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Running head: THE JOURNEY OF A MONTESSORI SECONDARY TEACHER
The Journey of a Montessori Secondary Teacher
Sarah KelleyMacon, Georgia, USA
Submitted to:
Adjunct Faculty Mentor: Julie Haagensonand
Academic Dean: Dr. Philip Snow Gang
Submitted in Partial Fulfillment for the DegreeMaster of Education
Endicott College - TIES Partnership
March, 14 2016
This document follows the APA Manual of Style
Edited by: Leah Brooks
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Abstract
This paper culminates a year and a half of educational work, yet, it spans over multiple years of
time. It details information learned throughout the process of Secondary Montessori training at
HMC as well as that gained from studies at TIES. It includes an in depth look at qualities that
benefit teaching, adult normalization, the use of creativity in the transformation process, as well
as how they may be utilized in other situations. The hope is that by sharing this story, it may
help others to gain greater insight into their own stories and may help others to reflect on the role
of a teacher in the classroom.
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Table of Contents
Introduction………………......……………………………….…………………………
Chapter One: The Journey Begins…..…………………………………………………. -Houston Montessori Center -Student Investment -TIES
Chapter Two: Learning to Teach.…………………………………………………...….. -A Teacher’s Purpose -Becoming Authentic -A Need to Connect
Chapter Three: Fostering Connections………………………………..…………............ -A Change in Perceptions -Quality 1: Courage/Strength -Quality 2: Empathy -Quality 3: Creativity -Quality 4: The Power of Observation -Quality 5: Personal Reflection -Quality 6: Patience -Quality 7: Passion -Quality 8: Wonder -Modeling Qualities
Chapter Four: Normalization…………………………………………………………… -Normalization and the Adult -Growing up Abnormal -Mirror of Relationships -A Time to Change -Finding Value -Putting it into Practice -A New Normalization
Chapter Five: A Montessori Yogi………………………………………………….......... -Yoga for Self-Reflection -Yoga and Montessori -The Significance of Experience -Neurophenomenology -The Process -My Observation of the Students -Observation of Self -Student Comments -Reflection on Process
Chapter Six: Integrating Creativity……………………………………………...............
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-Transformative Creativity -Mind Mapping
Chapter Seven: From Out of the Chaos..………………………………………………… -Finding Freedom -Moving Forward -Conclusion
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List of Figures
Figure 1. Duality of being 83
Figure 2. Collage activity 86
Figure 3. What TIES and integrative learning mean to me 89
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The Journey of a Montessori Secondary Teacher
I encountered Montessori at a young age. From age three until I was eleven, I was a
Montessori student. I actually spent much of my time as a Montessori student at the very school
at which I now teach. When I was a child, my mother was a Montessori teacher, and now both
my sister and I work at the Montessori school that our daughters attend. Montessori, it would
seem, has become a family tradition.
Montessori was not something that I took for granted. When I had to transfer from a
Montessori school to a factory model1 school as a child, I noticed the differences right away and
wished that I could go back to my Montessori school. I hated having to sit behind a desk all day
while listening to my teacher drone on. I hated that I had no say in what work I did or how I did
it. I hated that I was often getting in trouble for my creative interpretations of the assignments. I
hated having to wear shoes inside the classroom and having to raise my hand to ask to go to the
bathroom. I felt that I did not fit into this narrow world, a feeling that persisted into my adult
years. I missed Montessori and I wanted desperately to go back.
Despite this, I had never intended on becoming a Montessori teacher. I spent most of my
school years planning on pursuing a career in theatre, not creating lesson plans or grading papers.
Theatre, like Montessori, was in my blood. My mother had been in a play and was onstage while
I was still growing in her belly, and I was deeply involved with theatre throughout elementary,
middle, and high school. Once I graduated high school, I went on to study theatre at an acting
conservatory in Los Angeles called the American Academy of Dramatic Arts (AADA).
However, life in Los Angeles as a struggling artist proved to be as hard as they say it is, in spite
1 During the Industrial Revolution, “Modern schools were consciously modeled on factories, with their priority of efficient operation” (Lillard, 2007, p. 6).
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of what my optimistic heart wanted to believe. I left Los Angeles to come back to the East Coast
and try to save up money to return again better prepared.
Once I was back in South Carolina, an opportunity arose to work as an assistant in a
primary classroom at a Montessori school, and I decided to try it out. I was in need of a job, and
I have always been good with kids, probably because I am still a big kid at heart. I decided to
give it a try. I found great pleasure in working with the students. I was put in charge of the arts
and crafts station where I was able to bring in my love for creativity. I also found ways to utilize
my theatre background through different role-play activities and sing-a-longs. Unfortunately,
right before I left Los Angeles, I endured a great emotional trauma, which impacted my ability to
continue working at the Montessori school.
I was attacked in a bar in Los Angeles only a few nights before I left. I tried not to think
about it. I wanted to bury it down deep within myself, to lock it away with a key and never think
about it again. I had many other emotional traumas buried within myself, surely I could handle
hiding away another one. At least, that was how I thought about it. Thinking about these
traumatic experiences only brought up engrained insecurities and self-hatred that I had been
carrying with me most of my life. I did not know how to handle all of these emotions at that
time, so I found ways to distract myself from them instead.
I turned to alcohol and developed an eating disorder in my attempt to find comfort during
this time. Working with the kids brought me joy, but the pain I had endured was too much, and I
would do anything that I could to numb myself from the pain. No surprisingly, this proved
detrimental to my health. I ended up in the emergency room on more than one occasion being
told that I was on the verge of heart failure due to malnourishment. One doctor told me that if I
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did not enter treatment immediately, then I was going to die. I entered treatment the next day,
more out of stubbornness than a will to live.
I stayed in the treatment facility for a month, which was not nearly long enough to deal
with all of the trauma I was hiding from, but insurance would not pay for me to stay any longer.
Once I was physically stable, I was required to leave the treatment facility. My therapist there
had suggested that a change of scenery would be good for me. She thought it would be best if I
moved away from my hometown in South Carolina, which proved to be a toxic environment for
me. My father offered for me to come stay with him in Georgia until I was back up on my feet.
Once I was back in Georgia, where I had lived as a young child, I decided that I wanted
to make a change in my life. My dream had always been to be a famous actress, as is the dream
of many young theatre students; however, my priorities now had changed. After almost losing
my life, I decided that I wanted to pursue simpler things, such as a family and a secure job. That
is when I decided to go back to school and finish my bachelor’s degree in theatre.
I applied, and was accepted to, Wesleyan College. Since the majority of my credits for
theatre were already complete, I was allowed the freedom to pursue other interests. I took
multiple philosophy classes, purely out of enjoyment and curiosity. I also studied literature,
psychology, and writing courses. I felt that the love of learning that I had experienced as a
Montessori student had finally returned! When I realized that I needed to find a job while I
completed my studies, my thoughts automatically went to the Montessori school that I had
attended as a child.
Once I was hired, I started as a substitute and after-school teacher. However, I was
quickly approached by the head of school about starting a drama program. I jumped at the
chance to share my passions with the students. That began a long relationship with the school. I
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have worked in various different positions within this school, and I am one of the few teachers
who has worked in every single classroom on campus at some point. My intentions had never
been to stay; however, I very quickly fell in love with teaching, particularly at the secondary
level.
I loved the depth of conversation that could be had with adolescents. I was thrilled to
watch them as they tried to form their own identities and discover their place in the world. I
thoroughly enjoyed teaching them about theatre, but I was also enchanted by the conversations
we could have about history, current events, politics, and more. It quickly became clear to me
that my home as a teacher was in an adolescent classroom. Therefore, I was ecstatic when I was
given the opportunity to become the lead teacher of the middle/high school program at
Montessori of Macon and to receive my secondary Montessori training at the Houston
Montessori Center (HMC). I knew that amazing things were waiting for me on the horizon,
although I had no idea just how wonderful, and yet difficult, these things would be.
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Chapter One: The Journey Begins
Houston Montessori Center
Before starting my Montessori teacher training, I worked as an assistant in the
middle/high school classroom at Montessori of Macon. Although I was an assistant, I still taught
several history and language lessons. I loved teaching, but I felt very unsure of my abilities as a
teacher. I would stay up for hours the night before a lesson writing and rewriting what I was
going to teach because it never seemed good enough in my eyes. I was filled with anxiety over
whether or not I was capable of giving my students all of the information that they really needed
to be successful in life. I had the picture of an “ideal” Montessori teacher in my head and was
sure that I did not fit the bill. My hope, as I headed into training, was that I would be magically
transformed into the perfect Montessori teacher. It turned out that my training would open the
doors for an amazing transformation, but not exactly in the way I had imagined it.
One aspect of the training that had a major impact on me was being given the opportunity
to live the life of the adolescent student. For five weeks, we received the lessons, took the tests,
completed the work (including group work), and took home the homework that we would soon
be asking our own students to do. This technique helped me to see through the eyes of my
students for a while. I felt their anxieties over completing the work on time, their frustrations
over working with a group of their peers, and their desire to be enticed with the lessons. The
process was difficult but ultimately helped me to form a connection to my students and to think
about their perspective a little more often.
The process also helped me to form a connection with the people I was in training with.
Our teacher, Betsy Coe, put great emphasis on us being a community of learners. We quickly
discovered that we were all in this together and that by supporting and helping one another, we
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could all get more out of the process. This transferred to my views of my own classroom and
students. I began to realize how we are also a community of learners, working together to
achieve similar goals. It helped me to recognize how important that community is and how I
needed to make sure to preserve it. When it was time for me to leave training and begin my
practicum year, I made forging a stronger student community my goal.
As part of my training, I completed a year-long practicum in a secondary classroom. I
completed this practicum at Montessori of Macon (MOM) with a classroom of eight middle
school students (7th & 8th grade) as well as seven high school students (9th–11th grade). The
secondary program at MOM was still relatively new; therefore, the enrollment was much smaller
than other classes on the campus.
Due to the small class size, the middle school and high school programs existed within
the same classroom, although middle school and high school students did not attend the same
lessons. My practicum year was one of transition. I was hired to replace the lead teacher who
would be leaving at the end of my practicum year. At the beginning of the practicum, I had few
responsibilities other than the classes that I taught. By the end of the school year, I had as many
responsibilities as the lead teacher.
One of the first things that I noticed after I completed my training was that many of the
principles I had learned at HMC seemed to not be reflected in my new classroom. It appeared to
lack structure, accountability, and a sense of community. Very few assignments were turned in
on time, and when they were turned in, they tended to be of a very low quality. When Coe, my
trainer and founder of the secondary training program at HMC, came for her first observation of
my practicum, she made a similar observation. One of the requirements for my training was to
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complete a research project. Coe’s observations gave way to my research question: How can I
help students improve their work quality and overall investment in their education?
Student Investment
The first step I took in my attempt to answer this question was to lower the overall
amount of work that the students were asked to complete. It is often said that less is more, and I
thought I would start by testing that theory out. If I lowered the overall quantity of work, would
the quality improve? I went through their project packets (which detailed all of their
assignments, due dates, instructions, and expectations) and considered all of the work that was
assigned. I looked at what the overall goal of each piece of work was, decided how well
completing the work was likely to help students achieve that goal, and considered whether there
was other work that also could enable a student to achieve the particular goal. As part of this
process, I put the assigned work into the categories of necessary and unnecessary.
To illustrate, the high school students were being asked to write two short (one–two
page) essays a week. One of the goals of this work was to provide them with writing practice.
Another goal was for students to demonstrate that they were not only reading the assigned texts
but that they were thinking about and understanding them as well. Students also had seminar
discussions each week on the same texts they were writing about, which allowed them to
demonstrate understanding. It seemed that more than one essay a week on the same text was
redundant. Therefore, I decided that one writing assignment a week would be sufficient practice,
so I lowered the number of short essays that were required from two a week down to one a week
per subject.
I implemented other changes in the workload students were required to complete. I
lowered the number of weekly key terms that the students were required to learn from 15–20 per
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course down to five per course. These key terms were words that we considered to be important
for the students to understand before they would receive a lesson on a particular topic. We
would ask the students to define them so that when they came up in a lesson, the students would
already have an understanding of the terminology being used. However, it seemed that the
number of words we were asking them to define was overwhelming. While it was easy for a
student to define and retain five words within a week, they struggled greatly to retain 15–20;
therefore, the assignment was not serving its purpose.
Another change I implemented was the amount of independent and group works that the
students were required to complete. Students went from having multiple independent and group
works each week to only one per course. Their independent works would vary in type, but often
included short writing assignments, research, and preparing lessons (or class presentations).
When a student engages in independent work, he or she explores the concepts presented in the
lesson individually. The group works were also aimed at having the students explore particular
concepts further, but they carried the added bonus of teaching the students how to work well
with others. I found that having only one large independent work and one group work per week
gave students enough time to fully explore the concepts without being overloaded with too much
information.
I also scheduled time for students to complete larger assignments without the expectation
of completing other works simultaneously. At the end of each session (or quarter of the school
year), the students would present a large “lesson” to their fellow classmates. We call them
lessons rather than merely presentations since the objective is for the students to teach this
information to their peers.
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These lessons are meant to synthesize what they have been studying over the course of
the session as well as give the students an opportunity to explore a topic they are interested in a
little further. For instance, if I have a student who is very interested in clothing and fashion, then
he or she could present a “session lesson” on clothing through the ages, to accompany their
history class. These lessons were typically meant to be worked on throughout the entire session;
however, many students were not achieving this as they were already overwhelmed with work.
By scheduling an entire work week dedicated just to these lessons, I was hoping to give the
students more time to work on them and put more thought into them.
Very quickly, the effects of these changes were evident. More assignments were being
completed and turned in on time. I was sending out less and less daily missing work reports, an
accountability tool I used to communicate with the parents of my students about whether or not
work was being completed. However, the quality of the work remained fairly low. The students
did not seem invested in their work, and they were not taking the time to ensure that the quality
of their work was high. This led me to my second research question: How can I help my
students to be more invested in their work and to want their work to be of a high quality?
I chose to have the students help create rubrics detailing what exemplary work should
look like and include. The idea behind this decision was to give my students a sense of
ownership over their work. I met separately with the different classes about course specific work
and met with the whole middle/high school student body to discuss work that was common to
them all. They created very specific rubrics for all of their major and repeated work. During the
process of creating the rubrics, students were asked not only to think about what they would
enjoy working on and presenting, but also how they would like to see other groups present their
work to help optimize their own learning.
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My students created rubrics for major works, such as lessons and papers, at the beginning
of each session and then re-created them again toward the end. The recreated rubrics provided
more specific expectations than the original rubrics. This showed me that my students’
understanding of the assignments and expectations of themselves, as well as their classmates,
had increased. I also had them write reflections about how they had progressed in their work,
and from reading these reflections, I learned that my students had a great sense of pride in their
work and their growth. The work that they were turning in was definitely of a higher quality,
and I could see that they were pushing themselves.
Through the process of creating the rubrics, a conversation was opened up with the
middle school students. They confessed that they rushed through a lot of their work and did not
care how it looked or how well they did because they just wanted to be finished with it. As the
conversation continued, some students revealed that they were having a very hard time
understanding and working through some of their work. They were feeling inadequate and
unsuccessful.
Throughout our dialogue, we discussed what being successful feels like, what it means to
be successful with work, why it is important to ask questions and get help, how we could
strengthen the community so students feel safer asking questions, and how all of us (I included
myself in this) feel inadequate from time to time. I allowed the students to do the majority of the
talking while I listened without passing judgment, although I would occasionally ask questions to
help guide the conversation in a productive way.
This allowed them to feel heard and created a circle of trust among all of us.
Immediately after this dialogue, I had many more students asking questions, putting greater
effort into their work, and taking great pride in their work. The openness of my students and
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their willingness to overcome their obstacles inspired me to be more open and overcome my own
obstacles as well. As a result of my training, I was able to help my students move forward in
their education as well as in their lives in a positive way.
It had also been a much needed catalyst for change in my life. Watching my students as
they faced their fears helped to give me the courage and strength needed to face my own. My
life had not always been an easy one, and I was living in a dark space at that time. I felt that I
was in the midst of an identity crisis. The questions of “Who am I?” and “What is my purpose?”
rang in my head daily. I returned to my second summer of training with a determination to find
an answer to these questions. That search led me to enroll at the Institute for Educational Studies
(TIES).
TIES
I began my journey with TIES not really sure what to expect. I wondered how an online
program could possibly have close to the same impact on me as my training at the Houston
Montessori Center (HMC) did. I was shocked to discover that it would have an even greater
impact. While my training at HMC mainly focused on the Montessori philosophy and the latest
research in developmental psychology, my studies with TIES looked at several different
educational philosophies as well as theories about the world itself.
Chaos theory and the ideas behind system thinking spoke to me the most. Cosmologists
Brian Swimme and Mary Tucker (2011) stated in their book Journey of the Universe that “we are
the universe in the form of human. And every time we are drawn to look up into the night sky
and reflect on the awesome beauty of the universe, we are actually the universe reflecting on
itself” (p. 12). This line of thinking helped me to realize how everything in the universe is
connected and has its own individual purpose. As I worked through my new studies with TIES, I
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also began to reflect on the past year I had spent in training. This reflection allowed me to see
the transformation that I was going through in a new light and led me to ask myself: How has
what I have learned throughout my Montessori training and work with TIES affected my role as
both a teacher and a human being?
