Inner Peace : Inner Discipline

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Inner Peace : Inner Discipline. Presented by: Meg Gustafson Michael Swett. Teacher Author Public Speaker. Barbara Coloroso. Inner Discipline. Punishment VS Discipline. Win/Win with Consequences. Bullying. Assertive Confrontation. Teacher Types. Brickwall. Jellyfish. Backbone. - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

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Inner Peace : Inner Discipline

Inner Peace : Inner DisciplinePresented by:Meg GustafsonMichael SwettTeacher

Author

Public SpeakerBarbara Coloroso

Inner DisciplineWin/Win with ConsequencesPunishment VS DisciplineAssertive ConfrontationBullyingBrickwallBackboneJellyfish

Teacher Types

Result or effect of an actionConsequence:

Reasonable

Simple

Valuable

Practical

Consequences: Natural VS ReasonableNaturalReasonable

Punishment VS DisciplineAdult orientated

Imposes power

Focuses on blame and painWhat they should have done

Ownership of the problem

Options for solving

Leaves dignity intactThe Three Rs of DisciplineRestitution

Resolution

Reconciliation

Aggressive Confrontation

Rules of Assertive ConfrontationSpeak in a straightforward mannerState your feelingsState your beliefGive direct feedbackState what you ultimately wantBe openNegotiate

BullyingImbalance of power

Intent to harm

Threat of further aggression

Terror

The Bullying CycleThe bullyFollowers/henchmenSupporters (passive bullies)Passive supporters (possible bullies)Disengaged onlookersPossible defendersDefenders of the target

The Target

Cyber BullyingHighly confident in anonymity

Removed from the immediate reaction

Not accountable for their actions

Cyber Bully LingoHHOJ

POS

YRDM

YBS

ASL

LMIRL

F2F

Ha ha only joking

Parent over shoulderYou are dead meat

Youll be sorry

Age/sex/location

Lets meet in real life

Face to faceWhere Could it Lead???Worldwide Bullies

The Three PsPolicies

Procedures

Programs

Kids Are Worth It!!!