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Bystander: You Can Make
A Difference
Grade 6Mrs. Glasgow
Bullying S behavr dats intendD 2 cauZ mNtL distress n.or fizikL harm, exists ina R/Ship n wich there's an imbalance of pwr n str, n S repEted ovr tym
What is a Bystander?•Someone who happens to be there when bullying is happening
•As a bystander you are in a unique position of being able to do something about bullying just by looking closely at what happens everyday in your own life.
•Direct or indirect bullying hurts the entire school and everybody has the responsibility to stop it.
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Define: Bullying• Bullying is behavior that : – Is intended to cause mental
distress and/or physical harm– Exists in a relationship in
which there is an imbalance of power and strength
– Is repeated over time
Bullying S behavr dats intendD 2 cauZ mNtL distress n.or fizikL harm, exists ina R/Ship n wich there's an imbalance of pwr n str, n S repEted ovr tym
Types of Bullying
Direct Bullying
Indirect Bullying
Bystander Choices
Choice 1
Stand and Watch
Choice 1: Stand and Watch
What is going on?
If someone is being hurt it is normal to feel: • Curious• Excited• Afraid
Standing/watching Injury=
Same side as bully Standing/watching
not helping=
Supporting the bully
Giving the Bully Power
Do you want to do that?
Choice 2: Support the Bully
People like to feel powerful
Why side with a bully?You don’t like the victim
Bully is your friendYou could be the next victim
Role Reversal
Do not misuse your power!
How would you feel as a victim?
Choice 3:Get Away
Normal Thinking:- No Involvement- No Hurt- Victim Deserves It- Keeping Out of Trouble
Getting away =
Safety
Bully Wins =
Permission to Hurt Victim
Do you believe that?
What if the victim is you?
Choice 4:Active Bystander
Remember: Be Safe
Help the Victim
Choice 4:Active Bystander
Remember: Be Safe
Use your Voice
Choice 4:Active Bystander
Remember: Be Safe
Mediator
Choice 4:Active Bystander
Remember: Be Safe
Pull Bully Away (safely)
Choice 4:Active Bystander
Remember: Be Safe
Get Help (Adult/Ask for Help)
James Preller's
Bystander
RememberIf you find yourself in a bystander situation that is getting out of control and you are uncomfortable that is the point you need to talk to an adult.
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