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Editura Aqua Forte Cluj-Napoca
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INTRODUCERE~ L i u aproape ca lmi vine 7mi ccr ie rta re. umnc::.culc marc -cl1ar nwi aa eFuie de lnd i o carte pe tm bifrba?i? Nu pn.:a . Avc m
I I C V ~ \ C de a ltccva . M a tc m ca avcm ncvoic de lngiidu in {tl .Ingilduinp de a fi ccc cc su nte m - b a r b a ~ i dupa chipu la ~ e m a n a n lui Dum nczcu. Pcrmisiunca de tra i din adiinnll in irn ii:: i nu pc baza unc i listc cu lucmri lc pc care ,,trebuic" ''s-a r cuvc ni '.lc facem, lucruri care i-a u ra cut pc multi sft a j l m g ~ ohos itip iict is i(i.
Majo ritatea m c d o r ncl rcsatc barbatilor c ~ u c a z In cele din11 rrnil . Mo tivul cstc sirnplu: clc ignonl ceca cc cslc mai adane mai;1dcvilra1In inima unui b:1rha l. pasiunilc sale rcalc, ln ccarcfl doar sad lllodd.:zc prin diverse form
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cu, Harbatulfrumuset.ca. Noi umh lam cu fluierul dupa noi. Vcclcti, d c ~ ? i tlorin{ delupta, de aventura de a salva f r u m u s c ~ e exist[\, dc::;i visclc noastrede biiiqanclri sunt plinc de lucruri clin acestea, nu mai cons iclerf1m ci'tavcm rcsursele necesarc pcntru a lc duce Ia bun f a r ~ i l De ce barba pinu l ~ i asuma rolul de hiirbap'? De cc nu ofcra putc rca unci lumica re arc dispcrata ncvoic de ca? Din doua rnotivc foartc simple:pentru cii nc lndo im de faptul ci\ am avca destul ii forta pt;nlru a oofcri allora pentru di sunlt:m apmape siguri di dacii am nfcri-o,cct:a cc avem nu ar fi lnd t:ajuns. Ceva nu estc in rcgulf1 cu totiidi lucrurile stau asaCe s-a inU\mplat cu noi'? lUispunsul sc ana in parte In istoriarrecuta a masculinitat ii in dcta li ilc istorici pcrsona lc a fiediruibarbat.
LA CF E HUN UN BART3AT?De ce 1 a crcat Dumnczcu pe Adam? Care c rostul unui ba rbat?
Cf1ncl ~ r i m pentru cc a fost crcat un lul:ru, alunci l l l cc stoplncl ep line ?te In v i a ~ a Un caine de vaniitonrc sc sim te binc in apa; un uileu ii place vani'iloarca; uliului li plat:t: sa planeze peste Cltmpi i. Pcntruasta au f'osl c r c t ~ l)o rinta dczvaluie conccr>tia, in r conccp( iadt:slainuie destinul. Jn cazu l oarnenilor, conccpcrca noastra cstc castrans lcgata de dcstinclc noastrc. Sii luam cazul avcnturii. /\damtoti fiii c ~ i-au urmat au primit o misiune incrcclibila: sii conducii sa
s u p u n sa fit; roclnici sa se inmul teascfl. , Adam. iata l ntrcgp f 1 m ~ t n l u l Explorcaza -1. cultivii-1, i n g r i j e ~ t c - cstc rcgatul tau".Aolcu .. ce mai provocarc' Ac
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eu, Biid.nltulnevoic de instruq iun i de tal iatc pcntru d l a fost crea l ocm i cu aceslscop. re to t cc i i trcbuic, to tul cslc Ia l ndcm;'ma lu i, in moclul sau deconccpere, In in ima sa.N u mai trchuic sii vu spun ca povcstt:a nu sc l crm inii C ll bine ./\d
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i ntJcbmca ca re il biintuic pc or cc ha1batpol'.i\ic socialfr .,D e : tcama di nimcn i nu va ridica vocca in favoareanoast.ra, pcntru a e proteja, di nirncni nu sc va lupta pc.ntru noi,incepem sa nc rccreii m pc noi i m c rolul nostru in is lorit;. Nemanipulam mcdiul as l l l ndlt sii nu nc mai s i m ~ i m aWt de lipsitc deapiirare". Eva cazurft va deveni fie rigida. f ie acaparatoarc. Simpluspus, Eva nu nc mai p o f t e ~ l e Ori sc ascunde In lumc..:a oficiala, or iprdinde ca Adam sa vina sa o ia. Sa u de ccle ma multe ori, ocombinat.ic stranie a ambt:lor ipostal'.c.
Adam l i e prca binc ca a daH> in barci, ca nu i-a c u ~ i t ccva, eli numai este ceca cc a fost p rcgat iL sii fie. Adam nu numai di ia o clecizicg r c ~ i t f t ; el picnic cc :va fundamental proprici oaturi . E.stc prins in lr-ocapcana, l ~ i pic rde puwrilc, iar el ~ t i c . Cc s-a i'ntilmplaL' A dam scascunclc. ,Ti-am
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c u, IHirbalulj naintc de a spun c cuiva CO /?marul mcu despre momcntul eft ndsunt. pc seen a nu am nimic de zis, un priclcn mi-a rnarl urisi l dt c l,Ia randul sa u, arc un c o ~ r n a r care Sl: repct.ii. Este vorba dcsprc o crirnfldcsprc FBl. Sc piin::a cfl , In visu l lui, c l ucidea pe ci neva i ngropa
corpul In spatclc casci. Dar u c sunl pc urmclc lu i, ia r cl ~ t i cca In o ricc clipft locul crirnci va l i idcntificat va fi prins. Yisul ias f i i rncr
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intrcharea (::tre it biintuic pc urict: hiirha tl u < ~ masuri irnedia t'. Poatc cii vc i e u sa sc:'ipat i basma curataprint r-o ?mccheric: .Lucran:OJ respect iva c o bagatelii, domn ulc ... odtun gala siiptiirnilna asla". Cu an i in urma. am avul parte d e ocxpcricnta ca m traumatizant ii ~ t m c : 1 afaccrilor; liclcru l orga ni r,a ticie ra un t ip cxtrcm de intimidant. In hirou l lui d izuscra rnultc capctc.J>Janul mcu crau p ur ~ i m p l u sii II evil cu o ricc prq: elt spunccva care pare p lin de scmnifica{ic i d e afcqiunc", dar, de rapt , Davenu d:l do i ban i pe sanalalca lui nob.
TAIU \ PIERDUTAMa i int iii s-a produs cil dc rca lui Ad am, apoi a lul.uror fi ilor sai.O upii accca, cc :-;c 1ntfmpli'i? Oamcni violcnfi, b
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