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I\drt's e'rail to zy{fu sr'$ rcqu*ted by his urcle ums forwarded to Mr.. F.ilis fn fuisfiles., This term is wdtren in ressre torri**'q .*ru irrrt*, choice iu t rrtngaggressiveactionagaissthis emilybyrepmedly osplslingmnmture aod inrypquiatebehavior has to be adfressea immeuiatery ror dmrc oi#sanoatner's kalth,wo don't know if zylo uadorstauls fte rmrifications ofhif fufisd aotioas md ed kumecess*ily prad his gadfatter in a conopronnised aud ;u,l$fod po#o* lt*importaotly, k threa*red his grfidfafhr" trngil" km t m ,o harre beea trying tostabilize usiEg his usual weapon of harassmNrtlzyu#"

* po* ad gnreaso*ableiudgmmt decisioo by afing a fuls atuse repo*t ageinst * *ir u*oro the rctirrmentcommmity satrincruding tb caregivers rqe*rt dly fu",rghor* 2007.. curmtly hisaotions have rippled fuushe" ***rity.,k** fffiresifu"Please be aun*re

"tF fofiowing fa6. I a* that mypersonal o,,itta commea8 befreatd co.fidetiaily. I fed @rrai'*"t io "

*,t ifi*, tun zylo deci& ro hi*gtitigatior against &6 Esaate afterhis g*rdefb".;;;;,;*% aj.dge wourd surely*t*ryrs" zyro'srmstable charmter gvm his &"r trn; *d history rer&d to hiseady childhood tra,ma At this time G u" ae"iafrnot [ ]rv aim a resfraining orda,rxlr pr6s e,hrgBs rmless he does not comply with his tili.flil*,s reoent request to stayaway uutil ke signifi666y chruges his bdu*or,zyJo's-req{iveps?r

9f repe*edryactingors ocsurs uouad certain dates ortbscalendar" rfis mothds aae oraeatr in spremta, tis o** tirtnoav in May, wh of ourbirtbdays; areust, Ivlsrch 4 aprit mo crrisma hrndry fir; Noy_Dec, (his mothedsbirthdayvms in lde December).-zylo agrd'to become ba$ized into &e christimreligioa wen&oughhislyfo&erwas,ewi*, she did not raise tiu ia rc reruisn frie" Mt6;rghr i- ,hu, ffibbbd;-;#*(yh" f lpryJerr) haq a sisrer Couqie sud Cond;;;ffi;-him to joia Chrisrimitywtn hE lived with he in-or,egon for a short time after he rJn n". d age Ig _19 years,Relatives on his frthe1!side o}the familyofferahim -h-ir".r*henhehad nohomethenkicked him o't of'their homes when b ac{ed ouf in fimt of them as he ha-c aonc tnro.rgthis life. His Arrrrr Connie became fiusrild

",LiI"tyiG;C; him, Onoe he mol,cd toCA he formd a Churr,h through pooplg he nftet ia tis r*iv zor rfim may have influocedhirn.,", for betkr or for worse.,Recefity, zylo ure led to KeIIer wi[imsR'aky md is ffinmtlyposingas aReltysaleman hidhg behid a fianchis locatud in Sacramentoneara" uri"kity. iG-compmy tmc'ks sales betief E stems throqgh sffiirils that eucoruage people (inclrrdingstalkers and scammus) ltg-urrt to eer ricilquick i" iJE"ffie. HJ"ilt o.a trp""dpmmotioml mdaial, tried listing orpe,nsive paony o*so te woun rave pmviai 'througb Ehy brr Ebay shrtr him doum quic*Iy. r riarre evideoce of all he p,med. -

zylo has. a Prlqtc welldocummted hhrybmt disorden luitially he su6 a TBI(tamatic brain iqiury) ftom m ailo accidqt rs&ich camed ro*rr iriot au*ug* ra* n"Ellis000rU5

2was arr in&nt- I emphasize his injrny beerrse my fafhrreqrrcsfi.s Zylo make a rignifuntbehavioral change. This chmge wiil be cognitively impos.sible fol Zylo to attain ormaintain aloae ginm Zylo'shistfiy md medical conditiontM inchdes avarietyofmedications he may or oay sot self admiuister pfioply to control seiatres, haindisorders and depression,

