August 10, 2014

SEGUN OSOBA: Reminiscing on journalism and politics

A Guide To Men’s Dress Shoes

TREND ALERT:Side Swept Braids

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A Guide To Men’s Dress Shoes

The Formal pumps refer to formal shoes made for Black Tie events. They are made from shiny patent leather or suede leather. They are great alternatives to the Oxford shoes for formal wear.

The Derby is very similar to the Oxford shoe but the difference is in the lacing which is sewn outside the shoes. This style makes it less formal than the Oxfords. They are great to be worn with jeans, linen and semi-formal wear.

This is an elegant shoe style worn majorly for formal events and Black Tie Events. The most common colours are black and brown. Oxfords are great when paired with suits. Not particularly okay for semi formal or informal wear. Oxfords must always be worn with a pair of socks.

Dress boots are sleek, minimalis-tic and stylish. They can be worn as formal or informal wear de-pending on whether they are lace-up boots or Chelsea styled (with bands at the edges)

The Wingtip shoes refer to the cap toe that looks like wings stretching across the front of the shoe. Most wingtips are Derby shoes decorated with brogue leather. The Wingtips are great for Formal wear and semi formal wear. Today, two toned wing-tips are popular creating more style oppor-tunities.

Loafers are sometimes also known as slip-ons. They are very comfort-able and versatile. The Loafers are great for semi-formal to informal wear and come in several colours to

CHIDI MOKEME IN OXFORD SHOES

ADEMILUYI IN LOAFERS

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Oxfords

Loafers

Wingtips

Derby

Formal Pumps Dress Boots

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A Guide To Men’s Dress Shoes

The Formal pumps refer to formal shoes made for Black Tie events. They are made from shiny patent leather or suede leather. They are great alternatives to the Oxford shoes for formal wear.

The Derby is very similar to the Oxford shoe but the difference is in the lacing which is sewn outside the shoes. This style makes it less formal than the Oxfords. They are great to be worn with jeans, linen and semi-formal wear.

This is an elegant shoe style worn majorly for formal events and Black Tie Events. The most common colours are black and brown. Oxfords are great when paired with suits. Not particularly okay for semi formal or informal wear. Oxfords must always be worn with a pair of socks.

Dress boots are sleek, minimalis-tic and stylish. They can be worn as formal or informal wear de-pending on whether they are lace-up boots or Chelsea styled (with bands at the edges)

The Wingtip shoes refer to the cap toe that looks like wings stretching across the front of the shoe. Most wingtips are Derby shoes decorated with brogue leather. The Wingtips are great for Formal wear and semi formal wear. Today, two toned wing-tips are popular creating more style oppor-tunities.

Loafers are sometimes also known as slip-ons. They are very comfort-able and versatile. The Loafers are great for semi-formal to informal wear and come in several colours to

CHIDI MOKEME IN OXFORD SHOES

ADEMILUYI IN LOAFERS

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Oxfords

Loafers

Wingtips

Derby

Formal Pumps Dress Boots

by - Rhoda Ebun

If anyone said braids were back, I will not agree and that’s because as far as I’m concerned, Braids were never out of vogue. Wearing braids is an African hair trend which sometimes has its popular season. Now ever since International Pop sensation Beyonce, stepped out in her side swept braided hair, she’s sent her fans gaga and ultimately on a trend train. Not missing out on this trend are our own celebrities: Actress Monalisa Chinda, Fashion designer Yvonne Nwosu (Vonne Couture) and media personality Toke Makinwa.

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WEEKLY FAB LIST!!!by - Pamela Echemunor

THE SUMMER SHORTS Summer is in full swing and what better way to lunge into it than with the incredible summer shorts. This look is superb for the season,

the drizzle, show off some skin this season. Shorts are very comfy and very easy to style because they are very versatile. Pair your sum-mer shorts with a nice blouse and stay breezy.

Gauchos also called gaucho pants are wide, calf-length trousers worn by both sex-es. They are often mistaken for skirts but are actually pants. Gauchos are super easy to style and are very comfortable to wear. Pair your gaucho with a nice white shirt and a pair of brogues.

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What is life like at 75?

very young at heart. I thank God that He gave me

other than those that one gets when one is aging.

As you grow into old age, what are your thoughts now?

When you look back in life, are there things you would have done differently?

