"Eleven Months and Counting" or "Memories and Expectations

8/3/2019 "Eleven Months and Counting" or "Memories and Expectations''

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Eleven Months and Counting

or

Memories & Expectations

A memoir.


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Preface

This story, like so many others, is about a girl. Well, technically, there are several

girls in this story. Only one that really mattered.

This is a story about girls, boys, late-night phone calls, laughs, mission trips to

foreign countries, summer, lies, music, concerts, technology, friends, judgment day,

graduation, Slurpees, private-school students, jealousy, shitty jobs, and it might even

be a love story. I honestly cant tell you if it is or not. All I can tell you is whathappened, what I remember.

I am writing this for me. Im writing this to figure out what happened, to rejoicewhat went right, and to maybe, just maybe, fix what went wrong.

This is a story about a small town called Ovilla, Texas.


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Contents

Valentine

Before

Play

EyesTalk

Interlude I Guatemala

Amber

Friends

Bachelor, pt. 1

Interlude II Victoria

Bachelor, pt. 2

Bachelor, pt. 3

Change

Interlude III Hindsight

CaseyInterlude IV PromDallas

Sugar

Ovilla

Lancaster

Interlude V ExitsEnd

Interlude VI MomentsTruth

Summer, pt. 1

Summer, pt. 2Interlude VII ColoradoMonday

Goodbyes

Interlude VIII Oklahoma

Answers

Nineteen

Expectations

Epilogue Memories

Music

CharactersA Note to the Reader


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Valentine (February)

Its a cold, February evening. A Monday. Im eighteen years old, standing, facing a

beautiful blonde girl who is as tall as I am. Thats saying something. Im six feet tall,but thats beside the point.

Her long blonde hair whips in the wind as she cries. We just broke up. Well, I just

dumped her. As I turn and walkaway, I cant help but look at her one more time. Shelooks so beautiful. But it was time to end our relationship. Anyone who has ever

been in a relationship where every other conversation is a fight knows that.

I feel like I should probably point out that its the night before Valentines Day. Yes, I

know, Im an asshole. It had to happen then. There was no other way. I get that whatIm saying sounds weird, but its true. It had to happen then.

I get in my little black Mazda and drive to Southlake. Southlake is the nice part of

town. I pull up to my friends neighborhood, enter the gate key, drive in, and park inthe driveway of Tys house.

I go inside and am greeted by Scott and Ty. Scott and Ty are two of my best friends.

Ive known Scott since eighth grade, Ty since sophomore year. Were seniors now.

They both know that I broke up with my (now ex-) girlfriend tonight. They ask me

how it went, and I tell them. Im not happy. If anything, Im actually pretty sad. She is

a good girl. To this day, I dont have a bad thing to say about her. It just didnt workout.

I vent and they listen. They are good friends and are supportive. Then we break outTys old Gamecube and play NHL Hockey 03, as we usually do. We have school thenext day, so we call it an early night and go to bed around 11.

Ty sleeps in his bed, Scott takes the beanbag, and Im on the couch. Before I sleep, I

log onto Facebook on Tys laptop. Unsurprisingly, my ex has blocked me. But on my

newsfeed, I saw something that piques my interest. Hey, Im single now. My interestcan be piqued all it wants. A girl. Her name is Victoria. Victorias status reads asfollows:

I hate Valentines day.

Victoria is a very attractive girl. She looks to be atleast part Asian, but Ive beenwrong before. Long black hair. I scratch my brain to try and remember where I met

her. I know Ive seen her before. Then I remember.

Stone Gate. Thats where it all started. At Stone Gate._______________________________________________________________________________________________


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Before (January)

A month earlier. My ex and I are together at this point. You should know that I was

involved in the theater in my high school. I love acting, being on stage, public

speaking, all that stuff. Which is what led me to Stone Gate.

Stone Gate looks like a huge metal box. Its actually a very small, private Christian

school. Every year, in December, Stone Gate hosts a speech/drama tournament.

Private schools and Christian schools from all over attend. That includes my school.

Im sitting in the Stone Gate cafeteria, which basically looks like a sanatorium. The

walls are extremely white, white tables, floor, ceiling, and no windows. The room is

packed with theater kids memorizing monologues, talking, and laughing. Im waitingfor the Group Improvisation preliminaries to begin. I am competing with two of my

good friends, Cole and Ryan. Theyre a year younger than I am.

Each school has its own table in the cafeteria. Our table happens to be located rightnext to Ovilla Christian School. Ovilla has some pretty cute girls sitting at their table.

Ryan, Cole and I are called up to compete. We perform our piece. People laugh. The

Ovilla girls watch from the back. After we perform, Ryan, Cole and I sit at our table

and laugh about it. The Ovilla girls are right next to us. So I break the ice.

I turn to the first girl and make some joke about Coles ugly red tie. The girls laugh. I

introduce myself. Multiple girls start talking to Ryan, Cole, and I. Only three are

important in the context of this story, though. Victoria, Casey, and Taylar. Well,

Taylar isnt really thatimportant until much later, and even then she doesnt do

much. Whatever.

These girls are funny and we have a long, good conversation. Theyre cute too.

Victoria and Casey are my age, Taylar is two years younger. Soon enough, though,

we have to leave. I dont get any of their phone numbers. I have a girlfriend at the

time.

When I get home, the girls have all sent me friend requests on Facebook. And that is

all. Nothing else happens. I leave it alone.


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Play (February)

Im in Tys bedroom, on Facebook. Victorias status. I message her. I tell her that I

dont like Valentines Day all too much either and I ask if she remembers me. She

messages me back. She definitely remembers me from Stone Gate. She says that she

was disappointed that I never messaged her.

Victoria gives me her phone number and tells me to text her. The next day, I do.

Shes a funny girl, and actually writes her words out when she texts. Thats kind of abig thing for me. We begin to text pretty regularly. I enjoy talking to Victoria. This

proceeds for a few weeks.

One day, Victoria sends me a video of Casey talking. You can tell that Casey doesntknow that Victoria is recording her. Casey tells Victoria that shes jealous that Im

talking to Victoria and not her. I dont think anything of it.

Our schools spring play approaches at the end of February. Its called Welcome tothe Scherezade. For months, weve had after school rehearsals. We are ready. I havethe lead role. I invite Victoria to come watch our Sunday show and then to dinner

afterwards. She asks if Casey can come along. I invite Cole, who is in the show with

me, to dinner with us.

We perform the show flawlessly. It is the last show that Ill ever perform in highschool. We all had a great time. Afterwards, backstage, Cole tells me how excited he

is to be going to dinner with an older girl. Remember, Cole is a year younger than us.

I just grin. I hope he and Casey get along well.

We walk out of the dressing room and meet the girls. They look great. Theyredressed up, with their hair and makeup looking nice. Casey and Victoria both have

dark hair, but Victoria is much taller than Casey, while the latter is much has much

larger breasts and far prettier eyes. Both of them are very pretty girls.

Cole and I take them out to a local burger place called Snuffers. A little low-class for

the occasion, but how many other places are open late on Sunday short of the

McDonalds drive-thru? We have great conversations at dinner. It isnt awkward andeveryone has a good time. Casey gives Cole her number. We drop the girls off at

Victorias red car and they drive off.


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Eyes (March)

I continue texting Victoria. She asks me to come up to her hometown of Ovilla that

next Friday and hang out with her, maybe meet some of her other friends. She

sounds really excited. Im excited too.

Friday arrives and I make my first drive up to Ovilla. Its on the other side of

downtown Dallas, about an hours drive from my town of Flower Mound. I make the

drive at about 3 oclock, so I miss most of rush hour traffic. I make it to Ovilla inalmost an hour and arrive at Victorias house. Its a little, one-story house. She

introduces me to her parents. Turns out that I was spot-on about the Asian thing.

