Day 3 Self & Disclosure UBLearns 9.14.15 CPM

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Self &Disclosure

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The self is an __evolvin _______

com!osite of three com!onents that

develo! ___continuall"______ over time

#ased on life e$!erience.

The Com!onents of

Self



Self% 'areness

Self-awareness is the a#ilit" to vie'

"ourself as a uni(ue !erson and then

reflect on "our ___thou hts______,_feelin s__________, and

__#ehaviors_______.

• use S in Social comparison o#servin andassi nin meanin to others) #ehavior and

then com!arin it a ainst "our o'n.



*ohari +indo'

*ohari +indo'Self

Una'are 'are

thers

Una'areUnkno'nrea-Sel

f

iddenrea-Sel

f

'are/lind

rea-Self

Pu#licrea-Sel

f





Self-concept is "our overall !erce!tionof 'ho "ou are as influenced #" the

____beliefs_____ , ___attitudes______ ,

and __values______ "ou have a#out"ourself.

• sha!ed #" friends famil" culture

• +hat others !ut on "ou

Self%Conce!t



Self-fulfilling prophecies are__!redictions______ a#out

__future_______ interactions that lead

us to #ehave in 'a"s that ensure the

interaction unfolds as 'e !redicted.

m!lications of Self%

Conce!t



Self% steemSelf-esteem is the overall__value______, !ositive or ne ative,

that 'e assi n to ourselves.



Self-discrepancy theory su eststhat "our self%esteem is determined

#" ho' "ou com!are to "our

__ideal______ Self and _ought_______

Self.

Self% steem cont.3



Ideal Self characteristics "ou 'ishto !ossess

• All characteristics: intellectual,

physical, material, $$

• Your “perfect” self

Self%Discre!anc"

Theor"



Ought Self The !erson others 'ishand e$!ect "ou to #e

• “I wish you could e more responsi le”

• Your “should” self

Self%Discre!anc"

Theor"



HSE results from an__overla!________ of "our ideal and

actual, ou ht and actual, #oth or at

least the !ossi#ilit" of overla!

i h Self% steem

)deal

Self

(u*htSelf

Actual

Self



LSE results from

____unattaina#le_______ overla! and

lar e discre!ancies

4o' Self% steem

)deal Self (u*htSelf

ActualSelf



Ideal-Actual Self iscrepancy 5+h"

can)t #e the !erson 'ant to #e67• !oot cause: discrepancy etween ideal

and actual

• "in#ed to eating disorders, cosmetic

surgery additions, ody image and dismorphic pro lems

4o' Self% steem



Ought-Actual Self iscrepancy 5+h"can)t #e the !erson others 'ant to

#e67• !oot cause: discrepancy etween ought

and actual

• "in#ed to communication a oidance and

relational withdrawal

4o' Self% steem



8aintainin 9our

Pu#lic Self+hen "ou communicate 'ith others, "ou

!resent a !u#lic_______ ___self_____,

or face .



8aintainin 9our

Pu#lic SelfSometimes "our !u#lic self is desi ned

to strate icall" ___hide_____ "our

!rivate self%% mas! .



+hen :aces Collide

"aintaining #ace ; ll actions of self and

others, circumstances, and events are

____consistent_______ 'ith one)s face$rong #ace ; nformation a!!ears from

self, others, or circumstances that

__discredits________ one)s self%!resented

face• shlee Sim!son•

8iss Teen US

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