I have had it too good. Every day and every hour,

Women were more in the minority then – the

you must never ask for was a biro. We used to

obtains now.

How did it affect the work then?

information. Two-time Governor of Ogun State, Chief Olusegun Osoba (CON), turned 75 recently. Sporting a pair of jeans and a t-shirt, there was nothing to indicate that the former

Managing Director of ‘Daily Times’ had hit that remarkable age. He cuts the picture of a man who is not only at ease with himself but one on whom fortune has smiled.

Born in Egbatedo, Osun State in 1939, the Akinrogun of Egbaland began his journalism training at the University of Lagos in 1965, sponsored by the International Press Institute. Armed with a diploma and a scholarship from the Commonwealth Press Union, he travelled to the United Kingdom in 1967 for a one-year course. Chief Osoba also at different times trained at the Harvard University Cambridge, Massachusetts, USA and the Indiana University, Bloomington.

In my time in Abeokuta

where I come from, part of the valuable things in the house are the books of many years that you can point to

and say, these are the books

of my grandparents.

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REPORTAGEREPORTAGE

SEGUN OSOBA, CON

By Jemi Ekunkunbor

A detailed professional whose career began at the ‘Daily Times’, Chief Osoba rose through the ranks to become Editor and later Managing Director of the Daily Times of Nigeria. He is father of Kemi, Olumide, Oluyinka and Tobi and husband of the beautiful Beere Aderinsola. He remains the first Nigerian to have won the highest journalistic award from the U.S.A.

When I met the former number one citizen of Ogun State for this interview at his Ikoyi, Lagos home, the journalist in him popped out as he read a caveat: ‘no long interview’. Then, he gave me a brief tutorial on the basic rudiments of good journalism. ‘Keep it short’. Having taken a lesson from the master himself, I have kept the introductions short although there is more to be said of this truly great journalist and politician. His answers were also short and sharp. Enjoy it.

house were the books of many years that you

What would you say?

In Abeokuta, there have been crises between the elders and the youths in the APC. What

them. I have no interest whatsoever anymore in any

well. What is your take on this and how were you affected?

Can we ever revive that era?

Reminiscing on journalism and politics

August 10, 2014 / 9

What is life like at 75?

very young at heart. I thank God that He gave me

other than those that one gets when one is aging.

As you grow into old age, what are your thoughts now?

When you look back in life, are there things you would have done differently?

I have had it too good. Every day and every hour,

Women were more in the minority then – the

you must never ask for was a biro. We used to

obtains now.

How did it affect the work then?

information. Two-time Governor of Ogun State, Chief Olusegun Osoba (CON), turned 75 recently. Sporting a pair of jeans and a t-shirt, there was nothing to indicate that the former

Managing Director of ‘Daily Times’ had hit that remarkable age. He cuts the picture of a man who is not only at ease with himself but one on whom fortune has smiled.

Born in Egbatedo, Osun State in 1939, the Akinrogun of Egbaland began his journalism training at the University of Lagos in 1965, sponsored by the International Press Institute. Armed with a diploma and a scholarship from the Commonwealth Press Union, he travelled to the United Kingdom in 1967 for a one-year course. Chief Osoba also at different times trained at the Harvard University Cambridge, Massachusetts, USA and the Indiana University, Bloomington.

In my time in Abeokuta

where I come from, part of the valuable things in the house are the books of many years that you can point to

and say, these are the books

of my grandparents.

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REPORTAGEREPORTAGE

SEGUN OSOBA, CON

By Jemi Ekunkunbor

A detailed professional whose career began at the ‘Daily Times’, Chief Osoba rose through the ranks to become Editor and later Managing Director of the Daily Times of Nigeria. He is father of Kemi, Olumide, Oluyinka and Tobi and husband of the beautiful Beere Aderinsola. He remains the first Nigerian to have won the highest journalistic award from the U.S.A.

When I met the former number one citizen of Ogun State for this interview at his Ikoyi, Lagos home, the journalist in him popped out as he read a caveat: ‘no long interview’. Then, he gave me a brief tutorial on the basic rudiments of good journalism. ‘Keep it short’. Having taken a lesson from the master himself, I have kept the introductions short although there is more to be said of this truly great journalist and politician. His answers were also short and sharp. Enjoy it.

house were the books of many years that you

What would you say?

