Warning and reminder

For all mankind

He was right: "All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans

3:23). As a wise pastor once reminded me, there is no sin we cannot commit.

And our enemy longs for our moral destruction: "Your adversary the devil

prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour" (1 Peter 5:8).

Why does Satan seek our moral failure?

First, he attacks our Father by attacking his children. The devil knows that God prioritizes the health of our relationship with him above our work for him. Oswald Chambers notes: The trap you may fall into in Christian work is to rejoice in successful service—rejoicing in the fact that God has used you. Yet you will never be able to measure fully what God will do through you if you do not have a right-standing relationship with Jesus Christ. If you keep your relationship right with him, then regardless of your circumstances or whoever you encounter each day, he will continue to pour "rivers of living water" through you (John 7:38). . . .

Our tendency today is to put the emphasis on service. Beware of the people who make their request for help on the basis of someone's usefulness. If you make usefulness the test, then Jesus Christ was the greatest failure who ever lived. For the saint, direction and guidance come from God himself, not some measure of that saint's usefulness. It is the work that God does through us that counts, not what we do for him. All that our Lord gives his attention to in a person's life is that person's relationship with God—something of great value to his Father.

Satan realizes that "private" sin breaks our fellowship with our Holy God. He knows that such sin grieves the Spirit (Ephesians 4:30).

Second, he wants to hinder our ministry. Sin prevents the Spirit from working in and through us. The more visible our service, the more we are threatened by private sin. Counselors speak of "cognitive dissonance" as the internal conflict that emerges when we are not the same person in private as we are in public. Christians are especially subject to this problem: "Whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin" (James 4:17). The most miserable people on earth are believers who are out of the will of God. Such people have the Holy Spirit indwelling them (1 Corinthians 3:16) and convicting them from within. They know that something is wrong, and are grieved by their guilt. When we are ashamed of our private thoughts or conduct, we conclude that God cannot use us effectively. We cannot give what we do not have, so we are less likely to help others know Jesus passionately. Our personal sin handicaps our public service.

Third, he seeks to hurt as many people as possible. Satan is a murderer (John 8:44). He comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). He knows that our moral failure will hurt everyone who loves us, every person whose lives we influence. This principle applies especially to leaders. "The higher we climb, the farther we fall" is true. But it is also true that the higher we climb, the more people we hurt when we fall. Lions roar only when they attack. If Satan is a "roaring lion," we must conclude that he is attacking us now. Expect such adversity, every day.

BE HONEST If you have fallen to temptation of any kind, admit the fact right now. Cancer starts small, but it always grows. Listen to God's word: "Each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death" (James 1:14-15). Do a spiritual inventory today. Get alone with God. Take a piece of paper and a pen. Ask the Holy Spirit to bring to your mind anything that displeases God, and write down what comes to your thoughts. Be very specific and honest. Then confess these sins individually to God. Claim his promise to forgive all you confess (1 John 1:9). Shred the paper, and rejoice in the grace of your loving Father. Do this regularly. Whenever you realize you have sinned, stop then. Confess then. Make restitution then. It will never be easier than it is at that moment. Stop the cancer before it grows.

BE PROACTIVE When you think of Pope Francis, what adjectives come to mind? For most of us, humility is at the top of the list. And appropriately so. After he was elected pope, Francis rode back to the St. Martha guesthouse with the other cardinals rather than using the papal car. He chose to stay in the guesthouse rather than the opulent papal apartment. He regularly welcomes trash collectors and cleaners to daily mass, carries his own luggage on planes, and is driven in a Ford Focus. However, a recent article in The Atlantic reports that such humility is part of a deliberate strategy on Francis's part. In April 1973, at the age of 36, he became head of all Jesuits in his home country of Argentina as well as neighboring Uruguay. He was forced to deal with a number of divisive issues, some theological and others political. By his own admission, his leadership style was divisive and autocratic, leading to significant controversy and opposition. In light of this difficult experience, he identified the authoritarian and egotistical elements of his personality. And he adopted behaviors intended to counteract these weaknesses. For instance, he developed the habit of ending all encounters by asking the other person to pray for him. He began spending much more time with the poor. He chose to take public transportation, live in his own apartment, and cook his own meals. By the time he became pope, his commitment to acts of humility had become his lifestyle. And they will form a significant part of his legacy. We can learn from his example. What character faults regularly trouble you? What temptations consistently defeat you? Name them, and take proactive steps to defeat them. If you are tempted by pride, find ways to act with humility. If you are tempted by anger, look for ways to serve those who anger you. Erasmus was right: nothing frustrates the devil so much as to have his temptations used for good.

BE ENCOURAGED

Temptation is a persistent challenge for Christians, especially those who engage in leadership. But know that

the final victory is yours, and that your omnipotent Father stands ready to

forgive your last failure and to prevent the next.

Keep these principles in mind:First, you can defeat any temptation you face.

Scripture is clear: "No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13). If you cannot defeat a temptation with God's help, you will not face it. Conversely, Satan knows what temptations you can defeat in your strength. For instance, I happen not to be tempted by substance abuse. Drug dealers can offer me their products all day, and I am able to resist them. As a result, I never meet drug dealers. But Satan knows what temptations I cannot defeat in my strength, so these are the only temptations I face. So know that every temptation you face is one you cannot defeat in your ability, but one you can always defeat in God's power. Name the temptation immediately. Turn it over to God. Ask for his help, and claim his strength as yours.

Second, when you resist, God gives victory. Jesus assured his followers of two facts: constant tribulation, and continued strength. John 16:33 is especially relevant for our discussion: "In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world." "Tribulation" translates the Greek term thlipsis, a word used to describe the weight by which grain was crushed into flour. So long as you live on this fallen planet, you will bear such weight. But your Father bears it with you. And your Savior has already overcome the world. So "submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and he will draw near to you" (James 4:7-8). And remember: "he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world" (1 John 4:4).

Sumber : http://www.denisonforum.org/leadership/1884-ashley-madison-and-the-leaders-soul

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