Shes half-Philippine, from her mothers side.

Her dads nice enough. Her mom hardly speaks any English. I make small talk with

them for a bit, and then Victoria takes me back to her room. We watch my favorite

movie: 500 Days of Summer.

If you havent seen it, go see it. Its the best movie ever made.

During the movie, we hold hands and talk. After the movie, we leave her house and

get burgers and milkshakes at Red Robin. Its a nice, but the conversation

throughout the whole evening between Victoria and I isnt what itused to be. Lullsand pauses. I start to realize that were simply different people with differentinterests.

After dinner, she drives us to meet some of her friends. The car ride is awkwardly

quiet.

We pull into a neighborhood and stop on a cul-de-sac. Its about 7 oclockat thispoint. There is a beat-up, old pickup truck parked under one of the streetlights.

Three people are sitting in the bed, talking. Victoria and I exit her car and climb into

the bed. One of the girls in the truck is Casey. The second person is a guy with dark,

curly hair named Dustin. Hes really friendly, a pretty cool guy. The second girl

changed everything.

Her name is Amber.

Amber is short and thin, with long dark hair. She is gorgeous. When I first see her, I

dont want to look at anything else. I sort of forget that Im on a date with Victoria.She is wearing these killer gray jeans. The fact that Smile Like You Mean It is herringtone blows my mind. She manages to pull of this crazy combination of adorably

cute and wildly sexy at the same time.

I sit next to Amber and immediately start talking to her. To put it briefly, we hit it off.

I lose track of time. I think Victoria is starting to get mad, but I dont really care.

Eventually, Victoria says that she needs to take me back to my car so she can get


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home. We say our goodbyes and leave. Amber and I make one last eye contact as

Victoria pulls out of the cul-de-sac.

Victoria is a little jealous. I can tell. She drives to a park, and we leave her car,

walking around the quiet playground. It has to be almost midnight at this point. I

think of saying something about how Victoria needs to get home, but I dont.We sit down on this thick tree branch that extends over the playground. Towering

above us are about eight cell towers, all with blinking red lights. The lights seem like

eyes, staring at us. I cant help but think ofThe Great Gatsbyand the eyes of Dr. T.J.Eckelburg.

Maybe Ovilla has eyes of its own, I think to myself.

Victoria and I make small talk for a bit. I tell her I like her friends. Then we kiss. We

make out on that tree branch for a minute or two. Its kind of awkward.

Victoria and I share our first and only kiss under the blinking red eyes of Ovilla,Texas.

Shortly after that, I get in my car and leave. I think about Amber the entire drive

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Talk (March)

After driving back to Flower Mound, I arrive at my friend Press house. Scott is there,

along with Pres and several more of my buddies.

My friends are sprawled all over Press house, sleeping wherever there is room.Scott and I have squeezed into Press bed. I check Facebook on my iPhone.

Is it weird that I got very happy when I saw that Amber had sent me a friend

request?

Shortly after accepting Amber, she messages me. She sends me some goofy Youtube

video that we had laughed about in the back of the truck. We exchange a few

messages, and then she asks for my phone number. I happily give it to her.

We text each other for about an hour after that, talking about anything and

everything. We discuss her favorite movie, The Grinch Who Stole Christmas (the live-action one with Jim Carrey) and how we share a common obsession with The Killers.

I feel like I know this girl, damn it.

After a while, we both grow tired and decide that it is time to go to bed. I tell her that

Ill text her the next day and I do.

For the next week, we talk all day, every day. The conversation between us flows so

much smoother than the conversation between Victoria and I.

Victoria and I talk a little bit too. She talks about possibly making plans to hang outin the future. I change the subject. Its just sort of awkward with her now.

The next week is Spring Break, which means that my school goes on its annual

Spring Break Mission Trip. This year we are going to Guatemala. Scott, Pres, and

myself are all going. Well be gone all week.

A couple days before we leave, I tell Amber about the mission trip to Guatemala and

she gets really excited. She tells me that she was going on a weeklong mission trip to

China late in the summer. I chuckle at the continued similarities, tell her goodnight

and that I will text her when I am once again stateside.

She says shell be looking forward to it.


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Interlude I Guatemala

The Spring Break that I spent in Guatemala was indescribable. It truly was an

unforgettable experience. I almost didnt even want to go back to America.

Almost.


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Amber (March)

After I return from Guatemala, Victoria and I have, like, one very short conversation

about nothing. That was it. I didnt hear from her again until a while later. But Ihonestly could not care less.

Instead, I call Amber. Our first talk lasts several hours and goes late into the night. I

tell her some of the great things that happened in Guatemala. Then we just talk. I

honestly dont remember exactly what we talk about, but the conversation goes onfor hours. One part sticks out to me in particular, though.

I miss you already. Thats probably pretty weird.

She says that. I dont think it was weird. I think I end up falling asleep on the phone.

The next day is Monday, and that means a necessary return trip to reality. That

means that school and work are back.

I go to high school at Liberty Christian School, a small private school. There are only

107 kids in my grade. On Wednesday and Saturday nights, I work at the local

Blockbuster video store. I hate my job and I dont really like my school all that much.

What gets me through the next few weeks is Amber. She texts me every morning,

about 10 minutes into second period. We talk all day, every day. She is easygoing,

funny, intelligent, honest, and kind. I love talking to Amber.

We talk about our likes, dislikes, favorites, least favorites, movies, music, religion,

family, friends, relationships.

We talk about how we are both obsessed with the Harry Potterbooks and debate

the quality of the last movie.

We talk about how she hates it when I use the word cool to describe something. Iuse it a lot more after that, just to bug her. It was really cool.

We talk about how she smokes and I dont.

We talk about how she can draw cool-looking tattoos on people with pens. She

shows me pictures. They really are pretty cool.

We talk about our love for horror movies and argue about the quality ofTwilight.

We talk about how she thinks its funny how I call her dude all the time.

We talk about our families. Her dad is almost always away on business. She has a

fraternal twin sister and two older brothers. Her moms name is Carol.


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We talk about how she was asked to prom by four different guys, but she went alone

because she didnt want to say yes to one after saying no to anyone else.

We show each other new music almost daily.

We talk about how excited to graduate. Shell be going to college in Virginia. I

silently remark to myself about how far away shell be from the University ofOklahoma, which is where Ive been accepted.

We talk about our hopes and dreams. We talk about our fears. We talk about things

that make us happy, angry, and sad.

We talk about everything.

Like I said, I work at the video store on Wednesday and Saturday. I work the late

shift, so I dont clock off until about midnight. After every shift, I hop in my car andcall Amber. On my drive home, I would always stop at the RaceTrac convenient store

and get a Big Red-flavored Slurpee. We talk as I drive home, and once I arrive, I just

park in the driveway of my house and we keep talking. We talk until one of us gets

too tired or if there is homework to be done. Then we hang up, send one final text

goodnight. Rinse, lather, repeat.

We dont get to hang out or anything like that, though. Its not like we dont want to,

it just happens that way. One weekend Im busy, the other weekend she cant. The

fact that we live an hour apart doesnt really help things. But Im still happy. I cantalk to her. And thats enough.

It goes on like this for some time. Then, a lot begins to change very quickly.


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Friends (March-April)

Stone Gate is only the beginning. In the upcoming weeks, there is the State Speech

and Drama Competition, held in Austin, Texas. Tons upon tons of private schools

will be meeting there. Only one that I care about, though.

In the weeks before State, things begin to get weird.

First, Casey messages me on Facebook. She is curious as to why I talk to both Amber

and Victoria, but not her. I dont think anything of it and give her my number. She

begins to text me. At first it isnt that often. At first. She eventually asks me if Ill hang

out with her during our free time at State. I agree.

Amber asks me to make her a mix CD of some of my favorite music to give to her at

State.

