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Award-winning historian Jeanne Theoharis debunks contemporary imaginings of the civil rights movement in her new book, A More Beautiful and Terrible History: The Uses and Misuses of Civil Rights History. By showing how

Many of us are engaged in social justice work or political action, seeking to change the recent direction of our country. How do we maintain hope and build up our courage for that work? And, at the same time, how do we stay true to our Ethical Culture principles? Join Amanda as she explores the idea of courage with real examples, and a little bit of humor. AMANDA POPPEI is in her 10th year as Senior Leader at the Washington Ethical Society. A Unitarian Universalist minister as well as an Ethical Culture Leader, Amanda is Vice-President of the UU Humanist Association and co-founder of the Humanist Clergy Collaboratory. This week’s shared charity is the Fourth Universal Society/Sanctuary Program. In March 2018, the church welcomed Aura Hernandez and her two children, Camila and Daniel, into sanctuary. Fearing a forced return to Guatemala, where her life would be in significant danger and she would be separated from her family, Aura is fighting to secure a stay of deportation, have her immigration case re-opened, and secure a U-Visa.

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COURAGE FOR THERESISTANCE…AND THERELATIONSHIPSAmanda Poppei, Sr. Leader, Washington Ethical Society Joe Fashing presides

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A MORE BEAUTIFUL AND TERRIBLE HISTORY:THE USES AND MISUSES OF CIVIL RIGHTS HISTORYProf. Jeanne Theoharis Steve Serling presides

the movement was unpopular, disruptive, coast-to-coast, leader-full, and courageously persevering in its time, Theoharis challenges exceptionalist narratives of American democracy that place the civil rights movement firmly in the past and calls attention to the crucial work that remains to be done. JEANNE THEOHARIS is Distinguished Professor of Political Science at Brooklyn College, CUNY, and author or co-author of books and articles on the civil rights and Black Power movements, the politics of race and education, and social welfare and civil rights in post-9/11 America. Her biography, “The Rebellious Life of Mrs. Rosa Parks,” was named one of the 25 Best Academic Titles of 2013 by Choice. Theoharis’s work has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, MSNBC, The Nation, Slate, The Atlantic, Boston Review, Salon, The Intercept, and The Chronicle of Higher Education. Her new book, “A More Beautiful and Terrible History: The Uses and Misuses of Civil Rights History,” came out in January. This week’s shared charity is the Sadie Nash Leadership Project, founded in 2001 to promote leadership and activism among young women. The program is designed to strengthen, empower, and equip young women as agents for change in their lives and in the world.

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My friend and colleague James Croft and I are co-teaching a seminar class, Course 101: The Humanist Lifestance, during the weekend of August 24-26 at the office of the American Humanist Association (AHA) located at 1821 Jefferson Place, NW, Washington, DC. Please join us! This is a pre-requisite course, upon successful completion of which you are eligible to take other classes. To register online with the AHA Center for Education (formerly the Humanist Institute) and receive the syllabus, go to http://cohe.humanistinstitute.org/news/enroll-in-the-humanist-lifestance/. Over the weekend, we will address questions of personal meaning, worth, and significance in a naturalistic way through readings, films, and personal storytelling. Twenty years ago this summer, I spent a week at The Mountain Retreat and Learning Center in Highlands, NC, atop a peak of the Great Smoky Mountains. It was the second Summer Lay Leadership training offered by the American Ethical Union, and I had heard good reports from friends who participated in 1996. Since my family had abandoned me – son traveling in Europe before entering high school, daughter working as a camp counselor, and husband attending tax law conferences – I felt it was an opportunity to also get away from home and deepen my experience of Ethical Culture. Little did I know that by the end of the week I would seriously consider becoming an Ethical Culture Leader!

LEADER’S DESKDR. ANNE KLAEYSEN

Becoming a Humanist

There have been times in my life, and I imagine in yours as well, when a path seems to be revealed, and a choice must be made. It can be subtle or strong. I’ve used the metaphor of the universe tossing pebbles against my window to get my attention. Sometimes it takes a boulder to come crashing through the pane. It’s easy to ignore an invitation to try something new when old routines and doubts prevail. And yet there is something exciting about change, especially when it holds a promise of transformation: becoming more fully oneself.

Humanism... Here was a philosophy – and, for me, a religion – for life.

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Lay leadership training that summer, in a setting of wide natural vistas and among people whom I came to love, awakened in me a longing to grow. It was an expansive and inclusive feeling that gained clarity of thought and intention. It remained to discuss the future with trusted family and friends when I descended from The Mountain. Essential to my personal growth and professional development was The Humanist Institute. For three years, I was a student in Class X, co-mentored by Ethical Culture Leader Jone Johnson Lewis and Dr. Harvey Sarles, professor of Cultural Studies & Comparative Literature at the University of Minnesota. Their pedagogical methodology was informed by Greek philosopher Socrates and pragmatist philosopher John Dewey. Our reading lists were long and our seminar discussions intense. Humanism came alive for me and I embraced it. Here was a philosophy – and, for me, a religion – for life. Humanism has been defined in many ways since the first Humanist Manifesto was published in 1933, followed by Manifestoes II and III, in 1973 and 2003. Every practicing Humanist contributes to its meaning. My favorite definition is on the American Humanist Association’s website: “Humanism is a progressive lifestance that, without theism or other supernatural beliefs, affirms our ability and responsibility to lead meaningful, ethical lives capable of adding to the greater good of humanity.” My study at The Humanist Institute was accepted as the equivalent of a Master of Divinity degree by Hebrew Union College, where I earned a Doctor of Ministry degree in pastoral care. I was also certified by the American Ethical Union as an Ethical Culture Leader. When the Humanist Institute called me back to co-mentor Class XV withDr. Anthony Pinn, professor of religion at Rice University, I seized another opportunity to grow over the course of three years of seminars. I was also asked to serve as co-Dean with the late Carol Wintermute and with Rev. David Breedan, Senior Minister, First Unitarian Society of Minneapolis. Now I look forward to teaching and learning with James, who is an Ethical Culture Leader at the St. Louis Society, and a new class of Humanists. Students are no longer required to commit to three years of seminars. They may select from a number of courses and, if they wish, pursue a program that will grant certification from the new AHA Center for Education. This provides a more flexible experience and exposure to more Humanist teachers and students. Check it out! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain, including become more fully yourself.

