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AU prepares for Madrigal Feaste PAGE A5 volume 98, issue 6 Friday, November 10, 2017 Student written. Student edited. Men’s basketball preview PAGE A6 INDEX Opinion A2 News A3 Features A4 Sports A6 Entertainment A8 Friday, November 10 Sunny 40/23 Saturday, November 11 Cloudy 42/33 Sunday, November 12 Cloudy 45/35 Monday, November 13 Sunny 48/36 Lip Sync: Greek life face-off CHRIS MARTUCCI @AUCollegian Lip syncing as a competition has become prominent in recent years with televised competitions such as ‘Lip Sync Battle’ and “The To- night show starring Jimmy Fallon” where he and a celebrity would lip sync to a song. Here at Ashland University, the lip sync fever has caught on with the Greek life lip sync competition that pits each Greek life organiza- tion against each other to come up with the best theme and routine to a group of songs while still make believing that they are singing to them. The competition has been a big event for Greek life in the fall semester for several years now, Dustin Hargis, the first-year as- sistant director of student life, said. “What makes lip sync a lot of fun is that you’re not worried about trying to sing the song correctly,” Hargis said. “It’s about presenta- tion and about having fun while doing it at the same time.” Hargis sees the competition as a good way for people to put them- selves in a situation that they oth- erwise would not be in. “It really gets people out of their comfort zone to do something they otherwise would not do,” Har- gis said. “It also puts people in a brand new light to their peers, who otherwise wouldn’t expect them to do something like that.” Sophomore nursing major Mad- die Cronin of Delta Zeta is one of those people. “I was so nervous my first year doing it,” she said. “It was very in- timidating but it turned out to be really fun. The girls were so wel- coming to me and I had a blast do- ing it last year.” The theme for Delta Zeta last year was ‘DZ Dream’ and featured songs that fit a dream-like atmo- sphere. “It’s so much fun watching what all the other chapters on campus came up with because of all the hard work that was put into it,” Cronin said. Not every competitor is a reluc- tant one at first. Hollis Coldwater, a member of Alpha Delta Pi, grew up cheer- leading and dancing so she was already used to that kind of a spot- light, she said. As a senior, she hopes this year will be even more fun since it will be her last competition. “What’s the most fun about it is seeing what all the other chapters come up with in terms of their pre- sentation,” Coldwater said, echo- ing Cronin’s sentiments. “It’s fun to see everyone’s creative sides.” For Alpha Delta Pi, their theme last year was “Things That Go Bump In the Night,” where their presentation and song choice was based on things that scared them whenever they would go to bed as kids. But Lip Sync is not just about competition, Hargis said. All of the proceeds that come from this event would go directly to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospitals. “Greek life as an organization is dedicated to the values of service to not only the school but also the community,” said Hargis. “So to be able to connect with an or- ganization like St. Jude’s, which is a cause that everyone can get behind, was an easy decision to make. It also helps with getting our name out to the community and giving the university a good reputation as having students who are dedicated to serving the com- munity.” Rehearsals for the competition will be Nov. 15 and 17, but are closed off to the public because the organizations want to have their presentations be secretive until the event on Nov. 19. The competition begins at 6 p.m. in the Hugo Young Theater at the Center for the Arts building. Tickets cost $5 and can be pur- chased at the Greek life office or at the door. SUBMITTED BY EMILY MCKINLEY Theta Phi Alpha with their trophy after being announced winners with theme of Grease in last years Lip Sync. AU campus rallies around Nick Bapst NOAH CLOONAN @noahcloonan On Oct. 25 the Ashland Univer- sity men’s basketball team experi- enced a scare when junior guard, Nick Bapst collapsed on the bench while at a scrimmage at the Uni- versity of Findlay. Bapst was immediately rushed to the hospital and it was determined that he had experienced cardiac arrest. He was life flighted to the Rich- ard M. Ross Heart Hospital in Columbus where he was placed in the ICU and put into a medically induced coma. Upon coming out of the induced coma, Bapst con- tracted pneumonia due to the fluid in his lungs, but doctors said that this is nothing out of the ordinary. Bapst is currently still at the hos- pital, but his friend and teammate, Jay Slone said spirits are high both on the team and as a medical staff that Bapst is slowing showing im- provements. “It got to the point where he was getting so many visitors that they had to take him and put him in a room that no one knew the room number of, and only his parents were allowed to know because he knows so many people, it’s unbe- lievable,” Slone said. Back on campus, students have shown an outpour of love, support and prayers, all focused in the di- rection of Bapst. Slone said that the support has come from fellow athletes, pro- fessors and even those who have never met Bapst. “People who maybe have never even talked to him are affected by it