MARRIAGE AND DIVORCELECTURER NAME:SANDHANA XAVIER

NAME:JIVAMATHI BALAKRISHNAN

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MARRIAGE It is a social contract between two individuals that unites their lives legally, economically and emotionally.Marriage is an union of two people and the maintenance of an oath that they will be next to each other in good and bad times.

People marry for many reasons :

legal, social, emotional, economic, spiritual, and religious.

These might include arranged marriages, family obligations, the legal establishment of a nuclear family unit, the legal protection of children and public declaration of commitment.

Types of marriage Monogamy One man and one woman are

married only to each other.

Polygamy An individual have several husbands

or wives simultaneously.

Happy marriage life 1.Always express your

feeling to your partner - Even in the worst of times, you should make it a point to tell your beloved how much you love him/her.

2.Exhibit mutual respect - To make a marriage healthy and happy, both the partners should mutually respect each other and value each other's emotions and feelings.

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5. Believe in Constructive criticism - You should recognize each other's positive traits and criticize the negative traits in a manner that it doesn't hurt your partner. 

6. Compromise - The biggest word in the marriage dictionary is compromise. Adjustment with each other is what makes the relationship healthy.

3. Be trustworthy - Faith, trust and loyalty plays an important role to make the marriage happy. Never lie to your partner or do not suppress facts from him/her because that might land you in trouble later.

4. Be Innovative -Do something innovative with each other that the surprise pleases your partner surprisingly.

Divorce

• Divorce is the final termination of a marital union, cancelling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage and dissolving the bonds of matrimony between the parties.

• It is shows  that divorce is break up that occur in family, who is getting the problem that cannot to be resolved.

• This is one of the solution that is legal.

Wrong reasons! The most important mistake: the reason we

decided to get married.Pressure from our environment: The

pressures from our environment because we have reached an age close to or more than thirty and we have not yet married.

Insecurity: Feelings of insecurity that if we do not get married with the person we are together we will not be able to find another person who wants to marry us.

Sudden conditions: A sudden pregnancy, which leaves us with no other options.

Sudden love: A sudden love that ends in 6 months after marriage.

Immaturity: The immaturity of our self does not help us realize that marriage is a choice for life and takes a lot of thought and a lot of effort in order not to make us unhappy.

Wellness: The economic comfort has now become a key criterion when selecting a life partner in today's society.

The Most Common Factors of Divorce

• Lack of communication  Many married couples think that

the minor problems that occur in their marriage are not important and

they fail to realize that even the smallest things can cause conflict between the two when they are not able to solve them through communication. 

Money Money can be the root of all problems

in the marriage. This is because when one person makes all of the financial decisions, and the other person does not agree with the decisions that he or she is making, then conflicts can occur between the two of them.

Children  Children require a lot of support from

both parents, and when only one parent is working, the amount of support coming in, is sometimes not enough. This situation causes many married couples to argue over financial issues.

How to avoid divorce Honesty Spend some time with her/him to

discuss the topics on the list. Discuss difficult topics calmly. Be honest with your partner and try to compromise each other. Resolving conflict in your marriage will help to rebuild the bond of trust.

Respect  Respect your marriage and work

together as a team. Help each other with household and with the upbringing your children.

Communication Spend quality time and doing

something the activities that both of your enjoy. Discuss life as man and wife, reflect on happy memories and forget about the hardship that weakened your marriage.

Love Strengthen the family bond by make

time to enjoy your spouse with your children.

Example: Be present for the family meal, participate in a family game, help with homework, or watch a family movie.

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