In Abeokuta, there have been crises between the elders and the youths in the APC. What

them. I have no interest whatsoever anymore in any

well. What is your take on this and how were you affected?

Can we ever revive that era?

Reminiscing on journalism and politics

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What is your fashion like now in retirement?

For holiday where do you like to go?

What lesson or value did your father teach you that you still uphold?

REPORTAGE

011HEALTHY LIVINGHEALTH

How good is your memory? Do you keep forgetting where you put your

1. Everyone knows the importance of staying physically active to keep his/her body in shape. The same is true for your mind. All kinds of mentally stimulating activities can keep your brain in good shape. Thus, keeping memory loss at bay. You should read a newspaper, solve some crossword puzzles and take alternate or new routes while driving. In fact, learning something new like a musical instrument can also be stimulating for your brain. You should always remember that brain is like any other part in your body. You have to keep it active to keep it healthy, so don’t frown at change, change is good.

2Socializing with people who share same interests

depression. Both of these can contribute to memory loss. You should never miss chance to get together with friends and loved ones. Whenever you are invited to a party or dinner, don’t think too much about it and just go. In fact, when you meet

conversations that keep you active and sharp. You

you live alone

According to most studies, people tend to forget things when their houses are cluttered or notes are not well-organized. You should always keep a journal and note down important appointments, events and tasks. Maintaining a calendar is always the best way to sharpen your memory. One thing I always do is keep a checklist every day. A checklist will help you remember things better. You can also choose to keep your keys and other essential things

become a habit and you won’t even need to stress

by - Teri Mendes

For comments and questions please email terimendes@gmail.com, @terimendes. I would love to hear from you, till next week. - it’s ta ta for now! XOXO

TERI SpeaksHi Teri,

Thank you, your wonderful healthy living tips in Allure magazine it has been of tremendous help to me, God bless

Dear Chizom, If you are based in Lagos, try China town, or Park and Shop and also Ebeano Stores. Best wishes, TM

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Try to limit your distractions. You should never tryto perform too many tasks at the same time, I’m not saying don’t multi task, but try to limit to maximum 3-4 things at the same time. Try to focus on the information you want to remember. This will help you recall it later. In fact, it may help you remember

don’t remember the exact thing, you will surely remember something familiar if you focus!

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your body as well as your brain. This keeps your memory quite sharp. Most of the health experts believe that healthy adults should involve themselves in at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity per week. In fact, 75 minutes of

case you can’t spend time on a full body workout, 10-minute cardio everyday can also do the trick

As mentioned earlier, brain is like any other part in your body. You need to keep it healthy. Thus, a healthy diet plays a crucial role in sharpening your memory. Try to increase your intake of vegetables, fruits and whole grains. Low-fat protein foods like

better. In fact, you should also focus on drinking a lot of liquids. Drink a lot of water, but cut down alcohol from your daily routine. Alcohol and other drugs can increase memory loss.!.

high blood pressure, diabetes or depression, you should always consult a doctor and follow his or her recommendations. If you are able to manage chronic conditions, you will be able to relieve stress and sharpen your memory. You should also check your medications and discuss them with your doctor. Some medications.

Quoteof the week

- IVAN KLIMA

If we lose our memory, we lose ourselves. Forgetting is one of the symptoms of death. Without memory we cease to be human beings.

you.

need you to tell me where I can buy it in Nigeria because I looked in many

HEALTH TIPS:Lets all remember to wash our hands and carry sanitizers with us at all times. We are all safer when more people are aware of the ebola virus, so lets educate ourselves and our loved ones

PerfectBodyKATHY EMIKO

FERTILITY DIET

Choose only free range/Organic chickenLike red meat, conventionally raised chicken is full of antibiotics and hormones which can have

chicken)

Eat only grains in their whole, natural form

foods are fruits, vegetables, dark leafy greens, and

No soy of any form

Drink lots of clean waterBe sure to drink at least half your body weight in

the bottle can contribute to hormonal imbalance

waters to choose from are reverse osmosis and

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Counseling inquiries on Marriage, Relationships, Career and Matchmaking >> @jeromeistalking on Twitter. “Like” Jerome Yaovi Onipede on Facebook.

by - Jerome Onipede

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regular menstrual cycle, ovulation, and cervical mucus as

SHOULD I STAY WITH MY BOSS OR GO WITH MY FRIEND?Dear Jerome,

My case is different. I am 38 and have been in a relationship with my married boss for 16 years. He has given me lots of opportunity in life and wants me to remain his mistress. But now, I want someone I can call my own and a child too.

