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Effective Listening Skills by ismail abdulrahman abdulla مهارات الإصغاء الفعال هونةرةكاني كويكرتني كاريكةر إسماعيل عبدالرحمن عبدالله بيرداودي
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Effective Listening skills
Prepared by
Ismail A. Abdulla Perdawdy
Dept. of Information & Library2014
A story
This seminar is an attempt to answer the following questions:
What are Hearing and Listening?
What is effective listening?
What are the elements and skills of effective listening?
Why is effective listening important?
What are Hearing and Listening?
If you ask a group of people to give a one word description of listening, some would say hearing
It is following and understanding the sound---it is hearing with a purpose.
So, listening is…• the process of receiving,
constructing meaning from, and responding to spoken and/or nonverbal messages;
• to hear something with thoughtful attention
HEARING VS. LISTENING
Accidental Involuntary Effortless
HEARING LISTENING
Focused Voluntary intentional
Physical natural Passive process
physical mental active learned process
You must choose to participate in the process of listening. We have to know the skills of effective listening!
Listening is hard!It is an art!
What is Effective Listening?
LISTEN
We will define effective listening via taking the five letters in the verb to
L: Lookسةيركة
I: Inquireثرسياركة
S: Summarize:ثوختيكةرةوة
CAUTION: Don’t parrot back; be sure to put the message in your own words – that’s effective listening.
هةرطيزاو هةرطيز وةكو !بةبةغا مةبة
T: Take-noteتيTبيني وةرطرة
E: Encourageهاندة
“I see” “Right” “Uh huh”… “Okay” “Sure” “Yeah” “Yes” “Wow” “Really?”
N: NeutralizeبيTاليةنبة
DO YOU KNOW THESE?
• We listen at 125-250 wpm, think at 1000-3000 wpm
• 75% of the time we are distracted, preoccupied or forgetful
• 20% of the time, we remember what we hear
• More than 35% of businesses think listening is a top skill for success
• Less than 2% of people have had formal education with listening
Benefits of Effective Listening
It forces people to listen attentively to others.
It tends to open people up, to get them to say more.
Shows empathy
Builds relationships
! ` مهتما كن مهما̀، لتكن ،بمهارة الناس الى انصت
!!! بحب اليك ينصتوا كي ` محبوبا تكن !انصت
بن عطاءرباح
يوسف؟؟
THE BEGINNING
Thank you for your attentive listening!