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ETHICAL IN THE NEWS

EXPLORE ETHICAL

Gather in a relaxed and safe setting to discuss death, drink tea and eat delicious cake as we strive to increase our awareness of death and help one another make the most of our (finite) lives. Topics include health care proxies, ethical wills and green burial. Monthly 4th Wednesday; also 2nd Sunday: see p.8)

Wednesday, July 25 & August 22, 2:30-4:30pmCeremonial Hall

Members Free, Guests $5 per session

Dr. Anne Klaeysen and Rick Chavolla, Executive Director of the American Indian Community House, joined host Tiokasin Ghosthorse to speak about the American Ethical Union's Annual Assembly, and the importance

411 Teen/WFSUIn this interview, broadcast on a Florida NPR affiliate, Dr. Anne Klaeysen is joined by Tallahassee-based rabbi Jack Romberg. Together they and the show’s host take on the issue of ethics, civics and teens. Why is it important for teens to question ideals, or laws? How do we negotiate conversations with those with whom we disagree? Why is there value in this exchange? Why should civics education in the classroom be encouraged? A running theme throughout the discussion was the Parkland Shooting, how the teens’ voices dominated in the aftermath of the tragedy and how negatively some adults responded.

First Voices IndigenousRadio and Metro New York

of listening to indigenous voices when it comes to our environment and land. The interview was broadcast on 74 public and community radio stations in the US and Canada, including WBAI in New York City in May, and then published in Metro New York in early June, mentioning Anne and Rick’s participation in the AEU Assembly.

All programs are open to the public. Newcomers are always welcome.

ONGOING PROGRAMS AT THE SOCIETY

For Advance Registration contact MaggieDetermann, Membership Coordinator:

mdetermann@nysec.org 212-874-5210 x1113

DEATH CAFÉ at ETHICALRev. Dr. Barbara Simpson,Bereavement Program Community Outreach Coordinator at Caring Hospice Services

ETHICAL LIVING: EXISTENCE AND MEANING Leader Anne KlaeysenFrom the moment we awaken in the morning until we tumble into bed at night, we are faced with challenges and opportunities to behave ethically. We may have time to consider the consequences of our response to a situation or need to make an immediate choice. In either case, we rely upon our values and experience. In these sessions, we will discuss essays from acclaimed writers and apply them to our own lives, sharing our collective wisdom with one another. Readings, available from Maggie Determann, room 501, are selected essays from Modern Ethics in 77 Arguments edited by Peter Catapano and Simon Critchley.

2nd & 4th Thursdays. July 12 & 26, August 9 & 236:30 – 8 pm, Elliott Library

Members Free, Guests $5 per session

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Admission fees are suggested donations.

ETHICS FOR CHILDREN presents

ANNUAL ROOFTOP-CAMPING NIGHTPotluck Picnic Dinner & Family ActivitiesSaturday, July 28, 6pm – Sunday, July 29, 1pmAudrey Kindred,Youth & Family Programs Coordinator

We will again feature a special “story-telling and song” circle. Bring food to share and your favorite pillow, and join us for a fun night under the moon and stars with your Ethical family.

Free. REGISTRATION REQUIRED:EthicsForChildren@nysec.org

EMPOWERING ETHICAL ELDERSPresentations are by individuals on a range of issues facing seniors, their caregivers, families and friends. Monthly, 1st and 3rd Thursdays.

6-8pm Elliott Library, Room 507

Light refreshments servedFree Please call to register. See box at top of the page.

7/5: LONGEVITY & THE GERONTOLOGICAL CLUB —A CLUB WE WOULD ALL LIKE TO BE MEMBERS OFWendy Panken, LCSW 7/19: EFFECTIVE TREATMENT FOR ADDICTEDOLDER ADULTS AND CAREGIVERSMark Zilberman, LCSW

8/2: STAYING FRIENDLY WITH YOUR AGING BODYWendy Panken, LCSW

8/16: DEALING WITH ARTHRITISMark Zilberman, LCSW

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GREAT LITERATURE DISCUSSIONSGunther Tielemans, Moderator7/11: THE DEATH OF THE HEART, by Elizabeth Bowen8/8: CITY OF THIEVES, by David BenioffRead the short story or novella in advance and be prepared to discuss the aspects of interest to you by referring to specific related text and reading it to the group. Visit https://www.meetup.com/Great-Liter-ature-Discussions to learn more about us. Monthly, 1st Wednesday.