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Chapter Two: Learning to Teach
A Teacher’s Purpose
Medical doctor and educational theorist Maria Montessori (1955/2007) stated in her book
The Formation of Man that “first ‘normal functioning’ must be obtained—a ‘state of health’ and
the establishment of this is what we call ‘normalization’” (p. 34). That being said, it seemed to
me that one of the main responsibilities of Montessori teachers would be to help guide their
students to this state of normalization. But how exactly would someone go about doing this?
I reflected on my practicum year of teaching, looking at how much the students had
changed and improved over the year. The changes to the work and curriculum seemed to help
the students to move significantly towards normalization, but perhaps there was something else
at work as well. Looking back on my practicum year, I seemed to have changed as much as my
students did. Could my own personal growth have affected the students’ growth as well?
I wanted to look further into how my personal growth may have affected my students’
growth, however I felt that I needed to look beyond just my practicum year. In fact, I decided
that reflecting back far before my training even began might help paint a clearer picture of this
journey I seemed to be on. Perhaps it is because so much of what I have learned in the past has
directly influenced my current journey through TIES. I have learned that no event truly happens
in isolation. My metamorphosis was the result of many events in my life.
Becoming Authentic
As a young child, I was always told that I was very “sensitive.” Perhaps I was, but not
only in the standard meaning of the word (overly emotional). I always had a strong sense of
connection to the people, animals, and world around me, as well. My heart would ache when I
would see a wounded animal, a homeless soul, or even litter on the side of the road. I had an
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instinct that every part of creation had its own distinct energy as well as its own unique purpose.
I had the feeling that part of humanity’s purpose was to help those in need, particularly those
who were struggling.
Unfortunately, I quickly discovered that this way of thinking is often in contradiction
with mainstream thought, at least in Western culture. I have been teased and called a “dreamer,”
“idealistic,” or told that I am “out of touch with reality.” The term “reality,” which people often
speak of, is described as a place of “fact.” The philosopher Alasdair MacIntyre (1981) believed
that “it was also to suppose that the observer can confront a fact face-to-face without any
theoretical interpretation interposing itself” (p. 79). He went on to assert that “this was an error,”
one often made by the philosophers of the Age of Reason (p. 79). It begs the question, what is
reason?
Chaos theorist and author John Briggs and physicist David Peat (1999) noted in their
book Seven Life Lessons of Chaos, “Now we associate rationality with science and think of
reason as the capacity to be logical, analytical, coldly objective, and detached” (p. 95). This
description brings forth pictures in my mind of tall, looming buildings, and cold concrete
sidewalks covered in litter. It also raises the question of objectivity. I have often heard people
explain that a problem must be looked at objectively, but what does it really mean to be
objective?
Physicist David Bohm (1996/2014) seemed to echo the words of MacIntyre when he
challenged his readers to see that “most of our basic assumptions come from our society,
including all our assumptions about how society works, about what sort of person we are
supposed to be, and about relationships, institutions, and so on” (p. 26). Is it possible for
anybody to look at anything objectively, without assumptions mixed in? This leads me to
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question, even if an objective truth or reality does exist, would it ever be possible for humans to
perceive it objectively?
Western society appears to promote the assumption that reality exists within a
mechanistic society. MacIntyre (1981) stated that “the notion of ‘fact’ with respect to human
beings is thus transformed . . . to the mechanistic view” (p. 84). To me, it seems that this
mechanistic reality stresses that work, paying bills, and keeping your nose to the grindstone are
the fundamental “truths” of life; anything outside of the mechanistic world of “fact” and
objectivity (such as art, emotion, and beauty) are often disregarded as fantasy. The author
Charles Dickens (1854/2007) illustrated a similar view in his novel Hard Times, where children
were raised on the belief of “Facts” and punished for a belief in “Fancy.” His book opens by
stating this idea very clearly, “Now, what I want is Facts. Teach these boys and girls nothing but
Facts. Facts alone are wanted in life” (p. 11). Oddly, I have experienced cases of people trying
to fit these “fantastical” things into the world of objectivity. Is that not what critics are aiming to
do when they say definitively that art is either objectively good or objectively bad? Are they not
merely taking their opinion, that which they believe to be true, and putting it forth as an objective
statement?
Bohm (1996/2014) asserted that “opinions thus tend to be experienced as ‘truths,’ even
though they may only be your own assumptions and your own background” (p. 24). Bohm
appeared to be saying that what we often experience as “truth” or believe to be “true” may
simply be an opinion. It may not be objective at all. Could it, then, be that the idea of reality
itself could often be merely opinion shaded by assumption?
I know that work, paying bills, and other associated responsibilities are typically
necessary for basic survival, but they do not make me feel real. They do not make me feel alive.
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The sun shining on my face, the wind as it whistles through the trees, and the warmth of the
earth- these make me feel real. Laughter, connecting to another person, and sharing a moment
with other human beings -these make me feel alive.
My sensitive tendencies and view on reality were fostered at the Montessori school I
attended as a child, as we were encouraged to look at the world through a lens of wonder and
awe. It was Montessori (1948/2007) herself, in To Educate the Human Potential, who believed
that “nature is the teacher of life” (p. 77). As a student, I was able to spend time marveling at the
beauty of a grasshopper or following a butterfly to see where it would go. I would always finish
my work for the day early, just so that I could spend the rest of the day researching animals and
nature. I had a fierce passion for learning.
As soon as I left Montessori for a traditional school, I was eager to go back to my
Montessori roots. I had fond memories of a place of growth, acceptance, and curiosity. My
traditional schooling felt stifling. I did well in my classes, but I did not feel like I experienced
any growth, and I certainly did not feel excited about learning. Finally, I had the opportunity to
return to Montessori, but this time, as a teacher.
I was surprised to find that the world of the Montessori adult was not quite the same as
what I had experienced growing up. In one classroom, where I worked as an upper elementary
assistant, I was given a rigid and specific list of tasks that I was to complete in a specific way. I
quickly found out that these tasks were not open to interpretation or improvisation. I was
scolded for being too distracting when I pointed out and observed how a spider crawled across a
window. I was encouraged to be less friendly and jovial, to give less hugs.
Eventually, I became an assistant teacher in a secondary-level classroom. As opposed to
rigid step-by-step instructions, I received very little direction at all. Freedom of choice can be
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wonderful, but as developmental psychologist Angeline Lillard (2005) pointed out, “having too
many choices becomes negative and works against people’s sense of control” (p. 94). I found
that being asked to perform a task with very little instruction felt somewhat like I imagine
floating in space would feel, disorienting and anxiety inducing.
I found that my natural personality was once again being suppressed. Joking with the
students was frowned upon as being too friendly and personal. I was told I put too much stock in
my students’ emotional states. Conversation beyond the typical greetings was discouraged as,
again, it was getting too personal with the students. I was meant to be removed and detached
from my students, or so I was told.
During this period, I felt discouraged and downtrodden. I was trying tirelessly to fit into
the mold of what I was told, and assumed, that the perfect Montessori teacher was meant to be,
but it seemed that it was the exact opposite of everything that I felt I was. Briggs and Peat
(1999) stated, “In a stereotype, subtlety and individuality are lost” (p. 79). The image I had in
my mind was a stereotype, and in trying to make myself more like that image, my individuality
was lost. I was beginning to think that I truly did not fit into the world of Montessori after all.
So many questions danced through my mind: How can I possibly lead students if I do not
know where I am leading them, if I do not know where I am going? How can I teach my
students when I certainly do not have all of the answers? How can I inspire them to do their
assigned work, when I find their currently assigned work so uninspiring? How can I set up the
strong boundaries and distance that I have been told is required for my students to respect me?
These are the questions that I carried with me when I was sent to HMC for my training. I
went in expecting to be shaped into a quiet, pious, serious, reserved, and highly intelligent
teacher. I firmly believed that I would return to the classroom a new person. Briggs and Peat
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(1999) expressed that “at work, people are not allowed to admit weakness, acknowledge self-
doubt, or make mistakes without paying heavily for it” (p. 63). I certainly knew I had a lot of
weaknesses and that I made a multitude of mistakes every day. I did not think that I could ever
be a good teacher until I learned to overcome all these limitations.
Bohm (1996/2014) pointed out “a common problem of introspection. You say, ‘I am
going to look at myself inwardly,’ but the assumptions are not looked at—the assumptions are
looking” (p. 79). I felt proud of my reflectiveness, for being able to notice my weaknesses and
want to work on them, but I was using an assumption as a measuring stick. The assumptions
were guiding my opinions of what my weaknesses were.
It seems that some assumptions are easily recognized; other assumptions appear to only
be recognized once an opposing view is shown. I quite often find myself reflecting on an
assumption that I am trying to avoid, only to discover another assumption at work. For instance,
when I began my training, I believed that I was avoiding the assumption that “I was not made to
be a Montessori teacher” by coming in prepared to be changed. However, through the training
process, I was able to see that I was holding onto an assumption of what a Montessori teacher
should look like. One assumption helped to shape the other. I am beginning to wonder if
assumptions work in layers. Maybe disarming one assumption can reveal others hidden beneath
it. It is possible that dissolving my assumption of what being a good Montessori teacher looked
like revealed (and subsequently dissolved) assumptions I had about teaching, the Montessori
Method, life, and even myself.
When I was roughly half-way through my training at HMC, I began to feel at war with
myself. I was torn between my sensitive, creative, and encouraging instincts and the withdrawn,
quiet, and serious teacher I was trying to become. I felt tired and worn down. The process of my
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training seemed to nurture and encourage the natural instincts that I had so often been told to
suppress. This gave my instincts a stronger voice, and they began shouting to be heard.
Christopher Uhl (2003) believed that “individuals experience power from within when
they bring their outward actions into alignment with their inner convictions” (p. 376). My
actions were reflecting someone else’s convictions, not my own. It was only when I finally
stopped fighting my own convictions that I was able to gain what I had wanted all along,
connection—connection to my students, the world, and myself.
Letting go of the idea of the perfect Montessori teacher and allowing my own convictions
and intuitions to spring forth became the catalyst for my metamorphosis. This transformation
has been ongoing; I did not suddenly burst forth and immediately come to recognize what
qualities I already possessed that were useful to help aid my students. I am continuing to reflect,
re-evaluate, and learn new things. However, I will attempt to explore and share the qualities that
I have used to create these connections.
A Need to Connect
Briggs and Peat (1999) explained that “underneath our feelings of isolation and our
loneliness as separate individuals vibrates a sense of belonging and interconnection to the whole
world” (p. 128). This suggests that humans, as a species, crave connection with ourselves, one
another, and the earth. Connection is a fairly broad term, but the majority of the work that I had
been doing with my students all seemed to be working to form connections either with the
student and him or herself, the student and the teacher, the student and other students, or the
student and the world. If I was needing to connect, could my students be needing to connect as
well?
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In her book From Childhood to Adolescence, Montessori (1948/2008) asserted that “here
is an essential principle of education: to teach details is to bring confusion; to establish the
relationship between things is to bring knowledge” (p. 58). It appears that even education
depends upon making connections. I always struggled as a child to memorize random facts. I
needed context, connection, to have the fact make sense before it would stick in my mind.
Educational consultants Tony Buzan and Barry Buzan (1993) explained in The Mind
Map Book the idea of “Gestalt wholeness.” They explained that “our brains tend to look for
pattern and completion” (p. 35). It seems to me that Buzan and Buzan are saying that, as
humans, our brains actually crave to see these connections in the universe. In my experience,
without connections, facts seem to be meaningless and useless. This makes me wonder about
how often things seem to be segmented and separated in Western Culture, for instance, in the
medical field. There seem to be specialists for every system, function, and body part in the
human body. However, the specialists seem to know very little about any system, function, or
body part outside of their specialty. This can make it difficult to get a correct diagnosis when a
disorder or syndrome affects multiple systems within the body. While it seems to be important
to look at each part that is affected, it could also be beneficial to see how the body is affected as a
whole.
For instance, I have recently been diagnosed with a genetic syndrome called Ehlers-
Danlos Syndrome (EDS). EDS affects my body’s ability to produce collagen, which affects
multiple systems in the body, but it especially affects my body’s connectivity tissues. I was
actually born with this, but no one ever noticed. Once I learned of my diagnosis, suddenly a
lifetime of injuries and pain made sense. I had been to multiple orthopedic doctors for knee
injuries, sprained ankles, wrist issues, etc. I have been to physical therapy multiple times for
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various different injuries. I have had migraine headaches for years, chronic joint pain, chronic
rib inflammation, and a disorder of the temporomandibular joint muscle. All of these are
symptoms associated with EDS, yet no doctor ever tried to connect the dots between all of my
different issues to see that they all fit under one syndrome. I was, instead, shuffled from
specialist to specialist based on the belief that I was just extra weak and accident prone. It was
not until a doctor who understood EDS took a look at my medical history that I was finally able
to understand how this one issue affected my system as a whole.
In The Great Work, eco-theologian and cultural historian Thomas Berry (1999) asserted
that “indeed nothing in the universe could be itself apart from every other being in the universe,
nor could any moment of the universe story exist apart from all the other moments in the story”
(p. 32). Berry seems to be saying that not only do we need to look at each individual part of a
given system, we also need to look at the connections between the parts and how they make up
the whole in order to understand the system and its parts more fully. This, I believe, is what
Buzan and Buzan (1993) meant when they talked about “gestalt.” Could looking at both the
individual parts of a system and the system as a whole help bring us that sense of completion, or
gestalt, that our brains crave?
Briggs and Peat (1999) explained that “we’re all a part of the whole. Every single
element in the system influences the direction of all other things in the system” (p. 46). If
everything in the universe influences everything else, would it follow that everything is also
already connected? For instance, last year I had a student in my classroom that I was very
concerned about. She had emotional difficulties and her parents were unwilling to seek
treatment for her. Her attitude in the class influenced the attitude of all of the other students,
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whether she associated with them or not. It was a small classroom, so the impact was fairly
clear.
The fact that one student can influence another, with or without even speaking to them,
shows me that there are webs of connections at work. Imagine an actual spider web for a
moment. If you were to pluck on one of the threads, as if plucking a guitar string, you would see
the entire web vibrate to some degree. All the other parts of the web are being influenced by that
one action that occurred at that one point. This influence is able to happen only because of the
fact that the web is connected. If there was no connection, then would the influence still be
seen?
If human beings are part of this whole system that is the universe, as Briggs and Peat
(1999) asserted, then it would follow that we, as human beings, are all connected and influencing
one another. I have often heard people talk about craving a connection and wanting to connect,
but perhaps what they are really craving and wanting is to feel and recognize the connections that
already exist. Humans do not have to work to create these connections. While people will
sometimes have feelings of loneliness and isolation, is it really possibly to ever be absolutely
isolated if we are all connected in this system?
However, Western Culture seems to make it harder for these connections to be seen,
giving us the overwhelming feeling of separation. Management consultant Margaret Wheatley
(2006) seems to exert this idea of separation in her book Leadership and the New Science, saying
“we have reduced and described and separated things into cause and effect, and drawn the world
in lines and boxes” (p. 29). Western culture separates humans by race, ethnicity, religion,
culture, geography, political beliefs, etc. The list of divisions goes on and on. It seems to create
an attitude of “us” versus “them,” with the roles of “us” and “them” constantly changing. This
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attitude seems inherently adversarial. Could it be pitting all of humanity against one another and
encouraging constant conflict and competition?
Once I recognized how important acknowledging these connections to all of humanity, to
the world, and to the universe itself are, I wanted to find a way to bring that knowledge into my
classroom. I particularly wanted to focus on fostering the student-to-student connections as well
as the student-to-teacher connections. I did not want the students split into cliques or feeling as
though they were having to work against their teachers. I hoped to create a safe and comfortable
environment within the classroom, making it a place where everyone felt like a part of a
community.
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Chapter Three: Fostering Connections
A Change in Perception
I continued to reflect on my presence in the classroom. This included reflecting on the
qualities I possessed that seemed to help foster connections both between the students and
myself, as well as between the students and their peers. While there are many possible qualities
that could have aided in this journey to form the aforementioned connections, there are eight
main qualities that I am coming to believe are responsible for creating strong connections:
courage/strength, empathy, creativity, the power of observation, personal reflection, patience,
passion, and wonder. These are qualities that seemed to be needed to help guide the students to
normalization.
Philip Gang (2011) described eight qualities needed to foster normalization that are
aligned with the qualities I listed above. He included, “Love (empathy along with Biophilia,
Ecophilia, and Cosmophilia), Hope, Courage, Confidence, Creativity, Awe–Compassion,
Silence–Self-reflection, [and] Gratitude” (pp. 17–18). My goal is not to merely reiterate what
Gang has already said, but to take these qualities, explore them, and hopefully expand my
understanding of their value.
As Briggs and Peat (1999) exclaimed, “A sudden change of perception had reduced
complexity to simplicity” (p. 82). My shift in perception came as I stopped trying to model the
image of a perfect teacher and started modeling the qualities that I would like to see my students
learn and embody. Once I had learned of my students’ struggles, both inside and outside of the
classroom, I realized how important these qualities were to student investment. But how could I
expect my students to show these qualities if I would not? If I wanted my students to be
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courageous, empathetic, creative, etc., would I not need to demonstrate these qualities as well?
Therefore, it became imperative for me to demonstrate these qualities at all times.
Quality 1: Courage/Strength
My exploration begins with courage, since it took a great deal of courage to go against
the norms that surrounded me. Gang (2011) cited Sri Chinmay when he described his
understanding of courage. Gang asserted, “Courage is the constant awareness of what we are
entering into, of what we are going to become, and of what we are going to reveal” (p. 14). I
have come to a slightly different interpretation. My experiences have shown me courage comes
when I am aware of what I am entering into but I am completely unaware and unsure of what the
outcome will be.
