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Page 1: LOOK AT ME FIRST!

DATE NIGHTDATE NIGHTSCORECARD

MAD LIBS®:

______ out of 10 points

WOULD YOU RATHER?: ______ out of 15 points

PART 2 BONUS: ______ out of 3 points

CRANIUM®:

______ out of 9 points

SCORECARD PHOTO: ______ out of 3 points

TOTAL: ______ out of 40 possible points!

MAD LIBS®:

______ out of 10 points

WOULD YOU RATHER?: ______ out of 15 points

PART 2 BONUS: ______ out of 3 points

CRANIUM®:

______ out of 9 points

SCORECARD PHOTO: ______ out of 3 points

TOTAL: ______ out of 40 possible points!

... BUT WHO’S KEEPING SCORE?!

Post a photo of yourselves with your scorecard and the hashtag

#CCBCDATENIGHT

for a chance to WIN A FREE COOKING CLASS FOR TWO

at SUR LA TABLE ($140 value).

WIN A FREE COOKING CLASS FOR TWO

SUR LA TABLE

#CCBCDATENIGHT

W E LCO M E TO YO U R

DATE NIGHT!Our hope is for you both to have a good time, laugh, make some memories and connect with each other.

Together you’ll plan your date night destination(s) on your own, but we’re here to give a little help along the way. Here are some guidelines:1. Choose your destination(s). You can go to a five-star restaurant, a

taco stand, a café, Whataburger, etc. or be progressive and do all of the above!* It doesn’t matter. You can connect with your sweetheart anywhere in the world, so it’s your choice. What’ll it be?

2. Once you’ve decided, pick up the card that says Part One. Good luck!

FORGETD O N ’ T

T H E T H E M E F O R T H I S DAT E N I G H T D R I V E - T H R U I S

GAME ON!GAME ON!

*If you dropped off children at Next Generation Kids Care, you must return to pick them up by 8:30 p.m.

LOOK AT ME

FIRST!FIRST!

K E E P S CO R E O N T H E B AC K O F T H I S C A R D A N D S H A R E O N S O C I A L M E D I A F O R A C H A N C E TO W I N A P R I Z E !

K E E P S CO R EW I N A P R I Z E !

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Only someone very ____________ would care so much about such

things so deeply. I could tell that there was a certain amount of

_______________ between us. It was as if we were scoring __________

on a scale of one to a hundred on the relationship-o-meter. I couldn’t

wait to get home to write every detail of this _____________ experience

down, dear Diary. I think the thing I was most impressed with was

his/her knowledge of _________________ . It’s as if they ______________

the manual on it! Ah, I feel as though I’m ______________ in love with

this person. I honestly think they hung the _______________. If we get

married and have ____________________ someday, I hope they get

his/her ________________________________. Okay, Diary, off to

_______________. I hope I dream of ____________ tonight, and that

visions of my new dream-_________________ dance across my head

on repeat until I awake.

ADJECTIVE

ADJECTIVE

TYPE OF SPORTS VERB PAST TENSE

VERB ENDING IN -ING

PLANETARY OBJECT

PIECE OF FURNITURE NOUN

NAUTICAL VESSEL

TYPE OF MAMMAL, PLURAL

FAVORITE FEATURE OF A PERSON IN THIS CAR

SCHOOL SUBJECT NUMBER

TALLY IT

UP!

If one or both of you laughed at any point during the reading of this Mad Lib® , you each get 10 points. (Add it to the Date Night Scorecard.)

If you’re still driving around after playing our Mad Libs®, answer these questions (both of you):

• What’s your date’s best body part?• Is it our similarities or our differences that attract us to each other?• What was your most fun childhood activity?

PART ONE

THE DRIVEPART ONE

THE DRIVEINSTRUCTIONS:1. Start driving to your dinner destination.2. While driving, the passenger will ask the driver to

provide various words for the following Mad Lib®. (Don’t give away the title of the lib until after the driver has finished giving answers. This could spoil the fun!)

3. As the driver provides each answer, the passenger will write down the answer in each blank spot.

4. Once completed, the passenger reads the title and the following Mad Lib® out loud.

5. Go on to Part Two during dinner, after you’ve ordered.MAD

LIB

WHAT I REMEMBER ABOUT OUR FIRST DATEDear Diary, ________________________ here. It was such a memorable

afternoon! I don’t think I will ever forget the feeling of my____________

leaping out of my __________________ when I first saw him/her.

__________________________ was stunningly ______________: his/her

eyes sparkling like ________________ on a morning field; his/her

_____________________ so ___________, as light streamed across the

space between us and seemed to highlight the fact that we were

____________. I was so impressed that __________________ was so

attentive to my every __________. He/she was so complimentary of my

______________ and ___________, which I found quite intriguing.

FIRST NAME OF SOMEONE IN CAR

ORGAN

PART OF THE BODY

FIRST NAME OF OTHER PERSON IN CAR ADJECTIVE

SHINY OBJECT, PLURAL

ARTICLE OF CLOTHING ADJECTIVE

ADJECTIVE SAME NAME AS FIRST BLANK

NOUN

ARTICLE OF CLOTHING ACCESSORY

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WOU

LD Y

OU R

ATHE

R?

