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Parenting in a Social Media World.
Bruce Reyes-Chow@breyeschow
WestminsterPresbyterian Church
VIDEOSocialnomics 2017
https://youtu.be/PWa8-43kE-Q
www.slideshare.net/breyeschow
RULE #1: Butt in.Ask questions IRL or at on Twitter.
RULE #2: Play with stuff.Please use the all the stuff while I’m talking.
RULE 3: You do you.Take breaks as you need to. Please.
RULE 4: Take notes.Or don’t. www.slideshare.net/breyeschow
RULESInvitations to play
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Session 1 : 01/22
IntroductionsSocial Media OverviewApps and Stuff
Parenting OverviewSocial Media LandscapeParenting VariablesBest Practice Sharing
Session 2 : 03/05
What worked?What didn’t?What next?
OUR ROAD MAPWhat we are doing
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BruceReyes-ChowImmigrant Roots
Pastor’s Kid
Eighties Kid
Tech Transition
BruceReyes-ChowSan Francisco
Dog Walker
Soccer Dad
A’s Fanatic
Coffee Drinker
BruceReyes-ChowPastor
Church planter
Speaker
Author
Consultant
BruceReyes-ChowDeeply PCUSA
Ministry Experience
Active User
smart phone, phone-phone, tablet, phablet, iphone, android, chromebook
text, facebook, twitter, instagram, pinterest, dropbox, snapchat, doodle, remind, buffer, yikyak
Name and one thing you want to make sure we talk about or address?
WHO ARE YOU?Hello my name is...
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We all have assumptions about everything. Here are three of mine when it comes to technology and the church.
First thingsbrc assumptions
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201o, 92yo Gladys Gladys “Glady” Burrill finished the Honolulu
Marathon.
You are not too old.
God is not done with you, just ask Sarah.
Genesis 18
FIRST THINGSbrc assumptions
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“Dad is wearing a shirt with a symbol of unknown origin,” @undainty, 2012.
You will miss stuff. And thanks okay.
First thingsbrc assumptions
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No matter how hard you try, you will not
break the internet.
FIRST THINGSbrc assumptions
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only a medium of communication
gives generational insights, but not absolute
including more voices is hard
demands a high sense of self-worth
will not save the church
First thingsbrc assumptions
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Many cultural shifts have changed reality,
but a few have been part of the Social
Media upsurge.
Culture ShiftsHow we got here.
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FROM BOUNDED TO CENTEREDFrom rigidly defined relationships and community to fluid and broad connections.
Culture ShiftsHow we got here.
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FROM MONOLITHICTO NICHE
From one assumed and obvious choice to
many legitimate and disparate options.
Culture ShiftsHow we got here.
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FROM BRITANNICATO WIKIPEDIAFrom single source authority and static information to open source discernment and evolving knowledge.
Culture ShiftsHow we got here.
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FROM PERMANENCE TO TRANSIENCE
From a life long commitment to place to an expected life of constant movement.
Culture ShiftsHow we got here.
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FROM OPTIONAL TO INTEGRATEDTechnology and Social Media more woven into life like never before — “digital natives”
Culture ShiftsHow we got here.
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FROM CREDENTIALED TO CONNECTED
Relationships are built upon and authority
are established by interaction that is
consistent, genuine, and mutual.
Culture ShiftsHow we got here.
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idol, savior or easy fix
distraction
careless expression
overestimated ROI
echo chamber
trust-breaker and over-sharer
over-and-above F2F
bullying and abuse
PITFALLSa few cautions
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the community is built up
the community models different way living
the community sees beyond itself
POSSIBILITIESa few upsides
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creativity and creation are liberated
accountability is present
care and renewal are experienced
collaboration is facilitated and stuff gets done
POSSIBILITIESa few upsides
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BE CAUTIOUS: be wise, but not fearful
BE ADVENTUROUS: find what feeds you
BE CONTEXTUAL: go where people are
BE CURIOUS: tinker with the betas
POSTURESgeneral helps
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BE NPR: share about others so you can share about yourself
BE BOLD: leverage the space to speak truth
BE HUMBLE: don’t have delusions of grandeur
BE GENUINE: be as you would be IRL
POSTURESgeneral helps
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smart phones, tablets, phablets
social media and social networking
web 1.0 v. web 2.0
open source software
cloud technology
analytics, algorithms, clicks, views
ALL THE WORDSuse words good
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blogs and vLogs
aggregators and readers
SEO = Search Engine Optimization
RSS feeds = Really Simple Syndication
QRCode = Quick Read Code
ALL THE WORDSuse words good
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TAGGING@username links to a
person or account
connects to content, photo, or update
@: instagram, twitter
@/+: google+
only name on FB
tag to attribute, use comments to notify
ALL THE WORDStagging
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HASHTAGSAlphanumerics after the “#” becomes a link that can connect public profiles.