because he is just such a good person,” Slone said. “It just shows how powerful something like this can be.” Bapst is heavily involved in Fel- lowship of Christian Athletes and Slone said that during this time members of FCA have truly rallied around Bapst. “We went to FCA and we had a whole sermon on basically relating it to him and everybody broke off into groups and we all prayed for him and I think he felt that,” Slone said. “You know that was the first FCA [Nick] has missed in prob- ably three years, you know, and I think it was just special because I know missing that was probably hard for him.” Beyond FCA, Bapst has received support from many other of the athletic teams at AU. Just two days after the fact, the women’s soccer team took the field against Tiffin. The women took a black marker and wrote the phrase “NB Strong” on their wrists. The next day the volleyball and football teams followed suit as they wrapped their wrists in white tape and wrote down the same phrase. On Oct. 29 the women’s basket- ball team took the floor for the first time of the season in Colum- bus and their thoughts were with Bapst. The team showed their support for their fellow basketball player by tapping white tape across the back of their shoes with “NB Strong” written on them. “I think that everyone is con- cerned, I mean he is a big part of the men’s team, we all have that bond with him,” senior Laina Snyder said. “I know I’m texting people on the men’s team everyday asking how he’s doing, what’s the update. I feel like it’s brought our campus close together and made everybody realize how close we re- ally are.” Bapst’s impact has not just been on fellow athletes but it has spread through the classroom. See NICK BAPST, Page A6 Student affairs announcement on campus sexual misconduct LUQMAN TAROUTI @AUCollegian Ashland University’s Student Af- fairs Office announced changes on campus sexual misconduct and Title IX regarding the handling of sexual misconduct cases. Student affairs shared the memo on Friday, Oct. 20 through MyAU portal highlighting the updated policy on sexual violence. The post also shared the resources that are available to members of the cam- pus community. Title IX of the Education Amendments Act of 1972 is a fed- eral law that states: “No person in the United States shall, on the basis of sex, be excluded from participa- tion in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any education program or activity receiving Federal financial assistance.” The changes came after U.S. Education Secretary Betsy DeVos’ announcement in September that her department was concerned previous guidance denied proper due process to those accused. The Education Department is withdrawing the Dear Colleague Letter dated April 4, 2011, and Questions and Answers on Title IX and Sexual Violence dated April 29, 2014. The Dear Colleague Letter ini- tially was issued by Former Vice President Joe Biden and Secretary Duncan and presented guidelines on legal obligations in addressing sexual violence in school and on campus. The US Department of Education issued an updated Dear Colleague Letter to rescind parts of Title IX that deals with the burden of proof needed in campus sexual assault investigations. “The 2011 and 2014 guidance documents may have been well- intentioned,” the 2017 Dear Col- league Letter stated. “But those documents have led to the depriva- tion of rights for many students— both accused students denied fair process and victims denied an adequate resolution of their com- plaints.” The changes affect the time frame, mediation possibility and the standard of evidence. While the 2011 Dear Colleague Letter obligate universities to com- plete the investigation in 60 days, the new letter keeps the time frame open to whenever the investigation is complete. Student affairs stated that they would continue to use the 60-day time frame for investigations. If the investigation extends beyond 60 days they will inform parties in- volved with the projected comple- tion date. The old guideline did not recom- mend mediation for sexual miscon- duct cases specifically in rape. The new Dear Colleague Letter suggests mediation an option for Title IX. The Department of Education Q&A on campus sexual miscon- duct document stated: “If all par- ties voluntarily agree to participate in an informal resolution that does not involve a full investigation and adjudication after receiving a full disclosure of the allegations and their options for formal resolution and if a school determines that the particular Title IX complaint is appropriate for such a process, the school may facilitate an informal resolution, Including mediation, to assist the parties in reaching a vol- untary resolution”. Regarding mediation, AU an- nounced that it will not be used in any cases involving an alleged rape. The last change is touching the standard of evidence. The previ- ous guideline required schools to use the preponderance of evidence. While the new one recommends universes to use clear and convinc- ing standards. Ashland University decided to continue using the preponderance of evidence and to keep working with the evidence approach of the old guideline. AU’s Department of Education will share any further updates is- sued with the campus community via campus memo, followed by a posting on the Title IX website. AU ATHLETICS Nick Bapst averaged 8.1 points per game in 2016-17.