After this happens, I ask Cole about Casey. I havent really heard anything aboutthem since the night we had taken the girls out to Snuffers. He says they talk almostevery day, and that he likes her, but he wasnt too sure about how she felt for him.

Victoria texts me again. She says shed really like to sit down and talk at State. I dont

really understand why, but I agree anyways.

Amber and I still talk a ton, but it slowly starts to change. Up until now, it had been

very flirty, loose, and fun. I still loved talking to her but it was just different. Almost

like something was holding her back.

Amber starts talking about how much she loves having me as a friend.

Friend.

I cant tell you how many times she drops the word friend into our conversations

those upcoming weeks. She talks about how anytime she has a best friend that is a

guy, he develops feelings for her and their friendship is ruined through the ensuing

awkwardness. She still talks to me about how much she wants to see me and how

she cant wait to hang out with me at State.

Going into State, my head was spinning.

Looking back, though, it all makes so much sense.


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Bachelor, pt. 1 (April)

If youve ever seen the hokey reality show The Bachelor(yes, I have) then you have a

good idea of what my weekend is like. Ive committed to three different girls that Iwould spend time with all of them and I am freaking out. Any guy reading those last

two sentences may ask, What the fuck is wrong with this loser? Thats awesome!

It isnt awesome. It really isnt. Being on The Bachelorsucks.

The truth is, I really only want to spend time with Amber. I want to see if what

chemistry we have over the phone and Facebook will actually translate into a real-

life hangout session. I dont know if you (reader) have ever experienced that, where

you talk to someone through technology and it goes great but as soon as the two of

you are together in person, the whole thing hops on board the train to Awkward

City real fast.

Anyways, we check into our shitty Holiday Inn in Austin Friday night. Thecompetition will last all day Saturday and will end on Sunday afternoon. I have a day

and a half to figure this whole thing out. I had trouble getting to sleep that night.

The next morning, we rise early to practice our pieces. Ive had mine memorized for

a while, so that really isnt a priority. Im still freaking out, though.

We hop on the bus to the college where the tournament is being held. Its a weird

campus. I forget the name of the school, but it was very small. The buildings are

spread apart and there are many plants and trees everywhere, with wooden bridges

crossing over dried creek beds choked with leaves. It looks like the Ewok village

from Return of the Jedi.

God, Im such a nerd.

We set up our camp in the little corner of the gym. Were one of the first schools

there, so we have to wait for all of the other schools to begin. So we wait. I laugh and

have a good time with Cole, Ryan, and my other friends.

Victoria is the first. She texts me when she arrives at the school. She walks in to the

gym, looking about the same. To give a reference, she looks like the actress that

plays the crazy Asian girlfriend in The Social Network and London Tipton on that

Disney channel show with the two twin kids.

She hugs me and tells me that shes missed me and that things got crazy. I dont buy

it, shes just being polite,but Im nice and I talk to her. We leave the gym and walkfor a bit, then settle down on a bench.

Victoria warns me of a few things. Namely, Casey and Amber.


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Casey is that girl that everyone falls for. She gets guys interested, then dumps

them. I mean, shes only had one boyfriend and guess what? She cheated on himtwice.

Amber is just jealous of me. She thinks that she should be talking to you. Its not

fair. I was here first, you know?

She actually says these things. It isnt hard to believe her story about Casey. I can seeit. I dont mention to her Amber talking about us being just friends. I guess Im justtrying to figure out what Victorias game is. Is she legitimately looking out for me? Is

she just trying to ruin her friends chances? Is Amber really interested? If she is, why

is she trying to play it off like she isnt? After Victoria leaves, Im far more confused

than I was before.


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Interlude II Victoria

That was my last significant encounter with Victoria. From here on, she entered the

story two, maybe three more times. They arentthat important, but still worth

including, just for the sake of cohesiveness. Ill get there.


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Amber texts me shortly after Victoria and I finished talking. She wants to see me and

actually hang out. I am so excited. So excited.

We agree to meet by this one building. I get there, like ten minutes early. My handsare sweating and I check my phone every few seconds. Finally she arrives.

Its my second time to see her in person. She looks phenomenal.

I lose track of time with her. We spend hours walking around the campus. The sun

sets as we talk. We talk about everything. I get that I already said that, but its

different in person. Its so much more real. That seems very obvious, but I guess youdont get it until youre therewith someone. Its hard to explain.

A lot of you know what Im talking about, a lot of you dont. Those that get it, explain

it to those that dont.

We laugh, flirt, push each other. At one point, she shuts me in a bathroom. I love

every minute. We walk throughout the campus. I get dangerously close to holding

her hand a few times, but I never do. Christ. I sound like a sixth grader.

We end up on a bench inside a tall-ceilinged building. The sun is setting. We can see

the orange light streaking through the glass. Im sitting with my back against the

wall; shes sitting next to me, facing me. Our knees are touching.

I want to kiss her so damn badly. Then she starts talking about Nick.

Nick is her ex-boyfriend. She tells me that Im a lot like him. He writes, just like I do.

We both would be defined as hipsters. She talks about how much we need to meeteach other. She talks about how she thinks we would make such great friends.

She still hangs out with Nick all the time. Theyre still best friends, even though she

broke up with him in November. My gut reaction is jealousy, but I dont show it. I

smile and tell her that I think its great that she can still be such good friends withher ex.

It soon becomes time for us to go back to our respective hotels. I give her the CD I

made her and then we hug goodbye. The hug lingers for a while. I want it to becomemore. I sense that she does too. But it doesnt. She slides her hands down my backand over my hips when we eventually pull away, mutters goodbye without looking

at me, then leaves.

I have no idea what to do.

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I get back to our hotel, climb into my bed, and check my phone. I have texts from

Casey and Amber.

Amber is really happy that we got to hang out. She wishes we could do it more. Shehad an awesome time.

Casey is pretty upset that I spent time with her two best friends and not her. I spend

a few minutes smoothing things over, and then assure her that Ill hang out with her

tomorrow.

I barely get any sleep. I just reply my day with Amber in my head. Over and over.

The next day, we get up early. At the campus, I have a few hours until my event. The

Ovilla girls are in a circle, hanging out and talking. Victoria is gone. She already left

to go back home. Her event happened yesterday.

No complaints there.

I grab Ryan and we go over to the Ovilla circle. Amber and Casey are there, along

with some other Ovilla people. They arent really important and to be honest, I dontremember their names. We talk and laugh with them for a while. Ryan and Amber

flirt a little. I hide my jealousy, but its still there.

Eventually, Casey asks me if I want to go on a walk with her. I say yes, smile, and act

excited. I try and catch a glance, see if Amber is giving a reaction. She isnt. Casey and

I walk away.

The two of us end up in the same building that Amber and I sat in the day before. We

sit on a couch at the end of the building, facing the window, overlooking the campus.

The view is great and the building is large, empty, and quiet.

I would give anything for it to be Amber on that couch with me. Looking back,

maybe things would have turned out differently.

We make small talk for a while. She really is very easy to talk to. Shes a smart girl,which is nice. Casey is also very good looking. Different than Amber. Theyre both

short with dark hair, but Casey is a different kind of attractive, as so many girls are.

Casey tells me that shes had a crush on me for a while. I think back to the video that

Victoria sent me a while ago, the one of Casey. She tells me that talking to me, texting

me has been great. She tells me that whenever her, Cole, Victoria, and I had gone to

eat at Snuffers together, she had wished that it had been her and I together.


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I asked her what had happened with Cole. She says that hes nice and everything, but

that she would so much rather be with me. I feel bad when I hear that. Cole and I are

good friends. Hes a lotlike me. I steer the conversation away from him.

I dontask her about what Victoria said. I dont mention Amber either.

Casey tells me that she would really like to date me. Like, boyfriend/girlfriend type

thing. I tell her that I dont think that would be too good of an idea. I explain to her

the situation with my last girlfriend. I tell her that I dont want a relationship withanyone.