Swimme and Tucker (2011) offered their definition of courage as living “in the midst of
the ambiguities of this moment without drawing back into fear and a compulsion to control” (p.
83). I may have (and usually do have) a hope for what outcome I want, but the need for courage
is present in the not knowing. I have experienced this in both small acts of courage, such as
trying a new activity, and large acts of courage, such as walking away from an unhealthy
marriage, leaving behind all that I had known. I have found that trying new things and pushing
limitations are necessary parts of growth and that courage is needed to take on these tasks.
For most of my life, I let my fear of making mistakes control what I did. I would always
stay in the safety of what I knew and never pushed myself to new limits. Similarly, I found that
my students were terrified of making mistakes because they did not want to appear stupid in
front of their peers. They would prefer to not turn in their work at all than to admit that they did
not understand something or may need help. Overcoming this tendency is where strength
connects to courage.
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In my experience, great courage has always required great strength. As part of my
personal metamorphosis, I ended my marriage. I was ashamed to admit to myself, and others,
that I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. I was terrified of what would happen after I
left, of how it would be received. Thanks to the great support I received from my fellow adult
learners at HMC, I finally found the courage to leave. I found the courage to face the fear of the
unknown. However, it took a great amount of inner strength to continue on my new path once I
began, and be committed to continuing no matter how rocky the path became.
To model courage and strength for my students, I began making mistakes in front of
them. This was not very difficult to do, as making mistakes seems to be a natural part of the
human condition; however, it was scary, as I was not sure how this would be received. I would
make spelling or writing mistakes, then I would model either asking for help or going back and
trying again. If things did not go as expected when I would try different activities with my class,
I would initiate a conversation to discuss what we had learned from this experience and what we
could do differently the next time.
After a few weeks, my students began asking more questions, asking for help, and trying
things that they had always been afraid to do (such as writing poetry). They also began working
harder on their assignments and not giving up on their work as quickly as I had seen them do
before. For instance, I had a student who felt she was a slow reader. It seemed to her that it took
her longer to read assignments than others. She also was struggling to comprehend what was
being said in the texts. I demonstrated to her a method of marking up the text in a way that
assists with comprehension. I warned her that this method would not speed up her reading, but it
would help her to better understand what she was reading. Despite the extra time required, she
chose to continue with the method, and was still using it almost a year later. She showed
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courage by asking me for help and admitting that she was struggling, but it took strength for her
to work through the struggle and not give up on comprehension.
Through modeling this courage to take risks and make mistakes, as well as the strength to
persevere, I was able to break down some of the divide between my students and me: the divide
that communicates that I am the all-knowing teacher and they are the empty vessels. As this
divide broke down, a connection was forged between my students and me. Showing my faults
was one way that I was able to demonstrate empathy.
Quality 2: Empathy
Empathy plays an important role in the classroom. My experiences both within the
classroom, as well as in my personal life, have taught me that without empathy, without the
ability to truly understand and feel the suffering of another, there cannot be any deep connection
between individuals. As someone who has been told that I over-empathize with people, I have a
hard time understanding how empathy can elude so many people. That may not be a fair
assumption, but I have a hard time understanding how anyone with the capacity to empathize
could, for their own personal gain, allow others to suffer, such as exploiters of child labor. How
can empathy be present in promoters of utilitarianism, a mechanistic worldview, or the
objectification of human life?
Throughout my life, many of my emotional reactions have been met with assertions such
as, “You are overreacting.” It is, of course, possible that I have overreacted some of the time;
however, other times I am sure my reactions have been an appropriate response to the particular
situation. Either way, whether my reaction was valid or not, as soon as I was accused of
overreaction, a wall came up between my “accuser” and me. Not only did I not feel any better
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about the problem, but I would also be filled with self-doubt and lose trust in the other person.
My connection and trust in both myself as well as the other person was significantly diminished.
Uhl (2003) stated, “When we listen with the intention of building empathy and
understanding, we also quickly build trust, and possibilities emerge” (p. 174). I reflected on my
previous conversations with my students. Had I been listening with empathy or had I been so
rushed with a flurry of expectations that I would brush off what they were trying to say to me?
In truth, often I was rushing through our conversations and making assumptions about my
students’ motives.
Once I made this realization, I stopped rushing and I began to truly listen to my students
with an open heart. I stopped asking why their work was incomplete and began asking how they
were feeling about their work. I asked what obstacles they felt were getting in the way of their
work, how they felt as they worked on their assignments, and how they felt when the
assignments were completed. I discovered that my students had been dealing with insecurities,
had trouble understanding the materials, were faced with difficulties at home, and were feeling
overwhelmed. As they revealed these struggles to me, I helped them to come up with plans to
work through these issues (when possible), or I would simply listen without judgment if that
seemed to be the best option.
If I had responded by dismissing these struggles, telling them to get over it or that they
just need some perspective, would they have been as willing to continue sharing their struggles
with me? Perhaps their trust in me would have diminished, or been lost completely, similar to
what I had experienced in my own life. Through these one-on-one sessions with my students
(which I call “advisement”), I saw students work through their insecurities and improve their
problem-solving skills. Their trust in me also seemed to increase, leading to them to become
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more and more willing to talk to me when new issues would arise. Empathizing with students
also helped me to understand their actions and motives when they completed (and sometimes did
not complete) their assigned work.
One of the first things that I had been told by my lead teacher upon entering the
secondary classroom was that the students would not do their work because they supposedly did
not care enough about getting it done. This seems to be an easy way to dismiss what appears to
be lack of enthusiasm and motivation. It keeps teachers safe in their assumption that they are
doing all that they can, that it is the students who are not doing their job. However, once I
stopped assuming what my students’ motives were and started to listen and empathize with their
individual struggles, I was able to open up a meaningful and productive dialogue with them. It
also opened me up to look at my own actions as a teacher, to listen to what they were telling me
they needed.
Bohm (1996/2014) explained, “This is what I consider dialogue—for people to realize
what is on each other’s minds without coming to any conclusions or judgments” (p. 34). I have
watched as students completely shut down conversations and become defensive when they feel
that they are being accused or reprimanded. I have watched adults do the same thing. This
experience tells me that we all have a desire and need to feel heard. Could it be human nature to
desire to feel as though someone understands us? Is the feeling of being understood a necessary
component for connection to other individuals? In my attempts to create connections with my
students and help them overcome their obstacles, I had to listen with my heart, empathize, and
get creative.
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Quality 3: Creativity
Briggs and Peat (1999) believed that “for the human animal, creativity is about getting
beyond what we know, getting to the ‘truth’ of things” (p. 21). I understand this to mean that
creativity allows humans to look past what can be seen on the surface to the hidden truths below
the surface. I have found that creativity also allows humans to see multiple ways to respond to
or overcome specific situations. The great acting teacher Uta Hagen (1973), in her book Respect
for Acting, stated that “the obstacle itself will strongly influence what you must do to overcome
it in the pursuit of the objective” (p. 180). Her direction was, of course, aimed at how actors
should approach a scene. All scenes contain an objective for each character as well as an
obstacle getting in the way of the character obtaining their objective. The actor then uses many
different “actions” to work to overcome these obstacles.
I mention this because I believe that theatre, as well as many other art forms, reflect life
itself. As humans, we have many objectives in life, each with its own obstacles that get in the
way of our achieving these objectives. Perhaps creativity enables humans to see to the heart or
root of the obstacle and discover appropriate ways to overcome these obstacles. It would follow
then, that as a teacher, I would need to use creativity to get to the root of not only my obstacles,
but the obstacles facing my students as well.
In the Montessori classroom, the teacher’s objective is to aid each student in reaching the
point of “normalization” (Montessori, 1955/2007). In his article, “The Four Planes of
Development,” Camillo Grazzini (2004) stated that “the process of transition from deviated to
normal development . . . Montessori calls ‘normalization’” (p. 216). While this objective applies
to all students, each student also brings his or her own unique objective and obstacles with them
into the classroom. I have found that a particular “action” may work wonderfully to facilitate
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one student overcoming his or her obstacle, but may not work at all for the next student. For
instance, I had two students who were both struggling to complete their daily assignments on
time. One student explained that she had a hard time concentrating on her work when she was at
home; she felt she worked more productively at school. Her solution was to stay after school,
three days a week, to work on her assignments. This worked very well for her. The other
student also struggled to complete his work at home, as there were many distractions. He tried
staying after school to complete his work, but by the end of the day he was feeling burnt out and
struggled to concentrate. He decided that he would try waking up in the mornings before school
to do his homework while the house was quiet. This proved very effective for him, and his work
quality improved.
Briggs and Peat (1999) asserted that creativity is needed to break past the barriers of the
known to see possible solutions. Through modeling creativity when I approach obstacles myself,
I have witnessed my students becoming more creative in how they approach their own individual
obstacles. I have also watched as they try multiple approaches in search of what the best
possible solution to their obstacle may be. Careful observation is what has allowed me to notice
my students using creativity to overcome their obstacles.
Quality 4: The Power of Observation
Identifying how best to support my students, whether through advisement, direct
intervention, or indirect modeling, requires observation. It is through observation that I am able
to judge how best to respond to each unique obstacle. Observation has also proved to be
necessary for me to identify each student’s individual abilities, limits, and learning styles.
As Lillard (2005) explained:
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can benefit tremendously from interacting with other children who are older and younger than themselves. (p. 8)
Humans do not all learn at the same rate or in the same way. I have learned that the best
way to discover how each individual student learns is by stepping back and quietly observing. I
made the assumption in my early months of teaching that if one student was capable of writing
multiple in-depth paragraphs to answer a question, then all of them should be able to do the
same. I made the mistake of judging each student’s work against the work of the other students.
I eventually discovered that in order to best aid each student in their learning, I had to learn to
step back and look at the work of each student individually and shape my expectations to that
particular student rather than to the class as a whole. Once I did this, I was able to observe and
appreciate improvement in each student’s work.
For example, I had one student whose written responses were consistently brief and
lacking in depth of thought. She and I went back and forth for a couple of weeks, with me
asking for longer, more in-depth responses and her struggling to do more than she was. When I
looked at her responses in comparison to other members of the class, they were certainly lacking.
The majority of the other students had written two full paragraphs, while she had only written
three sentences. When I heard her speak in class on whatever subject we were covering, she
would have wonderful and in-depth observations to offer. This led me to believe that she was
capable of producing a deeper response but for some reason was failing to.
My observations of her work led me to conclude that she was capable of deep reasoning
and analytical thought, however she struggled to communicate her thoughts in writing. This
observation led me to a deeper understanding of her abilities and struggles, which allowed me to
discern an appropriate focus for growth. When I stepped back and observed my students, I
discovered that progress was being made by each student in my class; however, each student’s
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progress was unique to them. I found that by taking time to observe my students, as well as
using the words “observe” and “observation” as I spoke with my students, facilitated the
students’ willingness to observe their own progress without comparing it to the progress of
others.
Through this practice, the students also began to improve at observing others actions and
work without judgment. This appeared to help aid them in their own learning. Lillard (2005)
asserted, “The child has probably also observed other children carrying out the sequence of
actions, enabling him or her to learn by observation” (p. 49). Lillard believed that humans learn
through observation, we try to imitate what we see. Modeling behavior that I hope to instill in
my students is based on this same observation that Lillard made. By modeling observation to my
students, I hope to help them tap into their own powers of observation which, in turn, I hope will
facilitate improvement in their learning. I have discovered, however, that to apply what has been
observed requires a great deal of personal reflection.
Quality 5: Personal Reflection
Personal reflection appears to significantly affect how much is learned through
observation. Briggs and Peat (1999) stated, “We all know the sort of person who goes through
life repeating the same mistakes” (p. 37). It does not appear to be enough to simply observe and
acknowledge that a mistake exists or that there is a better way to accomplish a particular task.
Perhaps personal reflection is needed to get to the true heart of the mistake and understand fully
how to respond and/or change.
Often during my weekly advisement sessions with my students, they will share what they
have observed other students doing (especially if it is something against the rules), yet they often
struggle to see those same actions mirrored in their own behavior. It reminds me of my past
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work in a primary classroom. One moment “Student A” would come over crying because
“Student B” took their work, and the next moment “Student C” would come to me complaining
that “Student A” has now taken his or her work. The students would often struggle to see the
relationship between what was done to them and what they turned around and did to another. It
appears that observing an action without personal reflection may provide minimal benefits.
In my secondary classroom, my students spend 30 minutes a day focusing on personal
reflection, using a personal reflection curriculum created by the Houston Montessori Center. I
prioritize this time for personal reflection myself, putting away my phone, computer, and school
work in exchange for a journal and quiet reflection. I find that this time not only enhances my
own personal wellbeing, but it also helps me to model personal reflection to my students. In the
classroom, we also practice something that we call “processing.” During processing, the
students ask and answer the following questions: what worked, what did not work, and what did
you learn? The class uses these questions to help solve problems that come up in the classroom
as well as to overcome their own struggles with their work.
Through the use of scheduled times for reflection, as well as “processing,” I have seen
each and every student’s ability to reflect on his or her work and choices improve significantly.
In the classroom, I can frequently be heard saying, “I would like you to reflect on (your choices,
or your words).” I have also come to reflect more often on my own actions and choices as a
result of deliberately choosing to model this practice for my students. This practice, as with all
of the practices I have mentioned thus far, requires a lot of patience with myself as well as my
students.
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Quality 6: Patience
A pattern I have observed as I explore the qualities I want to nurture in myself and my
students is that they build upon and depend on one another. For instance, patience appears
necessary to develop any other personal characteristic—patience with oneself and patience with
others. Reflecting on the courage it can take to risk making mistakes, I realize that if I am not
patient with myself throughout the process of trial and error, I will give up quickly.
I find that I can easily get caught up in the pressure of time, thinking that I am not going
fast enough or that I will never get it right. There are days when I feel like nothing is going as
planned and that everything I try is blowing up in my face. These are the days when I am
tempted to throw in the towel and give up. However, I do not. I take a deep breath and remind
myself that it will not always be this hard and that I will eventually figure things out. This is
when I tend to need patience with myself the most.
Having patience with others tends to be easier for me, as I find it much easier to forgive
the mistakes of others than to forgive my own. This makes me consider the relationship between
patience and forgiveness. Maybe patience is the act of forgiving ourselves and/or others for not
doing an expected action at an expected time? Capra (1996) stated that in “trying to cling to our
rigid categories instead of realizing the fluidity of life, we are bound to experience frustration
after frustration” (pp. 294–295). Perhaps “expectations” are similar to the “rigid categories”
Capra referred to.
With my students, patience enables me to recognize each student’s unique pace and
abilities. Patience is also required to prevent me from growing frustrated when one student
cannot seem to follow the directions that everyone else is following or cannot seem to keep up
with his or her plans to stay on task. I have to remind myself that each student is on his or her
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own journey, different from mine, and who am I to say when they should reach each destination
along the way? My experience suggests that it is usually unhelpful for me to try to push a
student to attain a level of achievement that he or she is not yet ready for. This appreciation of
my students’ unique experiences led me to explore what could excite and inspire each of my
students.
Quality 7: Passion
Montessori (1948/2007) believed that “the child should love everything that he2 learns,
for his mental and emotional growths are linked. Whatever is presented must be made beautiful
and clear, striking his imagination” (p. 17). Is it possible to instill a love for learning if the
teacher has no love, no passion for the subject that he or she is teaching? I have seen teachers
who appeared bored with the lessons that they were presenting. The lessons lacked spark,
beauty, and passion. Is it any wonder that students find these lessons boring and lack
enthusiasm? A fellow teacher once told me that he believed it was impossible to make every
lesson and assignment exciting. He asserted that some things are just boring. Maybe this is true,
maybe not. Boring is a relative term, and I am determined to find a way to infuse passion into
every lesson and subject. For instance, math is not my favorite subject, but when I incorporate
my passion for theatre with a math lesson, it comes alive in an exciting new way! For example, I
have the students memorize a song and dance that helps them to understand the different
algebraic principles. I also have the students act out algebraic equations as if working a scene.
Each student plays a character (such as a variable, a number, division, etc.), and they create a
scene that explains how each character interacts. These are two ways to infuse my own passions
into a work to make it exciting and, hopefully, more interesting to the student.
2 To avoid wordiness, I have chosen to keep the authors’ language in its original form even though it is unaccepted in academic papers today.
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Montessori (1948/2007) asked, “How can we force the child to be interested when
interest can only arise from within?” (p. 6). As every child is different, I feel that there is no one
way to ignite interest. I have found that encouraging my students to find something they love in
everything they learn or to infuse their passions for other areas into the work they find less
interesting, seems to help them find interest in the work for themselves. For example, I have a
student who loves to draw and is very talented at it, so I try to encourage him to integrate his art
into all that he does. He sketches his notes and doodles storyboards for writing. In fact, he even
used his sketches to explain an answer on his latest exam. This is how one student brings his
passion for one activity into his learning in other areas.
Quality 8: Wonder
Although I recognize that each individual enjoys particular subjects and activities, and
has certain passions, I have also observed that it is possible to have a passion for learning, in
general. I think that this is reflected in the concept of “wonder.” Could wonder be defined as a
deep passion for learning and for life itself? Swimme and Tucker (2011) described wonder as
“the pathway into what it means to be human, to taste the lusciousness of sun-ripened fruit, to
endure the bleak agonies of heartbreak, to exult over the majesty of existence” (p. 80). To me,
this sounds like a passion for life in all of its forms as well as a great desire to understand and
experience all that one can of it.
