X3 Pure Couples Chapter 3

Chapter 3: X3Pure Couples Series

Principles

• All In

Principles

• All In

• A man’s primary need is respect

Principles

Woman’s Needs

• Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must also love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband.”

Woman’s Needs

• Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must also love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband.”

Woman’s Needs

• What does love look like for a woman?

• Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must also love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband.”

Woman’s Needs

• What does love look like for a woman? - Feeling secure

• Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must also love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband.”

Woman’s Needs

• What does love look like for a woman? - Feeling secure

- Feeling cherished

What does love look like for a woman?

What does love look like for a woman?

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What does love look like for a woman?

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istened to

What does love look like for a woman?

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istened to

pened up (her husband has opened up to her)

What does love look like for a woman?

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istened to

pened up (her husband has opened up to her)

alued and appreciated

What does love look like for a woman?

L

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istened to

pened up (her husband has opened up to her)

alued and appreciated

xtreme Loyalty

Listen

• Engaged listening

Listen

• Engaged listening

Listen

• Listening to her heart not just her words

• Engaged listening

Listen

• Listening to her heart not just her words

• It’s important to say, “I love you”

Open Up

Open Up• When a man opens his heart to a woman

Open Up• When a man opens his heart to a woman

• Wives long to know the hearts of their husbands

Open Up• When a man opens his heart to a woman

• Wives long to know the hearts of their husbands

• Open up to your wife, unconditionally

Valued and Appreciated

• She needs to feel like #1

Valued and Appreciated

Extreme Loyalty

• Daily loyalty

Extreme Loyalty

Priority #1 Illustration

Husbands’ Homework

• Ask your wife what makes her feel loved

Husbands’ Homework

• Ask your wife what makes her feel loved

Husbands’ Homework

• Make a plan to show her your love