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    volume 98, issue 6 Friday, November 10, 2017Student written. Student edited.

    Men’s basketball preview

    PAGE A6

    INDEX

    Opinion A2News A3Features A4Sports A6Entertainment A8

    Friday, November 10 Sunny40/23

    Saturday, November 11

    Cloudy42/33

    Sunday, November 12 Cloudy45/35

    Monday, November 13

    Sunny48/36

    Lip Sync: Greek life face-offCHRIS MARTUCCI@AUCollegian

    Lip syncing as a competition has become prominent in recent years with televised competitions such as ‘Lip Sync Battle’ and “The To-night show starring Jimmy Fallon” where he and a celebrity would lip sync to a song.

    Here at Ashland University, the lip sync fever has caught on with the Greek life lip sync competition that pits each Greek life organiza-tion against each other to come up with the best theme and routine to a group of songs while still make believing that they are singing to them.

    The competition has been a big event for Greek life in the fall semester for several years now, Dustin Hargis, the first-year as-sistant director of student life, said.

    “What makes lip sync a lot of fun is that you’re not worried about trying to sing the song correctly,” Hargis said. “It’s about presenta-tion and about having fun while doing it at the same time.”

    Hargis sees the competition as a good way for people to put them-selves in a situation that they oth-erwise would not be in.

    “It really gets people out of their comfort zone to do something they otherwise would not do,” Har-

    gis said. “It also puts people in a brand new light to their peers, who otherwise wouldn’t expect them to do something like that.”

    Sophomore nursing major Mad-die Cronin of Delta Zeta is one of

    those people.“I was so nervous my first year

    doing it,” she said. “It was very in-timidating but it turned out to be really fun. The girls were so wel-coming to me and I had a blast do-ing it last year.”

    The theme for Delta Zeta last year was ‘DZ Dream’ and featured songs that fit a dream-like atmo-sphere.

    “It’s so much fun watching what all the other chapters on campus

    came up with because of all the hard work that was put into it,” Cronin said.

    Not every competitor is a reluc-tant one at first.

    Hollis Coldwater, a member of Alpha Delta Pi, grew up cheer-

    leading and dancing so she was already used to that kind of a spot-light, she said.

    As a senior, she hopes this year will be even more fun since it will be her last competition.

    “What’s the most fun about it is seeing what all the other chapters come up with in terms of their pre-sentation,” Coldwater said, echo-ing Cronin’s sentiments. “It’s fun to see everyone’s creative sides.”

    For Alpha Delta Pi, their theme

    last year was “Things That Go Bump In the Night,” where their presentation and song choice was based on things that scared them whenever they would go to bed as kids.

    But Lip Sync is not just about competition, Hargis said.

    All of the proceeds that come from this event would go directly to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospitals.

    “Greek life as an organization is dedicated to the values of service to not only the school but also the community,” said Hargis. “So to be able to connect with an or-ganization like St. Jude’s, which is a cause that everyone can get behind, was an easy decision to make. It also helps with getting our name out to the community and giving the university a good reputation as having students who are dedicated to serving the com-munity.”

    Rehearsals for the competition will be Nov. 15 and 17, but are closed off to the public because the organizations want to have their presentations be secretive until the event on Nov. 19.

    The competition begins at 6 p.m. in the Hugo Young Theater at the Center for the Arts building.

    Tickets cost $5 and can be pur-chased at the Greek life office or at the door.

    SUBMITTED BY EMILY MCKINLEYTheta Phi Alpha with their trophy after being announced winners with theme of Grease in last years Lip Sync.

    AU campus rallies around Nick BapstNOAH CLOONAN@noahcloonan

    On Oct. 25 the Ashland Univer-sity men’s basketball team experi-enced a scare when junior guard, Nick Bapst collapsed on the bench while at a scrimmage at the Uni-versity of Findlay.

    Bapst was immediately rushed to the hospital and it was determined that he had experienced cardiac arrest.

