Cold Reading Her Mind

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Cold Reading Her Mind

“There is a sucker born every minute,” so said the famous 19th century circus entrereneurTaylor !arium"

#hile $ don%t encourage the notion that all girls are suckers &un not intended' and can be

snared through goofy ick u lines, they certainly do have a (eakness for men (ho“understand” them" This essentially means that your chances (ith a girl (ill dramaticallyimrove if you are able to imress her (ith your kno(ledge about her ast, resent, likes )dislikes"

*ince you cannot do this by reading tarot cards, tea leaves, alms or crystal balls, you%ll need tolearn from the hilosohies behind them" +eole are imressed (hen you take the time to learnabout them, and (omen are no ecetion" Cold reading involves studying a (oman for a (hileand icking u on her body language and some of the non-verbal clues to her ersonality"

#hat $s Cold Reading.

Cold reading is a techni/ue used by saleseole, interrogators and sychics to convince othereole that they kno( more about them than they actually do" 0enerally, the cold reader (illmake a series of vague statements, (ill observe their reaction, and then (ill refine the originalstatements based on the reactions they got"

$f you have ever read a ne(saer horoscoe and felt that it (as accurate, you haveeerienced a cold read tye of statement"

The reason that it (orks so (ell, is because of the use of ambiguities""" basically statements(hich can have multile meanings" #hen a erson hears such a (ord or statement, their mind(ill fill in the meaning from their o(n ersonal eerience" Thus it seems to be a true statementabout them"

0eneraliing #omenTo begin (ith, all my +$Ts need to realie that (hile every (oman (ould like to think that she%suni/ue and different from the rest of her kind, the fact is that they really aren%t as different asthey think they are" 2ll of them have needs, desires, asirations and goals that are identical toany other girl in their articular social milieu" 3nce you realie that (omen share manysimilarities, you could use these very convenient &and truthful' generaliations to accuratelyread the (oman%s inner syche"

Most cold reading tricks are of the “one sie fits all” variety and (ill be successful on (hoeveryou try" This is because of the fact that (hile as individuals our desires and concerns might be

uni/ue and different 4 our basic outlook to(ards life aren%t" #e get our values from ourimmediate family and society, and this (ill have an affect on our eternal aearance, the (ay(e seak and conduct ourselves"

5nderstanding The Cold Read +rocess

The trick is to state something to a (oman that%s true about her, something she%s doing, or thesituation the t(o of you are in6



6and then follo( u (ith something that “could”be true about her"6and if she agrees (ith your cold read, follo( it u (ith something else that “could” be trueabout her"

7et%s look at an eamle6$f $%ve 8ust met a (oman (hose arms are crossed and she%s leaning back, $ might comment,“our arms are crossed and you%re leaning back" $ bet you%re a eole (atcher" ou%re al(ays(atching and analying (hat eole around you are doing"”

:ey oint;$%m not asking if this is true about her, $%m stating this as true about her" $f she agrees (ith myreading, and 9<= of the time they do, $%ll say6“!ut $ bet6 you can truly have the best time (hen you sto analying, sto being an observer,and let go, allo(ing yourself to be in the moment comletely" 2nd $ kno( this because $%m theeact same (ay"”

!uilding Raort #ith Cold Reading!uilding raort is imortant anytime you have an interaction (ith another erson" 2ll that reallymatters is to understand if you (ant a (oman to feel comfortable (ith you, you>ll need to buildraort (ith her"

*tes to build raort;1" ou need to make her feel like you really understand her and so she (ill oen u to you"

?" ou>ll need to be a very good listener during this rocess so (hen you hear a commonality,you can oint it out to her so she realies it" 3ther(ise she (on>t notice"

@" 5tilie a miture of general statements and subtle leading /uestions to gain information on

the sub8ect by either verbal or non-verbal means &such as tone of voice, facial eressions,body language, etc'"

5se this eamle as a frame(ork for cold reading" ACR B Cold Read

+layer &CR';ou seem like someone (ith lots of ideas but they tend to be a bit unrealistic

0irl;3M0, that>s so true" $ have these ideas""" and (hen $ tell my friends they say $>m a totaldreamer, all the time"" blah blah

+layer;That>s too funny, my friends tell me the same thing (hen $ tell them about""" blah blah

Do( you have something in common (ith her and you%ve build raort"

Commonly 5sed Cold Reads



This is a list of the 1E most effective cold reads by sychics" Fon%t memorie these as they needto sound natural - eact (ords don%t matter but the contet does" ou can mi and match thembased on the contet"

ou have a need for others to like and admire you"ou have a tendency to be critical of yourself"

ou have a great deal of unused caacity (hich you have not turned to your advantage"our ast relationshis have resented roblems for you"ou can be discilined and controlled on the outside, and (orrisome and insecure on the inside"ou sometimes doubt your o(n decisions"ou like change and variety and don>t like to be hemmed in by restrictions and limitations"ou are indeendent minded and need roof before acceting others oinions"ou have found it un(ise to be too frank in revealing yourself to others"

2t times you are etroverted and sociable, (hile at others you are introverted and reserved"*ome of your asirations tend to be retty unrealistic"ou are currently fighting against restraints on your desires to eress yourself creatively andfreely"ou tend to kee eole at bay in order to rotect yourself, because in the ast you have been

disaointed by eole" ou kee eole at arms length until 35 decide to let them into themagic circle of your life"3ne of your arents is no longer around or emotionally very distant from you"ou have such a little girl%s smileG it is so innocent" !ut $ can tell from your eyes that you have asinister side to you"ou kno( (hat. ou ut on this act of al(ays being very tough and businesslike, but on theinside you are sensitive like a little child" $t%s 8ust that most eole aren%t able to see throughyour mask and 8ust 8udge you on your eternal aearance"+layer%s inal #ordsCold reading is o(erful seduction tool as it rovides a (ay to get her to oen u to you (ithouther feeling like it>s an intervie(" Then you can find commonalities that you share so that she canbond (ith you" Have lots of canned cold reading material u your sleeve (hich you can then

mi and match (ith the girl%s ersonality, making your reading a lot more accurate and,conse/uently, more effective"

$t may also haen during this rocess, that you find out she>s not really a (oman you (ant tosend time (ith" ou>ll have saved a lot of time finding this out"

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