Recently, I hooked up with an old friend of mine who also wants to get married. The problem is that he has nothing of his own and no job. He lives in my apartment and lives off me. He is excited about getting married to me but the dilemma now is I am in-between two men and wonder who to really stay with because, I love them both.

as a single parent. If this old friend of mine

as I have a child, I am cool. Who do you advise me to choose?

Personally, I believe you had already become a second wife all this while without admitting the fact. Sixteen years is a long time to be actively involved with someone and anyone at all romantically. You have built a life around and with your boss all this while and succeeded at it. I am sure if you write a book now on “How to Have a Long Lasting Romantic Relationship with Your Boss”, it will be a best seller!

However, just like every other woman who is within your age group, you are beginning to want more out of life. You are at that point where your life is becoming more important to you and you

to do things for yourself and meet your own real,

tired of always meeting the needs of everybody else but yours.

Do you know if you were legally married and building a home of yours with your husband, that you will still go through this phase? A phase when you want more out of life and want to be more

and ways of meeting them. It is also the time

circumstances and not by choice wants to go out

can make in life. Her husband is shocked because as far as he is concerned, he has provided more than enough for her and wonders why she is becoming ungrateful, not realizing that that is not what is happening. Only that she is moving around

built on which is: SELF WORTH (Sense of Value), SECURITY (Sense of Safety) and SIGNIFICANCE (Sense of Place).

Therefore, as a woman, now, you want to be with someone who is ready to leave every other

right now.So, the issues we have here are not just about

making a decision between two men but also about you accepting the fact that you are going through some changes that all women go through within

need to be guided through it so it does not turn into crisis for you or you make mistakes you could have avoided.

Going back to those two men though, I am of the opinion that none of them wants you for you but what they get from you. Try and ask your boss to divorce his wife and marry you instead and you will hear the story of your life! Stop giving the “project”

you will realize that he is not excited about getting married to you but about everything that will also become his when he gets married to you.

and, trust me, you will know what should stay and what should go far away from your life.

FEATURE

KIDSI recently attended a family function where all the kids received

monetary gifts. Immediately, my kids gave me the money they received to deposit in their piggy bank. By the following day, some of the other kids had used all their money to buy sweets and drinks from the corner store down the road. I introduced the concept of a piggy bank to my kids from a very early age and as a result, whenever they receive monetary gifts, they always insist I deposit it in the piggy bank. Not once do I recall my kids asking me to give them their money to buy sweets or toys. On

these kids may grow up with a habit of spending all they have and not knowing how to save or invest.

At what age should parents start teaching their kids about

Personally, I feel it is never too early to start teaching children about money. Once kids are able to talk, it is important to start introducing the concept of money, the value of money, how to manage money, how to make money as well as the importance of investing money.

Unfortunately, many of us were not taught by our parents and today

POCKET CEFINANby - Omilola Oshikoya

The Bible says “train a child in the way he/she should go and he would not depart from it.’ If we start teaching our kids from a very early age, it would become a lifestyle and they would grow up to be successful in handling money.

There are a lot of resources available to us as parents of this present generation. The internet provides access to unlimited resources and

part of family time, parents should also encourage their children to play

1.The concept and value of money2. The importance of budgeting and how to budget3 How to save

5 How to earn and make money6 How to manage money7 The importance of giving 8 The importance of investing.

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by - Chioma Okoye

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A polished person uses tone of voice to show respect and warmth for others. Smiling actually changes your tone of voice, giving it a more

slight smile on your face.It would amaze you to know that

you could begin a relationship

(business, personal, spiritual etc.) with persons that you have never met just because of the warmth and friendliness that they hear in your tone, probably, when you spoke to them over the phone.

Also, when people hear the sound of their own name, they feel valued and special. When you are talking to someone (especially in a business

instance, instead of just saying

“Thank you”, you could say “Thank you, Jim”.

Names are critical in any kind of relationship with people. It also makes room for comfort and relaxation with the person whose name is mentioned feeling accepted and appreciated.