    He was life flighted to the Rich-ard M. Ross Heart Hospital in Columbus where he was placed in the ICU and put into a medically induced coma. Upon coming out of the induced coma, Bapst con-tracted pneumonia due to the fluid in his lungs, but doctors said that this is nothing out of the ordinary.

    Bapst is currently still at the hos-pital, but his friend and teammate, Jay Slone said spirits are high both on the team and as a medical staff that Bapst is slowing showing im-provements.

    “It got to the point where he was getting so many visitors that they had to take him and put him in a room that no one knew the room number of, and only his parents were allowed to know because he knows so many people, it’s unbe-lievable,” Slone said.

    Back on campus, students have shown an outpour of love, support and prayers, all focused in the di-rection of Bapst.

    Slone said that the support has come from fellow athletes, pro-fessors and even those who have never met Bapst.

    “People who maybe have never even talked to him are affected by it because he is just such a good person,” Slone said. “It just shows how powerful something like this can be.”

    Bapst is heavily involved in Fel-lowship of Christian Athletes and Slone said that during this time members of FCA have truly rallied around Bapst.

    “We went to FCA and we had a whole sermon on basically relating it to him and everybody broke off into groups and we all prayed for him and I think he felt that,” Slone

    said. “You know that was the first FCA [Nick] has missed in prob-ably three years, you know, and I think it was just special because I know missing that was probably hard for him.”

    Beyond FCA, Bapst has received support from many other of the athletic teams at AU.

    Just two days after the fact, the women’s soccer team took the field against Tiffin.

    The women took a black marker and wrote the phrase “NB Strong” on their wrists.

    The next day the volleyball and football teams followed suit as they wrapped their wrists in white tape and wrote down the same phrase.

    On Oct. 29 the women’s basket-ball team took the floor for the first time of the season in Colum-bus and their thoughts were with

    Bapst. The team showed their support

    for their fellow basketball player by tapping white tape across the back of their shoes with “NB Strong” written on them.

    “I think that everyone is con-cerned, I mean he is a big part of the men’s team, we all have that bond with him,” senior Laina Snyder said. “I know I’m texting people on the men’s team everyday asking how he’s doing, what’s the update. I feel like it’s brought our campus close together and made everybody realize how close we re-ally are.”

    Bapst’s impact has not just been on fellow athletes but it has spread through the classroom.

    See NICK BAPST, Page A6

    Student affairs announcement on campus sexual misconduct LUQMAN TAROUTI@AUCollegian

    Ashland University’s Student Af-fairs Office announced changes on campus sexual misconduct and Title IX regarding the handling of sexual misconduct cases.

    Student affairs shared the memo on Friday, Oct. 20 through MyAU portal highlighting the updated policy on sexual violence. The post also shared the resources that are available to members of the cam-pus community.

    Title IX of the Education Amendments Act of 1972 is a fed-eral law that states: “No person in the United States shall, on the basis of sex, be excluded from participa-tion in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any education program or activity receiving Federal financial assistance.”

    The changes came after U.S. Education Secretary Betsy DeVos’ announcement in September that her department was concerned previous guidance denied proper due process to those accused.

    The Education Department is withdrawing the Dear Colleague Letter dated April 4, 2011, and Questions and Answers on Title IX and Sexual Violence dated April 29, 2014.

    The Dear Colleague Letter ini-tially was issued by Former Vice President Joe Biden and Secretary Duncan and presented guidelines on legal obligations in addressing sexual violence in school and on campus. The US Department of Education issued an updated Dear Colleague Letter to rescind parts of Title IX that deals with the burden of proof needed in campus sexual assault investigations.

    “The 2011 and 2014 guidance documents may have been well-intentioned,” the 2017 Dear Col-league Letter stated. “But those documents have led to the depriva-tion of rights for many students—both accused students denied fair process and victims denied an adequate resolution of their com-plaints.”

    The changes affect the time frame, mediation possibility and the standard of evidence.

    While the 2011 Dear Colleague Letter obligate universities to com-plete the investigation in 60 days, the new letter keeps the time frame open to whenever the investigation is complete.

    Student affairs stated that they would continue to use the 60-day time frame for investigations. If the investigation extends beyond 60 days they will inform parties in-volved with the projected comple-tion date.

    The old guideline did not recom-mend mediation for sexual miscon-duct cases specifically in rape.