Wednesday, July 11, Aug. 8, 7-9 pm Elliott Library, Room 507Members Free, Guests $5

THE JOY OF PERSONAL WRITINGElaine Berman Gurney, InstructorTry your hand at writing personal non-fiction In this 5-week class. You can belong to a supportive group of writers and get started writing or just have fun working on writing skills. Beginners and more experienced writers are welcome.Advance registration required. See box at top of p.3

Thursdays 12:30-2:30pm starting August 2Members $100, Guests $150

Fee covers all sessions.

LEADER LUNCH DISCUSSIONS Dr. Anne Klaeysen, LeaderRead the articles in advance if you can; access them on ine, pick them up when you attend the next weekly discussion, or stop in at our Membership Office, Room 501, and ask Maggie Determann for them. Come join the discussion.Theme – MIXED BAG7/5 – “What to the Slave Is the Fourth of July?” by Frederick Douglass, delivered on 7/5/1852 and reprinted in The Nation, 7/4/1912 (https://bit.ly/29lNffs)7/12 – “CanPlanetEarthFeed10BillionPeople?” by Charles C. Mann, TheAtlantic, 3/2018 (https://theatln.tc/2F3ZLNl)7/19 – “BachattheBurgerKing” by Theodora Gioia, LosAngelesReviewofBooks, 5/17/18 (https://bit.ly/2JL3dPC)7/26 – “FreshPrince:TheSchemesandDreamsofSaudiArabia’sNextKing” by F. Gregory Gause III, ForeignAffairs, May/June 2018 (https://fam.ag/2pli5eC)8/2 – “TheBirthofaNewAristocracy” by Matthew Stewart, TheAtlantic, June 2018 (https://theatln.tc/2GmRqEw)8/9 – “AnAlgorithmicInvestigationoftheHighfalutin‘PoetVoice’” by Cara Giaimo, AtlasObscura, 5/1/18 (https://bit.ly/2wkO8SS) and “NotesTowardanIntroduction” by William Logan, TheNewCriterion, May 2018 (https://bit.ly/2ta8klc)8/16 – “AsRealAsItGets” by Joshua Rothman, TheNewYorker, 4/2/18 (https://bit.ly/2FXdvhT)8/23 – “WhereMyanmarWentWrong” by Zoltan Barany, ForeignAffairs, May/June 2018 (https://fam.ag/2HNcRj9)8/30 – “CominginfromtheCold” by Nicholas Dames, NPlusOneMagazine, Spring 2018 (https://bit.ly/2rSGlG4)

Thursdays, 12-1:30pmElliott Library, Room 507

Free

RACE, SYSTEMS, AND SOCIETY Dr. Richard Koral, Leader Even among those who are mindful of the subtle racial, ethnic, and class distinctions that persist in society, we are all participants in a larger societal structure that perpetuates injustices. We will read and discuss books and articles that explore the features of systemic racism and classism in America to better understand the ways in which society can recreate itself to permit all people to flourish and thrive. Monthly, 2nd Tuesday.

Tuesday, July 10, Aug. 14, 6:30–8pm Elliott Library Room 507

Members Free, Guests $5 per session

“SLICE OF LIFE” STORYTELLING WORKSHOP SERIES Moderator: Dr. Richard Koral, Leader Learn how to craft and share 5-minute true stories that will engage, inspire, illuminate, and entertain. Fee includes all sessions. Our four-part “Slice of Life” storytelling workshop series will culminate in a showcase performance for those trainees who choose to participate.

Bi-weekly Wednesdays, July 9 & 23, Aug 6 & 20, 6 – 8pm

Members: $20 Guests: $30

SPEAKING OF SCIENCESAVING ELEPHANTS BY HELPING PEOPLECoordinators: Joe Fashing and Jesus Torres-VasquezRavi Corea, Founder/President, Sri Lanka Wildlife Conservation Society Conserving the Asian elephant in the wild is an enormous challenge. It is one of the most endangered mega-herbivores in the world. Over the last 50 years, human/elephant conflict has become a major environmental and socio-economic crisis in Sri Lanka. Annually 60 to 80 rural people die from elephant attacks, and around 230 elephants die due to farmers killing them to protect themselves and their crops. The Sri Lanka Wildlife Conservation Society has been addressing the problem for 21 years; yet the crisis continues to escalate. Their innovative Saving Elephants by Helping People Project fosters the concept of fencing elephants out, rather than fencing them in, and has won international recognition and commendations for its success. Learn more at this fascinating presentation.

Monday, July 23, 6:30-8pm Adler Study, Room 514

Members $5, Guests $10WISDOM AND WORLD AFFAIRSKen Gans facilitatesThese philosophical discussions cover a wide variety of subjects — the fate of humanity, world affairs, humanism, and many others. Monthly, 1st* & 3rd Tuesdays.