10. Would you rather work in an office doing paperwork or outside building something (assuming the pay is the same)?

11. Would you rather volunteer at a homeless shelter or be a tutor for underprivileged kids?

12. Would you rather lose the ability to hear or lose the ability to walk?13. Would you rather be the absolute ruler in a tiny country or an

important politician among many other important politicians in a large, powerful country?

14. Would you rather work a morally questionable job that makes a lot of money or a job that helps a lot of people but doesn’t make much money?

15. Would you rather not shower for a week or not brush your teeth for a week?

If you still have some time after playing Would You Rather?, fill in the blanks for the following statements. Gentlemen, answer the ones on the left, and ladies, answer the ones on the right.

• The most fun I have leading you is by __________.

• If we had to move, I’d live in ______________ with you.

• My favorite inside joke that we have is ____________.

• The most fun I have serving you is by __________.

• If we had to move, I’d live in ______________ with you.

• My favorite inside joke that we have is ____________.

YOU CAN ADD 1 BONUS POINT FOR EACH BLANK ANSWERED.

PART TWO

THE DINNERPART TWO

THE DINNERINSTRUCTIONS:1. Wait until after you’ve ordered your food to start this game.2. Each of you will read a question to the other. You can take

turns, or both answer every question.3. The listener must pick one of the two options presented

by the reader, and they must give their reason for picking that option.

4. You get 1 point for each question that you answer. (Married for a while? Shake it up by making this a guessing game and award points to the reader if they can guess what the listener will say before they say it!)

5. Go on to Part Three during dessert.

WOU

LD Y

OU R

ATHE

R?

ASK EACH OTHER

THESE QUESTIONS1. Would you rather stay in or go out for a date?2. Would you rather wear comfortable clothes or fashionable clothes?3. Would you rather take a vow of celibacy or take a vow of silence?4. Would you rather watch a comedy movie or a horror movie?5. Would you rather get up early or stay up late?6. Would you rather spend the day inside or outside?7. Would you rather ask for help or figure it out yourself?8. Would you rather go to a fancy, expensive restaurant or a cheaper,

relaxed atmosphere where the food is equally good?9. Would you rather spend $5,000 on traveling or on a physical item

(like a TV)?

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DRAW: The most thoughtful thing you’ve done for me is …

LADIES

If you still have some time left after playing Cranium® or on the drive back, answer the following (both of you):

• What do you believe gets in the way of us having more fun together?

• What non-sexual thing do I do that really turns you on?• How would our relationship change if we spent six

months apart?

MARRIED COUPLES

Go home and have some fun!If you dropped off children at Next Generation Kids Care, you must return to pick them up by 8:30 p.m.

Try the Part Four “challenge” tomorrow morning!

FEELING A BIT

CRAZY?CRAZY?

PART THREE

THE DESSERTPART THREE

THE DESSERTINSTRUCTIONS:1. Each of you will draw something related to each

question below.2. Drawing must either be done with your eyes closed

or with your non-dominant hand.3. If your date guesses what you drew, you get 3 points.

CRAN

IUM

®

DRAW: The most fun thing we’ve done together in the past year is ...

GENTLEMEN

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WWW.CCBCFAMILY.ORGWWW.CCBCFAMILY.ORG

MARRIAGE IS IMPORTANTEvents like Date Night Drive-Thru exist to help you and your spouse pursue a relationship that matches God’s mission for marriage. No matter how your date night went, we challenge you to consider the following Christ Chapel resources as ways to continue growing together.

Fort Worth and West CampusesWhether you simply want to grow closer together, you’re struggling to get along or you think your marriage is broken, there’s a place for you at re|engage. re|engage offers hope by helping couples move toward oneness through stories of grace, teaching and small groups which follow a specified curriculum.There’s no need to sign up beforehand; you can begin the re|engage process at any time. For more info, visit www.ccbcfamily.org/reengage.

Fort Worth CampusAveNEW is a great place for engaged or newly-married couples to connect to community and interact with teaching on biblical marriage. At AveNEW, young couples get coaching from experienced couples on how to get on the same path and grow closer together as they draw closer to God.Next series: Sundays, May 21, May 28, June 4 and June 11We meet for free lunch at 12:15 p.m. in The Den at the Fort Worth Campus. For more info, go to www.ccbcfamily.org/youngcouples.

avenew

PART FOUR

THE CHALLENGETo stay connected and appreciated, mix the serious with the fun. Here’s what we want you to try:DATING!

KEEP

DATING!

DURING YOUR MORNING COFFEE OR SATURDAY BREAKFAST:Read John 15:9-13. Recount ways Christ has shown you love. How has Christ called usto love others? List the people in your life that you need to love more like Christ.Thank Jesus for specific ways He’s shown love to you. Ask Him to give you the heart and ability to love others as He loves you.

SOMETIME THIS WEEK:Review the following questions and jot down your answers. Pick a night to discuss your answers together. Try making this a part of your weekly routine!

1. How did you feel loved this past week?2. What does your upcoming week look like?3. How would you feel most loved and encouraged this week?4. How can I pray for you this week?5. How would you best feel pursued in emotional and physical

intimacy this week?6. What can we do to have fun this week?

(Adapted from www.todaysletters.com)