    The new Dear Colleague Letter suggests mediation an option for Title IX.

    The Department of Education Q&A on campus sexual miscon-duct document stated: “If all par-ties voluntarily agree to participate in an informal resolution that does not involve a full investigation and adjudication after receiving a full disclosure of the allegations and their options for formal resolution and if a school determines that the particular Title IX complaint is appropriate for such a process, the school may facilitate an informal resolution, Including mediation, to assist the parties in reaching a vol-untary resolution”.

    Regarding mediation, AU an-nounced that it will not be used in any cases involving an alleged rape.

    The last change is touching the standard of evidence. The previ-ous guideline required schools to use the preponderance of evidence. While the new one recommends universes to use clear and convinc-ing standards.

    Ashland University decided to continue using the preponderance of evidence and to keep working with the evidence approach of the old guideline.

    AU’s Department of Education will share any further updates is-sued with the campus community via campus memo, followed by a posting on the Title IX website.

    AU ATHLETICSNick Bapst averaged 8.1 points per game in 2016-17.

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    Be thankful, but not for ThanksgivingBEX HUNTER @Bexihunt

    Thanksgiving is just around the corner and a lot of us will be head-ing home to spend time with our families, eat our body weight in food and celebrate the yearly tra-ditions involved with the holidays.

    But what exactly is it that we are celebrating? According to Ameri-can history, we are celebrating the nice friendly dinner between the Pilgrims and the Native Ameri-cans when they first came over on the Mayflower. We all know the story. Tisquantum, better known as Squanto, of the Wampanoag tribe, taught the Pilgrims how to fish and farm and agreed to be their interpreter. Those friendly

    little Pilgrims were just so grateful to him and all of the Native Ameri-cans that they threw a huge festival to celebrate the harvest which is now known as the first Thanksgiv-ing. They were all great friends and everyone lived happily ever after.

    Too bad that is not really what happened.

    In reality, Thanksgiving is basi-cally just a holiday celebrating the genocide of almost an entire eth-nicity of people. While sure, the first Thanksgiving really did hap-pen and the Pilgrims and Native Americans had a harvest festival, the Pilgrims then continued on to slaughter the Native Americans and steal their land.

    For some reason people tend to forget that whole part to the story.

    The Native Americans helped the Pilgrims and those who did not, had every right not to. The Pil-grims raped and killed their people just for land. I do not think you would be super friendly to them either.

    It is so important to teach and understand all of American histo-ry, not just the positive parts. Our ancestors did some messed up stuff and we need to acknowledge that, especially during Thanksgiving. I mean, they literally almost wiped out an entire group of people, we should not be celebrating that.

    While I do not support the history of Thanksgiving, I can totally get behind the message it is trying to send: be thankful.

    Not only for the big things you

    may have accomplished, but also the little things in your life.

    Life may suck right now. It always has its ups and downs and some-times you have a lot of ups and other times you just have seem-ingly never ending days of down. Whether your life is going great or absolutely horrible you can always find something you are grateful for.

    Maybe you just ate the best din-ner at Convo or maybe your fa-vorite show is still running on TV. Maybe the dryer did not steal any of your socks or maybe your crush just snapchatted you. Even if ev-erything else in your life has gone to crap, maybe someone let you pet their dog on your way to class this morning.

    Be thankful that there are people

    who care about you, even if it some-times feels like no one does. For us students, be thankful that you are getting an education. Be thankful that you are able to even read this article. Be thankful that I am even allowed to write it without it being censored.

    If absolutely nothing else, be thankful that you are alive and breathing.

    I am not telling you to completely disregard Thanksgiving as a holi-day.

    Go stuff your face with food, spend time with your family and be thankful.

    Just understand and acknowl-edge that Thanksgiving itself is not something that we should cel-ebrate.

    Our sincere apologySTAFF EDITORIAL@AUCollegian

    It has been brought to our atten-tion that a story published in the last issue of the Collegian about Masterminds Escape Room and Game Library included incorrect and plagiarized information.

    The article listed the pricing for the escape room and game library incorrectly. The correct pricing is $25 for the escape room, with a $2 discount to military and students, and $5 for the game library.

    The writer of the story did not in-terview their sources directly and instead plagiarized them from a Richland Source article. None of the editors had realized this be-fore publishing the article and we apologize for not doing a better job at fact checking.