Monday, July 2; Tuesday, July 16, August 7 & 216-8 pm, Room 508

Free

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SKYE & MASSIMO’S PHILOSOPHY CAFÉ PHILOSOPHY AND HUMAN NATUREProfessors Skye Cleary and Massimo Pigliucci moderateA strange thing is happening in modern philosophy: many phi-losophers don’t seem to believe that there is such thing as human nature. What makes this strange is not only that the new attitude goes contrary to much of the history of philosophy, but — despite loud claims to the contrary — it also goes against the findings of modern science. This has serious consequences, ranging from the way in which we see ourselves and our place in the cosmos to what sort of philosophy of life we may adopt. We'll discuss the issue of human nature in light of contemporary biology and how the concept may impact everyday living.Suggested reading: https://www.meetup.com/SkyeandMassimo-philosophycafe/events/248144130/

Monday, August 7, 6-8pmElliott Library, Room 507

Members Free, Guests $5 per session

STOIC SCHOOL OF LIFEProf. Massimo Pigliucci, ModeratorInspired by the ancient Greco-Roman schools of philosophy where Plato, Aristotle, Epicurus and others lectured about their favorite topics and engaged in Socratic discussions, we examine the theory and practice of Stoicism as a modern applied philosophy.

Mondays, 6-8pmAdler Study, Room 514

Members Free, Guests $5 per session

July 23: SENECA ON ANGER: THE MEDEAAnger is one of the emotions that the Stoics thought are unhealthy and need to be avoided. Seneca wrote an entire book on the topic. But did you know he also wrote a play, the Medea, inspired by the Greek original by Euripides? We will discuss the play, Seneca’s take on anger, and how it all applies to everyday life in the 21st century.Suggested reading: https://howtobeastoic.wordpress.com/2016/12/01/seneca-on-cato-the-best-quotes/

TUESDAYS WITH TED — TALKS, THAT IS Anne Klaeysen, Leader, and Maggie Determann Everyone Loves TED! Together we will view selections with contemporary ethical themes, and engage in a lively discussion. After each session, links to the talks will be published on our website for repeat viewing. Monthly 2nd and 4th Tuesdays.

Tuesday, July 10 & 24, Aug. 14 & 28, 2-3:30pm Elliot Library, Room 507

Members Free, Guest $5 per session

FRIDAY NIGHTS AT ETHICAL

Anita O’Day. She’s performed with the Boston Pops and New York Philharmonic at venues from Avery Fisher Hall to the Kennedy Center. and Alexis can often be seen in NYC at top jazz venues like Dizzy’s Club, Birdland, The Jazz Standard. Her recordings, featuring musical luminaries such as Fred Hersch, Eric Alexander, and Bucky Pizzarelli, have received high praise in the jazz press.Joining Alexis is bassist Dimitri Kolesnik, known for his “hipster shuffles, bop burners, and dreamy ballads” (Jazz Times Magazine), and drummer Kenny Hassler, who has performed everywhere from Harlem to Broadway and back again. Following our featured artists is the Open Mic hour. Sign up to perform, sit back and enjoy, or get up and dance when the spirit moves you! The Music Café is curated by John Wilmeth and Steph Walker. Music Director pianist John Wilmeth is a multi-instrumentalist with experience in many genres. He has worked with the likes of Jerry Garcia, Boz Scaggs, Al Jarreau, James Moody, and Jon Hendricks. Emcee Steph Walker is a singer of many genres, and a poet, and has performed at such popular jazz venues as Silvanas, Flute Bar, The Metropolitan Room, and The Triad.

Friday, July 20, 7pmMembers and performers $10, Guests $15

THE MUSIC CAFÉAlexis Cole, called “one of the great voices of today” by Jonathan Schwartz, has been compared to such classic jazz singers as Sarah Vaughan and

ETHICS IN FILMTHE BREAKFAST CLUBPost-film discussion leaderChris EverettJohn Hughes wrote and di-rected this quintessential high school drama featuring the hottest young stars of the 80s. Five kids begin the day with nothing in common, each bound to his/her place in the high school caste system. Yet

7-9:30Ceremonial Hall

Doors open at 6:50

they bond together when faced with the villainous principal (Paul Gleason), and they realize that they have more in common than they thought.

Friday, Aug 3, 7pm Members and Guests $5

Make ETHICAL your Friday night hangout.

AFFINITYGROUPS

At ETHICAL

We partner with organizations like 350NYC, American Indian Community House, Amnesty International, Food & Water Watch, Formerly Fundamentalists, Grassroots Alliance, and the League of Women Voters to address ethical issues related to climate change, social justice,

and more. Come learn about their work and how you can participate in ethical action.

Check the events calendar atwww.ETHICAL.nyc

for meeting dates and times.

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JULY 1 COLLOQUY ON PATRIOTISMDr. Anne Klaeysen, LeaderIndependence Day on July 4th has been a federal holiday since 1941, but the tradition of celebrating “the birth of America” dates back to the 18th century and the American Revolution. On July 2nd, 1776, the Continental Congress voted in favor of independence, and two days later delegates from the 13 colonies adopted the Declaration of Independence. On July 5, 1852, Frederick Douglass gave a speech at an event commemorating the signing of the Declaration of Independence, held at Rochester's Corinthian Hall, in which he said, "This Fourth of July is yours, not mine. You may rejoice, I must mourn." And he asked them, "Do you mean, citizens, to mock me, by asking me to speak to-day?" During our shared reflection on patriotism, we will consider his question and what this document means to us today. This week’s shared charity, the Encampment for Citizenship (EFC), founded by the New York Society for Ethical Culture, conducts residential summer programs with year-round follow-up for young people of widely diverse backgrounds and nations. It provides youth with a compelling experience in democratic living, with emphasis on critical thinking and social action.