This leads me to speculate, how can wonder be taught? How can great love for all that is,
was, and will be, be passed on? Perhaps actually taking the time to marvel at the beauty of
existence is a start. This marveling is woven into the curriculum I was given from the Houston
Montessori Center. One way I integrate “wonder” into my classroom is by posing questions to
my students that deal with nature, truth, perspective, and our place in the universe. I have a
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reputation for being the “touchy-feely” teacher who is always amazed by everything. I do not
think that this is a bad reputation to have, and I hope that I can inspire that same sense of wonder
and amazement into my students.
Modeling Qualities
One of the most important lessons that I have learned throughout this process of
reflection that led me to the realization of these qualities is that without authenticity, the rest of
the above qualities cannot shine through. I believe that all of the qualities mentioned above are
important to aid my students in reaching normalization, but I would be remiss not to
acknowledge that just as every student is different, so is every teacher. Each of the qualities will
(and should) present themselves differently in each and every teacher. I could not effectively
teach my students while simultaneously pretending to be someone that I am not. Therefore, I
would not want anyone else stifling their own inner beauty by trying to imitate my actions.
A phrase that I like to recite to myself for motivation is, “Be the student you wish to see
in the classroom.” This phrase was inspired by the famous Dali Lama quote, “Be the change you
wish to see in the world,” and came from my wondering how I could expect my students to do
things that I could not or would not do. Many of the works that the students were originally
asked to do were things that I, myself, found redundant and dull. How could I expect the
students to think otherwise? If I was not being empathetic, or patient, or strong with the
students, how could I put that expectation on them? An important lesson that I learned
throughout this process was that one of the best ways that I can make a change in my own
classroom is by living and exemplifying the kind of student I would like to see.
This helped me to remember that I, too, am part of the process. I realized that creating a
community of learners, with me as a fellow learner, is not just for training. If I want my
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classroom to be a community of learners, I need to be part of that community. I came to
understand intellectual what I already knew in my heart, that it is not helpful for me to exist on
the outside of the community because then a dichotomy of “us” and “them” emerges. I have
witnessed that kind of thinking in the classroom before, and it did not help to foster connection.
It only fostered disconnection, and without connection, I have found it difficult to lead the
students to normalization. However, if modeling is such an important part of teaching these
skills, would I need to reach normalization myself in order for my students to attain this goal?
Have I been normalized? If not, is it possible to become normalized now that I am an adult?
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Chapter Four: Normalization
Normalization and the Adult
In The Formation of Man, Montessori (1955/2007) asserted, “The adult does not easily
adapt himself . . . and feels happy only when he is immersed in an environment sharing the
character-features that have been fixed in him” (p. 65). According to Montessori, it is only the
child that possesses an “unconscious mental state which is of a creative nature . . . the ‘Absorbent
Mind’” (p. 61). It appears as though Montessori is following the same line of thinking as the old
adage, “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” But what of the child who was raised in an
abnormal environment? What if the environment that has been “fixed” in the child is one of fear
and abuse? Is that child destined to spend his or her days in the same environment from which
he or she came?
I did not have a typical childhood, at least not in terms of familial relationships. As I
attempted to move on into adulthood, I tried very hard not to think of my past, as I did not want
it to have any effect on who I was. I felt that the past was something I was meant to let go of and
move away from; however, after reading many of the texts through the course of my TIES
journey, which seemed to echo the same idea that Montessori promoted above, I began to
wonder if my troubled past would be something that could ever be overcome.
This concerned me on both a professional and personal level. Professionally, I wondered
how I was supposed to help guide students toward the Montessori ideal of “normalization” if I,
myself, was not normalized. I have heard many Montessori teachers explain normalization as a
state of pure concentration, as reaching “normal functioning” in terms of work and the internal
drive to learn. But what if normalization is more than that? Could it refer to an overall state of
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wellbeing instead? As a child from an abnormal home, could I ever hope to experience complete
normalization?
Growing up Abnormal
I grew up in an unhealthy environment. I was the victim of emotional, verbal, and
occasionally physical abuse. My world was one of darkness and fear—a world of neglect and
abandonment. A world where I was always in the wrong and never felt good enough. This
world is very different from the world that Mario Montessori (1976), the son of Maria
Montessori, described in Education for Human Development when he stated that the adult’s
“attitude should be one of empathy, cooperation, and patience” (p. 8). He asserted that this is the
environment necessary to foster normalization, and this was quite far from the environment that I
had grown accustomed to throughout my life.
As I moved from childhood, to adolescence, to adulthood, I found myself unwittingly
repeating the patterns of life that I grew up with. I left an abusive home to find myself in
multiple abusive relationships and friendships, including my marriage. The work that I did
throughout my training under Betsy Coe at HMC not only helped me to find the strength to walk
away from my marriage, the latest in a string of emotionally and verbally abusive relationships,
but also helped me to become more aware of the negative pattern I had been falling into.
However, I was quite unaware of why the pattern continued, and most of all, I was anxious to
stop it from continuing further.
My hopes of being able to heal the wounds from my past and change my behavior for the
future were threatened by Montessori’s (1955/2007) claim that “the adult does not easily adapt
himself” (p. 65). Spiritual leader J. Krishnamurti (1953/1981) echoed a similar claim in
Education and the Significance of Life when he stated, “With increasing age, dullness of mind
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and heart sets in” (p. 10). Reading after reading seemed to confirm this same idea: children are
adept at learning while adults are not. Was it even possible for me to break the patterns of my
past? And, if it was possible, where would I begin?
Unsure of how to start, I thought about how my childhood environment differed from that
of my students. Krishnamurti (1953/1981) believed that “to be without fear is the beginning of
wisdom, and only the right kind of education can bring about the freedom from fear in which
alone there is deep and creative intelligence” (p. 34). This is the kind of atmosphere that I was
trying to create for my students so that they could have the opportunity to flourish and grow.
However, this was not the kind of environment that I grew up in. This created a fear that perhaps
I could never reach the full capacity of my intelligence since most of my education was not “the
right kind of education.”
Through my work at HMC and in TIES, I felt that I had found a way to give my students
an environment that was conducive to their growth. Montessori (1955/2007) stated that “to help
life: this is the first and fundamental principle” (p. 16). This is something I understood as
helping the student in order to help life. I worked diligently to model qualities I hoped for them
to learn: patience, forgiveness, courage, empathy, etc. I fostered relationships of mutual trust
and respect. I had a goal of making the classroom a place where the students felt nurtured,
comfortable, and safe. I tried to give my students all of the support that I had longed for as a
child.
Eventually, I felt confident in my abilities as a teacher, but I was filled with sadness for
the child within me—the scared child who was never able to reach her full potential. I began to
feel that I did not truly understand myself at all. I thought that perhaps by my relationships, both
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the ones that were working and the ones that were not, I could learn to understand myself a little
bit better.
Mirror of Relationships
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) wrote:
Relationship is a mirror in which the self and all its activities can be seen: and it is only when the ways of the self are understood in the reactions of relationship that there is creative release from the self. (p. 54)
During this past year of teaching, I have had many relationships that allowed me to see a hidden
truth within myself—the hidden truth of my life as a prisoner to my past.
For example, I had two co-workers in my classroom last year with whom I found it
incredibly difficult to work. Their approaches to education, the Montessori Method, and the
teacher–student relationship varied greatly from my own. It seemed to me that they based their
relationships with their students on a hierarchy. They demanded great respect but appeared to
give very little. Their relationship with the students reminded me of the relationship that
behaviorist Roger Fouts (1997) noted between the chimpanzees and Lemmon, the director of the
Institute of Primate Studies, in Next of Kin. Fouts described, “Washoe was accustomed to giving
and getting respect. If Lemmon didn’t respect her, she wasn’t about to respect him” (p. 129). I
have noticed a similar response in adolescents; if they are not treated with respect, then they will
not give respect. These two teachers demanded respect of the students while giving very little.
The teachers would constantly complain about how difficult the students were, how
awful their work was, and how lazy they were acting. When I refused to partake in their
complaints and tried to show them a different way of viewing the students, they began to resent
me and cut me out of their conversations altogether. This made it incredibly difficult to navigate
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in a small classroom with only 13 students and three adults. I was meant to be the leader of these
other two teachers, but they doubted my methods and challenged my decisions.
I tried multiple ways of talking to them about the Montessori Method and my training. I
invited them to brainstorm with me when there were decisions to be made. I suggested readings
that I enjoyed, and I tried to involve them in the process of running the classroom. Yet, it
seemed that their minds were made up. In their eyes, I did not know what I was doing, and
nothing I did appeared to change that. At least, that is what they told the other teachers in the
school. Unfortunately, this was also made clear to the students. When I was not in the room, the
other teachers would change their approaches and cease using the system I laid out. They would
immediately attempt to exert their dominance over the students, demanding their obedience. I
felt at a loss.
I had a very visceral reaction to their treatment and opinion of the students. I found
myself feeling as though I needed to be the protector of my students and shield them from the
anxiety that comes with a relationship where everything you do seems to be wrong. I would
wake up in the night from dreams where I had to physically shield the students from these other
teachers as they screamed and shouted disapprovingly at them. I became terrified at the thought
of having to leave the room or miss school because I worried about what the students would be
experiencing. It felt as though their very safety and wellbeing rested in my hands.
Fouts (1997) expressed, “I believed I could do anything, therefore I was responsible for
everything” (p. 218). This feeling of responsibility to my students radiated through my being. It
followed me wherever I went. This feeling of ever-present danger weighed on me heavily both
emotionally and physically. I was exhausted, terrified, and confused. Why was I being so
greatly affected by my co-teachers? What was it about our relationship, as well as my
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relationship to the students, that made me feel the need to be a protector? And, most
importantly, what did this say about who I was as a person?
Looking into the mirror that my relationship with these two teachers provided, I saw a
scared adolescent version of myself. I found a piece of myself that was so desperate for some
sort of approval that it felt as though I was engaged in a true life or death battle. These feelings,
it seemed, were remnants of growing up in an environment where my survival very much
depended on someone else’s approval. Disapproval could mean pain, hurt, or abandonment. As
a small child who is incapable of fully taking care of herself, the threat of abandonment felt very
much like the threat of death.
No matter how hard I tried, I felt unable to win the approval of my fellow teachers, which
terrified me. My life, my very existence, was under attack; at least, that is how it felt. Yet, as
difficult as it was for me to face my fears, I refused to give in to the views of these teachers. I
refused to see the students as less-than, even if doing so would bring peace among my fellow
staff members. Upon reflection, it seems that I may have seen the students as myself when I was
an adolescent, and I was attempting to retroactively save myself.
I finally came to realize that needing the approval of others in order to survive was
merely an illusion. Once this illusion began to shatter, I was left with a new truth about my past.
I had been raised to believe that my sole value as a human being depended on how others felt
about me. I had been made to believe that I had less value than other beings, my opinion
mattered less, my needs mattered less. Watching my students being treated in what I perceived
to be a similar way brought panic to the forefront. It also brought a greater awareness of how
deep my wounds from childhood truly were. I was relieved, in a way, but I also felt broken, lost,
and confused. My whole body shook with a pain that was 29 years old.
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Briggs and Peat (2009) described a concept called a bifurcation point. They stated that
once this “bifurcation point (point of departure) is reached; then the system transforms itself” (p.
18). The bifurcation point appears to be the farthest point that an organism can reach before it
must change—it must transform. I felt that I could not continue to live the way I had been
living, but I was unsure of how to transform, or if I was even capable of such a transformation.
The question “How can I lead my students toward normalization if I myself have never
reached that state?” raced through my mind again. Even worse, I wondered how I could help my
students while I was feeling so broken and shattered. I entertained the idea of giving up and
giving in as I felt I truly was not good enough to serve them properly. However, in the bubble of
my classroom and my interactions with the students, I felt capable and strong. It was the outside
influences that tore at me, making me feel insufficient. Why did I feel so secure with the
students and so insecure with everyone else? Why did I feel so safe with the students and not
with anyone else? This led me to a new question: What is it about my relationship with the
students that works so well and what can I learn about myself through it?
With my students, I am very forgiving of mistakes and imperfections. I encourage them,
actually. I feel comfortable making small mistakes with them because I view it as an opportunity
to demonstrate that quality. Yet, when it came to larger mistakes or someone’s perception of my
character in general, I was much harder on myself. Fouts (1997) revelation that “it was my own
limitations I found so hard to accept” (p. 219) resonated with me. I always try to treat my
students with compassion, yet I do not treat myself the same way. I worked hard to create an
accepting community for my students where they felt safe and comfortable being themselves and
growing, yet I was not allowing myself to live within the same community or by the same
values.
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Montessori (1955/2007) asserted, “If humanity must be improved, the child has to be
understood better, he must be respected and helped” (p. 78). I have always been shocked at how
difficult this concept seems to be for some to understand. I have seen many teachers throughout
my life that treat students like wild animals that must be tamed, or like aliens separate from their
own species. When reflecting on my outrage at the treatment of my students, I realized that,
while it was evident to me that children, and humanity in general, deserve to be treated with
respect, I was not treating myself the same way. I expected myself to be better than a mere
human, all the while believing that I was less than all other humans. I no longer wanted to live
that way, I wanted to reach normalization.
A Time to Change
Krishnamurti (1953/2007) believed that “to understand life is to understand ourselves” (p.
14). He continued, “It is in the understanding of ourselves that fear comes to an end” (p. 15).
Having lived in fear and suffered from anxiety my entire life, the idea of a life beyond fear
definitely appealed to me. I had already begun the process of understanding myself through my
Montessori secondary training at HMC, but I had mainly focused on accepting who I am, not
discovering the origins of my behaviors and fears. It was becoming clear to me, at this point,
that if there was any hope of stopping these negative patterns and behaviors, I would have to
discover where they began.
To look at my behaviors and fears, I had to look at my past, something I had only
previously done with a veil of doubt and repression. I tried not to feel the full extent of the pains
of my past by disconnecting myself from the experiences. It was as if they only existed in a
story I read once upon a time rather than events and moments I actually lived through.
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) asserted that “life is pain, joy, beauty, ugliness, love, and when we
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understand it as a whole, at every level, that understanding creates its own technique” (p. 18). I
knew in some ways that life included all of these aspects. I even understood that I had
experienced all of these aspects, but I did not want to embrace any of them other than the beauty
and joy. The pain was too painful and the ugliness far too ugly.
It was again the words of Krishnamurti (1953/1981) that pushed me to face my past. He
said, “We should not continue to fit thoughtlessly into the pattern in which we happen to be
brought up” (p. 103). While I had succeeded in not becoming the person I feared the most while
growing up, I was still following the patterns established in my youth. Not only had I continued
to let people into my life who treated me in the way that I had grown accustomed to, I also
continued to compromise my beliefs and needs for the sake of gaining the approval of others. I
continued to live in a constant state of fear for my life, believing a potential threat may lay
behind any corner or within any mistake. I continued to live as though I was being attacked,
even though I had removed myself from my attackers. I was a prisoner without a physical
prison. My prison was my own mind.
The realization that I was safe washed over me bringing with it a wave of intense
repressed emotions. Tears poured out of me without any sign of stopping. While I had been
physically free for a while, this was the first time I felt mentally free. Perhaps it was because I
had been so reluctant to face the truth of my abuse that I never really noticed once it had stopped.
This I noticed: A change was occurring within me.
In Leadership for the New Science, Wheatley (2006) wrote, “Change is prompted only
when an organism decides that changing is the only way to maintain itself” (p. 20). It is hard for
me to pinpoint exactly when this change truly began to occur, but the realization of my freedom
finally enabled me to feel the change occurring. A process was starting within me, and I could
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not continue to survive or thrive if I did not see the change through. I knew I had truly reached
my own bifurcation point. To continue on, I had to find strength within myself that I did not
know existed.
I had been told on many separate occasions that I was a strong person, a survivor. I tried
to believe it. I would chant it to myself; however, I never truly believed it. Would a strong
person walk from one abusive relationship to another? Would a strong person still carry so much
pain and shame with them? These are the doubts that would creep into my mind. I realized I
had to step back and examine what my idea of strength truly was. Through this examination, I
discovered that I was strong, and I am strong still.
I am strong because I survived and because I did what I had to do to survive. I am strong
because I found a way out. I am strong because, in spite of all the cruelty I experienced, I still
choose to treat the world with kindness and compassion. I am strong because I still believe in
the good of humanity. I am strong because I am changing.
I suddenly felt as though I was meeting myself for the first time, as though all the mirrors
I had used to define myself and my reality were shattering right in front of me. It was unsettling,
to say the least. I was plunged into a field of darkness, and yet I felt a warm glow deep down
inside myself that urged me forward. I felt that somehow I was going to be okay and that in the
end, I would be stronger than ever.
Finding Value
It was Wheatley (2006) who comforted me through this confusing time when she
asserted:
It is chaos’ great destructive energy that dissolves the past and gives us the gift of a new future. It releases us from imprisoning patterns of the past by offering us its wild ride into newness. Only chaos creates the abyss in which we can recreate ourselves. (p. 119)
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I certainly felt as though I had entered into an abyss. In fact, it felt as though I was falling,
tumbling, spinning, and spiraling through it. I was uncertain of what would be left when I came
out of the abyss, out of the chaos. All I knew was that I had to keep moving forward if I wanted
to stop living the way I had been living. I had to discover my own value and decided that I was
worth the trouble of the journey.