I lie to her.

After hearing about her past relationship from one of her best friends, and knowing

that she had been talking to a good friend of mine for a while, I just want to keep

Casey at arms length.

My thought process goes a little something like this. If Amber only views me as a

friend, then shes off the table, disappointing as that is. In that case, Casey is a very

viable option as far as dating goes. At the same time, though, she is a bit of a wild

card, not exactly a safe bet.

I dont tell her any of this. I tell her that while Im not looking for a girlfriend, Id verymuch like to see her, hang out with her, and take her out on dates in the future. She

tells me that shes kind of disappointed, but still happy that I want to pursuesomething.

As I leave her, I think she wants to kiss me. I dont.


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Change (April)

I dont get to see Amber after that.

I get back to our bus right before it leaves. I sit with Cole during the ride back. I tell

him everything that Casey and I talked about. Hes kind of upset, but he saw itcoming. He tells me that I have every right to pursue Casey if thats what I want to

do.

He warns me, as Victoria did. She cant be trusted. I thank him.

I should have listened.

Victoria texts me, tells me that she had fun talking. I tell her thanks. After this, she

only enters the story one more time. Ill get there.

I talk to Amber for a little bit. I tell her about the talk I had with Casey and that Ithink I might start pursuing something with her.

I so desperately want her to say something, to try and convince me not to. To argue

with me. To get upset. Anything.

She doesnt. Amber says that it sounded like a great idea. I tell her goodnight andtext Casey for the rest of the ride home.


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Interlude III Hindsight

That was it. That was where it all went wrong. Looking back it seems so clear what I

needed to do. What I didnt do.

I would do just about anything to go back and shake some sense into myself. But wecan never really go back. We delude ourselves into thinking that we can change the

past, that what we do now can mend our actions.

No. That just isnt true. The past is written in ink. There is just no erasing or

escaping it.

Casey took Ambers place over the next month and a half, or so. Let me clarify. Inever really lost my feelings for Amber. I just put them on hold, if that makes sense.

If that makes me an asshole, dating a girl while I secretly had feelings for her best

friend, then maybe an asshole is what I am. I dont know. Maybe thats why things

ended the way they did.

All I know for sure is that the closer Casey and I grew over the next month and a

half, the further apart Amber and I drifted.


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Casey (April)

There is a town near Flower Mound called Denton. While Flower Mound is pretty

nice and preppy, Denton is a lot older and carries a much more hipster vibe. Forthose of you that dont know what a hipster is, the barista at your local Starbucks

with a nose ring, fake glasses, and a scarf in July is a great example.

Moving along, Denton has this really great town square called, surprise surprise, the

Denton Town Square. The square has some really great independent coffee shops,

an awesome independent bookstore full of old books, and plenty of other cool shops.

I want to take Amber there. She would love it, the hippy that she is. I cant do that

though. There is sort of a mutual understanding between Amber and I at this point.

We knew that talking as much as we used to while Casey and I were together or

whatever we were wouldnt be a good idea.

So we dont. Simple as that.

Two weeks after the state competition, as soon as we were both free, I take Casey to

the Denton Town Square. Its a Friday, I remember that. I picd her up at this old Taco

Bell thats located about halfway between Flower Mound and Ovilla. We go to the

square and spend the afternoon there, looking at old books and picking up old

records and talking about music.

I dont really want to have a good time, but I do anyways. Funny.

After that, we go to Blockbuster. I work at Blockbuster, remember? I have since

November. I hate my job, but I get free rentals, so whatever. Anyways.

Casey and I decide on The Secret Window, which I had never seen. We drive back to

my place and I take Casey inside. My parents are in the kitchen. My mom yells for me

to bring my new friend in so they can meet her. I introduce Casey to my mom and

dad and before the conversation goes on for too long, I excuse us to watch the movie

upstairs.

Casey and I sit down on the couch. She sits close to me and I put my arm around her

as we start the movie. Its a good one. Dark, trippy. I like it, but Im honestly not thatinterested in it. Casey and I talk and joke around as The Secret Window plays.

And then, we kiss.

It isnt a super romantic moment or anything like that. One moment, we get quietwhile looking at each other and the next were making out on my couch.

Shes a very good kisser. Much better than Victoria. I would be lying if I said I didnt

enjoy kissing Casey, but I would be lying if I said I didnt feel bad about it either.


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I feel bad about kissing a girl when I know I have feelings for another. I feel bad for

kissing a girl that isnt Amber.

We make out for a lot of the movie and when it ends, I drive Casey back to her car.

We make out again in the front seat of mine, leaning over the center console. Then

she leaves.

The drive back from the Taco Bell is about half an hour. I think about calling Amber.

I decide to wait until the next day. When I do, she asks me how the date went. I say it

went really well. Shes happy for me and she says that she loves the idea of Casey

and I together.

I talk to her for a little while more, then we both hang up. Casey and I plan to hang

out in two weeks. I have tickets to a concert. The Maine. Im planning on taking

Scott. Casey really likes the Maine and says that shell get some friends to go.


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Interlude IV Prom

That next weekend was my senior prom. I took my friend, a junior at the time,

Courtney. We went with a big group of my friends, including Scott and Ty and had a

great, stress-free time. This isnt too important, just keep in mind that I took

Courtney.


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Dallas (April)

April is almost over as The Maines concert arrives. Its on a Thursday night at the

House of Blues in downtown Dallas. Scott and I leave school on Thursday and head

back to my place for some quick showers and then leave for Dallas.

I drive. Scott and I arrive and park about an hour and a half before the show, an hour

before were supposed to meet the girls. My best friend and I walk around the cityand talk. Scott hasnt met any of the Ovilla girlsyet. Ive mentioned them to him, buthe doesnt know much about the situation.

I update him. Then I get a text from Casey. Shes on her way with two of her friends.

A girl that I havent met named Rebecca is one.

The other is Amber.

Im caught off-guard. I wasnt expecting that. But I dont worry about it. I dontworry about the fact that Im dating a girl and that I have feelings for her best friend

and that Ill be in very close proximity of them in about half an hour.

Scott just chuckles and says that hes interested to see how the night plays out. He

has a girlfriend of almost a year. He doesnt have to worry. Asshole.

Scott and I go to stand in line. The girls get there soon after and meet us. Amber and

Casey both look great. Rebecca is really cool, but isnt that important to the story.The five of us talk, then the doors are opened and we go inside.

We stand in the back while the shitty opening bands play. I try and balance howmuch I talk to Amber and Casey. Amber is kind of quiet throughout the night. Then

the Maine starts their set. Casey and I move into the crowd, leaving the other three

behind.

The singer is wasted, stumbling around the stage. Casey and I stand in the crowd for

the Maines show, my arms around her waist. We sing the words we know. Whenthe band finished their set, we leave.

The five of us pile in my car and eat at McDonalds. I sit between Scott and Casey. The

conversation is fun and lighthearted. When we finish our burgers and fries, I drive

the girls back to their car. Goodbyes are brief and they leave.

Scott and I get back to my house at about 1. Were both tired. Scott pulls our spare

mattress into my bedroom and were unconscious within minutes.

The next day, Scott and I skip school. We leave my house at about noon and drive to

Einstein Bros. Bagels. While we eat our bagels, I ask Scott what he thought about


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Amber and Casey. He likes Casey, didnt know what to think about Amber. He says

she was quiet last night. He thinks she just doesnt like him.

After bagels, we go see a movie. Im pretty sure it was Priest, that movie aboutpriests fighting vampires in the future. No, really, thats what its about. The theater

is empty, so we talk loudly. We leave the theater after the movie ends and Scott goeshome.

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Sugar (April-May)

Ive had my dog, Sugar, since I was in the first grade. Shes a Norfolk terrier, my very

first pet. Shes also the best dog ever. Funny enough to make you laugh for hours and

sweet enough to cheer anyone up from the worst mood.