JULY 22 ETHICAL HEROES: THE GOLDMARK SISTERSJone Johnson Lewis, Leader, Brooklyn Society for Ethical CultureJone Johnson Lewis introduces us to some sisters who are not very well-known, but whose lives include some inspiring lessons for us. Dr. Jakob Joseph Goldmark and Regina Wehle came to America after the failure of the Austrian Revolution of 1848. Among their children were four daughters who each made a mark on society:

JULY 8 COURAGE FOR THE RESISTANCE…AND THE RELATIONSHIPS See p.1

JULY 29 THE BATTLE FOR THE SOUL OF OUR REPUBLICAdam Eichen, Author and ActivistToday’s political crisis can be traced back to a deliberate, well-funded, orchestrated Anti-Democracy Movement that emerged in the early 1970s. Though largely invisible, this movement reshaped our politics and effectively destroyed our ability as a nation to effectively self-govern. While confronting this reality is daunting, there is a bright ray of hope: an

Helen Goldmark Adler, who was not just the wife of Felix Adler (founder of the firstEthical Culture Society) but did her own work on child development.Alice Goldmark Brandeis, married to the jurist Louis Brandeis, who herself worked for often-controversial social reforms;Pauline Goldmark, an early social researcher and activist on behalf of women workers.Josephine Goldmark (pictured here), who worked against child labor and for the minimum wage.Josephine and Pauline were also key in developing the so-called “Brandeis brief” for their brother-in-law, used in the

landmark Supreme Court decision Muller v. Oregon. (Another sibling, the girls’ brother, Henry C. Goldmark, was the engineer who designed the locks for the Panama Canal.) Come hear more about these sisters and consider how their interconnections with many others helped to create some key social reforms in American history. This week’s shared charity is the Encampment for Citizenship (See July 1, above)

emerging Democracy Movement. This talk will explore this intergeneration, cross-partisan, multi-issue, diverse movement and will examine concrete policy solutions to our broken democracy. ADAM EICHEN is the Communications Strategist at Equal Citizens, and policy consultant to the organization March on Harrisburg (see below). His first book, “Daring Democracy: Igniting Power, Meaning, and Connection for the America We Want,” coauthored with Frances Moore Lappé, was recently published. Adam’s articles have appeared on NBC, and in Salon and Huffington Post, among others. He served as Deputy Communications Director for Democracy Spring, a historic national mobilization for campaign finance and voting rights reform. Previously, Adam sat on the Democracy Matters Board of Directors.

JULY 15 LIVING IN WELLNESS, ETHICS, AND SUSTAINABILITYMatthew BensonDrawing on his life and work as an environmental advocate, endurance athlete, and wellness expert, Matthew will present state-of-the-art research on how lifestyle shifts and wellness practices that are aligned with ethics can dramatically im-prove our lives, our health, and our connection with others, and contribute to a more sustainable future.

Matthew is deeply committed to efforts to address climate change and teach wellness and sustainability practices that can improve lives and foster a more sustainable future. Matthew served on the board of the New York Solar Energy Society, and holds degrees from Skidmore College, Columbia University, and the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. This week’s shared charity is Farm Sanctuary, which rescues, rehabilitates, and provides lifelong care for hundreds of animals that have been saved from stockyards, factory farms, and slaughterhouses. At their three shelters, rescued animals are given the care and love they need to recover from abuse and neglect. All of the animals enjoy nourishing food, clean barns, and green pastures each and every day.

Barbara Carlsen presides

Dan Hanson presides

Kathleen O’Connell presides

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AUGUST 5 ENEMIES AND EMPATHYHugh Taft Morales, Leader, Philadelphia and Baltimore Ethical Societies

AUGUST 19 THIS IS AMERICA: THE LAND OF DISILLUSION Jé Hooper, Leader-in-Training Dr. Anne Klaeysen, Leader presidesChildish Gambino, a musical hip-hop artist, produced a video entitled “This is America.” It became a music video that took the airwaves by storm with controversial topics such as economic disenfranchisement, gun-violence, and civil terrorism. Jé Hooper will examine the black philosophical aesthetic and performativity of “This is America.” Let us seek out new ways to become unified ethical prophetic voices with critical vision that offers new insight to healing our nation for all people. THE REVOLUTIONARY JÉ HOOPER is founder of Frequency House Productions, soon to present in New York, “Humanitas: conscious coloring of Kindness,” a feature film, in which Felix Adler, the founder and philosopher of the Ethical Culture Movement; and W.E.B. DuBois, author of “The Souls of Black Folk” and activist-scholar; are re-imagined in a histo-contemporary retrospective.

Lloyd Suh’s tale is of a 1942 wartime meeting between two very different cartoonists, Walt Disney and the Japanese-American illustrator Gyo Fukikawa, who actually did artwork for the Disney company. An uncomfortable conversation on power, personal responsibility, and the art of animation ensues — at a time of great uncertainty and national crisis. Following the reading, Dick Van Deusen will lead a short discussion of the ethical issues raised in the play. This week’s shared charity is the Fourth Universal Society/Sanctuary Program (See July 8, above).