In the film Who’s Counting? Marilyn Waring on Sex, Lies, and Global Economics,
directed by Terre Nash (1995), economist Marilyn Waring explained that “the word value is
derived from the Latin valore. It’s a beautiful word which means to be strong, or to be worthy.”
I had already discovered my strength, but I had a hard time believing that strength alone could
give me value. Who decides who has value? Do I have value regardless of how others feel
about me? These questions challenged everything I had ever been led to believe about value.
I also had a hard time seeing strength as the same as value and worthiness. Strength
seemed like something internal while worthiness seemed external. Strength could be created for
oneself, but worthiness seemed to be decided by others. Berry (1999) wrote in The Great Work,
“Everything on Earth, it seemed, got its value from its relation to the human” (p. 157). I felt that
this line of thinking extends to human beings themselves. Culture decides what is good and what
is bad, what is accepted and what is rejected. Culture assigns value to styles, events, items, and
even people. Could it be possible that value and worth are inherent in all beings?
I again looked back at conversations I had with my students. During a discussion on
bullying, we talked about human value. I asserted to them that each and every one of them had
value, whether others were capable of seeing it or not. I told them that none of them needed
permission from someone else to exist, nor did they owe anyone an apology for their existence.
Wheatley (2006) explained existence as a dance and “no participant in this dance is left
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unaffected by changes that occur in another” (p. 88). This confirmed to me that every particle in
the universe, every person, is important to the overall web of existence. If each person has the
ability to affect the system as a whole, then it would seem that each person has value in that
system. It was easy for me to see this value in all other beings; however, I struggled to see it
within myself.
I spent my life believing that I required the permission of others for the right to exist. I
believed that I had to apologize to others for my existence, as it was seen as a burden. But if
value was inherent, if I had a right to exist simply because I existed, that would change
everything. Once I realized that my right to exist and my value as a being did not rely on the
opinions or permission of others, it was as if the weight of the world lifted from my shoulders.
Making mistakes and not gaining the approval of others did not seem as terrifying when my very
right to exist was no longer hanging in the balance. It is still amazing to me how the destruction
of one assumption, one belief, could change the way I viewed the whole world.
Wheatley (2006) stated, “The experience is a profound loss of meaning—nothing makes
sense in the way it did before; nothing seems to hold the same value as it once did” (p. 119). I
sat in the chaos, and it brought forth a new view of the world and, in particular, my place in it. In
short, I felt as though I finally had found a place in the world. I belonged. I no longer felt the
need to apologize for or justify who I was. I finally felt that I was allowed to be myself.
In From Childhood to Adolescence, Montessori (1948/2007) expressed that the
adolescent goes through a process of “‘valorization’ of his personality, in making him feel
himself capable of succeeding in life by his own efforts and on his own merits” (p. 64). This
description sounded similar to the feeling of independence and self-sufficiency I was feeling
when I finally had discovered my value and my place in the world. Is it possible that at 29 years
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old I had finally reached this state of “valorization” that teenagers are meant to reach? Could it
be that I was finally able to pass through the adolescent stage of development years after my
adolescence has ended? Perhaps it is fanciful to align reaching valorization to retroactively
passing through a stage of development, but it certainly felt as though some momentous
transformation had occurred. That alone was something that I did not believe to be possible once
my mind was no longer in its flexible stages of development.
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) stated that “maturity is not a matter of age, it comes with
understanding” (p. 43). Could normalization work the same way? Maybe it was not too late for
me to reach a state of normalization after all. The understanding that I gained through this
transformation helped me to become a better version of myself and, therefore, a better teacher.
Putting It Into Practice
Jiddu Krishnamurti (1953/1981), when describing the qualities of an educator, asserted:
He must be constantly alert, intensely aware of his own thoughts and feelings, aware of the ways in which he is conditioned, aware of his activities and his responses; for out of this watchfulness comes intelligence, and with it a radical transformation in his relationship to people and to things. (pp. 102–103)
I now had an awareness of my conditioning, although the behaviors had not completely
disappeared. It is quite possible that they may never disappear fully, but I had this feeling that
they no longer controlled me. Their power over me had lessened. I felt a radical transformation
in my relationships as well, including my relationships with my students. I already had a
relationship with my students built upon mutual respect, but I now had a slightly different view
of my role.
I realized that it is not my job to protect them or save them from negative situations in
their lives. I had been placing an enormous psychological burden upon myself with the illusion
that I was meant to rescue them. Who am I to judge their journey? Much like Fouts (1997), who
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expressed that he “had absorbed the scientific arrogance that presumes we can control animals,
nature, and life itself” (p. 218), I had absorbed that false sense of responsibility. I could not
possibly control the circumstances in the lives of my students, nor should I. Perhaps I could,
however, help guide them on their own path of self-discovery.
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) believed that “if one loves, not the ideal, but the child; then
there is a possibility of helping him to understand himself as he is” (p. 26). Pushing an agenda or
an assumption of who they should be could not help the students to become self-aware any more
than it helped me. This begs the question, how could I guide them along the path of self-
awareness without imposing my own assumptions on them? Again, I turned to Krishnamurti
who expressed that “to help the child, one has to take the time to study and observe him, which
demands patience, love and care” (p. 26). I have found that by observing and listening to the
students, they will reveal what they want and need.
Although students may often ask for someone to solve their problems, I do not believe
that is what they need. Often I have found that just listening to my students without judgement
or direction helps to empower them to find their own solutions. I had already learned how
listening with empathy was needed to create an open and honest dialogue, but now I could see
another benefit of it as well. Listening with empathy and understanding helps me show my
students that they matter, they have value. I have now witnessed that when students discover
their own value, this helps give them the courage to face their obstacles on their own.
I will sometimes share some of my own experiences on the road of self-awareness with
my students in the hopes of helping them. I want them to feel that they are not alone on the
journey. I want to show them that the way they feel now does not have to define their journey,
and I encourage them to be open and honest with me. Krishnamurti (1953/1981) asserted that
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“this honest and sincere approach will greatly encourage the students to be equally open and
direct with themselves and with the teacher” (p. 105). This honest attitude has allowed many of
my students to break out of their own destructive patterns and into a place of growth and
acceptance.
For example, when one particular student was suffering with depression and felt like she
was all alone in her struggles, I shared how I too have had feelings of intense despair. This
fostered a connection between us and seemed to make her more willing to talk to me and listen to
what I might say. I have had similar experiences with students who struggle with negative self-
talk. They all seem surprised to find out that they are not alone and that I have had these same
experiences too. When I share what strategies have worked for me, my students seem more
willing to try them, in contrast with strategies that I just pulled out of a book. Thinking about my
students and their struggles, as well as my own struggles that I had been working to overcome,
caused me to start thinking about the idea of normalization and how it presents itself in each
person.
A New Normalization
Throughout my quest for normalization, another question popped into my mind (a mind
that never seems to be short of questions): If I had not reached normalization, when I was even a
Montessori student myself, why is it that no one seemed to notice? I used to ask myself a similar
question while growing up. I always wondered how no one noticed the abuse I was receiving.
After the training at HMC and my transformation process, it seemed that if anyone should have
noticed that something was wrong, it would be a Montessori teacher—a teacher trained to search
for this “state of health” in the child.
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Reflection led me to believe that perhaps it is because outwardly I appeared normalized,
assuming that normalization was defined in terms of concentration on work and inner drive to
learn. I truly enjoyed learning. I loved immersing myself in stories, history, words, and new
information. I took pride in all of the work that I did. Yet, I was at war with myself. I was
scared and unhappy. The work would offer a quiet solace and reprieve from the pains in my life.
I later discovered the importance of working through those pains rather than hiding from them,
and this has set me free.
I accept that this is my story; this was the journey that I had to navigate. I know that the
road I took is the one that brought me to where I am now, and I would not want to trade that for
the world. However, I still wonder where my life might have led had I found this self-awareness
earlier, and I am filled with a desire to pass on what I have learned, in order to hopefully help
others avoid the suffering that I had to endure.
Last year, one of my students revealed to me that she had been struggling with episodes
of great sadness and extremely negative self-talk. I shared with her some of the experiences I
commonly have with both. My hope was to help her to feel more comfortable and less alone in
her struggles. I informed her parents of these struggles, and we discussed how we could all
support her at home and in the classroom. Sometimes she would just ask to sit with me while
she was experiencing an episode so that she could just cry in a safe place. After a few minutes,
she would ask for a hug, we would do some deep breathing together, and then she would go back
to work.
This year, she comes to me regularly to tell me of her progress and milestones. She
beams as she informs me of being able to shrug off negative self-talk and how she is taking on
new challenges in her life with excitement. All it took from me was a non-judgmental ear,
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empathy, and letting her know that she had value. I was amazed at how helpful merely being
present seemed to be. She did the rest of the work on her own. This was a source of pride for
her; she knew that she was responsible for her own growth.
While hers was a more extreme case, I have had many students who have gone through
similar experiences and for whom I have given my time. They, too, have been able to reach a
greater sense of security in who they are. By encouraging students to talk with one another and
share with one another during community building games and our morning meeting, they have
been able to create a secure community in which they feel safe being themselves, learning, and
growing. I am constantly amazed by the courageous strides they will take, doing things they
never thought possible before.
It seems as though a child’s psychological health and wellbeing go unobserved and
unquestioned until some sort of negative behavior calls attention to it. For instance, the
aforementioned student always produced excellent work, got along well with her peers, and was
very respectful in her interactions with teachers. It was not until she came to me that I realized
how much she had been suffering. Krishnamurti (1953/1981) advised that “if, in such a group, a
student persists in disorderliness or is unreasonably mischievous, the educator must inquire into
the cause of his misbehavior, which may be wrong diet, lack of rest, family wrangles, or some
other hidden fear” (pp. 32–33). I have seen this in the classroom myself. If a student continually
fails to complete their assignments, there has always been a deeper reason: poor organization,
family troubles, insecurity about the work, etc.
But what about the child who turns high-quality work in on time and who performs well
on each assessment? Could that student also have deep hidden insecurities that are not evident
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by examining just his or her work habits? As mentioned earlier, I was such a child, and I have
had such children in my class.
It was the use of self-reflection that helped me to reach my own state of normalization, so
perhaps self-reflection could be the key to helping students overcome their own obstacles and
insecurities, regardless of academic well-being. Self-reflection is a skill that can be taught to all
students. The training and curriculum that I received from HMC had many aspects of self-
reflection built into it, but I found that without an empathetic guide helping the students to
identify their obstacles, the curriculum did not fully serve its purpose. I have experienced the
power of self-reflection; however, I needed a lot of guidance to learn how to access it. I believe
that the students are in need of this guidance as well.
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) believed that “when there is no self-knowledge, self-
expression becomes self-assertion, with all its aggressive and ambitious conflicts” (p. 15). I have
discovered that self-reflection can elicit a similar response when the person does not yet know
how to reflect or where to begin looking. I have seen students attempt to reflect and instead end
up just reasserting their original thoughts repetitively. With some guidance, they are able to
reflect in a productive way that can lead them toward self-knowledge.
I do not expect my students, or even myself for that matter, to ever reach a place of
perfect balance and stay there forever. Perfect balance would mean an end to growth. As
Wheatley (2006) pointed out “stasis, balance, equilibrium, these are temporary states. What
endures is process—dynamic, adaptive, creative” (p. 90). With the right tools, I hope that I can
learn how to get through the temporary state of turmoil in ways that are productive and helpful.
Through reflection, I believe that I can learn the process of being “dynamic, adaptive, creative”
and turn moments of darkness and chaos into opportunities for growth rather than trying to run
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from them or let these moment overpower me. I also hope that I can teach my students to do the
same.
My hope for my students is that they will be able to remember the processes they have
been taught and have used to face problems while in my classroom, and use these processes to
meet any new challenges as they present themselves. I hope that I will be able to carry on using
all that I have learned through my TIES journey to enable me to continue to grow and adapt
through the challenges in my life that are yet to come. I hope my students will reach an
understanding of themselves and treat themselves with as much kindness and compassion as I
see them give one another.
I have not only reached a new awareness of myself. I have reached a new understanding
of normalization and the importance of self-knowledge. I have come to understand value and
strength in wonderful new ways. Wheatley (2006) described my feelings well when she
asserted, “Change always involves a dark night when everything falls apart. Yet if this period of
dissolution is used to create new meaning, then chaos ends and new order emerges” (p. 170).
The past two years of my life have involved a great plunge into darkness, into the chaos of the
unknown.
Throughout most of the process, I was unsure of where I was going or where I would end
up. All I knew was that I could either move forward or let things stay the same. As terrifying as
it was to move forward through the abyss, it has led me to a greater understanding of myself and
a beautiful sense of freedom that I have never felt before. It has also given me the ability to help
lead my students in their own journeys of self-discovery. Being able to give them the tools
necessary to better understand themselves and to reach a level of comfort and awareness in who
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they are has given me a greater sense of purpose as well. It may have taken me 29 years to get
here, but I finally feel that I have reached normalization.
An important part of my journey to normalization was that of self-reflection. Practicing
yoga aided me greatly in this process of self-reflection. It also helped me to discover the strength
I needed to keep going when the journey became difficult and terrifying. I am not sure that I
would have reached normalization without the help of my yoga practice.
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Chapter Five: A Montessori Yogi
Yoga for Self-Reflection
For the past two years, throughout my journey of self-discovery, yoga has been an
important practice to me. It started off as a physical form of exercise, a way to gain strength and
increase flexibility. Slowly, it became so much more than that. The more I gave in to the
practices of yoga, the more I found myself turning inward and gaining mental and emotional
strength.
In the book Yoga & Ayurveda: Self-Healing and Self-Realization, Hindu teacher and
author David Frawley (1999) described yoga as showing “us how to realize the Self” (p. 14). As
my personal knowledge of yoga expanded, I began to look beyond the physical benefits of yoga
and to embrace the meditative aspects of the practice. This led to a transformative experience.
This also led to a desire to understand more about the history and practices of yoga.
Frawley (1999) noted that the “Ayurveda possesses a long history with many layers,
much diversity and a continuous development that makes it relevant for all people and all times”
(p. 4). He goes on to explain that this historic Hindu text “covers all aspects of health and
wellbeing—physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. It includes all methods of healing from
diet, herbs, exercise, and lifestyle regimens to yogic practices and meditation” (p. 4). In my
journey of understanding the background and historic principles of yoga, the Ayurveda seemed
like a great place to gain some insight.
Two important fundamentals to yoga are described by Frawley (1999), the asana and
pranayama. He explained, “Asana means right posture or posture in harmony with our inner
consciousness” (p. 52). Asanas are the poses performed with the body but can also refer to an
individual’s alignment with their self. Frawley also explained that “pranayama means not simply
breath control but the controlled expansion of the life-force” (p. 52). Breath can also be referred
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to as simply “prana.” Frawley shows his readers how important breath is, not only to yoga, but
to our overall wellbeing.
In one of my acting classes at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts, I learned that
breath and body posture can play a very important role in emotional responses. We had entire
classes devoted to learning how our bodies and breath respond to our emotional states. One
exercise we learned was used to try to elicit the response of sadness by merely changing our
breathing and body position. By mimicking the withdrawn body language and short rapid
breaths that usually accompany crying, I was able to go from feeling fine to feeling great
sadness. This engrained the idea within me that body posture and breathing habits can affect our
emotional states just as much as our emotional states affect our body posture and breathing.
Yoga, however, is not just about asanas and pranayama, although they are both important
aspects. In the documentary Awake: The Life of Yogananda, directed by Paola di Florio and Lisa
Leeman (2014), yogi Mas Vidal explained:
Yoga for many has become something that you do with your body. But the yogis never taught that. The way that Yogananda taught yoga was use the body, you have a body, but it’s really about the mind. Expanding your consciousness.
Yoga is able to do this not only through asanas and pranayama, but through meditation as well.
Frawley (1999) explained that “meditation involves placing the mind in a calm and
concentrated state in which our mental energies can be renewed and transformed” (pp. 286–287).
He also asserted that “meditation helps us deal with pain and should be taught to all patients
suffering from painful diseases, whether chronic or acute” (p. 288). When I went to pain
management therapy, a major component of my practice included meditation. Meditation has
also been recommended by different therapists I have seen and was a major component of the
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treatment facility I had attended earlier in my life for my eating disorder. My experiences have
shown me just how important meditation can be for both a person’s physical and mental states.
The asanas themselves can be very meditative when they are performed in a certain way.
I have often thought of them as a meditation in motion. Frawley (1999) believed that “the
purpose of asana is to create a free flow of energy in order to help direct our attention within” (p.
208). The breath is an equally important component of the practice. As described by Frawley,
“moving into and adjusting an asana position while maintaining a strong focus on the breath
creates a much deeper practice than simply focusing on body technique” (p. 215). In my own
yoga practice, as I move from pose to pose, focusing mainly on my breath, I am able to feel my
mind clear and my stress melt away.
In Awake: The Life of Yogananda, Sri Swami Vishananda expressed that through the
practices of yoga and meditation “we become one with peace, we become one with joy, we
become one with love. We realize that that is our true nature” (di Paolo & Leeman, 2014). I
often hear friends and family complaining about feeling overwhelmed, frazzled, insecure, and
tired. I, too, often feel these things. Could it be that we have begun to believe that these feelings
are in our nature or, even more concerning, that these “negative” feelings are our normal state
while happiness and peace are our short reprieves? The question of “what is humans’ true
nature” is a big one, and I certainly do not have an answer to it. However, it is hard for me to
believe that our purpose or nature is one of unhappiness. Emotions in general, both those we
interpret as negative and positive, seem to be an important part of who we are, and yet, the
promises of Vishananda make me think that perhaps we are not destined to let these emotions
control us.