On Saturday, April 30th, my dad takes Sugar to the vet. Shes been breathing really

heavily and walking really slowly. Shes pretty old, but something seems off. Im notthat worried. Sugars a tough old broad.

My dad calls me after about an hour. Hes crying. I can tell as soon as he starts

talking. My dad never cries.

Were gonna have to put her down.

She has a tumor. Shes in pain. Its the humane thing to do. Idont want to, but I

agree.

I have a shift at Blockbuster that night. I dont want to go, but I do anyways. I leavebefore Sugar gets home from the vet. I make it through my shift without losing it. I

dont know how.

When I leave Blockbuster at midnight, Im on the verge of tears. I get in my car. Ineed to talk to someone. I open my phone.

I call Amber. Not the girl Im dating. Amber.

She picks up. I tell her whats happening. Shes so sweet. She says shes sorry, eventhough she has no reason to be sorry. Talking to her, I actually feel okay.

I get home. I thank Amber and hang up the phone. Casey has texted me. I tell her

about Sugar and that Ill text her tomorrow.

I go inside. Sugar is in my parents bedroom. She licks my fingers softly as I pet her. I

finally lose it. Im not a crier, but I cried for a long time that night.

My parents have scheduled Sugars final appointment for Monday, May 2nd. They

want to give her one last day around the house. That next day, we sit around Sugar,

feed her marshmallows, her favorite food, and watch old family videos with her inthem. Were all sad, but she lived a good life. I dont talk to either Casey or Amberthat day.

Monday, May 2nd. Its a cloudy, cold day. I have school. I text Casey for a bit, but stop

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I leave school early and meet my family at Pets Mart. As we waitwith Sugar for the

doctor in the lobby, a song plays over the radio. If I Had Eyes by Jack Johnson.

The doctor comes out and talks to us. Hes a little Indian man. I dont remember hisname. Were all crying at this point. We are lead back into a room with Sugar while

the doctor prepares his medicine.

We all say our goodbyes. I can honestly say, looking back, that this was the saddest

moment of my life. I dont really care if that sounds stupid.

Sugar dies in that little room. The doctor offers his condolences and takes her away.

To this day, I still cant listen to that damn song.


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Ovilla (May)

Im alright after a day or two. Im over it. Now, I look back and I get sad sometimes,

but I really am okay. Its just one of those things.

I talk to Casey every day, as usual. Now, aside from the odd conversation, such as theone about Sugar, I really dont talk to Amber that much.

I quit my job at Blockbuster after six months. Less than a week later, Im hired atSnuffers as a waiter. Snuffers. The same place that Cole and I took Casey and

Victoria on our first date. Funny. I work shifts at Snuffers almost every night after

school.

Casey and I arrange another date for that weekend. This time, shes having me over

to her place.

I meet her at the Taco Bell and we take her car into Ovilla. I see the cell towers, theeyes, and I smirk to myself, thinking of Victoria.

Casey and I stop for dinner. I forget where. Then, after that, she drives me to a

nature trail and we go for a walk. We walk and laugh through the trees. Its nice

outside, the sky fading from blue to orange as the sun sets. We find ourselves in a

glen, surrounded by trees. On the other side of the trees is a lake. In the lake is a boat

with two old men, fishing. Like, these men are maybe thirty yards away from us.

Casey turns to me, kisses me, and then takes off her shirt and bra without saying a

word.

No complaints.

We spend our time in that enclosure, then leave. We smile as we get back into the

car. I hold her hand as she drives us back to her house. I meet her parents. Theyre

nice people. We donttalk long. Casey takes me back to her room. Before we enter,

we stop and talk to her little brother, Samuel. He has some rock posters on his wall. I

talk to him about music for a bit. Casey finally pulls me away into her room.

We make out on Caseys bed for a little while. She really is a great kisser.

Something happens here that I have to explain.

Im not the kind of guy who goes around kissing everyone. At least, at this point, Im

not. What Im trying to say is that I develop some feelings for Casey here. Myrelationship with Amber has all but faded and Casey is there and shes smart and

sexy. We have chemistry. I enjoy being around her. I like her.


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We leave her house after a while. As she drives, she gets a call from Amber. Amber

wants her to come over. She says shes with me. Amber tells her to bring me along.So Casey and I go to Ambers house.

We dont stay long. The three of us take a short walk and sit by a pond close to

Ambers house. We make small talk for a bit, and then leave. Its kind ofawkward.

She drives me back to my car. Its almost midnight. Im not going home, though.Scott is over at Press house and Im headed there after I leave.

We arent finished, though.

Instead of going to my car, we park in some neighborhood near the Taco Bell, down

some dark cul de sac. Casey and I crawl into the back seat. Shes fun. After a while,

shes lost all of her clothes, save for her thong. We lose track of time.

In the middle of a kiss, headlights hit us. The two of us duck down, praying it isnt acop. Shes laying on top of me. The car makes a circle around the cul de sac andparks. Right next to us.

No one leaves the car. After a minute, Casey whispers for me to peek and see who it

is. I do.

As soon as I look over the edge of the car door, I make direct eye contact with an old

man sitting in a car with Citizen Patrol etched onto the side.

I duck down again.

He definitely saw me. Definitely.

Casey nods, pauses for a second, then scrambles into the drivers seat and peels out

of that neighborhood while wearing nothing but her thong.

Shes something else.

She drops me back off at my car. We re-dress inside her car, and then I leave after a

last kiss. She smiles and says she had fun. I do too.

Its almost 1 in the morning as I drive from the Taco bell To Press house. As I do, Isee a text from Amber. Shes apologizing for the awkwardness. I call her. We chat fora bit as I drive through under the streetlights. She laughs at me when I get lost. WE

discuss my night with Casey. I tell her that I had a great time. I leave out some of the

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Shes glad. I hang up when I arrive at Press house. Scott and Pres are in Press steam

shower. Yes, he has a steam shower. The three of us stay up for the next few hours

talking. We trade stories, as we usually do. I tell them about the events of my night.

Call me a gossip. Theyre my best friends.

I fall asleep on Press couch that night, smiling as I do.


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Lancaster (May)

The next weekend is Ovilla Christian Schools graduation, two weeks before my own.

Caseys the salutatorian of her class. She invites me to come and then to go to a

graduation party after. I would, but I cant. One of my friends, Joel, is having a

birthday party that afternoon.

The week goes the same. I talk to Casey constantly. School during the day, Snuffersafter.

OCSs graduation is that Sunday. This was that Sunday that was supposed to be

Judgment Day, remember? Some crazy preacher predicted that the world was going

to end at 1 P.M. on that particular Sunday.

I wake up at 10 on Judgment Day. OCSs graduation is at noon in Lancaster, Texas,

about an hour away. I dress nicely and leave.

I quickly realize that Lancaster is hard ghetto. Im not racist, but seriously. Hardghetto.

I park my car, lock it, and pray to myself that it doesnt get stolen as I walk away.

The ceremony takes place in some large church. As I walk up, a girl waves at me

from the front steps. Its Taylar, Caseys friend that I met all the way back atStone

Gate. She says that Casey told her Id be coming and to show me around since I

wouldnt know anyone.

Taylar and I sit on a balcony overlooking the procession. To sit on the stage, all ofthe graduates have to walk right by us. As they do, Casey smiles and whispers Hi to

me. Amber smiles too. Theres something off about Ambers smile, though. I dontthink about it.

The ceremony is boring. Casey gives a short speech. Finally, all of the graduates

receive their diplomas. Taylar and I go to see Casey after the ceremony ends. We

talk to her for a bit, and then she leaves to talk to her family visiting from out of

town, telling me that shell meet up with me in a few minutes.