ETHICAL DEATH CAFÉ Rev. Dr. Barbara Simpson, ModeratorGather in a relaxed and safe setting to discuss death,drink tea, and eat delicious cake. Monthly, 2nd Sun-day (also 4th Wednesday; see p.3)

JULY 8, AUGUST 13, 1:30-3pmCeremonial Hall

In our minds, human beings both create images of the enemy and feel deep empathy towards others. We dehumanize those we label as threats, and share the feelings of those whom we embrace. How do we balance these two often-conflicting tendencies? Can we find a way to protect ourselves while de-escalating our own “fight or flight” reactions? Hugh Taft-Morales explores these opposing poles of psychological frameworks for relating to other people and for their relation to Ethical Humanism. HUGH TAFT-MORALES serves as Leader of the Philadelphia and Baltimore Ethical Societies and is President of the National Leaders Council of the American Ethical Union (AEU). Hugh previously taught philosophy and history for 25 years in Washington, D. C. He is on the Board of Peace Day Philly, and is a member of the clergy caucus with both Philadelphians Organized to Witness Empower and Rebuild (POWER) and Baltimoreans United in Leadership Development (BUILD). This week’s shared charity is the Fourth Universal Society/Sanctuary Program (See July 8, above).

SUNDAY AFTERNOONS

Henryka Komanska presides

Dick Van Deusen presides

Jé is a Ph.D Interdisciplinary Arts candidate at Ohio University. His work promotes the intersections of art, justice, and religious ethics in efforts to obtain social equity. As member of the clergy, he engages congregations in trans-linguisticism, performative preaching, and affect theory involving onomatopoeic communication. He is best known for his recent works, “Moving Upon the Face of the Deep,” featuring Dr. Cornel West, “The Black Sacred Communion,” and his latest, a collaboration with his life partner, Storäe Michele, “The Listening Heart.” This week’s shared charity is “Humanitas: conscious coloring of Kindness” (see above).

AUGUST 26 ETHICS & THE THEATER PRESENTS “DISNEY AND FUJIKAWA” BY LLOYD SUH

HELPING HANDS FOR FAMILY MEMBERS, COMPANIONS,AND CAREGIVERS

Empowering Ethical Elders program social workers Mark Zilberman and Wendy Panken are available to consult with you and provide personal guidance.

Call for an appointment: 718 247-9900

WE CARE ABOUT YOU

Ethical’s Caring Committee keeps in touch with all members. We reach out to those who haven’t attended Society meetings or events for a while, those who are ill or hospitalized, and other members unable to attend. Please let us know if you or another of our members needs attention, and we’ll be happy to offer them our support and care. Contact committee members Bob Berger, Scotty Embree, or Beth Everett. You may also speak confidentially with Leaders Anne Klaeysen or Richard Koral.

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In 2002, when I became a member of Ethical Culture, I heard about the Fall Retreat. Ed, my husband, and I have always loved weekend getaways — breathing the country air and walking on trails. I was sure I wanted to go. Valerie, a long-time member, who personally welcomed me when I joined, and who later became a dear friend, called and asked if we were going. Yes! Other than Val, I hardly knew anyone. That would change on the Retreat. That first Retreat for me was sixteen years ago. Now we call it The Autumn Getaway, and it’s held at the Stony Point Conference Center, located in the lower Hudson River Valley, less than an hour’s ride from the city, and it’s pure country. When we go, the foliage is usually in its autumn splendor. Stony Point has several residential and meeting spaces on grassy, tree-covered wide-open grounds. Ethical reserves the entire Gilmor Sloane House, a large Victorian mansion built in 1856 with eleven guest rooms, each accommodating two or three people, each room with full private bath, and decorated in tasteful period furnishings. An elevator carries you up to the second and third levels, or you can use the wide carpeted staircase. Our Friday evening begins with a cocktail party on the parlor floor and out onto the wraparound porch, where we relax with drinks, appetizers, and conversations. For dinner, we saunter over to the Dining Hall, amid other groups spending the weekend there. We sit at tables reserved just for us, and our conversations and laughter and getting to know each other continues. After dinner, we spend time in the parlor rooms playing board games, working puzzles, or watching a DVD movie, well into the evening, if we like.

Saturday begins with a Colloquy, which might be led by Leader Joe Chuman. (Yes, our leaders come, too.) Then, a physical activity, perhaps a brisk walk, before the buffet breakfast, after which we leave for an off-site event. Canoeing was on the agenda one year, and people who didn’t want the water experience hiked, or strolled around the lake. Another year, it was Stony Point Battle Ground. One year we visited Bear Mountain State Park for a guided interpretive walk with our then Leader and Conservationist, Curt Collier. Last year it was off to Storm King Sculpture Park. Those who just wanted to stay

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at Stony Point and read or talk did exactly that. There are comfortable chairs in several parlor rooms; there’s the porch, and there’s the gazebo across the road from Gilmor Sloane. Around noon, with everyone back, the buffet lunch is in the Dining Hall. Kitchen staff prepares and serves up healthful and tasty dishes, with many vegetable selections from vegetables grown on their farmer-supervised farm right there on the grounds. In the afternoon, we come together, often in the Meditation Space, a round, stone, glass-enclosed building, with trees and shrubbery in view. There, we have a chat with a Leader about some ethical topic. One year it was “Walking Our Ethical Talk, Every Day.”