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Yoga and meditation have played very important roles in my ongoing recovery from both
physical and mental ailments. Frawley (1999) asserted that meditation is recommended “for
treating specific diseases, particularly psychological disorders in which meditation may be the
primary therapy” (p. 287). An important focus for these meditations can be on what the
Ayurveda text calls chakras.
Frawley (1999) explained that the “chakra refers to a wheel or a moving circle of
energies” (p. 135). He continued, “The chakras direct and guide the physical body from behind
the nervous system” (p. 135). Each chakra has a specific location along the spine, starting at the
base of the spine and ending at the crown of the head, with its own specific purpose (Frawley,
1999). Frawley claimed that one aim of yoga is the “opening of the chakras” (p. 137), and that
using specific meditations and mantras (repeated phrases or sounds) can help to “open” these
chakras, bringing about inner peace and balance. I found it easy to take these principles and
bring them into my Montessori classroom, as the beliefs promoted by these yogis seemed very
similar to the philosophies of Montessori herself.
Yoga and Montessori
It is mentioned by master yoga teacher Anand Mehrotra in Awake: The Life of
Yogananda that “a true guru is there to lead you to yourself, not to himself. To what we are truly
capable of, not just the limited aspect of us” (di Paolo & Leeman, 2014). Montessori
(1955/2007) asserted similar beliefs about the teacher’s relationship to the student. In The
Formation of Man, Montessori stated that “education must begin with a view to helping the
development of the child himself and thereby serving as an increment to the potentialities of the
people” (p. 79). Both of these statements assert that it is not the job of the teacher to push
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themselves and their own beliefs onto their students but, rather, to help lead the students to their
own self-discovery.
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) echoed this sentiment in Education and the Significance of
Life when he stated that “education should awaken the capacity to be self-aware and not merely
indulge in gratifying self-expression” (p. 15). If the goal of education is to lead students toward
self-realization, or self-awareness, then it seems that yoga and meditation could greatly assist
education in these endeavors. Frawley (1999) told his readers that “yoga is first and foremost a
science of self-realization” (p. 5). If yoga and meditation can help aid in self-realization, then
perhaps it could help educators as well.
This overlapping and intertwining of philosophies, plus the other great benefits already
mentioned, led to my decision to share the processes of yoga and meditation with my students.
Adolescence is notorious for being an emotionally turbulent time; therefore, learning a method to
help process and release those emotions in a healthy way could be of great benefit to teenagers. I
hoped that the processes that had proved to be so helpful and useful to me could be helpful for
my students as well. This hope is what led to the decision to use a guided yoga and meditation
lesson for my experiential research project.
The Significance of Experience
I recently had an in-depth discussion with my five high school students on the differences
between fact, bias, and opinion. At the start of this conversation, I asked the question, “What is
fact?” The general consensus amongst my students was that fact was “something that is true.”
“Ok,” I responded, “but how do you know what is true?” My students pondered this for a
while and finally decided that truth is defined as something that is observable, testable, and
verifiable. This sent us further into a sense of chaos as we discussed whether or not observations
dictate objective truth. We touched on the debate over whether or not objective truth even exists,
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but my students were insightful enough to question whether or not a person could be objective
enough to recognize an objective truth. We discussed how our perceptions and assumptions can
affect our views of an event or an object, and how, as a consequence, no two people view the
same object or event in the same way.
Humberto Mariotti (2000), researcher in complexity theory and author of “Autopoiesis,
Culture, and Society” expressed that “if the reality that we perceive depends on our structure—
which is individual—, there are as many realities as perceiving people” (p. 2). He seems to be
saying that what we see and observe in the world depends on the structure of our being, therefore
we all observe the world in different ways. He went on to assert that “this explains why the so-
called purely objective knowledge is impossible: the observer is not apart from the phenomena
he or she observes” (p. 2). It seems that, in spite of the best intentions, humans can never look at
the world in a completely objective way.
This theory was difficult for my students to accept. It was difficult for me to fully digest,
as well. However, as we discussed major events in history and the different perspectives that are
taught as truths, they came to the collective decision that perhaps an objective truth does exist,
but it would be very difficult, if not impossible, to discover.
Their favorite story to discuss in regard to “truth” is about how, when they were in lower
elementary (1st–3rd grades), they learned all about the hero Christopher Columbus and of all the
wonderful things that he did. Once they entered upper elementary (4th–6th grades), they
discovered the diseases that Columbus brought to America with him and how he caused the
deaths of many indigenous people. From certain perspectives, he was a hero, yet by other
perspectives, he was a cruel murderer.
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From this discussion, my students decided that the best that a person can do is to look at
all of the various perspectives and determine what can be gleaned to be fact. I was quite
impressed with the depth of their conversation and everything they were considering. It
appeared to be relatively easy for them to understand how difficult it is to see what the objective
truth is in history; however, it was much more difficult for them to see it in science.
“The very nature of science is that it is objective,” they declared. We, again, returned to
the nature of objectivity. We also discussed how several ideas have historically been presented
as fact but were later realized not to be true. They thought of Copernicus, Isaac Newton, and
Galileo, all of whom changed the way the world was being viewed. Again, they asserted that we
have to do the best we can to get as close to the truth as possible.
The scientific method appears to be a means of getting as close to the objective truth as
possible through the use of repeatable experiments and controls, and by attempting to make
things as quantifiable as possible. However, what about when science is trying to observe or
understand the human mind or consciousness? There have been advances over the years in ways
to look at the physical brain, with machines like computerized tomography (CT) scans and
magnetic resonance imaging (MRI), yet how can we look into the consciousness of another
living being? Is it possible to truly understand the experience of a person by merely looking at
quantifiable data, such as scans or imaging, without being able to actually see what the other
person is seeing?
Neurophenomenology
In the research paper “Methodological Lessons in Neurophenomenology,” researchers
Patricia Bockelman, Lauren Reinerman-Jones, and Shaun Gallagher (2013) asserted that
“neurophenomenological (NP) methods integrate objective and subjective data in ways that
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retain the statistical power of established disciplines (like cognitive science) while embracing the
value of first-person reports of experience” (p. 1). In trying to understand the workings of the
human mind, how could the actual experience of the person participating not be important?
Perhaps due to the recent medical issues that I have encountered, I am reminded of the
process of diagnosis for different medical issues. I have gone to the doctor with complaints of
different ailments on multiple occasions (I have a poor immune system as well as being accident
prone). The doctor will run a few tests, which all come back normal, and then assert, without
looking any further, that there is nothing wrong. I will then ask and plea for him or her to help
me understand why I am feeling the way that I am; however, my experiences are often
discounted since they are not quantifiable or verifiable. They are excused as hysteric reactions or
as being all in my head.
After many visits with the same complaints, the doctors will then concede to doing other
tests and finally a diagnosis can be reached. It took six months of agonizing pain for one doctor
to finally listen to what I was experiencing. Once he did, he was able to discover that my
gallbladder was not functioning anymore. It took three months of visits to many different
doctors to finally have a doctor stop dismissing my wrist pain and to recognize that I had
cartilage damage. Most recently, I was diagnosed with an autonomic nervous system disorder
leading to circulation problems as well as heart rhythm regulation issues. This happened only
after a doctor’s visit where my symptoms were dismissed as a bug and an emergency room visit
where my symptoms were dismissed as merely anxiety. Could the medical field be improved by
convincing clinicians that trying to understand the patient’s experiences is as important as
quantifiable tests?
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In the paper “From Autopoiesis to Neurophenomenology: Francisco Varela’s Exploration
of the Biophysics of Being,” David Rudrauf, Antoine Lutz, Diego Cosmelli, Jean-Philippe
LaChaux, and Michel Le Van Quyen (2003) asserted Franciso Varela’s belief that:
If we want to understand what the mind is, it is not enough to observe the specific brain structures involved in the functioning mind. There is a gap in terms of insight when we try to make the realm of the mind fit into a brain structure or even into a brain response. (p. 10)
Rudrauf et al. also reveal Varela’s seemingly radical idea that “the mind is not in the head” (p.
10). This leads to deeper questions about human consciousness. What is the mind? What is the
self? Is it possible to answer these questions in a way that is purely quantifiable?
I tend to share Varela’s opinion that it is very limiting to only view the mind as merely a
physical structure and response. I wonder, can we truly understand any of the physical structures
and responses of the human body, in general, without understanding the experience of each
individual? Varela believed that “the whole is not the sum of its parts, it is the organizational
closure of these parts” (Rudrauf et al., 2003, p. 6). Our bodies are a part of a system, where each
part interacts with and influences every other part. Therefore, removing something as important
as experience would be removing an important part of the system, leaving only fragmented
pieces behind.
Could it then follow that every system is best viewed as a whole? This takes me back to
my classroom, and I wonder, would it not be most effective to view my classroom as a system as
well? When trying to judge the success of a certain lesson or change in the classroom, it seems
evident that the experiences of each individual student would be an important consideration. No
matter how much I may like a lesson or deem it important, if the overall student experience is
negative, then it has not achieved its goal. I try to keep this in mind with all that I do in the
classroom; however, in the reality of day-to-day tasks, it can sometimes be easy to forget to stop
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and discover the individual experiences of the students within our classroom system. My
research project allowed me the opportunity for this exploration, as I decided to teach a lesson on
yoga and meditation to my class of middle and high school students (a total of 14) and to observe
their experiences.
The Process
Choosing when to conduct the lesson was fairly easy. Monday through Thursday my
students practice what we call personal reflection (PR). We spend 25 minutes each day in quiet
reflective time. The middle school students have a curriculum they follow, based on the
curriculum given to me during my training at Houston Montessori Center. This curriculum aims
to help guide students through the mission of forming their own identity. It is used to teach
reflection, positive coping mechanisms, positive relationship practices, and more. The high
school students’ curriculum is largely based on free choice within the restrictions of “reflective
work.” It seemed that a lesson on yoga and meditation would fit very nicely into our PR slot.
Choosing what poses, or asanas, I would teach was a little more difficult. I wanted to
keep the poses basic and simple so that the students could focus more on their breath than on
their stance. Frawley (1999) noted that “asanas done forcefully or focused on the goal rather
than on the process or journey—attempting to place the body in some ideal posture that is not
natural to it—can result in tension or injury” (p. 211). I felt it would certainly take away from
the experience if my students injured themselves. I chose a series of basic asanas often taught in
the beginning-level yoga classes. Next, I had to choose how to teach meditation.
I thought of giving each student an item to hold and focus on. I have been to yoga classes
where they use a lit candle to help their students learn to focus and meditate. Students are meant
to stare into the flame while focusing on their breath. However, I decided to guide them through
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a simple chakra meditation instead, since it had proved so helpful to me. This would include a
brief explanation of what the chakras are and then a guided journey through each chakra using a
unique mantra for each of the seven chakras. They would spend a few moments on each mantra
before moving on the next one. I chose to use the mantras from my own practice, “I am safe,” “I
am creative,” “I am strong,” “I am love,” “I am expressive,” “I am connected,” and “I am
stardust.” I felt that each mantra was short enough to repeat and, yet, also described each
specific chakra and its function well.
Having decided on the poses as well as the meditation, I felt prepared to teach the lesson
to my students. I let them know about the lesson in advance so that they could dress
appropriately. My companion, Matt Tyler, came in to videotape the lesson so that I could
observe myself as well as observe the students. When I viewed the videotape for the first time, I
focused on observing my students.
My Observation of the Students
I started with the lights dimmed and low music playing in the background. We stood in a
circle as I began to give the basic instructions. The students shifted from side to side and
fidgeted with their clothes; however, they all watched me and nodded along as I gave directions,
giving the impression that they were listening to what was being said. When I mentioned the
importance of breath, a few students took deep breaths in. As I continued with the instructions,
the students began to shift their weight from one leg to the other, pull on their clothing, and twist
their bodies. However, they still remained silent, maintained eye contact with me, and nodded
along to what I said.
As we began to move into the first yoga pose, everyone had a look of serious
concentration on their faces as they followed the directions I gave. One student began to giggle,
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but stopped quickly when he realized that no one was watching him. Many of the students
struggled to balance, but they followed my advice to simply stop and attempt to find their
balance again. Another student lost her balance briefly and giggled to herself before moving
back into the pose.
As students shifted from one pose to the other, they would adjust their clothing. One or
two students looked around at the others briefly, but for the most part, the students only looked at
me or down at their own form. Some would even close their eyes once they were comfortably in
the pose. This gave the impression that their attention was turned inward. The students modified
their poses to their own ability and comfort levels, and everyone attempted every pose. They
sometimes would look up at me to check and correct their form, but they all seemed to remain
focused.
The overall flexibility of the students was fairly low, therefore, in certain poses that
required more flexibility, the students appeared a little more self-conscious, looking around at
each other a little more. A couple of students began to peek at each other; however, they quickly
refocused after realizing that no one was watching them. I had given a direction for them to
pretend to exist in their own yoga bubble for this process and not to worry about what the others
were doing. They were able to follow that direction, for the most part. They were more likely to
look at the other students when we were holding poses for a longer period of time.
As we moved into the meditation, I gave the students the choice to either sit or lay down.
Most students chose to lay down in what is called the “corpse pose3.” They all closed their eyes
when asked and remained still through the majority of the meditation. They all remained silent
and engaged through the entirety of the meditation (which lasted around five minutes). Toward
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the end of the meditation, two students appeared to grow fidgety, although they were still silent
and engaged.
Once the meditation was over, the students took their time resuming a sitting position.
They remained silent, and each student sat up at his or her own pace. One student fell asleep,
although he later stated that he believed himself to have been in a deep meditative state and did
not hear the direction to rise. While I had felt that the yoga lesson went well, I was still nervous
about how well the students had received it. My nervousness was apparent to me as I watched
the video a second time, this time to observe myself.
Observation of Self
The first thing I noticed about myself was how much my hands were moving as I gave
the initial directions. They moved in a smooth and almost dance-like motion rather than rapidly;
however, they were almost constantly in motion. This might have been a distraction. I also
maintained eye contact with the students the entire time I was giving directions. I scanned the
room attempting to connect with each student for an equal amount of time. I paused often while
giving directions—this was mainly because I was trying to think of what to say next. Even
though I had prepared for the lesson, I felt very nervous as we started because I was unsure of
how the students would react to it. I felt that I was exposing a lot of myself in this lesson, which
made me feel more vulnerable as I began to teach it.
I spent the first five minutes giving instructions. It felt as though I may have over
explained some things. As we moved out of the introduction and into our first pose, I walked the
students through each step slowly and watched them as they followed the directions. I still was
not feeling very sure about myself and began to second guess the poses that I had already pre-
selected, which led to more prolonged pauses.
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My voice varied, going from a louder voice during regular instruction to a quiet less
intrusive voice when walking the students through a pose. However, after performing a “sun
salutation4,” I began to feel a little more relaxed. This affected my voice, which began to grow
more fluid and confident. Once I began to feel more confident, we all seemed more engaged. It
is also possible that I was feeling more confident because everyone was more engaged. I
progressively became more and more relaxed as I focused on the poses and my own breath rather
than just on the instructions that I was giving.
As we moved into the meditation, I gave the students a choice of poses, stressing
comfort. I spoke very quietly during the meditation and shifted between closing my eyes to
experience the meditation and opening my eyes to try to gauge how my students were
responding. I grew nervous again as we began the chakra meditation. I half expected the
students to start to laugh or refuse to participate; however, when the first two went well, I began
to relax again. I was able to enjoy the process along with them. As we came out of the
meditation, I was still unsure of their reactions, but I felt comfortable.
I had been surprised by how engaged my students were in the whole activity. I believe
that the reason I was so nervous was because yoga and meditation have grown to be so important
to me. I was sharing a large piece of myself with my students, and I was scared of how it would
be received. It is very possible that this personal connection that I have to yoga affected the
overall experience for all of us. While I found observing my students very helpful, I still wanted
to know more about their personal experience with the lesson.
Student Reflections
4 A sun salutation incorporates six different poses that the yogi will transition in and out of smoothly, as if performing a dance. It is meant to engage every muscle in the body and is used to salute the sun, the giver of all life.
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I met with each student individually and asked them to describe their experience and
what, if anything, they felt they could take away from it. I was surprised and overwhelmed by
how positive their responses were. Each student had a unique experience, which made me
assume that they were able to adapt the yoga and meditation to suit their needs, something I had
expressed was important in the beginning of the lesson. While each response was unique, the
overall consensus was that they enjoyed the lesson.
One seventh grade boy stated that the yoga session woke him up and made him feel
relaxed at the same time. One eighth grade girl said that she really enjoyed it and felt it helped
her to clear her mind. Another eighth grade girl said that she could feel all of her stress and
tightness (in her muscles) melt away. I was very surprised when one of my eighth grade students
asked if I would be willing to make the yoga sessions a weekly practice. Their deep and
insightful responses led me to do my own reflecting on the whole process.
Reflection on Process
Watching myself teach a lesson was a great opportunity for me to see myself somewhat
through my students’ eyes. I found some things that I could work on, such as pausing, over
explaining, moving my hands too much, etc., but I also learned to trust myself more. I knew
what I was doing and I was prepared, and yet, I still felt self-conscious.
