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Advisory – 7 th Grade. Listening to De-escalate Conflict. Objectives. Identify elements of Active Listening Paraphrase in a communication exercise. Vocabulary. Active Listening: A listening technique that involves paraphrasing or reflecting the speaker’s content and feelings . - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
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Listening to De-escalate Conflict
Advisory – 7th Grade
ObjectivesIdentify elements of Active
ListeningParaphrase in a communication
exercise
VocabularyActive Listening:
A listening technique that involves paraphrasing or reflecting the speaker’s content and feelings.
Active Listening
Can help you de-escalate a
conflict.
The Conflict Escalator
Every behavior in a conflict is either a step up or a step down the conflict escalator.
Behavior that makes the conflict worse will take it another step up the escalator.
Every step up the conflict escalator has feelings that go with it. As the conflict escalates, so do
the feelings.
The higher you go on the escalator, the harder it is to come down.
“I don’t deserve this grade!”
Watch the following skit of a student who feels they have been unfairly graded on a test.
(this will be the role play video of HN and MD)
Discussion How could you tell the teacher was
listening? When you’ve been in situations where you
felt someone was really listening to you, how did you feel?
How might the teacher have acted if they were not listening?
What was the effect of the teacher listening on the conflict?
Have you ever had a conflict situation where listening helped de-escalate it?
Active Listening Guidelines: PEAR
P E A R
Paraphrase the facts:
“So you want to go to the party
and your parents won’t
let you.”“You thought we
were going to meet at your house before going to the
dance.”
Active Listening Guidelines: PEAR
P E A R
Encourage the other person to talk:
“I’m willing to listen to your side.”
“Do you want to talk this
out?”
Active Listening Guidelines: PEAR
P E A R
Pay Attention.
Look at the speaker.
Encourage them by nodding or other positive
signs.
Active Listening Guidelines: PEAR
P E A R
Reflect feelings.
“You sound upset about not being able to go
to the party.”
“How do you feel when she says those kinds of
things?”
Practice Paraphrasing
Get in groups of 3. Each group receives a pile of Paraphrase Practice
Cards. Student 1 draws a card and reads it to student 2. Student 2 paraphrases what they heard,
reflecting both the facts and the feelings. When student 1 feels the paraphrase is
complete, they say, “Okay.” Student 2 then reads to student 3, then student
3 to student 1.
Wrap Up Listening can help de-escalate a
conflict. PEAR is the acronym for Active
Listening. PEAR stands for Paraphrase,
Encourage, pay Attention, and Reflect.