I lose Taylar in the crowd. I dont see her after that. Wandering aimlessly, I run into

Amber. I approach her, happy to see her. We hug. She then calls three guys over. OneIve never seen before. I dont remember his name. The second is Dustin, the guyfrom the truck where Amber and I firstmet. Hes friendly, as he was when we met.


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The third guy is Nick. Ambers ex. The one she so often told me that I was so similar

too. Were about the same height, skinny. He looks older. He has blonde hair. He sees

me and instantly views me with disgust. Im not kidding.

She tells the two of us to talk while she goes to find someone to take a picture of

them. I try to strike up conversation with Nick. He simply turns and walks away,goes to talk to Dustin and his other friend.

Amber comes back with a woman with a camera. She poses with the three guys, the

camera flashes. She turns to me.

Thanks for coming! It was good seeing you!

She leaves. Im shocked. Casey finds me soon after. I shake it off. She leads me

through the crowd to a back room. Each graduate has made a board, much like a

science fair board. She shows me hers. There is a picture of the two of us from The

Maines concert on it.

Casey shows me around the room. We run into Rebecca. Shes friendly, says hi.

Victorias mom makes eye contact with me, doesnt say anything. After a while, I

check the time. I need to go to make it to Joels party.

We run into Victoria on the way out. She hugs me, asks me how I am. We talk for a

minute or two. We laugh about me making awkward eye contact with her mom.

Casey walks me out to my car after that. It isnt a long walk. I notice a hubcap is

missing off my front tire. Go figure.

I ask Casey if she knew why Amber acted so weird today. She said that she didnt

really know, maybe because Nick was here. I told her about my interaction with

Nick. She tells me that hes probably jealous. Amber talks about me a lot.

I take note.

Casey and I hug and I drive off while she returns to the church.

The clock hits 1 after Im about ten minutes away. The world doesnt end. I keep

driving. I try not to think about Amber.


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Interlude V Exits

I never see or hear from Victoria after that. Rebecca, Taylar, Dustin, and Nick. All of

them are gone from the story now.


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End (May)

The nextweek, I dont get to see Casey. Im too busy between studying for my final

exams and work at Snuffers. I work the entire weekend. The week goes by. I talk to

Casey frequently. I dont hear from Amber.

I have final exams on Monday and Tuesday, May 23rd and 24th. Casey and I make

plans for that next day, Wednesday the 25th. After that, I graduate on Friday the 27th.

I take my exams. Scott and I walk out of the front door of our school, arms held high.

Wednesday arrives. I meet Casey early in the evening, at the usual Taco Bell spot. I

take her to Grapevine Mills, a gigantic mall about 15 minutes away from my house.

We eat a late lunch/early dinner at Rainforest Cafe. The restaurant that looks like a

rainforest with all of the weird robot animals. Its corny, but fun.

After that, we watch Insidious at the Grapevine Mills movie theater. We both likescary movies and had heard that Insidious is really scary. It wasnt. It was just kindof weird.

We leave the theater and head back to my house. We talk to my parents for a little

while. I think they like her enough.

I take her upstairs and we sit on the same couch we had our first kiss while

watching Secret Window. I put in a DVD. I dont remember which one.

We dont watch the movie.

After the movie ends, we continue to hang out. She has to be home at midnight,

though, so I leave to take her to her car at 11. We laugh as I drive her. I tell her about

my graduation on Friday. She cant make it. One of her friends that I havent met,Cale, has a birthday party that night. Shes told me about him a few times. She

apologizes. I understand. We kiss and say goodbye.

I like this girl. I cant help but miss Amber, too. I just miss her being my friend, you

know? But I dont think about it too much. Caseys great.

I work on Thursday, and then Friday arrives. Graduation day. Family from out of

town come to visit. I smile broadly as I walk across the stage and my principal handsme my diploma in my navy blue cap and gown. Ive finally graduated.

Both Casey and Amber text me and tell me congratulations. They wish they could be

there.


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Interlude VI Moments

Its moments like these that define us. Ill remember the week of my graduation for

my entire life.

Its been nice up until now. Confusing and weird, maybe. But nice.

Not after this. Fuck. I should have listened to Cole.


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Truth (May)

Friday I go to a graduation party at Press house. I have a great time with my friends.

I see a lot of people for the last time.

Saturday night, I have work at Snuffers. Its a long shift. I dont clock off until half-past midnight Sunday morning. On my way home, I stop to get a Big Red-flavored

Slurpee from RaceTrac as I usually do. As Im filling up my drink, I get a text fromCasey. I havent talked to her too much that day. She asks if I can call her.

I drive home, park in my driveway, and sip on my Slurpee as I dial Casey. She picks

up quickly. We make small talk for a few minutes; ask about each others day. I tell

her a funny story that happened during my Snuffers shift. She laughs.

Then she says she has something to tell me. I say okay. What she says next is a direct

quote. Like, this is exactly what she said. Exactly.

I just want you to know that I hooked up with two other guys this week, but its

okay because theyre guys that Ive hooked up with before so it isnt like Im justhooking up with random people.

Im silent for a little bit. I almost yell, but I manage to hold it in. I ask her why. Shegives me some bullshit excuse I dont even remember. She tells me shes sorry. I askher if either of these hookups had happened before Wednesday, when we had spent

all day together.

She says yes.

I tell her that I dont want to see her or talk to her again and hang up the phone.

I sit in my dark driveway for a few minutes and laugh to myself. I laugh because I

was so damn stupid. I laugh because Victoria was actually right. I laugh because I

was played like a fool. I laugh because I had actually cared about Casey.

I call Amber. Looking back, I dont know why I did, really. I think I was just mad. Madat Casey for doing what she did. Mostly, though, I was mad at myself.

Im mad at myself because I had thrown away a chance with Amber for a girl who

didnt give a fuck about me.

Amber picks up. Again, I dont yell. I asked her if she knew about Casey. She says yes.

I say this next.

I think Im done with you Ovilla girls for a while.


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She starts to say something. I dont give her the chance. I just hang up on her

instead.

I dont remember if it was later that night or the next day, but Amber calls me back.She says that shes sorry. She asks me to think about it.

I dont want to hear it. I tell her that I think it would be best if I didnt hear from her

or Casey for some time. I can tell she wants to argue. But she doesnt. She relents. Isay goodbye and hang up.


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Summer, pt. 1 (June-July)

Time goes on. Spring gives way to summer. I dont hear from either Amber or Casey.

I dont really expect to.

I still have so many questions for Amber. I want to know what changed, from thevery beginning, before Casey or state or any of it happened. I want to know what

went wrong. I keep it to myself though. I try to think about other things. I stay busy

to keep my mind off of it.

I work a lot and make some really good friends at Snuffers. I spend most of my time

when Im not working with Scott, Ty, Pres, and my other friends.

Scott broke up with his girlfriend. Hes now dating my prom date, Courtney. Fun

fact.

I start hooking up with girls. I never used to randomly hook up, but I just dont reallycare any more. There are a few, not too many. Nice, casual flings.

Come mid-July, I think its the 16th or 17th, I head out for my weekend-long freshman

orientation at OU. While Im there, during the first afternoon, I receive a text. Its

from Casey. It only contains one word.

Hi.

Okay, seriously. Hi. With the period and everything. Im not expecting a well-

written novel or anything, but that? Thats just bull. After cheating on me twice in

one week, then going over a month and a half without speaking, at to send me that?

I hold onto it and reply the next day. Because Im at freshman orientation I donthave much time to sit and talk. Casey and I have a short conversation about nothing.

Just small talk. She asks how I am, I tell her Im doing really well.

The next day she texts me first. Again, another short conversation about nothing.

Stilted. Awkward. When I have to go, she asks me to text her tomorrow. I tell her I

will.

I dont.

I havent talked to Casey since. She hasnt tried to talk to me. That was the last timewe spoke. I think its best that way.


