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How To Talk About Sex With Your Teenager Kids

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Getting parenting advice that helps build a relationship between

parent and child can mean the difference between your dream

relationship and one that you wish you could change. Follow

the following tips to help you gain the relationship that will make

both of you happy now and for many years to come.

Be friends with your child on any social media sites to help you

monitor their other friends and activities. While some kids may

complain about their parent being able to see everything they

post, remind them that social media accounts are a privilege

and not a right. Being friends on-line is a non-intrusive way to

keep an eye on their activities.

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You will need to set aside some time for the family if you want to

keep the family dynamic strong. You won't necessarily have to break

out the board games and sing songs together. You can watch a

movie or just talk instead. Even an amusement park is okay for

family time. What's important is that you're spending time together.

Spend time with each of your children one-on-one each day. Even if

you only spend 15 minutes with your child, as long as you are

completely focused on the child it will improve your relationship. By

spending this time together, you are communicating that your child is

important to you.

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Network with parents of children who share your kids' interests

and work together with them to build a supportive community.

When your children develop hobbies or pastimes, you should

make a commitment to supporting their interests. By pooling your

resources with other parents, you can often achieve goals that

would be impossible on your own.

Read to your baby or child every day. Not only is reading one of

the best things you can do for your child's vocabulary and

comprehension skills, but it is a wonderful way to wrap up his or

her day and gives them a routine to look forward to. Fostering a

love of reading also means your children have no excuses for

boredom so long as they have library cards.

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As your child grows up, give them increased responsibility by

soliciting their suggestions for activities you can share. One-on-

one time with your children is precious and increasingly rare as

they grow older. Ask their advice on how to get more of it, and you

will be rewarded with a stronger parent-child bond, even as your

child gets older.

While discipline is often necessary to keep your children in line, if

it is inconsistently applied it can be worse than no discipline at all.

If disciplinary actions seem random to your kids, they will tempt

fate by continuing to act out. Develop a consistent plan for

discipline and make sure that all the other adults who care for

your children understand it.

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Don't watch scary movies with your children! Studies have

found that scary movies cause children to suffer from

nightmares, phobias, and a need to be attached to their

parents. Wait until they're old to enough to handle the scary

images or you might inflict them with permanent fears into

their adult life.

If your toddler or young child is having a temper tantrum,

just let them be. By giving your child attention when they are

having a meltdown, you are just going to encourage them to

continue. Instead, just turn your head, and if you are at

home, even leave the room.

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Hopefully the tips and information that were provided

in this article will help you with your relationship with

your child. You will likely be able to build the beautiful

memories to cherish if you follow these valuable tips

and useful information when making the many

important decisions in your child's life.