And then, in the late afternoon, in the Art Space building, right next to Gilmor Sloane, we gather for another activity. Ethical member and artist, Bernette offered a workshop on Nature Collage one year; Bernette supplied the art materials and we, the collage-makers gathered twigs, leaves, and branches for our projects. The Artist-in-Residence engaged members in a Calligraphy Art Demo. The Poetry Reading Circle, which I facilitate, invites members to bring and read some of their favorite poems. After the afternoon activities, we prepare for our evening cocktail party. Saturday night dinner is special. We gather in Gilmor Sloane’s dining room where we sit on high-backed cushioned chairs around a long dining table covered with linen and lace. We call it “Our Ethical Family Dinner.” A delicious meal — grilled salmon, chicken, hearty grilled vegetables, a grain, and fruit and cake for dessert — is prepared by the Stony Point staff. Service is buffet-style and bottles of red and white wine accompany dinner. Once again, we chat and enjoy the company of our fellow members. When dessert ends, friends who came up for only Saturday smile and pull away from a day well spent, while the rest of us gather at the campfire pit, sometimes with Leader, Richard Koral, for songs and stories, after which, back at Gilmor Sloane, we might put on some CDs and whoever is willing gets up and dances. Or, the board game people finish the game, or the puzzle people match pieces and complete the puzzle. Sunday morning, we return to the Meditation Space for our Sunday Platform Meeting in the country with Leader, Anne Klaeysen. And then we lunch together in the Dining Hall and say goodbye. Ed and I love these weekends and know we’ll be there this year!

And now, read comments from some members who’ve recently attended —

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As a new member, I signed up for the weekend not knowing what to expect, and anxious about sharing a room with another mem-ber. As it turned out, I felt very welcomed by the other members, loved the beautiful house where we stayed, and very much enjoyed our evening circle of storytelling and Richard’s sing-along with his guitar. And my roommate was great and fun to be with. We plan to do this again for the next weekend.

— Doris Hart

I’ve been to two retreats since I became a member three years ago. I only missed the third because I was out of town. Both had lots of interesting activities, many opportunities to get to know fellow members better and all in a lovely setting. What’s not to like?

— Joe Fashing

I thought the retreat was delightful and such a nice way to meet other members. The Storm King visit was really fun and so lovely, and a great getaway from the city. Thanks for all your efforts to make it such a special weekend.

— Inez Heath

The Getaway in 2016 was the impetus for me to become a member after many years of attending NYSEC. I was informed that the weekend was a members-only program and I was determined to get out of the city that fall week-end. I certainly was not disappointed in the result as Stony Point was just what I was looking for – nature, fellowship, interesting hands-on activities, discussions, and even an “Ethics and The Theater” play. The Saturday night family-style dinner is a “not-to-be-missed event.” You feel like you are stepping into a Norman Rockwell portrayal of Thanksgiving, sitting in a lovely decorated dining room with other members you have gotten to know so much better through the activities you’ve shared since Friday evening. Both years I attended were well organized, and you could participate in as much or as little as you chose. I’m looking forward already to the 2018 Getaway.

— Kathy Herrera

THE ANNUAL ETHICAL AUTUMN GETAWAYFriday, October 26 — Sunday, October 28

Be sure to join us! Details to come inthe September ETHICAL OUTLOOK

ETHICAL & ME MONICA WEISS

When people ask how long I’ve been a member of Ethical Culture I’m never sure how to respond. That’s because Ethical Culture has always been a part of my life, but membership is something that happened in about 1990 when our daughter, Sarah, was five years old. The short version of how I ended up here is this – my parents were married by Algernon Black, one of the early Ethical Culture leaders, in May of 1951. As immigrants from Brazil and Austria, they spent Sunday mornings listening to live broadcasts of his Platform Addresses on WQXR. When the time came to tie the knot, they sought him out as the voice of reason and ethics that had captured their minds and hearts over the years.

When Dan and I decided to get married 30 years later, we turned to the same man to perform our simple ceremony. We were married on March 1, 1981 in his office here at the New York Society for Ethical Culture. Dan and I were members of Ethical Culture in Queens for many years, then briefly on Long Island, and, for the past ten years, here at the New York Society for Ethical Culture. We had wanted a society with a building and a sense of permanence, full-time leadership, and a rich offering of programs. We found it here.

Since becoming members, we have experienced the many benefits of being part of this amazing community. I have served on the Sunday Program Committee with other members who have worked so thoughtfully to put together meaningful and inspiring Sunday morning Platforms — vetting speakers, coordinating music with our Music Director, David Gracia, and tapping into the vast network of affiliated groups and individuals that our Leader, Anne Klaeysen brings to the table. We thank our members for suggesting some of the most wonderful speakers and performers who enrich and challenge us on Sunday mornings. Becoming an officiant in 2005 was one of my most inspiring passages in this movement. For the past 13 years, I’ve had the privilege and the pleasure of stepping into the lives of wedding couples at an important moment in their lives, joining with their families, friends and community to celebrate their love and commitment to one another. Among the most memorable weddings were those of two close friends. Performing memorials for grieving families has been a study in empathy and compassion. Helping people create a space to say goodbye to a loved one in a way that celebrates that individual’s life and provides closure requires building a relationship rather quickly and connecting intensely with family members. These too, have provided opportunities for meeting some magnificent people.

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BOARD OF TRUSTEES

Elizabeth Singer, PresidentLaw’nence Miller, V. PresidentTom Weishaar, TreasurerWilliam Baker, SecretaryRobert BergerVincent BrancatoElinore KaplanHazel MayRichard Van Deusen

Member of the American Ethical Unionwww.aeu.org

OUR ETHICAL FAMILYHave a great summer everyone!