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Summer, pt. 2 (July-August)

Freshman orientation ends. Summer goes on. I continue to work and hang out with

my friends. I continue to see various girls.

Its a hot, slow summer. Everything seems to move at a snails pace.

I want to reach out to Amber so badly. I think about it every day. Its been over twomonths since Ive last spoken to her. I dont though.

If she wants to talk to me, shell talk to me.

Thats what I think, anyways. So I wait.

Late July. Im in my room, playing Xbox when I receive a text. Its Amber. Its actually

her. My heart skips like seven beats.

She tells me that tomorrow she leaves for her mission trip to China. Shell be gone

for a week. When she gets back, though, shed really like to talk. I tell her Id love toand that I hope she has a great trip.

Funny how something so small could make me so happy.

She spends her week in China and returns. July fades to August while shes there. I

would have loved to meet up with her as soon as she gets back, but I cant.

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Interlude VII Colorado

I know that sounds really random. Just bear with me.

At the beginning of the summer, Scott and I started planning a weeklong trip for the

two of us, Ty, and two of our other friends, Tanner and Balkey. The five of us spentthat next week in Pagosa Springs, Colorado. No parents or anything.

It. Was. Incredible.

My week in Colorado was my last real time that I got to spend with Scott and Ty. All

of us were heading to different schools, so we were all determined to make the most

of this week.

So much crazy shit happened over the course of that week that I couldnt even begin

to cover it all in this interlude. So, for your sake, Ill only include what is important to

the story.

Maybe Ill write one of these about that week someday.


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Monday (August)

While were in Colorado, the guys and I spend our days out hiking, fishing, or just

goofing around in the wilderness. At night, the five of us stay in this cramped little

duplex built to comfortably fit two.

I talk to Amber every single night that week.

Its great. Its different, from what it was. She flirts with me like she didnt in thepast. She says things to me that she never would have.

The thing I remember most is what she texted me one night after most of the others

had fallen asleep.

I have two kinds of crushes. 1s and 2s. A 1 is just someone I would kiss. A 2 is

someone I would date. You were a 2.

This and other things. I want to ask her what happened so badly. I want to tell her

how I really felt about her the whole time. I want to share the feelings that I kept to

myself for months.

I dont. As always, I dont want to wreck a good thing after just getting it back. So Iflirt back, I have fun talking to her that week. But I keep my feelings out of it.

The guys and I will get back into Texas on Sunday evening. Amber and I make plans

to meet up and spend the day together that next day, Monday. And then that would

be it. After that Monday, she would have less than a week before she moved away to

Virginia. I would move out to Oklahoma a week after she left.

So Monday would be all we had. I was determined to make the absolute most of it.

Tell her everything.

Monday will be great. Shes excited. So am I. I cant wait to get home. I even burn her

another mix CD to surprise her with.

Finally, we do. It was a great trip. I say bye to the guys. I dont see Tanner or Balkey

after that.

That night, Im at my house. I had just gotten out of the shower when I receive a text.Its Amber.

She says that Nick, her ex, and Victoria went on a date without telling her. She didntreally care that they went out; she had just gotten mad because Victoria was one of

her best friends and didnt tell her.

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She then felt that she should tell Casey about Monday. It was only fair right? She

couldnt get mad at Victoria for something and then do the same thing to Casey.

It dawns on me as she says it.

We wont be able to do Monday. Casey doesnt think its a good idea.

I tell her okay. Im short with her. Im pretty pissed, but I dont take it out on her. Ido my best to hold it in. I try to be understanding. Until her next text.

I knew youd understand.

Like it was no big deal at all.

That one hurt. Looking back, those four words hurt more than anything else. I call

her. Im mad, but I dont yell and Im not mean. Im nice. I talk to her about it, explainmy point of view.

Shes sorry. So am I. I ask her that if she cant hang out with me, why are we even

talking? What are we doing? Whats the point?

She doesnt know.

I never got to give her that CD.


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Goodbyes (August)

I tell Amber that she wont hear from me for a while. She understands. I wish her

good luck in college and hang up the phone.

I have two weeks after that. I had quit my job at Snuffers before I left for Colorado,so I dont work.

Over those next two weeks, I conducted all of my goodbyes. Ryan and I hung out at

his house. Ty and I went to his little sisters volleyball game together. Joel and I grab

coffee. I didnt get to see Pres before he left.

Ambers already gone at this point.

I grab one last dinner with Cole. I tell him the entire story. He was closer to it than

anyone. As we leaves, he tells me that hes sorry.

Scott and I get breakfast the day he leaves. We go to the small, dumpy Waffle House

by our high school that we would always make midnight treks to. We have a good

long talk. He already knows about the whole situation. Hes my best friend, after all.

He and Courtney are still together. Theyre a good couple.

After we finish our hash browns, we shake hands in the parking lot and my best

friend leaves for Baylor.

The next day I leave for the University of Oklahoma.


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Interlude VIII Oklahoma

I had a great first week of college. I went through Rush, met lots of really cool

people. I loved it at OU. I still do.

I tried my hardest to not think about it. To not think about her.

But I still had so many questions. Why was she so weird at graduation? What

changed, right before state? Why did everything stop when they felt so right to me?

Why didnt she tell me about Casey?

I hadnt wanted to face this realization for a long time, but I finally needed to know if

she even felt the same way. I mean, I definitely felt strongly about her. But, honestly,

I didnt even know if she felt the same way.

I prayed that it wasnt all in my head.

I tried my hardest to let it go. In the end, I made it 17 days.

I cant remember what it was that made me finally write her. Maybe she popped up

on my Facebook news feed, as she so often did. Maybe I saw the playlist on my

iTunes that I made for her and never got to give her. Who knows what it was. It

doesnt really matter.


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Answers (August)

Its August25th. A week exactly after I left for OU. Its late, almost 1:30 in the

morning. Im alone, in a study room down the hall from my dorm on the seventh

floor of the Walker Tower. And I write her.

I create a new Facebook message and write. And write. And write some more. I

write paragraphs on paragraphs.

I tell her everything. I tell her how I felt about her when we first met, how I felt at

State, how I felt about her when I was with Casey, how I felt about her when we

didnt speak over the summer, how I felt in Colorado, and finally how I feel about

her now.

In not as many words, I tell her what I just told you.

Its long. The longest message Ive ever sent anyone. At the end of it, I tell her that ifshe doesnt reply in a week, Ill take the hint and she wont hear from me again.

It doesnt take that long. She replies the next day.

I still have those messages that we sent to each other. Theyre still there, in myFacebook inbox. Im sure theyre still in hers too.

I see her message when I sign onto Facebook after class. I take a deep breath and I

read.

She answers every question I had.

She felt the same way since day one, when we met in the back of Dustins truckwhen I was on my date with Victoria.

She messaged me that dumb YouTube video that night just so she would have an

excuse to talk to me.

Casey and Victoria never knew that Amber and I were talking at first. She kept it a

secret because I had been talking to Victoria and Casey had a crush on me too. She

didnt want to upset her friends, but she wanted to keep talking to me too.

She was more nervous for State than anything. She wanted to kiss me there, just as I

had wanted to kiss her.

Then Casey found out and she backed off. Because Casey turns everything into a

competition, and she wasnt about to do that with me. She knew she couldnt choosebetween Casey, her best friend, and me. So she withdrew. She would see Casey


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texting me and talking to me all the time, going on dates, and she would get sad. But

she just wanted everyone else to be happy, even though she wasnt.

She was happy to see me at graduation, but sad at the same time. She knew I was

there for Casey, as Caseys boy. She wanted it to be like it was, but she knew then

that it couldnt.

She tells me about when she found out about Casey and the other guys. How much it

had hurt her that she had given up a chance with me for someone who would do

that. She was the one who told Casey to tell me.

That hits me. Casey wouldnt even have told me had it not been for Amber.

