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OVER 15 MILLIONSOLDTHE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE
Stephen R. Covey
Presented by : ABOUNASR MeryemBOUJADI Soukaina
OVERVIEW
AUTHOR : Stephon R. Covey
Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
More than 15 million copies in 28 languages worldwide
SUBJECT :Self Help
Meryem ABOUNASR
A habit is an unconscious pattern of behavior acquired by frequent repetition .
Desire
• Knowledge is the what to do
and why.
• Skill is the how to do.
• Desire is the motivation, the
want to do.
• A habit is the intersection of
knowledge, skill and desire.
Knowledge
Skill
Habit
Soukaina BOUJADI
Be Proactive
• taking responsibility
• Our behavior is a function of our decisions, not our conditions.
• Taking the initiative to make things happen
Reactive Language Proactive Language
That's just the way I am I can choose a different approach
He makes me so mad I control my own feelings
I can't. I must. If only I choose. I prefer. I will
Reactive People Proactive People
He are driven by feelings, by conditions, by their environment
He are driven by values
Their language absolves them of responsibility
Uses proactive language
Meryem ABOUNASR
Soukaina BOUJADI
• application: visualization of your death and the graveside perspectives from family, friends, work colleagues and the community.
• BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND = start with a clear understanding of your destination.
• Be able to create mental image of end resultclearly .
• Clarify your real GOALS .
• BE your own personal Leader.
• First determine the right things to accomplish, then the right way to accomplish them.
• Do the most important things in life.
• Be clear about your priorities and act on them.
• Believe in the correct principles and our own deepest values
All that can give a meaning and context to our goals, and our lives
• People that put first things first, spend most of their time in Quadrant 2 (Important + Not Urgent)
Meryem ABOUNASR
• Win/Win is a frame of mind and heart
that constantly seeks mutual benefit in
all human interactions.
• Win/Win means means that agreements
or solutions are mutually beneficial,
mutually satisfying.
• With a Win/Win solution, all parties
feel good about the decision and feel
committed to the action plan.
• Win/Win sees life as a cooperative, not
a competitive arena.
• It’s not your way or my way; it’s a
better way, a higher way.
Soukaina BOUJADI
PROBLEM
So why does this happen?
SOLUTION
• Listening with the intent to understand (empathic listening)
• gets inside another person’s frame of reference. • You look out through it• you see the world the way they see the world• you understand their paradigm• you understand how they feel. • You aren’t just listening with your ears, but alsowith you eyes and your heart.
Meryem ABOUNASR
You probably seek first to be understood
Because most people listen with the intent to reply, not to understand
• The word synergy comes from the Greek syn-ergos : working together
• The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. One plus one equals three or more.
• SYNERGY is respecting differences & finding new ways of working together
• Combining our strength with others to create something together. Not to compete or defeat others.
Soukaina BOUJADI
• Sharpen the Saw means having a
balanced program for self-renewal in the
4 areas of your life:
Physical
Social/Emotional
Mental
Spiritual
• Sharpen the Saw keeps you fresh
Meryem ABOUNASR
Soukaina BOUJADI
• we cannot become more successful or better people just by changing our outward behavior or attitudes
• We first have to address our principles
• We first have to break old habits and adopt new ones
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People suggests a discipline for our personal dealings
with people which would be undoubtedly valuable if people stopped to think about it.
The Seven Habits are keys to success for people in all walks of life. It is very thought-provoking.
• James C. Fletcher, Director, NASA• Edward A. Brennan, Chairman, President and CEO
Meryem ABOUNASR
Start Everything You Do With A Clear Objective
Begin with
an End in
Mind
Soukaina BOUJADI
Begin with an
End in Mind
Think to win together Not
‘Win/lose’Think
Win-Win
Soukaina BOUJADI
Begin with an
End in Mind
Think Win-
Win
Understand others before they
undrstand you
Seek First to
Understan,d
then to be
Understood
Soukaina BOUJADI
Begin with an
End in Mind
Think Win-
Win
Do synergize with other peopleSynergize
Soukaina BOUJADI
Begin with an
End in Mind
Think Win-
Win
Synergie
Make sure your saw Always in
a good shape And functioning
well
Sharpen
the Saw
Soukaina BOUJADI
Begin with an
End in Mind
Think
Win-Win
Synergie