    The article “Ashland’s Mas-terminds to open game library Thursday: Escape rooms expected to be finished by end of October” is

    by Tim Busbey, who deserves full credit for their work that the Col-legian writer stole.

    The Collegian writer did not fol-low the integrity of the journalism our publication believes in, and is being dealt with accordingly.

    We as a staff would like to sin-cerely apologize to Masterminds Escape Room and Game Library-for publishing incorrect informa-tion about their company, as well as the Richland Source for the plagiarism of their work that took place.

    To read the original Rich-land Source article visit: http://w w w. r i c h l a n d s o u r c e . c o m /a s h l a n d _ s ou r c e/a s h l a n d - s -masterminds-to-open-game-l i-brary-thursday/article_2da20188-a9b9-11e7-95a9-ebb18dfd20ca.html

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    The way we once wereBELLA PACINELLI@AUCollegian

    Life is pretty funny sometimes. When something bad happens it feels like the end of the world. As young adults, us college students definitely fall victim to taking things out of proportion. In those hard times, have you ever thought about the big picture? So yes, I am in an argument with my mom, I have not reached my goal weight, and I am stressed out about the amount of homework I have. There was a time when none of that mat-tered. Think of your younger self - a careless, happy, light-hearted individual who had the power to bring joy to anyone that surround-ed you; life was not always this se-rious. We were held and cuddled by

    family members because we were fragile beings who were so incred-ibly easy to love. The way people looked at us could move moun-tains. Well, why can this not reign true today? If we truly were so lovable, I am

    sure we would treat ourselves and others much better. We lived in an imaginative world

    where a fake phone was better than a real one. Our training wheeled bikes may

    have been slow, but we swore they could take us to the edge of the earth. Nothing was limited because we created the world we lived in. There is a lot we feel like we cannot do now. Curiosity ran through our veins.

    We were interested in things for the sole purpose of learning and understanding more. Nowadays, it seems as if we are furthering our education because we feel we need to, not because we want to. Appar-

    ently, something got disordered as we grew older. We did not compare ourselves to

    others. The unrecognized beauty we held was never in competition with the rest of the world. We whis-tled to our own tune and presented ourselves the way we were - real. We smiled in pictures without the thought of how many likes it would get on Instagram. It did not matter what we looked

    like because we did not know it had to look a certain way. But wait…it does not. We found joy in the simplest of

    things, like pulling all the tupper-ware out of the cupboards and de-ciding to sit in there for a few min-utes. Or hiding in a laundry basket because we were small enough to do so. We made the best out of every situation because there was no reason not to. Today, we are at-tracted to a complicated, complex way of life. There was no fear of the unknown.

    We took things as they came and lived freely in a world with limit-less opportunities. We talked to new people because we were brave and looking for excitement. Think about how many times a day we avoid doing something out of fear or anxiety. It is fascinating to think that there was a time when we were instinctively fearless.We did what made us happy and

    stopped doing the things that made us unhappy. It was as simple as A-B-C (literally). There was no need to please anybody else because our main priority was to be happy. Oh, how that has changed! Unfortu-nately, it feels like we forget to cre-ate a life that make us truly joyful. Material things did not really

    have any value. We were content with what we had, no matter how

    much or how little. There was no concern about getting the newest iPhone or getting the most expen-sive clothes. More important things captured our attention. When you really think about it, why do more important things not capture our attention now? There was a time when we did not

    think about, obsess over or worry about what food we ate. We nour-ished our body with what people gave to us and it did not matter if it was fruit or chocolate. As a young woman, I definitely struggle with over-analyzing my diet choices. However, we should remember to love our bodies for all they do for us.One of the most unbelievable

    habits of our past was asking for help. It was obvious that not ev-erything could be done on our own - and this was okay. For some reason, it is not so “okay” anymore. We feel like we need to have all the answers, all the time. Although change is inevitable, I

    think it is safe to say that we have lost the innocence we possessed as children. Society has changed the way we see the world and we take to things much differently now. It is important to look back on

    the qualities we once had and real-ize that living a simple life was all we knew. The things we take for granted now, were once appreci-ated. The most important things now, were not always the most im-portant things then. As we move forward in our lives,

    we must focus on the overall can-vas and paint a life that is loving, happy and kind. Never forget that the child we once were, is still within us. Reminisce on the past, be grateful for the present and get excited for the future!