Leading Your Leaders | February 2011

Copyright 2011, Women’s Leadership Coaching Inc.

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LEADING YOUR LEADERS: HOW TO MANAGE UPWARD

Cyndi Mitchell, Managing Director, ThoughtWorks Studios

Jo Miller, CEO, Women’s Leadership Coaching Inc


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Corporate Subscribers


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Jo Miller CEO, Women’s Leadership Coaching Inc

•Over 12 years providing leadership coaching and seminars

• Coached hundreds of women worldwide

• Seminars for women’s networks at Intel, Oracle, Alcatel-Lucent, Nortel, Rockwell Collins, UBS, and more

•Silicon Valley’s “Women of Influence”, 2008


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Cyndi MitchellManaging DirectorThoughtWorks Studios

•Joined ThoughtWorks in November 2002, and has served in a variety of roles including development, consulting and general management. •Prior role was as Managing Director of ThoughtWorks UK.•Over the past sixteen years of her career, Cyndi has been helping businesses use software to innovate and create value. •Has provided hands-on software development, consultancy and advisory to a number of Global 1000 IT organizations. •Prior to joining ThoughtWorks, Cyndi was a Senior Architect with Sun Microsystems in New York, Chicago, and London.•Started her career with Andersen Consulting in Chicago.


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Cyndi MitchellManaging DirectorThoughtWorks Studios

•Cyndi has a Bachelor of Science degree in Chemical Engineering from Northwestern University.•Is married and lives in London.•Enjoys yoga, and theatre.


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What are some things you did early on in your career, that helped you to be recognized as an up-and-coming leader?


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Leading Your LeadersA Tool-Kit for Managing Upward

1. Understand your leaders and their goals2. Communicate in a style they find persuasive3. Negotiate a management style that works for you4. Know when to challenge your leaders5. Build skills for dealing with difficult situations


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Have you had employees who ‘managed upward’ well with you?

What did they do that you appreciated?


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1. Understand your leaders and their goals


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1. Understand your leaders and their goals

• Success in any role begins with understanding your leaders and their goals.

• Check in with them frequently to ask about their most important goals and greatest challenges.

• Find out what business goals they are responsible for.• Aim to understand what motivates them, and to discern

their personality type and communication style.


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What steps do you take, to understand your leaders and their goals?


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1. Understand your leaders and their goals2. Communicate in a style they find persuasive


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2. Communicate in a style they find persuasive

• Do they prefer to communicate via email or in person?• Is it more effective to schedule time, or catch them in the hallway?• Do they like high-level overview, or deep dive into the data?• Do they like to hear the entire story or just the bottom-line?• Do they want to be informed of the entire plan or the end result?• Do they prefer to make decisions quickly or think it through?• Who are they influenced by: Are they a lone decision-maker or do

the crowd-source decisions?• Is it best to share bad news Monday morning or Friday afternoon?


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What advice can you share, on communicating persuasively with leaders?


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1. Understand your leaders and their goals2. Communicate in a style they find persuasive3. Negotiate a management style that works for you


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3. Negotiate a management style that works for you

• Know thyself!

Communicate with your leaders:• What is the best way to manage you? For example:• Do you prefer management that is hands-on or hands-off?• Do you like specific directions or the overall picture?• Do you prefer frequent check-ins, or being left alone?


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How should a person approach their manager to negotiate a management style that works for them?


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1. Understand your leaders and their goals2. Communicate in a style they find persuasive3. Negotiate a management style that works for you4. Know when to challenge your leaders


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4. Know when to challenge your leaders

• Build trust and respect first!• Always ask permission.


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Can you tell us about a time when you had to challenge a leader or disagree with them?

How did you handle that situation?


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Have you ever have to give your manager feedback on their performance?

How did you communicate the feedback?


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5. Build skills for dealing with difficult situations

Become resilientresilient…

and know how to stand up for yourselfstand up for yourself…

while remaining diplomaticdiplomatic.


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What advice do you have, for dealing with a difficult situation involving a leader?


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EXERCISE:

1) Review the 5 skills in today’s Tool-Kit for Managing Upward

2) Identify which of the 5 skills you plan to work on.


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Q&A


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Cyndi’s Keys to Success

1) Have a vision for yourself and what you are trying to achieve

2) Surround yourself with people who inspire you

3) Have fun!


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Discussion Questions

1) In your company, what are the best ways to get to understand your leaders and their goals2) Share an example of communicating in a style that a leader finds persuasive3) What management style works best for you?4) When is it OK to challenge your leaders?5) Share an example of skills to use when dealing with difficult situations with leaders.

Leadership & Management

Leading Your Leaders | February 2011