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Its Relationships, That’s All, Relationships Parenting Across Scotland Dundee 12 March 2015 John Carnochan OBE QPM FFPH

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Its Relationships,

That’s All,

Relationships

Parenting Across Scotland Dundee

12 March 2015

John Carnochan OBE QPM FFPH

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Connected

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“We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men; and among those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our

actions run as causes, and they come back to us as effects.”

Herman Melville

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Job Description – Person Spec

Professional

v  Decisive

v  Industrious

v  Reliable

v  Analytical

v  Literate

v  Experienced

v  Knowledge

Human

v  Caring

v  Forgiving

v  Optimistic

v  Nurturing

v  Tolerant

v  Empathetic

v  Compassionate

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“There can be no keener revelation of a society’s soul than the way in

which it treats it’s children”

Nelson Mandela

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Death

Conception

Adoption of Health-risk Behaviors

Social, Emotional, & Cognitive Impairment

Early Death

Adverse Childhood Experiences Toxic Stress

Disease, Disability and Social Problems

ACEs are fundamental risk factors for disease and early death

Consequences: long-term

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Sense of Coherence

• Your world is structured, predictable and explicable

• You have the internal resources to meet the demands

• The demands are seen as challenges worthy of investment and engagement

Sir Harry Burns

CMO 2011 (Aaron Antonovsky)

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For the creation of health....

....the social and physical environment must be:

•  Comprehensible

•  Manageable

•  Meaningful

•  ......or the individual would experience chronic stress

Sir Harry Burns CMO 2011 (Aaron Antonovsky)

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Ecological Model = The Frame

Individual Relationship Community Societal

• Parenting • Lack of knowledge • Friends that engage in violence • Prevalence of gang culture • Violent families – siblings/parents • Lack of significant adults/positive role model

• Cultural norms • Legitimisation of violence • Access to and use of alcohol • Lack of aspiration • Dependancy • Tolerance

• Lack of punishment for pre cursor offences – knife carrying • Lack of visible swift justice • Links to deprivation • Scottishness • Inequality

• Lack of communication skills • Poor behavioural control • Impulsiveness • Aggressive behaviour • Lack of skills to deal with conflict • Inability to judge risk • Lack of life “skills” • Exclusion from Services/Schools • Nutrition Diet Health • Alcohol • Lack of employment opportunities

responding

differently’‘

BUSINESS CARD LANDSCAPE_BUSINESS CARD LANDSCAPE 16/06/201

As it relates to violence

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birth

Early Years Framework

GIRFEC

Curriculum for Excellence

YJ Framework

Promoting Positive Outcomes (ASB)

Achieving our Potential (Poverty)

Equally Well (Health Inequalities)

Road to Recovery (Drugs)

Alcohol framework

18 16 10

Purpose

Government Economic Strategy

National Outcomes

SOAs

NATIONAL POLICIES

NATIONAL PERFORMANCE

LIFE JOURNEY

Valuing our Young People

More Choices More Chances

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“Operating within a bureaucratic hierarchy we

effortlessly become less than we should be and little by little betray the potential of our

humanity.”

Tony Miller & Gordon Hall Letting Go – Breathing new life into organisations

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“Its easier to build strong children than repair

broken men”

Frederick Douglass

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We cannot prepare our children for everything but we can help them to be ready for anything.

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“An infinitely large number of

infinitesimally small actions”

Leo Tolstoy

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The Context

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“Trust yourself. You know more than you think you

do.”

Benjamin Spock

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“You may not always be able to touch the

difference you make, but you’ll feel it.”

Dr Frank Dick OBE

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Thanks to Gary Slutkin for the slide

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Twitter: @johncarnochan www.respondingdifferently.com

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