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Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy
Assistant ProfessorIlahia School of Management Studies
Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114
Mail – [email protected]
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Vengeful childSuppose that as a child, I
decided I was more
comfortable blaming
others for not – Ok
occurrences than blaming
myself. In that case, I may
rapidly shift to the third
position on the
miniscript, the blamer.
Vengeful child
Here, my life position is “
I am OK, you are not OK”.
I will experience a racket
feeling that fits with this
blaming life position.
Vengeful child
For example, as I stumble
over my words during the
party conversation, I may
feel irritated with the
others in the group
because they don’t seem
to have understood me.
Vengeful child
When Taibi Kahler first
drew the miniscript,
he called this third
position “Vengeful
child”.
Vengeful child
However, the I+U- life position
may be expressed functionally
from negative controlling
parent as well as from
negative adaptive child, so we
think that Kahler’s revised
name “Blamer” is more
appropriate.