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Competitive symbiosis Transactional Analysis

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Competitive symbiosisTransactional Analysis

Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy

Assistant ProfessorIlahia School of Management Studies

Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114

Mail – [email protected]

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Competitive symbiosis

What happens when two

people meet who both

want to take up the same

symbiotic role? If they

both want to be Parents,

or both seek to act Child?

Competitive symbiosis

When this is so, the

parties will begin

“jockeying for position”

in the hope of taking up

their preferred symbiotic

role.

Competitive symbiosis

For example, you may

have heard this kind of

exchange in a restaurant

as two people prepare to

pay up after the meal.

Competitive symbiosis

A: “Now, put that money

away. I will pay for this”

B : “No, no, come on, I

will pay”.

A : “ I absolutely insist!

Not another word!”

Competitive symbiosis

These transactions may go on for some time, with each party escalating insistence on paying. Each is seeking to be Parent to the other. They are in competitive symbiosis – in this case, competing for the parent position.

Competitive symbiosis

By its nature,

competitive symbiosis is

unstable. Exchanges like

this usually last only for

a relatively short time.

They may conclude in

two possible ways.

Competitive symbiosis

The parties may storm away from each other, slamming doors as they go. Or one of them may back down and yield the desired symbiotic position to the other. The one who has backed down then takes the complementary position in the symbiosis.

Competitive symbiosis

For instance, the

exchange in the

restaurant might end

with one of the parties

saying: “ Ah, well, if you

insist…” and putting

away his wallet with a

show of reluctance.

Competitive symbiosis

He has backed down to

the Child position,

allowing himself to be

“looked after” by the

other person.

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