In the moments when I felt more confident in myself, it was evident in my voice as well
as my gestures. When I was more confident, the students seemed to be more confident and
engaged as well. This helped to remind me how easily students can be affected by the energy of
their teachers. I have noticed this quite frequently when trying to play games with my students.
When I leave them to play on their own, they get very self-conscious around one another and
often devolve into arguing. When I jump in and play, not as an instructor but just another
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participant, I bring with me uninhibited joy and excitement. I bring silliness and laughter. I am
always amazed at how quickly that can reignite the students’ excitement and energy. It seems
that a teacher’s energy can be contagious to his or her students, whether positive or negative,
which is an important thing for me to be aware of.
The lesson also reminded me of the power of yoga and meditation. When I was able to
get out of my head and give in to the process, I was able to reap the benefits of clarity and
relaxation. Many students reported feeling their stress melting away or feeling more energized
and yet relaxed at the same time. These are benefits that I get from yoga, and it excited me to
hear my students having the same reactions.
While yoga has served as an effective way for me to meditate and reflect on who I am,
my time with TIES has taught me other ways to accomplish this as well. One such way has been
through the various creativity activities that were assigned through the TIES coursework.
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Chapter Six: Integrating Creativity
Transformative Creativity
In his article “Cosmos, Gaia, and Eros: Integrative Learning, Creativity, and the Primal
Paradox,” Gang stated that “transformation addresses the creative power of an educational
experience, empowering individuals and groups to find deeper meaning in their lives in order to
contribute to the greater good” (p. 13). My transformation throughout TIES seemed to tap into
unknown creative powers that I had not previously realized were there. Conversely, the creative
works we did in TIES, including the creativity seminars, aided in my transformation and
personal growth.
The first of the two creativity seminars involved using clay to create something. To
create anything, really. The idea was to let the clay speak to us, let our inner heart guide us,
rather than going in with a preconceived idea. This was hard for me because I am planner. I
tend to be a perfectionist about some things and wanted very much to ensure that I was going to
complete the assignment “correctly.” In fact, I put off completing the activity until the last
minute simply because I was afraid of failing. I realize now how silly it seems to be afraid of
failing an assignment for which there are no grades, however, the fear certainly was real.
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) wrote:
This fear of life, this fear of struggle and of new experience, kills in us the spirit of adventure; our whole upbringing and education have made us afraid to be different from our neighbour, afraid to think contrary to the established pattern of society, falsely respectful of authority and tradition. (p. 10)
This is how I spent the majority of my life. I was not afraid of struggle if it involved struggling
for the rights of someone else or protecting another being. However, I was very afraid of
struggle when it came to standing up for myself and fighting my own personal foes. I lived as an
odd contradiction, as I was afraid to be different from others and to think differently, and yet, I
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could not stop myself from being different. I wanted very much to fit in with the rest of society,
but I never really felt as though I did. When I was a teenager, I remember people commending
me on my bravery for just “being myself.” I always thought it was a strange thing for them to
say because I wanted to be different, I just did not know how to be anyone but myself.
I discovered that the same mentality was necessary for me to be able to move forward
with the creativity activity. Even though I was afraid, I had to continue doing what felt right. I
tried to shut out the voices in my head, the naysayers and critics, and let my hands guide
themselves.
I started the activity by sitting at my dining room table with a clump on clay in front of
me. It rested on a simple paper plate on top of a colorful placemat. It was a rare day where I
actually had the house to myself for a few hours. This allowed for a quiet and safe space where I
could work without fear of interruption. I had enough fears that I was battling, interruption did
not need to be added to the list.
I am not sure how long I sat with the clay directly in front of me before I finally put my
hands on it. I was not watching the time. I merely sat, with my eyes closed, breathing in the
sounds and smells of the room around me. I was working to be present in the moment,
something that yoga taught me as a way of reducing anxieties. Eventually, I reached out and
took the clay in my hands. I did not yet know what I would do with the clay, but I began to
manipulate it in multiple ways to get to know it better.
I like working with clay. I took a ceramics class when I was completing my
undergraduate studies, and it quickly became a new favorite method of relaxation. It makes me
feel more connected to the Earth, more connected to the universe. The clay I was using for this
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exercise was a self-drying clay and most certainly made up of mostly chemicals. However, it
still felt good in my hands.
I worked with it for quite a while. I would stretch it out, smoosh it together, roll it into a
perfect ball, and then roll it out into a long strip. I waited patiently for the clay to direct me to
where it wanted to go. Slowly, a heart shape began to form. Not a solid heart but, rather, the
outline of one.
This surprised me. It seemed so simple and cliché. At least that is what the critics in my
head shouted at me. But that is where the clay directed me, so I decided to keep working with it.
I would rub my hands along the outline, feeling the bumps and cracks smooth themselves out
under the weight of my fingertips. To my surprise, I became overwhelmed with an urge to start
pinching and distorting only one side of the heart. The other side I compulsively smoothed until
every blemish was hidden away. I continued working like that, smoothing one side while
destroying the other, until I finally felt as though it was complete.
What I finished with was the outline of a heart, one side perfectly smooth without a
single crack or bump, the other side with sharp jagged edges and uneven lines (see Figure 1). I
stared down at it, taking the work in. The name “Duality of Being” automatically came to my
mind. I felt that the heart was showing two sides of who I am. There is the “flawless” image
that I desperately try to present to the world, and then there is the real me. The real me is messy
with scars (both emotional and physical). The real me is not perfect, not even close. However,
the messy side of the heart was still beautiful. In fact, it seemed far more interesting and artistic
than the “perfect” side.
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Figure 1. Duality of being.
Reflecting on the activity and what I had created helped me to see that it is not always
necessary to try to hide who I really am. I need not be ashamed of my past and the marks that it
has left on who I am. Those marks are an integral part of who I am today, so why do I try so
hard to hide them away?
I have often been upset, feeling that no one was really seeing me for me. That no one
was seeing the true me. However, this was happening because I would not allow them to see the
real me. I have always been good at showing people the side of myself that I think they will
accept, or at least judge the least. I have spent my life afraid of rejection, being judged, being
deemed unworthy of love. I have been so ashamed of who I really am and afraid of who I might
be that I tried desperately to not let anyone see all of me.
This is something that I have worked on significantly throughout my time in TIES. As I
have chronicled throughout the rest of this paper, I have taken the time to sit and reflect on who I
am, and this has led to accepting myself. This acceptance has helped me to not hide away who I
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am any longer. It has helped me to feel stronger, as I am not constantly searching for the
validation of others. Sometimes I still find myself searching for validation more than I would
like to, but over the course of the past two years, I have improved considerably. The second of
the two creativity activities served as a way for me to search within and see myself a little more
clearly.
The second activity involved creating collages. We were asked to take at least two
different mediums and combine them together. This helped me to experience integration in a
hands-on and physical way. I have come to understand integrative learning as a way of
acknowledging how connected everything in the universe really is. I do not have to work to
make these connections, they already exist. Perhaps, then, my job when teaching an integrative
curriculum is just to point out and acknowledge these connections? Therefore, I felt that creating
a collage by integrating different mediums could best be done by seeing how these mediums
connect to each other.
Unsurprisingly, I again found myself putting off starting this activity out of fear of not
doing it well enough or correctly. In my head, I kept imagining beautiful and detailed collages
that I knew I would never be able to recreate. I watched the deadline creep up on me faster and
faster and felt the anxiety within me grow and grow. It was as if all of the reflecting and learning
that I had done up until this point was lost. However, once I realized that the reason I was
putting it off was due to these anxieties, I was able to work past them. I scheduled a time for me
to work on the project. I sat in my empty classroom, with the materials in front of me, and
decided that I would not leave the classroom until it was done.
The materials that I chose to use for this activity were canvas, paint, and magazine
clippings. I actually had other materials out in front of me, not wanting to limit myself, but these
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were the only ones I ended up choosing. When I started, I wanted to rid my mind of
preconceived ideas, so I began by going through multiple magazines and cutting out any words
or pictures that spoke to me rather than planning out exactly which parts I might use.
When first looking at the clippings, I thought my project might end up being a
representation of nature and life. I had multiple pictures of animals, people, plants, and words. I
found stunning pictures of the universe that seemed to spark something within me. I kept
clipping until I had all of the pictures that seemed to reach out and grab me. Next, I turned to the
canvas and paint.
This part was far more nerve wracking than the magazine clippings. I stared at the
canvas for a while, afraid that I would ruin it if I did not put the right images on it. I chose many
different colored paints and squirted them onto a paper plate. I felt the different paint brushes,
attempting to find one pulsing with energy. Finally, I put a brush into the paint and allowed my
heart rather than my head to guide where the strokes went. I was surprised to see a sun starting
to form, with long twisting rays extending out.
I had not planned on painting a sun, however, the sun is an important symbol to me,
especially as of late. When I was training at HMC, many of the friends I made there described
me as being like the sun: bright and shining, bringing light to all that I touch. When I was
deciding whether or not to leave my husband, a friend of mine from HMC told me not to let
anyone steal my light. The image of the sun became symbolic to me, representing my true inner
self.
This helped guide me as I turned back to the magazine clippings. As I stared at the words
and images in front of me, a few were leaping out and catching my attention. The ones that
grabbed me were words such as “inspire,” “strength,” “wisdom,” and “happiness.” It seemed as
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though I was being urged to create a collage that represented who I truly am. This seemed
appropriate since my entire journey with TIES seemed to be a dissection and observation of my
being.
Figure 2. Being stardust
As I finished, I was once again surprised by what my heart felt it needed to express. I
was shocked to see how well I could uncover exactly what needed to be uncovered without
forcing it to happen (see Figure 2). My fears, as usual, were unfounded. While I did not create a
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great masterpiece, I did find a way to let creativity open my heart and peer into my inner self.
This was both a healing and freeing experience. Krishnamurti (1953/1981) wrote that “discovery
is the beginning of creativeness” (p. 124). For me, however, creativity seems to always lead me
to discovery. Learning how to let go of preconceived ideas and allow my thoughts to flow freely
was a great stepping stone toward effectively using mind mapping as a tool.
Mind Mapping
Buzan and Buzan (1993) expressed that “note-making means organising your own
thoughts, often in a creative, innovative way” (p. 43). This is opposed to note-taking, which
means “summarising someone else’s thoughts, as expressed in a book, article or lecture” (p. 43).
At first glance, mind mapping seemed merely to be an alternative method of recording
information. What I came to discover, at least for myself, is that mind mapping is also a way of
unlocking thoughts buried deep within my subconscious that I was not aware existed.
Mind mapping uses something that Buzan and Buzan (1993) referred to as “Radiant
Thinking (from ‘to radiate’, meaning ‘to spread or move in directions, or from a given centre’)
[which] refers to associative thought processes that proceed from or connect to a central point”
(p. 57). One of the main principles of mind mapping is that of starting from a central idea and
branching out from that idea as far as your mind may go. On each branch extending from the
central point, one word that connects to the central idea is written. Other branches can then be
created off of each new branch, each with one word that connects to the word on the new branch.
This process continues around and outward until all that a person wishes to cover on the starting
topic has been satisfactorily included.
I first learned about mind maps when I was in training at HMC. It was briefly discussed
in one of our seminars, and we were assigned to complete a mind map on a chapter we read in a
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book. The process felt forced and strange. I was unsure of what I was doing, and I did not feel
like it helped me at all. When my TIES learning community was assigned to read The Mind
Map Book and to create our own mind maps, I groaned at the idea. However, once I started to
read the book, I began to understand the concept at a much deeper level.
Colorful and vivid notes were not a foreign idea to me. When I was in school, I had
struggled with learning all of the dates and facts that were asked of me. I had discovered that
color coding my notes, varying the print size, and adding images to illustrate ideas helped me to
keep the information in my head. This, in turn, helped me to become a much stronger student in
an educational system that I did not fully understand. Creating mind maps seemed like the
logical next step for my notes; as Buzan and Buzan (1993) noted, “the brain finds it easier to
accept and remember visually stimulating, multi-coloured, multi-dimensional Mind Maps, rather
than monotonous, boring linear notes” (p. 89).
It is not just the color and images that give mind maps their power, it is also the use of
associations. Lillard (2007) stated that “learning with a meaningful context can be far superior to
learning that is unconnected to its use” (p. 11). Associations create context, which makes things
easier to learn and understand. The readings on systems thinking and chaos theory had led me to
believe that everything in the universe is already connected. Mind mapping seems to help to
explore these connections as they exist in the world as well as within each person’s mind. As
part of my course requirements for TIES, I completed a mind map showing what TIES and
integrative learning meant to me (see Figure 3). This was the first of many mind maps I came to
complete as I discovered how useful they could really be.
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Figure 3. What TIES and integrative learning mean to me.
All of the benefits of mind maps made sense to me within the context of learning;
however, I was surprised to see how powerful mind maps could be in other areas of life. It is
noted in Buzan and Buzan’s (1993) book that mind mapping “provides balance, allowing you to
see the ‘other side’ of any issue. It is especially helpful for problem-solving and creative
thinking because it opens your mind to all the options” (p. 113). This meant a lot to me in the
process of my transformation. Using mind maps helped me to dig deeper into my own thoughts
as well as the idea of my own identity.
During a reflection period at school, I started a mind map with “The Real Me” at its
center. From there, I made multiple associations that helped me to see myself a little clearer.
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This was helpful at a time when I was feeling unsure of myself. I created another mind map with
“My Hopes/Goals” in the center when I was trying to decide where my path in life should lead. I
was surprised to discover that very few of my goals had anything to do with a career.
I was recently in a place where it seemed uncertain whether I could continue in my
chosen career, and I was feeling unsure of where I would go from here. Through mind mapping,
I was able to see that my career does not actually matter as much to me as my family, happiness,
and being able to create, write, and feel like I have a purpose. Mind mapping helped me to
clarify what truly mattered the most to me, which allowed me to let go of the pain I was feeling
from trying to live up to an ideal I could not reach.
Krishnamurti (1953/1981) exerted that “imitation of what we should be, breeds fear; and
fear kills creative thinking” (p. 57). It seems that whenever I enter a mindset of “should be,” I
become consumed in anxieties and fear. I will get wrapped up in an idea of what my life is
supposed to look like or what type of person I am supposed to be, and I never measure up. Using
mind maps to look at these assumptions of “should be-s,” allowed me to see what it was I really
wanted, without applying the pressure of what I “should” want. It seemed that by using creative
thinking, I was able to move past the fear.
Despite being hesitant to use mind maps in the beginning, I now use them whenever I
need to organize my thoughts. I not only use them in lieu of outlines for all of my papers, but
also to help me through periods of anxiety, when it feels like my mind is moving nonstop and I
cannot focus on any one thing. It helps me to look deeper into my mind, move past the noise in
my head, and see what is left—to move past the fears and assumptions and get to the heart of
what is there.
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Buzan and Buzan (1993) noted that “true mental freedom is the ability to create order
from chaos” (p. 93). As mentioned previously, I certainly felt like I was living in the midst of
chaos. I was transforming as I wheeled and flipped through a chaotic spiral prompted by
reaching my own bifurcation point. The use of mind maps helped me to see the order that lay
within the chaos.
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Chapter Seven: From Out of the Chaos
Finding Freedom
Looking back at where I was before this journey of self-discovery began, I find it hard to
even recognize myself. I am sure that has a lot to do with the fact that I was trying very hard to
hide my true self away. I was afraid of what would happen if I looked too closely at myself. I
was afraid of what I would see.
A fear that I had held onto since my childhood was the fear of who I really was. I was
afraid that if I looked too deeply within myself that I would discover some kind of monster.
Growing up, I was told horrible things about who I really was. Being married to someone who
was very much like my original abuser, I was told the same horrible things that I grew up
believing. I was told that I was selfish, stupid, mean, cruel, overly dramatic, self-centered, and
so on. I was afraid that if I truly looked at myself, then I would discover that they had been right
all along—that I really was an awful person.
Even when I began my HMC training and my new friends were showing me who they
saw when they looked at me, I wondered if I was just fooling them all and fooling myself. If my
own mother and husband saw me as this cruel person, surely there must be something to it. You
expect those that are the closest to you to know you the best. I seemed to be experiencing what
Wheatley (2006) described as “paradigm blindness, where people are unable to see information
that threatens and disconfirms their worldview. No matter how much data is in front of them,
their lens filters it out or distorts it to mean something else” (p. 174). In spite of the evidence I
was receiving to the contrary, I continued to believe that I was this awful person I had been told
that I was.
It was a combination of my work in TIES and working with a therapist that helped me to
see beyond the lies I had been told. It was through this work that I was able to discover for
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myself who I truly am. Even though I lived through this journey myself, I still find it hard to
believe that I could learn so much and change so greatly within such a short amount of time.
It has not been an easy trek. Looking within myself and within my troubled past brought
out pain as I had never truly felt it before. As Wheatley (2006) explained, “We surface these
dark shadows not to mend them or make them disappear, but simply to acknowledge they are
part of the reality of life” (p. 133). While I always knew that my life had not been the easiest, I
had hidden away from the truth of it for a long time. Looking into my past did not erase it or
keep it from happening. It did not, in actuality, heal my past. It did, however, allow me to
finally let go of it all and free myself from the control it had had over me.
My readings on chaos theory and systems thinking helped me the most throughout this
process. Discovering the idea that every piece of the system that is the universe serves a purpose
and affects the other pieces (Briggs & Peat, 1999) assured me that I, too, had a purpose and an
effect on the world around me. This helped me to stop asking for permission from the world for
the right to exist. It helped me to stop believing that I mattered less than everyone else in the
world.
