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State hospital Transactional Analysis
Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy
Assistant ProfessorIlahia School of Management Studies
Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114
Mail – [email protected]
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State hospital• For a housewife playing
Harried, a little leaflet that
comes with child games
stating the rules speeds up
the evolution of harried,
which if not checked may end
in a game of “State hospital”.
(The last thing I want is to be
send to a hospital).
Marital Games• Almost any game can
form the scaffolding for married life and family living.
• Some of these games are tolerated longer, under the legal force of contractual intimacy.
• Marital games can only be arbitrarily separated from sexual games .
Harried
• This is a game played
by the harried house
wife. Her situation
requires that she be
proficient in ten or
twelve different
occupations.
Harried• Since these roles are
usually conflicting and fatiguing, their imposition gives rise in the course of years to the condition symbolically known as “ Housewife’s knee”, whose symptoms are succinctly summarized in the complaint “ I am tired”.
Harried• The thesis of this game
is that she takes on
everything that comes
and even asks for more.
She agrees with her
husband’s criticisms and
accepts all her children’s
demands.
Harried
• The antithesis to this
game is simple : She can
fill each of her role in
succession during the
week, but she must
refuse to play two or
more of them
simultaneously.
Harried• It is necessary to recognize
that the real culprit is the
wife’s parent, her mother
or grand mother. The
therapist has to fight this
parent and also the social
environment which
encourages the wife’s
compliance.
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