She understood why I didnt want to speak to her after that. She didnt like it, but

she understood.

She couldnt help but reach out again before she went to China. She didnt knowwhat to expect whenever we would meet up on Monday, but she was hopeful. She

was determined to make the most of our last chance, just as I was.

Then, the situation with Nick and Victoria. Amber wanted to, but she couldnt bring

herself to be a hypocrite when Casey didnt want her to hang out with me. I get that.

She tells me that shell be coming back for Christmas break and that shed really like

to spend the day that we never got to have together.

She says she misses me.

And just like that, all of my questions are answered, and Im okay.

We decide to talk every once in a while, randomly, not too frequently. Because no

matter how compatible two people are, if they talk all the time without being around

each other, theyll eventually run out of things to talk about. I dont want that tohappen. Neither does she.

We make plans to see each other over. If things go the way I want, thatll happen

often.

So you could say that August ends on a very positive note.


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Nineteen (September-November)

And so, thats how things go for a while. September comes and goes. College life goes

on. I talk to Amber every few days, close to once a week. Shes doing well in Virginia.

We send each other new music, like we used to do. We share stories of funny thingsthat have happened to us in our first semesters at college.

I turn nineteen on November 3rd. Amber wishes me a happy birthday. I go out and

have a good time with my friends that night.

I go back to Flower Mound for my high schools homecoming. I get to see everyone.

Scott, Ty, Cole, Pres, Ryan, Courtney, Joel, everyone else. Theyre all doing well. Imiss them, but its just one of those things.

Things change as far as our plans, though. Her parents move to Pennsylvania a few

weeks after she leaves for college. That means that she wont be going home toOvilla over the break.

She tells me not to worry, though. Shell be home for a week, the week of New Years

Eve. Shell be staying with her friends in Ovilla during that week, but she says that

she definitely wants to see me, to get breakfast and then hang out around the

Denton Square, like we never got to.

Ill take what I can get. If I had my way, Id spend just about every second that I had

with her while shes here. But that just wont happen.

I can deal with that.


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Expectations (Now)

And so thats where we are. Im writing this now, sitting in the Great Reading Room

inside OUs library. It looks like something straight out of Hogwarts.Its freezingoutside. Im dreading the walk back to the Walker Tower.

Ive beenwriting since the middle of October. I cant remember the exact day that I

started, but its been about a month and a half.

Its at this point that this stops being a story. It stops being memories, typed onto a

computer screen. Its happening to me now.Im living it.

Ive learned something since January, way back when I met Taylar, Victoria, andCasey at the Stone Gate Speech & Debate Competition Never have expectations.

I wish I would have known this back then. I would have done things so differently.

Who knows where Id be now? But you can never go back, you know? As I said awhile before, the past is written in ink. Theres no changing it.

People change. Its an eventuality. You werent the same person you were a year ago.

Neither am I. Neither is Amber.

Im not stupid or naive enough to expect something to happen when Amber and I

see each in about a month. Were different people now, different then we were

before.

Im not even entirely sure what I want to happen anymore.

Im ending my story now, even though it isnt really over yet. Theres still more totell. I dont know if Ill ever get the chance to go back to Ovilla, Texas. Hell, I donteven know for sure that Amber and I will actually get to see each other. So Im donelooking back.

Now, tonight, I look forward. And I expect nothing.

I look forward and I hope.

November 30th, 2011


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Epilogue Memories

I feel like I have to add this. To clarify.

Its a funny thing about memories, you see. For example, if a group of people witness

something, anything, and are all asked about it later, no two people will give theexact same recreation of what happened.

Our minds play tricks on us.

I didnt lie. I wrote these things down, I told this story exactly as I remember it.

Amber would tell this story differently, Im sure. So would Casey. So would Victoria.

Im sure Scott would too, along with everyone else. And even then, none of us wouldget it exactly right.

None of that really matters all that much to me though. What happened, everything

that happened from January to now, its real. Its real to me.


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Music

I love to write. Whenever I do, I always have to be listening to music. Below is a lot

of the music that helped me write this over the course of the past month and a half.

Blood Bank Bon Iver The Suburbs Arcade Fire

Very Many The Middle East Growing Up The Maine

This Place Is a Prison The Postal Service The Cave Mumford & Sons

Somebody That You Used To Know Gotye Almanac The Acorn

A Lack of Color Death Cab for Cutie Hero Regina Spektor

A Crush to Pass the Time Plushgun Bones DeYarmond Edison

Love Vigilantes Iron & Wine Holocene Bon Iver

Whitechapel Blue Rose Code Epilogue The Antlers

To Whom It May Concern The Civil Wars Congratulations MGMT

How It Ends DeVotchKa Carousel Iron & Wine

Just Impolite Plushgun Dancing In a Minefield Plushgun

Id Hate To Be You... Mayday Parade Towering Seryn

Our Sentence Is Up Max Bemis Weekend Wars -- MGMT

We Will All Be Changed Seryn Deep Blue Arcade Fire

Smile Like You Mean It The Killers Daylight Matt & Kim

Swimming In the Flood Passion Pit Woe Say Anything

Northern Downpour Panic! At the Disco Eyes Rogue Wave

Upward Over the Mountain Iron & Wine Blood The Middle East

Brothers on a Hotel Bed Death Cab for Cutie Suburban War Arcade Fire

The Trapeze Swinger Iron & Wine Kettering The Antlers

Une Annee Sans Lumiere Arcade Fire Wolves (Act I & II) Bon Iver


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Characters

Everyone that I mentioned in the last 50 pages is real. I wrote a lot of things about a

lot of people. If youre confused, heres a guide to everyone.

Key Characters

Amber The girl that changed everything. We met in the back of Dustins truck inMarch.

Casey The only girl to ever cheat on me. We briefly dated at the end of my senior

year.

Victoria The girl that introduced me to the others. Without her, its likely that none

of this would have happened at all.

ScottMy best friend. Hes been with me through everything. He went to Guatemala

over spring break with me, was at The Maines concert and organized our trip to

Colorado.

Cole My good friend that I meet while performing in our high school theater, meetsall of the girls, talks to Casey while I talk to Victoria, warns me about her.

Supporting Characters

Ty One of my best friends, we went to high school together, went to Colorado withScott, myself, and the others.

Taylar Good friends with Casey, we meet at Stone Gate, and again at the OCS

graduation. Yes, her name is really spelled that way.

Pres My good friend from high school, has that house that everyone hangs out at

on weekends, went to Guatemala with Scott and I.

Ryan My friend that performed in the high school theater with Cole and I.Rebecca Friends with Casey and Amber, we meet at The Maines concert.NickAmbers ex-boyfriend, doesnt like me very much.

Courtney My date to senior prom, becomes Scotts girlfriend.Dustin Friends with Nick and Amber, it is in his truck that Amber and I first meet.

Balkey My friend from high school, went to Colorado with Scott, Ty and I.

Tanner My friend from high school, went to Colorado with Scott, Ty, and I.Joel My friend from high school, has a birthday party on Judgment Day.

Samuel Caseys little brother.


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A Note to the Reader

I wrote this as I would tell a story, how I would tell it if I were speaking. I genuinely

apologize for my at-times atrocious grammar that I used. I promise you, I know how

to write. I just wasnt really focused on that.

As Im sure you gathered, I ended every chapter, or part, with a solid line. Okay,

there was a weird thing that happened with my computer in the part entitled

Lancaster. There are random solid lines in there that shouldnt really be there andI dont exactly know why. I cant delete them, which is frustrating. Just ignore them.

Lancaster is all one part and doesnt end until Interlude V Exits begins.

Lastly, if I offended anyone by writing this, Im legitimately sorry. Its nothingpersonal. I didnt write this for you.

Thanks.


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Documents

"Eleven Months and Counting" or "Memories and Expectations