Intervention and Review

Further

Working with parentswith learning disabilities

P241

Learning Outcomes

To address factors affecting parenting capacity.

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Always speak in a straightforward and simple manner. If more than one worker is present, one worker should

take the lead. Adopt a slow and easy pace of conversation – some

people worry about appearing patronising by speaking slowly.

Say a maximum of 2 to 3 information carrying words, then pause to allow the person to process the information before proceeding to the next piece of information.

Communication is key

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Information about services should be in formats suitable for people with learning disabilities.

Repeat important information consistently.

Check parent has understood by asking them to summarise and repeat key points.

Use the words and descriptors the parent uses.

It is best to be explicit and upfront to gain trust – ensure the parent with learning disabilities understands your role as supporter and assessor.

It can feel uncomfortable to give negative or corrective feedback.

Communication is key

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Communication is key

Support verbal communication with written short bullet pointed lists.

Take a photo or video of the person when they are doing a task well - it can help a person to understand what it is they need to do and to what level.

Explain to the parent, at the time, when a skill deficit is observed, as the learning opportunity for parents with learning disabilities is immediate.

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Skills teaching and modelling

Model and demonstrate all skills and all steps of any task.

Encourage role play - try to overcome any inhibitions on behalf of yourself or the parent.

Break all tasks down into manageable steps.

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Go at the parent’s pace.

To get a parent on board to achieve change, identify what motivates them personally.

Once you have got a general idea for an image, make it as specific as possible.

Motivation

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Motivation

Praise, encouragement and positive feedback are essential.

Focus on, no more than, two or three key skill developments each session. Again, make things as concrete and specific as possible.

Long-term support is important.

General motivators or general goals may not work.

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Achieving and sustaining change

Always bear in mind that change for anyone is really difficult.

If you are not both thinking about the same specific goals, then the parent may not see where an intervention is going or what it is intended to achieve.

Goals should always be realistic and readily achievable.

Everybody needs to be able to identify with goals and rewards to manage daily life.

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Working with adults with learning disabilities

A support worker is observing a supervised contact visit for a parent with learning disabilities and a 3 week old baby Sophie.

The support worker observes minimal eye-contact and incorrect positioning by the parent.

Example

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Best Practice – say straight away, ‘baby’s head needs more support,(pause) hold Sophie like this (model correct position)’.

When parent has adjusted, say ‘that’s great,(pause) just like that. (pause) Now remember to look at Sophie’s face (pause) when you are holding her, (pause) Sophie needs to see (pause) you looking and smiling (pause) then Sophie will feel happy and OK.

Let’s take a photo now (pause) of you doing that really well, (pause) then we can use the photo or video (pause) to help you (pause) see how to do it (pause) if you forget’.

Working with adults with learning disabilities

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At the start of the next contact use the photo of the parent to allow them opportunity to try to remember the position independently.

Saying, ‘we took this last week (pause) it showed you doing great holding of Sophie (pause) I really like the way (pause) you are looking and smiling at Sophie, you both look happy and OK there’.

Working with adults with learning disabilities

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Building self-esteemand confidence

Make lists of things you think the parent is good at.

Use this list to work with strengths positively to overcome difficulties.

Add any new strengths or skills to the list as you go.

Anytime you see something done well, or that you think is, good remember to make positive comment.

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Cleaver, H. and Nicholson, D. (2007) Parental Learning Disability and Children's Needs Family Experiences and Effective Practice. London: Jessica Kingsley Publishers. Cleaver, H., Unell, I. and Aldgate, J. (2011) Children’s Needs – Parenting Capacity. Child Abuse: Parental Mental Illness, Learning Disability, Substance Misuse and Domestic Violence (2nd edition). London: The Stationery Office. Department for Education and Skills and Department of Health (2007) Good Practice Guidelines in Working with Parents with Learning Disabilities. Available online only: http://dh.gov.uk. Department of Health, Department for Children, Schools and Families, and NHS (2007) Aiming High for Disabled Children. Transforming Services for Disabled Children and Their Families. London: Department for Children, Schools and Families.

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