Perhaps we need to "*g6q

taklpg tre following Seps ed I will discrrss this with myfmily" It'Zylo follows ouly *friend$ advice or advice from family mernbers who havetied to Hp in tre pas but witholt success, he will fuil,ff Zyls at &is stage in his liftdoes notget hnedi*fo prnferiorelintcrvendm ad guidaneto contol his rwtivebshavior, be is doomed to repffit fte smre uilreoffisuy coduct for &e balm of his life.His grmffiher is disappointed in his curmrt md past misdeeds ad as h{rk aptly pointsouf he's ben mnoying, hrassine intusive, md pmvocative to fmilymembers andto o*ers.I will addhehasbeenstalking; dece,ptive lyingto (auhuities)ed maoipElatisg his family" Zylo is ruableto undsstad d aohieve his placa in trefamily prticukly on his Mother's side @ tLeir repeafied efforts u/ton theygenerously gave of themselvm to support him afrer hr deffi- tle bla*mly refises tocooperfiE witr amydoritativereqrmb especiatly ifhcdeHuoimsth a*ricr/guidansegiven is mrssmabla One example rras in &e instance of'his srfibora reed to visit hisill, rmstable gradfaeff ufu was expqiemsing seytre fuct d grief sooa Es6 tbedd ofhis wife Carol- zylo digayed poor be,havior u tht iuncure by as$ming hi$garrdf*&tr'was immiaently dyin$ He begru presrring ur with repeded pleading phoneoalls to visit dryie fie cooryurc wurned,. After s,hich he visited his gandfuberilFla. wi& a rctaliatory agemda in June 200?- He fled his first abuse rrymt in luly tr&er Ireceivd a call ftom Fla at my home in CA. I^ackitrg paieirce and considsatioa udrcfi$ingto obediennlyhnorhis grsndffier'spriracy after Caol's death, he fuvrcd usno $xipect d a gred deal of ' mlfishes" He wsutsd to'aelp' but rcfussd to aoctpt lbdit was aot necessary rdil asked. h a letu'he urot to me before k arived iE Fla" hsdistx$d ua*ing to "telp' slw his grm*s firaihrre a\ilay 6 he didn't waot bhave *my trouble" wifr me since k uas sre his grandfrrther was going to die" Hebecomes defensiveif'hs ist gmtedhis de!*ands immedielyZylo rcquires cocstaft and continud Smtion witt prufoocioual supervisinn mdstrrclurcd guidrntttoreatisticallyimpove hisrehiorrship.. Hehs (brSparticularlyjust bcfore md sincc Cuol prssd amy) prorcn by his actions to be aa entremelydistubed individual orcehekftfla. to headto CA da'he speirtyemsunderthecrustodisl guidance of his grardmdr a$ a yfimg man,, He maaipuldd ay l,srcnts 'tsinghis Trwt money, a life insurmce policy Ieft after his Motrsr die{ mdpi$ed his

strailed rrelariomhip against &e ofur. q&s h &euiued be was notgptdng ml,mhere with them hadling his fllnds he sought afur S&ron and Ih:. DeaaEdell with whom his mother was once acguainted to kudle his Estate..

I feel stuongly mditis impermivetlatmy fuily firmlyand imediatety abide bymaseed Wonleenl family doctrineforthercspet adbew6tduemyeldedypare,ne.. Thisdocfiine shuld be suitable in writing and dhffid to md should include ou exte,tdedfrmily the Rubeosieim who have also exgiecceil simils'kment arrd distuss in therccerr pst whil sssisting Zylo" Zylo must stay awry *om his tagile graodpcats whorequire peace in ee twilig[t ofrteir yers.. Until we find adequale professioral soh*ioas