events: #debate2016
interests: #ffl
movements: #blm
locations: #houston
commentary: #dadwin
ALL THE WORDShashtags
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CONNECTIONinteract and engage
COMMUNICATIONinterpret, deliver
CONTEMPLATIONspiritual disciplines
CURATIONfind, filter, share
CREATIVITYartistry, inspiration
COORDINATIONbetter, faster, funner
SIX FILTERSall the apps
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youtube
google+
BIG OLD DOGSall the apps
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NETWORKSFacebook, Twitter, Snapchat, LinkedIn, Google+, YikYak
BLOGGINGWordpress, Tumblr, Blogger, Drupal, Wix, Joomla, Createspace
TRY THIS ONENextdoor
CONNECTIONinteract, engage
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NEWSLETTERSConstant Contact, MailChimp, MadMimi
CONFERENCINGSkype, Hangouts Zoom, GotoMeeting
MESSAGINGSnapchat, Messenger, WhatsApp, GroupMe
TRY THESEgslides, remind
COMMUNICATIONinterpret, deliver
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NETWORKSfacebook, twitter, instapray,
DEVOTIONALSD365,
MUSIC AND MORElast.fm, rdio, spotify, pandora, iheartradio, audible, goodreads
TRY THIS ONEceaseless, prayasyougo
CONTEMPLATIONspiritual disciplines
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NETWORKSpinterest, twitter, fb
SCHEDULINGhootsuite, crowdfire, tweetjukebox, buffer
COLLECTIONSStorify, ScoopIt, ListLy
REVIEWS Yelp, Google, Facebook
TRY THIS ONEPocket
CURATIONfind, filter, share
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IMAGESsnapchat, instagram
VIDEO youtube, vimeo, vineperiscope, ustream, facebook live
PHOTOGRAPHYflickr, smugmug, vsco, pixlr
TRY THIS ONEcanva
CREATIVITYartistry, inspiration
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CATCH-ALLgkeep, evernote
EMAILboomerang, unrollme
SURVEYSsurveymonkey, typeform, gforms
MONEYpaypal, square, cash, venmo, stripe
COORDINATION Ibetter, faster, funner
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SCHEDULINGsignup, signupgenius, calendly, mealtrain, punchbowl, gcal
ANALYTICSgoogle, Sumall, FB, Twitter, Buffer
TRY THESEdo, slack, wunderlist, bit.ly, keepvid,
COORDINATION IIbetter, faster, funner
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CONNECTIONinteract and engage
COMMUNICATIONinterpret, deliver
CONTEMPLATIONspiritual disciplines
CURATIONfind, filter, share
CREATIVITYartistry, inspiration
COORDINATIONbetter, faster, funner
SIX FILTERSall the apps
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PARENTING
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Parenting Screenagers
PARENTING
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Annie13Abby
15Evelyn
20
Example: 13yo told to “suck it up” in response to Women’s March IG post, so she responded...Retraint.
Relationship.
Response.
We are all co-parents.Indoctrination done well.A connection to the holy.Not as much of a cause and effect relationship as we would like it to be.Every parent is different, every child is different, every parent must parent each child differently.
PARENTING
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Relationships.Social world.
Boundaries.Time.
Conflict.Healthy conflict.
Privacy.Wise expression.
SOCIAL MEDIA
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ModelingWhat are your social media patterns?
RelationshipsHow do you communicate now?
Boundaries and ConsequencesWhat works now?
CommunityWho helps you now?
Variables
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Big Questions:Snapchat?
What might you try?
BEST PRACTICESWhat do you think?
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KEEP IN TOUCHslideshare.net/breyeschow
@breyeschow ontwitterinstagram, snapchat,facebook,Youtube,Linkedin,Etc. etc.