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RELATIONSHIP BUILDING IN THE DIGITAL AGE Ryon Harms – www.TheSocialExec.com

Relationship Building in the Digital Age

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RELATIONSHIP BUILDING IN THE DIGITAL AGE

Ryon Harms – www.TheSocialExec.com

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Today’s Presentation

You Are the New Media

Relationship Building

Becoming a Connector

Tools of the Trade

Resources

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A Brief History of Media

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Social Investing

www.StockTwits.com

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Social Media RIP (2002-20010)

No Social Media, Only the Web

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Age & Social Media

Execs Maintain a Work-Related Blog Daily* 58% - under 40 35% - 40-49  5% - over 50

Average Age Facebook: 33 LinkedIn: 39

*(Survey conducted by Forbes/Google)

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New Rules of the Road

1. Relationships based on breadth, less depth Put on your marketing hat

2. It takes a village to find a job The power of organizing without organizations

3. Spark conversations, don’t just broadcast Conversations get much better mileage

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Career by Design

Google is a Giant Reputation System Leverage that reputation to get what you

want

The Web is a Tool for Reinvention Build credibility in a new industry

Stay on the Offensive Leave a trail of proof everywhere you go

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You Are the New Media

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Skip the Gatekeepers

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The You Chronicle

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Relationship Building

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Virtual Relationships

The Web is a Relationship Building Platform

People Naturally Want to Return the Favor

Leverage that Power to Achieve Another Goal

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Listening: e-Voyeurism

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“Givers Get.” Web: A Platform for Delivering Value to

Many

Delivering Value to One is Good, Delivering Value to Many is Better

What Goes Around Comes Around in Spades

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Social Capital

Bonding Capital

Direct Reciprocity

Do someone a favor today so that person will do you a favor tomorrow

Bridging Capital

Indirect Reciprocity

Do someone a favor in your community today so that someone in your community will do you a favor tomorrow

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Becoming a Connector

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The Small World Theory

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Word of Mouth

Messages Don’t Spread From One Person to the

Next. They Spread When a Message Reaches a

Connector.

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Be the Connector

Leverage technology to become a connector

Smart networkers seek out connectors

Connectors attract other connectors

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Community

The Power of Connectors

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Executive Branding Trinity

Bonus:

Tools of the Trade

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Blogs

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What Do I Write About?

Write About the Career You Want

Express yourself. Start a blog.See our free features

Sign Up Now!

www.Wordpress.com

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Hidden Benefits of Blogging

Makes you a better thinker Makes you a better writer Makes you a better salesperson Makes you a better speaker Keeps you focused on learning Allows you to test out ideas Makes you a better networker

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LinkedIn – A Walled Garden

Closed Circuit Networking

Self-Updating Rolodex

Contact Relationship Management (CRM)

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Twitter – Never Eat Alone

Exposure

Discovery

Learning

Giving

www.ExecTweets.com

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Email is Still Powerful

Stop Asking for Help

Deliver Value

Get Them Talking

Say Something Different

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What if I don’t?

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Everyone Will Still Be Too Scared to Jump in and You’ll Already be Floating

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Resources

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Resources

Twitter www.ExecTweets.com – Executive Tweets www.TwitterJobSearch.com – Job Tweets

Who to Follow www.twitter.com/nealschaffer - Neal Schaffer http://twitter.com/svenjohnston - Sven Johnston http://twitter.com/kevinLiebl - Kevin Liebl www.twitter.com/thecareer100 - Top100 Career

People www.twitter.com/execjobs - Real Time Job Postings www.twitter.com/thesocialexec - Ryon Harms

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Blogs

Free Blog Providers www.Wordpress.com www.TypePad.com www.Blogger.com

How to Blog www.ChrisBrogan.com www.ProBlogger.com www.CopyBlogger.com

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LinkedIn

Learn How www.WindmillNetworking.com – Neal

Schaffer www.blog.linkedin.com – Official Blog

Groups to Join McDermott & Bull We Are Orange County So Cal Sushi Laguna Niguel Connectors Pacific Executive Network

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Additional Resources

Social Media Books Here Comes Everybody – Clay Shirkey Groundswell – Forrester Research Trust Agents – Chris Brogan Twitter Power – Joel Comm

Social Media News www.Mashable.com www.TechCrunch.com www.ReadWriteWeb.com

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Questions?