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Relationships often involve two highly charged figures (individuals) fused in an endless moment of curiosity and glossy artificiality of romance. But a good relationship start helps set the scene, straighten out serious differences of expectations, differences in race, religion, social class and supposedly values, friends and family approval or disapproval ratings.
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GETTING OFF TO A GOOD START
PREMARITAL SEX
Is the success of
Seduced Lies
Christian-Update International
The best relationships start well, continue well, blossom or
mushroom into successful ones.
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A good relationship start helps set the scene, straighten out serious differences of
expectations, differences in race, religion, social class and supposedly values, friends and family approval or disapproval ratings.
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It works best to start a relationship beginning with the end in mind-Know the purpose or basis of the
relationship , make its purpose and procedure clear and establish your values no matter how
suffocating they may sound.
I know some may immediately perceive this as businesslike-Is this what you are thinking, DO YOU FEAR REJECTION?
Your greatest gift should be your ability to involve others early on and embrace them (families and networks of friends) which takes you to the next
point.
Ask for views – do so in a rational way that will prompt the release of open and considered comments. Conglomerate of friends and families - Love them or hate them, they have enormous influence on you and the outcome and security of you relationship. Your friends may simply lack the will and encouragement to tell you what they think about your relationship. It is kind of useful to ask them questions and put them in the loop, make them know there are no passengers, you definitely need them to workout a successful relationship. Be rational to encourage fruitful discussion- avoid using the “I think we are meant for each” highly intimate distortion to create unreal romance and intimacy atmosphere. Strip of the glossy artificiality and get real.
Relationships often involve two highly charged figures (individuals) fused in an endless moment of curiosity and
glossy artificiality of romance.
Christian-Update International
Avoid the middle-of-the road reputation you might want to pin on your relationship-have the
boldness of a much younger uncompromising woman and not someone desperately trying to
fill the void in their lives
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PREMARITAL SEX
Is the success of
Seduced Lies
PREMARITAL SEX
Punctuates Relationships Erodes trust and confidence Erodes self worth or respect A catalyst to a wild reckless behaviour. Leaves you bedraggled and unappreciated The beginning and trademark of all failed unsuccessful relationships.
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Sometimes this subject is a real contradiction that cannot be avoided except for certain conditions-example a marital
relationship. Individuals have to come to terms with something that will work irrespective of circular arguments with people
digging their heels in trying to justify sexual immorality.
Sometimes it is necessary to pounce on pause and halt the flow of words, ideally looking at the scripture and see what God’s commandment says about sex before marriage. Avoiding people with more sinister motives with the intent of drowning others out in a sea of fornication and sin. Good discipline and the grace of God and the in filling of the Holy Spirit will help here. Do not punctuate the grace of God. Do not be economical with the truth, do not underplay or disguise facts. Ignore that fear of losing the love of your life and losing face. What matters is you and no one else! This may sound too spiritual and miraculously irritating in our ears, but it is a moral fact and it is scriptural their is no abridged version!
