFromaRelationshipBreakdown 41

    IdentifyingtheChoicesYouWanttoMake 46

    Keynotes 48

  • 3:RelationshipDecay 49 LoveStory:RelationshipDecay 50

    WhatIsRelationshipDecay? 51

    RelationshipDecay:CaseStudy 52

    ThePhasesofPost-RelationshipDecay 55

    HowtoFeelBetterAboutRelationshipDecay 57

    WhyRelationshipDecayOccurs 59

    TheSignsforRecognizingRelationshipDecay 61

    WhyYouMustStopChasingIndifference 63

    Keynotes 65

    4:DeathsDoor 66 WhatIsDeathsDoor? 68

    MovingAwayFromDeathsDoor 70

    IntroducingtheFalseFriendship 72

    CriticalKnowledge:TheFalseFriendshipFailureRate 73

    WhattheFalseFriendshipisNot:TheFriendZone 75

    InitiatingtheFalseFriendshipDuringDeathsDoor 76

    Keynotes 79

    5:TheMagicLetter 80 WARNING 81

    WhatistheMagicLetter? 82

    InitiatingtheMagicLetterDuringIndifference 83

    AnExampleoftheMagicLetterinAction 85

    TheMagicLetterBreakdown 87

    WhytheMagicLetterIsSoEffective 92

    Keynotes 94

    6:Drift 95 WhatIsDrift? 97

    HowSheWillApproachtheFinalStagesofDrift 100

    HowDriftCanLeadtoIndifference 101

    AvoidingaNegativeBondingExperience 103

    AlwaysApproachwithaPositiveBondingExperience 105

    Keynotes 107

  • 7:Switch 108 WhatIsSwitch? 110

    HowtoTellWhenSheIsInSwitch 111

    HowtoChallengetheSwitch 113

    ThingstoAvoidDoinginSwitch 116

    CaseStudyPart1:SwitchinAction 117

    CaseStudyPart2:TheProblemwithSwitch 119

    Keynotes 121

    8:Bliss 122 WhatIsBliss? 124

    RealLifeExamplesofBliss 125

    EmotionFirst,LoveLater(EF,LL) 127

    DetonatingtheBacktoBlissBomb 129

    IntroducingtheILoveYouLadder 131

    HowtoUsetheILoveYouLadder 132

    Keynotes 135

    Conclusion 136 TrulyBenefitingfromtheRelationshipRewind 137

    TrulyBenefitingfromtheRelationshipRewind 138

    YourRelationshipRewindUsersGuide: 139

    LivingandLovingwithBliss 140

    WillSheLoveYouAsYouLoveHer? 141

    GoodLuck! 142

    Glossary 146-149

    Bibliography 150

  • 5To my loving wife, best friend, and shining star, Thank you for teaching me how to love, for proofreading into the early hours,

    and for giving us a second chance.

    To my friends, who, when convinced I had lost my mind, did not turn their backs on me, and saw me through the nights

    when I couldnt stand to be around myself.

    To my Mom and Dad, who constantly showed me what true love can be, and for reminding me never to let love go if you

    are blessed enough to find it too.

    Dedication

  • 6Forward

    Sometimesyoufindabook,andsometimesabookfindsyou.Forme,

    RelationshipRewindwasthelatter.

    Ihavereaddozensofrun-of-the-milldatingbooks,allfilledwiththesame

    clichdsuggestions.Rightoffthebat,Iwassurprisedtofindthiswasnot

    thesameBS.Then,asIputthesuggestedtechniquesintoaction(admittedly

    somewhatskeptical),Iwasamazedtofindmyrelationshipwithmyex

    changing.

    Ididnthavetochasehertowinherback.

    Ididnthavetokeepcallingandtryingtobreakdownherbarriers.

    Instead,afterusingtheRelationshipRewind,sheunexpectedlyaskedmeto

    meetupforadrinkoneday.Fromthere,everythingclickedintoplace.We

    starteddatingafewweekslater,andnow,afteralmostayear,wesetadateto

    makeitallofficial.NotonlydidIwinherback,butalsosomewherealongthe

    waywediscoveredwhatlovecouldbe.Whatitcouldhavebeenallalong

    ForthosestartingtheirRelationshipRewindjourney,Irecommendtaking

    actiononthetipsinthisbook.Icallitajourneybecauseittrulyisaneye-

    openingadventure.MyonlyregretiswaitingtostartuntilafterIhadfinished

    reading.Lookingback,Irealizedhowmuchprecioustimehadpassed.Now,

    insteadofworryingaboutfailing,IembracethewomanIloveandknowthat

    nomatterwhathappenswewontbecomeanotherfailedrelationshipstatistic.

    Ifyouarelookingfortruthful,directadviceabouthowtogetyourexback,

    youvefoundit.Imnotsayingthisisaninstantaneouscure,becauseitisnot.

  • 7Theauthorunderstandswhatyouarefacingandofferspracticaladvicetohelp

    youovercomeeachchallenge.Onceyouprogressthroughthecustomizable

    phases,youarerewardedwithasecondchanceandsomuchmorethanthat.