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?or hoq, to suppilBs$ zylo's tleedto disfirb ed dilrEs fu eagile fmily core, he has beenaskedblrhis graaAmsrndto maka myffiup6 to eall uvisitZyIo hasmaligred and verbdizednegfrivity ear:h tonnards md againsthis gpud&therand erard*other aod me it F"fro riu ui" t-'"ffi*0"**1. rtrhe' he ffiemp* tomend femces with rs he umipulates L,T*l.".o*ai" ffil,ni"i"g with ,poou-mg freIsoay for me" pity pot aud ls i*isneo onry irhe r*** a.il*"r 1o \i&i& he breaks mypmatr doum attffiPi!8 ts aciierre love or qm1ffiy tmtil h's ecafed anotk weff tobreak thsm doum again, He sencs le{fcr$ otrroi"iriffit""a*o unittcn with ik klp of'an ditol oumr.q,b.?dlocares fy zyro"

"are-*ry to &"t the de66rrtir,. pdiertragain is e matter of months somd tte afoo t *rnnid d;* the teletrore ardruail as a tml to hrF sr to gain reess to o&srg co!fideffi, In hi$ youh *is ms&oduMked ia his &var u&en sJ.epathric axhorid;;;.ffi jurtges, Iawyers edhis$adparcff$ Ynefe involved * tis oemaoa, Now taatm is *'-.c,* n* wiII have to fa*e$e comequaces of'his ac{ions. If m arhority *g hi"-T."t . or couwunto'or,aDoctu'ce't 0FTICIALLy slow us rt* zyro'nur'rtt i*to&"r,ira *mm* ior.rdrgcouuseling adtharehabilitationis iuplace mdhisrepeatedio"ptio displayshaveyp*o"t' *qk"dly pa'tiarlacly t*a.nt ae is a speciaf"-.d; idirtouur, then he isdmmed to a frere u&ere ie will praem simitariaeaious ooto, tu mauipularesespecially aftu'hc caa ao tonger iuitoe bis fuity, nr6, eir[6**n "hl h* wont be a$imple accompli*ment ed will take time.. zyto must beoo*ua by an axhorituivepersou Gitd8e, his tustee rrfro hdles his fuey * ti" ix*tit reoas q/ho yriuadrire-him to-sarn rofesiouar, ps{ I.bloryr h"6 qry-gh,Go*iul srryvise(rehabilimive intervertion ror in&*amrs;irh ''*iut oEo*lu**rm*ely to hisdetimml t&e FIa' sta6e Adult Proestive s.cwid inv.-dg*crs and Faln ai..n c*.tyoqrub tytP.9t ry thd zyro ir u d*.ed*;urr,T;L uuo * srare officials aswell as to lisfruily py Sr"g atse reeone a"oiraoipur*JoiGsforpersonar gainwhile wastingoffcialstimo aU taxpil,ersmo&ey. Note mthe pCf epswebsifetattbo

rcports he &lsely allwd could carre iri. t d d"il *:*i*irur Eability ,r"l*:*;Hffi* him in the firur' Ref",. ro aiu pse Gmo F"# R.pdrs-Zylo's TrusH uoay aesd to be c.ontncbd by my fuher,s dtuuey or myselfas poA i{.Zylo refirses orcant mply withhisgrauift&r''s wishie in u **rm"to"ny approvedm84nx'. Irehas exhibited rcpeded suicidal tcndencies tt*u aamittato ri"iri* --irnmdi*e fuilymembers ior*hich he hss received ptarmaceuticar beetngllt in CA.Ia conclusion' we feel Tlu h* presented a daogsr to hfulsalf'and could be a danga.to *sor others in fu flmrrg, this pd to uthaf my eth* a$a iavorving BEHAWORIMPR0\IE}/IENr vis a vis IdoDIHcArroN rquires noting ib,t of profe*ior*rinterventiou- II wilt rcd guidcd inter@ssion ifueOi"r"ty. &ven tne &cts I,veprwwte4 howdo urc go ahr*helping yorruuole mdclimtachieve this?I have discussd these thoughs with my fuher to confirm that this is nitar my ffherhopesto rchievewi&rqgardsto Zylo's currentdffiuctive behavior'- We'Il decidewhattofo for tile fifilte. I pay thd he will get irt mediatp sryervlsion d rmftfu rmder coffiolinamannerthdwifi not cause oru'small fiagile Amiiymyfiutha hras$fiet, r*oti*uldarnagB ol disBs"

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4Thaaks again for hadliug my fa&erns r6,.,Bt,

BestRegards,

You cousiqLoisCc: AIIao Hayme

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