Do you know that one of the most respectful things you can do, and also

itching to speak and voice your opinion so, it may be hard to restrain yourself and listen attentively to someone else.

However, “there is more power in listening than there is in speaking,” says Grosso. “If I listen to what you say, all I need to address are the issues that are important to you, but if

learn what is important to you.”There are many other strategies

necessary to develope an attitude that shows respect to others:

In conclusion, if you remember to respect others and act in a way that makes the atmosphere peaceful, you will have the Polish Edge that leads to success.

ETIQUETTE STYLES FOR THE POLISHED PROFESSIONAL

Chioma E. Okoye

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BEAUTY

by - Pamela Echemunor

NOW, THE BEAREDLOOKREIGNS!Gone are the days of clean cut and shiny face. An increasing number of guys have opted for the bearded look. This look is husky and tough. It can make any baby-faced guy look

-scended into a widely accepted fashion statement. It takes patience to grow your beard but savviness to groom it into a style statement.

Just in case you are loving the look, here are some tips to help.

Not every guy is blessed enough with facial hair. If

groom those fussy strands.

Before shaving, wash your face to remove dirt from beard and avoid bumps.

especially for sensitive skin. Know your skin type so as to determine the kind of products you can use. If you have to shape your beard by yourself, consider your facial structure. For oblong or oval face shape, trim your hairs closer on the underside of your chin but leave a bit of length on your cheeks. For a round face, create length by leaving more hair on your chin and less on your cheeks.Finally, comb your moustache and trim hairs that fall below your lip line using scissors or a trimmer.

beard but hair in general.Trimming regularly helps beard grow faster and get fuller: This myth is widely accepted but broadly inac-curate. Truth is: beard growth varies from person to

-ming is basically to avoid split ends.Grey beards are coarse: Grey beards, black, brown or

matter. Grey beards are not much different from regu-

of conditioning. Certain foods make your beard grow quicker: The truth is certain foods contain nutrients to promote hair

-fore concluding and then getting disappointed with the results. Your hair is like any other part of your body, nourish it as such. Plucking greys add more greys: Plucking grey hair

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ALERO JADESIMI @70

SARAH SOSAN’S SON WEDS IN STYLE

Scores of dignitaries last Wednesday, trooped out to grace the 70th birthday celebration of Mrs. Alero Jadesimi, daughter of the late Finance Minister, Chief Festus Okotie-Eboh.

The celebration started with a thanksgiving service at the Cathedral Church of Christ, Marina, Lagos.

The celebration later shifted to the prestigious Vila Medici pub in Victoria Island, where guests were treated to choice meals served with assorted champaign and wines amidst musical rendition from the guest artist, Tiwa Savage.

The celebrant, Mrs Jadesimi used the opportunity to thank God for sparing her life while also reaffirming her dedication to the service of God and humanity.

Amongst dignitaries who graced the occasion were, Former Secretary-General of the Commonwealth, Chief Emeka Anyaoku and his wife, Former Ekiti State governor, Otunba Niyi Adebayo and his wife; Retired Bishop of Lokoja, Bishop Bako, and renowned physician, Dr. Duro Soleye. Also present were Media Icon, Dr. (Mrs.) Doyin Abiola and Erelu of Lagos Chief Abiola Dosumu-Fernandez.

The Osazuwa and Sosan families recently, rolled out the drums to celebrate the tradional marriage of their Children, Olubukola Adesuwa Osazuwa and Olugbenga Ayotunde Sosan, son of the former deputy governor of Lagos State, Mrs Sarah Sosan. The event took place at The Haven event centre Ikeja, Lagos.

The ceremony was graced by top dignitaries from the political, business and social class.Amongst dignitaries present were governor of Ogun State, Senator Ibikunle Amosun, Mrs Virgy Etiaba, Former Governor of Anambra State, Senator and Mrs. Olurunnimbe Mamora, Dame Abimbola Fashola, Mrs Bisi Fayemi and Mrs. Florence Ajimobi, First Ladies of Lagos, Ekiti and Oyo States respectively. Others present were Princess Abba Folawiyo, Chief Opral Benson and Lady Maiden Alex-Ibru, Publisher, The Guardian Newspaper.

By - Oscar Ochiogu

By - Oscar Ochiogu

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