    RelationshipRewindtaughtmethatitispossibletogobackandchangethings,

    butitonlyworksifyoureallywantitto.Ifyouarecommittedtowinning

    herback,thenthisbookwillhelpyou.Ifyouarejustlookingforwaysto

    fillthevoidinyourheartorspaceinyourbed,thisisnotthebookforyou.

    RelationshipRewinddoesntworkthatway.Itsallabouttakingwhatwas

    there,andbringingitbacktolifesothatitsstrongerthanever.

    Myadviceistobehonestaboutthechangesyouwantandappreciateyour

    journey.Itsanincredibleopportunitytobecomethemanyouhavealways

    wantedtobe,andtheoneshewillalwayslove.

    AnthonyP.Relationship Rewind Member

  • 8Introduction

  • 9INTRODUCTION

    RelationshipRewindisauniquemethodofrestoringeventhe

    mostbrokenrelationships.Itoffersyouanopportunitytocorrect

    experienceswhereyouorshemayhavedonesomethingwrong,

    soyoucanrestoretherelationshiptoaplaceoflove,affection,

    andintimacy.Insteadoffeelingrejectedandabandoned,

    youcanuseRelationshipRewindtoundoanydamage.Itsso

    effectiveitsasifthedamageneverevenhappened!

    Itchangeshowyouandyourpartnerrespondtooneanother,

    removingthefrictionthatoccursduringtheRelationship

    Breakdownphase(you will learn about this in Chapter 2).No

    matterhowtraumaticthatexperience,itispossibletogoback

    intimetoaplacewhereyouarethecenterofherworld.Italso

    givesyoutheskillstoidentifyproblemsastheyarise,soyoucan

    dealwiththemproductively.

    Thisalsopreventstherelationshipbreakdownfromhappening

    again.

    ThebestthingaboutRelationshipRewindisthatyoulearnto

    usepositivereinforcementtorewardherforreturningtoBliss.

    Insteadofdrivingheraway,youencouragehertocomebackto

    astateofBlissonherown.Itteachesherthatyouaresomeone

    What Is Relationship Rewind?

    The act of rewinding a relationship to a time of complete happiness. Furthermore, this act prevents conflict from occurring.

    RelationshipRewind:

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    INTRODUCTION

    sheenjoysbeingaround,andbuildsanaturalyetdurable

    attraction.Whenyoulearnthecorrecttechniquestorewardher,

    shewillbelievesheisinstigatingthereturnofyourrelationship.

    Thisisacriticalobservation,asmostmentrytoconvincetheir

    extogetbacktogether,butendupmakingthingsworse.They

    driveheraway,andneverwinheraffectionback.

    Understanding the Dynamics of a Relationship

    Arelationshipisthesocialbondwedefinewithapromiseora

    vow.Itdemonstratesthatyouandshearesomethingmorethan

    individualsare.

    Inarelationship,youfeelownershiptowardsyourpartner.

    Shefeelsthesameforyou.Whenyourenotinarelationship,

    youstillshareexperiences,memories,thoughts,andfeelings

    foreachother.Ifsheisnotexpressingthesefeelings,theyare

    inactiveordormant,buttheyarestillthere.Thesearethetrue

    essenceofarelationship.Youwillreceiveactionabletechniques

    throughoutthisbooktohelpyoureactivatethispotential.

    Afterarelationshipends,womenmoveasfaraspossible

    fromtheemotionaltrauma.Thisiswhyyoumaybelievethat

    reversingarelationshipisimpossible.Youcanprobablyfeelher

    detachment.Manymenwronglybelievethisistheworstthing

    thatcanhappen,asitfeelsirreversible,butyoullbesurprised

    tofindthisisnottrue.Evenifshewontansweryourcallstoday,

    thereishopefortomorrow.

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    INTRODUCTION

    Howyoureacttoherneedfordistanceisthedecidingfactor.

    ThisiswhatRelationshipRewindseekstoexplore.Itsallabout

    returningtothesameemotionalpage.

    RelationshipRewindignitestheblissfulfeelingsfeltwhenfalling

    inlove.Theseemotionsrewardherforpursuinganactive

    relationshipwithyou.Ifshelovedyouonce,shestilldoesorcan

    learntoloveyouagain.Itdoesnotmatterhowlongyouwere

    togetherorhowmuchtimeyouhavebeenapart.Thebeautyof

    theRelationshipRewindisthateventhemostheartwrenching

    ofbreakupsbecomepossibletoreconnect.

    Itdoesntmatterifsheisfilledwithangerandhate,orifyou

    haventspokeninyears.Everyrelationshipcanberewound.Im

    abouttoshowyouwhy.

    Why Relationship Rewind Works

    Whilemanyofthesetipscansustainarelationship,thisis

    notyourtypicaldatingadvice.Theinformationyouareabout

    toreadiscontroversialandfrowneduponbyotherso-called

    datingexperts.ThisisbecausethepurposeofRelationship

    Rewindistogetyourexback,notsomethingallexpertsagree

    on.Manywilltellyouthatsomethingsarebestleftinthepast,

    orthereareplentymorefishinthesea.

    Webothknowotherwise.

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    INTRODUCTION

    However,Iwillgiveyouthiscautionaryadvice:

    Inordertobesuccessful,youmustbe10