OUTLOOK STAFF

Elinore Kaplan,Managing Editorethicaloutlook@gmail.com

Selma Friedman,Copy Editor

Jane Mai,Production Manager

ETHICAL STAFF

212-874-5210

Dr. Anne Klaeysen,Leader, ext. 1119

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Dr. Richard Koral,Leader, ext. 1115

Robert Liebeskind,Executive Director, ext. 1116

Edward Beck,Communications Manager,ext. 1144

Margaret Determann,Assistant to the Leaders forMembership Development,ext. 1113

Yalitza Garcia-Krawczyk,Office Manager, ext. 1117

Leonardo Gibson,Facilities Manager, ext. 1107

David Gracia,Music Director

Audrey KindredCoordinator, Family Programs

Yolanta Kosmaczewska,Bookkeeper, ext. 1104

Jon Liechty,Associate Music Director

Marie Orraca,Rentals Manager, ext. 1106

THE BUILDING WILL BE CLOSED ON WEDNESDAY, JULY 4. HAPPY HOLIDAY.

All the more reason to attend a Sunday platform meeting or any one of our “Explore Ethical” programs.You’re always welcome!

NOT A MEMBER?

Most recently, my work with environmental ethics (inspired by Curt Collier’s leadership for 8 years) has been the source of immense growth and satisfaction.Abe Markman’s suggestion in September of 2011 that NYSEC join with 350.org in a day of action was the spark that started a long and productive relationship with 350NYC, their local affiliate group. Since that time, NYSEC has cultivated relationships with and supported the work of many climate groups in New York City. We now host monthly meetings or 350NYC, Food & Water Watch, NYC Grassroots Alliance, and the local Climate Reality chapter. We have hosted dozens of high quality forums and events, including preparations for the People’s Climate March in September of 2014. Our mission of engaging in ethical relationships is at the core of our commitment to climate activism and sustainable living. The relationships I have had over the years in Ethical Culture are ones that have sustained me in many ways. I continue to have close friends from our early years in Queens with the parents from the Sunday School community, with whom we shared Religious Education weekends, trips, graduations, and parenting groups. I am so fortunate to be a member of this amazing community of people who share my values, who constantly challenge themselves and one another to a deeper understanding of ethical issues, who appreciate science, history, and the arts, who engage in social activism and work to make the world a more fair and kind place for everyone, and who inspire me with their life stories.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MEMBERS . . .JULYLARRY HURST……………………………..7/1JEN JAMES…………………………………7/3SHAUN CARSON SYLVESTER WILLIAMS…7/4AMY SCHWARZ…………………………….7/5JOE FASHING……………………………...7/8BEVERLY NEWMAN………………………7/10DEBRA CURTIS-GREEN andCHUCK DEBROVNER……………………..7/12JANICE BUZBY……………………………7/25KATHLEEN O’CONNELL andMONICA WEISS…………………………...7/26MARION BURNS………………………….7/28

AUGUSTSUSAN NEEDLE…………………………...8/3JANET JEPPSON ASIMOV andDAVID LEE………………………………...8/7LESLIE DOYLE…………………………...8/10JOHN LOVELADY and LIZ SINGER……...8/11JOHN KREUTTNER……………………....8/12CAROL VAN DEUSEN…………………….8/19LILY FRIEDMAN……………………….....8/20DAVID LEIMAN…………………………..8/27SONDRA STEIN and JANE UNGAR……...8/29

Dear Members,We’d be delighted to add your “Ethical and Me” story to a future issue of Ethical Outlook. (And if you need help in writing or editing it, we’ll provide that.) Please get in touch with Elinore Kaplan, editor, atethicaloutlook@gmail.com.

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EVERYONE IS A PHOTOGRAPHER —OR CAN BE

We do need more photos from the programs and events that you attend. Please start snapping – with your camera or smartphone — and send the three or four (only three or four, please) best shots with captions telling us what the events is and who the people are. We just love seeing ourselves on the printed page! Send them to Production Manager, Yalitza, at ygarcia@nysec.org. Thank you!

SNAPS

PLANTING THE SEEDS… (L) Ethical Leader Anne Klaeysen interviews Rick Chavolla, at the 103rd AEU Assembly in Albuquerque in June, where the theme was “Seeds for the Future: Environmental Justice and Ethical Culture.” Chavolla, who was the keynote speaker, is Chairman of the Board of the American Indian Community House (AICH), which meets monthly here at Ethical NYC. (R) Rick Chavolla, Angelo Baca, Faith Spotted Eagle, Liz Singer (NYSEC President) and Bart Worden (AEU Exec. Dir.) at the Assembly

Our banner celebrates Pride Month and affirms the work left to be done to achieve true and lasting equality for all.

STARTING SUMMER ON THE RIGHT NOTE was the American Youth Orchestra. The talented young (ages 7 to 23) musicians brought pleasure to all who attended.

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We are Ethical Culture NYC,a humanist community dedicated to ethics, social justice, and education since 1876.

We celebrate life’s joys, support each other through life’s crises, and work to make the world a better place.

Join us for hundreds of community and cultural programs where people meet to explore and embrace ethical living.

Learn more about us at our website, www.ETHICAL.nyc — or, better still, visit with us. You’re always welcome.

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