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Difficult or Different? PEOPLE

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Page 1: New People Skills One Day Presentation - Effectiveness Institute · 2020. 6. 30. · People Skills One Day Presentation Author: Mikki Created Date: 7/24/2014 10:02:36 AM

Difficult or Different?

PEOPLE

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Think of a person that is difficult or

challenging for you to work with…

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Observable Behavior

Choice

ICEBERG

Total Personality

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BEHAVIOR VS. PERSONALITY

PERSONALITY is who you are.

BEHAVIOR is what you do.

PERSONALITY cannot be situationally,

intentionally and temporarily modified by choice.

BEHAVIOR can be situationally, intentionally and

temporarily modified by choice.

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Observable Behavior

Choice

Personality

Environment Situation

Patterns of Behavior

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Decisions

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Fast, Gut

Decisions

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Process

Decisions

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Process Fast, Gut

Decisions: Low Trust/Respect

Bossy

Pushy

Rude

Slow

Clinical

Indecisive

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Process Fast, Gut

Decisions: High Trust/Respect

Decisive

Courageous

Fearless

Thoughtful

Comprehensive

Thorough

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Process Fast, Gut

Decisions

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Process Fast, Gut

Decisions

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Environment

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Stable

Environment

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Dynamic

Environment

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Dynamic Stable

Environment: Low Trust/Respect

Timid

Uncreative

Boring

Impulsive

Unfocused

Random

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Dynamic Stable

Environment: High Trust/Respect

Dependable

Consistent

Solid

Creative

Flexible

Energetic

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Dynamic Stable

Environment

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Dynamic Stable

Environment

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Accuracy

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Right Way

Accuracy

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Get it Done

Accuracy

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Right Way Get it Done

Accuracy: Low Trust/Respect

Rigid

Uptight

Obsessive

Careless

Sloppy

Reckless

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Right Way Get it Done

Accuracy: High Trust/Respect

Precise

Defined

Truthful

Big Picture

Shrewd

Adroit

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Right Way Get it Done

Accuracy

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Right Way Get it Done

Accuracy

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People

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Socially Assertive

People

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Socially Cautious

People

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Socially Cautious

Socially Assertive

People: Low Trust/Respect

Dramatic

Shallow

Egotistical

Insecure

Fearful

Stuck-up

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Socially Cautious

Socially Assertive

People: High Trust/Respect

Confident

Self-assured

Outgoing

Restrained

Humble

Reserved

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Socially Cautious

Socially Assertive

People

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Socially Cautious

Socially Assertive

People

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Sliding on a line…

TRUST & RESPECT

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Accuracy

Decisions

Environment

People

Pattern 1 Pattern 2

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Accuracy

Decisions

Environment

People

Pattern 3

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Decisions

Environment

People

Accuracy

Pattern 4 - Learned Balance

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Accuracy

Decisions

Environment

Pattern 5 - Situationally Appropriate

People

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Accuracy

Decisions

Environment

People

Team Discussion

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People Skills

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Questions?

George Myers

Senior Partner/Consultant [email protected]

www.effectivenessinstitute.com

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George Myers

Senior Partner/Consultant [email protected]

www.effectivenessinstitute.com

Thank you!