Chaos theory helped me to recognize the process that I was going through. I was able to
see transformation as a necessity of life. I could take a step back and see how the pain of my
transformation was required to enable me to move forward. This helped to give me the strength
to continue onward. While I could not be sure of what was waiting on the other side, my new
understanding of chaos assured me that “we change only if we decide that the change is
meaningful to who we are” (Wheatley, 2006, p. 148). Therefore, I felt comforted in the
knowledge that whatever change I was going through would be a purposeful one. Yet, what did
all of this have to do with my role as an educator?
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Krishnamurti (1953/1981) stated that “when there is love of the child, all things are
possible” (p. 86). This certainly seems to be true in my own story, as it seems that my role as a
teacher greatly aided my transformation. It was through examining my relationships with my
students that I was able to learn more about myself. I also learned to recognize that all of the
good that I wished for them, I deserved myself.
I believe that my journey also led me to be a better educator. Krishnamurti (1953/1981)
believed that “education should awaken the capacity to be self-aware and not merely indulge in
gratifying self-expression” (p. 14). My own path toward self-awareness helped to arm me with
many different methods and systems of self-reflection. I worked to share my methods of self-
reflection with my students to help them move toward self-awareness. I learned that it is not up
to me to determine what my students’ journeys in life should look like, however I can give them
the tools to help them face the obstacles they will surely come across.
When I first started teaching, I felt as though I was personally responsible for my
students’ entire wellbeing. I felt responsible for making sure they learned exactly what they
needed to know to be successful in life as well as feeling the need to save them from their
personal worries and difficulties in life. I felt the weight of their worlds on my shoulders. My
growth helped me to understand that this was not my role as a teacher. I can give them all the
tools necessary for them to overcome any obstacle they may meet, but it is not my job to
overcome those obstacles for them. Who am to shield them from their own journey?
While I certainly hope that none of my students have to walk down a road quite as
treacherous as my own was, it is not for me to say or to interfere. While it is still difficult for me
to watch them struggle through some of their obstacles, I know that it is a necessary part of their
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journey. I just hope that by arming them with tools of self-reflection, they will be able to
navigate the twists and turns of their own paths a little better.
I feel that my time with TIES has also handed me the tools to be able to navigate any
future obstacles that will inevitably arise in my own life. It is hard for me to believe that a
program for studying educational philosophies has impacted my life so profoundly. I enrolled in
TIES expecting to learn to be a better teacher, and I was instead given tools that helped me to
change my entire world. TIES gave me freedom and acceptance.
Just as I needed to be able to accept that my students have their own journey that I cannot
save them from, I needed to do the same for myself. I needed to accept my journey for
everything that it has been and everything that it will be. This continues to be difficult, as new
challenges present themselves almost daily.
Moving Forward
As I shared previously, Wheatley (2006) exerted that “stasis, balance, equilibrium, these
are temporary states. What endures is process—dynamic, adaptive, creative” (p. 90). Balance,
harmony, peace, these are things I search for and crave, yet if I was to live in that state
permanently, I would never grow. It is through the challenges of life that growth occurs.
As Wheatley affirmed “disturbances could create disequilibrium, but disequilibrium
could lead to growth” (p. 79). While the process may be uncomfortable, painful even, it is
necessary to grow as a person. This is something that I am trying to remind myself of as I face
new obstacles that are changing my world in numerous ways.
Over the course of the past year, I began to have some troubling symptoms. I was having
episodes of dizziness, daily headaches, fatigue, and all-over weakness. My health is another area
where I grew up learning to doubt myself, learning to doubt the validity of my complaints.
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Having been told that I was just overly dramatic or a hypochondriac whenever I started to feel
sick, I learned to push through symptoms as long as possible. This has led to me missing signs
that my body needs me to slow down. I typically would just keep pushing myself as long as I
could until I had a break when I could try to rest and recuperate.
This time was proving to be no different, although I tried to heed the advice of Buzan and
Buzan (1993) when they stated “caring for yourself will make your self-analysis more open,
complete, profound and useful” (p. 177). I wanted to be able to care for myself, however the
idea was foreign to me. I wanted to find a way to slow down, yet as an overachiever, I had a
hard time walking away from any work that I had taken on. I wanted to complete it all, and I
wanted for it to be exemplary work.
In “Awake: the Life of Yogananda,” the yogi guru Yogananda is attributed with stating
that “if you keep running after too many hobbies, you won’t have any time left for bliss” (di
Florio & Leeman, 2014). I was running myself ragged trying to be everything to everyone.
Attempting to give 100% of myself to my students, my boss, my coworkers, my studies, my
family, etc. I tried to continue taking my time for yoga, but day by day I noticed that my need
for quiet alone time seemed to be growing.
Part of me wondered if the symptoms I was experiencing were merely a side effect of all
of the transformative work that I had been doing. Perhaps releasing all of the emotions that I had
hidden from for most of my life had tired my body out and I just needed some extra rest. I tried
sleeping my symptoms away during a school break, but they never seemed to cease. They stayed
constant until I could no longer ignore them. I tried to wait until my next school break to go to
the doctor, but my body would not let me wait that long.
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One day, the day my students were going to perform in front of the whole school, I
became overwhelmed with dizziness and fatigue. Every time I stood up I felt as though I would
fall over. I could not stop my hand from shaking. Even then, even with symptoms that seemed
so severe, I questioned whether or not I should go to the doctor or just lay down and hope they
would go away. I called my boss to let her know that I would be unable to transport students that
afternoon, and she ended up convincing me that she should take me to the doctor.
I have always struggled greatly with asking others for help. Despite urging my students
to speak up more and ask for help when they needed it, I still try to take on the world all on my
own. I was raised with the idea that accepting help from others is a sign of weakness and that a
strong person can handle everything on his or her own. Montessori (1948/2008) noted that “all
living beings need something or someone to help them to live” (p. 55). Could asking for help
actually be a necessary part of the human condition?
Capra (1996) explained that “interdependence—the mutual dependence of all life
processes on one another—is the nature of all ecological relationships” (p. 298). Capra, much
like Montessori, seemed to assert that it is a natural part of life to depend on other beings, yet it
seems that many human beings are convinced that dependence on another being is a sign of
weakness. Their goal is to be completely independent, to prove to the world that they do not
have to rely on anyone for anything.
However, I have come to realize that this is a falsehood. Even if a person never relied on
another human being, he or she would still rely on other living species, whether for food, shelter,
or clothing. No one can truly be completely independent. Logically, it is easy for me to see this
and understand it. Unfortunately, it is harder for me to live in practice.
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Asking for help from someone else means making yourself vulnerable, at least that is
what I have always believed. It means admitting that I depend on another human being to
survive. This is frightening because if that person goes away or stops helping me, I fear that my
survival is at stake. This is a fear that I have struggled with for a long time, however now I was
in the position where my refusal to accept help could be detrimental to my survival. Therefore,
when my boss (who is more like family than an administrator) insisted that she drive me to the
doctor, I knew that I could not refuse her help. Little did I know that all of the symptoms I had
been experiencing up until this point had reached a boiling point that would change my life
forever.
It was discovered that I have a chronic illness called postural orthostatic tachycardia
syndrome (POTS). It falls under the heading of dysautonomia, which refers to the dysfunction
of the autonomic nervous system. My body has a hard time regulating my blood circulation,
blood volume, and heart rate. This causes a wide range of symptoms including extreme fatigue,
dizziness, light headedness, fainting, muscle weakness, headaches, and many other equally
inconvenient symptoms. It also, like most chronic illnesses, has no known cure.
When I first learned about my condition, I was shocked and angry. I had a hard time
accepting that this condition would affect my life from now on—that I would spend my life
feeling this way. I struggled to accept that I would never be able to do the things I had done
before, such as taking long walks, performing in a play onstage, or dancing around a room. All
of my life I had been vibrant and full of energy, was this really the end of all of that?
I was angry that this was happening to me. Angry that my body seemed to be failing me.
I felt especially angry that I had just freed myself from the torment of my abusers and the pains
of my past only to have this happen. It felt as though I was losing everything that made me who
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I am so shortly after having just discovered it all. I had just emerged from the transformative
chaos that left me feeling liberated and free only to be thrust back into it again.
This anger only increased as I tried different medications and dietary regimes to try to
limit the symptoms I experienced with only minor success. It became impossible for me to work
a full day teaching, so I had to cut back on my hours; doctor’s orders. I still struggled to
complete simple tasks such as taking a shower, standing up for 10 minutes at a time, even just
picking up my daughter. It was becoming clear to me that I may never fully return to my
previous state of normalcy. I would have to try to find a new normal.
While I was upset and angry about what was happening to me, I was grateful to now be
surrounded by people who were supportive and loving. If this had happened just a few years
before, I would have still been living with my abusive husband. I cannot possibly conceive how
I would have survived this struggle if I was still living in that household. Fortunately, my path of
self-discovery included the introduction of a very kind and loving man who has taught me what
love is truly meant to feel like. He takes care of both my daughter and me without asking for
anything in return. He does it, simply, because he loves us. I am continuously surprised by the
depth of his love and support. It is not the kind of love I grew up knowing. It is, rather, the kind
of love that I had always hoped existed. Together, Matt, my daughter, and I worked together to
try to find what our new normal would be.
It was also becoming clear that this life I had worked for would be changing dramatically.
I had been in the process of applying to doctoral programs, certain that my new path was to
become a theatre professor. Now whether I was accepted into the programs or not, I would not
be physically capable of completing one. I also could not continue on the current path of
teaching my middle and high school students, as the constant stimulation in the classroom caused
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adrenaline surges that would increase my heart rate. It was feeling as though all that I had been
working for was slipping away from me.
Wheatley (2006) believed that “it is, after all, only meaning that we seek. Nothing else is
attractive; nothing else has the power to cohere an entire lifetime of activity” (p. 134). As I
began looking at new career options, all of which would have to be jobs that I could do from
home, I began asking myself if my life would still have meaning if I was not living out my
dreams. Would my life still have purpose? Would I still have an impact in the world?
I decided that what was most important to me was feeling as though I was an active
participant in my own life. I do not want to feel like I am letting my life simply pass me by. I
was faced with the decision to either invest all of my energy and efforts into keeping the job I
currently have (and feeling like a productive member of society, while not having any energy to
take care of my daughter or experience life outside of work) or stepping back from a job that I
love so that I could have the energy and strength to be a mother, a significant other, a daughter,
and just myself. This was a difficult choice to make as I felt that it was my job that gave me
purpose. On the other hand, I wanted desperately for my daughter to grow up knowing how
much I love and care for her. I was heartbroken to see how much it affected her that I could not
play with her the way I used to.
Once again, I was able to turn to and lean on all that I had learned from TIES. As
mentioned previously, at this time I created a mind map centered on “My Hopes/Goals.” The
main branches extending out read “writing,” “matter,” “family,” “passion,” “purpose,”
“happiness,” “difference,” “create,” and “active.” Not a single branch mentioned a specific
career or money. This made it clear to me that I could find a way to serve a purpose no matter
what job I was able to do.
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Montessori (1948/2008) wrote that “all work is noble, the only ignoble thing is to live
without working” (p. 65). My desires included being active in my own life, writing, creating
things, and making a difference. Those are things that could be done in different ways in a
multitude of different jobs. The important thing, it seemed, was to keep working and not to let
my illness take my drive away from me. To sit back and let myself become a victim of
circumstances would be to “live without working.” I realized that as long as I am working,
whether it is for a job, a career, a hobby, or just personal growth, I will be serving a purpose.
Perhaps what I was truly needing was to stop planning and start living in each moment.
One of the main functions of yoga and meditation are to help the yogi stay in the now.
Frawley (1999) explained that “meditation involves placing the mind in a calm and concentrated
state in which our mental energies can be renewed and transformed” (pp. 286–287). The more
anxious I would grow, the more I would need yoga and meditation, yet the harder it would be for
me to push myself to do it. I felt that if I could just come up with a plan and map out my future,
I could somehow control it all.
Chaos theory teaches that life cannot be controlled, no matter how hard a person tries.
There are too many variables in life that cannot possibly be predicted. Wheatley (2006)
expressed that “the changing nature of life insists that we stop hiding behind our plans or
measures and give more attention to what is occurring right in front of us, right now” (pp. 154–
155). Could making plans be some sort of safety net? Could it be a way for me to feel in
control?
Wheatley (2006) again warned that “agility and intelligence are required to respond to the
incessant barrage of frequent, unplanned changes” (p. 38). Perhaps making plans is not an
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inherently wrong act. Maybe it is just when I become too attached to the plans themselves that I
experience discomfort.
Montessori (1948/2008) believed that “adaptability—this is the most essential quality”
(p. 64). As previously explored, Montessori did not think that adults were readily adaptable.
However, my journey thus far has shown that I could, in fact, adapt and learn. Is there a way for
me to learn to stay in a more adaptable state? If I could, perhaps I would not find it so hard
whenever a change presented itself. I hope that by continuing to practice my yoga and
meditations, I will become more adaptable and be able to adjust to change more quickly.
Conclusion
When I first entered my secondary training at HMC, an old family friend told me, “It will
change your life.” I had no idea how true that statement was going to be for me. Two and a half
years ago, when I started at HMC, I was in an abusive relationship, trying desperately not to deal
with the pains and emotions from my past, working tirelessly to fit into a box of what I
considered to be perfection and ignoring my inner voice that was screaming at me constantly that
I was unhappy and needed change. Fortunately, change is exactly what I got.
I was able to stop trying to be the person that I thought everyone wanted me to be and
start being authentically me. I discovered that many qualities that I already possessed but
thought were weaknesses were, in fact, strengths that not only helped me in my job as a teacher,
but helped me work through the difficulties in my life. I hope to continue to use these qualities
to handle the obstacles that my health problems will present, and have already presented, in my
life.
I will continue to use courage and strength as I face the chaos that my new life changes
will bring. It will take great courage and strength to walk away from a job that I love, yet I know
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that the trade-off will be getting more time with my family. I have already had to use courage
and strength as I test my limits, push through my symptoms when possible, ask for help when
needed, and admit to myself when I just cannot do something, no matter how badly I may want
to. I believe that I will also have to rely greatly on creativity and patience as I try to find my new
place in this world.
I hope to use creativity to help me create a new job or find a new way to make a living
and help support my family. I will rely on creativity to help me find ways to do things that I
used to be able to do in a different way that accommodates my symptoms. I will also require the
use of creativity to find a way to incorporate my passions into all that I do. Whether or not I can
find a career that utilizes my passions, I hope to find a way to always keep my passion alive and
active. All of this will require great patience with myself, as trying new things always brings
with it some amount of risk of failure. I will also need to be patient with those around me who
are supporting me, as this is a new process for them as well as it is for me. This will require
empathy.
I will have to be empathetic with my partner, Matt, and my daughter as they both work to
understand what is happening and how to deal with the changes in all of our lives. I will try to
use the quality of observation to watch Matt and my daughter to notice when they need a break
from it all, as they surely will at some point. I will also need to observe myself, my limits, and
my body, to know when I need to rest and when I can push through. I will continue to use
personal reflection to help me to see what I need.
Personal reflection has helped me to recognize that I was being abused. It helped me to
recognize and let go of the emotions I had tried to hide away from all of my life. I hope that
personal reflection with continue to allow me to recognize when emotions are rising up that need
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to be released. I hope that it will also allow me to reflect on my relationships, to continue to help
me learn about myself through them. I believe it is my quality of wonder that will make all of
these possible.
My ability to still look at the world with wonder, in spite of all of the ugliness that I have
seen, helps to assure me that no matter how dark the road ahead may get, I will always find the
beauty in it. That is just part of who I am. I hope to never lose my sense of wonder toward the
beauty and mysteries of the universe. I feel that this will help get me through all the difficulties
that may lie ahead. My journey to normalization helps to remind me that, even though I am an
adult, I am still capable of adapting and learning new things.
I am only 30 years old, and I know that I will meet many other obstacles in my life.
Chaos theory has shown me that turbulent times are a necessary part of life. Even now, so soon
after I have come out of one period of chaos, I seem to find myself back within the chaos again.
Life appears to work in cycles of chaos, and I have found that I can either try to hide from it, or
allow the chaos to help me grow. I hope to continue to be adaptable so that moments of chaos
will not stop me but will, rather, serve as opportunities for further growth. I will lean heavily on
the tools that I have learned through my TIES journey to help me get through the chaos of life.
I have recently found the energy to start back with my yoga practices. I have had to
adjust my practice greatly to accommodate my abilities, but it still feels good to be doing
something I love so much. It still brings me the peace and sense of inner strength that it did
before. I have also been working on using art to help me process the changes in my life and to
help me reflect on the emotions that I am feeling.
I hope to find new ways to use art and creativity as an emotional release as well as a tool
for transformation. I particularly enjoy writing, and I currently have the goal of writing about
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overcoming the various struggles in my life. This helps me to view my journey in a different
way. I also hope to continue to use mind maps as a tool for self-discovery as well as for
organizing information. These have proved to be invaluable to organizing the chaos within my
head.
I hope to take all of the lessons that I have learned through TIES with me, wherever my
life may lead. I hope to never forget the impact that TIES has had on my life. While I am
grateful to be earning a Master of Education degree, I believe the biggest benefit that I have
received is a greater understanding of who I am and where I belong in the world. My life will
never again be the way it was before I entered TIES, and I am eternally grateful for that fact.
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